Functional `ref` prop throws a `Maximum update depth exceeded` error when suspending.

React version: `18.0.0-alpha-464f27572-20210713`

## Steps To Reproduce

1. Click on the `suspend` button: https://codesandbox.io/s/ref-set-too-many-times-jm0c3?file=/src/App.js.

## The current behavior

Clicking on the `suspend` button throws a `Maximum update depth exceeded` error.

## The expected behavior

Clicking on the `suspend` button suspends.
nearestMountedAncestor,
        );
        recordPassiveEffectDuration(current);
      } else {
        commitHookEffectListUnmount(
          HookPassive,
          current,
          nearestMountedAncestor,
        );
      }
      break;
    }
  }
}
let didWarnWrongReturnPointer = false;
function ensureCorrectReturnPointer(fiber, expectedReturnFiber) {
  if (__DEV__) {
    if (!didWarnWrongReturnPointer && fiber.return !== expectedReturnFiber) {
      didWarnWrongReturnPointer = true;
      console.error(
        'Internal React error: Return pointer is inconsistent ' +
          'with parent.',
      );
    }
  }
   
   
  fiber.return = expectedReturnFiber;
}
function invokeLayoutEffectMountInDEV(fiber: Fiber): void {