(from discussion on IRC. Currently a global `settxfee` has to be changed to override the fee rate, it would make sense to be able to specify it on a per-transaction basis. This would continue #7518)

```
-*- jonasschnelli thinks we should probably add a optional feerate parameter to fundrawtransaction
<wumpus> jonasschnelli: there isn't one yet?
-*- jonasschnelli looking..
<wumpus> I'm surprised, would be so much better than changing a global
<jonasschnelli> no.. i don't think so. Maybe there is a PR.
<sipa> there is a pr
<jonasschnelli> Hard to keep track of everything. :)
<wumpus> no, the PR does it wrong
```

Regarding implementation:

```
<jonasschnelli> The ugly thing is, that CreateTransaction uses the static DEFAULT_TARGET
<wumpus> passing in an optional feerate would be the obvious thing to do
<jonasschnelli> So, this would require some refactoring.
<sipa> just add a confirmation target to coincontrol
<jonasschnelli> Yes. This sounds good.
<wumpus> right, just slap it into coincontrol
<sipa> wasn't there a PR that added a bunch of options to fundrawtransaction?
<sipa> including that
<jonasschnelli> Not the feerate.
<jonasschnelli> But the rest is merged.
```

{
    int64_t n = nTimeSmart;
    return n ? n : nTimeReceived;
}
int CWalletTx::GetRequestCount() const
{
    
    int nRequests = -1;
    {
        LOCK(pwallet->cs_wallet);
        if (IsCoinBase())
        {
            
            if (!hashUnset())
            {
                map<uint256, int>::const_iterator mi = pwallet->mapRequestCount.find(hashBlock);
                if (mi != pwallet->mapRequestCount.end())
                    nRequests = (*mi).second;
            }
        }
        else
        {
            
            map<uint256, int>::const_iterator mi = pwallet->mapRequestCount.find(GetHash());
            if (mi != pwallet->mapRequestCount.end())
            {
                nRequests = (*mi).second;
                
                if (nRequests == 0 && !hashUnset())