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### Issue Details

* **Electron Version:**
  * 10.1.1
* **Operating System:**
  * macOS 10.15.4

We recently started launching as hidden on macOS (that is, `show: false` or `browserWindow.hide()` while loading the page, followed by `browserWindow.show()` when the dock icon is clicked). This results in some busted focus behavior on the first activation of the window. The second activation restores it.

### Expected Behavior
The guest page receives a `focus` event on the first activation of the app, when created with `show: false`.

### Actual Behavior
The guest page doesn't receive the first `focus` event. Subsequent activations do trigger a `focus` event.

### To Reproduce
[Electron Fiddle](https://gist.github.com/CharlieHess/c507468cd40630d04f58c6514100b997)

shell/browser/api/electron_api_web_contents.cc
#include "shell/browser/api/message_port.h"
#include "shell/browser/browser.h"
#include "shell/browser/child_ontents_tracker.h"
#include "shell/browser/electron_autofill_driver_factory.h"
#include "shell/browser/electron_browser_client.h"
#include "shell/browser/electron_browser_context.h"
#include "shell/browser/electron_browser_main_parts.h"
#include "shell/browser/electron_javascript_dialog_manager.h"
#include "shell/browser/electron_navigation_throttle.h"
#include "shell/browser/lib/bluetooth_chooser.h"
#include "shell/browser/native_window.h"
#include "shell/browser/session_preferences.h"
#include "shell/browser/ui/drag_util.h"
#include "shell/browser/ui/inspectable_ontents.h"
#include "shell/browser/ui/inspectable_ontents_view.h"
#include "shell/browser/ontents_permission_helper.h"
#include "shell/browser/ontents_preferences.h"
#include "shell/browser/ontents_zoom_controller.h"
#include "shell/browser/web_view_guest_delegate.h"
#include "shell/common/api/electron_api_native_image.h"
#include "shell/common/color_util.h"
#include "shell/common/gin_converters/blink_converter.h"
#include "shell/common/gin_converters/callback_converter.h"
#include "shell/common/gin_converters/content_converter.h"
#include "shell/common/gin_converters/file_path_converter.h"
#include "shell/common/gin_converters/gfx_converter.h"
#include "shell/common/gin_converters/gurl_converter.h"
#include "shell/common/gin_converters/image_converter.h"
#include "shell/common/gin_converters/net_converter.h"
#include "shell/common/gin_converters/value_converter.h"