### Preflight Checklist

- [X] I have read the [Contributing Guidelines](https://github.com/electron/electron/blob/master/CONTRIBUTING.md) for this project.
- [X] I agree to follow the [Code of Conduct](https://github.com/electron/electron/blob/master/CODE_OF_CONDUCT.md) that this project adheres to.
- [X] I have searched the [issue tracker](https://www.github.com/electron/electron/issues) for a feature request that matches the one I want to file, without success.

### Electron Version

13.1.2

### What operating system are you using?

macOS

### Operating System Version

macOS Big Sur 11.4

### What arch are you using?

x64

### Last Known Working Electron version

11.4.5

### Expected Behavior

  - create the main window with `show: false` option
  - create the child window with a loading spinner and show it immediately
  - after 10 sec hide the child window and show the main one

### Actual Behavior

The main window is shown along with the child window, disregarding the `show: false` flag. This behavior is seen only on macOS.

### Testcase Gist URL

https://gist.github.com/f2a3a5e8d9130223f18b8ddade390f20

### Additional Information

_No response_
shell/browser/api/electron_api_base_window.cc
const gin_helper::Dictionary& options) {
  
  gin::Handle<BaseWindow> parent;
  if (options.Get("parent", &parent) && !parent.IsEmpty())
    parent_window_.Reset(isolate, parent.ToV8());
#if BUILDFLAG(ENABLE_OSR)
  
  gin_helper::Dictionary web_preferences;
  bool offscreen;
  if (options.Get(options::kWebPreferences, &web_preferences) &&
      web_preferences.Get(options::kOffscreen, &offscreen) && offscreen) {
    const_cast<gin_helper::Dictionary&>(options).Set(options::kFrame, false);
  }
#endif
  
  window_.reset(NativeWindow::Create(
      options, parent.IsEmpty() ? nullptr : parent->window_.get()));
  window_->AddObserver(this);
#if defined(TOOLKIT_VIEWS)
  v8::Local<v8::Value> icon;
  if (options.Get(options::kIcon, &icon)) {
    SetIconImpl(isolate, icon, NativeImage::OnConvertError::kWarn);
  }
#endif
}
BaseWindow::BaseWindow(gin_helper::Arguments* args,