### Description

expanding tasks in batches to allow mapped tasks spawn more than 1024 processes.

### Use case/motivation

Maximum length of a list is limited to 1024 by `max_map_length (AIRFLOW__CORE__MAX_MAP_LENGTH)`.
during scheduling of the new tasks, an UPDATE query is ran that tries to set all the new tasks at once.  Increasing `max_map_length` more than 4K makes airflow scheduler completely unresponsive.

Also, Postgres throws `stack depth limit exceeded` error which can be fixed by updating to a newer version and setting `max_stack_depth` higher. But it doesn't really matter because airflow scheduler freezes up.
 
As a workaround, I split the dag runs into subdag runs which works but it would be much nicer if we didn't have to worry about exceeding  `max_map_length`. 

### Related issues

It was discussed here:
[Increasing 'max_map_length' leads to SQL 'max_stack_depth' error with 5000 dags to be spawned #28478](https://github.com/apache/airflow/discussions/28478)

### Are you willing to submit a PR?

- [ ] Yes I am willing to submit a PR!

### Code of Conduct

- [X] I agree to follow this project's [Code of Conduct](https://github.com/apache/airflow/blob/main/CODE_OF_CONDUCT.md)

continue
                
                
                dag_id = task_instance.dag_id
                current_active_tasks_per_dag = concurrency_map.dag_active_tasks_map[dag_id]
                max_active_tasks_per_dag_limit = task_instance.dag_model.max_active_tasks
                self.log.info(
                    "DAG %s has %s/%s running and queued tasks",
                    dag_id,
                    current_active_tasks_per_dag,
                    max_active_tasks_per_dag_limit,
                )
                if current_active_tasks_per_dag >= max_active_tasks_per_dag_limit:
                    self.log.info(
                        "Not executing %s since the number of tasks running or queued "
                        "from DAG %s is >= to the DAG's max_active_tasks limit of %s",
                        task_instance,
                        dag_id,
                        max_active_tasks_per_dag_limit,
                    )
                    starved_dags.add(dag_id)
                    continue
                if task_instance.dag_model.has_task_concurrency_limits:
                    
                    
                    serialized_dag = self.dagbag.get_dag(dag_id, session=session)
                    
                    if not serialized_dag:
                        self.log.error(