org.apache.dubbo.remoting.exchange.support.DefaultFuture#closeChannel doesn't work as expected since the channel instances to be compared do not have correct equals() implementation:

```java
 public static void closeChannel(Channel channel) {
        for (Map.Entry<Long, Channel> entry : CHANNELS.entrySet()) {
            if (channel.equals(entry.getValue())) { // in netty4, channel is NettyChannel, but entry.getValue() is NettyClient, equals will return false.
                DefaultFuture future = getFuture(entry.getKey());
                if (future != null && !future.isDone()) {
                    Response disconnectResponse = new Response(future.getId());
                    disconnectResponse.setStatus(Response.CHANNEL_INACTIVE);
                    disconnectResponse.setErrorMessage("Channel " +
                            channel +
                            " is inactive. Directly return the unFinished request : " +
                            future.getRequest());
                    DefaultFuture.received(channel, disconnectResponse);
                }
            }
        }
    }
```

This is the root cause of issue 1 in  #1968.
} finally {
                            NettyChannel.removeChannelIfDisconnected(oldChannel);
                        }
                    }
                } finally {
                    if (NettyClient.this.isClosed()) {
                        try {
                            if (logger.isInfoEnabled()) {
                                logger.info("Close new netty channel " + newChannel + ", because the client closed.");
                            }
                            newChannel.close();
                        } finally {
                            NettyClient.this.channel = null;
                            NettyChannel.removeChannelIfDisconnected(newChannel);
                        }
                    } else {
                        NettyClient.this.channel = newChannel;
                    }
                }
            } else if (future.getCause() != null) {
                throw new RemotingException(this, "client(url: " + getUrl() + ") failed to connect to server "
                        + getRemoteAddress() + ", error message is:" + future.getCause().getMessage(), future.getCause());
            } else {
                throw new RemotingException(this, "client(url: " + getUrl() + ") failed to connect to server "
                        + getRemoteAddress() + " client-side timeout "
                        + getConnectTimeout() + "ms (elapsed: " + (System.currentTimeMillis() - start) + "ms) from netty client "
                        + NetUtils.getLocalHost() + " using dubbo version " + Version.getVersion());
            }
        } finally {
            if (!isConnected()) {