 What is the best description of the author's view on a nightcap?
If that's true, many of us could use a little sexual self-improvement. What would happen to our sex life then, if Deb (who participated in this story because she loves me and because she has tenure) and I tried for the first time to make something happen to it? And so it was that we found ourselves for the first time ever in a sex-toy store, A Touch of Romance, located near our home in Los Angeles, across the street from a Macy's. The idea behind shops like these is to make obtaining the materials of sexual experimentation as ordinary as purchasing plumbing supplies or housewares. Which sort of works--the only sexual thrill I got from the visit was knowing that Microsoft just bought a cock ring. Most of them came in presized sets of three. So I opted instead for an adjustable circumference version, a little strip of vinyl with snaps for $11.95. A woman I know says women's magazines are the best places in America to find sex tips. She's right--go ahead, just try to find a sewing pattern in Redbook . You're much more likely to land on "Try phone sex, dirty notes, porn videos, fantasy games and sex in new places. ... An article in the April Cosmopolitan , "The Six Best Sex Positions," seemed more promising than the Redbook playbook. Each position was accompanied by a succinct write-up and a stick-figure diagram.
 A drink here and there is fine as long as you don't go overboard
 Alcohol is just another drug, and intimacy should be limited to natural influences only  A drink here and there is fine as long as you don't go overboard  Drinking will make it harder to remember the details of your plans for a romantic evening and should be avoided  A drink will make you seem more attractive to your partner, and can help you out