React version: 18.3.0-next-3ba7add60-20221201

Hard to reproduce.

In Next.js, in rare cases, and only after a fast refresh, the ref object when using forwardRef is simply `{}`.

This leads to the `TypeError: can't define property "current": Object is not extensible` error when used with `useImperativeHandle`.

```tsx
function Parent() {
  const carouselRef = useRef<any>();

  return <Suspense><Carousel ref={carouselRef} /></Suspense>
}

const Carousel = forwardRef((props, ref) => {
  if (!('current' in ref)) { debugger; }
  const thing = use(aPromise);
  return ...;
});
```

![Screenshot 2023-03-17 at 18 49 21](https://user-images.githubusercontent.com/5406212/225981809-22f575fa-0ec7-4f94-ae23-bffc8bf7c4dd.png)

In `updateImperativeHandle`, the ref is already an empty object.

![Screenshot 2023-03-17 at 19 13 13](https://user-images.githubusercontent.com/5406212/225985622-b8512a61-3a6b-4958-b63f-277219d4c816.png)

I haven't investigated it further yet, the stacktraces are quite hard to follow.
return workInProgressRootExitStatus;
  }
}
** @noinline *
function workLoopConcurrent() {
   
  while (workInProgress !== null && !shouldYield()) {
     
    performUnitOfWork(workInProgress);
  }
}
function performUnitOfWork(unitOfWork: Fiber): void {
   
   
   
  const current = unitOfWork.alternate;
  setCurrentDebugFiberInDEV(unitOfWork);
  let next;
  if (enableProfilerTimer && (unitOfWork.mode & ProfileMode) !== NoMode) {
    startProfilerTimer(unitOfWork);
    next = beginWork(current, unitOfWork, renderLanes);
    stopProfilerTimerIfRunningAndRecordDelta(unitOfWork, true);
  } else {
    next = beginWork(current, unitOfWork, renderLanes);
  }
  resetCurrentDebugFiberInDEV();
  unitOfWork.memoizedProps = unitOfWork.pendingProps;
  if (next === null) {
     
    completeUnitOfWork(unitOfWork);