React version: 18.3.0-next-3ba7add60-20221201

Hard to reproduce.

In Next.js, in rare cases, and only after a fast refresh, the ref object when using forwardRef is simply `{}`.

This leads to the `TypeError: can't define property "current": Object is not extensible` error when used with `useImperativeHandle`.

```tsx
function Parent() {
  const carouselRef = useRef<any>();

  return <Suspense><Carousel ref={carouselRef} /></Suspense>
}

const Carousel = forwardRef((props, ref) => {
  if (!('current' in ref)) { debugger; }
  const thing = use(aPromise);
  return ...;
});
```

![Screenshot 2023-03-17 at 18 49 21](https://user-images.githubusercontent.com/5406212/225981809-22f575fa-0ec7-4f94-ae23-bffc8bf7c4dd.png)

In `updateImperativeHandle`, the ref is already an empty object.

![Screenshot 2023-03-17 at 19 13 13](https://user-images.githubusercontent.com/5406212/225985622-b8512a61-3a6b-4958-b63f-277219d4c816.png)

I haven't investigated it further yet, the stacktraces are quite hard to follow.
'Async text requested [B]',
      'B',
      // React does not suspend on C, because that would block B from appearing.
      'Async text requested [C]',
      '(Loading C...)',
    ]);
    expect(root).toMatchRenderedOutput('AB(Loading C...)');
    await act(() => {
      resolveTextRequests('C');
    });
    assertLog(['Async text requested [C]']);
    expect(root).toMatchRenderedOutput('AB(Loading C...)');
    await act(() => {
      resolveTextRequests('C');
    });
    assertLog(['Async text requested [C]', 'C']);
    expect(root).toMatchRenderedOutput('ABC');
  });
  // @gate enableUseHook
  test('use() combined with render phase updates', async () => {
    function Async() {
      const a = use(Promise.resolve('A'));
      const [count, setCount] = useState(0);
      if (count === 0) {
        setCount(1);
      }
      const usedCount = use(Promise.resolve(count));
      return <Text text={a + usedCount} />;
    }
    function App() {