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##### SUMMARY
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When installing or updating an already held apt package with the `apt` module, it fails. 
This forces to use the `force: yes` option that it's too broad and already deprecated by apt.

Add an option `allow_change_held_packages` to the `apt` module to use the `--allow-change-held-packages` `apt` option.

##### ISSUE TYPE
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##### COMPONENT NAME
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apt

##### ADDITIONAL INFORMATION
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```yaml
- name: Install package with specific version and hold
  block:
    - name: Install {{ package_name }} version {{ version }}"
      apt:
        name: "{{ package_name }}={{ version }}"
        state: present
        (force|allow_change_held_packages): yes

    - name: Hold {{ package_name }} package
      dpkg_selections:
        name: "{{ package_name }}"
        selection: hold
```

This is not idempotent without the `force: yes`, the second run will fail. 
The `allow_change_held_packages` will avoid problems with this special situation.

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Related to: https://github.com/ansible/ansible/issues/15394
dpkg_options=dpkg_options,
                    build_dep=state_builddep,
                    fixed=state_fixed,
                    autoremove=autoremove,
                    fail_on_autoremove=fail_on_autoremove,
                    only_upgrade=p['only_upgrade'],
                    allow_unauthenticated=allow_unauthenticated,
                    allow_downgrade=allow_downgrade
                )
                # St
                retvals['cache_updated'] = updated_cache
                # St
                retvals['cache_update_time'] = updated_cache_time
                if success:
                    module.exit_json(**retvals)
                else:
                    module.fail_json(**retvals)
            elif p['state'] == 'absent':
                remove(module, packages, cache, p['purge'], force=force_yes, dpkg_options=dpkg_options, autoremove=autoremove)
        except apt.cache.LockFailedException as lockFailedException:
            if time.time() < deadline:
                continue
            module.fail_json(msg="Failed to lock apt for exclusive operation: %s" % lockFailedException)
        except apt.cache.FetchFailedException as fetchFailedException:
            module.fail_json(msg="Could not fetch updated apt files: %s" % fetchFailedException)
        # go
        module.fail_json(msg='Unexpected code path taken, we really should have exited before, this is a bug')
if __name__ == "__main__":
    main()