### Description

expanding tasks in batches to allow mapped tasks spawn more than 1024 processes.

### Use case/motivation

Maximum length of a list is limited to 1024 by `max_map_length (AIRFLOW__CORE__MAX_MAP_LENGTH)`.
during scheduling of the new tasks, an UPDATE query is ran that tries to set all the new tasks at once.  Increasing `max_map_length` more than 4K makes airflow scheduler completely unresponsive.

Also, Postgres throws `stack depth limit exceeded` error which can be fixed by updating to a newer version and setting `max_stack_depth` higher. But it doesn't really matter because airflow scheduler freezes up.
 
As a workaround, I split the dag runs into subdag runs which works but it would be much nicer if we didn't have to worry about exceeding  `max_map_length`. 

### Related issues

It was discussed here:
[Increasing 'max_map_length' leads to SQL 'max_stack_depth' error with 5000 dags to be spawned #28478](https://github.com/apache/airflow/discussions/28478)

### Are you willing to submit a PR?

- [ ] Yes I am willing to submit a PR!

### Code of Conduct

- [X] I agree to follow this project's [Code of Conduct](https://github.com/apache/airflow/blob/main/CODE_OF_CONDUCT.md)

"""
        Enqueues TaskInstances for execution.
        There are three steps:
        1. Pick TIs by priority with the constraint that they are in the expected states
        and that we do exceed max_active_runs or pool limits.
        2. Change the state for the TIs above atomically.
        3. Enqueue the TIs in the executor.
        HA note: This function is a "critical section" meaning that only a single executor process can execute
        this function at the same time. This is achieved by doing ``SELECT ... from pool FOR UPDATE``. For DBs
        that support NOWAIT, a "blocked" scheduler will skip this and continue on with other tasks (creating
        new DAG runs, progressing TIs from None to SCHEDULED etc.); DBs that don't support this (such as
        MariaDB or MySQL 5.x) the other schedulers will wait for the lock before continuing.
        :param session:
        :return: Number of task instance with state changed.
        """
        if self.job.max_tis_per_query == 0:
            max_tis = self.job.executor.slots_available
        else:
            max_tis = min(self.job.max_tis_per_query, self.job.executor.slots_available)
        queued_tis = self._executable_task_instances_to_queued(max_tis, session=session)
        self._enqueue_task_instances_with_queued_state(queued_tis, session=session)
        return len(queued_tis)
    def _process_executor_events(self, session: Session) -> int: