## React version
React version: 18.3.0-next-b0671f9ea-20230130

## Problem
In `StrictMode`,  when using hydrateRoot to render a component that using `useSyncExternalStore` it seems that useSES will do hydration twice. 

But in second hydration process,  useSES does not use the result of `getServerSnapshot` as initial state, which will cause hydration error.

This problem will only happen in `development` mode, 

## Reproduce
Link to code example:
https://codesandbox.io/s/useses-18-3-rojznv

It works well in react 18.2
https://codesandbox.io/s/useses-18-2-13iskc




return {destroy: undefined};
}
let stackContainsErrorMessage: boolean | null = null;
function getCallerStackFrame(): string {
  
  const stackFrames = new Error('Error message').stack.split('\n');
  
  
  if (stackContainsErrorMessage === null) {
    stackContainsErrorMessage = stackFrames[0].includes('Error message');
  }
  return stackContainsErrorMessage
    ? stackFrames.slice(3, 4).join('\n')
    : stackFrames.slice(2, 3).join('\n');
}
function mountRef<T>(initialValue: T): {current: T} {
  const hook = mountWorkInProgressHook();
  if (enableUseRefAccessWarning) {
    if (__DEV__) {
      
      
      let hasBeenInitialized = initialValue != null;
      let lazyInitGetterStack = null;
      let didCheckForLazyInit = false;
      
      let didWarnAboutRead = false;
      let didWarnAboutWrite = false;
      let current = initialValue;
      const ref = {
        get current() {