(from discussion on IRC. Currently a global `settxfee` has to be changed to override the fee rate, it would make sense to be able to specify it on a per-transaction basis. This would continue #7518)

```
-*- jonasschnelli thinks we should probably add a optional feerate parameter to fundrawtransaction
<wumpus> jonasschnelli: there isn't one yet?
-*- jonasschnelli looking..
<wumpus> I'm surprised, would be so much better than changing a global
<jonasschnelli> no.. i don't think so. Maybe there is a PR.
<sipa> there is a pr
<jonasschnelli> Hard to keep track of everything. :)
<wumpus> no, the PR does it wrong
```

Regarding implementation:

```
<jonasschnelli> The ugly thing is, that CreateTransaction uses the static DEFAULT_TARGET
<wumpus> passing in an optional feerate would be the obvious thing to do
<jonasschnelli> So, this would require some refactoring.
<sipa> just add a confirmation target to coincontrol
<jonasschnelli> Yes. This sounds good.
<wumpus> right, just slap it into coincontrol
<sipa> wasn't there a PR that added a bunch of options to fundrawtransaction?
<sipa> including that
<jonasschnelli> Not the feerate.
<jonasschnelli> But the rest is merged.
```

{
    
    if (!CheckFinalTx(*this))
        return false;
    int nDepth = GetDepthInMainChain();
    if (nDepth >= 1)
        return true;
    if (nDepth < 0)
        return false;
    if (!bSpendZeroConfChange || !IsFromMe(ISMINE_ALL)) 
        return false;
    
    if (!InMempool())
        return false;
    
    BOOST_FOREACH(const CTxIn& txin, vin)
    {
        
        const CWalletTx* parent = pwallet->GetWalletTx(txin.prevout.hash);
        if (parent == NULL)
            return false;
        const CTxOut& parentOut = parent->vout[txin.prevout.n];
        if (pwallet->IsMine(parentOut) != ISMINE_SPENDABLE)
            return false;
    }
    return true;
}
bool CWalletTx::IsEquivalentTo(const CWalletTx& tx) const