Functional `ref` prop throws a `Maximum update depth exceeded` error when suspending.

React version: `18.0.0-alpha-464f27572-20210713`

## Steps To Reproduce

1. Click on the `suspend` button: https://codesandbox.io/s/ref-set-too-many-times-jm0c3?file=/src/App.js.

## The current behavior

Clicking on the `suspend` button throws a `Maximum update depth exceeded` error.

## The expected behavior

Clicking on the `suspend` button suspends.
if (primaryChildParent.child !== null) {
                primaryChildParent.child.return = primaryChildParent;
                appendAllChildrenToContainer(
                  containerChildSet,
                  primaryChildParent,
                  true,
                  newIsHidden,
                );
              }
              const fallbackChildParent = primaryChildParent.sibling;
              if (fallbackChildParent !== null) {
                fallbackChildParent.return = node;
                node = fallbackChildParent;
                continue;
              }
            }
          }
        }
        if (node.child !== null) {
          
          node.child.return = node;
          node = node.child;
          continue;
        }
      } else if (node.child !== null) {
        node.child.return = node;
        node = node.child;
        continue;
      }