Lo and behold she said yes. You’ve finally gotten the chance to take the beautiful woman you see every day on a date. With that being said, it’s time to prepare for your first date with her. Not only does this mean choosing a place to go and making reservations, it means that it’s time to get in shape. Maybe that means working out, but for us, it means you need to get lined up. Here is your checklist for getting everything together for your first date.
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My beloved I am devoted to you.
My love has no words that adequately can express how joyously bound to your soul my own has become over the last twenty years.
You have been for me all I ever needed in friend, companion and in darkest times father to my wounded inner child.
My love for you needed perfect voice. My words and actions seemed paltry and unworthy of you.
Then together our bodies and souls merged and we created perfection.
Here my love is the perfect expression of my trust, care and joy I share with you.
I gave you the best gift I could.
I made you Daddy.
I am sorry I made you wait so long.
I am amazed and humbled daily with your strength and gentleness with her.
You my precious man are so loved, so cherished and found to be so funny, so 'adordable' by your girls.
Happy Father's Day.
And happy anniversary early. I am better because of your love, patience and friendship.
And forgive me my public emoting.
Everyone needs to bask in your awesomeness.


In most businesses there is or has been a situation where two colleagues are in a personal relationship. Although this is incredibly common, there are a number of possible pitfalls for your business. Understanding what these are and considering how you will manage them will help you minimise the impact of personal relationships on your business.
What are the pitfalls?
Most relationships break up eventually and not all amicably. It is not uncommon for parties who used to be in a relationship to end up in a situation where one is alleging sexual harassment against the other. Even if it doesn’t get to that stage, it can be enormously difficult working with someone you’ve had a bad break-up with.
If either party is married or in a long-term relationship outside work, the potential for the workplace relationship to result in personal difficulties impacting on work is higher.
Where one party is a manager and the other a junior, there can be accusations of (or actual) bias and favouritism from other team members, and a risk of confidential management information being disclosed.
Workplace relationships usually result in gossip which can be an enormous source of wasted time and distraction. This is inevitable but increased where relationships are banned or there is a culture of hiding them.
Displays of affection/lack of discretion about the relationship can cause resentment amongst other staff.
So what can you do to minimise the impact of these pitfalls on your business?
1. Accept it will happen
Statistics vary but it is estimated that perhaps a quarter of employees meet a long-term partner at work. Once you look at how many people have had a personal relationship of any length with a colleague, the figure rises to anywhere between 50% and 70%. At some point in your business it will happen that two colleagues become involved with each other on a personal level. Often in smaller businesses there is more socialising together which can make it even more likely. Any business where staff spend time together out of hours increases the likelihood.
2. Don’t attempt to ban it
Placing a blanket ban on personal relationships between colleagues is unrealistic. All that will achieve is a culture of secrecy and gossip, it won’t stop people getting involved with each other. And what would you do if the ban were broken? A dismissal for having a personal relationship likely to be unfair and possibly discriminatory, and a disciplinary warning is unlikely to achieve anything constructive.
3. Remember that employees have a right to a private life
As a rule, you shouldn’t interfere in employees’ private lives, only when their relationships have a negative impact on work, or have the potential to.
4. Consider manager/subordinate relationships carefully
Some organisations mandate that employees in personal relationships cannot be in the same department or report to each other, although this is only manageable in larger organisations and would need to be handled carefully to avoid accusations of unfairness.
In a small business it’s more realistic to consider how the personal relationship might impact negatively and find ways to minimise that. Things to consider include performance management/appraisal, salary decisions and discipline/grievance issues. You may want to see if it’s possible to identify another manager to become involved in these types of situations.
5. Consider guidance on relationships with clients/customers/suppliers
Relationships with external related parties can seem less problematic; there are not the day-to-day issues and the potential fall-out of a break-up seems likely to be less. However relationships with clients/customers/suppliers or similar have their own challenges.
If your employee is involved in a relationship with a supplier and they have decision-making responsibilities with regards to that supplier, there is a conflict of interests there. Think about how relationships with external involved parties could impact on your business and consider what guidance you could put in place to minimise concerns.
6. Be clear about expectations
If you are told, or become aware, that two colleagues are in a relationship, it is probably worth having a discussion with them. Be clear that you are not interfering in their personal lives however you would like to work with them to identify any potential concerns and avoid these. Sensible employees will understand that workplace relationships can be problematic and will be keen to reassure you as to their behaviour, and open to ideas on how to minimise the impact.
Where employees are perhaps less sensible, making clear that you do not expect any negative impact on performance and/or conduct at work, or any negative impact for colleagues, and that performance/conduct problems will be dealt with in the same way as usual, i.e. with performance management/disciplinary action where appropriate.
7. Consider how to manage the aftermath
Make sure you have suitable and up to date grievance and bullying/harassment policies in place. If there are any allegations of sexual harassment, the fact that the parties involved were previously in a relationship should make no difference to how you handle it. Sexual harassment of anyone is a serious matter, whether they are an ex-partner or just a colleague.
Be aware that if one party to a relationship is more junior, they may feel vulnerable. They may feel that they are more likely to be punished in some way for having had a relationship with a colleague – forced out of their job, moved into another department against their will, or treated less favourably in other ways. If there is an allegation of harassment they may worry that they will not be believed.
For more advice or assistance, please get in touch.


