- [x] I have searched the [issues](https://github.com/apache/dubbo/issues) of this repository and believe that this is not a duplicate.
- [x] I have checked the [FAQ](https://github.com/apache/dubbo/blob/master/FAQ.md) of this repository and believe that this is not a duplicate.

### Environment

* Dubbo version: master
* Operating System version: windows
* Java version: 1.8

In ExtensionLoader, EXTENSION INSTANCES is a ConcurrentHashMap with a default size, and the extension class provided in Dubbo has exceeded 16. 
Start the program, it will expand at least twice. I think it is more appropriate to add an initial size of 64 here. 
Other places where ConcurrentHashMap is used should also pay attention to a suitable initial size
public static <T> ExtensionLoader<T> getExtensionLoader(Class<T> type) {
        if (type == null) {
            throw new IllegalArgumentException("Extension type == null");
        }
        if (!type.isInterface()) {
            throw new IllegalArgumentException("Extension type (" + type + ") is not an interface!");
        }
        if (!withExtensionAnnotation(type)) {
            throw new IllegalArgumentException("Extension type (" + type +
                    ") is not an extension, because it is NOT annotated with @" + SPI.class.getSimpleName() + "!");
        }
        ExtensionLoader<T> loader = (ExtensionLoader<T>) EXTENSION_LOADERS.get(type);
        if (loader == null) {
            EXTENSION_LOADERS.putIfAbsent(type, new ExtensionLoader<T>(type));
            loader = (ExtensionLoader<T>) EXTENSION_LOADERS.get(type);
        }
        return loader;
    }
    
    public static void resetExtensionLoader(Class type) {
        ExtensionLoader loader = EXTENSION_LOADERS.get(type);
        if (loader != null) {
            
            Map<String, Class<?>> classes = loader.getExtensionClasses();
            for (Map.Entry<String, Class<?>> entry : classes.entrySet()) {
                EXTENSION_INSTANCES.remove(entry.getValue());
            }
            classes.clear();
            EXTENSION_LOADERS.remove(type);
        }