Functional `ref` prop throws a `Maximum update depth exceeded` error when suspending.

React version: `18.0.0-alpha-464f27572-20210713`

## Steps To Reproduce

1. Click on the `suspend` button: https://codesandbox.io/s/ref-set-too-many-times-jm0c3?file=/src/App.js.

## The current behavior

Clicking on the `suspend` button throws a `Maximum update depth exceeded` error.

## The expected behavior

Clicking on the `suspend` button suspends.
markUpdate(workInProgress);
      finalizeContainerChildren(container, newChildSet);
    }
  };
  updateHostComponent = function(
    current: Fiber,
    workInProgress: Fiber,
    type: Type,
    newProps: Props,
    rootContainerInstance: Container,
  ) {
    const currentInstance = current.stateNode;
    const oldProps = current.memoizedProps;
    
    
    const childrenUnchanged = hadNoMutationsEffects(current, workInProgress);
    if (childrenUnchanged && oldProps === newProps) {
      
      
      workInProgress.stateNode = currentInstance;
      return;
    }
    const recyclableInstance: Instance = workInProgress.stateNode;
    const currentHostContext = getHostContext();
    let updatePayload = null;
    if (oldProps !== newProps) {
      updatePayload = prepareUpdate(
        recyclableInstance,
        type,
        oldProps,