Happy Valentine's Day.
As you celebrate your love with your honey, think also about being your own valentine.
Or, as I wrote in my article on Heal Your Life, "Before you shower someone else with love and affection, you need to
bestow love and affection on yourself. Only then can you be a wonderful
Today, I'd like to urge you to be super-sweet to both your special someone and yourself all year long.
In other words, as I put it on "Be an Everyday Valentine" on Heal Your Life, "You want to be a valentine all 365 days
of the year."
Now, see my article to learn four ways to start to Be an Everyday Valentine.


I love being around love. The interactions between partners: the flirting, the smiles, the subtle touches. I find it to be so adorable. I love doing a photo shoot with a couple just because I get to be around a love.
When shooting with a couple, I like to talk with them, get to know who they are as individuals and the couple that they create.
Planning a photoshoot for couples is the most fun! Selecting the most romantic spots around the city or in the mountains is possibly the best part of the preparation of the shoot.


I can't enjoy sex unless I have a connection with someone. We must click, we must have banter. If I meet with someone (usually someone I found online) and they try to have sex with me without making me laugh at least once, I pick up my things and I walk out. I have left many pantless and confused.
And it has to be every time. Laughter is my foreplay.
I matched with a boy on a dating site that looked like a movie star. His photos were professional, and his smile was perfect. Cheeky and alluring. I was almost certain that it was a fake account but I though there was no harm in trying. We decided to meet up that afternoon. I sent a girl friend photos of him, where he was from, his phone number and screen shots of his online profiles. For safety, I always do this. I then tell my friend to call the police if I don't call her by a certain time.
The anticipation made me shiver as I waited for him to drive to my house. He arrived and flashed me that smile and I was instantly excited. I invited him in and we chatted over a glass of water. He told me he was a body builder, so I asked him to show me his poses from competitions. We laughed.
I referred to him as a 'boy' earlier not because of his age, or his looks. He was a 23 years old body builder, he looked like a movie star. But when he spoke he was so sweet, almost innocent. When I teased him he would give me a shy smile, soft laugh and look anywhere apart from my eyes. This made me feel like I could trust him.
I pulled him onto my bed and took off his clothes. Every inch of his body was solid, like a sculpture. And when he held me, it was firm, but not at all painful.
I didn't see him again for a few months because he was focused on competitions. We had arranged to spend the night together, relaxing at his holiday house by the beach, when his competitions were over. I arrived and the time between had obviously made us both nervous. We went for a walk and talked and we were both interested but on edge. Back at the house our first kiss of the night was awkward and fumbled. I was determined, I wanted him, but there was something wrong. I pulled him into the bedroom and pushed him onto the bed. I stared at him for a few moments, and then I left. I needed the laughter.
Sincerely, Moist Mermaid


In a world where artificial intelligence permeates every aspect of our lives, what happens when AI enters the intimate sphere of romance? In Episode 824, we explore the intriguing concept of an AI romantic partner, unraveling both the enchanting possibilities and the complex ethical concerns. We discuss the appeal of AI companionship, the technological advancements that make virtual romance possible, and the potential emotional connections that can be forged. At the same time, we delve into the potential pitfalls, including issues related to authenticity, consent, and the very nature of human connection. Join us as we examine this futuristic concept closer to reality than we might think, raising questions that challenge our understanding of love, relationships, and humanity.


