It is normal practice to check these areas, yes. Sounds like the doctor could have explained the process a bit better. At this age, I generally talk to the patient about what I'm going to do and why, then ask for their assent before proceeding.
Pediatric Wellness Exam around PubertyI am trying to find a new pediatrician for my daughter (11y/f). We went to a local female pediatrician, who was nice, albeit a little rushed and pushy. We talked for a little while, and the pediatrician did ask if she had her period yet or not. She has not. Upon physical examination, with little notice (hey I'm going to do this, and then did it) the doctor pulled up my daughter's shirt and bra, and then pulled up her pants at the waistband to look at her vaginal area. My daughter was struggling to not let her do this and is now traumatized by the interaction and felt like she could have given a little more warning. I know that physicians are very busy and have many patients to see, but I feel like I've failed to protect my daughter from this. I would think a conversation asking if she is developing breast tissue or pubic hair would have been just as efficient without stressing my child. Or even saying what she is going to do before doing that kind of exam. Is this a normal practice on a wellness exam? My daughter will not be returning to this doctor.