The Bullying phenomena has been incorporated this past thursday within the list of Public Health Issues in México City.
The Secretary of Social Development in this city Martí Batres has asseverated that
“the only way to eradicate these attitudes in young people is through elevating the economic level of these families. “
He explains how a family with Less MONEY = creates more Tension within which then becomes ‘the basic point’ for them to take care of.
Bullying has been recently en boga here where several talk shows for women are giving ad-vices on how to take care of the child and “prevent bullying” – but none of them had actually approached the point from the perspective of how the entire Family-structure is the source and cause of this within kids that are either victims or perpetrators of ‘bullying’ due to economic-difficulties that get to affect the kid in such a way that they are either playing the ‘violent role’ or the ‘submissive role’ –all manifestations of a polarity wherein a general lack of stability coming from a family environment is existent. Within this we can even go further at looking within the relationships of the parents as a marriage and the internal preferences over one kid or the other that parents ‘tend’ to have and what they create/instigate and eventually imprint within the child’s mind which are, in essence, human relations problems that are often involving economical problems as well.
Consider how a man that doesn’t have a proper job= income gets home exerting their anger and frustration towards his family due to not being able to bring food to the table.
Particularly in México, domestic violence is often linked to a macho society due to ‘him’ being the one that works to ‘bring food on the table’ wherein the woman is then relegated to a second-flight as the care taker – yet these roles are slowly but surely changing in middle class families BUT it is still pretty much ruling over lower class families as ‘traditions’ and ‘cultural values’ are often based on a male-dominant society.
Thus Bullying must be approached from the perspective of how economical problems create mental/emotional instability within the entire family structure – beginning with the relationship parents have, the amount of money that is earned and the sufficiency of it as effective Life Support as this will become the foundation that will shape and affect the children.
Education as the consideration of Equality and what’s best for all remains a theoretical approach in a system and world where people are clearly Not being supported equally money-wise.
The kid then learns the ‘hard ways’ of coping with reality through exerting their anger – copying/coping mechanism from father/mother -and creating a certain stance through abusing others who are then the other side of the coin/polarity manifestation as being submissive and allowing themselves to be subdued by others that represent such ‘imposition’ and ‘dominance’ over others.
Bullying is nothing but a side-effect of Capitalism indeed – the same mechanism is existent within rich and poor people as the essence of it can be translated as a form of abuse and control over others through money within the current set up of the economical system through prices, interests, high rates of inflation and a definitive deficit per capita in under-developed countries which is specifically planned by those that place themselves as the ‘Bullies’ of the system, the rich, the powerful and greedy fuckers that we’ve accepted and allowed to be and become in this world.
Hence, Bullying goes beyond being a conflict between kids in school-years, but it’s an actual revelation of what we’ve accepted and allowed AS ourselves through our economical system which is then creating these type of outflows within children at an early age.
The question and/or point to ponder is
What are these kids going to become at a later stage?
There is this inherent hostility within the system that kids go adhering and ‘adapting’ to in means of survival, this can only generate more violence, hostility, fear, paranoia and hatred between one another
Thus, I agree that Money is a key factor within this problem yet a lot of Self-Education must be generated to understand apparent ‘isolated problems’ within the context of the whole as the reflection of our own ‘inner workings’ in our mind – power play, wanting to be ‘on top’, exerting violence/abuse towards others to obtain a certain place, to be ‘the winner’ –
these are points propagated as ‘values’ that kids ‘must learn in order to ‘defend themselves’= survival of the ‘fittest/strongest’ type of evolutionary bullshit. I heard this many times when hearing parents talking to their male-children according to ‘defending themselves’ from other kids.
We know what we’ve done, we’re seeing the consequences- Now it’s time to walk through the manifested consequences to finally STOP for once and for all.
We Must first lay the base foundation to solve this and all other problems that are usually an outflow of there not being ‘enough money’ to Support All Beings Equally – thus inevitably creating such points of abuse in kids that are the spawn of this savage system creation of Inequality.
Support the Equal Money System
Support Yourself in understanding
how Money affects your every day
living action as ‘who you are’ within
Info taken from: http://www.eluniversal.com.mx/ciudad/105336.html