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### Environment

* Dubbo version: master
* Operating System version: windows
* Java version: 1.8

In ExtensionLoader, EXTENSION INSTANCES is a ConcurrentHashMap with a default size, and the extension class provided in Dubbo has exceeded 16. 
Start the program, it will expand at least twice. I think it is more appropriate to add an initial size of 64 here. 
Other places where ConcurrentHashMap is used should also pay attention to a suitable initial size
import org.apache.dubbo.common.context.Lifecycle;
import org.apache.dubbo.common.extension.support.ActivateComparator;
import org.apache.dubbo.common.lang.Prioritized;
import org.apache.dubbo.common.logger.Logger;
import org.apache.dubbo.common.logger.LoggerFactory;
import org.apache.dubbo.common.utils.ArrayUtils;
import org.apache.dubbo.common.utils.ClassUtils;
import org.apache.dubbo.common.utils.CollectionUtils;
import org.apache.dubbo.common.utils.ConcurrentHashSet;
import org.apache.dubbo.common.utils.ConfigUtils;
import org.apache.dubbo.common.utils.Holder;
import org.apache.dubbo.common.utils.ReflectUtils;
import org.apache.dubbo.common.utils.StringUtils;
import java.io.BufferedReader;
import java.io.InputStreamReader;
import java.lang.reflect.Method;
import java.lang.reflect.Modifier;
import java.nio.charset.StandardCharsets;
import java.util.ArrayList;
import java.util.Arrays;
import java.util.Collections;
import java.util.Enumeration;
import java.util.HashMap;
import java.util.LinkedHashSet;
import java.util.LinkedList;
import java.util.List;
import java.util.Map;
import java.util.Set;
import java.util.TreeSet;
import java.util.concurrent.ConcurrentHashMap;