Writing New Year’s resolutions can be a fun way to help children understand the importance of setting goals. Children like to think about the things they want to do in the future. As parents, we can help them to focus their energy on goals they set for themselves. Set aside some time to sit down with your child and think about New Year’s resolutions. Don’t forget to bring a pen and paper, and go through the steps below to help your children write their New Year’s goals.
- Brainstorm all the possible ideas. For example: Are there any areas your child needs to work on at school? Does your child want to try a new sport or get better at one they currently participate in? Is there room for improvement in anything at home, such as behavior or habits?
- Guide your child child as they set realistic goals. Help your child narrow down their ideas to something as specific and realistically attainable as possible. Don’t set impossible goals – that will only bring frustration and disappointment.
- Write the goals down and then hang them up where they will be seen regularly. Post goals on the bathroom mirror, refrigerator, bulletin board, or other place your child frequently visits to serve as a reminder of the goals they set for themselves.
- Encourage your child and celebrate accomplishments. Don’t forget to notice positive things your child does along the way and be sure to recognize when your child has achieved a goal.
Earn Bonus Points This Year: Set a family New Year’s Resolution. You could resolve to plant a garden this summer, recycle, or to devote one evening per week to a family activity. Support each other as you work towards your goals!
Do you set New Year’s resolutions with your children and/or family? Leave your ideas and any helpful tips you have in the comments.