### Description

expanding tasks in batches to allow mapped tasks spawn more than 1024 processes.

### Use case/motivation

Maximum length of a list is limited to 1024 by `max_map_length (AIRFLOW__CORE__MAX_MAP_LENGTH)`.
during scheduling of the new tasks, an UPDATE query is ran that tries to set all the new tasks at once.  Increasing `max_map_length` more than 4K makes airflow scheduler completely unresponsive.

Also, Postgres throws `stack depth limit exceeded` error which can be fixed by updating to a newer version and setting `max_stack_depth` higher. But it doesn't really matter because airflow scheduler freezes up.
 
As a workaround, I split the dag runs into subdag runs which works but it would be much nicer if we didn't have to worry about exceeding  `max_map_length`. 

### Related issues

It was discussed here:
[Increasing 'max_map_length' leads to SQL 'max_stack_depth' error with 5000 dags to be spawned #28478](https://github.com/apache/airflow/discussions/28478)

### Are you willing to submit a PR?

- [ ] Yes I am willing to submit a PR!

### Code of Conduct

- [X] I agree to follow this project's [Code of Conduct](https://github.com/apache/airflow/blob/main/CODE_OF_CONDUCT.md)

pool_num_starving_tasks[pool_name] += 1
                    num_starving_tasks_total += 1
                    starved_pools.add(pool_name)
                    continue
                if task_instance.pool_slots > pool_total:
                    self.log.warning(
                        "Not executing %s. Requested pool slots (%s) are greater than "
                        "total pool slots: '%s' for pool: %s.",
                        task_instance,
                        task_instance.pool_slots,
                        pool_total,
                        pool_name,
                    )
                    pool_num_starving_tasks[pool_name] += 1
                    num_starving_tasks_total += 1
                    starved_tasks.add((task_instance.dag_id, task_instance.task_id))
                    continue
                if task_instance.pool_slots > open_slots:
                    self.log.info(
                        "Not executing %s since it requires %s slots "
                        "but there are %s open slots in the pool %s.",
                        task_instance,
                        task_instance.pool_slots,
                        open_slots,
                        pool_name,
                    )
                    pool_num_starving_tasks[pool_name] += 1
                    num_starving_tasks_total += 1
                    starved_tasks.add((task_instance.dag_id, task_instance.task_id))