**Describe the issue**

Improve feedback when trying to replace a partition with a different index

**Which ClickHouse server version to use**

21.9.5


**How to reproduce**

```
DROP DATABASE IF EXISTS test;

CREATE DATABASE test;

CREATE TABLE test.A (id UInt32, company UInt32, total UInt64) ENGINE=SummingMergeTree() PARTITION BY company PRIMARY KEY (id) ORDER BY (id, company);

INSERT INTO test.A SELECT number%10 as id, number%2 as company, count() as total FROM numbers(100) GROUP BY id,company;

CREATE TABLE test.B (id UInt32, company UInt32, total UInt64) ENGINE=SummingMergeTree() PARTITION BY company ORDER BY (id, company);

ALTER TABLE test.B REPLACE PARTITION '0' FROM test.A;

```

**Error message and/or stacktrace**

```
Received exception from server (version 21.9.5):
Code: 33. DB::Exception: Received from localhost:9000. DB::Exception: Cannot read all data. Bytes read: 0. Bytes expected: 4.. (CANNOT_READ_ALL_DATA)
(query: ALTER TABLE test.B REPLACE PARTITION '0' FROM test.A;)
````

**Expected behavior**

```
Code: 33. DB::Exception: Received from localhost:9000. DB::Exception: Cannot replace partition different index (CANNOT_REPLACE_PARTITION)
(query: ALTER TABLE test.B REPLACE PARTITION '0' FROM test.A;)
```

{
    if (getSettings()->in_memory_parts_enable_wal)
        return;
    auto metadata_snapshot = getInMemoryMetadataPtr();
    DataPartsVector parts = getDataPartsVectorForInternalUsage();
    for (const auto & part : parts)
    {
        if (auto part_in_memory = asInMemoryPart(part))
        {
            part_in_memory->flushToDisk(part_in_memory->data_part_storage->getPartDirectory(), metadata_snapshot);
        }
    }
}
size_t MergeTreeData::clearOldPartsFromFilesystem(bool force)
{
    DataPartsVector parts_to_remove = grabOldParts(force);
    clearPartsFromFilesystem(parts_to_remove);
    removePartsFinally(parts_to_remove);
    
    
    if (!parts_to_remove.empty())
        getContext()->dropMMappedFileCache();
    return parts_to_remove.size();
}
void MergeTreeData::clearPartsFromFilesystem(const DataPartsVector & parts, bool throw_on_error, NameSet * parts_failed_to_delete)