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### Problem Description
Following #20322 - for me as an Electron user, it's unacceptable that `second-instance` manipulates order of arguments, it's incompatible e.g. with [yargs](https://github.com/yargs/yargs) style (e.g. `myapp.exe -a 1 -b 2`). Current behaviour on Windows is confusing, not well documented.

### Proposed Solution
Although I have [described a workaround](https://github.com/electron/electron/issues/20322#issuecomment-617773983), I would like Electron to somehow overcome Chromium deficiency and pass the original `argv` to the `second-instance` event or pass any custom data comfortably.

I think the best solution could be by adding a string only param msg to `app.requestSingleInstanceLock(msg)` and the [`second-instance`](https://www.electronjs.org/docs/api/app#event-second-instance) would returns the fourth value `msg`.

Other solution may be:
1. `second-instance` would get the original `argv`, not the Chromium one. 
2. If a user pass a custom data `app.requestSingleInstanceLock(argv)`, then the `second-instance` would return this custom data as `argv`, probably processed by `JSON.parse(JSON.stringify(argv))`.

shell/browser/api/electron_api_app.cc
base::Value options,
    net::CompletionOnceCallback callback,
    std::unique_ptr<CertificateManagerModel> model) {
  certificate_manager_model_ = std::move(model);
  int rv =
      ImportIntoCertStore(certificate_manager_model_.get(), std::move(options));
  std::move(callback).Run(rv);
}
#endif
#if defined(OS_WIN)
v8::Local<v8::Value> App::GetJumpListSettings() {
  JumpList jump_list(Browser::Get()->GetAppUserModelID());
  int min_items = 10;
  std::vector<JumpListItem> removed_items;
  if (jump_list.Begin(&min_items, &removed_items)) {
    
    jump_list.Abort();
  } else {
    LOG(ERROR) << "Failed to begin Jump List transaction.";
  }
  v8::Isolate* isolate = JavascriptEnvironment::GetIsolate();
  gin_helper::Dictionary dict = gin::Dictionary::CreateEmpty(isolate);
  dict.Set("minItems", min_items);
  dict.Set("removedItems", gin::ConvertToV8(isolate, removed_items));
  return dict.GetHandle();
}
JumpListResult App::SetJumpList(v8::Local<v8::Value> val,
                                gin::Arguments* args) {
  std::vector<JumpListCategory> categories;