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### Problem Description
Following #20322 - for me as an Electron user, it's unacceptable that `second-instance` manipulates order of arguments, it's incompatible e.g. with [yargs](https://github.com/yargs/yargs) style (e.g. `myapp.exe -a 1 -b 2`). Current behaviour on Windows is confusing, not well documented.

### Proposed Solution
Although I have [described a workaround](https://github.com/electron/electron/issues/20322#issuecomment-617773983), I would like Electron to somehow overcome Chromium deficiency and pass the original `argv` to the `second-instance` event or pass any custom data comfortably.

I think the best solution could be by adding a string only param msg to `app.requestSingleInstanceLock(msg)` and the [`second-instance`](https://www.electronjs.org/docs/api/app#event-second-instance) would returns the fourth value `msg`.

Other solution may be:
1. `second-instance` would get the original `argv`, not the Chromium one. 
2. If a user pass a custom data `app.requestSingleInstanceLock(argv)`, then the `second-instance` would return this custom data as `argv`, probably processed by `JSON.parse(JSON.stringify(argv))`.

shell/browser/api/electron_api_app.cc
return app_path_;
}
void App::SetAppPath(const base::FilePath& app_path) {
  app_path_ = app_path;
}
#if !defined(OS_MAC)
void App::SetAppLogsPath(gin_helper::ErrorThrower thrower,
                         absl::optional<base::FilePath> custom_path) {
  if (custom_path.has_value()) {
    if (!custom_path->IsAbsolute()) {
      thrower.ThrowError("Path must be absolute");
      return;
    }
    {
      base::ThreadRestrictions::ScopedAllowIO allow_io;
      base::PathService::Override(DIR_APP_LOGS, custom_path.value());
    }
  } else {
    base::FilePath path;
    if (base::PathService::Get(chrome::DIR_USER_DATA, &path)) {
      path = path.Append(base::FilePath::FromUTF8Unsafe("logs"));
      {
        base::ThreadRestrictions::ScopedAllowIO allow_io;
        base::PathService::Override(DIR_APP_LOGS, path);
      }
    }
  }
}
#endif
bool App::IsPackaged() {