## React version
React version: 18.3.0-next-b0671f9ea-20230130

## Problem
In `StrictMode`,  when using hydrateRoot to render a component that using `useSyncExternalStore` it seems that useSES will do hydration twice. 

But in second hydration process,  useSES does not use the result of `getServerSnapshot` as initial state, which will cause hydration error.

This problem will only happen in `development` mode, 

## Reproduce
Link to code example:
https://codesandbox.io/s/useses-18-3-rojznv

It works well in react 18.2
https://codesandbox.io/s/useses-18-2-13iskc




console.error(
        '%s received a final argument during this render, but not during ' +
          'the previous render. Even though the final argument is optional, ' +
          'its type cannot change between renders.',
        currentHookNameInDev,
      );
    }
    return false;
  }
  if (__DEV__) {
    
    
    if (nextDeps.length !== prevDeps.length) {
      console.error(
        'The final argument passed to %s changed size between renders. The ' +
          'order and size of this array must remain constant.\n\n' +
          'Previous: %s\n' +
          'Incoming: %s',
        currentHookNameInDev,
        `[${prevDeps.join(', ')}]`,
        `[${nextDeps.join(', ')}]`,
      );
    }
  }
  
  for (let i = 0; i < prevDeps.length && i < nextDeps.length; i++) {
    
    if (is(nextDeps[i], prevDeps[i])) {