 Which best describes the relationship between Neena and Var?
But its outward perils could not compare with the Ryzgas themselves, who slept within, ready to wake and conquer.... Var sensed her fear, and the love that had conquered it. For the flame that had sprung between them at the Truce of New Grass, she had challenged the feud of their peoples and had left her home, to follow him. Now, if her father and his kinsmen overtook them, it would be death for Var, and for Neena living shame. Which of the two was worse was no longer a simple problem to Var, who had grown much older in the last days. While she waited he spun a dream, attaching it to the crags that loomed over the pass, and to the frozen ground underfoot. Var saw with some surprise that all the walls were sheathed in ice—warm to the touch, bound fast against melting by the Watcher's will. Hot food and drink were before them almost at once. Warming to the old man now, Var sketched his and Neena's history briefly. The Watcher was broodingly silent; his eyes shifted to Neena, where she nestled by Var's side. Neena returned his gaze without flinching; then she looked sidelong at Var, and her lips curled with a proud and tender mockery. "Because of them we must build with dreams instead of iron, and our only fire is that of the Sun, and even now, two thousand years later, the Earth is still slowly recovering from the pangs and poison of that age.
 They have roughly equal footing in their dedication to one another
 They are marrying out of familial responsibility more than love but are still happy to be together  They have roughly equal footing in their dedication to one another  Neena gets to make all of the decision in return for going with Var to stay with his people  Var has convinced Neena to go with him after he won her in battle