React version: 18.3.0-next-3ba7add60-20221201

Hard to reproduce.

In Next.js, in rare cases, and only after a fast refresh, the ref object when using forwardRef is simply `{}`.

This leads to the `TypeError: can't define property "current": Object is not extensible` error when used with `useImperativeHandle`.

```tsx
function Parent() {
  const carouselRef = useRef<any>();

  return <Suspense><Carousel ref={carouselRef} /></Suspense>
}

const Carousel = forwardRef((props, ref) => {
  if (!('current' in ref)) { debugger; }
  const thing = use(aPromise);
  return ...;
});
```

![Screenshot 2023-03-17 at 18 49 21](https://user-images.githubusercontent.com/5406212/225981809-22f575fa-0ec7-4f94-ae23-bffc8bf7c4dd.png)

In `updateImperativeHandle`, the ref is already an empty object.

![Screenshot 2023-03-17 at 19 13 13](https://user-images.githubusercontent.com/5406212/225985622-b8512a61-3a6b-4958-b63f-277219d4c816.png)

I haven't investigated it further yet, the stacktraces are quite hard to follow.
export let renderLanes: Lanes = NoLanes;
let workInProgressRootExitStatus: RootExitStatus = RootInProgress;
let workInProgressRootFatalError: mixed = null;
let workInProgressRootSkippedLanes: Lanes = NoLanes;
let workInProgressRootInterleavedUpdatedLanes: Lanes = NoLanes;
let workInProgressRootRenderPhaseUpdatedLanes: Lanes = NoLanes;
let workInProgressRootPingedLanes: Lanes = NoLanes;
let workInProgressRootConcurrentErrors: Array<CapturedValue<mixed>> | null =
  null;
let workInProgressRootRecoverableErrors: Array<CapturedValue<mixed>> | null =
  null;
let globalMostRecentFallbackTime: number = 0;
const FALLBACK_THROTTLE_MS: number = 500;
let workInProgressRootRenderTargetTime: number = Infinity;
const RENDER_TIMEOUT_MS = 500;
let workInProgressTransitions: Array<Transition> | null = null;
export function getWorkInProgressTransitions(): null | Array<Transition> {
  return workInProgressTransitions;
}
let currentPendingTransitionCallbacks: PendingTransitionCallbacks | null = null;
let currentEndTime: number | null = null;
export function addTransitionStartCallbackToPendingTransition(
  transition: Transition,
) {
  if (enableTransitionTracing) {
    if (currentPendingTransitionCallbacks === null) {
      currentPendingTransitionCallbacks = {
        transitionStart: [],
        transitionProgress: null,
        transitionComplete: null,