React version: 18.3.0-next-3ba7add60-20221201

Hard to reproduce.

In Next.js, in rare cases, and only after a fast refresh, the ref object when using forwardRef is simply `{}`.

This leads to the `TypeError: can't define property "current": Object is not extensible` error when used with `useImperativeHandle`.

```tsx
function Parent() {
  const carouselRef = useRef<any>();

  return <Suspense><Carousel ref={carouselRef} /></Suspense>
}

const Carousel = forwardRef((props, ref) => {
  if (!('current' in ref)) { debugger; }
  const thing = use(aPromise);
  return ...;
});
```

![Screenshot 2023-03-17 at 18 49 21](https://user-images.githubusercontent.com/5406212/225981809-22f575fa-0ec7-4f94-ae23-bffc8bf7c4dd.png)

In `updateImperativeHandle`, the ref is already an empty object.

![Screenshot 2023-03-17 at 19 13 13](https://user-images.githubusercontent.com/5406212/225985622-b8512a61-3a6b-4958-b63f-277219d4c816.png)

I haven't investigated it further yet, the stacktraces are quite hard to follow.
await act(() => {
      startTransition(() => {
        _setVegetable('dill');
      });
    });
    assertLog(['Async text requested [apple]']);
    expect(root).toMatchRenderedOutput('apple carrot');
    await act(() => {
      resolveTextRequests('apple');
    });
    assertLog(['Async text requested [apple]', 'apple dill']);
    expect(root).toMatchRenderedOutput('apple dill');
    // Update the state variable before the use(). The second state is maintained.
    await act(() => {
      startTransition(() => {
        _setFruit('banana');
      });
    });
    assertLog(['Async text requested [banana]']);
    expect(root).toMatchRenderedOutput('apple dill');
    await act(() => {
      resolveTextRequests('banana');
    });
    assertLog(['Async text requested [banana]', 'banana dill']);
    expect(root).toMatchRenderedOutput('banana dill');
  });
  test('when replaying a suspended component, reuses the hooks computed during the previous attempt (DebugValue+State)', async () => {
    // Make sure we don't get a Hook mismatch warning on updates if there were non-stateful Hooks before the use().
    let _setLawyer;
    function Lexicon() {