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### Issue Details

* **Electron Version:**
  * 10.1.1
* **Operating System:**
  * macOS 10.15.4

We recently started launching as hidden on macOS (that is, `show: false` or `browserWindow.hide()` while loading the page, followed by `browserWindow.show()` when the dock icon is clicked). This results in some busted focus behavior on the first activation of the window. The second activation restores it.

### Expected Behavior
The guest page receives a `focus` event on the first activation of the app, when created with `show: false`.

### Actual Behavior
The guest page doesn't receive the first `focus` event. Subsequent activations do trigger a `focus` event.

### To Reproduce
[Electron Fiddle](https://gist.github.com/CharlieHess/c507468cd40630d04f58c6514100b997)

shell/browser/api/electron_api_web_contents.cc
content::NavigationHandle* navigation_handle) {
  EmitNavigationEvent("did-start-navigation", navigation_handle);
}
void WebContents::DidRedirectNavigation(
    content::NavigationHandle* navigation_handle) {
  EmitNavigationEvent("did-redirect-navigation", navigation_handle);
}
void WebContents::DidFinishNavigation(
    content::NavigationHandle* navigation_handle) {
  if (!navigation_handle->HasCommitted())
    return;
  bool is_main_frame = navigation_handle->IsInMainFrame();
  content::RenderFrameHost* frame_host =
      navigation_handle->GetRenderFrameHost();
  int frame_process_id = -1, frame_routing_id = -1;
  if (frame_host) {
    frame_process_id = frame_host->GetProcess()->GetID();
    frame_routing_id = frame_host->GetRoutingID();
  }
  if (!navigation_handle->IsErrorPage()) {
     FIXME: All the Emit() calls below could potentially result in |this|
     being destroyed (by JS listening for the event and calling
     webContents.destroy()).
    auto url = navigation_handle->GetURL();
    bool is_same_document = navigation_handle->IsSameDocument();
    if (is_same_document) {
      Emit("did-navigate-in-page", url, is_main_frame, frame_process_id,
           frame_routing_id);