React version: 18.3.0-next-3ba7add60-20221201

Hard to reproduce.

In Next.js, in rare cases, and only after a fast refresh, the ref object when using forwardRef is simply `{}`.

This leads to the `TypeError: can't define property "current": Object is not extensible` error when used with `useImperativeHandle`.

```tsx
function Parent() {
  const carouselRef = useRef<any>();

  return <Suspense><Carousel ref={carouselRef} /></Suspense>
}

const Carousel = forwardRef((props, ref) => {
  if (!('current' in ref)) { debugger; }
  const thing = use(aPromise);
  return ...;
});
```

![Screenshot 2023-03-17 at 18 49 21](https://user-images.githubusercontent.com/5406212/225981809-22f575fa-0ec7-4f94-ae23-bffc8bf7c4dd.png)

In `updateImperativeHandle`, the ref is already an empty object.

![Screenshot 2023-03-17 at 19 13 13](https://user-images.githubusercontent.com/5406212/225985622-b8512a61-3a6b-4958-b63f-277219d4c816.png)

I haven't investigated it further yet, the stacktraces are quite hard to follow.
if (__DEV__) {
        ({digest, message, stack} =
          getSuspenseInstanceFallbackErrorDets(suspenseInstance));
      } else {
        ({digest} = getSuspenseInstanceFallbackErrorDets(suspenseInstance));
      }
      let error;
      if (message) {
         
        error = new Error(message);
      } else {
        error = new Error(
          'The server could not finish this Suspense boundary, likely ' +
            'due to an error during server rendering. Switched to ' +
            'client rendering.',
        );
      }
      (error: any).digest = digest;
      const capturedValue = createCapturedValue<mixed>(error, digest, stack);
      return retrySuspenseComponentWithoutHydrating(
        current,
        workInProgress,
        renderLanes,
        capturedValue,
      );
    }
    if (
      enableLazyContextPropagation &&