Functional `ref` prop throws a `Maximum update depth exceeded` error when suspending.

React version: `18.0.0-alpha-464f27572-20210713`

## Steps To Reproduce

1. Click on the `suspend` button: https://codesandbox.io/s/ref-set-too-many-times-jm0c3?file=/src/App.js.

## The current behavior

Clicking on the `suspend` button throws a `Maximum update depth exceeded` error.

## The expected behavior

Clicking on the `suspend` button suspends.
isContainer = true;
      break;
    case HostPortal:
      parent = parentStateNode.containerInfo;
      isContainer = true;
      break;
     
    default:
      invariant(
        false,
        'Invalid host parent fiber. This error is likely caused by a bug ' +
          'in React. Please file an issue.',
      );
  }
  if (parentFiber.flags & ContentReset) {
     
    resetTextContent(parent);
     
    parentFiber.flags &= ~ContentReset;
  }
  const before = getHostSibling(finishedWork);
  
  
  if (isContainer) {
    insertOrAppendNodeIntoContainer(finishedWork, before, parent);
  } else {
    insertOrAppendNode(finishedWork, before, parent);
  }
}
function insertOrAppendNodeIntoContainer(