Functional `ref` prop throws a `Maximum update depth exceeded` error when suspending.

React version: `18.0.0-alpha-464f27572-20210713`

## Steps To Reproduce

1. Click on the `suspend` button: https://codesandbox.io/s/ref-set-too-many-times-jm0c3?file=/src/App.js.

## The current behavior

Clicking on the `suspend` button throws a `Maximum update depth exceeded` error.

## The expected behavior

Clicking on the `suspend` button suspends.
if (supportsPersistence) {
        
        if (nextDidTimeout) {
          
          
          
          workInProgress.flags |= Update;
        }
      }
      if (supportsMutation) {
        
        if (nextDidTimeout || prevDidTimeout) {
          
          
          
          
          
          workInProgress.flags |= Update;
        }
      }
      if (
        enableSuspenseCallback &&
        workInProgress.updateQueue !== null &&
        workInProgress.memoizedProps.suspenseCallback != null
      ) {
        
        workInProgress.flags |= Update;
      }
      bubbleProperties(workInProgress);
      if (enableProfilerTimer) {