Functional `ref` prop throws a `Maximum update depth exceeded` error when suspending.

React version: `18.0.0-alpha-464f27572-20210713`

## Steps To Reproduce

1. Click on the `suspend` button: https://codesandbox.io/s/ref-set-too-many-times-jm0c3?file=/src/App.js.

## The current behavior

Clicking on the `suspend` button throws a `Maximum update depth exceeded` error.

## The expected behavior

Clicking on the `suspend` button suspends.
let tailNode = renderState.tail;
      let lastTailNode = null;
      while (tailNode !== null) {
        if (tailNode.alternate !== null) {
          lastTailNode = tailNode;
        }
        tailNode = tailNode.sibling;
      }
      
      
      if (lastTailNode === null) {
        
        renderState.tail = null;
      } else {
        
        
        lastTailNode.sibling = null;
      }
      break;
    }
    case 'collapsed': {