React version: 18.3.0-next-3ba7add60-20221201

Hard to reproduce.

In Next.js, in rare cases, and only after a fast refresh, the ref object when using forwardRef is simply `{}`.

This leads to the `TypeError: can't define property "current": Object is not extensible` error when used with `useImperativeHandle`.

```tsx
function Parent() {
  const carouselRef = useRef<any>();

  return <Suspense><Carousel ref={carouselRef} /></Suspense>
}

const Carousel = forwardRef((props, ref) => {
  if (!('current' in ref)) { debugger; }
  const thing = use(aPromise);
  return ...;
});
```

![Screenshot 2023-03-17 at 18 49 21](https://user-images.githubusercontent.com/5406212/225981809-22f575fa-0ec7-4f94-ae23-bffc8bf7c4dd.png)

In `updateImperativeHandle`, the ref is already an empty object.

![Screenshot 2023-03-17 at 19 13 13](https://user-images.githubusercontent.com/5406212/225985622-b8512a61-3a6b-4958-b63f-277219d4c816.png)

I haven't investigated it further yet, the stacktraces are quite hard to follow.
likely unblocked. Try rendering again, at a new lanes.
  if (retryLane === NoLane) {
     TODO: Assign this to `suspenseState.retryLane`? to avoid
     unnecessary entanglement?
    retryLane = requestRetryLane(boundaryFiber);
  }
   TODO: Special case idle priority?
  const eventTime = requestEventTime();
  const root = enqueueConcurrentRenderForLane(boundaryFiber, retryLane);
  if (root !== null) {
    markRootUpdated(root, retryLane, eventTime);
    ensureRootIsScheduled(root);
  }
}
export function retryDehydratedSuspenseBoundary(boundaryFiber: Fiber) {
  const suspenseState: null | SuspenseState = boundaryFiber.memoizedState;
  let retryLane = NoLane;
  if (suspenseState !== null) {
    retryLane = suspenseState.retryLane;
  }
  retryTimedOutBoundary(boundaryFiber, retryLane);
}
export function resolveRetryWakeable(boundaryFiber: Fiber, wakeable: Wakeable) {
  let retryLane = NoLane;  Default
  let retryCache: WeakSet<Wakeable> | Set<Wakeable> | null;
  switch (boundaryFiber.tag) {
    case SuspenseComponent:
      retryCache = boundaryFiber.stateNode;
      const suspenseState: null | SuspenseState = boundaryFiber.memoizedState;
      if (suspenseState !== null) {