### Is there an existing issue for this?

- [X] I have searched the existing issues

### Current Behavior

With AWS, you can't send messages where the total size of message body + message attributes are greater than 262,144 bytes.

Currently, you are taking into account the message body only.

```python
>>> client = boto3.client('sqs', aws_access_key_id='fake', aws_secret_access_key='fake', endpoint_url='http://localstack:4566')
...
>>> client.send_message(QueueUrl='http://localstack:4566/000000000000/foo', MessageBody=('x' * 262_144), MessageAttributes={ 'k': { 'DataType': 'String', 'StringValue': 'v' } })
# the message is successfully delivered
{'MD5OfMessageBody': '1566aa66d825eb4354d3e9533b753995', 'MD5OfMessageAttributes': '731170ec8e13273a4e68fdcc2abaf9b4', 'MessageId': '6d12f05f-173f-45f2-a561-848070cd1390', 'ResponseMetadata': {'RequestId': 'DL5GNQG3WJ3IUOGTRD49RCG7DQAL333ZZNBP7RL8IEHAZVPMA367', 'HTTPStatusCode': 200, 'HTTPHeaders': {'content-type': 'text/xml', 'content-length': '493', 'connection': 'close', 'access-control-allow-origin': '*', 'access-control-allow-methods': 'HEAD,GET,PUT,POST,DELETE,OPTIONS,PATCH', 'access-control-allow-headers': 'authorization,cache-control,content-length,content-md5,content-type,etag,location,x-amz-acl,x-amz-content-sha256,x-amz-date,x-amz-request-id,x-amz-security-token,x-amz-tagging,x-amz-target,x-amz-user-agent,x-amz-version-id,x-amzn-requestid,x-localstack-target,amz-sdk-invocation-id,amz-sdk-request', 'access-control-expose-headers': 'etag,x-amz-version-id', 'date': 'Tue, 08 Nov 2022 20:56:15 GMT', 'server': 'hypercorn-h11'}, 'RetryAttempts': 0}}
```

### Expected Behavior

With AWS I obtain an error because the message attributes are taken into account when computing the message size:

```python
>>> client.send_message(QueueUrl=MY_QUEUE_URL, MessageBody=('x' * 262_144), MessageAttributes={ 'k': { 'DataType': 'String', 'StringValue': 'v' } })
# fail
botocore.exceptions.ClientError: An error occurred (InvalidParameterValue) when calling the SendMessage operation: One or more parameters are invalid. Reason: Message must be shorter than 262144 bytes.
```

In fact, if I subtract the byte size of the attribute values (`len('k')` + `len('String')` + `len('x')` = 8) from the message body I managed to send the message:

```python
>>> client.send_message(QueueUrl=MY_QUEUE_URL, MessageBody=('x' * 262_136), MessageAttributes={ 'k': { 'DataType': 'String', 'StringValue': 'v' } })
# the message is successfully delivered
```

### How are you starting LocalStack?

With a `docker run` command

### Steps To Reproduce

#### How are you starting localstack (e.g., `bin/localstack` command, arguments, or `docker-compose.yml`)

    docker run --rm -it -p 4566:4566 -p 4510-4559:4510-4559 localstack/localstack

#### Client commands (e.g., AWS SDK code snippet, or sequence of "awslocal" commands)

```python
import boto3

client = boto3.client('sqs', aws_access_key_id='fake', aws_secret_access_key='fake', endpoint_url='http://localstack:4566')
client.create_queue(QueueName='foo')
client.send_message(QueueUrl='http://localstack:4566/000000000000/foo', MessageBody=('x' * 262_144), MessageAttributes={ 'x': { 'DataType': 'String', 'StringValue': 'x' } })
```


### Environment

```markdown
- OS: Mac OS X Monterey
- LocalStack: 1.1.1
```


### Anything else?

If this bug is confirmed, I'd like to contribute by making a PR 😃 
import json
import os
import re
import time
from threading import Timer
from typing import Dict
import pytest
import requests
from botocore.exceptions import ClientError
from localstack import config
from localstack.aws.accounts import get_aws_account_id
from localstack.aws.api.lambda_ import Runtime
from localstack.services.sqs.constants import DEFAULT_MAXIMUM_MESSAGE_SIZE
from localstack.services.sqs.models import sqs_stores
from localstack.testing.snapshots.transformer import GenericTransformer
from localstack.utils.aws import aws_stack
from localstack.utils.common import poll_condition, retry, short_uid, to_str
from .awslambda.functions import lambda_integration
from .awslambda.test_lambda import TEST_LAMBDA_LIBS, TEST_LAMBDA_PYTHON
TEST_POLICY = """
{