Functional `ref` prop throws a `Maximum update depth exceeded` error when suspending.

React version: `18.0.0-alpha-464f27572-20210713`

## Steps To Reproduce

1. Click on the `suspend` button: https://codesandbox.io/s/ref-set-too-many-times-jm0c3?file=/src/App.js.

## The current behavior

Clicking on the `suspend` button throws a `Maximum update depth exceeded` error.

## The expected behavior

Clicking on the `suspend` button suspends.
case ClassComponent:
        case HostComponent:
          safelyAttachRef(fiber, fiber.return);
          break;
      }
    } else if ((fiber.flags & LayoutMask) !== NoFlags) {
      const current = fiber.alternate;
      setCurrentDebugFiberInDEV(fiber);
      try {
        commitLayoutEffectOnFiber(root, current, fiber, committedLanes);
      } catch (error) {
        reportUncaughtErrorInDEV(error);
        captureCommitPhaseError(fiber, fiber.return, error);
      }
      resetCurrentDebugFiberInDEV();
    }
    if (fiber === subtreeRoot) {
      nextEffect = null;
      return;
    }
    const sibling = fiber.sibling;
    if (sibling !== null) {
      ensureCorrectReturnPointer(sibling, fiber.return);
      nextEffect = sibling;
      return;
    }
    nextEffect = fiber.return;
  }
}
export function commitPassiveMountEffects(