 How does the author see the role of self-help?
If that's true, many of us could use a little sexual self-improvement. What would happen to our sex life then, if Deb (who participated in this story because she loves me and because she has tenure) and I tried for the first time to make something happen to it? The idea behind shops like these is to make obtaining the materials of sexual experimentation as ordinary as purchasing plumbing supplies or housewares. A woman I know says women's magazines are the best places in America to find sex tips. You're much more likely to land on "Try phone sex, dirty notes, porn videos, fantasy games and sex in new places. ...
 Self-help can come in a variety of ways but should be low-key in this area
 Self-help is bogus and isn't worth spending energy on  It should be everyone's priority to pursue self-help to improve their sex lives  Self-help is useful when it comes from videos, but not from books  Self-help can come in a variety of ways but should be low-key in this area