React version: 18.3.0-next-3ba7add60-20221201

Hard to reproduce.

In Next.js, in rare cases, and only after a fast refresh, the ref object when using forwardRef is simply `{}`.

This leads to the `TypeError: can't define property "current": Object is not extensible` error when used with `useImperativeHandle`.

```tsx
function Parent() {
  const carouselRef = useRef<any>();

  return <Suspense><Carousel ref={carouselRef} /></Suspense>
}

const Carousel = forwardRef((props, ref) => {
  if (!('current' in ref)) { debugger; }
  const thing = use(aPromise);
  return ...;
});
```

![Screenshot 2023-03-17 at 18 49 21](https://user-images.githubusercontent.com/5406212/225981809-22f575fa-0ec7-4f94-ae23-bffc8bf7c4dd.png)

In `updateImperativeHandle`, the ref is already an empty object.

![Screenshot 2023-03-17 at 19 13 13](https://user-images.githubusercontent.com/5406212/225985622-b8512a61-3a6b-4958-b63f-277219d4c816.png)

I haven't investigated it further yet, the stacktraces are quite hard to follow.
markerIncomplete: null,
        markerComplete: null,
      };
    }
    if (currentPendingTransitionCallbacks.transitionComplete === null) {
      currentPendingTransitionCallbacks.transitionComplete =
        ([]: Array<Transition>);
    }
    currentPendingTransitionCallbacks.transitionComplete.push(transition);
  }
}
function resetRenderTimer() {
  workInProgressRootRenderTargetTime = now() + RENDER_TIMEOUT_MS;
}
export function getRenderTargetTime(): number {
  return workInProgressRootRenderTargetTime;
}
let hasUncaughtError = false;
let firstUncaughtError = null;
let legacyErrorBoundariesThatAlreadyFailed: Set<mixed> | null = null;
 Only used when enableProfilerNestedUpdateScheduledHook is true;
 to track which root is currently committing layout effects.
let rootCommittingMutationOrLayoutEffects: FiberRoot | null = null;
let rootDoesHavePassiveEffects: boolean = false;
let rootWithPendingPassiveEffects: FiberRoot | null = null;
let pendingPassiveEffectsLanes: Lanes = NoLanes;
let pendingPassiveProfilerEffects: Array<Fiber> = [];
let pendingPassiveEffectsRemainingLanes: Lanes = NoLanes;
let pendingPassiveTransitions: Array<Transition> | null = null;
 Use these to prevent an infinite loop of nested updates