 What will happen during the Changing of Wives?
'Secrecy makes for a long life,' as it says in the Jarcon ." The whole issue involves, as a core point, the principle of casta cum mae stotiti ." After all, it's not only a question of how we go, but also a question of leaving only after having done our duty. "As I see it," Nestir said, "if the intent was the natural maternal instinct of the mother to release her child from its duty, then...." "Oh, not at all," the third mate's wife said. You're just angry, y'know, because you have to stay with your husband." "Although the Prophet knows what woman in her right mind would consent to...."
 Jane will be paired with Nestir.
 Jane will be paired with Nestir.  All participants will be in an arena.  Crewman and officers will not mingle.  Wanda will be paired with the Captain.