### Environment

* Dubbo version: 3.2.0
* Operating System version: macos10.15.7
* Java version: 1.8

### Steps to reproduce this issue

使用各种方式导致Module启动失败。

### Expected Behavior

Module启动失败，不暴露MetadataService。

即不执行DefaultApplicationDeployer#prepareApplicationInstance。

### Actual Behavior

由于org.apache.dubbo.config.deploy.DefaultModuleDeployer#onModuleFailed传入错误的状态STARTED，导致执行DefaultApplicationDeployer#prepareApplicationInstance。

```java
private void onModuleFailed(String msg, Throwable ex) {
    try {
        setFailed(ex);
        logger.error(CONFIG_FAILED_START_MODEL, "", "", "Model start failed: " + msg, ex);
        applicationDeployer.notifyModuleChanged(moduleModel, DeployState.STARTED);
    } finally {
        completeStartFuture(false);
    }
}
```


onModuleStarted();
                    }
                });
            }
        } catch (Throwable e) {
            onModuleFailed(getIdentifier() + " start failed: " + e, e);
            throw e;
        }
        return startFuture;
    }
    @Override
    public Future getStartFuture() {
        return startFuture;
    }
    private boolean hasExportedServices() {
        return configManager.getServices().size() > 0;
    }
    @Override
    public void stop() throws IllegalStateException {
        moduleModel.destroy();
    }
    @Override
    public void preDestroy() throws IllegalStateException {
        if (isStopping() || isStopped()) {
            return;
        }
        onModuleStopping();
        offline();
    }
    private void offline() {