Functional `ref` prop throws a `Maximum update depth exceeded` error when suspending.

React version: `18.0.0-alpha-464f27572-20210713`

## Steps To Reproduce

1. Click on the `suspend` button: https://codesandbox.io/s/ref-set-too-many-times-jm0c3?file=/src/App.js.

## The current behavior

Clicking on the `suspend` button throws a `Maximum update depth exceeded` error.

## The expected behavior

Clicking on the `suspend` button suspends.
if (__DEV__ && enableStrictEffects) {
     
     
    switch (fiber.tag) {
      case FunctionComponent:
      case ForwardRef:
      case SimpleMemoComponent: {
        try {
          commitHookEffectListUnmount(
            HookLayout | HookHasEffect,
            fiber,
            fiber.return,
          );
        } catch (error) {
          reportUncaughtErrorInDEV(error);
          captureCommitPhaseError(fiber, fiber.return, error);
        }
        break;
      }
      case ClassComponent: {
        const instance = fiber.stateNode;
        if (typeof instance.componentWillUnmount === 'function') {
          safelyCallComponentWillUnmount(fiber, fiber.return, instance);
        }
        break;
      }
    }
  }
}
function invokePassiveEffectUnmountInDEV(fiber: Fiber): void {