Functional `ref` prop throws a `Maximum update depth exceeded` error when suspending.

React version: `18.0.0-alpha-464f27572-20210713`

## Steps To Reproduce

1. Click on the `suspend` button: https://codesandbox.io/s/ref-set-too-many-times-jm0c3?file=/src/App.js.

## The current behavior

Clicking on the `suspend` button throws a `Maximum update depth exceeded` error.

## The expected behavior

Clicking on the `suspend` button suspends.
type,
            newProps,
            rootContainerInstance,
            currentHostContext,
            workInProgress,
          );
          appendAllChildren(instance, workInProgress, false, false);
          workInProgress.stateNode = instance;
          
          
          
          if (
            finalizeInitialChildren(
              instance,
              type,
              newProps,
              rootContainerInstance,
              currentHostContext,
            )
          ) {
            markUpdate(workInProgress);
          }
        }
        if (workInProgress.ref !== null) {
          
          markRef(workInProgress);
        }
      }
      bubbleProperties(workInProgress);
      return null;