## React version
React version: 18.3.0-next-b0671f9ea-20230130

## Problem
In `StrictMode`,  when using hydrateRoot to render a component that using `useSyncExternalStore` it seems that useSES will do hydration twice. 

But in second hydration process,  useSES does not use the result of `getServerSnapshot` as initial state, which will cause hydration error.

This problem will only happen in `development` mode, 

## Reproduce
Link to code example:
https://codesandbox.io/s/useses-18-3-rojznv

It works well in react 18.2
https://codesandbox.io/s/useses-18-2-13iskc




if (!hasBeenInitialized) {
            didCheckForLazyInit = true;
            lazyInitGetterStack = getCallerStackFrame();
          } else if (currentlyRenderingFiber !== null && !didWarnAboutRead) {
            if (
              lazyInitGetterStack === null ||
              lazyInitGetterStack !== getCallerStackFrame()
            ) {
              didWarnAboutRead = true;
              console.warn(
                '%s: Unsafe read of a mutable value during render.\n\n' +
                  'Reading from a ref during render is only safe if:\n' +
                  '1. The ref value has not been updated, or\n' +
                  '2. The ref holds a lazily-initialized value that is only set once.\n',
                getComponentNameFromFiber(currentlyRenderingFiber) || 'Unknown',
              );
            }
          }
          return current;
        },
        set current(value: any) {