Functional `ref` prop throws a `Maximum update depth exceeded` error when suspending.

React version: `18.0.0-alpha-464f27572-20210713`

## Steps To Reproduce

1. Click on the `suspend` button: https://codesandbox.io/s/ref-set-too-many-times-jm0c3?file=/src/App.js.

## The current behavior

Clicking on the `suspend` button throws a `Maximum update depth exceeded` error.

## The expected behavior

Clicking on the `suspend` button suspends.
workInProgress.updateQueue = (updatePayload: any);
    
    
    if (updatePayload) {
      markUpdate(workInProgress);
    }
  };
  updateHostText = function(
    current: Fiber,
    workInProgress: Fiber,
    oldText: string,
    newText: string,
  ) {
    
    if (oldText !== newText) {
      markUpdate(workInProgress);
    }
  };
} else if (supportsPersistence) {
  
  appendAllChildren = function(
    parent: Instance,
    workInProgress: Fiber,
    needsVisibilityToggle: boolean,
    isHidden: boolean,
  ) {
    
    
    let node = workInProgress.child;