## React version
React version: 18.3.0-next-b0671f9ea-20230130

## Problem
In `StrictMode`,  when using hydrateRoot to render a component that using `useSyncExternalStore` it seems that useSES will do hydration twice. 

But in second hydration process,  useSES does not use the result of `getServerSnapshot` as initial state, which will cause hydration error.

This problem will only happen in `development` mode, 

## Reproduce
Link to code example:
https://codesandbox.io/s/useses-18-3-rojznv

It works well in react 18.2
https://codesandbox.io/s/useses-18-2-13iskc




Scheduler.log('Log recoverable error: ' + error.message);
      },
    });
    await expect(async () => {
      
      await waitForPaint([
        'client',
        'Log recoverable error: Hydration failed because the initial ' +
          'UI does not match what was rendered on the server.',
        'Log recoverable error: There was an error while hydrating. ' +
          'Because the error happened outside of a Suspense boundary, the ' +
          'entire root will switch to client rendering.',
      ]);
    }).toErrorDev(
      [
        'Warning: An error occurred during hydration. The server HTML was replaced with client content in <div>.',
        'Warning: Expected server HTML to contain a matching <div> in <div>.\n' +
          '    in div (at **)\n' +
          '    in App (at **)',
      ],
      {withoutStack: 1},
    );
    expect(getVisibleChildren(container)).toEqual(<div>client</div>);
  });
  
  it('calls getServerSnapshot instead of getSnapshot (with selector and isEqual)', async () => {
    
    
    const ref = React.createRef();
    function getServerSnapshot() {