Functional `ref` prop throws a `Maximum update depth exceeded` error when suspending.

React version: `18.0.0-alpha-464f27572-20210713`

## Steps To Reproduce

1. Click on the `suspend` button: https://codesandbox.io/s/ref-set-too-many-times-jm0c3?file=/src/App.js.

## The current behavior

Clicking on the `suspend` button throws a `Maximum update depth exceeded` error.

## The expected behavior

Clicking on the `suspend` button suspends.
removeChildFromContainer(
          ((currentParent: any): Container),
          (node.stateNode: Instance | TextInstance),
        );
      } else {
        removeChild(
          ((currentParent: any): Instance),
          (node.stateNode: Instance | TextInstance),
        );
      }
       
    } else if (
      enableSuspenseServerRenderer &&
      node.tag === DehydratedFragment
    ) {
      if (enableSuspenseCallback) {
        const hydrationCallbacks = finishedRoot.hydrationCallbacks;
        if (hydrationCallbacks !== null) {
          const onDeleted = hydrationCallbacks.onDeleted;
          if (onDeleted) {
            onDeleted((node.stateNode: SuspenseInstance));
          }
        }
      }
       
      if (currentParentIsContainer) {
        clearSuspenseBoundaryFromContainer(
          ((currentParent: any): Container),
          (node.stateNode: SuspenseInstance),
        );