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May 23, 2021 December 19, 2021 ~ Greg Dennison	~ 11 Comments
In 1996, the Internet was coming into the mainstream. Average citizens were communicating by email, discussing topics on a Usenet forum, chatting on Internet Relay Chat, and using the Netscape browser to surf the World Wide Web, a platform for informational documents that could be linked to each other. Advertisements were beginning to include the websites of the companies involved, where anyone in the world with an Internet connection could look up information about the product in question.
The truly computer savvy individual in 1996 had a personal website. The academics, scientists, and government officials for whom the Internet was created used personal websites to share about their careers, their research, and contact information, which was useful for their colleagues and students to have. A few people I had met on the Internet had personal websites, and mostly they consisted of a picture or two and a little bit about the author, with links to other relevant websites. Some of my friends had personal websites too. Eddie Baker had a link to his personal website on his email signature. Eddie's website had a picture of himself, another picture with his seven roommates, some of his favorite Bible verses, and a link to the University of Jeromeville page.
I wanted so badly to make a personal website, although I had no practical need for one. Unfortunately, this feature was not possible with a UJ student account. This guy named Carl who I met on IRC had access to some kind of personal server, where he gave me an account for free so I could fiddle with making a website. I taught myself basic HTML, the code used for making websites. I found a computer lab on campus with a scanner and scanned a copy of my senior picture from Plumdale High, so I could put that picture on my website. I don't know why I did, though; I always hated that picture. I wrote a little bit about myself, with links to the pages for the University of Jeromeville and a Bay City Captains football fan page I found. Back in those days, jokes and chain letters circulated by email, the forerunners of the memes and viral posts of the 21st century, and I copied and pasted some of my favorites on my page.
Eddie's page was hosted by a UJ Computer Science Department account; he was an International Relations major, but had taken a couple of computer classes. When I took Introduction to Programming in the spring, I got a Computer Science account, so I did not need Carl to host my site anymore. At some point after I finished my current Introduction to Software class, I would have to move my site again, since I would not be taking a Computer Science class in the fall. Eddie's site would probably get deleted eventually as well. I needed to find out if I could get a Mathematics department account and host a personal website on that.
One Thursday night, after I got home from Bible study, I was bored. I was caught up with homework for my class, and I had finished reading everything I was reading for fun. I sat down in front of the computer and dialed into the university's computer network. I got on my usual IRC chat channel and looked for someone to talk to. A girl named Laura, whom I had been talking to for a few months, was on, so I messaged her. Laura was 17 years old and lived in upstate New York.
gjd76: hi :)
lauragirl17: hi greg! how are you?
gjd76: really bored. i'm caught up with all my work. how are you? i haven't talked to you in a while. how were things with adam?
lauragirl17: i know, i wasn't on as much when adam was here. we had a good visit. it was a little weird at the end though
gjd76: why?
lauragirl17: just some stuff happened and i think we're just going to be friends
gjd76: aww. i hope everything is ok. i wish i could meet girls i knew on the internet
lauragirl17: have you ever met someone from the internet in real life?
gjd76: just once. it was another girl from jeromeville, turned out she lived right down the street. we just hung out and talked for a while, i could tell she wasn't really my type
lauragirl17: aww. she's missing out :) maybe i'll be able to come to jeromeville someday
gjd76: that'd be fun :) well, you could come right now, i gave you my address
lauragirl17: yeah you did! i leave on tuesday, i'm so nervous but so excited too, i'll write to you as soon as i get settled. it's kind of weird to think that i'll be in switzerland this time next week
gjd76: i'm excited for you :) this will be a great experience… one of my best friends in high school, she was an exchange student in austria, and she loved it
lauragirl17: i know, it's just going to be a big adjustment
gjd76: of course
lauragirl17: well it's really late here, i should get to bed… but it was good talking to you
gjd76: you too! good night, sleep well :)
I hoped Laura would actually write to me from Switzerland. One of my friends from school, Kelly, was going to be studying in Hungary next year, so between Kelly and Laura, I could possibly be writing and receiving letters from Europe often next year.
Someone else from the chat posted a link to his personal website; I opened it in another window in between messages from Laura. In addition to pictures of himself and links to his university, he also had a story about this party he had attended last month, with pictures from the story and paragraphs telling what happened. I wished I owned my own scanner, so that I could share pictures on the Internet too.
That guy from IRC with the story about his party gave me an idea for something to add to my website. A few years ago, Nintendo released a game called Mario Paint. It was not a game at all, it was more like rudimentary but functional drawing and animation software. It came with a mouse, which was easier to use for drawing than the standard Super Nintendo control pad. Three years ago, I used Mario Paint, two VCRs, and a microphone to make a short film about two strange teenage boys with a weird neighbor. The film was influenced by the buddy comedies of the time period, like Wayne's World and Beavis and Butthead. I called my creation "Dog Crap and Vince." I made a few other Dog Crap and Vince short films over the next couple years, and the most recent one I made after I bought this computer, so the screenplay was still saved on this hard drive.
I opened my screenplay and read it. Dog Crap's cousin came to visit, and while throwing a football around in the yard, Vince threw it too hard, and it got run over by a truck. The boys found a football at a garage sale to replace the one they lost, but it was so old and hard and brittle that it cracked open when it landed on the ground. That was inspired by an inside joke; once, a strange neighbor back home gave my brother and me an old football that had belonged to her son when he was young, and it hit the ground and cracked open just like that.
I opened Microsoft Paint, the drawing software that came with Windows 3.1, and drew the opening scene, where Dog Crap opens the door and lets his cousin in. I then drew the next scene, where the two of them watch television with Vince. Both Dog Crap and Vince always had strange multicolored hair, and I never explained their odd appearance in any of the short films. I also never explained why Dog Crap's name is Dog Crap, and in their fictional universe, no one questions this.
I continued illustrating scenes from this Dog Crap and Vince story until around one in the morning. The following day, after I finished a morning bike ride, I continued working on Dog Crap and Vince, illustrating the rest of the scenes from the story.
Next, I began typing the HTML code. I typed the lines of dialogue and description for the story, in prose instead of the screenplay format I had written for the Mario Paint film. It did not feel like an actual story, since the illustrations left most of the descriptions unnecessary; the remaining text was very heavy on dialogue. But this was a new format for me, and I did not really have a template or precedent on which to base my work. This story really was designed for animation, but in the absence of that kind of technology, this would have to do.
When I finished writing and debugging the HTML, I uploaded it, and all of my drawings, to the website. I also updated the home page, trying to think of what to call my creation… was it a story, or a comic, or a script, or what? I ended up calling it a story. "Read my story: 'Dog Crap and Vince, episode 1: 'Football,'" I typed. I made that line a hyperlink, so that someone could click on it to go to the story. I read through my entire Dog Crap and Vince story again. I was proud of my work. Now I just needed someone to share it with.
Many of my friends who lived in this part of Jeromeville left for the summer, but some of them were still around. Ramon and Jason were still in their apartment on Hampton Drive, and Caroline still lived upstairs from them. Liz, Ramon's girlfriend and Caroline's roommate, had gone home for the summer. By Saturday afternoon, the day after I finished Dog Crap and Vince, I was in a mood to socialize, so I walked over to Hampton Drive, about a quarter mile away. Caroline saw me first; she was standing on the balcony, attaching some kind of wire mesh to the balustrade and railing. "Hey, Greg!" she said.
"I'm going to let Henry come out here. I'm putting this up so he doesn't accidentally fall."
"That'll be fun. The cats we had growing up were always outdoor cats. It's weird to me to think that Henry never goes outside."
"When we got Henry, we knew he had to be an indoor cat," Caroline explained. "The apartment wouldn't allow it otherwise."
"Makes sense."
I heard the door on the downstairs apartment open. "Hey, Greg," Ramon said. "I thought I heard your voice."
"I just wanted to come say hi."
"Stick around. Liz is on her way up; she should be here soon. She'll want to see you."
"Oh. Cool."
I went inside to watch TV with Ramon and Jason. Ten minutes later, Caroline came down to tell us that the cat-proofing of the balcony was finished. All of us went to the living room of the upstairs apartment and watched as Caroline opened the door to the balcony, picked up Henry and put him outside. Henry looked around skittishly, then cautiously walked around, sniffing things. Caroline tossed him his toy, a plastic ball with a small bell inside; Henry sniffed the ball and swatted it away, then chased his little furry black and white spotted body after it.
"It's like he doesn't quite know what to think of the outside," Caroline said.
Just then, we heard Liz's voice saying "Hey, guys!" She walked into the apartment and put her bag down. When she saw me, she looked surprised for a second, then smiled. "Greg! It's good to see you!"
"I'm good." Liz turned to see what everyone was looking at on the balcony. "Henry's outside!" she said.
"Yeah," Caroline replied. "I just wanted to try it."
"It looks like he likes it."
Liz moved her bag into the bedroom. After she came back out to the living room, Ramon said, "Jason and I have been wanting to try that new Arch Deluxe burger at McDonald's. Greg? You can come with us if you want."
"Sure," I said. "I haven't eaten yet. And I haven't tried that either."
"It's supposed to have more of an adult taste," Jason explained.
"What does that mean? How do hamburgers have adult tastes?" Liz asked.
"I don't know," Jason said. "It's being marketed as more sophisticated."
Across the street from their apartment complex was the back of a shopping center facing Coventry Boulevard. After making sure Henry was securely inside again, the five of us walked there. The McDonald's was in the middle of the strip mall part of the shopping center and had no drive-thru. We each took turns ordering; I got an Arch Deluxe, eagerly anticipating what this adult cheeseburger would taste like.
"What have you been up to, Greg?" Liz asked as we waited for our order numbers to be called. "You're taking a class, right?"
"Yeah. Computer Science 40, Intro to Software. It's going well."
"Today I made something new for my website. Just for fun, not part of the class."
"Oh yeah? What is it?"
I told them about Dog Crap and Vince, how I had created the characters with Mario Paint a few years ago, and about the illustrated story I had written. "I'll show you guys when we get back to the apartment, if you want."
"Sure," Ramon said.
Jason's meal had arrived by then; he bit into the Arch Deluxe. "This is pretty good," he said. "It's different, I'm not sure exactly what is adult about it, but it's good."
"What does Dog Crap and Vince mean?" Caroline asked. "What does dog crap have to do with the story? Does Vince always step in dog crap?"
"Dog Crap is his friend's name. So the title refers to the two main characters, Dog Crap and Vince."
"Why is his name Dog Crap?"
"I've never explained that. It just is."
