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### Issue Details

* **Electron Version:**
  * 10.1.1
* **Operating System:**
  * macOS 10.15.4

We recently started launching as hidden on macOS (that is, `show: false` or `browserWindow.hide()` while loading the page, followed by `browserWindow.show()` when the dock icon is clicked). This results in some busted focus behavior on the first activation of the window. The second activation restores it.

### Expected Behavior
The guest page receives a `focus` event on the first activation of the app, when created with `show: false`.

### Actual Behavior
The guest page doesn't receive the first `focus` event. Subsequent activations do trigger a `focus` event.

### To Reproduce
[Electron Fiddle](https://gist.github.com/CharlieHess/c507468cd40630d04f58c6514100b997)

shell/browser/api/electron_api_web_contents.cc
if (IsOffScreen()) {
#if BUILDFLAG(ENABLE_OSR)
    auto* osr_rwhv = GetOffScreenRenderWidgetHostView();
    if (osr_rwhv)
      osr_rwhv->Invalidate();
#endif
  } else {
    auto* const window = owner_window();
    if (window)
      window->Invalidate();
  }
}
gfx::Size WebContents::GetSizeForNewRenderView(content::WebContents* wc) {
  if (IsOffScreen() && wc == ontents()) {
    auto* relay = NativeWindowRelay::FromWebContents(ontents());
    if (relay) {
      auto* owner_window = relay->GetNativeWindow();
      return owner_window ? owner_window->GetSize() : gfx::Size();
    }
  }
  return gfx::Size();
}
void WebContents::SetZoomLevel(double level) {
  zoom_controller_->SetZoomLevel(level);
}
double WebContents::GetZoomLevel() const {
  return zoom_controller_->GetZoomLevel();
}
void WebContents::SetZoomFactor(gin_helper::ErrorThrower thrower,