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### Problem Description
Following #20322 - for me as an Electron user, it's unacceptable that `second-instance` manipulates order of arguments, it's incompatible e.g. with [yargs](https://github.com/yargs/yargs) style (e.g. `myapp.exe -a 1 -b 2`). Current behaviour on Windows is confusing, not well documented.

### Proposed Solution
Although I have [described a workaround](https://github.com/electron/electron/issues/20322#issuecomment-617773983), I would like Electron to somehow overcome Chromium deficiency and pass the original `argv` to the `second-instance` event or pass any custom data comfortably.

I think the best solution could be by adding a string only param msg to `app.requestSingleInstanceLock(msg)` and the [`second-instance`](https://www.electronjs.org/docs/api/app#event-second-instance) would returns the fourth value `msg`.

Other solution may be:
1. `second-instance` would get the original `argv`, not the Chromium one. 
2. If a user pass a custom data `app.requestSingleInstanceLock(argv)`, then the `second-instance` would return this custom data as `argv`, probably processed by `JSON.parse(JSON.stringify(argv))`.

shell/browser/api/electron_api_app.cc
std::string file_data, cert_path;
  std::u16string password;
  net::ScopedCERTCertificateList imported_certs;
  int rv = -1;
  std::string* cert_path_ptr = options.FindStringKey("certificate");
  if (cert_path_ptr)
    cert_path = *cert_path_ptr;
  std::string* pwd = options.FindStringKey("password");
  if (pwd)
    password = base::UTF8ToUTF16(*pwd);
  if (!cert_path.empty()) {
    if (base::ReadFileToString(base::FilePath(cert_path), &file_data)) {
      auto module = model->cert_db()->GetPrivateSlot();
      rv = model->ImportFromPKCS12(module.get(), file_data, password, true,
                                   &imported_certs);
      if (imported_certs.size() > 1) {
        auto it = imported_certs.begin();
        ++it;  
        for (; it != imported_certs.end(); ++it)
          rv &= model->SetCertTrust(it->get(), net::CA_CERT,
                                    net::NSSCertDatabase::TRUSTED_SSL);
      }
    }
  }
  return rv;
}
#endif
void OnIconDataAvailable(gin_helper::Promise<gfx::Image> promise,