 Why does the author think less communication is better?
A recent University of Chicago survey of 10,000 adults found that Americans are having considerably less sex than was generally thought. What would happen to our sex life then, if Deb (who participated in this story because she loves me and because she has tenure) and I tried for the first time to make something happen to it? You're much more likely to land on "Try phone sex, dirty notes, porn videos, fantasy games and sex in new places. ... An article in the April Cosmopolitan , "The Six Best Sex Positions," seemed more promising than the Redbook playbook. Instead she runs through all the euphemisms for oral sex and then the video cuts to XXX action with gratuitous commentary.
 Being too explicit about things takes away some of the emotional aspect
 He is bad at communicating clearly and it makes things more complicated  Being too explicit about things takes away some of the emotional aspect  He thinks communication works better by doing, instead of by talking, especially in the bedroom  His wife doesn't like discussing sex openly, so it's what he is used to