Does the temperature of the surface of the cupola vary when the ISS is in Earth's shadow, compared to when it is on day side of the Earth? Is it cold to the touch when the ISS in the shadow?
The windows of the Cupola are not made of a single pane.
When not shuttered, the Cupola windows present a four layered front to potential impactors: a debris pane, two pressure panes, and an innner scratch pane. The windows are designed to be completely replaceable in the event of severe damage. (1)
There are electrical window heaters and there is an environmental control system with manual temperature adjustment (2).
The window shutters for debris protection are made of several layers of aluminium and Kevlar/Nextel sheets. When not in use "the shutters are closed to protect the glass from micrometeoroids and orbital debris, and to prevent solar radiation from heating up Cupola or to avoid losing heat to space." (3).
The metallic dome of the Cupola has Goldised Kapton Multi-Layer Insulation blankets.
There is also a Thermal Control System with water supplied from Node High Temperature loop.
So the inner surface of the Cupola is neither too hot nor too cold to touch.
The temperature in the Cupola seems to be quite comfortable.