React version: 18.3.0-next-3ba7add60-20221201

Hard to reproduce.

In Next.js, in rare cases, and only after a fast refresh, the ref object when using forwardRef is simply `{}`.

This leads to the `TypeError: can't define property "current": Object is not extensible` error when used with `useImperativeHandle`.

```tsx
function Parent() {
  const carouselRef = useRef<any>();

  return <Suspense><Carousel ref={carouselRef} /></Suspense>
}

const Carousel = forwardRef((props, ref) => {
  if (!('current' in ref)) { debugger; }
  const thing = use(aPromise);
  return ...;
});
```

![Screenshot 2023-03-17 at 18 49 21](https://user-images.githubusercontent.com/5406212/225981809-22f575fa-0ec7-4f94-ae23-bffc8bf7c4dd.png)

In `updateImperativeHandle`, the ref is already an empty object.

![Screenshot 2023-03-17 at 19 13 13](https://user-images.githubusercontent.com/5406212/225985622-b8512a61-3a6b-4958-b63f-277219d4c816.png)

I haven't investigated it further yet, the stacktraces are quite hard to follow.
return <Text text={use(getAsyncText('Will never resolve'))} />;
    }
    const root = ReactNoop.createRoot();
    await act(() => {
      root.render(<Suspense fallback={<Text text="Loading..." />} />);
    });
    await act(() => {
      startTransition(() => {
        root.render(
          <Suspense fallback={<Text text="Loading..." />}>
            <App />
          </Suspense>,
        );
      });
    });
    assertLog(['Async text requested [Will never resolve]']);
    await act(() => {
      root.render(
        <Suspense fallback={<Text text="Loading..." />}>
          <Text text="Something different" />
        </Suspense>,
      );
    });
    assertLog(['Something different']);
  });
  // @gate enableUseHook
  test('when waiting for data to resolve, an update on a different root does not cause work to be dropped', async () => {
    const getCachedAsyncText = cache(getAsyncText);
    function App() {