React version: 18.3.0-next-3ba7add60-20221201

Hard to reproduce.

In Next.js, in rare cases, and only after a fast refresh, the ref object when using forwardRef is simply `{}`.

This leads to the `TypeError: can't define property "current": Object is not extensible` error when used with `useImperativeHandle`.

```tsx
function Parent() {
  const carouselRef = useRef<any>();

  return <Suspense><Carousel ref={carouselRef} /></Suspense>
}

const Carousel = forwardRef((props, ref) => {
  if (!('current' in ref)) { debugger; }
  const thing = use(aPromise);
  return ...;
});
```

![Screenshot 2023-03-17 at 18 49 21](https://user-images.githubusercontent.com/5406212/225981809-22f575fa-0ec7-4f94-ae23-bffc8bf7c4dd.png)

In `updateImperativeHandle`, the ref is already an empty object.

![Screenshot 2023-03-17 at 19 13 13](https://user-images.githubusercontent.com/5406212/225985622-b8512a61-3a6b-4958-b63f-277219d4c816.png)

I haven't investigated it further yet, the stacktraces are quite hard to follow.
createCapturedValue,
  createCapturedValueAtFiber,
  type CapturedValue,
} from './ReactCapturedValue';
import {createClassErrorUpdate} from './ReactFiberThrow';
import is from 'shared/objectIs';
import {
  getForksAtLevel,
  isForkedChild,
  pushTreeId,
  pushMaterializedTreeId,
} from './ReactFiberTreeContext';
import {
  requestCacheFromPool,
  pushRootTransition,
  getSuspendedCache,
  pushTransition,
  getOffscreenDeferredCache,
  getPendingTransitions,
} from './ReactFiberTransition';
import {
  getMarkerInstances,
  pushMarkerInstance,
  pushRootMarkerInstance,
  TransitionTracingMarker,
} from './ReactFiberTracingMarkerComponent';
const ReactCurrentOwner = ReactSharedInternals.ReactCurrentOwner;
export const SelectiveHydrationException: mixed = new Error(
  "This is not a real error. It's an implementation det of React's " +
    "selective hydration feature. If this leaks into userspace, it's a bug in " +