"If you see something on the side of the road, a garbage bag, whatever, it's like, 'Could that be her?'" says Donna Reitler.  Although they say they're sure their daughter was killed that night, the Reitlers say they can't be at peace until her body is recovered.  Tricia grew up in a conservative home in Olmsted Falls, Ohio, the eldest child in a family of three girls and one boy. Her parents persuaded her to go to Indiana Wesleyan, a small Christian college, because they believed it supported their traditional values.  "We told her, 'Tricia, we feel like this is where God wants you,' " Donna Reitler says.  Tricia adjusted well to her new surroundings and earned a grade point average of 3.65, her parents say.  She worked during her summer break and never took her parents' financial sacrifices for granted.  Her mother recalls a letter Tricia wrote them from college:  "I just want you to know how much I appreciate how hard you're working to get me here. And I know that it's not easy."  Tricia even washed her clothes by hand to save money.  "She fully understood the sacrifices that were made to get her there and she was willing to do whatever it took to make it happen," Garry Reitler says.  The night of Tricia's disappearance, her father recalls almost intuitively feeling unwell.  "The phone call came a little bit after midnight. I wasn't feeling well that night, just kind of lying on the couch," he says.  "Do you know where your daughter is?" said the officer's voice on the other end of the phone.  Tricia may have been headstrong, but she was very responsible. Her parents knew immediately something was drastically wrong.  "Tricia was a fighter; she was strong. She was a small girl, but she was very determined. We knew that she was not gone by her own doing," Garry Reitler says.
Eighteen years after Tricia Reitler's disappearance, Donna and Garry Reitler find themselves still searching for their daughter."You find yourself, when you're driving, looking out the window, and