React version: 18.3.0-next-3ba7add60-20221201

Hard to reproduce.

In Next.js, in rare cases, and only after a fast refresh, the ref object when using forwardRef is simply `{}`.

This leads to the `TypeError: can't define property "current": Object is not extensible` error when used with `useImperativeHandle`.

```tsx
function Parent() {
  const carouselRef = useRef<any>();

  return <Suspense><Carousel ref={carouselRef} /></Suspense>
}

const Carousel = forwardRef((props, ref) => {
  if (!('current' in ref)) { debugger; }
  const thing = use(aPromise);
  return ...;
});
```

![Screenshot 2023-03-17 at 18 49 21](https://user-images.githubusercontent.com/5406212/225981809-22f575fa-0ec7-4f94-ae23-bffc8bf7c4dd.png)

In `updateImperativeHandle`, the ref is already an empty object.

![Screenshot 2023-03-17 at 19 13 13](https://user-images.githubusercontent.com/5406212/225985622-b8512a61-3a6b-4958-b63f-277219d4c816.png)

I haven't investigated it further yet, the stacktraces are quite hard to follow.
markRootSuspended(root, lanes);
    } else {
       
       
       
       
       
       
      const renderWasConcurrent = !includesBlockingLane(root, lanes);
      const finishedWork: Fiber = (root.current.alternate: any);
      if (
        renderWasConcurrent &&
        !isRenderConsistentWithExternalStores(finishedWork)
      ) {
         
         
        exitStatus = renderRootSync(root, lanes);
         
        if (exitStatus === RootErrored) {
          const originallyAttemptedLanes = lanes;
          const errorRetryLanes = getLanesToRetrySynchronouslyOnError(
            root,
            originallyAttemptedLanes,
          );
          if (errorRetryLanes !== NoLanes) {
            lanes = errorRetryLanes;
            exitStatus = recoverFromConcurrentError(