### Preflight Checklist

- [X] I have read the [Contributing Guidelines](https://github.com/electron/electron/blob/master/CONTRIBUTING.md) for this project.
- [X] I agree to follow the [Code of Conduct](https://github.com/electron/electron/blob/master/CODE_OF_CONDUCT.md) that this project adheres to.
- [X] I have searched the [issue tracker](https://www.github.com/electron/electron/issues) for a feature request that matches the one I want to file, without success.

### Electron Version

13.1.2

### What operating system are you using?

macOS

### Operating System Version

macOS Big Sur 11.4

### What arch are you using?

x64

### Last Known Working Electron version

11.4.5

### Expected Behavior

  - create the main window with `show: false` option
  - create the child window with a loading spinner and show it immediately
  - after 10 sec hide the child window and show the main one

### Actual Behavior

The main window is shown along with the child window, disregarding the `show: false` flag. This behavior is seen only on macOS.

### Testcase Gist URL

https://gist.github.com/f2a3a5e8d9130223f18b8ddade390f20

### Additional Information

_No response_
shell/browser/api/electron_api_base_window.cc
v8::Handle<v8::Value> val,
                     electron::TaskbarHost::ThumbarButton* out) {
    gin::Dictionary dict(isolate);
    if (!gin::ConvertFromV8(isolate, val, &dict))
      return false;
    dict.Get("click", &(out->clicked_callback));
    dict.Get("tooltip", &(out->tooltip));
    dict.Get("flags", &out->flags);
    return dict.Get("icon", &(out->icon));
  }
};
}  
#endif
namespace electron {
namespace api {
namespace {
v8::Local<v8::Value> ToBuffer(v8::Isolate* isolate, void* val, int size) {
  auto buffer = node::Buffer::Copy(isolate, static_cast<char*>(val), size);
  if (buffer.IsEmpty())
    return v8::Null(isolate);
  else
    return buffer.ToLocalChecked();
}
}  
BaseWindow::BaseWindow(v8::Isolate* isolate,