 This bug is reproduced on any version ( 22.1.3.7 , 22.3.11.12 , 22.9.3)

**How to reproduce** 
*(cant reproduce well on fiddle, but easy locally or on production)*

**NOT OK (with preallocate)**
```
CREATE TABLE default.oom_table (key String) ENGINE = MergeTree() ORDER BY tuple();

INSERT INTO default.oom_table SELECT hex(sipHash128(toString(number % 100))) FROM numbers(1000000000);

CREATE VIEW default.oom_view AS SELECT xxHash32(key) hash, key FROM default.oom_table GROUP BY key;

CREATE DICTIONARY default.oom_dict (hash UInt32, key String) PRIMARY KEY hash SOURCE(CLICKHOUSE(host 'localhost' user 'default' port 9000 db 'default' table 'oom_view')) LAYOUT (HASHED(PREALLOCATE 1)) LIFETIME (600);

SELECT * FROM dictionary('default.oom_dict');
```

**Error**
```
Code: 241. DB::Exception: Received from clickhouse-server:9000. DB::Exception: Memory limit (total) exceeded: would use 48.48 GiB (attempt to allocate chunk of 51540792506 bytes), maximum: 13.50 GiB. OvercommitTracker decision: Query was selected to stop by OvercommitTracker.. (MEMORY_LIMIT_EXCEEDED)

```

**OK (without preallocate)**
```
CREATE TABLE default.oom_table (key String) ENGINE = MergeTree() ORDER BY tuple();

INSERT INTO default.oom_table SELECT hex(sipHash128(toString(number % 100))) FROM numbers(1000000000);

CREATE VIEW default.oom_view AS SELECT xxHash32(key) hash, key FROM default.oom_table GROUP BY key;

CREATE DICTIONARY default.oom_dict (hash UInt32, key String) PRIMARY KEY hash SOURCE(CLICKHOUSE(host 'localhost' user 'default' port 9000 db 'default' table 'oom_view')) LAYOUT (HASHED()) LIFETIME (600);

SELECT * FROM dictionary('default.oom_dict');
```


if (attributes.empty())
    {
        for (size_t shard = 0; shard < shards; ++shard)
        {
            schedule_destroy(no_attributes_containers[shard]);
        }
    }
    else
    {
        for (size_t attribute_index = 0; attribute_index < attributes.size(); ++attribute_index)
        {
            getAttributeContainer(attribute_index, [&](auto & containers)
            {
                for (size_t shard = 0; shard < shards; ++shard)
                {
                    schedule_destroy(containers[shard]);
                }
            });
        }
    }
    LOG_TRACE(log, "Destroying {} non empty hash tables (using {} threads)", hash_tables_count, pool.getMaxThreads());
    pool.wait();
    LOG_TRACE(log, "Hash tables destroyed");
}
catch (...)
{
    tryLogCurrentException("HashedDictionary", "Error while destroying dictionary in parallel, will do a sequential destroy.");
}
template <DictionaryKeyType dictionary_key_type, bool sparse, bool sharded>
ColumnPtr HashedDictionary<dictionary_key_type, sparse, sharded>::getColumn(