React version: 18.3.0-next-3ba7add60-20221201

Hard to reproduce.

In Next.js, in rare cases, and only after a fast refresh, the ref object when using forwardRef is simply `{}`.

This leads to the `TypeError: can't define property "current": Object is not extensible` error when used with `useImperativeHandle`.

```tsx
function Parent() {
  const carouselRef = useRef<any>();

  return <Suspense><Carousel ref={carouselRef} /></Suspense>
}

const Carousel = forwardRef((props, ref) => {
  if (!('current' in ref)) { debugger; }
  const thing = use(aPromise);
  return ...;
});
```

![Screenshot 2023-03-17 at 18 49 21](https://user-images.githubusercontent.com/5406212/225981809-22f575fa-0ec7-4f94-ae23-bffc8bf7c4dd.png)

In `updateImperativeHandle`, the ref is already an empty object.

![Screenshot 2023-03-17 at 19 13 13](https://user-images.githubusercontent.com/5406212/225985622-b8512a61-3a6b-4958-b63f-277219d4c816.png)

I haven't investigated it further yet, the stacktraces are quite hard to follow.
} else {
       T
      reenterHydrationStateFromDehydratedSuspenseInstance(
        workInProgress,
        suspenseInstance,
        suspenseState.treeContext,
      );
      const primaryChildren = nextProps.children;
      const primaryChildFragment = mountSuspensePrimaryChildren(
        workInProgress,
        primaryChildren,
        renderLanes,
      );
       M
       
       
       
       
       
      primaryChildFragment.flags |= Hydrating;
      return primaryChildFragment;
    }
  } else {
     T
     s
    if (workInProgress.flags & ForceClientRender) {
       S
      pushPrimaryTreeSuspenseHandler(workInProgress);
      workInProgress.flags &= ~ForceClientRender;
      const capturedValue = createCapturedValue<mixed>(