Using Ubuntu 18.04.2 LTS, with up-to-date, self-compiled master.
When I run
`./bitcoind -regtest -whitebind=bla`
I expect a clean shutdown with `Error: Cannot resolve -whitebind address: 'bla'`.
However sometimes my node doesn't stop and freezes (shutdown never finishes). 
This happens ~30% of the time for me, both on testnet and regtest. 

I believe that this is because `torControlThread.join();` never returns if it the thread is stopped right after its creation - it is started right before the whitebind part in `AppInitMain()`. If I insert a sleep before whitebind parameters are processed in Step 12 of `AppInitMain()` (or if I just disable the TorControl thread) the error does not occur.

Could someone try to reproduce? I encountered this testing #16248, but it is not restricted to this branch.

{
    if (reconnect_ev) {
        event_free(reconnect_ev);
        reconnect_ev = nullptr;
    }
    if (service.IsValid()) {
        RemoveLocal(service);
    }
}
void TorController::add_onion_cb(TorControlConnection& _conn, const TorControlReply& reply)
{
    if (reply.code == 250) {
        LogPrint(BCLog::TOR, "tor: ADD_ONION successful\n");
        for (const std::string &s : reply.lines) {
            std::map<std::string,std::string> m = ParseTorReplyMapping(s);
            std::map<std::string,std::string>::iterator i;
            if ((i = m.find("ServiceID")) != m.end())
                service_id = i->second;
            if ((i = m.find("PrivateKey")) != m.end())
                private_key = i->second;
        }
        if (service_id.empty()) {
            LogPrintf("tor: Error parsing ADD_ONION parameters:\n");