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### Issue Details

* **Electron Version:**
  * 10.1.1
* **Operating System:**
  * macOS 10.15.4

We recently started launching as hidden on macOS (that is, `show: false` or `browserWindow.hide()` while loading the page, followed by `browserWindow.show()` when the dock icon is clicked). This results in some busted focus behavior on the first activation of the window. The second activation restores it.

### Expected Behavior
The guest page receives a `focus` event on the first activation of the app, when created with `show: false`.

### Actual Behavior
The guest page doesn't receive the first `focus` event. Subsequent activations do trigger a `focus` event.

### To Reproduce
[Electron Fiddle](https://gist.github.com/CharlieHess/c507468cd40630d04f58c6514100b997)

shell/browser/api/electron_api_web_contents.cc
destroyable.
  lper::ObjectTemplateBuilder(isolate, templ)
      .SetMethod("getBackgroundThrottling",
                 &WebContents::GetBackgroundThrottling)
      .SetMethod("setBackgroundThrottling",
                 &WebContents::SetBackgroundThrottling)
      .SetMethod("getProcessId", &WebContents::GetProcessID)
      .SetMethod("getOSProcessId", &WebContents::GetOSProcessID)
      .SetMethod("_getOSProcessIdForFrame",
                 &WebContents::GetOSProcessIdForFrame)
      .SetMethod("equal", &WebContents::Equal)
      .SetMethod("_loadURL", &WebContents::LoadURL)
      .SetMethod("downloadURL", &WebContents::DownloadURL)
      .SetMethod("_getURL", &WebContents::GetURL)
      .SetMethod("getTitle", &WebContents::GetTitle)
      .SetMethod("isLoading", &WebContents::IsLoading)
      .SetMethod("isLoadingMainFrame", &WebContents::IsLoadingMainFrame)
      .SetMethod("isWaitingForResponse", &WebContents::IsWaitingForResponse)
      .SetMethod("_stop", &WebContents::Stop)
      .SetMethod("_goBack", &WebContents::GoBack)
      .SetMethod("_goForward", &WebContents::GoForward)
      .SetMethod("_goToOffset", &WebContents::GoToOffset)
      .SetMethod("isCrashed", &WebContents::IsCrashed)
      .SetMethod("setUserAgent", &WebContents::SetUserAgent)
      .SetMethod("getUserAgent", &WebContents::GetUserAgent)
      .SetMethod("savePage", &WebContents::SavePage)
      .SetMethod("openDevTools", &WebContents::OpenDevTools)
      .SetMethod("closeDevTools", &WebContents::CloseDevTools)
      .SetMethod("isDevToolsOpened", &WebContents::IsDevToolsOpened)
      .SetMethod("isDevToolsFocused", &WebContents::IsDevToolsFocused)