React version: 18.3.0-next-3ba7add60-20221201

Hard to reproduce.

In Next.js, in rare cases, and only after a fast refresh, the ref object when using forwardRef is simply `{}`.

This leads to the `TypeError: can't define property "current": Object is not extensible` error when used with `useImperativeHandle`.

```tsx
function Parent() {
  const carouselRef = useRef<any>();

  return <Suspense><Carousel ref={carouselRef} /></Suspense>
}

const Carousel = forwardRef((props, ref) => {
  if (!('current' in ref)) { debugger; }
  const thing = use(aPromise);
  return ...;
});
```

![Screenshot 2023-03-17 at 18 49 21](https://user-images.githubusercontent.com/5406212/225981809-22f575fa-0ec7-4f94-ae23-bffc8bf7c4dd.png)

In `updateImperativeHandle`, the ref is already an empty object.

![Screenshot 2023-03-17 at 19 13 13](https://user-images.githubusercontent.com/5406212/225985622-b8512a61-3a6b-4958-b63f-277219d4c816.png)

I haven't investigated it further yet, the stacktraces are quite hard to follow.
if (root === rootWithPassiveNestedUpdates) {
        nestedPassiveUpdateCount++;
      } else {
        nestedPassiveUpdateCount = 0;
        rootWithPassiveNestedUpdates = root;
      }
    } else {
      nestedPassiveUpdateCount = 0;
    }
    isFlushingPassiveEffects = false;
    didScheduleUpdateDuringPassiveEffects = false;
  }
   TODO: Move to commitPassiveMountEffects
  onPostCommitRootDevTools(root);
  if (enableProfilerTimer && enableProfilerCommitHooks) {
    const stateNode = root.current.stateNode;
    stateNode.effectDuration = 0;
    stateNode.passiveEffectDuration = 0;
  }
  return true;
}
export function isAlreadyFailedLegacyErrorBoundary(instance: mixed): boolean {
  return (
    legacyErrorBoundariesThatAlreadyFailed !== null &&
    legacyErrorBoundariesThatAlreadyFailed.has(instance)
  );
}
export function markLegacyErrorBoundaryAsFailed(instance: mixed) {
  if (legacyErrorBoundariesThatAlreadyFailed === null) {
    legacyErrorBoundariesThatAlreadyFailed = new Set([instance]);