على حسن السعدنى يكتب :ÇáăÍÇĎËĺ etiquette and speech
- Good conduct, which follow always comes positive results in any position of attitudes, especially in the so-called modern art ...
Was not aware of a lot or does not know how to manage a conversation with the other party or parties.
- The Art of Conversation
Talk or conversation is the art or the art of social specifically, through observation and experiment is possible that a person becomes shy person skilled in the management of any discussion with a group and not with one individual only specific ... Can you imagine the courage that it will arrive this person to follow him etiquette rules for others to wrap around you to exchange views on the subject of a public or private. It is the primary rules would be nice interested in the words of others.
Social and find the person who meets the recipe is important to listen to non-interest and leave them the opportunity to talk and even make them feel their importance and this will earn points to your advantage.
- To start a conversation
How to start a dialogue with the person? Talking about the place where you are, or why you are in it (either to meet with friends or others), to talk about memories with friends or an event with someone you know. If you at Valamadifah concert could be the focus of your words. Does not require you speak a lot so they look nice, orientation always given to the person who speaks through the guidance of some of the questions on the subject, which spins in front of you to help stay as long as possible, as it reflects the interest and attention of others. And follow-up does not come in dialogue verbal, but the follow-up to the eyes and to make some changes and facial expressions, which are much better than the speech in some cases.
Long storytelling may not be in your favor or in favor of Iksa because you monopolize the entire modern nor given the opportunity to others. But in some cases may not be able to escape from these stories long if the person who there in front of you tells his accident. In this case, to break the monotony of modern directed questions for people listeners whether they have gone through such events before. Not sleep and calm around you means including interest or that the person is saying anything to him but it may mean boredom ... To get away from hearing embarrassing remarks such as "Done talking" You develop a sense of discrimination have whether someone else bored of talking or not and to draw the line.
- The province during the conversation
County talk may be one of the most dilemmas that do not make you look like a successful communicator, try not to cross talk as much as possible ... If a new person joined the group and share new topic you resume the old talk again. When you return to be telling that person is the subject of conversation.
When the novel something painful happened to you or someone else without your knowledge that something similar has happened to one of those present Alyan someone else draws your attention, you reference either to apologize or by saying "Sorry, I do not know that." Then managed to talk in another direction any change the subject.
If you cheerful and loves humor that show mockery of something reasonably do not mind it, and another example, if you were invited to eat lunch or dinner in a restaurant or in the house of a friend or when you go to a concert and then showed happy with the particular type of food then I found the main dish in front of you Valaktefa making a smile to your face and forget what you're talking about is the solution to break the impasse.
Another secret of the secrets of modern art is knowing the person who is going to sit and manages discussion with him, and his knowledge of the topics that hold his interest. Daily news and knowledge, especially if you are shy to use when you need because Nqashk must and that seems natural and not Mqahma!
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