Talking to young people
1. Get the facts
Booklet, so that you can help your young person with the most accurate information.
2. Be clear about your own beliefs
Get clear about your views on the use of alcohol and other drugs. For example, it’s up to you whether your under 18 is allowed to drink alcohol or not.
To help you make this decision, check out the Australian alcohol guidelines. They state that the safest option for people under 18 is not to drink.8
3. Stay calm
Keep things casual and relaxed. You could use media stories, social media posts or themes from popular movies or TV shows as a prompt to start a chat. Try to have the conversation in a quiet spot or when you’re doing something together, like driving or making a meal. Remember, there’s no limit to the number of conversations you can have.
4. Avoid judging or lecturing
Find out what your young person thinks about alcohol and other drugs. Ask what they’d do in different situations and listen to their opinions. Remain open and keep your body language and tone respectful - this can go a long way to encourage an open conversation.
Most importantly, listen to their opinions and ensure your young person knows they can talk to you about any concerns they have; at any time.9
5. Focus on their health
Focus on how you care about them and want them to be healthy. Don’t use exaggerated statements about the dangers as it will make you appear less knowledgeable. Talk about why people may want to use alcohol and drugs as well as discussing the harms.
6. Set rules and consequences
Explain your views on alcohol and other drugs and use the facts to back them up. Establish clear rules and consequences for breaking them.
7. Help them to navigate tricky situations
Give your young person some strategies to help them get out of situations where they may feel pressured to use alcohol or other drugs. You could let them know that you are always available to pick them up if they are feeling uncomfortable. More information on peer pressure and how to say no.
A word of caution
No matter how tempting it may be, if you think your young person may have tried alcohol or other drugs, avoid accusations. Going through their room or bags, looking for evidence isn’t recommended - it will only undermine trust.
The Other Talk
Helping you have conversations with young people about alcohol and other drugs.
Alcohol & young people
Adolescence is a time when positive steps can be taken to reduce the potential for alcohol related harms.
It’s natural to worry and wonder what you can do to help keep your child safe as they encounter alcohol and other drugs in their party scene.