## Describe the feature

https://github.com/apache/dubbo/blob/daa4d8eb2e5290f1100d32ed0b93896e10fe7ca7/dubbo-common/src/main/java/org/apache/dubbo/common/threadpool/support/AbortPolicyWithReport.java#L90

current threadpool  abort policy will  dump stack  when threadpool is exhausted. this will casue a STW, in some suitation, it will cost 10s+.  app will hang 10s+, need make it configurable


/**
     * The qos port to listen
     */
    private Integer qosPort;
    /**
     * Should we accept foreign ip or not?
     */
    private Boolean qosAcceptForeignIp;
    /**
     * Customized parameters
     */
    private Map<String, String> parameters;
    /**
     * Config the shutdown.wait
     */
    private String shutwait;
    private String hostname;
    /**
     * Metadata type, local or remote, if choose remote, you need to further specify metadata center.
     */
    private String metadataType;
    /**
     * Used to control whether register instance to registry or not. Set to 'false' only when instance is pure consumer.
     */
    private Boolean registerConsumer;
    private String repository;
    private Boolean enableFileCache;
    /**
     * The preferred protocol(name) of this application
     * convenient for places where it's hard to determine which is the preferred protocol