### Is there an existing issue for this?

- [X] I have searched the existing issues

### Current Behavior

If the Lambda returns an error, the message is put into DLQ straightaway after first try **although** the configurations says "try 3 times".

### Expected Behavior

If the Lambda returns an error, the message should be put into DLQ after what `RedrivePolicy.maxReceiveCount` says which is 3 in this case. For instance, try processing the message 3 times, if still no success, put it into DLQ.

### How are you starting LocalStack?

With a docker-compose file

### Steps To Reproduce

```yaml
version: "3.8"

services:
  localstack:
    image: "localstack/localstack"
    container_name: "localstack"
    ports:
      - "4566-4599:4566-4599"
    environment:
      - DEBUG=1
      - DEFAULT_REGION=eu-west-1
      - SERVICES=lambda,events,sqs
      - DATA_DIR=/tmp/localstack/data
      - DOCKER_HOST=unix:///var/run/docker.sock
      - LAMBDA_EXECUTOR=docker
    volumes:
      - "./tmp/localstack:/tmp/localstack"
      - "/var/run/docker.sock:/var/run/docker.sock"
```

### Environment

```markdown
- OS: MacOS BigSur
- LocalStack: `1dc090777b0c`
```


### Anything else?

This will try **only once** and put the message into DLQ after failure **although** the retry policy instructs for **3 retries**. This is the issue.

```bash
aws --profile localstack --endpoint-url http://localhost:4566 lambda create-function \
    --function-name api-lambda \
    --handler lambda/main \
    --runtime go1.x \
    --role api-role \
    --zip-file fileb://lambda.zip
    
aws --profile localstack --endpoint-url http://localhost:4566 sqs create-queue \
    --queue-name api-dead-letter-queue

aws --profile localstack --endpoint-url http://localhost:4566 sqs create-queue \
    --queue-name api-queue \
    --attributes '{"RedrivePolicy":"{\"deadLetterTargetArn\":\"arn:aws:sqs:eu-west-1:000000000000:api-dead-letter-queue\",\"maxReceiveCount\":\"3\"}"}'

aws --profile localstack --endpoint-url http://localhost:4566 lambda create-event-source-mapping \
    --function-name api-lambda \
    --event-source-arn arn:aws:sqs:eu-west-1:000000000000:api-queue
```

Use this command to test.

```bash
aws --profile localstack --endpoint-url http://localhost:4566 sqs send-message \
    --queue-url http://localhost:4566/000000000000/api-queue \
    --message-body '{"hello":"world"}'
```

----

FYI - This will try **indefinitely** (_30 sec in between_) until it succeeds because there is **no** retry policy set which is perfectly normal and expected behaviour.

```bash
aws --profile localstack --endpoint-url http://localhost:4566 lambda create-function \
    --function-name api-lambda \
    --handler lambda/main \
    --runtime go1.x \
    --role api-role \
    --zip-file fileb://lambda.zip
    
aws --profile localstack --endpoint-url http://localhost:4566 sqs create-queue \
    --queue-name api-dead-letter-queue

aws --profile localstack --endpoint-url http://localhost:4566 sqs create-queue \
    --queue-name api-queue

aws --profile localstack --endpoint-url http://localhost:4566 lambda create-event-source-mapping \
    --function-name api-lambda \
    --event-source-arn arn:aws:sqs:eu-west-1:000000000000:api-queue
```
self,
        lambda_function: LambdaFunction,
        lambda_docker_ip: Optional[str] = None,
        check_port: bool = False,
    ) -> bool:
        """Return whether to use stay-open execution mode - if we're running in Docker, the given IP
        is defined, and if the target API endpoint is available (optionally, if check_port is True)."""
        if not lambda_docker_ip:
            func_arn = lambda_function.arn()
            container_name = self.get_container_name(func_arn)
            lambda_docker_ip = DOCKER_CLIENT.get_container_ip(container_name_or_id=container_name)
        should_use = lambda_docker_ip and config.LAMBDA_STAY_OPEN_MODE
        if not should_use or not check_port:
            return should_use
        full_url = self._get_lambda_stay_open_url(lambda_docker_ip)
        return is_port_open(full_url)
    def _get_lambda_stay_open_url(self, lambda_docker_ip: str) -> str:
        return f"http://{lambda_docker_ip}:{STAY_OPEN_API_PORT}"
    def _execute(self, func_arn: str, *args, **kwargs) -> InvocationResult:
        if not LAMBDA_CONCURRENCY_LOCK.get(func_arn):
            concurrency_lock = threading.RLock()
            LAMBDA_CONCURRENCY_LOCK[func_arn] = concurrency_lock
        with LAMBDA_CONCURRENCY_LOCK[func_arn]:
            return super(LambdaExecutorReuseContainers, self)._execute(func_arn, *args, **kwargs)
    def startup(self):
        self.cleanup()
        
        if config.LAMBDA_REMOVE_CONTAINERS:
            self.start_idle_container_destroyer_interval()
    def cleanup(self, arn: str = None):