Functional `ref` prop throws a `Maximum update depth exceeded` error when suspending.

React version: `18.0.0-alpha-464f27572-20210713`

## Steps To Reproduce

1. Click on the `suspend` button: https://codesandbox.io/s/ref-set-too-many-times-jm0c3?file=/src/App.js.

## The current behavior

Clicking on the `suspend` button throws a `Maximum update depth exceeded` error.

## The expected behavior

Clicking on the `suspend` button suspends.
fiber.child = null;
    fiber.deletions = null;
    fiber.sibling = null;
    
    
    
    
    if (fiber.tag === HostComponent) {
      const hostInstance: Instance = fiber.stateNode;
      if (hostInstance !== null) {
        detachDeletedInstance(hostInstance);
      }
    }
    fiber.stateNode = null;
    
    
    
    
     
    if (__DEV__) {
      fiber._debugOwner = null;
    }
    if (deletedTreeCleanUpLevel >= 3) {