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### Environment

* Dubbo version: 2.7.3
* Operating System version: macOs sierra
* Java version: 1.8

### Steps to reproduce this issue

Sometimes, when debugging connect time issue, we don't know whether the port is listening.  We can check the connected log if the connect timeout occurs.
handler.connected(channel);
        } finally {
            NettyChannel.removeChannelIfDisconnected(ctx.channel());
        }
    }
    @Override
    public void channelInactive(ChannelHandlerContext ctx) throws Exception {
        NettyChannel channel = NettyChannel.getOrAddChannel(ctx.channel(), url, handler);
        try {
            channels.remove(NetUtils.toAddressString((InetSocketAddress) ctx.channel().remoteAddress()));
            handler.disconnected(channel);
        } finally {
            NettyChannel.removeChannelIfDisconnected(ctx.channel());
        }
    }
    @Override
    public void channelRead(ChannelHandlerContext ctx, Object msg) throws Exception {
        NettyChannel channel = NettyChannel.getOrAddChannel(ctx.channel(), url, handler);
        try {
            handler.received(channel, msg);
        } finally {
            NettyChannel.removeChannelIfDisconnected(ctx.channel());
        }
    }
    @Override
    public void write(ChannelHandlerContext ctx, Object msg, ChannelPromise promise) throws Exception {
        super.write(ctx, msg, promise);
        NettyChannel channel = NettyChannel.getOrAddChannel(ctx.channel(), url, handler);
        try {
            handler.sent(channel, msg);