 Why are people insistent on pointing out others' flaws?
THE PERFECTIONISTS By ARNOLD CASTLE ILLUSTRATED by SUMMERS Is there something wrong with you? Loyalty to person or to people was a trait Pembroke had never recognized in himself, nor had it ever been expected of him. And yet he greatly envied those staunch patriots and lovers who could find it in themselves to elevate the glory and safety of others above that of themselves. One in particular, an attractive woman of about thirty, tossed back her long, chestnut locks and gazed up intently at Pembroke as he passed. "Just be yourself, gal," Spencer drawled, jabbing her intimately with a fat elbow, "and you'll qualify." Pembroke was amused at his companion's reaction but observed that Spencer still failed to see the point.
 Pointing out flaws is considered positive feedback for those pretending to be human.
 Being polite is considered too passive in the society.  Pointing out flaws is considered positive feedback for those pretending to be human.  Being insecure and not taking criticism is a sign of weakness in the society.  Pointing out flaws is part of the social rapport for this group, and is considered normal.