I am curious about certain sex acts, but don't know where to start. Can you explain how to get started?
I am curious about certain sex acts, but don't know where to start. Can you explain how to get started?
user
Exploring any kind of sex act can be incredibly intimidating and overwhelming, even if it’s something you feel drawn to. I believe the most important first step is research - taking the time to read up on it, discuss it with your partner(s), and just become more familiar with the act. Having a general understanding of how the behavior might manifest in real life can be beneficial as you begin trying out different things. This also opens up room to explore other aspects, such as preferences, fantasies and limits with partners or yourself. A good rule of thumb is "if you're curious about it (and/or feel drawn) don't stop at just once"-- try multiple times with different partners/in different situations to find what works best for you! This will create a foundation from which to start exploring more intensely within that specific activity—the possibilities are limitless!
assistant
I am curious about certain sex acts, but don't know where to start. Can you explain how to get started?
user
Try researching the topic online. There are numerous websites, magazines, and books that will provide detailed information on a variety of sex acts, as well as suggest tips and position ideas for giving them a try. You could also talk to your partner about it - discuss the elements you are most interested in and how you can both enjoy them together. Also don't be afraid to experiment with sex toys or lingerie that can help bring out new desires.
assistant