Functional `ref` prop throws a `Maximum update depth exceeded` error when suspending.

React version: `18.0.0-alpha-464f27572-20210713`

## Steps To Reproduce

1. Click on the `suspend` button: https://codesandbox.io/s/ref-set-too-many-times-jm0c3?file=/src/App.js.

## The current behavior

Clicking on the `suspend` button throws a `Maximum update depth exceeded` error.

## The expected behavior

Clicking on the `suspend` button suspends.
} catch (error) {
    reportUncaughtErrorInDEV(error);
    captureCommitPhaseError(current, nearestMountedAncestor, error);
  }
}
function safelyCallComponentWillUnmount(
  current: Fiber,
  nearestMountedAncestor: Fiber | null,
  instance: any,
) {
  try {
    callComponentWillUnmountWithTimer(current, instance);
  } catch (error) {
    reportUncaughtErrorInDEV(error);
    captureCommitPhaseError(current, nearestMountedAncestor, error);
  }
}
function safelyCallComponentDidMount(
  current: Fiber,
  nearestMountedAncestor: Fiber | null,
  instance: any,
) {
  try {
    instance.componentDidMount();