Functional `ref` prop throws a `Maximum update depth exceeded` error when suspending.

React version: `18.0.0-alpha-464f27572-20210713`

## Steps To Reproduce

1. Click on the `suspend` button: https://codesandbox.io/s/ref-set-too-many-times-jm0c3?file=/src/App.js.

## The current behavior

Clicking on the `suspend` button throws a `Maximum update depth exceeded` error.

## The expected behavior

Clicking on the `suspend` button suspends.
const cannotBeSuspended =
            renderHasNotSuspendedYet() &&
            (current === null || (current.flags & DidCapture) === NoFlags);
          if (!cannotBeSuspended) {
            let row = workInProgress.child;
            while (row !== null) {
              const suspended = findFirstSuspended(row);
              if (suspended !== null) {
                didSuspendAlready = true;
                workInProgress.flags |= DidCapture;
                cutOffTailIfNeeded(renderState, false);
                
                
                
                
                
                
                
                
                
                
                
                
                const newThennables = suspended.updateQueue;
                if (newThennables !== null) {
                  workInProgress.updateQueue = newThennables;
                  workInProgress.flags |= Update;
                }