**Describe the issue**

Improve feedback when trying to replace a partition with a different index

**Which ClickHouse server version to use**

21.9.5


**How to reproduce**

```
DROP DATABASE IF EXISTS test;

CREATE DATABASE test;

CREATE TABLE test.A (id UInt32, company UInt32, total UInt64) ENGINE=SummingMergeTree() PARTITION BY company PRIMARY KEY (id) ORDER BY (id, company);

INSERT INTO test.A SELECT number%10 as id, number%2 as company, count() as total FROM numbers(100) GROUP BY id,company;

CREATE TABLE test.B (id UInt32, company UInt32, total UInt64) ENGINE=SummingMergeTree() PARTITION BY company ORDER BY (id, company);

ALTER TABLE test.B REPLACE PARTITION '0' FROM test.A;

```

**Error message and/or stacktrace**

```
Received exception from server (version 21.9.5):
Code: 33. DB::Exception: Received from localhost:9000. DB::Exception: Cannot read all data. Bytes read: 0. Bytes expected: 4.. (CANNOT_READ_ALL_DATA)
(query: ALTER TABLE test.B REPLACE PARTITION '0' FROM test.A;)
````

**Expected behavior**

```
Code: 33. DB::Exception: Received from localhost:9000. DB::Exception: Cannot replace partition different index (CANNOT_REPLACE_PARTITION)
(query: ALTER TABLE test.B REPLACE PARTITION '0' FROM test.A;)
```

{
    temporary_parts.add(part_dir_name);
    return [this, part_dir_name]() { temporary_parts.remove(part_dir_name); };
}
MergeTreeData::DataPartsVector MergeTreeData::grabOldParts(bool force)
{
    DataPartsVector res;
    
    std::unique_lock lock(grab_old_parts_mutex, std::defer_lock);
    if (!lock.try_lock())
        return res;
    bool need_remove_parts_in_order = supportsReplication() && getSettings()->allow_remote_fs_zero_copy_replication;
    if (need_remove_parts_in_order)
    {
        bool has_zero_copy_disk = false;
        for (const auto & disk : getDisks())
        {
            if (disk->supportZeroCopyReplication())
            {
                has_zero_copy_disk = true;