Functional `ref` prop throws a `Maximum update depth exceeded` error when suspending.

React version: `18.0.0-alpha-464f27572-20210713`

## Steps To Reproduce

1. Click on the `suspend` button: https://codesandbox.io/s/ref-set-too-many-times-jm0c3?file=/src/App.js.

## The current behavior

Clicking on the `suspend` button throws a `Maximum update depth exceeded` error.

## The expected behavior

Clicking on the `suspend` button suspends.
findParent: while (true) {
        invariant(
          parent !== null,
          'Expected to find a host parent. This error is likely caused by ' +
            'a bug in React. Please file an issue.',
        );
        const parentStateNode = parent.stateNode;
        switch (parent.tag) {
          case HostComponent:
            currentParent = parentStateNode;
            currentParentIsContainer = false;
            break findParent;
          case HostRoot:
            currentParent = parentStateNode.containerInfo;
            currentParentIsContainer = true;
            break findParent;
          case HostPortal:
            currentParent = parentStateNode.containerInfo;
            currentParentIsContainer = true;
            break findParent;
        }
        parent = parent.return;
      }
      currentParentIsValid = true;
    }
    if (node.tag === HostComponent || node.tag === HostText) {
      commitNestedUnmounts(finishedRoot, node, nearestMountedAncestor);
       
       
      if (currentParentIsContainer) {