**Describe the issue**

Improve feedback when trying to replace a partition with a different index

**Which ClickHouse server version to use**

21.9.5


**How to reproduce**

```
DROP DATABASE IF EXISTS test;

CREATE DATABASE test;

CREATE TABLE test.A (id UInt32, company UInt32, total UInt64) ENGINE=SummingMergeTree() PARTITION BY company PRIMARY KEY (id) ORDER BY (id, company);

INSERT INTO test.A SELECT number%10 as id, number%2 as company, count() as total FROM numbers(100) GROUP BY id,company;

CREATE TABLE test.B (id UInt32, company UInt32, total UInt64) ENGINE=SummingMergeTree() PARTITION BY company ORDER BY (id, company);

ALTER TABLE test.B REPLACE PARTITION '0' FROM test.A;

```

**Error message and/or stacktrace**

```
Received exception from server (version 21.9.5):
Code: 33. DB::Exception: Received from localhost:9000. DB::Exception: Cannot read all data. Bytes read: 0. Bytes expected: 4.. (CANNOT_READ_ALL_DATA)
(query: ALTER TABLE test.B REPLACE PARTITION '0' FROM test.A;)
````

**Expected behavior**

```
Code: 33. DB::Exception: Received from localhost:9000. DB::Exception: Cannot replace partition different index (CANNOT_REPLACE_PARTITION)
(query: ALTER TABLE test.B REPLACE PARTITION '0' FROM test.A;)
```

MergeTreeWriteAheadLog wal(*this, disk_ptr, it->name());
                        for (auto && part : wal.restore(metadata_snapshot, getContext(), part_lock))
                            disk_wal_parts.push_back(std::move(part));
                    }
                }
            });
        }
        pool.wait();
        MutableDataPartsVector parts_from_wal;
        for (auto & [_, disk_wal_parts] : disk_wal_part_map)
            parts_from_wal.insert(
                parts_from_wal.end(), std::make_move_iterator(disk_wal_parts.begin()), std::make_move_iterator(disk_wal_parts.end()));
        loadDataPartsFromWAL(broken_parts_to_detach, duplicate_parts_to_remove, parts_from_wal);
        num_parts += parts_from_wal.size();
    }
    if (num_parts == 0)
    {
        resetObjectColumnsFromActiveParts(part_lock);
        LOG_DEBUG(log, "There are no data parts");
        return;
    }
    for (auto & part : broken_parts_to_detach)
    {
        auto builder = part->data_part_storage->getBuilder();
        part->renameToDetached("broken-on-start", builder); 
        builder->commit();
    }
    for (auto & part : duplicate_parts_to_remove)
        part->remove();
    auto deactivate_part = [&] (DataPartIteratorByStateAndInfo it)