Functional `ref` prop throws a `Maximum update depth exceeded` error when suspending.

React version: `18.0.0-alpha-464f27572-20210713`

## Steps To Reproduce

1. Click on the `suspend` button: https://codesandbox.io/s/ref-set-too-many-times-jm0c3?file=/src/App.js.

## The current behavior

Clicking on the `suspend` button throws a `Maximum update depth exceeded` error.

## The expected behavior

Clicking on the `suspend` button suspends.
finishedWork.flags &= ~Hydrating;
      break;
    }
    case HydratingAnd: {
      finishedWork.flags &= ~Hydrating;
       
      const current = finishedWork.alternate;
      commitWork(current, finishedWork);
      break;
    }
    case : {
      const current = finishedWork.alternate;
      commitWork(current, finishedWork);
      break;
    }
  }
}
export function commitLayoutEffects(
  finishedWork: Fiber,
  root: FiberRoot,
  committedLanes: Lanes,
): void {
  inProgressLanes = committedLanes;
  inProgressRoot = root;
  nextEffect = finishedWork;
  commitLayoutEffects_begin(finishedWork, root, committedLanes);
  inProgressLanes = null;
  inProgressRoot = null;
}
function commitLayoutEffects_begin(