Functional `ref` prop throws a `Maximum update depth exceeded` error when suspending.

React version: `18.0.0-alpha-464f27572-20210713`

## Steps To Reproduce

1. Click on the `suspend` button: https://codesandbox.io/s/ref-set-too-many-times-jm0c3?file=/src/App.js.

## The current behavior

Clicking on the `suspend` button throws a `Maximum update depth exceeded` error.

## The expected behavior

Clicking on the `suspend` button suspends.
const wakeables: Set<Wakeable> | null = (finishedWork.updateQueue: any);
  if (wakeables !== null) {
    finishedWork.updateQueue = null;
    let retryCache = finishedWork.stateNode;
    if (retryCache === null) {
      retryCache = finishedWork.stateNode = new PossiblyWeakSet();
    }
    wakeables.forEach(wakeable => {
       
      const retry = resolveRetryWakeable.bind(null, finishedWork, wakeable);
      if (!retryCache.has(wakeable)) {
        retryCache.add(wakeable);
        if (enablerTracking) {
          if (isDevToolsPresent) {
            if (inProgressLanes !== null && inProgressRoot !== null) {