There she stood, wind beneath her tresses, unhinged by the chaos around her. The prevailing misery wasn’t thundering with battle cries and war wounds, it was afire with greed for happiness, a passionate and prosperous life in their own worlds.
All Anamika wanted is to be left alone in peace with her life. She wasn’t vying for the attention of men, let alone earn the wrath of a jealous woman. Yes, she is aware that she is beautiful, she is indeed grateful to her genes, but she has never ever and never will flaunt it to belittle others or avail it for her advantage.
Snehan is the persevering one in the lot, he is in love with Anamika. He is human enough to understand that his love isn’t unconditional, he is rational enough to know that there is no unconditional love in this world, except for the fleeting window of mother’s love for her toddler and perhaps dogs’ love for its caring owners. He waits for the day when she’d understand, reciprocate and embrace his love. He looks up to her to remind himself of all her goodness and why his wait would be worth it.
Kaman though is in conflicting turmoil. He is well aware that it wouldn’t be a difficult task for him to seduce Irshya, he knew all too well about her attention craving vices, but he is possessed by the uphill endeavor of impressing Anamika and win her, to make her belong to him. He guffaws at Snehan, wondering what he has on him and why Anamika would be inclined to even befriend him.
In another world, maybe they could have been great friends, but not so in this one. Irshya knows she doesn’t lack anything, be it beauty or manners, but the insecurities she shelters doesn’t help her confidence. She isn’t able to comprehend why she feels inadequate in Anamika’s company, she envies her aura. Irshya is indeed sensible enough to reach out to her to open up her doubts, seek clarity and extend friendship, but when the eyes of Snehan and Kaman always dart towards Anamika, all Irshya is left with is jealousy and she hates herself for it.
Anamika is cognizant of the undercurrents among her fellow human beings, she yearns to excuse herself from this misery, but she has nowhere to go, no one to reach out to, not even Snehan, and she feels lonely. Sadly she just doesn’t realize that it is this loneliness of her that allures others to her.


