To be able to label incoming tor connections as different from normal localhost connections in e.g. `getpeerinfo` and the peers list in the GUI it'd be useful to have them connect on an alternative local-only port. Or even better, a UNIX socket.

For manually set-up hidden services this would have to be configured manually and could add a `hsport` option or such. The external port would still appear as `XXXXXXXXX.onion:8333`, however internally it would redirect to a that port.

In the case of `torcontrol` this would be easy to set up automatically. It could add a new (localhost) binding port automatically and this code would have to be changed:
- https://github.com/bitcoin/bitcoin/blob/master/src/torcontrol.cpp#L441
- https://github.com/bitcoin/bitcoin/blob/master/src/torcontrol.cpp#L477

{
    LOCK(cs_vNodes);
    for (CNode* pnode : vNodes) {
        if (pnode->GetAddrName() == addrName) {
            return pnode;
        }
    }
    return nullptr;
}
CNode* CConnman::FindNode(const CService& addr)
{
    LOCK(cs_vNodes);
    for (CNode* pnode : vNodes) {
        if (static_cast<CService>(pnode->addr) == addr) {
            return pnode;
        }
    }
    return nullptr;
}
bool CConnman::CheckIncomingNonce(uint64_t nonce)
{
    LOCK(cs_vNodes);
    for (const CNode* pnode : vNodes) {
        if (!pnode->fSuccessfullyConnected && !pnode->IsInboundConn() && pnode->GetLocalNonce() == nonce)
            return false;
    }
    return true;
}
static CAddress GetBindAddress(SOCKET sock)