React version: 18.3.0-next-3ba7add60-20221201

Hard to reproduce.

In Next.js, in rare cases, and only after a fast refresh, the ref object when using forwardRef is simply `{}`.

This leads to the `TypeError: can't define property "current": Object is not extensible` error when used with `useImperativeHandle`.

```tsx
function Parent() {
  const carouselRef = useRef<any>();

  return <Suspense><Carousel ref={carouselRef} /></Suspense>
}

const Carousel = forwardRef((props, ref) => {
  if (!('current' in ref)) { debugger; }
  const thing = use(aPromise);
  return ...;
});
```

![Screenshot 2023-03-17 at 18 49 21](https://user-images.githubusercontent.com/5406212/225981809-22f575fa-0ec7-4f94-ae23-bffc8bf7c4dd.png)

In `updateImperativeHandle`, the ref is already an empty object.

![Screenshot 2023-03-17 at 19 13 13](https://user-images.githubusercontent.com/5406212/225985622-b8512a61-3a6b-4958-b63f-277219d4c816.png)

I haven't investigated it further yet, the stacktraces are quite hard to follow.
workInProgress,
        createFiberFromTypeAndProps(
          workInProgress.type,
          workInProgress.key,
          workInProgress.pendingProps,
          workInProgress._debugOwner || null,
          workInProgress.mode,
          workInProgress.lanes,
        ),
      );
    }
  }
  if (current !== null) {
    const oldProps = current.memoizedProps;
    const newProps = workInProgress.pendingProps;
    if (
      oldProps !== newProps ||
      hasLegacyContextChanged() ||
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      (__DEV__ ? workInProgress.type !== current.type : false)
    ) {
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       T
      didReceiveUpdate = true;
    } else {
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      const hasScheduledUpdateOrContext = checkScheduledUpdateOrContext(
        current,
        renderLanes,