"Okay," Caroline said, as if not sure what to make of this.
The cashier called my number, and I went up to the counter to get my food. I sat down and opened the cardboard Arch Deluxe container. The burger had a different kind of bun, looking more like a sandwich roll, but round. I opened it and removed the tomato slice. "You don't like tomatoes?" Liz asked.
"May I have it?"
I passed my tomato to Liz and took a bite of what remained of the burger. I liked it. Definitely different from most other McDonald's products; it tasted like it was made from higher quality ingredients. "This is good," I said. Growing up, I was a connoisseur of Chicken McNuggets; I did not usually eat hamburgers at McDonald's, but I was willing to reconsider this position because of the Arch Deluxe.
We sat together at McDonald's catching up for a while. Liz told us all about her summer with her family, and those of us who were taking classes shared how our studies were going so far. At one point, during a lull in the conversation, Ramon said, "Has anyone ever noticed that this song is the same four chords over and over again?"
"Huh?" Caroline asked.
"This song," Ramon repeated. Blues Traveler's "Run-Around" was playing in the background of the restaurant. "It's the same four chords over again."
I listened carefully to the guitar and bass playing behind the energetic harmonica solo. "You're right," I said, pretending to sound like I knew what I was talking about. I had three years of piano lessons in my past, and I had been singing in the choir at church for almost a year, but Ramon was a much more accomplished musician than I was. "I always thought it was catchy, though."
"Oh, yeah, it's catchy," Jason agreed.
We walked back to the apartment after we finished eating. "Greg?" Ramon asked. "Did you still want to show us that Dog Crap thing?"
Ramon turned on his computer as Jason found something to watch on TV. He opened Netscape and asked, "What's the address?" I typed the address for my website, then clicked on the link for Dog Crap and Vince. Ramon began reading silently as Liz and Caroline and I watched the screen. I felt slightly awkward. Was I supposed to read it out loud to them? How would Ramon know when everyone was done reading? At the end of the first page, Ramon asked if everyone was done reading before he continued to the next page. That would work. The others laughed a few times, such as when Dog Crap and Vince saw the Unabomber at the garage sale.
"That's pretty funny," Ramon said when he finished.
"You did a good job with the website," Liz added. "Are you going to do more Dog Crap stories?"
"Eventually, yes."
"I'll keep watching for those."
The four of us hung out watching television and just talking for another couple of hours. I walked home after that and got out a sheet of paper. Future Dog Crap and Vince Ideas, I wrote at the top, then I added, Dog Crap is playing guitar, but he only knows four chords, and Vince says he can still play that Blues Traveler song. I used a variation of that line in another episode later that year, and I made it a habit to write down anything funny that I thought of or saw that could be used in future episodes.
Today was a good day. I would be eating many more Arch Deluxes in the future; this would become my new go-to order at McDonald's. However, sadly, the product was considered a massive failure. The Arch Deluxe never caught on as a popular item once the initial hype faded, and a few years later, it disappeared from McDonald's menus.
Dog Crap and Vince, however, did not disappear from my life. I continued making new episodes of the series for eleven years, with more animated short films after that. I also did numerous other side projects involving Dog Crap and Vince. Many of my friends have been involved in a Dog Crap and Vince project at some point. These two characters spawned a fictional universe that became a major part of my life for a long time. The world of Dog Crap and Vince even seemed to take on a life of its own at times. The cast of main characters grew from two to at least six, with many other recurring characters in their world, and at times, their stories seemed to take on lives of their own. I never would have believed, on that day three years ago when I drew those two silly-looking boys on Mario Paint, that this would become such a major part of my life.
Author's note: Dog Crap and Vince is not real. It is based on an actual project called "Cow Chip & Lance." I've known the guys behind those characters for many years, and I've done some work behind the scenes for them. They were thinking about reposting their web series from the 90s, and I'm writing about the 90s, so we decided to join forces on that project. Go check them out.
April 11, 2021 April 18, 2021 ~ Greg Dennison	~ 4 Comments
If you're new here, this is not a typical post, but this is the perfect post for you. Don't Let The Days Go By is an episodic continuing story about a university student figuring out life. I am currently on hiatus after finishing writing about Year 2. Sometime later this spring I will start writing and posting about Year 3.
This week I will be recapping and summarizing Year 2. Last week, I did the same for Year 1. Many of my current readers have not been with the story since the beginning, so this is an opportunity to catch up. I will also include links to some, but not all, of the episodes, so you can read an abridged version of the story more detailed than this recap. As always, you can start from the first episode (here) and keep clicking Next if you want to read the entire story, 88 episodes so far. If this is your first time here, and you do not want to read all 88 episodes, you may want to read the recap of Year 1 first.
I went home to Plumdale for the summer and worked in a small bookstore. I got the job through the connection that one of the two other employees was a family friend. Mom volunteered me for the job without asking me, and while I hate when she does that, this time I did not mind because I needed something to do, and getting paid would be nice. I thought at first that working in a bookstore would be fun, but the store was very slow, and not exactly my clientele.
June 22, 1995. The first day on the job.
I had lost touch with most of my high school friends, although I saw a few of them. I watched a roller hockey game with Rachel, and I saw Catherine and Renee and some of Catherine's friends from Austria in a choir and orchestra performance that she put together. I kept in touch with a number of Jeromeville friends, mostly through writing letters, although a few of them had access to email during the summer. My cousins Rick and Miranda came to visit for a week, and I went with them, my mother, and my brother Mark to Jeromeville for a day, to show everyone around. I got to see Taylor and another guy from my freshman dorm on that day.
July 18, 1995. The day we went to Jeromeville with Rick and Miranda.
I turned 19 in August. The lease for my apartment began September 1, and I moved back to Jeromeville the first weekend of September. Classes did not start until the end of September, but I preferred being bored in Jeromeville to being bored in Plumdale. I spent that September going on lots of bike rides and talking to lots of girls on Internet Relay Chat. As the school year approached, I was encouraged as I started seeing familiar faces around campus and town. Megan, the resident advisor from a nearby building whom I had gotten to know (and like) the previous year, was now an RA in a building in the North Area, and she invited me to have lunch with her at the dining commons.
September 26, 1995. My lunch date with Megan.
I had plenty of new experiences that fall. I got a job tutoring calculus for the tutoring center on campus. Also, Danielle, my friend from last year who also went to Mass at the Newman Center, finally talked me into singing in the choir at church. Another student in the choir, Heather, lived near me, so we usually carpooled to choir practice and to Mass.
October 11, 1995. A busy day.
Liz, another friend from last year, had invited me a few times to Jeromeville Christian Fellowship. I was hesitant , since I was Catholic and I knew that other Christians did things differently and sometimes looked down on Catholics. I was not sure that JCF would be the first place for me. But I finally decided to take her up on her invitation that fall; since I was living alone, I knew that I needed to do all I could to stay close with my friends. I quickly decided that JCF was a wonderful place for me. In addition to already having several friends who attended there, I started making new friends, and in addition to learning more about the Bible, I also started socializing with JCF people.
November 17, 1995. What's a but stop?
I started a new creative project that fall: a novel, about an 18-year-old who is not ready for high school to be over. He goes away to live with relatives and pretends to be younger so he can go through high school again and get a second chance at having a social life. I got the idea because I felt that way sometimes. As the winter went on, my classes continued, I worked on the novel, and the holidays came. I spent Thanksgiving with my family visiting the relatives in Bidwell. I spent Christmas back home in Plumdale with my family, where Mom volunteered me for something yet again without asking me. We made a last minute trip to Disneyland for the New Year, and on that trip we decided on a whim to drive by the house of an infamous celebrity.
December 30, 1995 – January 1, 1996. A family vacation that did not involve boring relatives.
I had still never had a girlfriend, and things never seemed to work out for me. It seemed like every girl I met always seemed to have a boyfriend. I was disappointed when Megan, the older girl who was an RA, mentioned at one point that she was dating someone. I found out something later that made me realize that Megan and I never would have worked out anyway.
January 19-20, 1996. A dangerous glance.
While many positive things had happened so far that year, I still got discouraged and had bad days sometimes. One of those bad days happened on a Friday, the night that JCF met. As everyone trickled out of the room, I sat alone by myself. Two guys, Eddie and Xander, came over to talk to me and invited me to hang out with them afterward, along with Haley, Kristina, and Kelly, three girls who lived down the street from them. I made new friends that night, some of whom I am still friends with today.
January 26, 1996. Pieces falling into place.
The winter quarter was not easy academically. My classes all had their midterms on the same day. Then, a few days later, some jerk decided to steal my clothes out of the laundry. Just when despair was starting to get to me, I saw one of the JCF staff on campus; she told me exactly what it means to follow Jesus, how he died for our sins to bring us eternal life with God. I made a decision that day to follow Jesus.
February 15-16, 1996. And hope does not disappoint us.
With this new outlook on life, I started attending Bible study. I was learning more about my faith, really paying attention to God's Word for the first time. My friend Melissa from high school told me in an email that she went bowling and got a score of 178, her best ever. This was exactly the same as my best bowling score ever, from the fall when I took bowling class. Melissa and I agreed to meet over spring break to see who was truly the better bowler, and that one game was legendary.
March 28, 1996. At the bowling alley and coffee shop during spring break.
In April, the University of Jeromeville got a new ID card system. We all had to take new pictures, and mine was the worst ID card picture I have ever taken in my life. The following week, I got invited along on a road trip to Bay City with a mix of old friends, including Sarah and Caroline, and new friends, including Eddie, Xander, and Haley. We ate at the Hard Rock Cafe, walked uphill to an amazing view, and then drove down the coast to Moonlight Cove and slept illegally on the beach.
April 12-13, 1996. The road trip to Bay City and Moonlight Cove.
Finding a place to live in Jeromeville is a very stressful endeavor. I heard Pete and Charlie say that they needed a third roommate for next year, but Mike Knepper came along and took that spot just as I about ready to commit. I asked for prayer about it at Bible study a couple weeks later. Shawn, the senior who co-led the study, almost immediately mentioned that he and his current roommate Brian were staying in Jeromeville another year with no place to live yet. God answered the first part of my prayer pretty quickly, giving me roommates for next year. I had trouble finding a house to rent, since we waited so long, but I found a nice apartment on the northern edge of Jeromeville, about two miles from the campus core.
May 1996. Looking for a place to live.
I went to the Spring Picnic again, and I saw the band Lawsuit play. I also worked the Math Club table for a while, which took away from my time to wander around and have fun, so I learned that day never to volunteer during the Spring Picnic. I saw the Olympic torch pass through Jeromeville on its way to Atlanta. I saw Sarah and a few other students from JCF get baptized. And Haley had become my newest love interest, so of course I had plenty of awkward moments in front of her, as well as in front of other girls.
