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##### SUMMARY
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When installing or updating an already held apt package with the `apt` module, it fails. 
This forces to use the `force: yes` option that it's too broad and already deprecated by apt.

Add an option `allow_change_held_packages` to the `apt` module to use the `--allow-change-held-packages` `apt` option.

##### ISSUE TYPE
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##### COMPONENT NAME
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apt

##### ADDITIONAL INFORMATION
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```yaml
- name: Install package with specific version and hold
  block:
    - name: Install {{ package_name }} version {{ version }}"
      apt:
        name: "{{ package_name }}={{ version }}"
        state: present
        (force|allow_change_held_packages): yes

    - name: Hold {{ package_name }} package
      dpkg_selections:
        name: "{{ package_name }}"
        selection: hold
```

This is not idempotent without the `force: yes`, the second run will fail. 
The `allow_change_held_packages` will avoid problems with this special situation.

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Related to: https://github.com/ansible/ansible/issues/15394
installed, version_ok, upgradable, has_files = package_status(m, package.name, version, cache, state='install')
                        if installed:
                            is_installed = True
                    return is_installed, version_ok, upgradable, False
                m.fail_json(msg="No package matching '%s' is available" % pkgname)
            except AttributeError:
                # py
                # ma
                return False, False, True, False
        else:
            return False, False, False, False
    try:
        has_files = len(pkg.installed_files) > 0
    except UnicodeDecodeError:
        has_files = True
    except AttributeError:
        has_files = False  # ol
    try:
        package_is_installed = ll_pkg.current_state == apt_pkg.CURSTATE_INSTALLED
    except AttributeError:  # py
        try:
            # mi
            package_is_installed = pkg.is_installed
        except AttributeError:
            # as
            package_is_installed = pkg.isInstalled
    version_is_installed = package_is_installed
    if version:
        versions = package_versions(pkgname, pkg, cache._cache)
        avail_upgrades = fnmatch.filter(versions, version)