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### Issue Details

* **Electron Version:**
  * 10.1.1
* **Operating System:**
  * macOS 10.15.4

We recently started launching as hidden on macOS (that is, `show: false` or `browserWindow.hide()` while loading the page, followed by `browserWindow.show()` when the dock icon is clicked). This results in some busted focus behavior on the first activation of the window. The second activation restores it.

### Expected Behavior
The guest page receives a `focus` event on the first activation of the app, when created with `show: false`.

### Actual Behavior
The guest page doesn't receive the first `focus` event. Subsequent activations do trigger a `focus` event.

### To Reproduce
[Electron Fiddle](https://gist.github.com/CharlieHess/c507468cd40630d04f58c6514100b997)

shell/browser/api/electron_api_web_contents.cc
.SetMethod("startDrag", &WebContents::StartDrag)
      .SetMethod("attachToIframe", &WebContents::AttachToIframe)
      .SetMethod("detachFromOuterFrame", &WebContents::DetachFromOuterFrame)
      .SetMethod("isOffscreen", &WebContents::IsOffScreen)
#if BUILDFLAG(ENABLE_OSR)
      .SetMethod("startPainting", &WebContents::StartPainting)
      .SetMethod("stopPainting", &WebContents::StopPainting)
      .SetMethod("isPainting", &WebContents::IsPainting)
      .SetMethod("setFrameRate", &WebContents::SetFrameRate)
      .SetMethod("getFrameRate", &WebContents::GetFrameRate)
#endif
      .SetMethod("invalidate", &WebContents::Invalidate)
      .SetMethod("setZoomLevel", &WebContents::SetZoomLevel)
      .SetMethod("getZoomLevel", &WebContents::GetZoomLevel)
      .SetMethod("setZoomFactor", &WebContents::SetZoomFactor)
      .SetMethod("getZoomFactor", &WebContents::GetZoomFactor)
      .SetMethod("getType", &WebContents::GetType)
      .SetMethod("_getPreloadPaths", &WebContents::GetPreloadPaths)
      .SetMethod("getWebPreferences", &WebContents::GetWebPreferences)
      .SetMethod("getLastWebPreferences", &WebContents::GetLastWebPreferences)
      .SetMethod("getOwnerBrowserWindow", &WebContents::GetOwnerBrowserWindow)
      .SetMethod("inspectServiceWorker", &WebContents::InspectServiceWorker)
      .SetMethod("inspectSharedWorker", &WebContents::InspectSharedWorker)
      .SetMethod("inspectSharedWorkerById",
                 &WebContents::InspectSharedWorkerById)
      .SetMethod("getAllSharedWorkers", &WebContents::GetAllSharedWorkers)
#if BUILDFLAG(ENABLE_PRINTING)
      .SetMethod("_print", &WebContents::Print)
      .SetMethod("_getPrinters", &WebContents::GetPrinterList)
      .SetMethod("_printToPDF", &WebContents::PrintToPDF)