### Summary

Our setuptools constrain in `pyproject.toml` (listed also in `setup.cfg`) is set to `>= 39.2.0` due to the minimum version available at the time on Ubuntu 18.04.

Now that we have a dependency on Python 3.9 as a minimum, that constraint no longer makes sense, as Python 3.9 is not available on 18.04, and the `dist-packages` `setuptools==39.2.0` compat between deadsnakes python3.9 is non-functional.

This would make Ubuntu 20.04 effectively the minimum supported controller.  The `dist-packages` `setuptools==45.2.0` is functional with the `python3.9` package, and works fine with our packaging.  

This doesn't really grant us anything, since we're waiting for the minimum to eventually be `51.0.0` so we can list the `entry_points` in `pyproject.toml`, but no need to list effectively a non-functional lower bounds. 

### Issue Type

Feature Idea

### Component Name

pyproject.toml

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