### Apache Airflow version

main (development)

### What happened

Changing a non-mapped task with task instance note and task reschedule to a mapped task crashes scheduler when the task is cleared for rerun. Related commit where a similar fix was done.

commit a770edfac493f3972c10a43e45bcd0e7cfaea65f
Author: Ephraim Anierobi <splendidzigy24@gmail.com>
Date:   Mon Feb 20 20:45:25 2023 +0100

    Fix Scheduler crash when clear a previous run of a normal task that is now a mapped task (#29645)
    
    The fix was to clear the db references of the taskinstances in XCom, RenderedTaskInstanceFields
    and TaskFail. That way, we are able to run the mapped tasks

### What you think should happen instead

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### How to reproduce

1. Create below dag file with BashOperator non-mapped.
2. Schedule a dag run and wait for it to finish.
3. Add a task instance note to bash operator.
4. Change t1 to ` t1 = BashOperator.partial(task_id="bash").expand(bash_command=command)` and return `["echo hello"]` from get_command.
5. Restart the scheduler and clear the task. 
6. scheduler crashes on trying to use map_index though foreign key reference exists to task instance note and task reschedule.

```python
import datetime

from airflow.operators.bash import BashOperator
from airflow import DAG
from airflow.decorators import task

with DAG(dag_id="bash_simple", start_date=datetime.datetime(2022, 1, 1), schedule=None, catchup=False) as dag:

    @task
    def get_command(arg1, arg2):
        return "echo hello"

    command = get_command(1, 1)
    t1 = BashOperator(task_id="bash", bash_command=command)


if __name__ == '__main__':
    dag.test()

```

### Operating System

Ubuntu

### Versions of Apache Airflow Providers

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### Deployment

Virtualenv installation

### Deployment details

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### Anything else

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### Are you willing to submit PR?

- [X] Yes I am willing to submit a PR!

### Code of Conduct

- [X] I agree to follow this project's [Code of Conduct](https://github.com/apache/airflow/blob/main/CODE_OF_CONDUCT.md)

"""Ensure we access XCom lazily when pulling from a mapped operator."""
    with dag_maker(dag_id="test_xcom", session=session):
        
        
        task_1 = EmptyOperator.partial(task_id="task_1")._expand(EXPAND_INPUT_EMPTY, strict=False)
        EmptyOperator(task_id="task_2")
    dagrun = dag_maker.create_dagrun()
    ti_1_0 = dagrun.get_task_instance("task_1", session=session)
    ti_1_0.map_index = 0
    ti_1_1 = session.merge(TaskInstance(task_1, run_id=dagrun.run_id, map_index=1, state=ti_1_0.state))
    session.flush()
    ti_1_0.xcom_push(key=XCOM_RETURN_KEY, value="a", session=session)
    ti_1_1.xcom_push(key=XCOM_RETURN_KEY, value="b", session=session)
    ti_2 = dagrun.get_task_instance("task_2", session=session)
    
    joined = ti_2.xcom_pull("task_1", session=session)
    assert isinstance(joined, LazyXComAccess)
    assert mock_deserialize_value.call_count == 0
    
    it = iter(joined)
    assert next(it) == "a"
    assert mock_deserialize_value.call_count == 1
    assert next(it) == "b"
    assert mock_deserialize_value.call_count == 2
    with pytest.raises(StopIteration):
        next(it)
def test_ti_mapped_depends_on_mapped_xcom_arg(dag_maker, session):