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### Issue Details

* **Electron Version:**
  * 10.1.1
* **Operating System:**
  * macOS 10.15.4

We recently started launching as hidden on macOS (that is, `show: false` or `browserWindow.hide()` while loading the page, followed by `browserWindow.show()` when the dock icon is clicked). This results in some busted focus behavior on the first activation of the window. The second activation restores it.

### Expected Behavior
The guest page receives a `focus` event on the first activation of the app, when created with `show: false`.

### Actual Behavior
The guest page doesn't receive the first `focus` event. Subsequent activations do trigger a `focus` event.

### To Reproduce
[Electron Fiddle](https://gist.github.com/CharlieHess/c507468cd40630d04f58c6514100b997)

shell/browser/api/electron_api_web_contents.cc
#include "shell/common/gin_helper/dictionary.h"
#include "shell/common/gin_helper/object_template_builder.h"
#include "shell/common/language_util.h"
#include "shell/common/mouse_util.h"
#include "shell/common/node_includes.h"
#include "shell/common/options_switches.h"
#include "shell/common/v8_value_serializer.h"
#include "third_party/blink/public/common/associated_interfaces/associated_interface_provider.h"
#include "third_party/blink/public/common/input/web_input_event.h"
#include "third_party/blink/public/common/messaging/transferable_message_mojom_traits.h"
#include "third_party/blink/public/common/page/page_zoom.h"
#include "third_party/blink/public/mojom/frame/find_in_page.mojom.h"
#include "third_party/blink/public/mojom/frame/fullscreen.mojom.h"
#include "third_party/blink/public/mojom/messaging/transferable_message.mojom.h"
#include "third_party/blink/public/mojom/renderer_preferences.mojom.h"
#include "ui/base/cursor/cursor.h"
#include "ui/base/cursor/mojom/cursor_type.mojom-shared.h"
#include "ui/display/screen.h"
#include "ui/events/base_event_utils.h"
#if BUILDFLAG(ENABLE_OSR)
#include "shell/browser/osr/osr_render_widget_host_view.h"
#include "shell/browser/osr/osr_ontents_view.h"
#endif
#if !defined(OS_MAC)
#include "ui/aura/window.h"
#else
#include "ui/base/cocoa/defaults_utils.h"
#endif
#if defined(OS_LINUX)
#include "ui/views/linux_ui/linux_ui.h"