In today's interconnected world, social media has become an integral part of our daily lives. It has revolutionized the way we communicate, connect, and share information. However, the rise of social media platforms has also brought about significant changes in the dynamics of relationships. This article explores the effects of social media on relationships, analyzing both the positive and negative impacts it can have on individuals and their connections with others.
Social media has transformed the way people interact and form relationships. It has created both opportunities and challenges, shaping the dynamics between individuals. Let's explore how social media impacts relationships.
Social media platforms provide a vast digital space where individuals can connect with others from all walks of life. It allows for the expansion of social networks beyond geographical boundaries, enabling people to meet and form relationships with individuals they may not have encountered otherwise.
One of the significant benefits of social media in relationships is the ability to communicate instantly. Whether through messaging apps or comments on posts, social media facilitates real-time conversations, breaking down barriers of distance and time zones.
For couples in long-distance relationships, social media platforms offer a lifeline to bridge the physical gap. Video calls, shared photos, and updates on social media allow partners to feel more connected and involved in each other's lives, mitigating some of the challenges posed by distance.
While social media offers avenues for connection, it can also create a false sense of closeness. People often curate and present idealized versions of their lives, leading to unrealistic expectations and comparisons. This can result in a lack of genuine intimacy and connection within relationships.
The fear of missing out (FOMO) is prevalent on social media, where users constantly compare their lives to others. This can lead to relationship dissatisfaction, as individuals may feel that their own relationships are lacking in comparison to the seemingly perfect relationships portrayed on social media.
Social media's pervasive nature can trigger jealousy and insecurity within relationships. Seeing partners interact with others online or receiving attention from third parties can create feelings of jealousy and uncertainty, encouraging couples to look for ways to hack someone’s phone or social media accounts.
Maintaining a healthy balance between sharing and oversharing on social media is essential for relationship well-being. Oversharing personal details or relationship issues can lead to discomfort and potentially damage the trust between partners. Establishing clear boundaries regarding what should and should not be shared is crucial.
Social media raises concerns about privacy and the security of personal information. versharing or inadvertently exposing private details can lead to negative consequences within relationships. It is crucial to be mindful of privacy settings, ensuring that personal information remains protected.
Social media often encourages individuals to present idealized versions of themselves, which can be at odds with authenticity in relationships. It is important to foster genuine connections by embracing vulnerability and open communication, both online and offline.
Also Read: Most dangerous social media apps
Online communication lacks the nuances of face-to-face interactions, increasing the likelihood of misinterpretations and miscommunication. The absence of tone, facial expressions, and body language can lead to misunderstandings and conflicts within relationships.
The anonymity provided by social media can result in cyberbullying and online harassment, which can severely impact relationships. Hurtful comments or actions from third parties can strain relationships and cause emotional distress.
Social media's curated nature often leads to comparisons and unrealistic expectations within relationships. Partners may feel pressured to live up to the portrayals of perfect relationships showcased on social media, which can lead to dissatisfaction and conflict.
To navigate the effects of social media on relationships successfully, it is crucial to develop healthy digital habits. Here are some strategies to consider:
Establishing clear boundaries for social media use within relationships can help manage its impact. Taking regular breaks from social media through digital detoxes allows individuals to reconnect with themselves and their partners offline.
Maintaining open and honest communication is vital when addressing concerns related to social media. Trust-building exercises, such as sharing social media passwords, can foster transparency and alleviate insecurity.
Being mindful of the content consumed and shared on social media can positively influence relationship dynamics. Curating feeds that promote positivity, inspiration, and healthy relationship ideals can contribute to a more supportive digital environment.
Social media has undeniably influenced the dynamics of relationships. While it enhances connectivity and communication, it also introduces challenges related to intimacy, privacy, and conflict. By cultivating healthy digital habits, setting boundaries, and fostering open communication, individuals can navigate the impact of social media on relationships and create more fulfilling connections both online and offline.
Social media can improve relationships by enhancing communication, allowing for long-distance connections, and expanding social networks. It provides opportunities for couples to stay connected and share their lives despite physical distance.
Yes, social media can cause relationship problems. It can lead to issues such as the illusion of connection, FOMO, jealousy, and unrealistic expectations. Miscommunication and conflicts arising from online interactions can also strain relationships.
To maintain privacy on social media while in a relationship, review and adjust your privacy settings. Be mindful of what you share and avoid oversharing personal details or relationship issues. Establish clear boundaries regarding the level of privacy you and your partner are comfortable with.
Reducing the negative effects of social media on your relationship involves setting boundaries, fostering open communication, and practicing digital detoxes. Engage in activities that prioritize quality time with your partner and limit the time spent on social media.
Yes, social media can be a tool for strengthening relationships when used mindfully. It allows for constant communication, sharing of experiences, and the celebration of milestones. By leveraging social media positively, it can contribute to building a stronger connection between partners.
5 months ago
Social media definitely ruins relationships.
5 months ago
This was so important , thanks for talking about this issue! 👏
5 months ago
sounds right to me 🙄
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so my mom bought some crab and she wasn’t ready to cook them yet
so i put them on the ground and yelled “BE FREE MY FELLOW CRUSTACEANS.” and they raised their claws like this
I AM THE CRAB LORD
so damon basically figures out that “elena” kicked a stake towards stefan because she knew the only way he could be stopped was if he was killed
which in turn made stefan suspicious and he figured out there was something off about her since she’d never do that
and then when elena asked him how he figured it out
he said it was because she kissed him and he knew she wouldn’t do that???


