**Describe the issue**

Improve feedback when trying to replace a partition with a different index

**Which ClickHouse server version to use**

21.9.5


**How to reproduce**

```
DROP DATABASE IF EXISTS test;

CREATE DATABASE test;

CREATE TABLE test.A (id UInt32, company UInt32, total UInt64) ENGINE=SummingMergeTree() PARTITION BY company PRIMARY KEY (id) ORDER BY (id, company);

INSERT INTO test.A SELECT number%10 as id, number%2 as company, count() as total FROM numbers(100) GROUP BY id,company;

CREATE TABLE test.B (id UInt32, company UInt32, total UInt64) ENGINE=SummingMergeTree() PARTITION BY company ORDER BY (id, company);

ALTER TABLE test.B REPLACE PARTITION '0' FROM test.A;

```

**Error message and/or stacktrace**

```
Received exception from server (version 21.9.5):
Code: 33. DB::Exception: Received from localhost:9000. DB::Exception: Cannot read all data. Bytes read: 0. Bytes expected: 4.. (CANNOT_READ_ALL_DATA)
(query: ALTER TABLE test.B REPLACE PARTITION '0' FROM test.A;)
````

**Expected behavior**

```
Code: 33. DB::Exception: Received from localhost:9000. DB::Exception: Cannot replace partition different index (CANNOT_REPLACE_PARTITION)
(query: ALTER TABLE test.B REPLACE PARTITION '0' FROM test.A;)
```

continue;
        auto & disk_parts = disk_part_map[disk_ptr->getName()];
        pool.scheduleOrThrowOnError([&, disk_ptr]()
        {
            for (auto it = disk_ptr->iterateDirectory(relative_data_path); it->isValid(); it->next())
            {
                
                if (startsWith(it->name(), "tmp") || it->name() == MergeTreeData::FORMAT_VERSION_FILE_NAME
                    || it->name() == MergeTreeData::DETACHED_DIR_NAME)
                    continue;
                if (!startsWith(it->name(), MergeTreeWriteAheadLog::WAL_FILE_NAME))
                    disk_parts.emplace_back(std::make_pair(it->name(), disk_ptr));
            }
        });
    }
    pool.wait();
    size_t num_parts = 0;
    std::queue<std::vector<std::pair<String, DiskPtr>>> parts_queue;
    for (auto & [_, disk_parts] : disk_part_map)
    {
        if (disk_parts.empty())
            continue;
        num_parts += disk_parts.size();
        parts_queue.push(std::move(disk_parts));
    }
    auto part_lock = lockParts();
    data_parts_indexes.clear();
    DataPartsVector broken_parts_to_detach;
    DataPartsVector duplicate_parts_to_remove;
    if (num_parts > 0)