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### Issue Details

* **Electron Version:**
  * 10.1.1
* **Operating System:**
  * macOS 10.15.4

We recently started launching as hidden on macOS (that is, `show: false` or `browserWindow.hide()` while loading the page, followed by `browserWindow.show()` when the dock icon is clicked). This results in some busted focus behavior on the first activation of the window. The second activation restores it.

### Expected Behavior
The guest page receives a `focus` event on the first activation of the app, when created with `show: false`.

### Actual Behavior
The guest page doesn't receive the first `focus` event. Subsequent activations do trigger a `focus` event.

### To Reproduce
[Electron Fiddle](https://gist.github.com/CharlieHess/c507468cd40630d04f58c6514100b997)

shell/browser/api/electron_api_web_contents.cc
auto* view = ontents()->GetRenderWidgetHostView();
  if (!view)
    return false;
  if (GetType() != Type::BACKGROUND_PAGE) {
    auto* window = ontents()->GetNativeView()->GetToplevelWindow();
    if (window && !window->IsVisible())
      return false;
  }
  return view->HasFocus();
}
#endif
void WebContents::TabTraverse(bool reverse) {
  ontents()->FocusThroughTabTraversal(reverse);
}
bool WebContents::SendIPCMessage(bool internal,
                                 bool send_to_all,
                                 const std::string& channel,
                                 v8::Local<v8::Value> args) {
  v8::Isolate* isolate = JavascriptEnvironment::GetIsolate();
  blink::CloneableMessage message;
  if (!gin::ConvertFromV8(isolate, args, &message)) {
    isolate->ThrowException(v8::Exception::Error(
        gin::StringToV8(isolate, "Failed to serialize arguments")));
    return false;
  }
  return SendIPCMessageWithSender(internal, send_to_all, channel,
                                  std::move(message));
}
bool WebContents::SendIPCMessageWithSender(bool internal,