No problem!
Thank you for the very helpful reply! Im glad you specified what the exam would consist of that was exactly the response I was looking for.Its not so much that I dont feel hes safe or a good doctor, more that I want to be aware. I feel that asking someone involved in the situation with more knowledge than I puts them in a position of power where they could just claim what theyre doing is normal.But again its less the doctor and more about me being suspicious, paranoid, and protective.