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### Issue Details

* **Electron Version:**
  * 10.1.1
* **Operating System:**
  * macOS 10.15.4

We recently started launching as hidden on macOS (that is, `show: false` or `browserWindow.hide()` while loading the page, followed by `browserWindow.show()` when the dock icon is clicked). This results in some busted focus behavior on the first activation of the window. The second activation restores it.

### Expected Behavior
The guest page receives a `focus` event on the first activation of the app, when created with `show: false`.

### Actual Behavior
The guest page doesn't receive the first `focus` event. Subsequent activations do trigger a `focus` event.

### To Reproduce
[Electron Fiddle](https://gist.github.com/CharlieHess/c507468cd40630d04f58c6514100b997)

shell/browser/api/electron_api_web_contents.cc
Emit("crashed", status == base::TERMINATION_STATUS_PROCESS_WAS_KILLED);
  v8::Isolate* isolate = JavascriptEnvironment::GetIsolate();
  v8::HandleScope handle_scope(isolate);
  gin_helper::Dictionary details = gin_helper::Dictionary::CreateEmpty(isolate);
  details.Set("reason", status);
  Emit("render-process-gone", details);
}
void WebContents::PluginCrashed(const base::FilePath& plugin_path,
                                base::ProcessId plugin_pid) {
#if BUILDFLAG(ENABLE_PLUGINS)
  content::WebPluginInfo info;
  auto* plugin_service = content::PluginService::GetInstance();
  plugin_service->GetPluginInfoByPath(plugin_path, &info);
  Emit("plugin-crashed", info.name, info.version);
#endif  
}
void WebContents::MediaStartedPlaying(const MediaPlayerInfo& video_type,
                                      const content::MediaPlayerId& id) {
  Emit("media-started-playing");
}
void WebContents::MediaStoppedPlaying(