##### SUMMARY
When doing a harmless apt install for a package, this might uninstall other packages and break stuff heavy, especially if there are lots of pending upgrades.

##### ISSUE TYPE
- Bug Report

##### COMPONENT NAME
apt

##### ANSIBLE VERSION
```
ansible 2.8.2
  config file = /home/alexg/mw-config/ansible.cfg
  configured module search path = [u'/home/alexg/.ansible/plugins/modules', u'/usr/share/ansible/plugins/modules']
  ansible python module location = /home/alexg/.local/lib/python2.7/site-packages/ansible
  executable location = /home/alexg/.local/bin/ansible
  python version = 2.7.15+ (default, Jul  9 2019, 16:51:35) [GCC 7.4.0]
```

##### CONFIGURATION
```
DEFAULT_CALLBACK_PLUGIN_PATH(/home/alexg/mw-config/ansible.cfg) = [u'/home/alexg/mw-config/ansible/plugins/callback']
DEFAULT_CALLBACK_WHITELIST(/home/alexg/mw-config/ansible.cfg) = [u'zabbix']
DEFAULT_HOST_LIST(/home/alexg/mw-config/ansible.cfg) = [u'/home/alexg/mw-config/inventory']
DEFAULT_ROLES_PATH(/home/alexg/mw-config/ansible.cfg) = [u'/home/alexg/mw-config/roles']
DEFAULT_STDOUT_CALLBACK(/home/alexg/mw-config/ansible.cfg) = nice_failures
```

##### OS / ENVIRONMENT
target server was a debian machine, pending an upgrade stretch->buster

##### STEPS TO REPRODUCE
Just running something like
```yaml
  - name: "Install some packages"
    apt:
      name: vim
      state: present
      update_cache: yes
```
can make the underlying apt uninstall some packages, depending on the current apt status. In this case installation of 4 basic packages on the machine with 600+ packages pending upgrade caused apt to uninstalled the VM hypervisor...

##### EXPECTED RESULTS
Need more control on dependency handling:
default should be to install package + requirements, but never uninstall other packages. That should get a separate option.
Alternative would be to fail when there is a uninstall going to happen, or just fail when there are pending upgrades at all.

##### ACTUAL RESULTS
Uninstalled libvirtd, shtudown of 5 VMs...Can't reproduce right now, because had to rush to fix it.
I guess this is obvious behaviour when you run apt install -y $package.
try:
        if p['default_release']:
            try:
                apt_pkg.config['APT::Default-Release'] = p['default_release']
            except AttributeError:
                apt_pkg.Config['APT::Default-Release'] = p['default_release']
            # re
            cache.open(progress=None)
        mtimestamp, updated_cache_time = get_updated_cache_time()
        # Ca
        #  n
        updated_cache = False
        if p['update_cache'] or p['cache_valid_time']:
            now = datetime.datetime.now()
            tdelta = datetime.timedelta(seconds=p['cache_valid_time'])
            if not mtimestamp + tdelta >= now:
                # Re
                err = ''
                update_cache_retries = module.params.get('update_cache_retries')
                update_cache_retry_max_delay = module.params.get('update_cache_retry_max_delay')
                randomize = random.randint(0, 1000) / 1000.0
                for retry in range(update_cache_retries):
                    try:
                        cache.update()
                        break
                    except apt.cache.FetchFailedException as e:
                        err = to_native(e)
                    # Us
                    delay = 2 ** retry + randomize
                    if delay > update_cache_retry_max_delay: