**Describe the issue**

Improve feedback when trying to replace a partition with a different index

**Which ClickHouse server version to use**

21.9.5


**How to reproduce**

```
DROP DATABASE IF EXISTS test;

CREATE DATABASE test;

CREATE TABLE test.A (id UInt32, company UInt32, total UInt64) ENGINE=SummingMergeTree() PARTITION BY company PRIMARY KEY (id) ORDER BY (id, company);

INSERT INTO test.A SELECT number%10 as id, number%2 as company, count() as total FROM numbers(100) GROUP BY id,company;

CREATE TABLE test.B (id UInt32, company UInt32, total UInt64) ENGINE=SummingMergeTree() PARTITION BY company ORDER BY (id, company);

ALTER TABLE test.B REPLACE PARTITION '0' FROM test.A;

```

**Error message and/or stacktrace**

```
Received exception from server (version 21.9.5):
Code: 33. DB::Exception: Received from localhost:9000. DB::Exception: Cannot read all data. Bytes read: 0. Bytes expected: 4.. (CANNOT_READ_ALL_DATA)
(query: ALTER TABLE test.B REPLACE PARTITION '0' FROM test.A;)
````

**Expected behavior**

```
Code: 33. DB::Exception: Received from localhost:9000. DB::Exception: Cannot replace partition different index (CANNOT_REPLACE_PARTITION)
(query: ALTER TABLE test.B REPLACE PARTITION '0' FROM test.A;)
```

void MergeTreeData::restoreDataFromBackup(RestorerFromBackup & restorer, const String & data_path_in_backup, const std::optional<ASTs> & partitions)
{
    auto backup = restorer.getBackup();
    if (!backup->hasFiles(data_path_in_backup))
        return;
    if (!restorer.isNonEmptyTableAllowed() && getTotalActiveSizeInBytes() && backup->hasFiles(data_path_in_backup))
        restorer.throwTableIsNotEmpty(getStorageID());
    restorePartsFromBackup(restorer, data_path_in_backup, partitions);
}
class MergeTreeData::RestoredPartsHolder
{
public:
    RestoredPartsHolder(const std::shared_ptr<MergeTreeData> & storage_, const BackupPtr & backup_, size_t num_parts_)
        : storage(storage_), backup(backup_), num_parts(num_parts_)
    {
    }
    BackupPtr getBackup() const { return backup; }
    void setNumParts(size_t num_parts_)
    {
        std::lock_guard lock{mutex};
        num_parts = num_parts_;
        attachIfAllPartsRestored();
    }
    void addPart(MutableDataPartPtr part)
    {
        std::lock_guard lock{mutex};
        parts.emplace_back(part);
        attachIfAllPartsRestored();
    }
    String getTemporaryDirectory(const DiskPtr & disk)