Functional `ref` prop throws a `Maximum update depth exceeded` error when suspending.

React version: `18.0.0-alpha-464f27572-20210713`

## Steps To Reproduce

1. Click on the `suspend` button: https://codesandbox.io/s/ref-set-too-many-times-jm0c3?file=/src/App.js.

## The current behavior

Clicking on the `suspend` button throws a `Maximum update depth exceeded` error.

## The expected behavior

Clicking on the `suspend` button suspends.
finishedRoot: FiberRoot,
  finishedWork: Fiber,
) {
  if (!supportsHydration) {
    return;
  }
  const newState: SuspenseState | null = finishedWork.memoizedState;
  if (newState === null) {
    const current = finishedWork.alternate;
    if (current !== null) {
      const prevState: SuspenseState | null = current.memoizedState;
      if (prevState !== null) {
        const suspenseInstance = prevState.dehydrated;
        if (suspenseInstance !== null) {
          commitHydratedSuspenseInstance(suspenseInstance);
          if (enableSuspenseCallback) {
            const hydrationCallbacks = finishedRoot.hydrationCallbacks;
            if (hydrationCallbacks !== null) {
              const onHydrated = hydrationCallbacks.onHydrated;
              if (onHydrated) {
                onHydrated(suspenseInstance);
              }
            }
          }
        }
      }
    }
  }
}
function attachSuspenseRetryListeners(finishedWork: Fiber) {