Functional `ref` prop throws a `Maximum update depth exceeded` error when suspending.

React version: `18.0.0-alpha-464f27572-20210713`

## Steps To Reproduce

1. Click on the `suspend` button: https://codesandbox.io/s/ref-set-too-many-times-jm0c3?file=/src/App.js.

## The current behavior

Clicking on the `suspend` button throws a `Maximum update depth exceeded` error.

## The expected behavior

Clicking on the `suspend` button suspends.
HostRoot,
  HostComponent,
  HostText,
  HostPortal,
  Profiler,
  SuspenseComponent,
  DehydratedFragment,
  IncompleteClassComponent,
  MemoComponent,
  SimpleMemoComponent,
  SuspenseListComponent,
  ScopeComponent,
  OffscreenComponent,
  LegacyHiddenComponent,
} from './ReactWorkTags';
import {detachDeletedInstance} from './ReactFiberHostConfig';
import {
  NoFlags,
  ContentReset,
  ,
  And,
  ChildDeletion,
  Snapshot,
  ,
  Callback,
  Ref,
  Hydrating,
  HydratingAnd,
  Passive,
  BeforeMutationMask,