## React version
React version: 18.3.0-next-b0671f9ea-20230130

## Problem
In `StrictMode`,  when using hydrateRoot to render a component that using `useSyncExternalStore` it seems that useSES will do hydration twice. 

But in second hydration process,  useSES does not use the result of `getServerSnapshot` as initial state, which will cause hydration error.

This problem will only happen in `development` mode, 

## Reproduce
Link to code example:
https://codesandbox.io/s/useses-18-3-rojznv

It works well in react 18.2
https://codesandbox.io/s/useses-18-2-13iskc




const context = React.useContext(inlineLazyServerContextInitialization());
      return <span>{context}</span>;
    }
    await act(() => {
      const {pipe} = renderToPipeableStream(<Foo />);
      pipe(writable);
    });
    expect(getVisibleChildren(container)).toEqual([
      <span>hi this is server</span>,
      <span>hi this is server2</span>,
      <span>hi this is server outer</span>,
      <span>hi this is server outer2</span>,
      <span>default</span>,
    ]);
  });
  it('Supports iterable', async () => {
    const Immutable = require('immutable');
    const mappedJSX = Immutable.fromJS([
      {name: 'a', value: 'a'},
      {name: 'b', value: 'b'},
    ]).map(item => <li key={item.get('value')}>{item.get('name')}</li>);
    await act(() => {
      const {pipe} = renderToPipeableStream(<ul>{mappedJSX}</ul>);
      pipe(writable);