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### Problem Description
Following #20322 - for me as an Electron user, it's unacceptable that `second-instance` manipulates order of arguments, it's incompatible e.g. with [yargs](https://github.com/yargs/yargs) style (e.g. `myapp.exe -a 1 -b 2`). Current behaviour on Windows is confusing, not well documented.

### Proposed Solution
Although I have [described a workaround](https://github.com/electron/electron/issues/20322#issuecomment-617773983), I would like Electron to somehow overcome Chromium deficiency and pass the original `argv` to the `second-instance` event or pass any custom data comfortably.

I think the best solution could be by adding a string only param msg to `app.requestSingleInstanceLock(msg)` and the [`second-instance`](https://www.electronjs.org/docs/api/app#event-second-instance) would returns the fourth value `msg`.

Other solution may be:
1. `second-instance` would get the original `argv`, not the Chromium one. 
2. If a user pass a custom data `app.requestSingleInstanceLock(argv)`, then the `second-instance` would return this custom data as `argv`, probably processed by `JSON.parse(JSON.stringify(argv))`.

shell/browser/api/electron_api_app.cc
WebContents* api_web_contents = WebContents::From(web_contents);
    
    if (api_web_contents) {
      api_web_contents->OnCreateWindow(target_url, referrer, frame_name,
                                       disposition, raw_features, body);
    }
  }
  return false;
}
void App::AllowCertificateError(
    content::WebContents* web_contents,
    int cert_error,
    const net::SSLInfo& ssl_info,
    const GURL& request_url,
    bool is_main_frame_request,
    bool strict_enforcement,
    base::OnceCallback<void(content::CertificateRequestResultType)> callback) {
  auto adapted_callback = base::AdaptCallbackForRepeating(std::move(callback));
  v8::Isolate* isolate = JavascriptEnvironment::GetIsolate();
  v8::Locker locker(isolate);
  v8::HandleScope handle_scope(isolate);
  bool prevent_default = Emit(
      "certificate-error", WebContents::FromOrCreate(isolate, web_contents),
      request_url, net::ErrorToString(cert_error), ssl_info.cert,
      adapted_callback, is_main_frame_request);
  
  if (!prevent_default)
    adapted_callback.Run(content::CERTIFICATE_REQUEST_RESULT_TYPE_DENY);
}
base::OnceClosure App::SelectClientCertificate(