Functional `ref` prop throws a `Maximum update depth exceeded` error when suspending.

React version: `18.0.0-alpha-464f27572-20210713`

## Steps To Reproduce

1. Click on the `suspend` button: https://codesandbox.io/s/ref-set-too-many-times-jm0c3?file=/src/App.js.

## The current behavior

Clicking on the `suspend` button throws a `Maximum update depth exceeded` error.

## The expected behavior

Clicking on the `suspend` button suspends.
nextEffect = firstChild;
  commitPassiveUnmountEffects_begin();
}
function commitPassiveUnmountEffects_begin() {
  while (nextEffect !== null) {
    const fiber = nextEffect;
    const child = fiber.child;
    if ((nextEffect.flags & ChildDeletion) !== NoFlags) {
      const deletions = fiber.deletions;
      if (deletions !== null) {
        for (let i = 0; i < deletions.length; i++) {
          const fiberToDelete = deletions[i];
          nextEffect = fiberToDelete;
          commitPassiveUnmountEffectsInsideOfDeletedTree_begin(
            fiberToDelete,
            fiber,
          );
        }
        if (deletedTreeCleanUpLevel >= 1) {