**Describe the issue**

Improve feedback when trying to replace a partition with a different index

**Which ClickHouse server version to use**

21.9.5


**How to reproduce**

```
DROP DATABASE IF EXISTS test;

CREATE DATABASE test;

CREATE TABLE test.A (id UInt32, company UInt32, total UInt64) ENGINE=SummingMergeTree() PARTITION BY company PRIMARY KEY (id) ORDER BY (id, company);

INSERT INTO test.A SELECT number%10 as id, number%2 as company, count() as total FROM numbers(100) GROUP BY id,company;

CREATE TABLE test.B (id UInt32, company UInt32, total UInt64) ENGINE=SummingMergeTree() PARTITION BY company ORDER BY (id, company);

ALTER TABLE test.B REPLACE PARTITION '0' FROM test.A;

```

**Error message and/or stacktrace**

```
Received exception from server (version 21.9.5):
Code: 33. DB::Exception: Received from localhost:9000. DB::Exception: Cannot read all data. Bytes read: 0. Bytes expected: 4.. (CANNOT_READ_ALL_DATA)
(query: ALTER TABLE test.B REPLACE PARTITION '0' FROM test.A;)
````

**Expected behavior**

```
Code: 33. DB::Exception: Received from localhost:9000. DB::Exception: Cannot replace partition different index (CANNOT_REPLACE_PARTITION)
(query: ALTER TABLE test.B REPLACE PARTITION '0' FROM test.A;)
```

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        if (!part->index_granularity_info.mark_type.adaptive)
            has_non_adaptive_parts.store(true, std::memory_order_relaxed);
        else
            has_adaptive_parts.store(true, std::memory_order_relaxed);
        
        if (part->hasLightweightDelete())
            has_lightweight_in_parts.store(true, std::memory_order_relaxed);
        part->modification_time = part_disk_ptr->getLastModified(fs::path(relative_data_path) / part_name).epochTime();
        
        part->setState(DataPartState::Active);
        std::lock_guard loading_lock(mutex);
        auto [it, inserted] = data_parts_indexes.insert(part);
        
        if (!inserted)
        {
            if ((*it)->checksums.getTotalChecksumHex() == part->checksums.getTotalChecksumHex())
            {
                LOG_ERROR(log, "Remove duplicate part {}", data_part_storage->getFullPath());
                duplicate_parts_to_remove.push_back(part);
            }
            else
                throw Exception("Part " + part->name + " already exists but with different checksums", ErrorCodes::DUPLICATE_DATA_PART);
        }
        addPartContributionToDataVolume(part);
    };
    std::mutex part_select_mutex;
    try
    {
        for (size_t thread = 0; thread < num_threads; ++thread)