Functional `ref` prop throws a `Maximum update depth exceeded` error when suspending.

React version: `18.0.0-alpha-464f27572-20210713`

## Steps To Reproduce

1. Click on the `suspend` button: https://codesandbox.io/s/ref-set-too-many-times-jm0c3?file=/src/App.js.

## The current behavior

Clicking on the `suspend` button throws a `Maximum update depth exceeded` error.

## The expected behavior

Clicking on the `suspend` button suspends.
if (
        finishedWork.tag === SuspenseComponent &&
        isSuspenseBoundaryBeingHidden(current, finishedWork) &&
        doesFiberContain(finishedWork, focusedInstanceHandle)
      ) {
        shouldFireAfterActiveInstanceBlur = true;
        beforeActiveInstanceBlur(finishedWork);
      }
    }
  }
  if ((flags & Snapshot) !== NoFlags) {
    setCurrentDebugFiberInDEV(finishedWork);
    switch (finishedWork.tag) {
      case FunctionComponent:
      case ForwardRef:
      case SimpleMemoComponent: {
        break;
      }
      case ClassComponent: {
        if (current !== null) {
          const prevProps = current.memoizedProps;
          const prevState = current.memoizedState;
          const instance = finishedWork.stateNode;
          
          
          
          if (__DEV__) {
            if (