### Description

expanding tasks in batches to allow mapped tasks spawn more than 1024 processes.

### Use case/motivation

Maximum length of a list is limited to 1024 by `max_map_length (AIRFLOW__CORE__MAX_MAP_LENGTH)`.
during scheduling of the new tasks, an UPDATE query is ran that tries to set all the new tasks at once.  Increasing `max_map_length` more than 4K makes airflow scheduler completely unresponsive.

Also, Postgres throws `stack depth limit exceeded` error which can be fixed by updating to a newer version and setting `max_stack_depth` higher. But it doesn't really matter because airflow scheduler freezes up.
 
As a workaround, I split the dag runs into subdag runs which works but it would be much nicer if we didn't have to worry about exceeding  `max_map_length`. 

### Related issues

It was discussed here:
[Increasing 'max_map_length' leads to SQL 'max_stack_depth' error with 5000 dags to be spawned #28478](https://github.com/apache/airflow/discussions/28478)

### Are you willing to submit a PR?

- [ ] Yes I am willing to submit a PR!

### Code of Conduct

- [X] I agree to follow this project's [Code of Conduct](https://github.com/apache/airflow/blob/main/CODE_OF_CONDUCT.md)

"""Returns a tuple that identifies the task instance uniquely"""
        return TaskInstanceKey(self.dag_id, self.task_id, self.run_id, self.try_number, self.map_index)
    @provide_session
    def set_state(self, state: str | None, session: Session = NEW_SESSION) -> bool:
        """
        Set TaskInstance state.
        :param state: State to set for the TI
        :param session: SQLAlchemy ORM Session
        :return: Was the state changed
        """
        if self.state == state:
            return False
        current_time = timezone.utcnow()
        self.log.debug("Setting task state for %s to %s", self, state)
        self.state = state
        self.start_date = self.start_date or current_time
        if self.state in State.finished or self.state == State.UP_FOR_RETRY:
            self.end_date = self.end_date or current_time
            self.duration = (self.end_date - self.start_date).total_seconds()
        session.merge(self)
        return True
    @property
    def is_premature(self) -> bool: