**Describe the issue**

Improve feedback when trying to replace a partition with a different index

**Which ClickHouse server version to use**

21.9.5


**How to reproduce**

```
DROP DATABASE IF EXISTS test;

CREATE DATABASE test;

CREATE TABLE test.A (id UInt32, company UInt32, total UInt64) ENGINE=SummingMergeTree() PARTITION BY company PRIMARY KEY (id) ORDER BY (id, company);

INSERT INTO test.A SELECT number%10 as id, number%2 as company, count() as total FROM numbers(100) GROUP BY id,company;

CREATE TABLE test.B (id UInt32, company UInt32, total UInt64) ENGINE=SummingMergeTree() PARTITION BY company ORDER BY (id, company);

ALTER TABLE test.B REPLACE PARTITION '0' FROM test.A;

```

**Error message and/or stacktrace**

```
Received exception from server (version 21.9.5):
Code: 33. DB::Exception: Received from localhost:9000. DB::Exception: Cannot read all data. Bytes read: 0. Bytes expected: 4.. (CANNOT_READ_ALL_DATA)
(query: ALTER TABLE test.B REPLACE PARTITION '0' FROM test.A;)
````

**Expected behavior**

```
Code: 33. DB::Exception: Received from localhost:9000. DB::Exception: Cannot replace partition different index (CANNOT_REPLACE_PARTITION)
(query: ALTER TABLE test.B REPLACE PARTITION '0' FROM test.A;)
```

if (part_disk_ptr->exists(marker_path))
        {
            
            size_t size_of_part = data_part_storage->calculateTotalSizeOnDisk();
            LOG_WARNING(log,
                "Detaching stale part {}{} (size: {}), which should have been deleted after a move. "
                "That can only happen after unclean restart of ClickHouse after move of a part having an operation blocking that stale copy of part.",
                getFullPathOnDisk(part_disk_ptr), part_name, formatReadableSizeWithBinarySuffix(size_of_part));
            std::lock_guard loading_lock(mutex);
            broken_parts_to_detach.push_back(part);
            ++suspicious_broken_parts;
            suspicious_broken_parts_bytes += size_of_part;
            return;
        }
        try
        {
            part->loadColumnsChecksumsIndexes(require_part_metadata, true);
        }
        catch (const Exception & e)
        {
            
            
            
            if (isNotEnoughMemoryErrorCode(e.code()))
                throw;
            broken = true;
            tryLogCurrentException(log, fmt::format("while loading part {} on path {}", part->name, part_path));
        }
        catch (...)
        {