It's surprising that using a non-standard listening port will cause peers to actively avoid connecting to you, is it sensible to add this to the help message and the warnings on startup if people have changed the default? I can't find this behavior mentioned anywhere except for the comments in net.cpp. 

```
// do not allow non-default ports, unless after 50 invalid addresses selected already
if (addr.GetPort() != Params().GetDefaultPort() && nTries < 50)
continue;
```

https://github.com/bitcoin/bitcoin/blob/master/src/net.cpp#L1369

{
    const CChainParams& chainparams = Params();
    
    
    
    
    
    std::string network = args.GetChainName();
    if (network == CBaseChainParams::SIGNET) {
        LogPrintf("Signet derived magic (message start): %s\n", HexStr(chainparams.MessageStart()));
    }
    bilingual_str errors;
    for (const auto& arg : args.GetUnsuitableSectionOnlyArgs()) {
        errors += strprintf(_("Config setting for %s only applied on %s network when in [%s] section.") + Untranslated("\n"), arg, network, network);
    }
    if (!errors.empty()) {
        return InitError(errors);
    }
    
    bilingual_str warnings;
    for (const auto& section : args.GetUnrecognizedSections()) {
        warnings += strprintf(Untranslated("%s:%i ") + _("Section [%s] is not recognized.") + Untranslated("\n"), section.m_file, section.m_line, section.m_name);
    }
    if (!warnings.empty()) {
        InitWarning(warnings);
    }
    if (!fs::is_directory(GetBlocksDir())) {
        return InitError(strprintf(_("Specified blocks directory \"%s\" does not exist."), args.GetArg("-blocksdir", "")));
    }