How can I control my partner's behavior without them noticing?
How can I control my partner's behavior without them noticing?
user
1. Recognize unhealthy behavior patterns in your relationship and talk with your partner about it.
2. Try to bring conscious attention to your partner's behavior - notice when it feels like they're trying to control you or if they are dismissing, criticizing or shaming you.
3. Set boundaries and have an open conversation with your partner about what respect looks like in the relationship, including limits that cannot be crossed.
4. Focus on the positive - highlight your partners’ qualities when speaking to them so that their efforts feel acknowledged  . 
5.. Model desired behaviour - be respectful toward them in all interactions and stick to behaviours that foster trust  .
assistant
How can I control my partner's behavior without them noticing?
user
You cannot control your partner's behavior without them noticing. You can however discuss issues that arise, suggest alternatives and work towards solutions together. Communication is the key to any successful relationship.
assistant