May 11-16, 1996. A montage of awkward moments.
I was still doing very well in classes. Being a math major, I was now taking two math classes every quarter, and started taking upper division math classes in the middle of that year. Dr. Gabby Thomas was my favorite math professor so far; she spoke clear English and felt like a normal human being more than many of my other professors. As the year ended, I participated in the Man of Steel competition, a decade-old tradition among the men of JCF involving disc golf, a hamburger eating contest, and a game of poker. I did not do too well. Fortunately, my finals went better than the Man of Steel competition, and I ended the year on a positive note, at a huge graduation party hosted by my new friends who were graduating, Brian and Shawn.
June 15, 1996. The graduation party at the Valdez Street house.
Here is the playlist of songs I used in year 2. As always, please leave comments or suggestions or questions for me. I love hearing from all of you. I'm not sure what, if anything, I'll be doing next week; I will continue the story into Year 3 soon, but in real life, things are going to be a little crazy over the next month or two, so I might need some more time off.
March 28, 2021 ~ Greg Dennison	~ 9 Comments
Hi, friends. I'm still on hiatus. I probably will be for a while, until I get some things figured out in real life. I promise I'll have new episodes by the beginning of May at the latest, possibly sooner. Last night I worked on outlining what would happen in the start of season 3, so that's progress.
If you're new here, this is not a typical post. Don't Let The Days Go By is an episodic continuing story set in 1996 about a university student figuring out life. Finish reading this post first, then please read some others. There are currently 88 episodes, listed either to the right or at the bottom depending on your device, so even if you've been following me for a while, most of you will have some that you haven't read. So you can read those over the next few weeks while you're waiting for me to write new ones. The episodes are best read in order, but can be read out of order, so if you're new and ready to commit to be a fan of this site, you're best off starting from the beginning, so you can experience the story as it unfolds. But, still, read this post first.
So I've been thinking about a few DLTDGB side projects, and I'd like your opinions on whether or not you'd be interested in these:
(1) A recap. I could do one post where I outline the entire plot of DLTDGB from the beginning of the prologue on July 5, 1993 until the most recent episode on June 15, 1996. I would summarize the highlights of Greg's life so far, in a post no longer than one typical episode. I could also include links to a few episodes about the key turning points in Greg's life, for those people who want to go more in depth without reading 88 full episodes.
(2) Avatars/Bitmoji/some kind of artwork depicting the characters visually. I can't draw well, just to let you know. I made a bunch of fake email accounts and started using them to sign up for multiple Bitmoji accounts, with the purpose being to create Bitmoji for the main characters and show my readers what these characters look like. I did that for Eddie and Kristina and put the Bitmoji faces on top of the real faces in the photo I used for the most recent episode. I was having a hard time getting the Bitmoji to look exactly like the real people, but I know that I don't have to make them look exactly like the people they were based on. In fact, it might be better to have them not exactly the same, for anonymity purposes. Most of the people that these characters are based on do not know that I am writing about them.
However, another glitch is that Gmail does not like that I made a bunch of fake email accounts, for obvious reasons. It makes me verify by text that I am a real person, and now it won't even let me do that because I've used the same phone number too many times. I could start making fake emails with Yahoo or other free email services, I suppose. But there are so many characters that I could not possibly do this for every character, at least not with Bitmoji. I was planning on doing this for Taylor, Pete, Sarah, Liz, Ramon, Caroline, Eddie, Xander, Haley, Kristina, Brian, and Shawn, at least for now, adding others as needed if I needed to cover their faces in photos. I would not do every character, since the cast of characters for DLTDGB is just far too large. But those twelve are definitely among the most significant supporting characters at the current point of the story.
What do you guys think… is this something you would want to see? Also, if anyone knows a way to make characters similar to Bitmoji without having to have an account for each one, that would be helpful.
(3) Maps. Fantasy books with detailed geographical settings, Tolkien for example, often have maps to help the reader. Since I tend to describe Jeromeville and the surrounding Capital Valley Region in detail, I thought maybe I could do the same thing. The problem is, every time I've tried to draw these maps, they end up looking just like a slightly distorted version of the real-world places that inspired these stories, and while DLTDGB is based on true stories, I also want to make it my own fictional world, and I have not yet figured out how to make the maps not look like real places but still be true to the story so far. Any thoughts? Do any of you want to see maps of my semi-fictional world?
Finally, in addition to sharing any thoughts on anything above, please ask me anything you want in the comments. Questions about things happening in the story, questions about me as an adult, about the writing process… whatever you want. I'll answer it, unless it would involve major spoilers.
Have a great week, everyone! Like I said, if you're new here and you want to start from the beginning, go here, then click Next at the end of each episode. https://dontletthedaysgoby.home.blog/2018/12/09/july-5-1993-prologue-my-first-visit-to-jeromeville/
March 21, 2021 March 21, 2021 ~ Greg Dennison	~ 17 Comments
Welcome! If you are new here, this is not a typical post. Don't Let The Days Go By is an episodic continuing story about a university student, set in 1996. It is a story of living, learning, growing, and self-discovery, amidst a world of alternative rock and the emergence of the Internet into the mainstream.
Last week's episode was the Year 2 season finale. I will be taking some time off, during which I will be planning for year 3. Also, in real life things may be kind of busy and unpredictable for the next few months, so I could use one fewer commitment. I do not know right now when I will start writing again, but I will someday soon. If you are new here and hoping for more episodes soon, you can always go here to read the first episode and then just read in order from there by clicking Next.
Just as with Year 1, I made a playlist with all of the music I used in Year 2:
I also added a new "Music" page to this site, with links to the playlists for each year. And I updated the Dramatis Personae, adding character bios for Abby Bartlett, Amelia Dye, Josh McGraw, and Dr. Gabby Thomas. I also added a number of new characters to the lists of other characters, and updated some other characters' bios. I will be starting a new Dramatis Personae for Year 3 soon, removing people who are not part of the story anymore. I wonder sometimes if the large cast of characters makes the story more difficult to read or follow, or if I need more character development for the other main characters. However, in real life a university student is likely to know a lot of people, and this is primarily one person's story, not a story with an ensemble cast. On a related note, I have considered, someday when I am done telling the main story, going back and retelling some of the more interesting episodes from another character's point of view. Or maybe I could start doing that during these interludes, when I am taking a break from the main story.
I take a break like this after every June and December in the fictional timeline. One of the recurring topics has been the community shared by some of the Jeromeville Christian Fellowship students. Eddie and his housemates had Haley and her housemates right down the street, and Shawn and Brian and their housemates around the corner, to the point that it was almost like living in a Christian dorm. In real life, I have come to learn that that kind of community among Christians is very difficult to find in adulthood, outside of the context of being a university student. I have had a lot of struggles finding a church and a community as an adult, and in talking with people I have come to the conclusion that most Christians just do not have this as adults. Instead, they have families of their own around which their lives revolve, and outside of that, church friends are just one among several compartments into which life has been divided. Will I ever find that sense of community again in real life? I do not know (and COVID has thrown more complications into this, of course).
I have often found that I need to keep reminding myself that, first and foremost, DLTDGB is a work of fiction. Much of it is based on true stories, but I stress too much about getting every detail right. Maybe two people who are in the same Bible study in DLTDGB weren't in real life; that's okay.
Thank you all for your support. Please leave comments. I wish people would comment more often on this blog; I enjoy interacting with my readers. If you have any questions at all for me, about anything, please ask. If I get a lot of interesting questions, maybe I'll share them as a question-and-answer post next week. Or offer suggestions and thoughts on my writing. Some of you a while back told me that my posts were too long, and ever since then I have kept them under a certain length. Or just say hi and introduce yourself and tell me how you are doing. I want to hear from you.
Finally, I will leave you with this picture from the oak grove in the University of Jeromeville Arboretum, with different kinds of oaks from all over the world. I took it in February 2021, the last time I was in Jeromeville.
October 25, 2020 December 19, 2021 ~ Greg Dennison	~ 21 Comments
A few months ago, during October of my sophomore year at the University of Jeromeville, I had gotten involved with Jeromeville Christian Fellowship, a chapter of an international nondenominational organization called Intervarsity. JCF had weekly meetings on Fridays with worship music with someone giving a talk about the Bible, and attending these was the extent of my involvement so far. I knew that there were also small group Bible studies and a few retreats every year, but I had not gotten involved in those yet.
As a relative newcomer to the group, I was still learning the etiquette. Some people stood up during worship, some waved their hands, some sat quietly. I was having trouble doing any of those right now because I had to pee, and I was not sure if getting up to use the bathroom during the music was frowned upon. I walked quickly to the bathroom as soon as the last song and closing prayer ended, and when I got back to my seat, Liz and Ramon, Jason, Sarah, Caroline, and Krista were standing where I had been sitting. I stood quietly next to Sarah. All six of these people had been in my dorm freshman year, and they were how I first knew about JCF.
"Hey, Greg," Sarah said. "What are you doing tonight?"
"I don't know," I replied.
"We're going to 199 Stone to see Dangerous Minds. You want to come?"
"Sure," I said. "When does it start?"
"10. We don't need to leave quite yet, but we should probably leave soon, to get there early."
"Yeah," I said. "Good idea."
A little while later, the seven of us left Evans Hall and walked to Stone Hall. Evans and Stone were right next to each other on Davis Drive, so we did not have far to walk. A division of the Associated Students organization called Campus Cinema used the large 400-seat lecture hall in Stone as a second-run theater on weekends, showing movies that had played in theaters a few months earlier but were not released on video yet. Tickets were three dollars, less than even matinee prices at actual theaters.
Two lines extended from the front of the building, a relatively short line of people waiting to buy tickets, and a longer line of about 50 people who already bought tickets and were now waiting for the earlier show to get out. The seven of us paid for our tickets and moved to the back of the longer line. "This is based on a true story, right?" Krista asked.
"Yeah," Sarah replied.
I did not know a whole lot about this movie, except that it was about an inner-city teacher, and that the song "Gangsta's Paradise" came from this movie. I only knew that song because of Mark, my younger brother who loved gangsta rap. I did not realize that the movie was based on a true story.
About five minutes after we arrived, more people trickled in and moved to the back of the line where we stood. At one point, I spotted a familiar face walking toward me, and my mind flooded with thoughts. What do I say? I have not seen her in a while, and our last conversation was kind of awkward on my end. Maybe I should–
"Megan!" I called out, waving, interrupting the voices in my head.
