### Environment

* Dubbo version: 3.1.0
* Operating System version: MacOS 13.0
* Java version: 1.8

### Steps to reproduce this issue
1. 写一个简单的项目（非spring项目）
2. main方法启动一个provider，对外暴露一个简单的api，比如DemoService#sayHi()，用sleep模拟一个耗时3秒的调用
3. main方法再启动一个consumer。创建两个reference去调用2中的api，第一个reference设置timeout为1秒，第二个reference设置超时为5秒

### 预期结果：
- 第一个调用超时，第二个调用正常

### 实际结果：
- 两个调用均超时了

这边提供一个用于重现bug的repo，希望能帮你们重现问题 https://github.com/QingJuBaiTang/dubbo-learn

@Override
    public void setProviderFirstParams(Set<String> providerFirstParams) {
        originUrl.setProviderFirstParams(providerFirstParams);
    }
    @Override
    public boolean equals(Object o) {
        if (this == o) return true;
        if (o == null || getClass() != o.getClass()) return false;
        if (!super.equals(o)) return false;
        OverrideInstanceAddressURL that = (OverrideInstanceAddressURL) o;
        return Objects.equals(overrideParams, that.overrideParams) && Objects.equals(originUrl, that.originUrl);
    }
    @Override
    public int hashCode() {
        return Objects.hash(super.hashCode(), overrideParams, originUrl);
    }
    @Override
    public String toString() {
        return originUrl.toString() + ", overrideParams: " + overrideParams.toString();
    }
    private Object readResolve() {
        
        return new OverrideInstanceAddressURL(this.originUrl, this.overrideParams);
    }
    @Override
    protected OverrideInstanceAddressURL newURL(URLAddress urlAddress, URLParam urlParam) {
        return new OverrideInstanceAddressURL(originUrl, overrideParams);
    }
}