### Summary

Using `apt` with `only_upgrade: yes` fails if a package is currently not installed. It seems this was recently introduced with https://github.com/ansible/ansible/pull/78327. For us this was a breaking change - was this intentionally?

### Issue Type

Bug Report

### Component Name

apt

### Ansible Version

```console
$ ansible --version
ansible [core 2.13.4]
  config file = /etc/ansible/ansible.cfg
  configured module search path = ['/home/vagrant/.ansible/plugins/modules', '/usr/share/ansible/plugins/modules']
  ansible python module location = /home/vagrant/.local/lib/python3.8/site-packages/ansible
  ansible collection location = /home/vagrant/.ansible/collections:/usr/share/ansible/collections
  executable location = /usr/bin/ansible
  python version = 3.8.10 (default, Jun 22 2022, 20:18:18) [GCC 9.4.0]
  jinja version = 3.1.2
  libyaml = True
```


### Configuration

```console
# if using a version older than ansible-core 2.12 you should omit the '-t all'
$ ansible-config dump --only-changed -t all
empty for me
```


### OS / Environment

ubuntu/focal64 20220804.0.0 (vagrant box)

### Steps to Reproduce

<!--- Paste example playbooks or commands between quotes below -->
```yaml (paste below)
- name: upgrade if installed
  apt:
    name: "{{ packages }}"
    only_upgrade: yes
  vars:
    packages:
      - foo # not installed
      - bar
```


### Expected Results

no failure if a package is currently not installed

### Actual Results

```console
TASK [my_role : upgrade if installed.] ***********************************************************************************************************************
fatal: [127.0.0.1]: FAILED! => {"cache_update_time": 1663062238, "cache_updated": false, "changed": false, "msg": "no available installation candidate for foo"}
```


### Code of Conduct

- [X] I agree to follow the Ansible Code of Conduct
'''Attempt to get the cache object and update till it works'''
    cache = None
    try:
        cache = apt.Cache()
    except SystemError as e:
        if '/var/lib/apt/lists/' in to_native(e).lower():
            # up
            retries = 0
            while retries < 2:
                (rc, so, se) = module.run_command(['apt-get', 'update', '-q'])
                retries += 1
                if rc == 0:
                    break
            if rc != 0:
                module.fail_json(msg='Updating the cache to correct corrupt package lists failed:\n%s\n%s' % (to_native(e), so + se), rc=rc)
            # tr
            cache = apt.Cache()
        else:
            module.fail_json(msg=to_native(e))
    return cache
def main():
    module = AnsibleModule(
        argument_spec=dict(
            state=dict(type='str', default='present', choices=['absent', 'build-dep', 'fixed', 'latest', 'present']),
            update_cache=dict(type='bool', aliases=['update-cache']),
            update_cache_retries=dict(type='int', default=5),
            update_cache_retry_max_delay=dict(type='int', default=12),