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### Issue Details

* **Electron Version:**
  * 10.1.1
* **Operating System:**
  * macOS 10.15.4

We recently started launching as hidden on macOS (that is, `show: false` or `browserWindow.hide()` while loading the page, followed by `browserWindow.show()` when the dock icon is clicked). This results in some busted focus behavior on the first activation of the window. The second activation restores it.

### Expected Behavior
The guest page receives a `focus` event on the first activation of the app, when created with `show: false`.

### Actual Behavior
The guest page doesn't receive the first `focus` event. Subsequent activations do trigger a `focus` event.

### To Reproduce
[Electron Fiddle](https://gist.github.com/CharlieHess/c507468cd40630d04f58c6514100b997)

shell/browser/api/electron_api_web_contents.cc
content::SiteInstance* source_site_instance,
    content::mojom::WindowContainerType window_container_type,
    const GURL& opener_url,
    const std::string& frame_name,
    const GURL& target_url) {
  if (Emit("-will-add-new-contents", target_url, frame_name)) {
    return true;
  }
  return false;
}
content::WebConbContents::CreateCustomWebContents(
    content::RenderFrameHost* opener,
    content::SiteInstance* source_site_instance,
    bool is_new_browsing_instance,
    const GURL& opener_url,
    const std::string& frame_name,
    const GURL& target_url,
    const std::string& partition_id,
    content::SessionStorageNamespace* session_storage_namespace) {
  return nullptr;
}
void WebContents::AddNewContents(