React version: 18.3.0-next-3ba7add60-20221201

Hard to reproduce.

In Next.js, in rare cases, and only after a fast refresh, the ref object when using forwardRef is simply `{}`.

This leads to the `TypeError: can't define property "current": Object is not extensible` error when used with `useImperativeHandle`.

```tsx
function Parent() {
  const carouselRef = useRef<any>();

  return <Suspense><Carousel ref={carouselRef} /></Suspense>
}

const Carousel = forwardRef((props, ref) => {
  if (!('current' in ref)) { debugger; }
  const thing = use(aPromise);
  return ...;
});
```

![Screenshot 2023-03-17 at 18 49 21](https://user-images.githubusercontent.com/5406212/225981809-22f575fa-0ec7-4f94-ae23-bffc8bf7c4dd.png)

In `updateImperativeHandle`, the ref is already an empty object.

![Screenshot 2023-03-17 at 19 13 13](https://user-images.githubusercontent.com/5406212/225985622-b8512a61-3a6b-4958-b63f-277219d4c816.png)

I haven't investigated it further yet, the stacktraces are quite hard to follow.
type,
      );
      return false;
    }
  }
  return true;
}
function validateSuspenseListChildren(
  children: mixed,
  revealOrder: SuspenseListRevealOrder,
) {
  if (__DEV__) {
    if (
      (revealOrder === 'forwards' || revealOrder === 'backwards') &&
      children !== undefined &&
      children !== null &&
      children !== false
    ) {
      if (isArray(children)) {
        for (let i = 0; i < children.length; i++) {
          if (!validateSuspenseListNestedChild(children[i], i)) {
            return;
          }
        }
      } else {
        const iteratorFn = getIteratorFn(children);
        if (typeof iteratorFn === 'function') {
          const childrenIterator = iteratorFn.call(children);
          if (childrenIterator) {
            let step = childrenIterator.next();