Megan looked around for the source of the person greeting her. She saw me and smiled. "Greg! How are you?"
"I'm doing ok. Classes are going well. How are you?"
"I'm great!"
"How's your building?"
"It's good. It's a pretty calm group of people so far. There hasn't been a lot of drama. I have to go, I need to find the people I'm meeting here, but hey, it was good seeing you!"
"You too!" I said, smiling. Had I been asked yesterday, I would have said that I was making progress in getting over Megan. When she mentioned two months ago that she was dating someone, I was devastated, but I did not think of her as often since I did not see her as often anymore. Last year, she was an RA in a dorm in the same campus residential area as mine, and I saw her frequently around the dining commons. This year, she was an RA in a different residential area, and I lived off campus.
As I stood there in line, I found that I could not help but wonder if Megan and this guy were still together. Maybe that was who she was meeting. To my knowledge, Megan had no idea how I felt about her, since I never knew how to tell girls that I liked them. In the time since I found out that Megan had a boyfriend, I had also found out that another girl I liked had a boyfriend; this was a common theme in my life.
I saw a crowd of people leave the building as the early show ended, and a few minutes later, our line started moving. We climbed up to the building's front entrance, walked across the lobby, and then down the aisle of the lecture hall. "Is this okay?" Liz asked as she gestured toward a mostly empty row in the center section toward the back.
"Sure," I said, nodding. The others assented as well, and we sat down in seven consecutive seats. I watched as advertisements for other Associated Students services flashed on the screen, mixed with a few silly announcements. "Want to learn to be a projectionist? So do we," one of them said. I laughed.
I looked around me at people filling in the seats. I saw Megan and her friends walk past us; they sat three rows in front of us. I looked back up at the screen, watching the advertisements, occasionally looking around but unable to stop myself from glancing at the back of Megan's head. She was talking to one of the people she came with, an Asian girl with shoulder-length hair; they were laughing about something. Megan put her arm around the girl and leaned forward, and they kissed on the lips. Megan pulled back, smiling, then leaned toward the girl and kissed her again, leaving her arm around the girl after their lips separated.
Wait, I thought. What just happened?
Megan never told me that she had a boyfriend. Her exact words were "the person I'm dating," and apparently the person she was dating was a girl.
The movie started, and I tried to pay attention to what was happening on the screen. Although it was dark in the building once the movie started, I could still see the outline of Megan and her girlfriend cuddling. I tried to look away. Looking at her felt wrong. Not only was she in a relationship, but it was a same-sex relationship, and that she was not even into guys in the first place. I forced myself to watch the movie, at times even putting my hands over my face to cover just enough of my field of vision so as not to be able to see Megan and her girlfriend.
I became more absorbed in the movie as it went on, watching Michelle Pfeiffer's character, Ms. Johnson, struggling to connect with the city kids in her class and relate to their experiences. In one scene, the mother of one of the students called Ms. Johnson a vulgar name and told her that she should not teach these students to be academically successful. I could not understand how someone could possibly have such low expectations for her own child. I would have just as hard of a time as Ms. Johnson understanding the world that these students lived in, and she was much more patient with the students than I would have been.
At the end of the movie, Ms. Johnson's character was unable to save one of the students from the dangers of street life. She seemed to feel that all her efforts were futile. Futility felt familiar tonight. All of my efforts to get closer to Megan, the late night conversations, sitting with her and her friends in the dining hall, exchanging birthday cards, the time we had lunch and hung out in her room, none of that mattered. I did the best I could, but I was doomed from the start just because I was a guy.
When the movie ended, people began standing and filing out of the theater. I realized that I could turn toward my friends so that Megan would be behind me, and I would not have to see her as she left the building with her girlfriend. But I also did not want to be conspicuous or rude about this. I stood facing forward as I normally would, waiting for the people around me to leave,and as Megan and her girlfriend walked up the aisle past me, I made eye contact with Megan and waved.
"Good night, Greg," Megan said. "Have a good weekend!"
"You too," I said, trying my best to act the way I always did, hiding the disappointment in my voice. I turned to my left, to the people I came with.
"What did you think of the movie?" Sarah asked.
"I liked it," I said. "Sad, but that's life sometimes. Sometimes, no matter what you do, things don't work out."
"Isn't that the truth," Krista added. "But I thought it was cool how much effort she made to relate to the students."
"It wasn't bad, but there are already a lot of movies like this," Jason observed. "Kids from rough neighborhoods and teachers trying to relate to them."
"Yeah," Krista agreed.
"You ready to go?" Liz asked me. I realized that I was standing closest to the aisle, so I would have to leave first in order for the others to get out. The crowd of people filing out had begun to thin, so I nodded walked toward the aisle. We stood outside in the cool night for a few minutes, talking about weekend plans and classes. Eventually, we all said our goodbyes, and I walked back to my car and returned to my apartment.
The next day was Saturday, and I did not have to wake up early for class. I lay in bed for over an hour after waking up, processing the events of the previous night. Megan McCauley was a lesbian. I saw her kissing a woman. Sometimes, in the back of my mind, I was still holding out hope in my mind that things would not work out with the person Megan was dating, and that I might have a chance with her. Last night had put an end to that hope. All it took was one look, last night while I waited for the movie to start, for what hope I had left to be put to death quickly. I supposed, though, that finding out the way I did had its advantages. Had I actually been brave enough to ask her out, she would have had to tell me that she did not like guys, and that interaction would have been awkward and embarrassing.
I put on a sweatshirt and went for a bike ride, trying to clear my head. I rode south on Andrews Road toward campus, intending to ride the entire length of the University Arboretum east to west. But as I approached, I realized that my route would take me right past Carter Hall, Megan's dorm, and the North Area Dining Commons where we had met for lunch in September. I turned left on Fifth Street and entered campus on Colt Avenue instead. I did not want to ride past Megan's building and think about her and her girlfriend in bed together. But it was too late; the thoughts were already there.
One look. All it took was one look to ruin my hope and my weekend. What if I had not looked up while I was in line and seen Megan outside of Stone Hall? Or what if I had made an effort not to look at her once I got to my seat? What if I had not gone to the movie last night at all? Then maybe I would have still been blissfuly unaware of Megan's sexual orientation, and I would not have felt this awkwardness over having spent a year of my life having a crush on someone whom I did not even realize was not into guys at all. One look can turn happiness to sadness. That sounded poetic.
I stopped when I arrived at the east end of the Arboretum, behind the art and music buildings. Perhaps my mind was giving birth to another poem; I had been writing a lot lately. I did not like the "happiness to sadness" part, though. I continued riding my bike a short distance through the Arboretum and sat on a bench overlooking the small lake next to Marks Hall. The sky was blue, without a cloud in sight, but it was still January, and many of the trees in the Arboretum had shed their leaves. One look can turn summer into winter. No, that was not quite right. One look can turn the blue skies into gray. Iambic pentameter, very Shakespearean, but still not quite right.
One look can turn the daytime into night.
That was it. That was going to be the first line of my poem. Two years ago, in high school, we had studied Shakespeare's sonnets, and I had become fascinated with their rhythm and rhyme pattern. I also found it interesting how much had been speculated over the years regarding who they were written to, or about, although I had not studied this in great detail. I continued my ride west through the Arboretum, thinking about how one look ruined my night last night, and how if I were to gouge out my eyes, I would not be able to see uncomfortable truths in the first place.
When I reached the oak grove at the end of the Arboretum, I continued on Thompson Drive across Highway 117 to the rural part of campus, past the sheep barn in the middle of the agricultural research fields. At the south end of Hawkins Road, I stopped again and stood for a few minutes. Olive trees lined both sides of the road. Behind me was Arroyo Verde Creek, with oaks and sycamores and various small bushes along its banks. Riding my bike on this route always made me feel so peaceful. Despite still being on a large university campus, I felt like I was miles and miles from civilization, not worried about girls rejecting me, or upcoming exams, or my uncertain future.
In Mr. Jackson's AP English class at Plumdale High, we studied a few of Shakespeare's sonnets in detail. Sonnet 29, the one that begins "When in disgrace with fortune and men's eyes," was my favorite. Today I felt like I was in disgrace with fortune and men's eyes. Life just sucked sometimes. Shakespeare used fourteen grandiloquent lines of iambic pentameter to say, essentially, that when he felt discouraged, hopeless, or envious of others, he simply thought of a certain special someone, and having this person in his life was more important than everything that was bringing him down. Scholars had spent centuries speculating about the identity and gender of this special someone and the nature of his or her relationship to Shakespeare.
But, now that I took the time to get out of my head and think about things, there was no mystery to the identity of my special someone, or in this case, multiple special someones. Sure, I had never had a romantic partner. Megan had a girlfriend. Sabrina Murphy had a boyfriend. Back home, I never got anywhere with Rachelle Benedetti or Kim Jensen or Melissa Holmes or Jennifer Henson or Annie Gambrell. But I had people who cared about me, and that really was important. Sarah and Krista and Liz and Ramon and Jason and Caroline had invited me to the movie last night. Taylor Santiago and Pete Green and Charlie Watson always welcomed me to their apartment when I just needed to get out of my apartment and interact with human beings. I had my friends from the Newman Center, I was making new friends at Jeromeville Christian Fellowship, I made friends in my dorm last year, and I had a few friends from classes or just from seeing them around campus. Sure, none of these people was my girlfriend, but they cared about me, and in my darkest moments, they had been there for me.
As I rode my bike back home, I continued thinking of ways to put my feelings into iambic pentameter. I was now modeling my poem on Sonnet 29, using the first eight lines to lament the illusion-shattering experience of seeing Megan kiss a girl, but then reflecting on the positive things in my life in the final six lines. I wrote down what I had so far when I got home, then after making lunch and spending a few hours studying, I logged onto an IRC chat in one window with my poem open in another window, writing my poem as I waited for people to reply to my messages. I finished a little after midnight.
"One Look"
One look can turn the daytime into night,
A happy day into a tedious chore;
One misdirected glance, and all's not right,
The ships I've tried to sink arrive at shore.
I think that I will gouge out both my eyes
And lay this possibility to rest;
No more will I see through some grand disguise
To find that things are not as I'd have guessed.
But then my eyes would shut to all the love
My friends have shown in times of great despair,
And blind I'd be to gifts from God above,
And times I've persevered when life's not fair;
One painful sight is quite a modest price
To pay to live a life of things so nice.
