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##### SUMMARY
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When installing or updating an already held apt package with the `apt` module, it fails. 
This forces to use the `force: yes` option that it's too broad and already deprecated by apt.

Add an option `allow_change_held_packages` to the `apt` module to use the `--allow-change-held-packages` `apt` option.

##### ISSUE TYPE
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##### COMPONENT NAME
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apt

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```yaml
- name: Install package with specific version and hold
  block:
    - name: Install {{ package_name }} version {{ version }}"
      apt:
        name: "{{ package_name }}={{ version }}"
        state: present
        (force|allow_change_held_packages): yes

    - name: Hold {{ package_name }} package
      dpkg_selections:
        name: "{{ package_name }}"
        selection: hold
```

This is not idempotent without the `force: yes`, the second run will fail. 
The `allow_change_held_packages` will avoid problems with this special situation.

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Related to: https://github.com/ansible/ansible/issues/15394
if not packages:
        return
    apt_mark_cmd_path = m.get_bin_path("apt-mark")
    # ht
    if apt_mark_cmd_path is None:
        m.warn("Could not find apt-mark binary, not marking package(s) as manually installed.")
        return
    cmd = "%s manual %s" % (apt_mark_cmd_path, ' '.join(packages))
    rc, out, err = m.run_command(cmd)
    if APT_MARK_INVALID_OP in err or APT_MARK_INVALID_OP_DEB6 in err:
        cmd = "%s unmarkauto %s" % (apt_mark_cmd_path, ' '.join(packages))
        rc, out, err = m.run_command(cmd)
    if rc != 0:
        m.fail_json(msg="'%s' failed: %s" % (cmd, err), stdout=out, stderr=err, rc=rc)
def install(m, pkgspec, cache, upgrade=False, default_release=None,