Most people imagine abusers
to be shadowy and frightening strangers. In fact, most often these
abusers can range from family members to acquaintances and someone
the victim trusts explicitly. Rarely are abusers complete strangers.
Contrary also to what
people may think, a person who abuses a child is usually not someone
with a psychiatric disorder. They are usually indistinguishable
from anyone else. In fact, often an abuser is a "regular"
person who leads a "routine" life and is known to the
victim, but has no inhibition or qualms for having sex with children.
Furthermore, child sexual abusers
do not share any specific common characteristics:-
most abusers are men, women can also be abusers.
4They do not belong to
any particular socio-economic class.
or the lack of it, does not define an abuser.
abuser need not have any psychological/emotional problems.
can be married and have children of their own.
4The abuser may or may
not have history of abuse in his/her childhood.
When abusers plans on targeting a child,
they keep in mind the following factors:
someone who can be safely victimized.
time observing and then tricking the child into performing sexual
acts so that the victim appears to be willing
an apparently "willing victim" through encouragement,
coercion, surveillance, constraint and bribery.