Chapter 11 ~ Announcing the Engagement
On 17 June 1847 Adams decided to announce his love for Kudnarto within white society in the most public manner possible. He gave notice to the Deputy Registrar of Births, Deaths and Marriages that he intended to marry Kudnarto and make her his lawfully wedded wife under British law. This announcement was aimed the legalisation of a domestic relationship that already existed only in terms of white law. It had little meaning in Kaurna law.
Viewed from Kudnarto's eyes, their lifestyle indicated that they already shared a married life. As Moorhouse observed after questioning Kudnarto:
Kudnarto considered that under Kaurna law, their marriage had occurred and been consummated at the time when Adams negotiated with her husband for exclusive rights to her. Only to please Adams' sensibilities did Kudnarto consent to marry him.
Undoubtedly, Adams felt the pressure of white society. In polite society, Adams' relationship, and subsequent cohabitation with Kudnarto, never received the appropriate social sanction. Society declined the approval until the conventions of lawful wedlock, (white, that is) became complied with by both people. Until such time of lawful and officially sanctioned matrimony, Adams remained a social pariah.
There is another reason for Adams' strong desire to marry Kudnarto. By this time, Adams had learned from Moorhouse that Kudnarto was entitled to land for cultivation should she apply for it. By his announcement of the engagement, Adams had already foreshadowed his intention to obtain a farm.  A man in his station, the only land he could obtain to farm would be by way of gift. Since land was specifically set aside for the Aborigines by the government, Adams appears to have found out the details of this grant. The thought of becoming a man of substance would have greatly appealed to Adams. Kudnarto was the vehicle to obtain this land.
This is not to suggest that Adams did not have genuine feelings for Kudnarto. Quite the contrary. Adams expressed great joy about his future wife. She was everything he desired. Kudnarto was very attractive. Behind Kudnarto's beauty lay an intelligence that in other circumstances would have remained undiscovered and ignored had she not come to his attention. Consequently other men recognised her intelligence and made similar comments. Coupled with a sharp mind, she was a very amiable woman who made friends with ease. The South Australian Register said:
In another article half a year later, The South Australian Register further commented with the following observation:
Kudnarto put all these characteristics together in one package and as such presented herself as a hard working woman with a plethora of talent.
Even though Kudnarto was a minor, the Deputy Registrar indicated to Adams that there appeared no legal impediments to consecrating the nuptials provided that 21 days' notice be given and that they lodge the appropriate notice. Her status as a minor was no obstacle to his ability to perform the marriage rites and request assent to the vows. Adams duly did give the appropriate notice.
Kudnarto's minority status placed her in another legal difficulty. Under Act No 12 of 1844 designed "to provide for the Protection, Maintenance and Upbringing of Orphans and other Destitute Children of the Aborigines",  Moorhouse as Protector of Aborigines became designated as her legal guardian, even without the consent or knowledge of her parents.  This situation prevailed despite Kudnarto having relatives who approved of the marriage.  The South Australian Register said:
At no stage does Moorhouse acknowledge the existence of Kudnarto's family or relatives. Despite the legal impediment of Kudnarto's minor status, Moorhouse approved of the marriage. This was just one instance where the rights of Aborigines as British Subjects were prescribed in a manner not applied to the whites of the colony during this time.
Between the period of announcing their intention to marry and the solemnisation of the contract, some six months elapsed. During this time, Kudnarto attended the Native School in Adelaide. Adams wanted Kudnarto to learn the methods of good, European household management techniques. During this time, Kudnarto learned 'the arts of domestic life and household duties'.  She learned dress making and the art of European cleanliness. Along with her domestic tuition, she received lessons in English. Her oral English was of good standard at the end of her training  but at that moment she was still functionally illiterate. The evidence of this assertion is her signature placed upon the Marriage Certificate. Instead of signing she placed a cross signifying that she was unable to write or sign her name in English but indicating that she was capable of giving full assent.  However, she felt ready for her marriage to Adams under white law. 
During this time period, it appears that Adams' drinking habits must have come to the notice of Moorhouse . From subsequent information it seems as though the drinking of alcohol was unrestrained. There is evidence that Moorhouse counselled Adams about his drinking. In one letter to Moorhouse , Adams writes on 6 February 1848, some ten days after his wedding the following statement:
These words tend to indicate that prior to this date, Adams was unable to control his drinking habit. Furthermore, his drinking habit seems to have resulted from his relatively low status accorded to him by white society. It appears that he was relatively unpopular with people around him. In the same letter he reveals his perceived acceptability when he candidly states:
During this time period, Moorhouse speaks very poorly of Adams. Because of Moorhouse 's relatively puritanical streak, especially where shepherds are concerned, he tries his hardest to avoid speaking about Adams. However, in his two representations to the Governor on behalf of Kudnarto, he uses the same formula of words: "about Adams I have noting to say."  During this period of acquaintance, Moorhouse tolerated Adams but no more than that situation existed between the two men.
1. Letter dated 17 June 1847, GRG 52/7/1, p. 196. Return to text
2. The South Australian Register , 23 June 1847. Adams made a resolution to buy a "good outfit with his savings". Return to text
3. The South Australian Register , 23 June 1847. Return to text
4. The South Australian Register , 28 January 1848. Return to text
5. Act No. 12, 7o & 8o Victoria, Long Title. Return to text
6. Act No. 12, 7o & 8o Victoria, Section I. Return to text
7. The South Australian Register , 23 June 1847. Return to text
8. Note attached to letter dated 17 June 1847, GRG 24/6, A (1847) 679½. Return to text
9. The South Australian Register , 23 June 1847. Return to text
10. The South Australian Register , 28 January 1848. Return to text
11. Marriage Certificate, Certificate Number 333, issued on 27 January 1848. Return to text
12. Letter dated 17 June 1847, GRG 52/7/1, p. 196. Return to text
13. Letter dated 6 February 1848, GRG 24/6 A (1848) 196. Return to text
14. Letter dated 6 February 1848, GRG 24/6 A (1848) 196. Return to text
15. Letter dated 17 June 1847, GRG 52/7/1, p. 196. Return to text
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