## Describe the feature

https://github.com/apache/dubbo/blob/daa4d8eb2e5290f1100d32ed0b93896e10fe7ca7/dubbo-common/src/main/java/org/apache/dubbo/common/threadpool/support/AbortPolicyWithReport.java#L90

current threadpool  abort policy will  dump stack  when threadpool is exhausted. this will casue a STW, in some suitation, it will cost 10s+.  app will hang 10s+, need make it configurable


String DUBBO = "dubbo";
    String TRIPLE = "tri";
    String PROVIDER = "provider";
    String CONSUMER = "consumer";
    String APPLICATION_KEY = "application";
    String APPLICATION_VERSION_KEY = "application.version";
    String APPLICATION_PROTOCOL_KEY = "application-protocol";
    String METADATA_SERVICE_PORT_KEY = "metadata-service-port";
    String METADATA_SERVICE_PROTOCOL_KEY = "metadata-service-protocol";
    String METRICS_SERVICE_PORT_KEY = "metrics-service-port";
    String METRICS_SERVICE_PROTOCOL_KEY = "metrics-service-protocol";
    String LIVENESS_PROBE_KEY = "liveness-probe";
    String READINESS_PROBE_KEY = "readiness-probe";
    String STARTUP_PROBE = "startup-probe";
    String REMOTE_APPLICATION_KEY = "remote.application";
    String ENABLED_KEY = "enabled";
    String DISABLED_KEY = "disabled";
    String DUBBO_PROPERTIES_KEY = "dubbo.properties.file";
    String DEFAULT_DUBBO_PROPERTIES = "dubbo.properties";
    String DUBBO_MIGRATION_KEY = "dubbo.migration.file";
    String DUBBO_MIGRATION_FILE_ENABLE = "dubbo.migration-file.enable";
    String DEFAULT_DUBBO_MIGRATION_FILE = "dubbo-migration.yaml";
    String ANY_VALUE = "*";
    /**