React version: 18.3.0-next-3ba7add60-20221201

Hard to reproduce.

In Next.js, in rare cases, and only after a fast refresh, the ref object when using forwardRef is simply `{}`.

This leads to the `TypeError: can't define property "current": Object is not extensible` error when used with `useImperativeHandle`.

```tsx
function Parent() {
  const carouselRef = useRef<any>();

  return <Suspense><Carousel ref={carouselRef} /></Suspense>
}

const Carousel = forwardRef((props, ref) => {
  if (!('current' in ref)) { debugger; }
  const thing = use(aPromise);
  return ...;
});
```

![Screenshot 2023-03-17 at 18 49 21](https://user-images.githubusercontent.com/5406212/225981809-22f575fa-0ec7-4f94-ae23-bffc8bf7c4dd.png)

In `updateImperativeHandle`, the ref is already an empty object.

![Screenshot 2023-03-17 at 19 13 13](https://user-images.githubusercontent.com/5406212/225985622-b8512a61-3a6b-4958-b63f-277219d4c816.png)

I haven't investigated it further yet, the stacktraces are quite hard to follow.
initializeUpdateQueue(workInProgress);
    pushCacheProvider(workInProgress, freshCache);
  } else {
     
    if (includesSomeLane(current.lanes, renderLanes)) {
      cloneUpdateQueue(current, workInProgress);
      processUpdateQueue(workInProgress, null, null, renderLanes);
    }
    const prevState: CacheComponentState = current.memoizedState;
    const nextState: CacheComponentState = workInProgress.memoizedState;
     
     
    if (prevState.parent !== parentCache) {
       
      const derivedState: CacheComponentState = {
        parent: parentCache,
        cache: parentCache,
      };
       
       
      workInProgress.memoizedState = derivedState;
      if (workInProgress.lanes === NoLanes) {
        const updateQueue: UpdateQueue<any> = (workInProgress.updateQueue: any);
        workInProgress.memoizedState = updateQueue.baseState = derivedState;
      }
      pushCacheProvider(workInProgress, parentCache);
       
       
    } else {