## Describe the feature

https://github.com/apache/dubbo/blob/daa4d8eb2e5290f1100d32ed0b93896e10fe7ca7/dubbo-common/src/main/java/org/apache/dubbo/common/threadpool/support/AbortPolicyWithReport.java#L90

current threadpool  abort policy will  dump stack  when threadpool is exhausted. this will casue a STW, in some suitation, it will cost 10s+.  app will hang 10s+, need make it configurable


public String getLivenessProbe() {
        return livenessProbe;
    }
    public void setLivenessProbe(String livenessProbe) {
        this.livenessProbe = livenessProbe;
    }
    @Parameter(key = READINESS_PROBE_KEY)
    public String getReadinessProbe() {
        return readinessProbe;
    }
    public void setReadinessProbe(String readinessProbe) {
        this.readinessProbe = readinessProbe;
    }
    @Parameter(key = STARTUP_PROBE)
    public String getStartupProbe() {
        return startupProbe;
    }
    public void setStartupProbe(String startupProbe) {
        this.startupProbe = startupProbe;
    }
    public void setExecutorManagementMode(String executorManagementMode) {
        this.executorManagementMode = executorManagementMode;
    }
    @Parameter(key = EXECUTOR_MANAGEMENT_MODE)
    public String getExecutorManagementMode() {
        return executorManagementMode;
    }
    @Override
    public void refresh() {
        super.refresh();