<instructions>Your goal is to analyze the following comment and estimate how highly it will be upvoted by the Hacker News community.</instructions><comment><author>gerdesj</author><text>&amp;gt;&amp;gt; I think I&amp;#x27;m gonna call my mom.&lt;p&gt;&amp;gt;&amp;gt;&amp;gt;Always a good plan, I highly recommend it. I think I will do the same. Treasure your loved ones, even when times are good it can change suddenly.&lt;p&gt;Absolutely.  Now, I hope this does not come across as trite but I lost my mum to cancer in 1997.  I was 27 at the time.  It was hard, very hard as you&amp;#x27;d expect.  Time does heal but it takes a lot of time.  I can still call my mum and she sometimes responds.  Not literally - that&amp;#x27;s mad.  I can still remember her values and guidance.&lt;p&gt;That won&amp;#x27;t be same for everyone because loss is personal and so is all experience.  I&amp;#x27;ve buried (in the loss sense, not mass murderer sense) quite a lot of relos and it is hard and part of life.&lt;p&gt;Whatever happens, you can always call your mum and she&amp;#x27;ll always be there in some way.</text><parent_chain><item><author>rootusrootus</author><text>Much of my adult life was the same way.  We used to talk about how great our family had it -- we went for decades without losing anyone close.  We knew eventually our turn would come, but I treasured the time we did have.&lt;p&gt;But come it did, about 7 years ago.  Since then I&amp;#x27;ve lost two brothers, my dad, my grandparents, and my best friend.  The trite &amp;quot;fuck cancer&amp;quot; statement comes to mind regularly.  Another friend of mine has cancer, my mom has terminal cancer, my stepmother has cancer...&lt;p&gt;&amp;gt; I think I&amp;#x27;m gonna call my mom.&lt;p&gt;Always a good plan, I highly recommend it.  I think I will do the same.  Treasure your loved ones, even when times are good it can change suddenly.</text></item><item><author>tombert</author><text>I&amp;#x27;m really lucky to where most of the people that I care a lot about are still alive, but I realize that that&amp;#x27;s a finite luxury.  Sooner or later either I or one of those people are going to die, and it&amp;#x27;s going to be sad.&lt;p&gt;I think I&amp;#x27;m gonna call my mom.</text></item></parent_chain></comment><story><title>Zain Nadella, Satya Nadella&apos;s son, dies at 26</title><url>https://www.ibtimes.com/zain-nadella-microsoft-ceo-satya-nadellas-son-dies-26-3418278</url></story>
<instructions>Your goal is to analyze the following comment and estimate how highly it will be upvoted by the Hacker News community.</instructions><comment><author>wnolens</author><text>The same has happened to me. It&amp;#x27;s been almost every 1-2 years for the past 10 that I experience another great loss. Most recently was my mother. That one was&amp;#x2F;still is tough.</text><parent_chain><item><author>rootusrootus</author><text>Much of my adult life was the same way.  We used to talk about how great our family had it -- we went for decades without losing anyone close.  We knew eventually our turn would come, but I treasured the time we did have.&lt;p&gt;But come it did, about 7 years ago.  Since then I&amp;#x27;ve lost two brothers, my dad, my grandparents, and my best friend.  The trite &amp;quot;fuck cancer&amp;quot; statement comes to mind regularly.  Another friend of mine has cancer, my mom has terminal cancer, my stepmother has cancer...&lt;p&gt;&amp;gt; I think I&amp;#x27;m gonna call my mom.&lt;p&gt;Always a good plan, I highly recommend it.  I think I will do the same.  Treasure your loved ones, even when times are good it can change suddenly.</text></item><item><author>tombert</author><text>I&amp;#x27;m really lucky to where most of the people that I care a lot about are still alive, but I realize that that&amp;#x27;s a finite luxury.  Sooner or later either I or one of those people are going to die, and it&amp;#x27;s going to be sad.&lt;p&gt;I think I&amp;#x27;m gonna call my mom.</text></item></parent_chain></comment><story><title>Zain Nadella, Satya Nadella&apos;s son, dies at 26</title><url>https://www.ibtimes.com/zain-nadella-microsoft-ceo-satya-nadellas-son-dies-26-3418278</url></story>