It's surprising that using a non-standard listening port will cause peers to actively avoid connecting to you, is it sensible to add this to the help message and the warnings on startup if people have changed the default? I can't find this behavior mentioned anywhere except for the comments in net.cpp. 

```
// do not allow non-default ports, unless after 50 invalid addresses selected already
if (addr.GetPort() != Params().GetDefaultPort() && nTries < 50)
continue;
```

https://github.com/bitcoin/bitcoin/blob/master/src/net.cpp#L1369

}
    
    int64_t nMempoolSizeMax = args.GetArg("-maxmempool", DEFAULT_MAX_MEMPOOL_SIZE) * 1000000;
    int64_t nMempoolSizeMin = args.GetArg("-limitdescendantsize", DEFAULT_DESCENDANT_SIZE_LIMIT) * 1000 * 40;
    if (nMempoolSizeMax < 0 || nMempoolSizeMax < nMempoolSizeMin)
        return InitError(strprintf(_("-maxmempool must be at least %d MB"), std::ceil(nMempoolSizeMin / 1000000.0)));
    
    
    if (args.IsArgSet("-incrementalrelayfee")) {
        CAmount n = 0;
        if (!ParseMoney(args.GetArg("-incrementalrelayfee", ""), n))
            return InitError(AmountErrMsg("incrementalrelayfee", args.GetArg("-incrementalrelayfee", "")));
        incrementalRelayFee = CFeeRate(n);
    }
    
    int64_t nPruneArg = args.GetArg("-prune", 0);
    if (nPruneArg < 0) {
        return InitError(_("Prune cannot be configured with a negative value."));
    }
    nPruneTarget = (uint64_t) nPruneArg * 1024 * 1024;
    if (nPruneArg == 1) {  
        LogPrintf("Block pruning enabled.  Use RPC call pruneblockchain(height) to manually prune block and undo files.\n");
        nPruneTarget = std::numeric_limits<uint64_t>::max();
        fPruneMode = true;
    } else if (nPruneTarget) {
        if (nPruneTarget < MIN_DISK_SPACE_FOR_BLOCK_FILES) {
            return InitError(strprintf(_("Prune configured below the minimum of %d MiB.  Please use a higher number."), MIN_DISK_SPACE_FOR_BLOCK_FILES / 1024 / 1024));
        }
        LogPrintf("Prune configured to target %u MiB on disk for block and undo files.\n", nPruneTarget / 1024 / 1024);
        fPruneMode = true;