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##### SUMMARY
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When installing or updating an already held apt package with the `apt` module, it fails. 
This forces to use the `force: yes` option that it's too broad and already deprecated by apt.

Add an option `allow_change_held_packages` to the `apt` module to use the `--allow-change-held-packages` `apt` option.

##### ISSUE TYPE
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##### COMPONENT NAME
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apt

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```yaml
- name: Install package with specific version and hold
  block:
    - name: Install {{ package_name }} version {{ version }}"
      apt:
        name: "{{ package_name }}={{ version }}"
        state: present
        (force|allow_change_held_packages): yes

    - name: Hold {{ package_name }} package
      dpkg_selections:
        name: "{{ package_name }}"
        selection: hold
```

This is not idempotent without the `force: yes`, the second run will fail. 
The `allow_change_held_packages` will avoid problems with this special situation.

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Related to: https://github.com/ansible/ansible/issues/15394
install_recommends=None, force=False,
            dpkg_options=expand_dpkg_options(DPKG_OPTIONS),
            build_dep=False, fixed=False, autoremove=False, fail_on_autoremove=False, only_upgrade=False,
            allow_unauthenticated=False, allow_downgrade=False):
    pkg_list = []
    packages = ""
    pkgspec = expand_pkgspec_from_fnmatches(m, pkgspec, cache)
    package_names = []
    for package in pkgspec:
        if build_dep:
            # Le
            pkg_list.append("'%s'" % package)
            continue
        name, version = package_split(package)
        package_names.append(name)
        installed, installed_version, upgradable, has_files = package_status(m, name, version, cache, state='install')
        if (not installed and not only_upgrade) or (installed and not installed_version) or (upgrade and upgradable):
            pkg_list.append("'%s'" % package)
        if installed_version and upgradable and version:
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            pkg_list.append("'%s'" % package)
    packages = ' '.join(pkg_list)
    if packages:
        if force: