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### Issue Details

* **Electron Version:**
  * 10.1.1
* **Operating System:**
  * macOS 10.15.4

We recently started launching as hidden on macOS (that is, `show: false` or `browserWindow.hide()` while loading the page, followed by `browserWindow.show()` when the dock icon is clicked). This results in some busted focus behavior on the first activation of the window. The second activation restores it.

### Expected Behavior
The guest page receives a `focus` event on the first activation of the app, when created with `show: false`.

### Actual Behavior
The guest page doesn't receive the first `focus` event. Subsequent activations do trigger a `focus` event.

### To Reproduce
[Electron Fiddle](https://gist.github.com/CharlieHess/c507468cd40630d04f58c6514100b997)

shell/browser/api/electron_api_web_contents.cc
.SetMethod("enableDeviceEmulation", &WebContents::EnableDeviceEmulation)
      .SetMethod("disableDeviceEmulation", &WebContents::DisableDeviceEmulation)
      .SetMethod("toggleDevTools", &WebContents::ToggleDevTools)
      .SetMethod("inspectElement", &WebContents::InspectElement)
      .SetMethod("setIgnoreMenuShortcuts", &WebContents::SetIgnoreMenuShortcuts)
      .SetMethod("setAudioMuted", &WebContents::SetAudioMuted)
      .SetMethod("isAudioMuted", &WebContents::IsAudioMuted)
      .SetMethod("isCurrentlyAudible", &WebContents::IsCurrentlyAudible)
      .SetMethod("undo", &WebContents::Undo)
      .SetMethod("redo", &WebContents::Redo)
      .SetMethod("cut", &WebContents::Cut)
      .SetMethod("copy", &WebContents::Copy)
      .SetMethod("paste", &WebContents::Paste)
      .SetMethod("pasteAndMatchStyle", &WebContents::PasteAndMatchStyle)
      .SetMethod("delete", &WebContents::Delete)
      .SetMethod("selectAll", &WebContents::SelectAll)
      .SetMethod("unselect", &WebContents::Unselect)
      .SetMethod("replace", &WebContents::Replace)
      .SetMethod("replaceMisspelling", &WebContents::ReplaceMisspelling)
      .SetMethod("findInPage", &WebContents::FindInPage)
      .SetMethod("stopFindInPage", &WebContents::StopFindInPage)
      .SetMethod("focus", &WebContents::Focus)
      .SetMethod("isFocused", &WebContents::IsFocused)
      .SetMethod("tabTraverse", &WebContents::TabTraverse)
      .SetMethod("_send", &WebContents::SendIPCMessage)
      .SetMethod("_postMessage", &WebContents::PostMessage)
      .SetMethod("_sendToFrame", &WebContents::SendIPCMessageToFrame)
      .SetMethod("sendInputEvent", &WebContents::SendInputEvent)
      .SetMethod("beginFrameSubscription", &WebContents::BeginFrameSubscription)
      .SetMethod("endFrameSubscription", &WebContents::EndFrameSubscription)