**Describe the issue**

Improve feedback when trying to replace a partition with a different index

**Which ClickHouse server version to use**

21.9.5


**How to reproduce**

```
DROP DATABASE IF EXISTS test;

CREATE DATABASE test;

CREATE TABLE test.A (id UInt32, company UInt32, total UInt64) ENGINE=SummingMergeTree() PARTITION BY company PRIMARY KEY (id) ORDER BY (id, company);

INSERT INTO test.A SELECT number%10 as id, number%2 as company, count() as total FROM numbers(100) GROUP BY id,company;

CREATE TABLE test.B (id UInt32, company UInt32, total UInt64) ENGINE=SummingMergeTree() PARTITION BY company ORDER BY (id, company);

ALTER TABLE test.B REPLACE PARTITION '0' FROM test.A;

```

**Error message and/or stacktrace**

```
Received exception from server (version 21.9.5):
Code: 33. DB::Exception: Received from localhost:9000. DB::Exception: Cannot read all data. Bytes read: 0. Bytes expected: 4.. (CANNOT_READ_ALL_DATA)
(query: ALTER TABLE test.B REPLACE PARTITION '0' FROM test.A;)
````

**Expected behavior**

```
Code: 33. DB::Exception: Received from localhost:9000. DB::Exception: Cannot replace partition different index (CANNOT_REPLACE_PARTITION)
(query: ALTER TABLE test.B REPLACE PARTITION '0' FROM test.A;)
```

loadDataPartsFromDisk(
            broken_parts_to_detach, duplicate_parts_to_remove, pool, num_parts, parts_queue, skip_sanity_checks, settings);
    if (settings->in_memory_parts_enable_wal)
    {
        std::map<String, MutableDataPartsVector> disk_wal_part_map;
        std::mutex wal_init_lock;
        for (const auto & disk_ptr : disks)
        {
            if (disk_ptr->isBroken())
                continue;
            auto & disk_wal_parts = disk_wal_part_map[disk_ptr->getName()];
            pool.scheduleOrThrowOnError([&, disk_ptr]()
            {
                for (auto it = disk_ptr->iterateDirectory(relative_data_path); it->isValid(); it->next())
                {
                    if (!startsWith(it->name(), MergeTreeWriteAheadLog::WAL_FILE_NAME))
                        continue;
                    if (it->name() == MergeTreeWriteAheadLog::DEFAULT_WAL_FILE_NAME)
                    {
                        std::lock_guard lock(wal_init_lock);
                        if (write_ahead_log != nullptr)
                            throw Exception(
                                "There are multiple WAL files appeared in current storage policy. You need to resolve this manually",
                                ErrorCodes::CORRUPTED_DATA);
                        write_ahead_log = std::make_shared<MergeTreeWriteAheadLog>(*this, disk_ptr, it->name());
                        for (auto && part : write_ahead_log->restore(metadata_snapshot, getContext(), part_lock))
                            disk_wal_parts.push_back(std::move(part));
                    }
                    else
                    {