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### Issue Details

* **Electron Version:**
  * 10.1.1
* **Operating System:**
  * macOS 10.15.4

We recently started launching as hidden on macOS (that is, `show: false` or `browserWindow.hide()` while loading the page, followed by `browserWindow.show()` when the dock icon is clicked). This results in some busted focus behavior on the first activation of the window. The second activation restores it.

### Expected Behavior
The guest page receives a `focus` event on the first activation of the app, when created with `show: false`.

### Actual Behavior
The guest page doesn't receive the first `focus` event. Subsequent activations do trigger a `focus` event.

### To Reproduce
[Electron Fiddle](https://gist.github.com/CharlieHess/c507468cd40630d04f58c6514100b997)

shell/browser/api/electron_api_web_contents.cc
GoToOffset(offset);
  return false;
}
void WebContents::FindReply(content::WebContents* ontents,
                            int request_id,
                            int number_of_matches,
                            const gfx::Rect& selection_rect,
                            int active_match_ordinal,
                            bool final_update) {
  if (!final_update)
    return;
  v8::Isolate* isolate = JavascriptEnvironment::GetIsolate();
  v8::Locker locker(isolate);
  v8::HandleScope handle_scope(isolate);
  gin_helper::Dictionary result = gin::Dictionary::CreateEmpty(isolate);
  result.Set("requestId", request_id);
  result.Set("matches", number_of_matches);
  result.Set("selectionArea", selection_rect);
  result.Set("activeMatchOrdinal", active_match_ordinal);
  result.Set("finalUpdate", final_update);  
  Emit("found-in-page", result.GetHandle());
}
bool WebContents::CheckMediaAccessPermission(