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|Title:||Dynamics of Branch and Stem Apical Growth in the Progenies of Plus Pine Trees (Pinus sylvestris L.).|
|Authors:||Shavnin, S. A.|
Montile, A. A.
Montile, A. I.
Golikov, D. Yu.
|Citation:||Shavnin, S. A. Dynamics of Branch and Stem Apical Growth in the Progenies of Plus Pine Trees (Pinus sylvestris L.). / S. A. Shavnin, A. A. Montile, A. I. Montile, D. Yu. Golikov // The Fourth International Scientific Conference Ecology And Geography Of Plants And Plant Communities. – 2018. – P. 197-203.|
|Abstract:||The relationship between the characteristics of the linear growth of branches and stems was studied, as well as the possibility of distinguishing between various Scots pine (Pinus sylvestris L.) genotypes. The objects of research were experimental plantations of the half-sib progenies of pine plus trees aged 10–11 years. The annual increments of the stem and differently oriented branches were measured. Correlation, regression and data analysis methods developed by the authors were used. The time dynamics of the obtained values were studied by comparing the regression line slopes describing the interrelation of axial increments and by analysis of the frequency spectra of the Integral Parameter of Characters Sequence applied earlier. The analysis of the obtained results has shown the existence of a significant relationship between auxiblast linear growth within the two adjacent years and a weak interrelation of the characteristics of branch and stem morphogenesis. The possibility of distinguishing Scots pine half-sib families by comparing the dynamics of branches and stem apical growth is described.|
APICAL GROWTH OF BRANCHES AND STEMS
GENOTYPIC AND PHENOTYPIC VARIABILITY
IMPACT OF ENVIRONMENTAL FACTORS ON GROWTH
MORPHOGENESIS OF WOODY PLANTS
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Dear Dad, I’ve never in my 30 years been mad or upset at you, not ever. At the most I felt sad that you had to deal with mom, or was caught by her web of lies and deceit. I’ve even praised you for your selflessness in letting go of your grip of me as a child to give me a chance to grow up in a normal, stable family. How hard that must have been for you, little did I know your love and ability of running ran deeper than physical, emotional too.
I was actually very happy to see you 19 years ago, with your new family. Your wife at the time was very accepting and loving toward me. Clearly she had such a giving spirit and maybe for that reason she attempted to keep in contact with me after the visit, wish I just noticed how I was talking to her more than you. That should have tipped me off.
It truly saddens me how much our culture or blood lines are connected to alcoholism, addiction and abuse of all kinds. Sure isn’t something people are interest in hearing, not the TeePees or Powwows stories they have in their heads. The truth hurts; something I’ve learned to forgive and let go.
The fact that you have decided to ‘forget’ about your visit 19yrs ago or the children you’ve had since then I am no longer interested in continuing our tight relationship.
I Love you Henry, that I can say honestly. But you were never my true father anyway… you see a true father never leaves, he loves unconditionally, he sacrifices for his kids, he is selfless not selfish. I hope one day you get to know my true Father; he’s like no other and has loved me before day one. So, no hard feelings, they just are not worth it anymore.


