Symptoms: all threads in BackgroundScheduledPool busy, lot of tasks in replication queue, none of the tasks is executing. 

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Related to #16895

Possible workarounds (poor options): increasing the background_schedule_pool_size to huge values, or restart server every time when that happens etc. - 

{
    for (const auto & column : part->getColumns())
    {
        ColumnSize & total_column_size = column_sizes[column.name];
        ColumnSize part_column_size = part->getColumnSize(column.name, *column.type);
        total_column_size.add(part_column_size);
    }
}
void MergeTreeData::removePartContributionToColumnSizes(const DataPartPtr & part)
{
    for (const auto & column : part->getColumns())
    {
        ColumnSize & total_column_size = column_sizes[column.name];
        ColumnSize part_column_size = part->getColumnSize(column.name, *column.type);
        auto log_subtract = [&](size_t & from, size_t value, const char * field)
        {
            if (value > from)
                LOG_ERROR(log, "Possibly incorrect column size subtraction: {} - {} = {}, column: {}, field: {}",
                    from, value, from - value, column.name, field);
            from -= value;
        };
        log_subtract(total_column_size.data_compressed, part_column_size.data_compressed, ".data_compressed");
        log_subtract(total_column_size.data_uncompressed, part_column_size.data_uncompressed, ".data_uncompressed");
        log_subtract(total_column_size.marks, part_column_size.marks, ".marks");
    }
}
void MergeTreeData::checkAlterPartitionIsPossible(