### Description

Replace the existing selects with multi-selects that allow you to filter multiple DAG run states and types at the same time, somewhat similar to my prototype:

![image](https://github.com/apache/airflow/assets/1842905/c4ec0793-1ccb-417d-989c-781997416f97)


### Use case/motivation

I'm not sure if it is just me, but sometimes I wish I was able to show multiple DAG run states, especially `running` and `failed`, at the same time. 
This would be especially helpful for busy DAGs on which I want to clear a few failed runs. Without the multi-select, if I switch from `failed` to `running` DAG runs, I need to orient myself again to find the run I just cleared (assuming there are lots of other running DAG runs). _With_ the multi-select, the DAG run I just cleared stays in the same spot and I can check the logs, while clearing some other failed runs.

I'm not sure we need a multi-select for DAG run types as well. I'd tend to say no, but maybe someone else has a use-case for that.

### Related issues

_No response_

### Are you willing to submit a PR?

- [X] Yes I am willing to submit a PR!

### Code of Conduct

- [X] I agree to follow this project's [Code of Conduct](https://github.com/apache/airflow/blob/main/CODE_OF_CONDUCT.md)

"""Return grid data."""
        dag_id = request.args.get("dag_id")
        dag = get_airflow_app().dag_bag.get_dag(dag_id)
        if not dag:
            return {"error": f"can't find dag {dag_id}"}, 404
        root = request.args.get("root")
        if root:
            filter_upstream = request.args.get("filter_upstream") == "true"
            filter_downstream = request.args.get("filter_downstream") == "true"
            dag = dag.partial_subset(
                task_ids_or_regex=root, include_upstream=filter_upstream, include_downstream=filter_downstream
            )
        num_runs = request.args.get("num_runs", type=int)
        if num_runs is None: