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### Issue Details

* **Electron Version:**
  * 10.1.1
* **Operating System:**
  * macOS 10.15.4

We recently started launching as hidden on macOS (that is, `show: false` or `browserWindow.hide()` while loading the page, followed by `browserWindow.show()` when the dock icon is clicked). This results in some busted focus behavior on the first activation of the window. The second activation restores it.

### Expected Behavior
The guest page receives a `focus` event on the first activation of the app, when created with `show: false`.

### Actual Behavior
The guest page doesn't receive the first `focus` event. Subsequent activations do trigger a `focus` event.

### To Reproduce
[Electron Fiddle](https://gist.github.com/CharlieHess/c507468cd40630d04f58c6514100b997)

shell/browser/api/electron_api_web_contents.cc
static
gin::Wo WebContents::kWo = {gin::kEmbedderNativeGin};
e api
e electron
namespace {
using electron::api::GetAllWebContents;
using electron::api::WebContents;
std::vector<gin::HContents>> GetAllWebContentsAsV8(
    v8::Isolate* isolate) {
  std::vector<gin::HContents>> list;
  for (auto iter = base::IDMap<WebContents*>::iterator(&GetAllWebContents());
       !iter.IsAtEnd(); iter.Advance()) {
    list.push_back(gin::CreateHandle(isolate, iter.GetCurrentValue()));
  }
  return list;
}
void Initialize(v8::Lobject> exports,
                v8::Local<v8::Value> unused,
                v8::Local<v8::Context> context,
                void* priv) {
  v8::Isolate* isolate = context->GetIsolate();
  gin_helper::Dictionary dict(isolate, exports);
  dict.Set("WebContents", WebContents::GetConstructor(context));
  dict.SetMethod("create", &WebContents::Create);
  dict.SetMethod("fromId", &WebContents::FromID);
  dict.SetMethod("getAllWebContents", &GetAllWebContentsAsV8);
}
e
NODULE_CONTEXT_AWARE(electron_browser_ontents, Initialize)