   neutral   I don't know yet.     neutral   I just know I want to get out of the mindless gift trap.  
    neutral   I know what you mean.     neutral   I want to give a gift that is really meaningful.  
    neutral   Or do something that shows we have spent time thinking about them.     neutral   
 You are talking about our parents--that they will be very happy with any gift, right? 
 That would be great.    happiness Maybe then they won't remember it so much...