By: Jessica Drake-Simmons, M.S. CCC-SLP
People are not leaving their houses right now and you know what that is resulting in? A need for lots of cleaning and organizing! This doesn’t have to be a solo effort though! Maybe we can embrace this unique opportunity, where we are being asked to be our children’s teachers, to show our children some new things we don’t normally have time for in everyday life.
Research has found that one of the best predictors of a young adults’ success was whether one participated in household tasks when they were young. Chores help kids have a “pitch-in” mindset, which is an invaluable skill throughout the lifetime. In the book, 50 Tips to Help Students Succeed, Marydee Sklar describes the executive functioning skills that are developed when completing chores including:
- Time management
- Delaying gratification
- Focus and goal-directed behavior
Here is an idea of some of the chores your child might be ready to do by age. The level of assistance a child may need will vary.
Age 2-3: This is a magical age in which your child is so enthusiastic in their desire to “help”! The problem is that “help” feels like anything but help! However, it appears that cultures that embrace and expect children in this age group to participate in household work raise children that are willing and proud contributors to household chores.
- Put toys away
- Throw garbage away
- Put dishes in sink
- Help set the table
- Put dirty clothes in the hamper
- Dust the baseboards
- Fold rags, washcloths and dishcloths
- Make the bed
- Feed the pets
- Pick up toys
- Water the plants
- Wipe cabinets
- Put away dishes they can reach
- Clear and clean table after dinner
- Make easy snacks
- Wipe down doorknobs
- Match socks
- Sweep the kitchen floor
- Empty the dishwasher
- Sweep the hallways
- Mop the kitchen floor
- Organize the mudroom storage area
- Make a simple salad
- Clean room
- Bring in the empty garbage cans
- Put groceries away
- Clean out the car
- Clean room
- Wipe bathroom sink and counters
- Sweep the porch
- Hang, fold and put away clean clothes
- Make scrambled eggs
- Bake cookies
- Clean the toilets (inside and outside)
- Wash your own laundry
- Sweep the garage and driveway
- Wipe down the counters
- Clean the kitchen
- Make a simple meal
Ages 12+: For this age group, help them be proactive in recognizing what needs to be done and initiating a plan for how and when to do it. Work side-by-side on house projects with them.
- Clean the garage
- Mow the lawn
- Wash the car
- Mop the floors
- Wash windows
- Clean bathroom
- Help with simple home repairs
- Cook a complete meal
Tips for success:
- Teach the skills- Don’t expect them to learn it on their own. Break down the task into small steps.
- Help them come up with organizational systems for their belongings that they can maintain with little help from you. Have written labels or pictures to assist in sorting items in different boxes.
- Take a picture of what their clean room (or other designated) area looks like. Encourage them to match the picture when their chore is complete.
- Give them some control, even if that means it’s not done the way you would prefer.
- Assist them in thinking through when they will have time in their schedule to do their chores.
- Help implement designated chores into daily routines.
- Schedule work time and break time.
- Help them recognize how long a chore should take to complete in order to maintain their focus to the task and motivation for completing it in a timely manner.
- Make it fun!
- Play music
- Make it a race or competition
- Create a chore chart or list which will assist experiencing a sense of accomplishment as they complete their chores
- Sometimes incentives might help!
- Have everyone completing chores together
Stay home, stay well, embrace the ones you are socially isolated with and relish in those chores! For more information on Easterseals DuPage & Fox Valley, visit eastersealsdfvr.org.