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### Environment

* Dubbo version: 2.7.5-SNAPSHOT
* Operating System version: macos
* Java version: 1.8.0_131

### Steps to reproduce this issue

We could run the following UT, then we could find the issue:

```
        ApplicationConfig application = new ApplicationConfig("provider");

        ServiceConfig<DemoService> service = new ServiceConfig<DemoService>();
        service.setProtocol(new ProtocolConfig("dubbo", 20880));
        service.setRegistry(new RegistryConfig(RegistryConfig.NO_AVAILABLE));
        service.setInterface(DemoService.class);
        service.setRef(new DemoServiceImpl());

        ConsumerConfig consumer = new ConsumerConfig();
        consumer.setLazy(true);

        ReferenceConfig<DemoService> reference = new ReferenceConfig<DemoService>();
        reference.setConsumer(consumer);
        reference.setRegistry(new RegistryConfig(RegistryConfig.NO_AVAILABLE));
        reference.setInterface(DemoService.class);
        reference.setUrl("dubbo://" + NetUtils.getLocalHost() + ":20880?" + DemoService.class.getName());

        DubboBootstrap bootstrap = DubboBootstrap.getInstance()
            .application(application)
            .service(service)
            .reference(reference)
            .start();

        Assert.assertEquals("true", reference.toUrls().get(0).getParameter("lazy"));
```

### Expected Result

Expected "lazy" : true

### Actual Result

Actual "lazy": false

Boolean export = getExport();
        
        return export == null ? true : export;
    }
    @Override
    public Boolean getExport() {
        return (export == null && provider != null) ? provider.getExport() : export;
    }
    public boolean shouldDelay() {
        Integer delay = getDelay();
        return delay != null && delay > 0;
    }
    @Override
    public Integer getDelay() {
        return (delay == null && provider != null) ? provider.getDelay() : delay;
    }
    public void checkRef() {
        
        if (ref == null) {
            throw new IllegalStateException("ref not allow null!");
        }
        if (!interfaceClass.isInstance(ref)) {
            throw new IllegalStateException("The class "
                    + ref.getClass().getName() + " unimplemented interface "
                    + interfaceClass + "!");
        }
    }
    public Optional<String> getContextPath(ProtocolConfig protocolConfig) {
        String contextPath = protocolConfig.getContextpath();
        if (StringUtils.isEmpty(contextPath) && provider != null) {