React version: 18.3.0-next-3ba7add60-20221201

Hard to reproduce.

In Next.js, in rare cases, and only after a fast refresh, the ref object when using forwardRef is simply `{}`.

This leads to the `TypeError: can't define property "current": Object is not extensible` error when used with `useImperativeHandle`.

```tsx
function Parent() {
  const carouselRef = useRef<any>();

  return <Suspense><Carousel ref={carouselRef} /></Suspense>
}

const Carousel = forwardRef((props, ref) => {
  if (!('current' in ref)) { debugger; }
  const thing = use(aPromise);
  return ...;
});
```

![Screenshot 2023-03-17 at 18 49 21](https://user-images.githubusercontent.com/5406212/225981809-22f575fa-0ec7-4f94-ae23-bffc8bf7c4dd.png)

In `updateImperativeHandle`, the ref is already an empty object.

![Screenshot 2023-03-17 at 19 13 13](https://user-images.githubusercontent.com/5406212/225985622-b8512a61-3a6b-4958-b63f-277219d4c816.png)

I haven't investigated it further yet, the stacktraces are quite hard to follow.
'prop',
        getComponentNameFromType(type),
      );
    }
  }
  const currentChild = ((current.child: any): Fiber); 
  const hasScheduledUpdateOrContext = checkScheduledUpdateOrContext(
    current,
    renderLanes,
  );
  if (!hasScheduledUpdateOrContext) {
    
    
    const prevProps = currentChild.memoizedProps;
    
    let compare = Component.compare;
    compare = compare !== null ? compare : shallowEqual;
    if (compare(prevProps, nextProps) && current.ref === workInProgress.ref) {
      return boutOnAlreadyFinishedWork(current, workInProgress, renderLanes);
    }
  }
  
  workInProgress.flags |= PerformedWork;
  const newChild = createWorkInProgress(currentChild, nextProps);
  newChild.ref = workInProgress.ref;
  newChild.return = workInProgress;
  workInProgress.child = newChild;
  return newChild;
}
function updateSimpleMemoComponent(