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##### SUMMARY
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When installing or updating an already held apt package with the `apt` module, it fails. 
This forces to use the `force: yes` option that it's too broad and already deprecated by apt.

Add an option `allow_change_held_packages` to the `apt` module to use the `--allow-change-held-packages` `apt` option.

##### ISSUE TYPE
- Feature Idea

##### COMPONENT NAME
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apt

##### ADDITIONAL INFORMATION
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```yaml
- name: Install package with specific version and hold
  block:
    - name: Install {{ package_name }} version {{ version }}"
      apt:
        name: "{{ package_name }}={{ version }}"
        state: present
        (force|allow_change_held_packages): yes

    - name: Hold {{ package_name }} package
      dpkg_selections:
        name: "{{ package_name }}"
        selection: hold
```

This is not idempotent without the `force: yes`, the second run will fail. 
The `allow_change_held_packages` will avoid problems with this special situation.

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Related to: https://github.com/ansible/ansible/issues/15394
if install_recommends is False:
            cmd += " -o APT::Install-Recommends=no"
        elif install_recommends is True:
            cmd += " -o APT::Install-Recommends=yes"
        # in
        if allow_unauthenticated:
            cmd += " --allow-unauthenticated"
        if allow_downgrade:
            cmd += " --allow-downgrades"
        with PolicyRcD(m):
            rc, out, err = m.run_command(cmd)
        if m._diff:
            diff = parse_diff(out)
        else:
            diff = {}
        status = True
        changed = True
        if build_dep:
            changed = APT_GET_ZERO not in out
        data = dict(changed=changed, stdout=out, stderr=err, diff=diff)
        if rc:
            status = False
            data = dict(msg="'%s' failed: %s" % (cmd, err), stdout=out, stderr=err, rc=rc)
    else:
        status = True
        data = dict(changed=False)
    if not build_dep:
        mark_installed_manually(m, package_names)
    return (status, data)
def get_field_of_deb(m, deb_file, field="Version"):