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- [X] I have searched the [issue tracker](https://www.github.com/electron/electron/issues) for a feature request that matches the one I want to file, without success.

### Electron Version

14.0.1

### What operating system are you using?

Windows

### Operating System Version

Windows 10 19042.985

### What arch are you using?

x64

### Last Known Working Electron version

_No response_

### Expected Behavior

1) no crash should happen
2) I would expect both the browserWindow and its webContents to have isDestroyed set to true

### Actual Behavior

```
browserWindow.webContents.on("destroyed", ( ) => {
  console.log("isDestroyed", browserWindow.isDestroyed(), browserWindow.webContents.isDestroyed());
  browserWindow.close();
});
```

This will cause a crash
Additionally the log will show: isDestroyed false true
Is this expected behavior? I thought that the window and the webContents are related to each other

### Testcase Gist URL

https://gist.github.com/t57ser/319bcb4e6e71e6097094e46db526fae7

### Additional Information

_No response_
shell/browser/api/electron_api_browser_window.cc
if (options.Get(options::kBackgroundColor, &value)) {
    web_preferences.SetHidden(options::kBackgroundColor, value);
  } else if (!vibrancy_type.empty() || transparent) {
    
    
    
    web_preferences.SetHidden(options::kBackgroundColor,
                              ToRGBAHex(SK_ColorTRANSPARENT));
  }
  
  
  bool paint_when_initially_hidden = true;
  options.Get("paintWhenInitiallyHidden", &paint_when_initially_hidden);
  if (!paint_when_initially_hidden) {
    bool show = true;
    options.Get(options::kShow, &show);
    web_preferences.Set(options::kShow, show);
  }
  bool titleBarOverlay = false;
  options.Get(options::ktitleBarOverlay, &titleBarOverlay);
  if (titleBarOverlay) {
    std::string enabled_features = "";
    if (web_preferences.Get(options::kEnableBlinkFeatures, &enabled_features)) {
      enabled_features += ",";
    }
    enabled_features += features::kWebAppWindowControlsOverlay.name;
    web_preferences.Set(options::kEnableBlinkFeatures, enabled_features);
  }