### Godot version

4.0.dev(dc3175e4cdb4e54e1c6200b6c4d07646eea95284)

### System information

Any

### Issue description

EditorPlugins that depend on the resources that Node has will not be visible when SubInspector is focused.

https://user-images.githubusercontent.com/61938263/210553656-86669f57-e41f-427e-a650-30630c27d850.mp4

This is caused by two problems:

The first is caused by implicit editor deletion in Node3D. This is fixed by #70907.

The other is due to a change in inspector update timing, which is regression by #68498. Revert PR #70909 will fix this issue, but if not, we will need to update SubInspectorEditor in the correct way.

### Steps to reproduce

Select Path3D or CollisionPolygon3D and open a SubInspector such as Script.

### Minimal reproduction project

[plugintest.zip](https://github.com/godotengine/godot/files/10343962/plugintest.zip)

Size2 ms;
	for (int i = 0; i < get_child_count(); i++) {
		Control *c = Object::cast_to<Control>(get_child(i));
		if (!c) {
			continue;
		}
		if (c->is_set_as_top_level()) {
			continue;
		}
		if (!c->is_visible()) {
			continue;
		}
		Size2 minsize = c->get_combined_minimum_size();
		ms.width = MAX(ms.width, minsize.width);
		ms.height = MAX(ms.height, minsize.height);
	}
	Ref<Font> font = get_theme_font(SNAME("font"), SNAME("Tree"));
	int font_size = get_theme_font_size(SNAME("font_size"), SNAME("Tree"));
	ms.height += font->get_height(font_size) + get_theme_constant(SNAME("v_separation"), SNAME("Tree"));
	ms.width += get_theme_constant(SNAME("inspector_margin"), SNAME("Editor"));
	int section_indent_size = get_theme_constant(SNAME("indent_size"), SNAME("EditorInspectorSection"));
	if (indent_depth > 0 && section_indent_size > 0) {