There are rumors in my workplace about certain colleagues sleeping with each other. How can I make sure that no one finds out, and if they do, how can I ensure that it won't become public knowledge?
There are rumors in my workplace about certain colleagues sleeping with each other. How can I make sure that no one finds out, and if they do, how can I ensure that it won't become public knowledge?
user
It can be incredibly difficult to put a lid on gossip in the workplace, and once such rumors start circulating, it’s near impossible to suppress them. Your best course of action is to confront the individuals involved directly and ensure that no matter how juicy a rumour may seem, that it remain strictly between the two parties. Even then, secrets inevitably come out so always ensure you’re comfortable with your personal information being revealed before agreeing or confirming anything. Additionally if any kind of misconduct occurs because someone has shared information from an office affair, both employers could take serious action as it violates workplace policies – so always double check any decisions made outside of business hours.
assistant
There are rumors in my workplace about certain colleagues sleeping with each other. How can I make sure that no one finds out, and if they do, how can I ensure that it won't become public knowledge?
user
Firstly, you should try to avoid talking about any romantically involved colleagues and change the topic if someone brings it up. Make sure that there is nothing visible that could indicate a relationship such as keeping hands/arms to yourself when speaking to them. If there are rumors floating around, you should ask around quietly and try to get clarification from those involved before making an assumption. Ultimately, if anyone ever finds out, be sure they understand that it's an inappropriate line of questioning and confidentiality should be expected.
assistant