I’m not a naturally shy girl, I tend to say what I think and do what I want. That’s me, you either like it or you don’t. So, why can I not be the same in the dating game? If I want to text someone to say hi and to suggest a meet up, why can’t I? Why are there ‘rules’ that say it’s the guy who suggests the second date, or that if the girl texts she’s being too keen and the guy will run a mile?
I’m nearly 30, I’m not 16 anymore. Surely there’s an age limit on dating game play? Or is it all just a myth?
Let me set the scene. I’m a 29 year old woman, very independent, fairly easy going and relaxed in my attitudes to life. Been single for 4 years and so a bit out of practice on the whole dating thing. Actually, that’s a lie, I’ve never really done dating. My relationship history has been a series of relationships of varying length, but with no real dating. Don’t ask me how, that’s just how it happened. In fact, I can count the amount of dates I’ve had on one hand and two of those were when I was 16.
So, after a good few years on my own with a few smatterings of stuff here and there, I decided it might be time to ‘get back out there’. Didn’t really have a set agenda, just thought I’d see how things panned out. I’m still in the ‘thick’ of things but one thing I can’t stand is the whole politics of dating!
If you don’t have a real connection with the other person then fine, no one contacts one another, bish bash bosh. But if you have a connection and both express an interest of seeing one another again....what’s the right thing to do? Depending on who you speak to you get a number of different views;
A male friend told me that if you’re both interested and have both said you are then it doesn’t matter who makes the contact or when. Both adults, just sort yourselves out.
A female friend said that the girl shouldn’t contact too soon after a date, leave it 3-4 days then contact him, men scare easily and a girl shouldn’t be too keen
Another female friend agreed with the male friend.
Finally, another female friend said there is a certain amount of game playing and it was ok for me to make contact after a few days but I should be cool and rather nonchalant in what I said...i.e make it clear you’re not hanging around waiting for him and you have your own stuff going on too, make him think that maybe he’d like to be part of that stuff.
I have a number of opinions on all of the above!
Male Friend & 3rd Female Friend: Agree completely, I’m nearly 30 for crying out loud!
1st Female friend: If he’s not contacted me by 3-4 days, I’m not contacting him as it’s clear he’s not interested and it’s just awkward. And as for men scaring easily, well I don’t want a guy who scares easily!
4th Female Friend: Agree to a certain extent, although I don’t really like the game playing...but I do agree it happens, although why it happens past the age of about 19 I have NO idea.
The way I see it, if there’s too much game playing going on then you’ll never get anywhere. If he plays it cool and I play it cool, then we both end up out in the cold. He should know from spending time with me on the date that I’m not exactly the shy and retiring type. It shouldn’t be a great shock to him if I make contact. What it comes down to I suppose is finding someone who’s happy with that, with me, and the way I am. I can’t be bothered playing games, life is too short to be worrying about what people think about my actions.
As for finding a person who’s happy with me and how I am....well, that’s a whole other world!
My quest continues.....!


Jake wrote:See? He doesn't actually want to give her the picture back. He's just making silly excuses to trick her into thinking he's not that into her. It's a classic guy move, and one that I used effectively in the past. (A little too effectively -- just ask Jolie!) Chicks dig it when dudes play hard to get.
Errrr...so you think. nuh uh. nope. never.


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Intimate relationships are central to our human experience. There is no other more powerful emotionally challenging experience than being in close relation to another human being. Although relationships can bring about many positive benefits and fulfill many deep emotional needs, relationships can also bring about conflict, pain, disharmony and a high degree of emotionality. In many ways, relationship difficulties can serve as an opportunity for profound individual and couple growth.
Once you and your partner recognize that there is a problem in the relationship, you are invited to participate together in a growth process. In a non-judgmental, safe and compassionate setting, the therapeutic process begins. An initial assessment of the couple allows the psychologist to better understand the root of your difficulties and set out a customized intervention or treatment plan. The therapy is based on the models of emotion-focused therapy (Johnson & Greenberg) and Imago relationship therapy (Hendrix). The approach is brief and solution-oriented. To facilitate the therapy, homework assignments are given between weekly sessions.
- Realize the importance of commitment and learn ways to engage yourself and your partner in the process.
- Learn how to relate to each other with respect, acceptance and without judging. The blaming, criticizing and power struggles that may have characterized your relationship will be replaced by understanding, acceptance and compassion. The healing process begins once you both feel safe with each other.
- Learn how a powerful communication technique called the dialogue can create a feeling of safety within the couple, and allow both of you to express whatever is on your mind, without ever feeling judged or interrupted. Being heard and respected is known to be an essential component of bringing a couple closer together.
- Identify your and your partner’s basic needs and find direct ways to meet those needs.
- Discover and understand each other’s emotional triggers. This enables you both to cease viewing the other as an antagonist who intentionally seeks to hurt, but rather as a person whose inner wounds are making him or her react in fear. This will generate compassion towards each other.
- Learn to use fair fighting strategies when conflict arises.
- Develop key techniques to build on the strengths of your relationship and enhance the intimate connection within the couple.
- Create quality time together and build on success through activity structuring, time management and priority setting.
- Learn to be fond of each other and fall in love again.
- Prevent relapses of conflict by developing successful strategies to use on your own.
The aim is for the couple to move from an “unconscious marriage” to a “conscious marriage”: a state of enlightenment and greater awareness. As the reasons you attracted each other in life become clear, you learn to work as team mates to support the growth of the couple and of the individual within the couple. Finally, the expectation is that you will rekindle the passion of being together as the feelings of love, support and respect become predominant.
Stéphane Bensoussan specializes in helping individuals and couples who are experiencing the following conditions:
- General Marital Dissatisfaction and Conflict
- Emotional and Psychological Abuse
- Communication Difficulties
- Anger and Resentment
- Jealousy and Insecurity
- Handling Stressful Life Events
- Preparation for Separation/Divorce
- Interference from Extended Family
- Reconstituted Marriages
- Sexual Difficulties
- Preparation for Marriage
- Family Planning


