Every parents wants his child to b a winner. Even though you cannot ensure your
child’s success,you can give him the right tool to build his future. Bring up your child in an atmosphere where he can acquire and develop these tools which serve as an asset of lifetime.
Self management skills:
Let him be independent and organize his daily routine, solve problem of his own, manages his time . In starting may be he face in managing his time or routine you can guide him little but not fully. As the time passes he get the confident to manage his time and lead his life successfully. Let him free to take decision of his own. Gradually your child started differentiating between ‘what is right’ and ‘what is wrong’.
Make a leader out of your child who doesn’t-fear to experiment. Show faith in him and instill in him faith in his abilities by saying ,”I know you can do it”. Your child gain lots of confidence in him and a seed of leadership make its place.
Encourage your child to develop self expression, form and express his views and opinions without the fear of your judgement. Listen to your child’s view and opinion and always appreciate his ideas. Enjoy his thoughts his expression and don’t forget to say “well done beta”.
Exposure and opportunity to make friends and allow your child to deal with all kinds of people will make your child comfortable with people which are required to be successful in both professional and personal life. He will never feel uncomfortable with any type of people and a friendly nature developed in him. And we all know it well that people with friendly nature was liked by all.
Skills to handle failures:
Give your child the gift of positive attitude. Inculcate in your child the confidence to take failures as challange and learn from mistakes rather than letting downfalls stress him out. Always encourage him to think positively ; he will see the light at the end of every tunnel of life.