React version: 18.3.0-next-3ba7add60-20221201

Hard to reproduce.

In Next.js, in rare cases, and only after a fast refresh, the ref object when using forwardRef is simply `{}`.

This leads to the `TypeError: can't define property "current": Object is not extensible` error when used with `useImperativeHandle`.

```tsx
function Parent() {
  const carouselRef = useRef<any>();

  return <Suspense><Carousel ref={carouselRef} /></Suspense>
}

const Carousel = forwardRef((props, ref) => {
  if (!('current' in ref)) { debugger; }
  const thing = use(aPromise);
  return ...;
});
```

![Screenshot 2023-03-17 at 18 49 21](https://user-images.githubusercontent.com/5406212/225981809-22f575fa-0ec7-4f94-ae23-bffc8bf7c4dd.png)

In `updateImperativeHandle`, the ref is already an empty object.

![Screenshot 2023-03-17 at 19 13 13](https://user-images.githubusercontent.com/5406212/225985622-b8512a61-3a6b-4958-b63f-277219d4c816.png)

I haven't investigated it further yet, the stacktraces are quite hard to follow.
break;
          }
          default:
            console.error(
              '"%s" is not a supported revealOrder on <SuspenseList />. ' +
                'Did you mean "together", "forwards" or "backwards"?',
              revealOrder,
            );
            break;
        }
      } else {
        console.error(
          '%s is not a supported value for revealOrder on <SuspenseList />. ' +
            'Did you mean "together", "forwards" or "backwards"?',
          revealOrder,
        );
      }
    }
  }
}
function validateTOptions(
  tMode: SuspenseListTMode,
  revealOrder: SuspenseListRevealOrder,
) {
  if (__DEV__) {
    if (tMode !== undefined && !didWarnAboutTOptions[tMode]) {
      if (tMode !== 'collapsed' && tMode !== 'hidden') {
        didWarnAboutTOptions[tMode] = true;
        console.error(
          '"%s" is not a supported value for t on <SuspenseList />. ' +