Functional `ref` prop throws a `Maximum update depth exceeded` error when suspending.

React version: `18.0.0-alpha-464f27572-20210713`

## Steps To Reproduce

1. Click on the `suspend` button: https://codesandbox.io/s/ref-set-too-many-times-jm0c3?file=/src/App.js.

## The current behavior

Clicking on the `suspend` button throws a `Maximum update depth exceeded` error.

## The expected behavior

Clicking on the `suspend` button suspends.
if (
                enableProfilerTimer &&
                enableProfilerCommitHooks &&
                node.mode & ProfileMode
              ) {
                try {
                  startLayoutEffectTimer();
                  commitHookEffectListUnmount(HookLayout, node, finishedWork);
                } finally {
                  recordLayoutEffectDuration(node);
                }
              } else {
                commitHookEffectListUnmount(HookLayout, node, finishedWork);
              }
            }
            break;
          }
          case ClassComponent: {
            if (isHidden && !wasHidden) {
              
              safelyDetachRef(node, finishedWork);
              const instance = node.stateNode;
              if (typeof instance.componentWillUnmount === 'function') {
                safelyCallComponentWillUnmount(node, finishedWork, instance);
              }
            }
            break;
          }