Functional `ref` prop throws a `Maximum update depth exceeded` error when suspending.

React version: `18.0.0-alpha-464f27572-20210713`

## Steps To Reproduce

1. Click on the `suspend` button: https://codesandbox.io/s/ref-set-too-many-times-jm0c3?file=/src/App.js.

## The current behavior

Clicking on the `suspend` button throws a `Maximum update depth exceeded` error.

## The expected behavior

Clicking on the `suspend` button suspends.
newProps,
        rootContainerInstance,
        currentHostContext,
      );
    }
    if (childrenUnchanged && updatePayload === null) {
      
      
      workInProgress.stateNode = currentInstance;
      return;
    }
    const newInstance = cloneInstance(
      currentInstance,
      updatePayload,
      type,
      oldProps,
      newProps,
      workInProgress,
      childrenUnchanged,
      recyclableInstance,
    );
    if (
      finalizeInitialChildren(
        newInstance,
        type,
        newProps,
        rootContainerInstance,
        currentHostContext,
      )
    ) {