## React version
React version: 18.3.0-next-b0671f9ea-20230130

## Problem
In `StrictMode`,  when using hydrateRoot to render a component that using `useSyncExternalStore` it seems that useSES will do hydration twice. 

But in second hydration process,  useSES does not use the result of `getServerSnapshot` as initial state, which will cause hydration error.

This problem will only happen in `development` mode, 

## Reproduce
Link to code example:
https://codesandbox.io/s/useses-18-3-rojznv

It works well in react 18.2
https://codesandbox.io/s/useses-18-2-13iskc




dispatch: null,
    
    lastRenderedReducer: null,
    lastRenderedState: null,
  };
  hook.queue = queue;
  
  const dispatch: A => void = (dispatchOptimisticSetState.bind(
    null,
    currentlyRenderingFiber,
    true,
    queue,
  ): any);
  queue.dispatch = dispatch;
  return [passthrough, dispatch];
}
function updateOptimistic<S, A>(
  passthrough: S,
  reducer: ?(S, A) => S,
): [S, (A) => void] {
  const hook = updateWorkInProgressHook();
  
  
  
  
  
  
  hook.baseState = hook.memoizedState = passthrough;
  
  const resolvedReducer: (S, A) => S =