##### SUMMARY
When doing a harmless apt install for a package, this might uninstall other packages and break stuff heavy, especially if there are lots of pending upgrades.

##### ISSUE TYPE
- Bug Report

##### COMPONENT NAME
apt

##### ANSIBLE VERSION
```
ansible 2.8.2
  config file = /home/alexg/mw-config/ansible.cfg
  configured module search path = [u'/home/alexg/.ansible/plugins/modules', u'/usr/share/ansible/plugins/modules']
  ansible python module location = /home/alexg/.local/lib/python2.7/site-packages/ansible
  executable location = /home/alexg/.local/bin/ansible
  python version = 2.7.15+ (default, Jul  9 2019, 16:51:35) [GCC 7.4.0]
```

##### CONFIGURATION
```
DEFAULT_CALLBACK_PLUGIN_PATH(/home/alexg/mw-config/ansible.cfg) = [u'/home/alexg/mw-config/ansible/plugins/callback']
DEFAULT_CALLBACK_WHITELIST(/home/alexg/mw-config/ansible.cfg) = [u'zabbix']
DEFAULT_HOST_LIST(/home/alexg/mw-config/ansible.cfg) = [u'/home/alexg/mw-config/inventory']
DEFAULT_ROLES_PATH(/home/alexg/mw-config/ansible.cfg) = [u'/home/alexg/mw-config/roles']
DEFAULT_STDOUT_CALLBACK(/home/alexg/mw-config/ansible.cfg) = nice_failures
```

##### OS / ENVIRONMENT
target server was a debian machine, pending an upgrade stretch->buster

##### STEPS TO REPRODUCE
Just running something like
```yaml
  - name: "Install some packages"
    apt:
      name: vim
      state: present
      update_cache: yes
```
can make the underlying apt uninstall some packages, depending on the current apt status. In this case installation of 4 basic packages on the machine with 600+ packages pending upgrade caused apt to uninstalled the VM hypervisor...

##### EXPECTED RESULTS
Need more control on dependency handling:
default should be to install package + requirements, but never uninstall other packages. That should get a separate option.
Alternative would be to fail when there is a uninstall going to happen, or just fail when there are pending upgrades at all.

##### ACTUAL RESULTS
Uninstalled libvirtd, shtudown of 5 VMs...Can't reproduce right now, because had to rush to fix it.
I guess this is obvious behaviour when you run apt install -y $package.
else:
                module.warn("Updating cache and auto-installing missing dependency: %s" % PYTHON_APT)
                module.run_command(['apt-get', 'update'], check_rc=True)
            module.run_command(['apt-get', 'install', '--no-install-recommends', PYTHON_APT, '-y', '-q'], check_rc=True)
            global apt, apt_pkg
            import apt
            import apt.debfile
            import apt_pkg
        except ImportError:
            module.fail_json(msg="Could not import python modules: apt, apt_pkg. "
                                 "Please install %s package." % PYTHON_APT)
    global APTITUDE_CMD
    APTITUDE_CMD = module.get_bin_path("aptitude", False)
    global APT_GET_CMD
    APT_GET_CMD = module.get_bin_path("apt-get")
    p = module.params
    if p['upgrade'] == 'no':
        p['upgrade'] = None
    use_apt_get = p['force_apt_get']
    if not use_apt_get and not APTITUDE_CMD:
        use_apt_get = True
    updated_cache = False
    updated_cache_time = 0
    install_recommends = p['install_recommends']
    allow_unauthenticated = p['allow_unauthenticated']
    dpkg_options = expand_dpkg_options(p['dpkg_options'])
    autoremove = p['autoremove']
    autoclean = p['autoclean']
    # Ge
    cache = get_cache(module)