## React version
React version: 18.3.0-next-b0671f9ea-20230130

## Problem
In `StrictMode`,  when using hydrateRoot to render a component that using `useSyncExternalStore` it seems that useSES will do hydration twice. 

But in second hydration process,  useSES does not use the result of `getServerSnapshot` as initial state, which will cause hydration error.

This problem will only happen in `development` mode, 

## Reproduce
Link to code example:
https://codesandbox.io/s/useses-18-3-rojznv

It works well in react 18.2
https://codesandbox.io/s/useses-18-2-13iskc




expect(getVisibleChildren(container)).toEqual(<div>Loading...</div>);
    
    expect(bootstrapped).toBe(true);
    
    await waitForAll([]);
    
    expect(getVisibleChildren(container)).toEqual(<div>Loading...</div>);
    
    await act(() => {
      resolveText('Hello');
    });
    
    expect(getVisibleChildren(container)).toEqual(
      <div>
        <h1>Hello</h1>
      </div>,
    );
    const h1 = container.getElementsByTagName('h1')[0];
    
    expect(ref.current).toBe(null);
    await waitForAll([]);
    
    expect(ref.current).toBe(h1);
  });
  it('handles an error on the client if the server ends up erroring', async () => {
    const ref = React.createRef();
    class ErrorBoundary extends React.Component {
      state = {error: null};
      static getDerivedStateFromError(error) {