Functional `ref` prop throws a `Maximum update depth exceeded` error when suspending.

React version: `18.0.0-alpha-464f27572-20210713`

## Steps To Reproduce

1. Click on the `suspend` button: https://codesandbox.io/s/ref-set-too-many-times-jm0c3?file=/src/App.js.

## The current behavior

Clicking on the `suspend` button throws a `Maximum update depth exceeded` error.

## The expected behavior

Clicking on the `suspend` button suspends.
markUpdate(workInProgress);
          }
          if (current.ref !== workInProgress.ref) {
            markRef(workInProgress);
          }
        }
        bubbleProperties(workInProgress);
        return null;
      }
      break;
    }
    case OffscreenComponent:
    case LegacyHiddenComponent: {
      popRenderLanes(workInProgress);
      const nextState: OffscreenState | null = workInProgress.memoizedState;
      const nextIsHidden = nextState !== null;
      if (current !== null) {
        const prevState: OffscreenState | null = current.memoizedState;
        const prevIsHidden = prevState !== null;
        if (
          prevIsHidden !== nextIsHidden &&
          newProps.mode !== 'unstable-defer-without-hiding'
        ) {
          workInProgress.flags |= Update;
        }
      }
      
      if (
        !nextIsHidden ||
        includesSomeLane(subtreeRenderLanes, (OffscreenLane: Lane)) ||