### Godot version

v4.0.beta16.official [518b9e580]

### System information

Windows 10

### Issue description

`RichTextLabel` with `threaded` enabled may crash the game or show the following warning if the node is in another scene:

```
W 0:00:03:0802   test.gd:12 @ load_with_scene(): A Thread object has been re-started without wait_to_finish() having been called on it. Please do so to ensure correct cleanup of the thread.
  <C++ Source>   core/os/thread.cpp:76 @ start()
  <Stack Trace>  test.gd:12 @ load_with_scene()
                 test.gd:6 @ load_items()
                 test.gd:26 @ _on_button_pressed()
```

It may crash the game (without any warning) if it's added directly.

In `v4.0.beta15.official [4fa6edc88]` I was able to reproduce the same warning on my project but I can't reproduce it in the attached MRP. I get a different error and will crash too if the node is added directly:

```
E 0:00:03:0019   remove_from_group: Condition "!E" is true.
  <C++ Source>   scene/main/scene_tree.cpp:157 @ remove_from_group()
```


### Steps to reproduce

Click on the  `Load with scene` or `Load with node` buttons in the attached MRP until it shows a warning/error or crashes. It may take a while.

### Minimal reproduction project

[add_chid_bug_b16.zip](https://github.com/godotengine/godot/files/10521402/add_chid_bug_b16.zip)

if (tab_size > 0) { 
		Vector<float> tabs;
		tabs.push_back(tab_size * p_base_font->get_char_size(' ', p_base_font_size).width);
		l.text_buf->tab_align(tabs);
	}
	Item *it_to = (p_line + 1 < (int)p_frame->lines.size()) ? p_frame->lines[p_line + 1].from : nullptr;
	for (Item *it = l.from; it && it != it_to; it = _get_next_item(it)) {
		switch (it->type) {
			case ITEM_TABLE: {
				ItemTable *table = static_cast<ItemTable *>(it);
				int col_count = table->columns.size();
				for (int i = 0; i < col_count; i++) {
					table->columns[i].width = 0;
				}
				int idx = 0;
				for (Item *E : table->subitems) {
					ERR_CONTINUE(E->type != ITEM_FRAME); 
					ItemFrame *frame = static_cast<ItemFrame *>(E);
					float prev_h = 0;
					for (int i = 0; i < (int)frame->lines.size(); i++) {
						MutexLock sub_lock(frame->lines[i].text_buf->get_mutex());
						int w = _find_margin(frame->lines[i].from, p_base_font, p_base_font_size) + 1;
						prev_h = _resize_line(frame, i, p_base_font, p_base_font_size, w, prev_h);
					}
					idx++;
				}
				
				const int available_width = p_width - theme_cache.table_h_separation * (col_count - 1);
				
				int total_ratio = 0;