   neutral   oh. It's actually all rather personal.     neutral   well, skip over all of that and read me the rest.  
    happiness   ok, it just says, ball, blah, blah... " Ray and I look forward to seeing you in June. Write soon. With love, Sue. "     neutral   are we going to see them in June or are they coming to see us?  
    neutral   didn't I tell you? We're going to Shanghai to stay with them in June.     neutral   
 how did I miss this? 
 how do i know? You haven't told me!  0 surprise. Oh dear