### Apache Airflow version

2.5.1

### What happened

DagRun state and start_date are reset if somebody is clearing a task of the running DagRun.

### What you think should happen instead

I think we should not reset DagRun `state` and `start_date` in it's in the running or queued states because it doesn't make any sense for me. `state` and `start_date` of the DgRun should remain the same in case somebody's clearing a task of the running DagRun

### How to reproduce

Let's say we have a Dag with 2 tasks in it - short one and the long one:
```
dag = DAG(
    'dummy-dag',
    schedule_interval='@once',
    catchup=False,
)

DagContext.push_context_managed_dag(dag)

bash_success = BashOperator(
    task_id='bash-success',
    bash_command='echo "Start and finish"; exit 0',
    retries=0,
)

date_ind_success = BashOperator(
    task_id='bash-long-success',
    bash_command='echo "Start and finish"; sleep 300; exit 0',
)
```

Let's day we have a running Dagrun of this DAG. First task finishes in a second and the long one is still running. We have a start_date and duration set and the Dagrun is still running. It runs for example for a 30 secs (pic 1 and 2)

<img width="486" alt="image" src="https://user-images.githubusercontent.com/23456894/225335210-c2223ad1-771b-459d-b8ed-8f0aacb9b890.png">
<img width="492" alt="image" src="https://user-images.githubusercontent.com/23456894/225335272-ad737aef-2051-4e27-ae36-38c76d720c95.png">

Then we are clearing the short task. It causes clear of the Dagrun state (to `queued`) and clears `start_date` like we have a new Dagrun (pic 3 and 4)
<img width="407" alt="image" src="https://user-images.githubusercontent.com/23456894/225335397-6c7e0df7-a26a-46ed-8eaa-56ff928fc01a.png">
<img width="498" alt="image" src="https://user-images.githubusercontent.com/23456894/225335491-4d6a860a-e923-4878-b212-a6ccb4b590a3.png">

### Operating System

Unix/MacOS

### Versions of Apache Airflow Providers

_No response_

### Deployment

Official Apache Airflow Helm Chart

### Deployment details

_No response_

### Anything else

_No response_

### Are you willing to submit PR?

- [X] Yes I am willing to submit a PR!

### Code of Conduct

- [X] I agree to follow this project's [Code of Conduct](https://github.com/apache/airflow/blob/main/CODE_OF_CONDUCT.md)

"""Clear all XCom data from the database for the task instance.
        If the task is unmapped, all XComs matching this task ID in the same DAG
        run are removed. If the task is mapped, only the one with matching map
        index is removed.
        :param session: SQLAlchemy ORM Session
        """
        self.log.debug("Clearing XCom data")
        if self.map_index < 0:
            map_index: int | None = None
        else:
            map_index = self.map_index
        XCom.clear(
            dag_id=self.dag_id,
            task_id=self.task_id,
            run_id=self.run_id,
            map_index=map_index,
            session=session,
        )
    @property
    def key(self) -> TaskInstanceKey: