Functional `ref` prop throws a `Maximum update depth exceeded` error when suspending.

React version: `18.0.0-alpha-464f27572-20210713`

## Steps To Reproduce

1. Click on the `suspend` button: https://codesandbox.io/s/ref-set-too-many-times-jm0c3?file=/src/App.js.

## The current behavior

Clicking on the `suspend` button throws a `Maximum update depth exceeded` error.

## The expected behavior

Clicking on the `suspend` button suspends.
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            'We must have new props for new mounts. This error is likely ' +
              'caused by a bug in React. Please file an issue.',
          );
          
          bubbleProperties(workInProgress);
          return null;
        }
        const currentHostContext = getHostContext();
        
        
        
        
        const wasHydrated = popHydrationState(workInProgress);
        if (wasHydrated) {
          
          
          if (
            prepareToHydrateHostInstance(
              workInProgress,
              rootContainerInstance,
              currentHostContext,
            )
          ) {
            
            
            markUpdate(workInProgress);
          }
        } else {
          const instance = createInstance(