(from discussion on IRC. Currently a global `settxfee` has to be changed to override the fee rate, it would make sense to be able to specify it on a per-transaction basis. This would continue #7518)

```
-*- jonasschnelli thinks we should probably add a optional feerate parameter to fundrawtransaction
<wumpus> jonasschnelli: there isn't one yet?
-*- jonasschnelli looking..
<wumpus> I'm surprised, would be so much better than changing a global
<jonasschnelli> no.. i don't think so. Maybe there is a PR.
<sipa> there is a pr
<jonasschnelli> Hard to keep track of everything. :)
<wumpus> no, the PR does it wrong
```

Regarding implementation:

```
<jonasschnelli> The ugly thing is, that CreateTransaction uses the static DEFAULT_TARGET
<wumpus> passing in an optional feerate would be the obvious thing to do
<jonasschnelli> So, this would require some refactoring.
<sipa> just add a confirmation target to coincontrol
<jonasschnelli> Yes. This sounds good.
<wumpus> right, just slap it into coincontrol
<sipa> wasn't there a PR that added a bunch of options to fundrawtransaction?
<sipa> including that
<jonasschnelli> Not the feerate.
<jonasschnelli> But the rest is merged.
```

std::pair<TxSpends::const_iterator, TxSpends::const_iterator> range = mapTxSpends.equal_range(txin.prevout);
                while (range.first != range.second) {
                    if (range.first->second != tx.GetHash()) {
                        LogPrintf("Transaction %s (in block %s) conflicts with wallet transaction %s (both spend %s:%i)\n", tx.GetHash().ToString(), pblock->GetHash().ToString(), range.first->second.ToString(), range.first->first.hash.ToString(), range.first->first.n);
                        MarkConflicted(pblock->GetHash(), range.first->second);
                    }
                    range.first++;
                }
            }
        }
        bool fExisted = mapWallet.count(tx.GetHash()) != 0;
        if (fExisted && !fUpdate) return false;
        if (fExisted || IsMine(tx) || IsFromMe(tx))
        {
            CWalletTx wtx(this,tx);
            
            if (pblock)
                wtx.SetMerkleBranch(*pblock);
            
            
            CWalletDB walletdb(strWalletFile, "r+", false);
            return AddToWallet(wtx, false, &walletdb);
        }
    }
    return false;
}
bool CWallet::AbandonTransaction(const uint256& hashTx)