React version: 18.3.0-next-3ba7add60-20221201

Hard to reproduce.

In Next.js, in rare cases, and only after a fast refresh, the ref object when using forwardRef is simply `{}`.

This leads to the `TypeError: can't define property "current": Object is not extensible` error when used with `useImperativeHandle`.

```tsx
function Parent() {
  const carouselRef = useRef<any>();

  return <Suspense><Carousel ref={carouselRef} /></Suspense>
}

const Carousel = forwardRef((props, ref) => {
  if (!('current' in ref)) { debugger; }
  const thing = use(aPromise);
  return ...;
});
```

![Screenshot 2023-03-17 at 18 49 21](https://user-images.githubusercontent.com/5406212/225981809-22f575fa-0ec7-4f94-ae23-bffc8bf7c4dd.png)

In `updateImperativeHandle`, the ref is already an empty object.

![Screenshot 2023-03-17 at 19 13 13](https://user-images.githubusercontent.com/5406212/225985622-b8512a61-3a6b-4958-b63f-277219d4c816.png)

I haven't investigated it further yet, the stacktraces are quite hard to follow.
let child = parentFiber.child;
  while (child !== null) {
    doubleInvokeEffectsInDEVIfNecessary(root, child, isInStrictMode);
    child = child.sibling;
  }
}
 Unconditionally disconnects and connects passive and layout effects.
function doubleInvokeEffectsOnFiber(root: FiberRoot, fiber: Fiber) {
  disappearLayoutEffects(fiber);
  disconnectPassiveEffect(fiber);
  reappearLayoutEffects(root, fiber.alternate, fiber, false);
  reconnectPassiveEffects(root, fiber, NoLanes, null, false);
}
function doubleInvokeEffectsInDEVIfNecessary(
  root: FiberRoot,
  fiber: Fiber,
  parentIsInStrictMode: boolean,
) {
  const isStrictModeFiber = fiber.type === REACT_STRICT_MODE_TYPE;
  const isInStrictMode = parentIsInStrictMode || isStrictModeFiber;
   First case: the fiber **is not** of type OffscreenComponent. No
   special rules apply to double invoking effects.
  if (fiber.tag !== OffscreenComponent) {
    if (fiber.flags & PlacementDEV) {
      setCurrentDebugFiberInDEV(fiber);
      if (isInStrictMode) {
        doubleInvokeEffectsOnFiber(root, fiber);
      }
      resetCurrentDebugFiberInDEV();
    } else {