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##### SUMMARY
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When installing or updating an already held apt package with the `apt` module, it fails. 
This forces to use the `force: yes` option that it's too broad and already deprecated by apt.

Add an option `allow_change_held_packages` to the `apt` module to use the `--allow-change-held-packages` `apt` option.

##### ISSUE TYPE
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##### COMPONENT NAME
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apt

##### ADDITIONAL INFORMATION
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```yaml
- name: Install package with specific version and hold
  block:
    - name: Install {{ package_name }} version {{ version }}"
      apt:
        name: "{{ package_name }}={{ version }}"
        state: present
        (force|allow_change_held_packages): yes

    - name: Hold {{ package_name }} package
      dpkg_selections:
        name: "{{ package_name }}"
        selection: hold
```

This is not idempotent without the `force: yes`, the second run will fail. 
The `allow_change_held_packages` will avoid problems with this special situation.

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Related to: https://github.com/ansible/ansible/issues/15394
if delay > update_cache_retry_max_delay:
                            delay = update_cache_retry_max_delay + randomize
                        time.sleep(delay)
                    else:
                        module.fail_json(msg='Failed to update apt cache: %s' % (err if err else 'unknown reason'))
                    cache.open(progress=None)
                    mtimestamp, post_cache_update_time = get_updated_cache_time()
                    if updated_cache_time != post_cache_update_time:
                        updated_cache = True
                    updated_cache_time = post_cache_update_time
                # If 
                #  c
                if not p['package'] and not p['upgrade'] and not p['deb']:
                    module.exit_json(
                        changed=updated_cache,
                        cache_updated=updated_cache,
                        cache_update_time=updated_cache_time
                    )
            force_yes = p['force']
            if p['upgrade']:
                upgrade(
                    module,
                    p['upgrade'],
                    force_yes,
                    p['default_release'],
                    use_apt_get,
                    dpkg_options,
                    autoremove,
                    fail_on_autoremove,
                    allow_unauthenticated,