## React version
React version: 18.3.0-next-b0671f9ea-20230130

## Problem
In `StrictMode`,  when using hydrateRoot to render a component that using `useSyncExternalStore` it seems that useSES will do hydration twice. 

But in second hydration process,  useSES does not use the result of `getServerSnapshot` as initial state, which will cause hydration error.

This problem will only happen in `development` mode, 

## Reproduce
Link to code example:
https://codesandbox.io/s/useses-18-3-rojznv

It works well in react 18.2
https://codesandbox.io/s/useses-18-2-13iskc




const onRender = React.experimental_useEffectEvent(() => {
          logs.push('rendered');
        });
        onRender();
        return <p>Hello</p>;
      }
      const reportedServerErrors = [];
      let caughtError;
      try {
        await act(() => {
          const {pipe} = renderToPipeableStream(<App />, {
            onError(e) {
              reportedServerErrors.push(e);
            },
          });
          pipe(writable);
        });
      } catch (err) {
        caughtError = err;
      }
      expect(logs).toEqual([]);
      expect(caughtError.message).toContain(
        "A function wrapped in useEffectEvent can't be called during rendering.",
      );
      expect(reportedServerErrors).toEqual([caughtError]);
    });
    
    it('does not guarantee useEffectEvent return values during server rendering are distinct', async () => {
      function App() {