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### Issue Details

* **Electron Version:**
  * 10.1.1
* **Operating System:**
  * macOS 10.15.4

We recently started launching as hidden on macOS (that is, `show: false` or `browserWindow.hide()` while loading the page, followed by `browserWindow.show()` when the dock icon is clicked). This results in some busted focus behavior on the first activation of the window. The second activation restores it.

### Expected Behavior
The guest page receives a `focus` event on the first activation of the app, when created with `show: false`.

### Actual Behavior
The guest page doesn't receive the first `focus` event. Subsequent activations do trigger a `focus` event.

### To Reproduce
[Electron Fiddle](https://gist.github.com/CharlieHess/c507468cd40630d04f58c6514100b997)

shell/browser/api/electron_api_web_contents.cc
#endif
      .SetMethod("addWorkSpace", &WebContents::AddWorkSpace)
      .SetMethod("removeWorkSpace", &WebContents::RemoveWorkSpace)
      .SetMethod("showDefinitionForSelection",
                 &WebContents::ShowDefinitionForSelection)
      .SetMethod("copyImageAt", &WebContents::CopyImageAt)
      .SetMethod("capturePage", &WebContents::CapturePage)
      .SetMethod("setEmbedder", &WebContents::SetEmbedder)
      .SetMethod("setDevToolsWebContents", &WebContents::SetDevToolsWebContents)
      .SetMethod("getNativeView", &WebContents::GetNativeView)
      .SetMethod("incrementCapturerCount", &WebContents::IncrementCapturerCount)
      .SetMethod("decrementCapturerCount", &WebContents::DecrementCapturerCount)
      .SetMethod("isBeingCaptured", &WebContents::IsBeingCaptured)
      .SetMethod("setWebRTCIPHandlingPolicy",
                 &WebContents::SetWebRTCIPHandlingPolicy)
      .SetMethod("getWebRTCIPHandlingPolicy",
                 &WebContents::GetWebRTCIPHandlingPolicy)
      .SetMethod("_grantOriginAccess", &WebContents::GrantOriginAccess)
      .SetMethod("takeHeapSnapshot", &WebContents::TakeHeapSnapshot)
      .SetProperty("id", &WebContents::ID)
      .SetProperty("session", &WebContents::Session)
      .SetProperty("hostWebContents", &WebContents::HostWebContents)
      .SetProperty("devToolsWebContents", &WebContents::DevToolsWebContents)
      .SetProperty("debugger", &WebContents::Debugger)
      .Build();
}
const char* WebContents::GetTypeName() {
  return "WebContents";
}
ElectronBrowserContext* WebContents::GetBrowserContext() const {