<instructions>Your goal is to analyze the following comment and estimate how highly it will be upvoted by the Hacker News community.</instructions><comment><author>Traster</author><text>Sorry but you moved to country to work for company and you didn&amp;#x27;t have a contract to be paid for your work?</text><parent_chain><item><author>AThrowAway99</author><text>This is a throwaway account, but I&amp;#x27;d like some advice on this very subject.&lt;p&gt;I recently ended a working relationship with a company that had a problem with &amp;#x27;not liking&amp;#x27; me.
I moved to another country to offer onsite services to this company, as I created the core (design and tech) of a product that unexpectedly performed very well and became the focus of their business.  Unfortunately this meant throwing out years of work by their core team, the owners work included.&lt;p&gt;As I had only been working remotely and very part time till this point, I saw an understandable resentment toward me and addressed it head on with each of the team when I arrived onsite. I perhaps failed in this because I was met with nods, smiles, and a professional behaviour me most of the time but not friendship.
I was actively excluded from team lunches for example. And I heard less than favourable rumours about me in the local community, a community I never worked in.&lt;p&gt;This is ok, to a point if a little hurtful. As it didn&amp;#x27;t impact my work, I thought just letting it go was a better approach.
Many people had a secure job based on my work...thats probably my resentment talking but worth saying.&lt;p&gt;Anyway it came to a head when I asked for the money we agreed for my contribution. (I had held off charging till the company was on more solid ground) At this point I was quickly told that the owner created the thing I made for them. Not me. 
Then closed ranks and told me I was a bad friend, refusing to pay obviously.&lt;p&gt;I think being left out in the cold all this time was a good sign that the company as a whole was planing something like this. Not explicitly but something.&lt;p&gt;Did I do the right thing in leaving?   Am I the &amp;#x27;bad friend&amp;#x27;?</text></item></parent_chain></comment><story><title>How to Collaborate with People You Don’t Like (2018)</title><url>https://hbr.org/2018/12/how-to-collaborate-with-people-you-dont-like</url></story>
<instructions>Your goal is to analyze the following comment and estimate how highly it will be upvoted by the Hacker News community.</instructions><comment><author>anotherman554</author><text>You had a business relationship with them. You were not friends.</text><parent_chain><item><author>AThrowAway99</author><text>This is a throwaway account, but I&amp;#x27;d like some advice on this very subject.&lt;p&gt;I recently ended a working relationship with a company that had a problem with &amp;#x27;not liking&amp;#x27; me.
I moved to another country to offer onsite services to this company, as I created the core (design and tech) of a product that unexpectedly performed very well and became the focus of their business.  Unfortunately this meant throwing out years of work by their core team, the owners work included.&lt;p&gt;As I had only been working remotely and very part time till this point, I saw an understandable resentment toward me and addressed it head on with each of the team when I arrived onsite. I perhaps failed in this because I was met with nods, smiles, and a professional behaviour me most of the time but not friendship.
I was actively excluded from team lunches for example. And I heard less than favourable rumours about me in the local community, a community I never worked in.&lt;p&gt;This is ok, to a point if a little hurtful. As it didn&amp;#x27;t impact my work, I thought just letting it go was a better approach.
Many people had a secure job based on my work...thats probably my resentment talking but worth saying.&lt;p&gt;Anyway it came to a head when I asked for the money we agreed for my contribution. (I had held off charging till the company was on more solid ground) At this point I was quickly told that the owner created the thing I made for them. Not me. 
Then closed ranks and told me I was a bad friend, refusing to pay obviously.&lt;p&gt;I think being left out in the cold all this time was a good sign that the company as a whole was planing something like this. Not explicitly but something.&lt;p&gt;Did I do the right thing in leaving?   Am I the &amp;#x27;bad friend&amp;#x27;?</text></item></parent_chain></comment><story><title>How to Collaborate with People You Don’t Like (2018)</title><url>https://hbr.org/2018/12/how-to-collaborate-with-people-you-dont-like</url></story>