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### Environment

* Dubbo version: 3.1.11
* Operating System version: MAC
* Java version: 1.8

### Steps to reproduce this issue

1. 使用3.1.11的版本定义一个接口提供服务，接口中包含相同名字不同参数的X个方法，那么在provider的url上methods参数就会有多个重复的方法名
2. 在2.6.x的consumer端引用该服务时，methodInvokerMap会根据相同方法名存放X个重复invoker地址，如果默认使用random负载均衡，相当于该provider有着X倍的权重一样，压力会是X倍
3. 在刚升dubbo3的时候，如果一台机器收到的流量是其他机器的X倍，可能压力较大会有风险

![duplicate](https://github.com/apache/dubbo/assets/3276231/fa4c2aab-e13c-4bd8-8b8a-3bfada07175c)
![addMap](https://github.com/apache/dubbo/assets/3276231/79b59170-020a-482e-82e2-0ebd6e162d67)


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### Expected Behavior

在生成provider url的methods参数时，去掉重复的方法名

### Actual Behavior

同名不同参数的方法名，会在url上生成多次

红圈中是灰度发布一台的重复现象
![methods](https://github.com/apache/dubbo/assets/3276231/6c27459e-dc1b-4ad8-b1bf-57c51115c4d8)


}
        }
        if (ref instanceof ServerService) {
            map.put(PROXY_KEY, CommonConstants.NATIVE_STUB);
        }
        return map;
    }
    private void appendParametersWithMethod(MethodConfig method, Map<String, String> params) {
        AbstractConfig.appendParameters(params, method, method.getName());
        String retryKey = method.getName() + ".retry";
        if (params.containsKey(retryKey)) {
            String retryValue = params.remove(retryKey);
            if ("false".equals(retryValue)) {
                params.put(method.getName() + ".retries", "0");
            }
        }
        List<ArgumentConfig> arguments = method.getArguments();
        if (CollectionUtils.isNotEmpty(arguments)) {
            Method matchedMethod = findMatchedMethod(method);
            if (matchedMethod != null) {
                arguments.forEach(argument -> appendArgumentConfig(argument, matchedMethod, params));
            }
        }
    }
    private Method findMatchedMethod(MethodConfig methodConfig) {
        for (Method method : interfaceClass.getMethods()) {
            if (method.getName().equals(methodConfig.getName())) {
                return method;
            }
        }