**Describe the issue**

Improve feedback when trying to replace a partition with a different index

**Which ClickHouse server version to use**

21.9.5


**How to reproduce**

```
DROP DATABASE IF EXISTS test;

CREATE DATABASE test;

CREATE TABLE test.A (id UInt32, company UInt32, total UInt64) ENGINE=SummingMergeTree() PARTITION BY company PRIMARY KEY (id) ORDER BY (id, company);

INSERT INTO test.A SELECT number%10 as id, number%2 as company, count() as total FROM numbers(100) GROUP BY id,company;

CREATE TABLE test.B (id UInt32, company UInt32, total UInt64) ENGINE=SummingMergeTree() PARTITION BY company ORDER BY (id, company);

ALTER TABLE test.B REPLACE PARTITION '0' FROM test.A;

```

**Error message and/or stacktrace**

```
Received exception from server (version 21.9.5):
Code: 33. DB::Exception: Received from localhost:9000. DB::Exception: Cannot read all data. Bytes read: 0. Bytes expected: 4.. (CANNOT_READ_ALL_DATA)
(query: ALTER TABLE test.B REPLACE PARTITION '0' FROM test.A;)
````

**Expected behavior**

```
Code: 33. DB::Exception: Received from localhost:9000. DB::Exception: Cannot replace partition different index (CANNOT_REPLACE_PARTITION)
(query: ALTER TABLE test.B REPLACE PARTITION '0' FROM test.A;)
```

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            }
        }
        need_remove_parts_in_order = has_zero_copy_disk;
    }
    time_t now = time(nullptr);
    std::vector<DataPartIteratorByStateAndInfo> parts_to_delete;
    std::vector<MergeTreePartInfo> skipped_parts;
    auto has_skipped_mutation_parent = [&skipped_parts, need_remove_parts_in_order] (const DataPartPtr & part)
    {
        if (!need_remove_parts_in_order)
            return false;
        for (const auto & part_info : skipped_parts)
            if (part->info.isMutationChildOf(part_info))
                return true;
        return false;
    };
    {
        auto parts_lock = lockParts();
        auto outdated_parts_range = getDataPartsStateRange(DataPartState::Outdated);
        for (auto it = outdated_parts_range.begin(); it != outdated_parts_range.end(); ++it)
        {
            const DataPartPtr & part = *it;
            
            if (!part->version.canBeRemoved())
            {
                skipped_parts.push_back(part->info);
                continue;
            }
            auto part_remove_time = part->remove_time.load(std::memory_order_relaxed);