**Describe the issue**

Improve feedback when trying to replace a partition with a different index

**Which ClickHouse server version to use**

21.9.5


**How to reproduce**

```
DROP DATABASE IF EXISTS test;

CREATE DATABASE test;

CREATE TABLE test.A (id UInt32, company UInt32, total UInt64) ENGINE=SummingMergeTree() PARTITION BY company PRIMARY KEY (id) ORDER BY (id, company);

INSERT INTO test.A SELECT number%10 as id, number%2 as company, count() as total FROM numbers(100) GROUP BY id,company;

CREATE TABLE test.B (id UInt32, company UInt32, total UInt64) ENGINE=SummingMergeTree() PARTITION BY company ORDER BY (id, company);

ALTER TABLE test.B REPLACE PARTITION '0' FROM test.A;

```

**Error message and/or stacktrace**

```
Received exception from server (version 21.9.5):
Code: 33. DB::Exception: Received from localhost:9000. DB::Exception: Cannot read all data. Bytes read: 0. Bytes expected: 4.. (CANNOT_READ_ALL_DATA)
(query: ALTER TABLE test.B REPLACE PARTITION '0' FROM test.A;)
````

**Expected behavior**

```
Code: 33. DB::Exception: Received from localhost:9000. DB::Exception: Cannot replace partition different index (CANNOT_REPLACE_PARTITION)
(query: ALTER TABLE test.B REPLACE PARTITION '0' FROM test.A;)
```

{
    std::lock_guard lock(query_id_set_mutex);
    removeQueryIdNoLock(query_id);
}
void MergeTreeData::removeQueryIdNoLock(const String & query_id) const
{
    if (query_id_set.find(query_id) == query_id_set.end())
        LOG_WARNING(log, "We have query_id removed but it's not recorded. This is a bug");
    else
        query_id_set.erase(query_id);
}
ReservationPtr MergeTreeData::balancedReservation(
    const StorageMetadataPtr & metadata_snapshot,
    size_t part_size,
    size_t max_volume_index,
    const String & part_name,
    const MergeTreePartInfo & part_info,
    MergeTreeData::DataPartsVector covered_parts,
    std::optional<CurrentlySubmergingEmergingTagger> * tagger_ptr,
    const IMergeTreeDataPart::TTLInfos * ttl_infos,
    bool is_insert)