React version: 18.3.0-next-3ba7add60-20221201

Hard to reproduce.

In Next.js, in rare cases, and only after a fast refresh, the ref object when using forwardRef is simply `{}`.

This leads to the `TypeError: can't define property "current": Object is not extensible` error when used with `useImperativeHandle`.

```tsx
function Parent() {
  const carouselRef = useRef<any>();

  return <Suspense><Carousel ref={carouselRef} /></Suspense>
}

const Carousel = forwardRef((props, ref) => {
  if (!('current' in ref)) { debugger; }
  const thing = use(aPromise);
  return ...;
});
```

![Screenshot 2023-03-17 at 18 49 21](https://user-images.githubusercontent.com/5406212/225981809-22f575fa-0ec7-4f94-ae23-bffc8bf7c4dd.png)

In `updateImperativeHandle`, the ref is already an empty object.

![Screenshot 2023-03-17 at 19 13 13](https://user-images.githubusercontent.com/5406212/225985622-b8512a61-3a6b-4958-b63f-277219d4c816.png)

I haven't investigated it further yet, the stacktraces are quite hard to follow.
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        return;
      }
    }
    if (ReactCurrentActQueue.current === null) {
      const previousFiber = ReactCurrentFiberCurrent;
      try {
        setCurrentDebugFiberInDEV(fiber);
        console.error(
          'An update to %s inside a test was not wrapped in act(...).\n\n' +
            'When testing, code that causes React state updates should be ' +
            'wrapped into act(...):\n\n' +
            'act(() => {\n' +
            '  * fire events that update state *\n' +
            '});\n' +
            '* assert on the output *\n\n' +
            "This ensures that you're testing the behavior the user would see " +
            'in the browser.' +
            ' Learn more at https:reactjs.orglinkwrap-tests-with-act',
          getComponentNameFromFiber(fiber),
        );
      } finally {
        if (previousFiber) {
          setCurrentDebugFiberInDEV(fiber);
        } else {
          resetCurrentDebugFiberInDEV();
        }
      }
    }
  }