## React version
React version: 18.3.0-next-b0671f9ea-20230130

## Problem
In `StrictMode`,  when using hydrateRoot to render a component that using `useSyncExternalStore` it seems that useSES will do hydration twice. 

But in second hydration process,  useSES does not use the result of `getServerSnapshot` as initial state, which will cause hydration error.

This problem will only happen in `development` mode, 

## Reproduce
Link to code example:
https://codesandbox.io/s/useses-18-3-rojznv

It works well in react 18.2
https://codesandbox.io/s/useses-18-2-13iskc




initialArg: I,
  init?: I => S,
): [S, Dispatch<A>] {
  const hook = mountWorkInProgressHook();
  let initialState;
  if (init !== undefined) {
    initialState = init(initialArg);
  } else {
    initialState = ((initialArg: any): S);
  }
  hook.memoizedState = hook.baseState = initialState;
  const queue: UpdateQueue<S, A> = {
    pending: null,
    lanes: NoLanes,
    dispatch: null,
    lastRenderedReducer: reducer,
    lastRenderedState: (initialState: any),
  };
  hook.queue = queue;
  const dispatch: Dispatch<A> = (queue.dispatch = (dispatchReducerAction.bind(
    null,
    currentlyRenderingFiber,
    queue,
  ): any));
  return [hook.memoizedState, dispatch];
}
function updateReducer<S, I, A>(
  reducer: (S, A) => S,
  initialArg: I,
  init?: I => S,