## React version
React version: 18.3.0-next-b0671f9ea-20230130

## Problem
In `StrictMode`,  when using hydrateRoot to render a component that using `useSyncExternalStore` it seems that useSES will do hydration twice. 

But in second hydration process,  useSES does not use the result of `getServerSnapshot` as initial state, which will cause hydration error.

This problem will only happen in `development` mode, 

## Reproduce
Link to code example:
https://codesandbox.io/s/useses-18-3-rojznv

It works well in react 18.2
https://codesandbox.io/s/useses-18-2-13iskc




const ref = {current: initialValue};
    hook.memoizedState = ref;
    return ref;
  }
}
function updateRef<T>(initialValue: T): {current: T} {
  const hook = updateWorkInProgressHook();
  return hook.memoizedState;
}
function mountEffectImpl(
  fiberFlags: Flags,
  hookFlags: HookFlags,
  create: () => (() => void) | void,
  deps: Array<mixed> | void | null,
): void {
  const hook = mountWorkInProgressHook();
  const nextDeps = deps === undefined ? null : deps;
  currentlyRenderingFiber.flags |= fiberFlags;
  hook.memoizedState = pushEffect(
    HookHasEffect | hookFlags,
    create,
    createEffectInstance(),
    nextDeps,
  );
}
function updateEffectImpl(
  fiberFlags: Flags,
  hookFlags: HookFlags,
  create: () => (() => void) | void,
  deps: Array<mixed> | void | null,