   neutral   Well, I can ’ t believe your uncle and aunt came to stay with us for a week, and they did not even call us in advance.     neutral   John, they are old-fashioned people from the Chinese countryside. That ’ s their custom.  
    neutral   I know, but it is hard for me to get used to your relatives coming to visit us, and without warning.     neutral   Don ’ t your relatives visit other relatives?  
    neutral   Yes, but Americans never visit without calling in advance, and they almost never stay overnight.     neutral   
 What about Taiwanese guests? Do you always tell them beforehand if they plan to come live with
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