### Apache Airflow version

main (development)

### What happened

Changing a non-mapped task with task instance note and task reschedule to a mapped task crashes scheduler when the task is cleared for rerun. Related commit where a similar fix was done.

commit a770edfac493f3972c10a43e45bcd0e7cfaea65f
Author: Ephraim Anierobi <splendidzigy24@gmail.com>
Date:   Mon Feb 20 20:45:25 2023 +0100

    Fix Scheduler crash when clear a previous run of a normal task that is now a mapped task (#29645)
    
    The fix was to clear the db references of the taskinstances in XCom, RenderedTaskInstanceFields
    and TaskFail. That way, we are able to run the mapped tasks

### What you think should happen instead

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### How to reproduce

1. Create below dag file with BashOperator non-mapped.
2. Schedule a dag run and wait for it to finish.
3. Add a task instance note to bash operator.
4. Change t1 to ` t1 = BashOperator.partial(task_id="bash").expand(bash_command=command)` and return `["echo hello"]` from get_command.
5. Restart the scheduler and clear the task. 
6. scheduler crashes on trying to use map_index though foreign key reference exists to task instance note and task reschedule.

```python
import datetime

from airflow.operators.bash import BashOperator
from airflow import DAG
from airflow.decorators import task

with DAG(dag_id="bash_simple", start_date=datetime.datetime(2022, 1, 1), schedule=None, catchup=False) as dag:

    @task
    def get_command(arg1, arg2):
        return "echo hello"

    command = get_command(1, 1)
    t1 = BashOperator(task_id="bash", bash_command=command)


if __name__ == '__main__':
    dag.test()

```

### Operating System

Ubuntu

### Versions of Apache Airflow Providers

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### Deployment

Virtualenv installation

### Deployment details

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### Anything else

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### Are you willing to submit PR?

- [X] Yes I am willing to submit a PR!

### Code of Conduct

- [X] I agree to follow this project's [Code of Conduct](https://github.com/apache/airflow/blob/main/CODE_OF_CONDUCT.md)

instance is returned. If the task to pull is mapped, an iterator (not a
        list) yielding XComs from mapped task instances is returned. In either
        case, ``default`` (*None* if not specified) is returned if no matching
        XComs are found.
        When pulling multiple tasks (i.e. either ``task_id`` or ``map_index`` is
        a non-str iterable), a list of matching XComs is returned. Elements in
        the list is ordered by item ordering in ``task_id`` and ``map_index``.
        """
        if dag_id is None:
            dag_id = self.dag_id
        query = XCom.get_many(
            key=key,
            run_id=self.run_id,
            dag_ids=dag_id,
            task_ids=task_ids,
            map_indexes=map_indexes,
            include_prior_dates=include_prior_dates,
            session=session,
        )
        
        
        
        
        if (task_ids is None or isinstance(task_ids, str)) and not isinstance(map_indexes, Iterable):
            first = query.with_entities(
                XCom.run_id, XCom.task_id, XCom.dag_id, XCom.map_index, XCom.value
            ).first()
            if first is None:  
                return default
            if map_indexes is not None or first.map_index < 0: