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Hi everyone,
We use bitcoin core with hundreds of wallets. The only efficient way we have found to do so is :
1. wait for any bitcoin-cli command to terminate before issuing another one
2. never issue any bitcoin-cli command unless tip update is 1
3. always unload a wallet after loading and using it

Now, we observ that bitcoin core systematically crashes every 20-30 minutes, then automatically restarts. And the problem is, it has to re-sync from about 0.997, which easily takes 15-20 minutes. During that time, the daemon cannot be used.

If we don't load/unload wallets, the daemon is stable and keeps to 1, no issue.

**System information**
Bitcoin Core RPC client version v0.20.0.0-ga62f0ed64f8bbbdfe6467ac5ce92ef5b5222d1bd
Compiled and run on Debian 9, on a VM with 16 mo memory. Launched that way : /bitcoind -daemon -walletrbf -conf=/root/.bitcoin/bitcoin.conf -fallbackfee=0.00001 -rpcworkqueue=128 -txindex=1

**bitcoin.conf :**
server=1
dbcache=16384
par=1
blocksonly=1
maxuploadtarget=137
maxconnections=16
rpcuser=bitcoinrpc
rpcpassword=xxxxxx
rpcallowip=127.0.0.1
testnet=0
txindex=1
walletbroadcast=1
txconfirmtarget=1

Please note that the same behaviour was happening with older releases (from 0.17.x).

Thanks for any help. Please ask for any needed information / testing.
Regards,
{
    if (!m_address_book[dest].destdata.erase(key))
        return false;
    return batch.EraseDestData(EncodeDestination(dest), key);
}
void CWallet::LoadDestData(const CTxDestination &dest, const std::string &key, const std::string &value)
{
    m_address_book[dest].destdata.insert(std::make_pair(key, value));
}
bool CWallet::GetDestData(const CTxDestination &dest, const std::string &key, std::string *value) const
{
    std::map<CTxDestination, CAddressBookData>::const_iterator i = m_address_book.find(dest);
    if(i != m_address_book.end())
    {
        CAddressBookData::StringMap::const_iterator j = i->second.destdata.find(key);
        if(j != i->second.destdata.end())
        {
            if(value)
                *value = j->second;
            return true;
        }
    }
    return false;
}
std::vector<std::string> CWallet::GetDestValues(const std::string& prefix) const