React version: 18.3.0-next-3ba7add60-20221201

Hard to reproduce.

In Next.js, in rare cases, and only after a fast refresh, the ref object when using forwardRef is simply `{}`.

This leads to the `TypeError: can't define property "current": Object is not extensible` error when used with `useImperativeHandle`.

```tsx
function Parent() {
  const carouselRef = useRef<any>();

  return <Suspense><Carousel ref={carouselRef} /></Suspense>
}

const Carousel = forwardRef((props, ref) => {
  if (!('current' in ref)) { debugger; }
  const thing = use(aPromise);
  return ...;
});
```

![Screenshot 2023-03-17 at 18 49 21](https://user-images.githubusercontent.com/5406212/225981809-22f575fa-0ec7-4f94-ae23-bffc8bf7c4dd.png)

In `updateImperativeHandle`, the ref is already an empty object.

![Screenshot 2023-03-17 at 19 13 13](https://user-images.githubusercontent.com/5406212/225985622-b8512a61-3a6b-4958-b63f-277219d4c816.png)

I haven't investigated it further yet, the stacktraces are quite hard to follow.
(finishedWork.subtreeFlags & PassiveMask) !== NoFlags ||
    (finishedWork.flags & PassiveMask) !== NoFlags
  ) {
    if (!rootDoesHavePassiveEffects) {
      rootDoesHavePassiveEffects = true;
      pendingPassiveEffectsRemainingLanes = remainingLanes;
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      pendingPassiveTransitions = transitions;
      scheduleCallback(NormalSchedulerPriority, () => {
        flushPassiveEffects();
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        return null;
      });
    }
  }
   Check if there are any effects in the whole tree.
   TODO: This is left over from the effect list implementation, where we had
   to check for the existence of `firstEffect` to satisfy Flow. I think the
   only other reason this optimization exists is because it affects profiling.
   Reconsider whether this is necessary.
  const subtreeHasEffects =
    (finishedWork.subtreeFlags &
      (BeforeMutationMask | MutationMask | LayoutMask | PassiveMask)) !==