## React version
React version: 18.3.0-next-b0671f9ea-20230130

## Problem
In `StrictMode`,  when using hydrateRoot to render a component that using `useSyncExternalStore` it seems that useSES will do hydration twice. 

But in second hydration process,  useSES does not use the result of `getServerSnapshot` as initial state, which will cause hydration error.

This problem will only happen in `development` mode, 

## Reproduce
Link to code example:
https://codesandbox.io/s/useses-18-3-rojznv

It works well in react 18.2
https://codesandbox.io/s/useses-18-2-13iskc




action: A,
): void {
  if (__DEV__) {
    if (typeof arguments[3] === 'function') {
      console.error(
        "State updates from the useState() and useReducer() Hooks don't support the " +
          'second callback argument. To execute a side effect after ' +
          'rendering, declare it in the component body with useEffect().',
      );
    }
  }
  const lane = requestUpdateLane(fiber);
  const update: Update<S, A> = {
    lane,
    revertLane: NoLane,
    action,
    hasEagerState: false,
    eagerState: null,
    next: (null: any),
  };
  if (isRenderPhaseUpdate(fiber)) {
    enqueueRenderPhaseUpdate(queue, update);
  } else {
    const alternate = fiber.alternate;
    if (
      fiber.lanes === NoLanes &&
      (alternate === null || alternate.lanes === NoLanes)
    ) {