Megan and I did not stay close for the rest of the time we were at UJ. I had of course not ruled out the possibility that she was bisexual, interested in both women and men, but that was not something I wanted to think about, and it was beside the point. Although I did not grow up with much exposure to the LGBTQ community or lifestyles, I did not reject her out of prejudice. We had already started growing apart now that I did not eat at the dining hall anymore. I also made less of an effort to stay in touch with her once I found out she was dating someone, because I knew she would not be interested in me. I did not avoid her intentionally; I still saw her on campus over the years and said hi occasionally. But we just ran in different circles, and sometimes people just naturally grow apart.
After this, I only have one more specific memory of an actual conversation with Megan. It was early in my senior year, her fifth year, when I passed her on the way to class. She told me she had two more quarters left to finish her undergrad degree, I told her about what I had done over the summer, and she told me that a friend of hers had done the same thing as me a few years earlier. Additionally, in 2014, I was looking at the website for a place where I had a job interview coming up, and I saw a mention of an employee named Megan McCauley . I do not know if it was the same person, but Megan's degree was in chemical engineering, and this person's position was related enough to chemistry that it was possible. No picture accompanied the name. I decided to let sleeping dogs lie and not try to figure out if this was the same Megan McCauley; it did not matter in the end, because I was not offered the job. If Megan and I are ever meant to cross paths again someday, I will cross that bridge when I come to it.
October 20, 2020 December 19, 2021 ~ Greg Dennison	~ 9 Comments
I have always had a good ear for music, but I rarely did anything with it other than sing along in the car. I played piano for a few years in elementary school, but according to Mom, I quit because I thought music was for nerds. I do not remember saying that, but it definitely sounds like something that 10-year-old Greg would have said, not yet mature enough to embrace being different. I did not perform music in front of people again until three months ago, when I started singing at 11:00 Mass at the Newman Center.
Our experience levels in the church choir ranged from people like me who just liked to sing for fun all the way up to Claire Seaver, a third-year music major who had been performing all her life. I did not have much formal training in music, but I would occasionally try different harmonies with some of our usual familiar songs, because my ear could pick up harmonies easily. I was excited this week when Claire brought a new song for us to learn, with four parts. We had been practicing it all night, and the sopranos and altos had just finished doing their parts all together. "Let's hear just the guys now," Claire said.
Phil Gallo and I sang the bass parts, while Matt Jones and Ryan Gambrell sang tenor, Matt playing guitar as well. We sounded okay, although there were a few wrong notes sung and played. After this, we tried the entire song with every part singing, and after three times, it seemed like we finally had perfected the song.
"I thought that sounded good," I said afterward.
"Yes!" Claire agreed. "I think we're ready for Sunday!"
"Yes," Danielle Coronado said. "Now I get to go home and write a paper."
"Already?" Claire said incredulously. "It's the first week of class!"
"It's only one page. Not really a paper. Just an assignment."
"Good luck," I said.
"Thanks," Danielle replied.
"See you guys Sunday," I said, turning back to Phil, Matt, and Ryan.
"Take it easy, man," Phil replied. I waved at the guys and went to find Heather, since we were neighbors and had carpooled here, but she and Melanie Giordano were busy talking, and I did not want to interrupt. I stepped back, waiting, when I heard a soft female voice behind me say, "Hey, Greg."
I turned around and got nervous when I saw Sabrina Murphy looking up at me. There was just something about her that was cute, but I knew that she had a boyfriend, so any of these thoughts were hopeless. I was not sure how to explain it, she was not drop dead beautiful by Hollywood standards, but I found something about her attractive. "Yes?" I asked awkwardly.
"I just wanted to say you really have a strong bass voice," she said. "It really comes out well when we sing harmony like that."
"Thank you," I said, smiling and blushing a little.
"Have you ever thought about being in University Chorus? They always need more male voices."
"I don't know," I said. "I never thought about singing in any kind of group at all until Danielle talked me into doing this a few months ago. She's in chorus, right?"
"Yeah. And Claire. I did it freshman year, but I haven't been able to fit it into my schedule since then."
"Maybe," I said. "I'll think about it."
"You should. I think you'd be good."
"You ready?" Heather asked me, having walked up beside me and Sabrina a few seconds earlier.
"Sure," I said. "Sabrina? I'll see you Sunday?"
"Yes," Sabrina replied. Have a great week!"
In the car on the way home, Heather asked me, "So what was Sabrina saying you would be good at?"
"She asked if I had ever done University Chorus."
"You totally should!"
"I don't know. I sing in the car, but I'm not good at, like, real singing."
"I've heard you sing, I think you'd be great! Give yourself more credit."
"Maybe," I said.
Twenty-four hours later, I was sitting in my apartment alone, doing math homework. It was a Thursday night, and I was in a good mood. Thursday was my lightest day of class this quarter, and my tutoring job did not start until next week. But my good mood was mostly because I was still on a high from Sabrina's compliment last night. Maybe I sang better than her boyfriend, and she was going to leave him for me. My attention drifted from my math assignment as I played out this scenario in my head, imagining what I would say if Sabrina came out of nowhere and confessed her love for me. I heard a knock at the door, and with this on my mind, my heart rate spiked and I almost jumped out of my chair.
I got up and peeked out the window; it was not Sabrina. Heather Escamilla stood in the dim glow of the porch light. I opened the door, wondering what she wanted, since there was no choir practice or church tonight. "Hi," I said. "What's up?"
"I was just thinking, I forgot to tell you last night. Saturday we're going to have a birthday party for Gary at our place. And you're invited."
"Oh," I said. "Sure! What time should I be there?"
"I've been telling people 7. I don't know when everyone will get there, though."
"That sounds good. Do I need to bring anything?"
"No. Just yourself."
"Great! I'll see you then!"
"Have a great night!" Heather said, waving as she turned back toward the parking lot. I closed the door and went back to my homework. I just got invited to a party, my first actual college party, other than the one in the dorm last year that I had walked in on uninvited.
As I worked on homework, I kept thinking about Heather and Gary's party. I wondered if I would know anyone there. I wondered if anyone else from church would be there. Maybe Sabrina would be there. That in and of itself was enough to make me want to go.
My high had worn off by the time I got home from Jeromeville Christian Fellowship on Friday night. All day on campus, the universe seemed to be throwing in my face the fact that other people had boyfriends and girlfriends and I did not. I saw a lot of couples acting coupley all over campus today. This all-American jock type guy sitting across from me on the bus home was making out with a hot girl in a sorority sweatshirt the whole time. At JCF, I sat next to Liz and Ramon, who were two of my best friends, and had been a couple since early in our freshman year, but something about them being a couple bugged me tonight. And I overheard someone saying that this junior girl named Amelia Dye was going out with Scott Madison now, which meant one fewer girl left for me to possibly end up with.
As I sat at my desk listening to the whirs and whistles of the modem connecting to the email server, I saw in the corner of my eye the contact list for the Newman Center choir. Sabrina's name was misspelled on the contact list; it had her listed as "Sabrina Murpy." I would have spelled it right had I typed the list; maybe Sabrina was into guys who could spell. Maybe I would call Sabrina sometime this weekend, just to talk, to be friendly. Was that okay? I did not know. She probably would not be home. Her roommate would answer and tell me that she was out with her boyfriend. Sabrina and her boyfriend were out there driving a knife through my heart, unknowingly digging my grave.
"She's out there, unknowingly digging my grave," I said to myself. Very poetic. That has a nice rhythm to it. It was 9:45, I was home alone on a Friday night; maybe tonight would be a good night to write poetry. I put my sweatshirt back on and took a walk around the apartment complex and through a little bit of the Greenbelt behind the apartments, trying to think of more lines for this poem. When I returned about twenty minutes later, I wrote down all of the words that had come to mind, and by the time I went to bed, I had this:
"Hello, kid! How are you? How's everything been?"
I'm really stressed out, if you know what I mean.
And how about you? Got exams coming up?
"I've got one on Friday, I need to catch up."
I called you to see if your roommate was home.
"She's not, at the moment, I'm here all alone.
Today, it's not homework that keeps her a slave,
She's out there, unknowingly digging your grave."
In November, I had started writing a novel; it was about a high school student who changes his name and goes to live with relatives to make a fresh start. I had written around forty pages so far. I had named the novel Try, Try Again, referencing the old saying about what to do if at first one does not succeed. The character, Mike, felt like he was not succeeding in his old life, so he is trying again. I worked on Try, Try Again for a few hours the next morning. It had been a month since Mike had made his new start, and he had found his way into a popular group of friends. A girl named Erin had taken an interest in him, and after spending a lot of time together at and after school, Mike got brave and asked her to a movie.
Three previews came on before the movie. Mike did not think any of the movies previewed looked good. When the movie itself started, he got comfortable in his seat, placing both arms on the armrest. A minute later, Erin placed her hand on top of his. Mike looked at her and smiled. He liked Erin. After a while, while he was watching the movie, he felt Erin's hand move from his hand to his knee. He liked it there too. Eventually Erin moved her hand off of Mike for good. Mike, instead, reached over the armrest and took her hand in his, placing it on the armrest.
Mike took his eyes off the movie and looked at Erin. She did the exact same thing a few seconds later. He tightened his grip around her hand for a couple seconds, then loosened it again. Erin began to kiss him. He liked it a lot. It was nothing too unusual for most kids his age, but he had never been kissed so passionately in his life. He tried to return it the best he could, and he felt that Erin liked it as well. Their mouths slowly separated. "Thanks," Mike whispered. Erin gave him a huge smile.
Mike's eyes turned back to the movie. He reached his right hand over to her right shoulder and touched it. Erin moved her body a little to the left, closer to Mike. They stayed in that position for the rest of the show.
I wished I could be at a movie with Sabrina, kissing her lips, running my fingers through her pretty red hair, and seeing her cute smile as she looked at me afterward. What did her boyfriend have that I did not? A few months ago, I wanted to be kissing Megan McCauley, until I found out that she also was with someone. And before Megan there were lots of other girls who either had boyfriends or were just not interested in me. Sometimes it felt like the entire single female population all over the state were conspiring to make sure I never had a girlfriend.
Later that night, I left my home and walked to Heather and Gary's apartment, in the same complex as mine. The party started half an hour ago, but I did not want to be the first one there, since I did not know if I would know anyone. I knocked on the door, and Heather answered. "Hey!" she said. "You made it!"
"I did," I said. "Happy birthday, Gary!" I called out across the room when I saw Gary wave at me.
"Thanks!" Gary replied.
