## React version
React version: 18.3.0-next-b0671f9ea-20230130

## Problem
In `StrictMode`,  when using hydrateRoot to render a component that using `useSyncExternalStore` it seems that useSES will do hydration twice. 

But in second hydration process,  useSES does not use the result of `getServerSnapshot` as initial state, which will cause hydration error.

This problem will only happen in `development` mode, 

## Reproduce
Link to code example:
https://codesandbox.io/s/useses-18-3-rojznv

It works well in react 18.2
https://codesandbox.io/s/useses-18-2-13iskc




componentUpdateQueue = createFunctionComponentUpdateQueue();
    currentlyRenderingFiber.updateQueue = (componentUpdateQueue: any);
    componentUpdateQueue.events = [payload];
  } else {
    const events = componentUpdateQueue.events;
    if (events === null) {
      componentUpdateQueue.events = [payload];
    } else {
      events.push(payload);
    }
  }
}
function mountEvent<Args, Return, F: (...Array<Args>) => Return>(
  callback: F,
): F {
  const hook = mountWorkInProgressHook();
  const ref = {impl: callback};
  hook.memoizedState = ref;
  
  return function eventFn() {
    if (isInvalidExecutionContextForEventFunction()) {
      throw new Error(
        "A function wrapped in useEffectEvent can't be called during rendering.",
      );
    }
    return ref.impl.apply(undefined, arguments);
  };
}
function updateEvent<Args, Return, F: (...Array<Args>) => Return>(
  callback: F,