Functional `ref` prop throws a `Maximum update depth exceeded` error when suspending.

React version: `18.0.0-alpha-464f27572-20210713`

## Steps To Reproduce

1. Click on the `suspend` button: https://codesandbox.io/s/ref-set-too-many-times-jm0c3?file=/src/App.js.

## The current behavior

Clicking on the `suspend` button throws a `Maximum update depth exceeded` error.

## The expected behavior

Clicking on the `suspend` button suspends.
current,
          nearestMountedAncestor,
          instance,
        );
      }
      return;
    }
    case HostComponent: {
      safelyDetachRef(current, nearestMountedAncestor);
      return;
    }
    case HostPortal: {
      
      
      
      if (supportsMutation) {