I looked around the room. Six other people were there besides Heather and Gary. I recognized Melanie from church, but no one else; Melanie was there with her boyfriend. Sabrina was not there. I made small talk with Heather and Gary for a bit, talking about school and my trip to Disneyland with my family.
"You actually drove past O.J. Simpson's house?" Gary said, laughing. "That's hilarious!"
"I know. Mom kept saying she couldn't believe we were actually doing that."
"What about O.J. Simpson's house?" a girl I did not recognize said, walking up as she overheard us. She had long straight hair and olive skin. I repeated my story in abbreviated form, and she said, "My apartment isn't too far from O.J. Simpson's house."
"This is my sister, Mariana," Heather explained. "She's visiting from California."
"Nice to meet you," I said. "I'm Greg."
"So how do you know my sister?" Mariana asked.
"From church. We both sing in the choir."
"How fun! I wish I could hear you guys sing in the morning, but my flight back home leaves at 12:15, so I need to be on my way to the airport by then."
"Aww."
"I was in choir in high school and college, but I graduated last year, and I'm not doing any kind of singing right now."
"Where'd you go to school?"
"Santa Teresa," Mariana said as Heather and Gary went to greet more people who were just arriving.
"That's cool. I've never been there, but two of my friends from high school go there."
"Oh yeah? What are their names?"
"Paul Dickinson and Jackie Bordeaux. They would have been freshmen last year."
"Nope, I don't know them. It's a big school."
"That's what I figured."
"You go to Jeromeville? What are you studying?"
"Math."
"Math," Mariana repeated, making a face. "That was not my class."
"A lot of people say that," I said, laughing.
"Well, if you're good at it, go for it! Do you know what you want to do with your degree? Do you want to be a teacher?"
"I'm not sure. I don't think I want to be a teacher, though. Too much politics involved in education. I just figure I'll stay in school until I figure it out."
"I understand that. I majored in English, but I'm not really using it. I work in an office."
"Yeah. I was never very good at English in school. I never understood what I was supposed to get from the novels and poems that we had to read."
"I did a lot of BS'ing on assignments like that, to be honest."
"I see," I replied, chuckling. "But the weird thing is, even though I was always bad at English class, I like to write."
"Oh yeah? What do you like to write?"
"Sometimes I have a thought stuck in my head, and it'll become a weird poem. And last year I wrote a short novel. I had a really interesting year when I was a senior in high school, so I turned that into a novel."
"That's so cool!"
"And right now, I'm working on another novel. It's about a guy who runs away to live with relatives, because he wants a fresh start. But he pretends to be sixteen instead of eighteen, because he realized he missed out on a lot of experiences in high school, and he wants a second chance."
"That's interesting. Where'd you get that idea?"
"Probably just because sometimes I wish I could do that."
"You feel like you missed out on a lot?"
"Yeah. Like I said with the first novel, I grew a lot my senior year, but then we all graduated and moved away. I feel like if everything that happened my senior year had happened earlier, I would have graduated as an entirely different person."
"I've never thought of it that way," Mariana contemplated. "Hmm. Interesting."
"If you want, I can send you some of my writing," I said. "Or at least I'll send you what I have so far."
"Yeah! That would be so cool!"
"Do you use email?"
"I don't," Mariana said, disappointedly. "Is that a problem?"
"You can give me your address, and I can mail it to you."
"Sure! I'll do that. Let me go get a piece of paper." Mariana walked off and came back a minute later, handing me her address.
"Thanks!" I said.
Mariana and I talked for about another hour, about life, the past, the future, and many other things on our minds. I could not help but wonder, could there be something here? Might she be interested in me that way? She was a few years older than me, that would be different; hopefully she did not see me as some immature little kid. I had a way to keep in contact with her, and that was the important part at this moment.
"I'm going to get another drink," Mariana eventually said. "But, hey, it was really good talking to you! Send me your story!"
"I will. Thanks." I smiled.
"We'll probably talk more later tonight."
No one else that I knew ever showed up to the party. I talked to Melanie for a bit about my winter break, and one of Gary's engineer friends was drunkenly asking me about math at one point. The party got louder as the night went on, and I went home around 10:30.
As soon as I got home, I printed out a copy of the unfinished Try, Try Again to send to Mariana, and I excitedly mailed it with extra stamps the next day. This weekend sure turned into a great one. I met a girl who talked to me for a long time and was interested in my creative work. Maybe I did not need to hope for Sabrina to leave her boyfriend after all. Life was finally looking up for me.
Except it never happened. I never heard from Mariana again. I never found out if she read my story. She never wrote back, and Heather never mentioned her around me again. I could have asked, of course, but I never asked others about girls I was interested in. I was embarrassed for anyone to know that I liked a girl, ever since eighth grade when Paul Dickinson told the whole school who I liked.
Why did Mariana act so friendly if she did not want to talk to me again? Things like this had happened before. Jennifer Henson had been friendly to me all through senior year of high school, then that summer she moved away suddenly without leaving me a way to contact her. Many other girls would treat me like this throughout my life, and I had a tendency to misunderstand the intentions of others. People are complicated, reading and understanding them is hard, and I still had a lot to learn. Maybe I would figure all of this out someday. Until then, I had plenty of material for poetry and fiction.
September 27, 2020 ~ Greg Dennison	~ 12 Comments
A while back, after I wrote the post about my last week of freshman year at UJ, I decided that every six months in my fictional chronology, I would take a break from the story and write about something else. Six months has passed in the story, so it is time for a non-story post. Last week's episode ended on kind of a dark note, but the beginning of sophomore year was kind of a dark time for me. I spent a lot of time alone and wishing life was different. But some big things will be happening soon.
Anyway, if you are new here, welcome, and say hi. It is very nice to meet you. Don't Let The Days Go By is an episodic continuing story set in 1995 (so far) about a university student trying to make his way in life. I have been writing DLTDGB for almost two years now, since December 2018. It is based on my actual past, and I borrowed the title without permission from a line from a song popular at the time. If you have several hours to spare, you can start from the beginning and read the whole story.
I updated the dramatis personae a few days ago. I have introduced a lot of new people in the last few episodes. One thing that has kind of struck me as I have written this is how people come and go, in and out of the story. Sometimes I will realize that a certain story will be the last appearance of someone and wonder whatever happened to them. There is not always a good story behind someone's disappearance; the most recent episode will probably be the last appearance of Mindy Jo, for example, and we just kind of grew apart for no particular reason as she stopped emailing as often. And I got the sense that a few of you who chose to comment were really rooting for me and Megan, but obviously that didn't happen, and there will only be one more Megan episode. But that is life. If I am going to take on a project chronicling at least five and a half years of my life, there will naturally be people who were not an important part of all five and a half years.
Although I'm not doing this to get followers or be famous, I do enjoy comments on my posts, and it seems like I haven't quite gotten as many recently. WordPress says I have 285 followers, but most of them I don't know and don't interact with. I suspect quite a few may be spam pages and the like. I know it goes both ways, though, and I try to read as many of your posts as I can, but I don't have time to read everything, unfortunately. I'm glad I've made so many friends through blogging.
So, please, say hi. Leave a comment. Ask me anything that you are curious about. I will finish this post with an interesting story about the only time I've ever been recognized in public as a writer (kind of). I posted this on Facebook and Instagram back when it happened, in July, so some of you might have heard this story already. I was going to post four blog awards I have been tagged in over the last few months, but I'll save those for a separate post in a few days so as not to make this too long.
I had an interesting encounter this morning (this is adult Greg writing in July 2020).
I found myself on the road on no schedule heading in the general direction of Jeromeville. I decided to turn off the freeway and drive through on city streets to the Happy Place (pictured below; see the 3/1/95 episode for more).
A while ago, I bought a huge pack of socks that didn't fit me well, so I kept those socks in my car to give to homeless people. Yesterday, I approached the intersection across the railroad track from where Murder Burger used to be, and I passed two guys holding a sign. While the light was red, I rolled down the window and asked if they needed socks. One came up to me and said yes. He thanked me, and I told him to have a nice day. I was a little nervous at this point, wondering if the light would turn green soon, so I thought I wasn't quite understanding when he said something that sounded like "I remember you."
What could that mean? How can he remember me? I've never seen him before; I don't even live here. Wait, who is this guy? Did he know me when I lived here 20 years ago? I just smiled and nodded, confused; maybe I told him to have a great day or something.
"I remember you," he repeated. "You're an author, right?"
And then I remembered. Ten months earlier, I was in Jeromeville for a game night with people not connected to the fact that I used to live there. Before going to my friends' house, I stopped at Murder Burger and took pictures of the newly vacant building, knowing that I would use them for the blog (I eventually did in the Mid-June 1995 episode). This guy saw me and asked if I knew what happened to that place. I told him I had just read in the local news that they closed a month ago. I told him a little about my writing and how I used to live there. He asked, "You're writing a book?" I said no, I was just an amateur writing a blog just for fun.
Back to yesterday. "Yes," I told him. "I remember now. I saw you last year by Murder Burger, and we talked about my writing."
"Yeah," he said.
The light turned green. "I have to go, but I'll see you around," I said. "Take care."
"You too!"
I felt bad that this guy recognized me after one chance encounter that happened almost a year ago, and I didn't remember at first. I'm not good with faces. I don't know his name, and he doesn't know mine. I don't know if I'll ever see him again, and if I do, I don't know if I'll recognize him again. I don't know what I can do for him. But I can watch for him on future trips to Jeromeville, since he apparently knows me now.
About a minute later, I turned on OJ Road and realized that this whole encounter happened with neither of us wearing masks. I was in the drivers' seat, and he was at the passenger side window, so we weren't exactly breathing on each other, but that's still less than six feet, and these days [COVID-19] you never can be too careful. I wiped down the part of the car that he may have touched, I sanitized my hands three times, and I rolled down the windows and left them down for half an hour. And this is one of the things I hate most about this pandemic, that we all now feel like we have to be afraid of each other like this. It isn't natural or healthy to be so afraid of close contact.
When I got to the Happy Place, I prayed for this man, that his life would turn around and he would get back on his feet. I don't know what I can do for him, but God made our paths cross for a reason.
August 16, 2020 December 19, 2021 ~ Greg Dennison	~ 13 Comments
The first World War ended on November 11, 1918, and many of the countries involved now observe a holiday on November 11. The holiday goes by different names around the world; in the United States, we call it Veterans Day. Many government offices are closed on Veterans Day, and students are off school. When November 11 falls on a weekend, as it did this year, schools close on the nearest Friday or Monday.
