### Description

expanding tasks in batches to allow mapped tasks spawn more than 1024 processes.

### Use case/motivation

Maximum length of a list is limited to 1024 by `max_map_length (AIRFLOW__CORE__MAX_MAP_LENGTH)`.
during scheduling of the new tasks, an UPDATE query is ran that tries to set all the new tasks at once.  Increasing `max_map_length` more than 4K makes airflow scheduler completely unresponsive.

Also, Postgres throws `stack depth limit exceeded` error which can be fixed by updating to a newer version and setting `max_stack_depth` higher. But it doesn't really matter because airflow scheduler freezes up.
 
As a workaround, I split the dag runs into subdag runs which works but it would be much nicer if we didn't have to worry about exceeding  `max_map_length`. 

### Related issues

It was discussed here:
[Increasing 'max_map_length' leads to SQL 'max_stack_depth' error with 5000 dags to be spawned #28478](https://github.com/apache/airflow/discussions/28478)

### Are you willing to submit a PR?

- [ ] Yes I am willing to submit a PR!

### Code of Conduct

- [X] I agree to follow this project's [Code of Conduct](https://github.com/apache/airflow/blob/main/CODE_OF_CONDUCT.md)

"DAG '%s' for task instance %s not found in serialized_dag table",
                            dag_id,
                            task_instance,
                        )
                        session.query(TI).filter(
                            TI.dag_id == dag_id, TI.state == TaskInstanceState.SCHEDULED
                        ).update({TI.state: TaskInstanceState.FAILED}, synchronize_session="fetch")
                        continue
                    task_concurrency_limit: int | None = None
                    if serialized_dag.has_task(task_instance.task_id):
                        task_concurrency_limit = serialized_dag.get_task(
                            task_instance.task_id
                        ).max_active_tis_per_dag
                    if task_concurrency_limit is not None:
                        current_task_concurrency = concurrency_map.task_concurrency_map[
                            (task_instance.dag_id, task_instance.task_id)
                        ]
                        if current_task_concurrency >= task_concurrency_limit:
                            self.log.info(
                                "Not executing %s since the task concurrency for"
                                " this task has been reached.",
                                task_instance,
                            )
                            starved_tasks.add((task_instance.dag_id, task_instance.task_id))
                            continue
                    task_dagrun_concurrency_limit: int | None = None
                    if serialized_dag.has_task(task_instance.task_id):
                        task_dagrun_concurrency_limit = serialized_dag.get_task(
                            task_instance.task_id
                        ).max_active_tis_per_dagrun