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Suggestions from Dr. Brad Schwall, reprinted with permission:
Tragedy Talking Points by Dr. Brad Schwall
- Avoid exposing children to too much media coverage.
- Avoid fostering rumors and speculation about the tragedy.
Age and Stage Responses
- The tragedy is isolated and tragedies like this happen rarely.
- The fact that this tragedy happened does not mean there is an immediate danger where you live.
- Emphasize that safety precautions are in place in schools.
- Reflect what your child may be feeling – “I know this is scary news. It is very sad.”
- Emphasize empathy for the victims – “It is very sad that this happened to those families and children.”
- Teenagers may reflect on the fragile nature of life and the unpredictability of life.
- Validating your child's feelings - it is OK to feel scared or sad
- Emphasizing that your child is safe
- Empathizing with the victims