Except for the University of Jeromeville. We got no day off. Even last year, when November 11 was on an actual school day, we got no day off. I never knew why. I wondered if this was a legacy of universities traditionally being full of anti-war hippie types who did not want to celebrate our military. But we did get a day off in May for Memorial Day, the holiday commemorating those who died serving our country. And the building I was walking through right now was called the Memorial Union, or the "MU" for short, named to remember UJ students who died in military service.
It had been a typical Friday so far. My day started waiting in the hallway of Wellington Hall for math class, because another class occupied the classroom immediately before our class. Jack Chalmers from my class said hi to a girl named Lizzie as she left that class and we entered the room for ours, just as he did every day. Math was easy. I crossed the street to the MU at 10 and did homework for an hour. I met some tutees in 102 Wellington, the tutoring room, at 11. I just learned that word this quarter working for the Learning Skills Center: "tutee," meaning one who is being tutored. Tutee is a great word. At 12, I walked down Colt Avenue to 199 Stone for chemistry, and then back to the MU to eat lunch. I got up, went to the bathroom, and walked back through the MU on the way to my physics class in Ross Hall when I saw her.
When I see a familiar face in a setting that this person is not normally connected to, my brain always takes a few seconds to register what I am seeing. At first all I saw was two young-looking girls walking toward me. They were both a little on the short side. One wore a dark red sweatshirt with a hood and a brand name logo unfamiliar to me, and the other wore a black jacket with white sleeves, and a large letter P on her left side. I recognized that this was a Plumdale High School letter jacket.
What is a Plumdale High School letter jacket doing in Jeromeville? Who is this person? Do I know her?
Holy crap, it's her. What is she doing here? What do I say?
Just before she walked past me, I said, "Annie?"
The two girls stopped. Annie, the one in the Plumdale High jacket, looked at me, looking just as surprised as I was at first until recognition came over her face a second later. "Hey, Greg!" she said.
"What are you doing here?" I asked. "Visiting your brother?"
"My boyfriend goes here now too," Annie replied.
There it is again. The B word. I wondered whether she was still with the same boyfriend as last year, or if this was some new guy. Either way, though, Annie's boyfriend was not me.
"It was good seeing you," I said. "Have a great weekend!"
"You too!" Annie replied. The girl she was with waved at me; I recognized this girl's face, she was from Plumdale High too, but I could not remember her name.
My mind raced as I walked away from them, toward my physics class. Annie Gambrell was here, in Jeromeville. I had a chance to talk to her, and I felt like I blew it. Should I have said more? She seemed busy, and she was not here to visit me. She had a boyfriend; she was not coming here to meet guys. But I did not know when, or if, I would ever see her again. Maybe I should have talked more. Or maybe she doesn't really care about me, and all that nice stuff she wrote in my yearbook senior year was just for the sake of being polite and she didn't really mean it. Should I tell Annie's brother next time I see him that I ran into her? Does he think it's weird that I have an unrequited crush on his unavailable little sister, even though I haven't actually told him anything other than that I know her?
After physics class, I had another tutoring group back in the study room at 102 Wellington. "Hi," the tall blonde guy who was just finishing a tutoring group at the table next to me said as I walked in. I knew from looking at the schedule of tutoring groups in this room that his name was Scott Madison. He looked familiar for some reason, but maybe I was just used to seeing him here.
"Hi," I replied to Scott. I then turned to two of the three students in my group who were already waiting and asked, "Are you ready to get started?"
My tutoring group went as they usually do. These students were in Short Calculus, Math 16A, for majors which do not require any math above calculus. Their work focuses on finding and applying derivatives of functions without studying the theory and proofs behind derivatives. I did not enjoy tutoring the Math 16 series as much as I did the 21 series, for mathematicians, scientists, and engineers, because it was difficult for me, as a math guy, to gloss over the theoretical stuff. But I got paid to do so, and I did my best, hoping not to confuse the students too much.
At four o'clock, when the tutoring group was finished, I walked diagonally across the Quad to the Learning Skills Center in Krueger Hall to turn in my time sheet for tutoring, as I did every other Friday, then back along East Quad Avenue to catch a bus home from the MU. A few hours later, after napping and eating, I returned to campus for Jeromeville Christian Fellowship. I drove this time, because parking is easy to find and slightly less expensive in the evening.
Taylor Santiago, Charlie Watson, Sarah Winters, and Krista Curtis were standing around talking on the far side of the lecture hall where the group was held; I walked over to them and said hi. The four of them all lived in the same apartment complex, the boys in one apartment and the girls in another, and all of us were in the same dorm last year.
"Hey, man," Taylor said. "How's it goin'?"
"Pretty good," I replied.
"How's your day been?" Sarah asked.
"One of my friends from high school, she's a senior this year, I saw her and her friend walking around campus today. It was unexpected."
"What was she doing here?" Krista asked. "Touring the campus?"
"Her brother goes here. I know him. And she said her boyfriend goes here too."
"So was she skipping school?" Taylor asked, adding sarcastically, "I don't know anything at all about skipping classes…"
"She probably didn't have school today," I explained. "Tomorrow is Veterans Day. We always got that off in high school."
"Oh yeah. It's a holiday."
"Why don't we get Veterans Day off?" Charlie asked rhetorically. "It's not fair."
"It's supposed to be a holiday?" I heard Jason Costello's voice say behind me.
"Tomorrow is Veterans Day," I explained, turning around. Ramon Quintero and his girlfriend Liz Williams were with him; they were all in our dorm last year as well. "I don't know why Jeromeville doesn't get it off, but I noticed that last year too."
There had been no JCF the week before, because the group had been on a retreat with sister chapters of this organization at other colleges and universities in the region. I had not attended the retreat, but most of my friends here did. Taylor and Charlie were talking about something that happened to Pete Green, Taylor and Charlie's third roommate, at the retreat. "Where is Pete tonight anyway?" I asked.
"He's in San Diego," Taylor replied.
"Visiting his family there?"
I heard someone from the worship band welcoming us to JCF and saying that it was time to get started. As the band played, and sang along to lyrics being displayed on an overhead projector, my eyes scanned the front of the room, watching the people on the worship team. I saw the drummer and realized something: it was Scott Madison, the other tutor who had said hi to me this afternoon. That was why he looked so familiar; this was my third time at JCF, and I had probably seen him play drums here before. At the end of the night, I said hi to him and formally introduced myself; he seemed like a nice guy. (A few years later, Scott would become the first non-relative to invite me to his wedding, and I still get Christmas cards from Scott and his family to this day.)
Although my Friday had ended on a good note, I woke up feeling down again on Saturday morning. It was a cool and gloomy day, with gray skies that threatened rain. Summer in Jeromeville is sunny and hot, and winter is relatively mild compared to much of the United States. It only snows high in the mountains, snow here on the valley floor is very rare, but rain is fairly common in the winter. And the transition period from summer to winter is very short, usually occurring around early November. Winter had arrived earlier this week, and it was supposed to rain intermittently all weekend. Rain made me sad and anxious.
I spent the morning doing homework and reading. By mid-afternoon, some patches of blue sky had appeared, and the threat of rain had passed, so I went for a bike ride. I started riding through the Greenbelts, then back down G Street toward downtown, but despite keeping myself busy, I kept thinking about my chance encounter with Annie yesterday. Why hadn't I asked for her address or phone number, so I could try keeping in touch? I subconsciously knew that there was no point, though. I had given her my address at Plumdale High's Homecoming a year ago and never heard from her, and knowing that she had a boyfriend made it feel futile to pursue anything, although I would have been happy just being friends.
Two years ago, I was a senior at Plumdale High, and I felt like I grew a lot that year. I finally had a social life, and I made new friends, including Annie. But then I graduated, I moved away, many of my senior class friends moved away in different directions, and I lost touch with many of my friends. There was no texting or social media in those days, and only a few of my friends used email, so it was difficult to keep in touch. And despite all that, I still felt like I was on the outer fringes of the social circle in high school, not really one of them.
I wished that the events of my senior year had happened during sophomore or junior year instead. That way, I might have had time to solidify some of those friendships before we scattered. Maybe I would have learned how to actually ask a girl out. Maybe Annie would have broken up with her boyfriend, and I would have been able to use those new skills.
What if I just ran away and pretended to be in high school again? What would that be like? What would it take? A fake birth certificate would probably be hard to find. Maybe I wouldn't need one. Maybe I would just need fake transcripts to show to the new school. Being 19 and still in high school was unusual, but not exactly unheard of. My birthday came right at the start of the school year, so I started kindergarten when I was barely 5. Some parents would have chosen for me to start kindergarten the following year. My parents did that with my brother Mark; with his birthday in October, they chose to wait until he was almost 6 to put him in kindergarten. Mark would turn 18 in the fall of 1999, early in his senior year, and someone his age who had repeated a grade in elementary school would be a 19-year-old senior.
Could I do this? Would it be possible to fake my identity and get a second try at my senior year of high school? Probably not. Lying on important documents like transcripts seemed too dishonest and illegal for me to be comfortable with it. But, I thought, all of this seemed like a great premise for a work of fiction.
I had been writing again in my spare time recently. Last year, I wrote a short novel called The Commencement, based on all the growing up I did as a senior in high school. I had been revising and expanding it lately, and it was up to 62 pages. I was running out of ideas for how to expand The Commencement, so maybe it was time to work on something new.
As I continued riding my bike that afternoon, along the entire length of the Arboretum and back up Andrews Road toward home, I kept thinking about faking my identity and going back to high school. How would that be possible? Maybe this story would take place at a different point in life; going back to high school now seemed like too much of a stretch, and none of my thoughts led to anything realistic. Maybe my character would run away while he was a senior in high school, and go to a new school in a new town, pretending to be two years younger. I would focus my writing on everything he dislikes about life, and all of his unfinished business, to make the desire to run away real. But if he is not an adult, how can he just do this, and where would he go? That was easy; I could make him turn 18 early in his senior year. And I could give him divorced parents living far from each other, so he would have the option to go move in with the other parent.
When I got home from my bike ride, I showered and put a frozen dinner in the microwave. I put on some music from high school, starting with Pearl Jam's Ten album, and began writing. I started my novel, which was still untitled at this point, by quoting a song lyric, as Stephen King often did with his novels, then proceeded to set the scene of a character who felt like he did not fit in with his friends.
"I knew the moment had arrived
For killing the past and coming back to life"
"Where were you this morning?" Ryan asked Sara.
"I was…" Sara paused. "Sleeping in," she said, with a mischievous grin on her face.
Sleeping in? Jon thought.
"You missed class?" Becky teased.
