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### Issue Details

* **Electron Version:**
  * 10.1.1
* **Operating System:**
  * macOS 10.15.4

We recently started launching as hidden on macOS (that is, `show: false` or `browserWindow.hide()` while loading the page, followed by `browserWindow.show()` when the dock icon is clicked). This results in some busted focus behavior on the first activation of the window. The second activation restores it.

### Expected Behavior
The guest page receives a `focus` event on the first activation of the app, when created with `show: false`.

### Actual Behavior
The guest page doesn't receive the first `focus` event. Subsequent activations do trigger a `focus` event.

### To Reproduce
[Electron Fiddle](https://gist.github.com/CharlieHess/c507468cd40630d04f58c6514100b997)

shell/browser/api/electron_api_web_contents.cc
v8::Isolate* isolate,
    const base::FilePath& file_path) {
  gin_helper::Promise<void> promise(isolate);
  v8::Local<v8::Promise> handle = promise.GetHandle();
  base::ThreadRestrictions::ScopedAllowIO allow_io;
  base::File file(file_path,
                  base::File::FLAG_CREATE_ALWAYS | base::File::FLAG_WRITE);
  if (!file.IsValid()) {
    promise.RejectWithErrorMessage("takeHeapSnapshot failed");
    return handle;
  }
  auto* frame_host = ontents()->GetMainFrame();
  if (!frame_host) {
    promise.RejectWithErrorMessage("takeHeapSnapshot failed");
    return handle;
  }
   This dance with `base::Owned` is to ensure that the interface stays alive
   until the callback is called. Otherwise it would be closed at the end of
   this function.
  auto electron_renderer =
      std::make_unique<mojo::AssociatedRemote<mojom::ElectronRenderer>>();
  frame_host->GetRemoteAssociatedInterfaces()->GetInterface(
      electron_renderer.get());
  auto* raw_ptr = electron_renderer.get();
  (*raw_ptr)->TakeHeapSnapshot(
      mojo::WrapPlatformFile(file.TakePlatformFile()),
      base::BindOnce(
          [](mojo::AssociatedRemote<mojom::ElectronRenderer>* ep,
             gin_helper::Promise<void> promise, bool success) {