## Describe the feature

https://github.com/apache/dubbo/blob/daa4d8eb2e5290f1100d32ed0b93896e10fe7ca7/dubbo-common/src/main/java/org/apache/dubbo/common/threadpool/support/AbortPolicyWithReport.java#L90

current threadpool  abort policy will  dump stack  when threadpool is exhausted. this will casue a STW, in some suitation, it will cost 10s+.  app will hang 10s+, need make it configurable


public void setQosAcceptForeignIp(Boolean qosAcceptForeignIp) {
        this.qosAcceptForeignIp = qosAcceptForeignIp;
    }
    /**
     * The format is the same as the springboot, including: getQosEnableCompatible(), getQosPortCompatible(), getQosAcceptForeignIpCompatible().
     *
     * @return
     */
    @Parameter(key = QOS_ENABLE_COMPATIBLE, excluded = true, attribute = false)
    public Boolean getQosEnableCompatible() {
        return getQosEnable();
    }
    public void setQosEnableCompatible(Boolean qosEnable) {
        setQosEnable(qosEnable);
    }
    @Parameter(key = QOS_HOST_COMPATIBLE, excluded = true, attribute = false)
    public String getQosHostCompatible() {
        return getQosHost();
    }
    public void setQosHostCompatible(String qosHost) {
        this.setQosHost(qosHost);
    }
    @Parameter(key = QOS_PORT_COMPATIBLE, excluded = true, attribute = false)
    public Integer getQosPortCompatible() {
        return getQosPort();
    }
    public void setQosPortCompatible(Integer qosPort) {
        this.setQosPort(qosPort);
    }
    @Parameter(key = ACCEPT_FOREIGN_IP_COMPATIBLE, excluded = true, attribute = false)