Functional `ref` prop throws a `Maximum update depth exceeded` error when suspending.

React version: `18.0.0-alpha-464f27572-20210713`

## Steps To Reproduce

1. Click on the `suspend` button: https://codesandbox.io/s/ref-set-too-many-times-jm0c3?file=/src/App.js.

## The current behavior

Clicking on the `suspend` button throws a `Maximum update depth exceeded` error.

## The expected behavior

Clicking on the `suspend` button suspends.
workInProgress.lanes = SomeRetryLane;
          }
        } else {
          cutOffTailIfNeeded(renderState, false);
        }
        
      } else {
        
        if (!didSuspendAlready) {
          const suspended = findFirstSuspended(renderedTail);
          if (suspended !== null) {
            workInProgress.flags |= DidCapture;
            didSuspendAlready = true;
            
            
            const newThennables = suspended.updateQueue;
            if (newThennables !== null) {
              workInProgress.updateQueue = newThennables;
              workInProgress.flags |= Update;
            }
            cutOffTailIfNeeded(renderState, true);
            
            if (
              renderState.tail === null &&
              renderState.tailMode === 'hidden' &&