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### Issue Details

* **Electron Version:**
  * 10.1.1
* **Operating System:**
  * macOS 10.15.4

We recently started launching as hidden on macOS (that is, `show: false` or `browserWindow.hide()` while loading the page, followed by `browserWindow.show()` when the dock icon is clicked). This results in some busted focus behavior on the first activation of the window. The second activation restores it.

### Expected Behavior
The guest page receives a `focus` event on the first activation of the app, when created with `show: false`.

### Actual Behavior
The guest page doesn't receive the first `focus` event. Subsequent activations do trigger a `focus` event.

### To Reproduce
[Electron Fiddle](https://gist.github.com/CharlieHess/c507468cd40630d04f58c6514100b997)

shell/browser/api/electron_api_web_contents.cc
Emit("devtools-reload-page");
}
void WebContents::DevToolsFocused() {
  Emit("devtools-focused");
}
void WebContents::DevToolsOpened() {
  v8::Isolate* isolate = JavascriptEnvironment::GetIsolate();
  v8::Locker locker(isolate);
  v8::HandleScope handle_scope(isolate);
  auto handle =
      FromOrCreate(isolate, managed_ontents()->GetDevToolsWebContents());
  devtools_ontents_.Reset(isolate, handle.ToV8());
   Set inspected tabID.
  base::Value tab_id(ID());
  managed_ontents()->CallClientFunction("DevToolsAPI.setInspectedTabId",
                                             &tab_id, nullptr, nullptr);
   Inherit owner window in devtools when it doesn't have one.
  auto* devtools = managed_ontents()->GetDevToolsWebContents();
  bool has_window = devtools->GetUserData(NativeWindowRelay::UserDataKey());
  if (owner_window() && !has_window)
    handle->SetOwnerWindow(devtools, owner_window());
  Emit("devtools-opened");
}
void WebContents::DevToolsClosed() {