**Describe the bug**
For DATABASE ENGINE Atomic (used by Default for all databases from 20.10) 
when try to `DROP TALBE replicatedmergetree table ON CLUSTER ... SYNC`, query failed after `distributed_ddl_task_timeout` seconds
`decrease `database_atomic_delay_before_drop_table_sec=1` and setup `database_atomic_wait_for_drop_and_detach_synchronously=1` for default user profile didn't help

**How to reproduce**
just look to https://gist.github.com/Slach/a7f2946a108883f6b1d5585b1b5b6b0d
```
bash -x ./reproduce.sh
```

* Which ClickHouse server version to use
Latest official docker build

* Non-default settings, if any
```
<yandex>
    <database_atomic_delay_before_drop_table_sec>1</database_atomic_delay_before_drop_table_sec>
    <profile>
        <default>
            <database_atomic_wait_for_drop_and_detach_synchronously>1</database_atomic_wait_for_drop_and_detach_synchronously>
            <distributed_ddl_task_timeout>20</distributed_ddl_task_timeout>
        </default>
    </profile>
</yandex>

```

**Expected behavior**
Successfull DROP TABLE on cluster

**Error message and/or stacktrace**
Code: 159. DB::Exception: Received from localhost:9000. DB::Exception: Watching task /clickhouse/task_queue/ddl/query-0000000001 is executing longer than distributed_ddl_task_timeout (=20) seconds. There are 2 unfinished hosts (0 of them are currently active), they are going to execute the query in background.

**Additional context**
table physically deleted, but Atomic engine doesn't return "finished" flag to Zookeeper `distributed_ddl` queue

```
docker-compose exec clickhouse-0-0-0 clickhouse-client -q "SELECT * FROM system.zookeeper WHERE path='/clickhouse/task_queue/ddl/query-0000000001/finished' FORMAT
Vertical"
```

returns empty result


task.entry_name, task.host_id.readableString(), task.cluster_name);
    
    
    
    const auto & shards = task.cluster->getShardsAddresses();
    bool found_exact_match = false;
    String default_database;
    for (size_t shard_num = 0; shard_num < shards.size(); ++shard_num)
    {
        for (size_t replica_num = 0; replica_num < shards[shard_num].size(); ++replica_num)
        {
            const Cluster::Address & address = shards[shard_num][replica_num];
            if (address.host_name == task.host_id.host_name && address.port == task.host_id.port)
            {
                if (found_exact_match)
                {
                    if (default_database == address.default_database)
                    {
                        throw Exception(ErrorCodes::INCONSISTENT_CLUSTER_DEFINITION,
                            "There are two exactly the same ClickHouse instances {} in cluster {}",
                            address.readableString(), task.cluster_name);
                    }
                    else
                    {
                        /* Circular replication is used.
                         * It is when every physical node contains
                         * replicas of different shards of the same table.
                         * To distinguish one replica from another on the same node,
                         * every shard is placed into separate database.
                         * */