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##### SUMMARY
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When installing or updating an already held apt package with the `apt` module, it fails. 
This forces to use the `force: yes` option that it's too broad and already deprecated by apt.

Add an option `allow_change_held_packages` to the `apt` module to use the `--allow-change-held-packages` `apt` option.

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##### COMPONENT NAME
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apt

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```yaml
- name: Install package with specific version and hold
  block:
    - name: Install {{ package_name }} version {{ version }}"
      apt:
        name: "{{ package_name }}={{ version }}"
        state: present
        (force|allow_change_held_packages): yes

    - name: Hold {{ package_name }} package
      dpkg_selections:
        name: "{{ package_name }}"
        selection: hold
```

This is not idempotent without the `force: yes`, the second run will fail. 
The `allow_change_held_packages` will avoid problems with this special situation.

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Related to: https://github.com/ansible/ansible/issues/15394
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            # th
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            # we
            module.fail_json(msg="{0} must be installed and visible from {1}.".format(apt_pkg_name, sys.executable))
    global APTITUDE_CMD
    APTITUDE_CMD = module.get_bin_path("aptitude", False)
    global APT_GET_CMD
    APT_GET_CMD = module.get_bin_path("apt-get")
    p = module.params
    if p['upgrade'] == 'no':
        p['upgrade'] = None
    use_apt_get = p['force_apt_get']
    if not use_apt_get and not APTITUDE_CMD:
        use_apt_get = True
    updated_cache = False
    updated_cache_time = 0
    install_recommends = p['install_recommends']
    allow_unauthenticated = p['allow_unauthenticated']
    allow_downgrade = p['allow_downgrade']
    dpkg_options = expand_dpkg_options(p['dpkg_options'])
    autoremove = p['autoremove']
    fail_on_autoremove = p['fail_on_autoremove']
    autoclean = p['autoclean']
    # ma
    deadline = time.time() + p['lock_timeout']
    # ke
    while True:
        # Ge