Functional `ref` prop throws a `Maximum update depth exceeded` error when suspending.

React version: `18.0.0-alpha-464f27572-20210713`

## Steps To Reproduce

1. Click on the `suspend` button: https://codesandbox.io/s/ref-set-too-many-times-jm0c3?file=/src/App.js.

## The current behavior

Clicking on the `suspend` button throws a `Maximum update depth exceeded` error.

## The expected behavior

Clicking on the `suspend` button suspends.
unmountHostComponents(finishedRoot, current, nearestMountedAncestor);
      } else if (supportsPersistence) {
        emptyPortalContainer(current);
      }
      return;
    }
    case DehydratedFragment: {
      if (enableSuspenseCallback) {
        const hydrationCallbacks = finishedRoot.hydrationCallbacks;
        if (hydrationCallbacks !== null) {
          const onDeleted = hydrationCallbacks.onDeleted;
          if (onDeleted) {
            onDeleted((current.stateNode: SuspenseInstance));
          }
        }
      }
      return;
    }
    case ScopeComponent: {
      if (enableScopeAPI) {
        safelyDetachRef(current, nearestMountedAncestor);
      }
      return;
    }
  }