Functional `ref` prop throws a `Maximum update depth exceeded` error when suspending.

React version: `18.0.0-alpha-464f27572-20210713`

## Steps To Reproduce

1. Click on the `suspend` button: https://codesandbox.io/s/ref-set-too-many-times-jm0c3?file=/src/App.js.

## The current behavior

Clicking on the `suspend` button throws a `Maximum update depth exceeded` error.

## The expected behavior

Clicking on the `suspend` button suspends.
} catch (error) {
    reportUncaughtErrorInDEV(error);
    captureCommitPhaseError(current, nearestMountedAncestor, error);
  }
}
function safelyAttachRef(current: Fiber, nearestMountedAncestor: Fiber | null) {
  try {
    commitAttachRef(current);
  } catch (error) {
    reportUncaughtErrorInDEV(error);
    captureCommitPhaseError(current, nearestMountedAncestor, error);
  }
}
function safelyDetachRef(current: Fiber, nearestMountedAncestor: Fiber | null) {
  const ref = current.ref;
  if (ref !== null) {
    if (typeof ref === 'function') {
      try {
        if (
          enableProfilerTimer &&
          enableProfilerCommitHooks &&
          current.mode & ProfileMode
        ) {
          try {
            startLayoutEffectTimer();
            ref(null);
          } finally {
            recordLayoutEffectDuration(current);
          }
        } else {