### Apache Airflow version

main (development)

### What happened

Changing a non-mapped task with task instance note and task reschedule to a mapped task crashes scheduler when the task is cleared for rerun. Related commit where a similar fix was done.

commit a770edfac493f3972c10a43e45bcd0e7cfaea65f
Author: Ephraim Anierobi <splendidzigy24@gmail.com>
Date:   Mon Feb 20 20:45:25 2023 +0100

    Fix Scheduler crash when clear a previous run of a normal task that is now a mapped task (#29645)
    
    The fix was to clear the db references of the taskinstances in XCom, RenderedTaskInstanceFields
    and TaskFail. That way, we are able to run the mapped tasks

### What you think should happen instead

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### How to reproduce

1. Create below dag file with BashOperator non-mapped.
2. Schedule a dag run and wait for it to finish.
3. Add a task instance note to bash operator.
4. Change t1 to ` t1 = BashOperator.partial(task_id="bash").expand(bash_command=command)` and return `["echo hello"]` from get_command.
5. Restart the scheduler and clear the task. 
6. scheduler crashes on trying to use map_index though foreign key reference exists to task instance note and task reschedule.

```python
import datetime

from airflow.operators.bash import BashOperator
from airflow import DAG
from airflow.decorators import task

with DAG(dag_id="bash_simple", start_date=datetime.datetime(2022, 1, 1), schedule=None, catchup=False) as dag:

    @task
    def get_command(arg1, arg2):
        return "echo hello"

    command = get_command(1, 1)
    t1 = BashOperator(task_id="bash", bash_command=command)


if __name__ == '__main__':
    dag.test()

```

### Operating System

Ubuntu

### Versions of Apache Airflow Providers

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### Deployment

Virtualenv installation

### Deployment details

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### Anything else

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### Are you willing to submit PR?

- [X] Yes I am willing to submit a PR!

### Code of Conduct

- [X] I agree to follow this project's [Code of Conduct](https://github.com/apache/airflow/blob/main/CODE_OF_CONDUCT.md)

return XCom.deserialize_value(first)
            query = query.order_by(None).order_by(XCom.map_index.asc())
            return LazyXComAccess.build_from_xcom_query(query)
        
        
        query = query.order_by(None)
        if task_ids is None or isinstance(task_ids, str):
            query = query.order_by(XCom.task_id)
        else:
            task_id_whens = {tid: i for i, tid in enumerate(task_ids)}
            if task_id_whens:
                query = query.order_by(case(task_id_whens, value=XCom.task_id))
            else:
                query = query.order_by(XCom.task_id)
        if map_indexes is None or isinstance(map_indexes, int):
            query = query.order_by(XCom.map_index)
        elif isinstance(map_indexes, range):
            order = XCom.map_index
            if map_indexes.step < 0:
                order = order.desc()
            query = query.order_by(order)
        else:
            map_index_whens = {map_index: i for i, map_index in enumerate(map_indexes)}
            if map_index_whens:
                query = query.order_by(case(map_index_whens, value=XCom.map_index))
            else:
                query = query.order_by(XCom.map_index)
        return LazyXComAccess.build_from_xcom_query(query)
    @provide_session
    def get_num_running_task_instances(self, session: Session, same_dagrun=False) -> int: