**Is your feature request related to a problem? Please describe.**

If coin selection fails as part of `send` or `sendtoaddress`, the error message returned to the RPC client is `Insufficient funds`, even if the actual cause is due to `too-long-mempool-chain`.  This is likely to alarm users unnecessarily, as they will believe this means their funds have permanently vanished rather than being temporarily inaccessible.

**Describe the solution you'd like**

If coin selection fails due to `too-long-mempool-chain`, the `send` and `sendtoaddress` methods should pass that error back to the RPC client, instead of `Insufficient funds`.

**Describe alternatives you've considered**

It would be even nicer from a UX standpoint if the limit on mempool chain length were removed, but AIUI [that's a DoS vector](https://github.com/bitcoin/bitcoin/issues/9752#issuecomment-281464014), so is not going to happen.

**Additional context**

Apparently this is [already done for `sendrawtransaction`](https://github.com/bitcoin/bitcoin/pull/10015#issuecomment-288597075).  The discussion in https://github.com/bitcoin/bitcoin/pull/10015 is relevant (it appears that the PR was withdrawn for reasons unrelated to my request).

{
    CMutableTransaction txn;
    txn.vin.push_back(CTxIn(outpoint));
    if (!provider || !DummySignInput(*provider, txn.vin[0], txout, can_grind_r, coin_control)) {
        return -1;
    }
    return GetVirtualTransactionInputSize(txn.vin[0]);
}
int CalculateMaximumSignedInputSize(const CTxOut& txout, const CWallet* wallet, const CCoinControl* coin_control)
{
    const std::unique_ptr<SigningProvider> provider = wallet->GetSolvingProvider(txout.scriptPubKey);
    return CalculateMaximumSignedInputSize(txout, COutPoint(), provider.get(), wallet->CanGrindR(), coin_control);
}
TxSize CalculateMaximumSignedTxSize(const CTransaction &tx, const CWallet *wallet, const std::vector<CTxOut>& txouts, const CCoinControl* coin_control)
{
    CMutableTransaction txNew(tx);
    if (!wallet->DummySignTx(txNew, txouts, coin_control)) {
        return TxSize{-1, -1};
    }
    CTransaction ctx(txNew);
    int64_t vsize = GetVirtualTransactionSize(ctx);
    int64_t weight = GetTransactionWeight(ctx);
    return TxSize{vsize, weight};
}
TxSize CalculateMaximumSignedTxSize(const CTransaction &tx, const CWallet *wallet, const CCoinControl* coin_control)