If you are a victim of teen dating violence, it may be hard to talk about. Perhaps it isn’t you but you have observed a close friend experience abusive behavior by a boyfriend or girlfriend.
So, what makes a relationship healthy?
* Both people feel respected, supported, and valued
* Both people make decisions together
* Both people have friends and interests outside of the relationship
* Both people settle disagreements with open and honest communication
* Both people respect each other’s privacy and space
What makes a relationship unhealthy?
* One or both people try to change the other
* One person makes most or all of the decisions
* One or both people drop friends and interests outside of the relationship
* One or both people yell, threaten, hit, or throw things during arguments
* One or both people make fun of the other’s opinions or interests
* One or both people keep track of the other all the time by calling, texting, or checking in with friends
What can you do to prevent dating violence?
- First, take some time to think about how you want to be treated in a relationship.
- How do you want to feel about yourself when you with that person?
- Set boundaries about what is acceptable behavior
- Recognize the signs
- If you don’t feel comfortable telling the person you don’t like their behavior, ask for help. Talk to a friend, a parent, teacher, counselor, or someone you can trust.
Take moment to watch this short video about dating violence. Be sure to watch it to the end and scan the code. 🙂
To evaluate your relationship, take one of the quizzes below or share them with a friend.
Getting help is as simple as talking to a friend. Don’t be afraid, embarrassed, or ashamed to ask for help.
24/7 National U.S. Hotlines
Teen Dating Abuse Helpline: 1-866-331-9474
National Sexual Assault Hotline: 1-800-656-4673
Trevor Lifeline (for LGBTQ* youth): 1-866-488-7386
National Suicide Prevention Lifeline: 1-800-273-8255
National Runaway Safeline: 1-800-786-2929
National Domestic Violence Hotline – 1-800-799-7233
National Hotline for Crime Victims: 1-855-484-2846
National Street Harassment Hotline: 1-855-897-5910