**Describe the issue**

Improve feedback when trying to replace a partition with a different index

**Which ClickHouse server version to use**

21.9.5


**How to reproduce**

```
DROP DATABASE IF EXISTS test;

CREATE DATABASE test;

CREATE TABLE test.A (id UInt32, company UInt32, total UInt64) ENGINE=SummingMergeTree() PARTITION BY company PRIMARY KEY (id) ORDER BY (id, company);

INSERT INTO test.A SELECT number%10 as id, number%2 as company, count() as total FROM numbers(100) GROUP BY id,company;

CREATE TABLE test.B (id UInt32, company UInt32, total UInt64) ENGINE=SummingMergeTree() PARTITION BY company ORDER BY (id, company);

ALTER TABLE test.B REPLACE PARTITION '0' FROM test.A;

```

**Error message and/or stacktrace**

```
Received exception from server (version 21.9.5):
Code: 33. DB::Exception: Received from localhost:9000. DB::Exception: Cannot read all data. Bytes read: 0. Bytes expected: 4.. (CANNOT_READ_ALL_DATA)
(query: ALTER TABLE test.B REPLACE PARTITION '0' FROM test.A;)
````

**Expected behavior**

```
Code: 33. DB::Exception: Received from localhost:9000. DB::Exception: Cannot replace partition different index (CANNOT_REPLACE_PARTITION)
(query: ALTER TABLE test.B REPLACE PARTITION '0' FROM test.A;)
```

throw Exception("Deleting data part " + part->name + " doesn't exist", ErrorCodes::LOGICAL_ERROR);
            (*it)->assertState({DataPartState::Deleting});
            data_parts_indexes.erase(it);
        }
    }
    
    
    auto table_id = getStorageID();
    if (auto part_log = getContext()->getPartLog(table_id.database_name))
    {
        PartLogElement part_log_elem;
        part_log_elem.event_type = PartLogElement::REMOVE_PART;
        const auto time_now = std::chrono::system_clock::now();
        part_log_elem.event_time = time_in_seconds(time_now);
        part_log_elem.event_time_microseconds = time_in_microseconds(time_now);
        part_log_elem.duration_ms = 0; 
        part_log_elem.database_name = table_id.database_name;
        part_log_elem.table_name = table_id.table_name;
        for (const auto & part : parts)
        {
            part_log_elem.partition_id = part->info.partition_id;
            part_log_elem.part_name = part->name;
            part_log_elem.bytes_compressed_on_disk = part->getBytesOnDisk();
            part_log_elem.rows = part->rows_count;
            part_log_elem.part_type = part->getType();
            part_log->add(part_log_elem);
        }
    }
}
void MergeTreeData::flushAllInMemoryPartsIfNeeded()