React version: 18.3.0-next-3ba7add60-20221201

Hard to reproduce.

In Next.js, in rare cases, and only after a fast refresh, the ref object when using forwardRef is simply `{}`.

This leads to the `TypeError: can't define property "current": Object is not extensible` error when used with `useImperativeHandle`.

```tsx
function Parent() {
  const carouselRef = useRef<any>();

  return <Suspense><Carousel ref={carouselRef} /></Suspense>
}

const Carousel = forwardRef((props, ref) => {
  if (!('current' in ref)) { debugger; }
  const thing = use(aPromise);
  return ...;
});
```

![Screenshot 2023-03-17 at 18 49 21](https://user-images.githubusercontent.com/5406212/225981809-22f575fa-0ec7-4f94-ae23-bffc8bf7c4dd.png)

In `updateImperativeHandle`, the ref is already an empty object.

![Screenshot 2023-03-17 at 19 13 13](https://user-images.githubusercontent.com/5406212/225985622-b8512a61-3a6b-4958-b63f-277219d4c816.png)

I haven't investigated it further yet, the stacktraces are quite hard to follow.
const nextProps = workInProgress.pendingProps;
  const primaryChildren = nextProps.children;
  const primaryChildFragment = mountSuspensePrimaryChildren(
    workInProgress,
    primaryChildren,
    renderLanes,
  );
   
   
  primaryChildFragment.flags |= Placement;
  workInProgress.memoizedState = null;
  return primaryChildFragment;
}
function mountSuspenseFallbackAfterRetryWithoutHydrating(
  current: Fiber,
  workInProgress: Fiber,
  primaryChildren: $FlowFixMe,
  fallbackChildren: $FlowFixMe,
  renderLanes: Lanes,
) {
  const fiberMode = workInProgress.mode;
  const primaryChildProps: OffscreenProps = {
    mode: 'visible',
    children: primaryChildren,
  };
  const primaryChildFragment = mountWorkInProgressOffscreenFiber(
    primaryChildProps,
    fiberMode,
    NoLanes,