### Description

Replace the existing selects with multi-selects that allow you to filter multiple DAG run states and types at the same time, somewhat similar to my prototype:

![image](https://github.com/apache/airflow/assets/1842905/c4ec0793-1ccb-417d-989c-781997416f97)


### Use case/motivation

I'm not sure if it is just me, but sometimes I wish I was able to show multiple DAG run states, especially `running` and `failed`, at the same time. 
This would be especially helpful for busy DAGs on which I want to clear a few failed runs. Without the multi-select, if I switch from `failed` to `running` DAG runs, I need to orient myself again to find the run I just cleared (assuming there are lots of other running DAG runs). _With_ the multi-select, the DAG run I just cleared stays in the same spot and I can check the logs, while clearing some other failed runs.

I'm not sure we need a multi-select for DAG run types as well. I'd tend to say no, but maybe someone else has a use-case for that.

### Related issues

_No response_

### Are you willing to submit a PR?

- [X] Yes I am willing to submit a PR!

### Code of Conduct

- [X] I agree to follow this project's [Code of Conduct](https://github.com/apache/airflow/blob/main/CODE_OF_CONDUCT.md)

ti = session.scalar(select(TaskInstance).filter_by(dag_id=dag_id, task_id=task_id).limit(1))
        if not ti:
            flash(f"Task [{dag_id}.{task_id}] doesn't seem to exist at the moment", "error")
            return redirect(url_for("Airflow.index"))
        xcom_query = session.scalars(
            select(XCom).where(
                XCom.dag_id == dag_id,
                XCom.task_id == task_id,
                XCom.execution_date == dttm,
                XCom.map_index == map_index,
            )
        )
        attributes = [(xcom.key, xcom.value) for xcom in xcom_query if not xcom.key.startswith("_")]
        title = "XCom"
        return self.render_template(
            "airflow/xcom.html",
            show_trigger_form_if_no_params=conf.getboolean("webserver", "show_trigger_form_if_no_params"),
            attributes=attributes,
            task_id=task_id,
            execution_date=execution_date,
            map_index=map_index,
            form=form,
            root=root,
            dag=dag,
            title=title,
        )
    @expose("/delete", methods=["POST"])
    @auth.has_access_dag("DELETE")
    @action_logging
    def delete(self):