**Describe the issue**

Improve feedback when trying to replace a partition with a different index

**Which ClickHouse server version to use**

21.9.5


**How to reproduce**

```
DROP DATABASE IF EXISTS test;

CREATE DATABASE test;

CREATE TABLE test.A (id UInt32, company UInt32, total UInt64) ENGINE=SummingMergeTree() PARTITION BY company PRIMARY KEY (id) ORDER BY (id, company);

INSERT INTO test.A SELECT number%10 as id, number%2 as company, count() as total FROM numbers(100) GROUP BY id,company;

CREATE TABLE test.B (id UInt32, company UInt32, total UInt64) ENGINE=SummingMergeTree() PARTITION BY company ORDER BY (id, company);

ALTER TABLE test.B REPLACE PARTITION '0' FROM test.A;

```

**Error message and/or stacktrace**

```
Received exception from server (version 21.9.5):
Code: 33. DB::Exception: Received from localhost:9000. DB::Exception: Cannot read all data. Bytes read: 0. Bytes expected: 4.. (CANNOT_READ_ALL_DATA)
(query: ALTER TABLE test.B REPLACE PARTITION '0' FROM test.A;)
````

**Expected behavior**

```
Code: 33. DB::Exception: Received from localhost:9000. DB::Exception: Cannot replace partition different index (CANNOT_REPLACE_PARTITION)
(query: ALTER TABLE test.B REPLACE PARTITION '0' FROM test.A;)
```

{
    auto lock = lockParts();
    auto it = data_parts_by_info.find(part_info);
    if (it == data_parts_by_info.end())
        return nullptr;
    for (auto state : valid_states)
        if ((*it)->getState() == state)
            return *it;
    return nullptr;
}
MergeTreeData::DataPartPtr MergeTreeData::getPartIfExists(const String & part_name, const MergeTreeData::DataPartStates & valid_states)
{
    return getPartIfExists(MergeTreePartInfo::fromPartName(part_name, format_version), valid_states);
}
static void loadPartAndFixMetadataImpl(MergeTreeData::MutableDataPartPtr part)
{
    part->loadColumnsChecksumsIndexes(false, true);
    part->modification_time = part->data_part_storage->getLastModified().epochTime();
    part->data_part_storage->removeDeleteOnDestroyMarker();
    part->data_part_storage->removeVersionMetadata();
}
void MergeTreeData::calculateColumnAndSecondaryIndexSizesImpl()