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### Issue Details

* **Electron Version:**
  * 10.1.1
* **Operating System:**
  * macOS 10.15.4

We recently started launching as hidden on macOS (that is, `show: false` or `browserWindow.hide()` while loading the page, followed by `browserWindow.show()` when the dock icon is clicked). This results in some busted focus behavior on the first activation of the window. The second activation restores it.

### Expected Behavior
The guest page receives a `focus` event on the first activation of the app, when created with `show: false`.

### Actual Behavior
The guest page doesn't receive the first `focus` event. Subsequent activations do trigger a `focus` event.

### To Reproduce
[Electron Fiddle](https://gist.github.com/CharlieHess/c507468cd40630d04f58c6514100b997)

shell/browser/api/electron_api_web_contents.h
bool IsLoading() const;
  bool IsLoadingMainFrame() const;
  bool IsWaitingForResponse() const;
  void Stop();
  void ReloadIgnoringCache();
  void GoBack();
  void GoForward();
  void GoToOffset(int offset);
  const std::string GetWebRTCIPHandlingPolicy() const;
  void SetWebRTCIPHandlingPolicy(const std::string& webrtc_ip_handling_policy);
  bool IsCrashed() const;
  void SetUserAgent(const std::string& user_agent);
  std::string GetUserAgent();
  void InsertCSS(const std::string& css);
  v8::Local<v8::Promise> SavePage(const base::FilePath& full_file_path,
                                  const content::SavePageType& save_type);
  void OpenDevTools(gin::Arguments* args);
  void CloseDevTools();
  bool IsDevToolsOpened();
  bool IsDevToolsFocused();
  void ToggleDevTools();
  void EnableDeviceEmulation(const blink::DeviceEmulationParams& params);
  void DisableDeviceEmulation();
  void InspectElement(int x, int y);
  void InspectSharedWorker();
  void InspectSharedWorkerById(const std::string& workerId);
  std::vector<scoped_refptr<content::DevToolsAgentHost>> GetAllSharedWorkers();
  void InspectServiceWorker();
  void SetIgnoreMenuShortcuts(bool ignore);
  void SetAudioMuted(bool muted);