 This bug is reproduced on any version ( 22.1.3.7 , 22.3.11.12 , 22.9.3)

**How to reproduce** 
*(cant reproduce well on fiddle, but easy locally or on production)*

**NOT OK (with preallocate)**
```
CREATE TABLE default.oom_table (key String) ENGINE = MergeTree() ORDER BY tuple();

INSERT INTO default.oom_table SELECT hex(sipHash128(toString(number % 100))) FROM numbers(1000000000);

CREATE VIEW default.oom_view AS SELECT xxHash32(key) hash, key FROM default.oom_table GROUP BY key;

CREATE DICTIONARY default.oom_dict (hash UInt32, key String) PRIMARY KEY hash SOURCE(CLICKHOUSE(host 'localhost' user 'default' port 9000 db 'default' table 'oom_view')) LAYOUT (HASHED(PREALLOCATE 1)) LIFETIME (600);

SELECT * FROM dictionary('default.oom_dict');
```

**Error**
```
Code: 241. DB::Exception: Received from clickhouse-server:9000. DB::Exception: Memory limit (total) exceeded: would use 48.48 GiB (attempt to allocate chunk of 51540792506 bytes), maximum: 13.50 GiB. OvercommitTracker decision: Query was selected to stop by OvercommitTracker.. (MEMORY_LIMIT_EXCEEDED)

```

**OK (without preallocate)**
```
CREATE TABLE default.oom_table (key String) ENGINE = MergeTree() ORDER BY tuple();

INSERT INTO default.oom_table SELECT hex(sipHash128(toString(number % 100))) FROM numbers(1000000000);

CREATE VIEW default.oom_view AS SELECT xxHash32(key) hash, key FROM default.oom_table GROUP BY key;

CREATE DICTIONARY default.oom_dict (hash UInt32, key String) PRIMARY KEY hash SOURCE(CLICKHOUSE(host 'localhost' user 'default' port 9000 db 'default' table 'oom_view')) LAYOUT (HASHED()) LIFETIME (600);

SELECT * FROM dictionary('default.oom_dict');
```


const StorageID & dict_id_,
    const DictionaryStructure & dict_struct_,
    DictionarySourcePtr source_ptr_,
    const HashedDictionaryStorageConfiguration & configuration_,
    BlockPtr update_field_loaded_block_)
    : IDictionary(dict_id_)
    , log(&Poco::Logger::get("HashedDictionary"))
    , dict_struct(dict_struct_)
    , source_ptr(std::move(source_ptr_))
    , configuration(configuration_)
    , update_field_loaded_block(std::move(update_field_loaded_block_))
{
    createAttributes();
    loadData();
    buildHierarchyParentToChildIndexIfNeeded();
    calculateBytesAllocated();
}
template <DictionaryKeyType dictionary_key_type, bool sparse, bool sharded>
HashedDictionary<dictionary_key_type, sparse, sharded>::~HashedDictionary()