Functional `ref` prop throws a `Maximum update depth exceeded` error when suspending.

React version: `18.0.0-alpha-464f27572-20210713`

## Steps To Reproduce

1. Click on the `suspend` button: https://codesandbox.io/s/ref-set-too-many-times-jm0c3?file=/src/App.js.

## The current behavior

Clicking on the `suspend` button throws a `Maximum update depth exceeded` error.

## The expected behavior

Clicking on the `suspend` button suspends.
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          }
        }
      } else if (node.tag === HostText) {
        if (hostSubtreeRoot === null) {
          const instance = node.stateNode;
          if (isHidden) {
            hideTextInstance(instance);
          } else {
            unhideTextInstance(instance, node.memoizedProps);
          }
        }
      } else if (
        (node.tag === OffscreenComponent ||
          node.tag === LegacyHiddenComponent) &&
        (node.memoizedState: OffscreenState) !== null &&
        node !== finishedWork
      ) {
        
        
      } else if (enableSuspenseLayoutEffectSemantics && isModernRoot) {
        
        
        switch (node.tag) {
          case FunctionComponent:
          case ForwardRef:
          case MemoComponent:
          case SimpleMemoComponent: {
            
            if (isHidden && !wasHidden) {