Functional `ref` prop throws a `Maximum update depth exceeded` error when suspending.

React version: `18.0.0-alpha-464f27572-20210713`

## Steps To Reproduce

1. Click on the `suspend` button: https://codesandbox.io/s/ref-set-too-many-times-jm0c3?file=/src/App.js.

## The current behavior

Clicking on the `suspend` button throws a `Maximum update depth exceeded` error.

## The expected behavior

Clicking on the `suspend` button suspends.
/**
 * Copyright (c) Facebook, Inc. and its affiliates.
 *
 * This source code is licensed under the MIT license found in the
 * LICENSE file in the root directory of this source tree.
 *
 * @flow
 */
import type {
  Instance,
  TextInstance,
  SuspenseInstance,