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### Problem Description

In a similar vein to #20831, some `NODE_OPTIONS` should be passable to packaged Electron apps. I think this list should include `--http-parser`.

`--http-parser` is not whitelisted for `NODE_OPTIONS` in packaged apps, but it should be, because Node 11.5.0 changed the default HTTP parser to one that breaks some use cases. See comment here for an explanation: https://github.com/cypress-io/cypress/issues/5602#issuecomment-571685626

### Proposed Solution

Whitelist `--http-parser=parser`.

### Alternatives Considered

- Don't know of any other potential alternatives besides writing a slow HTTP parser in Node.js and giving up the many conveniences that Node's HTTP parsing brings.


shell/common/node_bindings.cc
std::string options;
    env->GetVar("NODE_OPTIONS", &options);
    std::vector<std::string> parts = base::SplitString(
        options, " ", base::TRIM_WHITESPACE, base::SPLIT_WANT_NONEMPTY);
    bool is_packaged_app = IsPackagedApp();
    for (const auto& part : parts) {
      
      std::string option = part.substr(0, part.find("="));
      if (is_packaged_app &&
          allowed_in_packaged.find(option) == allowed_in_packaged.end()) {
        
        LOG(ERROR) << "Most NODE_OPTIONs are not supported in packaged apps."
                   << " See documentation for more details.";
        options.erase(options.find(option), part.length());
      } else if (disallowed.find(option) != disallowed.end()) {
        
        
        LOG(ERROR) << "The NODE_OPTION " << option
                   << " is not supported in Electron";
        options.erase(options.find(option), part.length());
      }
    }
    
    env->SetVar("NODE_OPTIONS", options);
  }
}
}  
namespace electron {
namespace {
std::unique_ptr<const char* []> StringVectorToArgArray(