### Environment

* Dubbo version: 3.1.0
* Operating System version: MacOS 13.0
* Java version: 1.8

### Steps to reproduce this issue
1. 写一个简单的项目（非spring项目）
2. main方法启动一个provider，对外暴露一个简单的api，比如DemoService#sayHi()，用sleep模拟一个耗时3秒的调用
3. main方法再启动一个consumer。创建两个reference去调用2中的api，第一个reference设置timeout为1秒，第二个reference设置超时为5秒

### 预期结果：
- 第一个调用超时，第二个调用正常

### 实际结果：
- 两个调用均超时了

这边提供一个用于重现bug的repo，希望能帮你们重现问题 https://github.com/QingJuBaiTang/dubbo-learn

import org.apache.dubbo.rpc.model.ApplicationModel;
import org.apache.dubbo.rpc.model.FrameworkModel;
import org.apache.dubbo.rpc.model.ModuleModel;
import org.apache.dubbo.rpc.model.ScopeModel;
import org.apache.dubbo.rpc.model.ServiceModel;
import java.util.HashMap;
import java.util.Map;
import java.util.Objects;
import java.util.Set;
import java.util.concurrent.ConcurrentHashMap;
public class OverrideInstanceAddressURL extends InstanceAddressURL {
    private static final long serialVersionUID = 1373220432794558426L;
    private final URLParam overrideParams;
    private final InstanceAddressURL originUrl;
    private final transient Map<String, Map<String, Map<String, Number>>> methodNumberCache = new ConcurrentHashMap<>();
    private volatile transient Map<String, Map<String, Number>> methodNumbers;
    private final transient Map<String, Map<String, Number>> serviceNumberCache = new ConcurrentHashMap<>();
    private volatile transient Map<String, Number> numbers;
    public OverrideInstanceAddressURL(InstanceAddressURL originUrl) {
        this.originUrl = originUrl;
        this.overrideParams = URLParam.parse("");
    }
    public OverrideInstanceAddressURL(InstanceAddressURL originUrl, URLParam overrideParams) {
        this.originUrl = originUrl;
        this.overrideParams = overrideParams;
    }
    @Override
    public ServiceInstance getInstance() {
        return originUrl.getInstance();
    }