React version: 18.3.0-next-3ba7add60-20221201

Hard to reproduce.

In Next.js, in rare cases, and only after a fast refresh, the ref object when using forwardRef is simply `{}`.

This leads to the `TypeError: can't define property "current": Object is not extensible` error when used with `useImperativeHandle`.

```tsx
function Parent() {
  const carouselRef = useRef<any>();

  return <Suspense><Carousel ref={carouselRef} /></Suspense>
}

const Carousel = forwardRef((props, ref) => {
  if (!('current' in ref)) { debugger; }
  const thing = use(aPromise);
  return ...;
});
```

![Screenshot 2023-03-17 at 18 49 21](https://user-images.githubusercontent.com/5406212/225981809-22f575fa-0ec7-4f94-ae23-bffc8bf7c4dd.png)

In `updateImperativeHandle`, the ref is already an empty object.

![Screenshot 2023-03-17 at 19 13 13](https://user-images.githubusercontent.com/5406212/225985622-b8512a61-3a6b-4958-b63f-277219d4c816.png)

I haven't investigated it further yet, the stacktraces are quite hard to follow.
workInProgress,
      Component,
      nextProps,
      renderLanes,
    );
  }
  const nextUnitOfWork = finishClassComponent(
    current,
    workInProgress,
    Component,
    shouldUpdate,
    hasContext,
    renderLanes,
  );
  if (__DEV__) {
    const inst = workInProgress.stateNode;
    if (shouldUpdate && inst.props !== nextProps) {
      if (!didWarnAboutReassigningProps) {
        console.error(
          'It looks like %s is reassigning its own `this.props` while rendering. ' +
            'This is not supported and can lead to confusing bugs.',
          getComponentNameFromFiber(workInProgress) || 'a component',
        );
      }
      didWarnAboutReassigningProps = true;
    }
  }
  return nextUnitOfWork;
}
function finishClassComponent(