Functional `ref` prop throws a `Maximum update depth exceeded` error when suspending.

React version: `18.0.0-alpha-464f27572-20210713`

## Steps To Reproduce

1. Click on the `suspend` button: https://codesandbox.io/s/ref-set-too-many-times-jm0c3?file=/src/App.js.

## The current behavior

Clicking on the `suspend` button throws a `Maximum update depth exceeded` error.

## The expected behavior

Clicking on the `suspend` button suspends.
const previousFiber = fiber.alternate;
          if (previousFiber !== null) {
            let detachedChild = previousFiber.child;
            if (detachedChild !== null) {
              previousFiber.child = null;
              do {
                const detachedSibling = detachedChild.sibling;
                detachedChild.sibling = null;
                detachedChild = detachedSibling;
              } while (detachedChild !== null);
            }
          }
        }
        nextEffect = fiber;
      }
    }
    if ((fiber.subtreeFlags & PassiveMask) !== NoFlags && child !== null) {
      ensureCorrectReturnPointer(child, fiber);
      nextEffect = child;
    } else {
      commitPassiveUnmountEffects_complete();
    }
  }
}
function commitPassiveUnmountEffects_complete() {