"He said we didn't have to come today," Sara said defensively. "He was just doing a review for the test tomorrow. I needed a break, and I feel prepared for the test." Jon began to feel somewhat angry after hearing this.
"How did you get out of band?" Kate asked. "Does Mr. Jackson know you were gone?"
"He knows," Sara said. "He knows I had to see the dentist." Sara and the others laughed. All except Jon. Some people could just do whatever they wanted and not get caught. But if Jon tried it, he would get stopped at the gate because ___ High School was a closed campus. It wasn't fair.
I left the name of the school blank. I had not decided yet where Jon and his friends lived. I usually wrote about places familiar to me, so they would have to live somewhere back home in Santa Lucia County, or Jeromeville, or maybe across the Drawbridge from Jeromeville in Capital City, or maybe Bidwell where my dad had family. But it would make more sense to have Jon run away to one of those places familiar to me, and to have the story open somewhere else, somewhere more interesting. I thought about different cities and states that had been on my mind recently and settled on San Diego, California, where my friend Pete had once lived and was currently visiting his family. I could ask Pete next time I saw him to suggest a good name for a high school in San Diego.
I continued writing about Jon's day. Jon heard his friends talk about college applications, and about movies they liked that Jon had never seen, and movies they hated that Jon liked. I wrote about Jon's feelings of inferiority regarding a lack of extracurricular activities for college applications, and a conversation he had with the school counselor about this, and more laments in Jon's head about not belonging and not feeling good enough. I thought back to yesterday when I ran into Annie Gambrell and wrote this scene for the end of Jon's school day.
"Jon! What are you doing?" He looked up at Kelly ___, one of the few underclassmen he knew. He met her last month while interviewing her for the yearbook, doing the page on the women's' JV cross-country team. Sometimes Jon thought that the fact that women's' JV cross-country got two whole pages in the yearbook was just part of an international conspiracy that ensured that certain people, who were labeled "popular," got in the yearbook at least twenty times every year whereas other people only got in once. This was the same conspiracy that invented Homecoming Queens and the modern system of student government. Jon had nothing against women's sports, or unpopular sports; he just didn't like being unpopular.
"Hi." Jon looked up and saw that she was with a friend. He thought the friend's name was Nicole, but he did not know her.
"What are you doing? Waiting for someone?" Kelly asked.
"No. Just…" he paused. "Thinking."
"Are you okay?" Kelly asked.
"I'm all right. I just kind of had a rough day."
"Don't worry about it. You'll be fine."
"Thanks," Jon replied. "See you later." Jon really liked Kelly. She seemed really nice, and she was pretty too. She had a beautiful smile. Unfortunately, she already had a boyfriend. Jon got in his truck and drove home, thinking about what it would be like to have a relationship with Kelly.
I thought about making the last name for the Annie character something that sounded like Annie, or like Gambrell. The only thing I could think of was "Aniston," the last name of one of the actors on the TV show Friends. There was no way I would name someone in my story after Friends, so I left it blank and moved on.
I spent most of the rest of that weekend writing, finishing chapter 1 and half of chapter 2, establishing the mood of Jon feeling out of place and wanting to start over, wanting more time to live the high school experience. I also mentioned that Jon's father lived five hundred miles away in Capital City, with a second wife who had two children of her own.
I never did see or hear from Annie again after that day. I could have asked her brother to get in touch with her for me, I saw him at church the next day, but that just felt weird. Annie was off limits because she had a boyfriend. But I continued to work on this novel for the next several months. I had no plans to act out the premise of this novel, to run away and go back to high school, nor did I have a realistic way of doing so. I knew that that would never happen. But it was interesting to think about, and fun to put these thoughts on paper. If they could not happen in real life, I could create a fantasy world where these things happened, as long as I knew that it was just fantasy and did not let it consume my life.
Author's note: Yes, these are actual excerpts from a novel I wrote in 1995-96. More about that later.
Also, in real life it's my birthday! Well, yesterday was.
February 15, 2020 February 15, 2020 ~ Greg Dennison	~ 16 Comments
Hello, friends. I started this project fourteen months ago, and now that I have reached a natural stopping point in the story, I will be taking a break for a few weeks, maybe more; we'll see. Life is busy. I need to plan what I'm going to write about for the next school year in the story. I also have a few related tasks I'm going to work on; for example, I need to organize some notes to myself, so I can stay consistent with characters' names and such. There are already at least three Mikes, two Jennifers, and three Kims in the story (although to be fair those were common names for people my age).
This is not a regular post. If you are new to DLTDGB, it is an episodic continuing story about a university student in the western USA in the 1990s. Scroll down to other posts to read some of these stories. Or if you are in this for the long haul, click here to start from the beginning.
One of the related tasks I've been meaning to do is complete: I made a playlist of all the music I used in year 1 of DLTDGB (42 songs). It is mostly early and mid-1990s "alternative rock" and pop-rock, along with some classic rock, because that is what I was listening to at the time period I am writing about (and I was going through a big Pink Floyd phase at the time, so they're in there several times).
Anyway… I definitely want to thank you all so much for your support. I have enjoyed getting to know those of you who have interacted with me and shared this journey through my past. Hopefully you have found something in my story that has influenced you positively.
But I want to hear from you. I have a lot of thoughts about this.
Do you have any comments or suggestions on this project? How am I doing? Is it easy to follow, or is my storytelling too confusing? Are the episodes too long? Too short? Just right? Does it depend on the story I'm telling?
Should I change the title of the blog? I took the title from a song lyric from the time period I am writing about, but I did so without permission from the artist, so if this blog gets too big I might have to change it.
I wonder sometimes if I have too many characters. I'm not really sure how I can do this project without a lot of characters, though (and this is why I included a dramatis personae page). But do I need more character development for the minor characters, or does that not really work well for short episodes told by me? Should I name other characters by just their first names, or would it make it easier to remember if I referred to more people by first and last names at least once per episode? Do I need more physical descriptions of what the other characters look like?
Of course, DLTDGB is based on true stories and real people, but I have taken liberties with many of the details, particularly conversations. I don't remember every word of every conversation from 25 years ago, obviously. I also made some minor changes for artistic reasons. For example, I know I did not actually listen to Bush on the way home from my last day in the dorm because I never owned that album until I got it at a used music store in my late 30s. I wrote that in because I want to end every school year with the song that this blog is named after, but that song was not released to radio until early in my sophomore year, so the album was the only way I could have known the song by the end of freshman year. Another obvious example: the episode about the "football championship" did not use any actual NFL team names or trademarks, and the real life events that inspired that story happened during a regular season game, not the championship game.)
But I still wonder, how much should I deviate from the truth? Should I keep it mostly true in broad strokes as much as possible and just fill in the details, as I have been so far? If I have a story from another time in my life that would make a good DLTDGB episode, can I adapt such a story and pretend it happened in Jeromeville in the 1990s? Or would that take away from the integrity and truth of this project? I suppose ultimately only I can answer this question, since this is my writing project, but I am curious what people think about this.
I am also unsure exactly when to end the project. My original thought was to go up through December 31, 1999, since that is the last day of the 1990s, and then tie up a few loose ends with some "epilogue" stories set in 2000 and later. I am still leaning toward doing this. I also considered continuing the main narrative up to July 2001, since that is when I actually moved away from Jeromeville, but it seems like most of my most interesting stories happened before then, and if I deviate from the truth slightly, as I mentioned before, the most interesting stories from 2000 and 2001 I can probably rewrite as if they happened earlier.
So, yes, please share if you have any thoughts about any of the above, or about anything else, or if you just want to say hi. I can also answer questions about anything you read on here, although I might give incomplete or evasive answers if answering your question would give away major spoilers for future episode. (I know, for example, multiple people have asked me what my career is as an adult. I have not answered that question, because I will eventually write about experiencing the process of exploring and discovering careers throughout most of 1997, and since I am still today in the same career field that I settled on before finishing my undergraduate studies at UJ, answering this question would give away things that I will write about later.)
February 8, 2020 ~ Greg Dennison	~ Leave a comment
I got tagged in another Hoppy Tales post. If you are new to this site and you expected stories about being a university student in the 1990s, scroll down, or go here to read from the beginning. If you are a regular reader and are waiting to hear about my spring 1995 finals week, that post will be coming later today or tomorrow. :)
Hoppy Tales is a special story tag co-created by three bloggers namely, Jenny from ofprogressandpurpose.com , Kathy at knj.home.blog , and Byagyashree from inkandthoughts.com !
The Tag:
Just as there are five parts in a traditional plot structure, we will have:
A Climax
A Resolution
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You will be tagged to complete one of these five elements, along with given a theme (such as: beauty of simplicity, comedy, overcoming fear, love and romance, youth and beauty, coming of age, circle of life, friendship, empowerment).
Provide a link back to the creators (Of Progress and Purpose, KNJ Snippets & Tales, and Ink and Thoughts) so that we can see what you write!
Share "The Tag" and "The Rules" to help eliminate confusion.
Thank the person who tagged you and link back to their portion of the story.
Write your element with 3-4 days and try to keep it to around 50-60 words.
Choose one or more persons to continue the story and assign them a theme.
You may wish to let them know ahead of time in the comments, so that they can opt out if they don't want to participate.
If you write a conclusion, whoever you tag will start a new story of their own.
If you tag more than one person, your readers will be able to choose their own adventure!
Have fun with it! You are all so creative and inspiring, We can't wait!
Let the fun ride begin…
An Introduction- Betul Erbasi
The walk in the streets felt different. The streets looked different. Everything was brighter and fresher. She could not help a smile on her face. She said 'Hi!' to everyone that passed by.
After all that struggle, she had finally got what she wanted. She felt that satisfaction even more as she approached her office. She looked forward to giving the news to her colleagues.
A Problem – Bhagyashree
As Olivia approached the familiar stairwell leading to her office, her footsteps faltered, having seen something she'd been evading her entire life. A shadow lurking around in the dark had finally emerged in broad daylight, but this time, to settle old scores.
The good news lay buried beneath the shrieking yelps escaping from her nearly blue lips, before everything went pitch black.
A Climax – Greg
Olivia awoke at the bottom of the stairs outside her office. Olivia had not seen her father up close in twenty years, since she was a girl and her mother grew tired of the abuse, but he had finally found her. As he pushed her into a car, Olivia saw her coworker watching. She knew what she had to do.
My theme was "Thriller"; I wanted to make it about Michael Jackson, naturally, but I couldn't really make that fit the story. Next, I have been asked to tag Shantanu from https://ckonfab.com, and I'll choose overcoming fear as the theme. I'll post a link to the finished product when we get there.