There is a lot to learned about public speaking and making a good first impression. Basically the author states that their father taught them to not use filler words when giving a public speech and sites an example of one time that they had to give a speech and how it went. Using the example helps the author make the point that they can affect the group of people no matter what their social status may be or their current situation.
- Being liked immediately is less important than being memorable and making the other person feel that your interaction has value.
- A genuine smile, a firm handshake and a sense of humor can all be valuable tools for first impressions.
- Getting people to talk about themselves is easier, and often more effective, than trying to press forward with your own message right away.
“The first two things I always make sure to do is deliver a solid handshake and a genuine smile.”