**Describe the issue**

Improve feedback when trying to replace a partition with a different index

**Which ClickHouse server version to use**

21.9.5


**How to reproduce**

```
DROP DATABASE IF EXISTS test;

CREATE DATABASE test;

CREATE TABLE test.A (id UInt32, company UInt32, total UInt64) ENGINE=SummingMergeTree() PARTITION BY company PRIMARY KEY (id) ORDER BY (id, company);

INSERT INTO test.A SELECT number%10 as id, number%2 as company, count() as total FROM numbers(100) GROUP BY id,company;

CREATE TABLE test.B (id UInt32, company UInt32, total UInt64) ENGINE=SummingMergeTree() PARTITION BY company ORDER BY (id, company);

ALTER TABLE test.B REPLACE PARTITION '0' FROM test.A;

```

**Error message and/or stacktrace**

```
Received exception from server (version 21.9.5):
Code: 33. DB::Exception: Received from localhost:9000. DB::Exception: Cannot read all data. Bytes read: 0. Bytes expected: 4.. (CANNOT_READ_ALL_DATA)
(query: ALTER TABLE test.B REPLACE PARTITION '0' FROM test.A;)
````

**Expected behavior**

```
Code: 33. DB::Exception: Received from localhost:9000. DB::Exception: Cannot replace partition different index (CANNOT_REPLACE_PARTITION)
(query: ALTER TABLE test.B REPLACE PARTITION '0' FROM test.A;)
```

if (!it->unique())
                    LOG_WARNING(log, "Cannot immediately remove part {} because someone using it right now "
                             "usage counter {}", part_name_with_state, it->use_count());
                return;
            }
            modifyPartState(it, DataPartState::Deleting);
            part_to_delete = *it;
        }
        else
        {
            part_to_delete = std::move(part);
        }
    }
    try
    {
        part_to_delete->remove();
    }
    catch (...)
    {
        rollbackDeletingParts({part_to_delete});
        throw;
    }
    removePartsFinally({part_to_delete});
    LOG_TRACE(log, "Removed part {}", part_to_delete->name);
}
size_t MergeTreeData::getTotalActiveSizeInBytes() const
{
    return total_active_size_bytes.load(std::memory_order_acquire);
}
size_t MergeTreeData::getTotalActiveSizeInRows() const