React version: 18.3.0-next-3ba7add60-20221201

Hard to reproduce.

In Next.js, in rare cases, and only after a fast refresh, the ref object when using forwardRef is simply `{}`.

This leads to the `TypeError: can't define property "current": Object is not extensible` error when used with `useImperativeHandle`.

```tsx
function Parent() {
  const carouselRef = useRef<any>();

  return <Suspense><Carousel ref={carouselRef} /></Suspense>
}

const Carousel = forwardRef((props, ref) => {
  if (!('current' in ref)) { debugger; }
  const thing = use(aPromise);
  return ...;
});
```

![Screenshot 2023-03-17 at 18 49 21](https://user-images.githubusercontent.com/5406212/225981809-22f575fa-0ec7-4f94-ae23-bffc8bf7c4dd.png)

In `updateImperativeHandle`, the ref is already an empty object.

![Screenshot 2023-03-17 at 19 13 13](https://user-images.githubusercontent.com/5406212/225985622-b8512a61-3a6b-4958-b63f-277219d4c816.png)

I haven't investigated it further yet, the stacktraces are quite hard to follow.
let warningKey = ownerName || '';
      const debugSource = workInProgress._debugSource;
      if (debugSource) {
        warningKey = debugSource.fileName + ':' + debugSource.lineNumber;
      }
      if (!didWarnAboutFunctionRefs[warningKey]) {
        didWarnAboutFunctionRefs[warningKey] = true;
        console.error(
          'Function components cannot be given refs. ' +
            'Attempts to access this ref will f. ' +
            'Did you mean to use React.forwardRef()?%s',
          info,
        );
      }
    }
    if (Component.defaultProps !== undefined) {
      const componentName = getComponentNameFromType(Component) || 'Unknown';
      if (!didWarnAboutDefaultPropsOnFunctionComponent[componentName]) {
        console.error(
          '%s: Support for defaultProps will be removed from function components ' +
            'in a future major release. Use JavaScript default parameters instead.',
          componentName,
        );
        didWarnAboutDefaultPropsOnFunctionComponent[componentName] = true;
      }
    }
    if (typeof Component.getDerivedStateFromProps === 'function') {
      const componentName = getComponentNameFromType(Component) || 'Unknown';
      if (!didWarnAboutGetDerivedStateOnFunctionComponent[componentName]) {
        console.error(