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### Environment

* Dubbo version: master
* Operating System version: windows
* Java version: 1.8

In ExtensionLoader, EXTENSION INSTANCES is a ConcurrentHashMap with a default size, and the extension class provided in Dubbo has exceeded 16. 
Start the program, it will expand at least twice. I think it is more appropriate to add an initial size of 64 here. 
Other places where ConcurrentHashMap is used should also pay attention to a suitable initial size
while ((line = reader.readLine()) != null) {
                    final int ci = line.indexOf('#');
                    if (ci >= 0) {
                        line = line.substring(0, ci);
                    }
                    line = line.trim();
                    if (line.length() > 0) {
                        try {
                            String name = null;
                            int i = line.indexOf('=');
                            if (i > 0) {
                                name = line.substring(0, i).trim();
                                line = line.substring(i + 1).trim();
                            }
                            if (line.length() > 0 && !isExcluded(line, excludedPackages)) {
                                loadClass(extensionClasses, resourceURL, Class.forName(line, true, classLoader), name);
                            }
                        } catch (Throwable t) {
                            IllegalStateException e = new IllegalStateException("Failed to load extension class (interface: " + type + ", class line: " + line + ") in " + resourceURL + ", cause: " + t.getMessage(), t);
                            exceptions.put(line, e);
                        }
                    }
                }
            }
        } catch (Throwable t) {
            logger.error("Exception occurred when loading extension class (interface: " +
                    type + ", class file: " + resourceURL + ") in " + resourceURL, t);
        }
    }
    private boolean isExcluded(String className, String... excludedPackages) {