Functional `ref` prop throws a `Maximum update depth exceeded` error when suspending.

React version: `18.0.0-alpha-464f27572-20210713`

## Steps To Reproduce

1. Click on the `suspend` button: https://codesandbox.io/s/ref-set-too-many-times-jm0c3?file=/src/App.js.

## The current behavior

Clicking on the `suspend` button throws a `Maximum update depth exceeded` error.

## The expected behavior

Clicking on the `suspend` button suspends.
if (
        enableProfilerTimer &&
        enableProfilerCommitHooks &&
        finishedWork.mode & ProfileMode
      ) {
        try {
          startLayoutEffectTimer();
          commitHookEffectListUnmount(
            HookLayout | HookHasEffect,
            finishedWork,
            finishedWork.return,
          );
        } finally {
          recordLayoutEffectDuration(finishedWork);
        }
      } else {
        commitHookEffectListUnmount(
          HookLayout | HookHasEffect,
          finishedWork,
          finishedWork.return,
        );
      }
      return;
    }
    case ClassComponent: {
      return;
    }
    case HostComponent: {
      const instance: Instance = finishedWork.stateNode;
      if (instance != null) {