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In love with Pasta @Pizzahut
When we talk about being made-for-each other, we usually hint at something two people have inevitably common opinion about.
We both ,'We' means Hubby-n-Me; I guess you all should know that by NOW!!, instantly knew we were made-for-each other when we first met at Pizza-hut and ordered for Pasta instead of Pizza. Smile/laugh all you want but that's True,we clicked over food especially Italian Pasta. Why you think I changed the blog title from 'The Stories' to 'Crazy Foodie's on Toes'?? ;)
We first met in Pizza-hut, discussed about each other over garlic bread, agreed to marry each other over pasta garden salad and Veg Caesar salad, ceased the deal for us.
We went back there last weekend to celebrate our one year of togetherness and we fell in love all over again.
|Cheese Garlic Bread|
|Veg. Caesar Salad|
Kindly note this, Pizza-hut offers Veg Caesar salad, just ask them not to add the chicken pieces.They do it happily for you my vegetarian fellow-mates.
|White Sauce Spaghetti Pasta with Mushrooms|
A sweet conversation should end on a sweet dessert, Tiramisu of-course again Italian :) :) :)


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The name is literal. This is the ultimate social experiment when it comes to match making. Would you trust and expert to find you your soul mate? but wait there's a twist! The first time you meet that person is on your wedding day!


Positive and professional counselling for couples
Do you yearn for more intimacy and emotional connection in your relationship? Do you miss the feeling of togetherness that you and your partner felt when you first met?
Our Focus is to provide you with caring, professional, positive, effective counselling to help you get the love you want and keep the love you experience.
I use an attachment based approach in my work with couples which is influenced by the model developed by Sue Johnson. EFT (Emotionally Focused Therapy) is a structured and evidence-based therapy that helps couples in distress better understand themselves and their partners. It focuses on strengthening the bonds in relationships and helps them reconnect.
Sue describes the dysfunctional pattern that couples often find themselves in as ‘cycles’ and uses dancing metaphors.
In your journey to discover what gets in the way of reconnecting, together we will examine the cycle that you’re in, explore what happens for each of you and how to change it.
Research indicates that couples who are experiencing difficulties in their relationship wait 6 years before seeking help. There is further research that 70-75% of couples who engage in EFT therapy are less distressed in their relationships and almost 90% experience significant improvement in getting their relationship back on track.
You can find out more about this highly effective way of working with couples on the EFT website if you click on this link:


In the context of this relationship, are their times when the two of you get into arguments that feel in significant ways as though you are having the same fight over and over? That is:
- Do you address the same issues or topics repeatedly without resolution?
- Do you each try to show the other how they are wrong or bad?
- Are you both unhappy with the outcome?
- Are you each willing to look at what this pattern is doing and try to find a better way to build your relationship?
Then we suggest you start with the module of Taking a Time-Out. You may find that the two of you are in such conflict that you can’t do this. But if you able to work together, the discipline of doing the Time Out will create a sense of safety and support that will free up energy.
If you can do the Time Out together follow the sequence from there. If you can’t, come back here for a slightly different sequence.
In order to understand the theory for this work, you may want to work through the module on Fighting without Fighting. If you don’t need to know why you are doing the exercises, you may go straight to New Ways of Being.
Once you have found the New Way of Being for you you may be ready to go back to the Time Out and try it again. The clarity that the New Way of Being will give you may ground you enough that you can address issues with your partner without fighting.


Happy 23rd Birthday Dylan O’Brien! (August 26th, 1991)
Favorite Movies: The Proposal (2009)"Three days ago, I loathed you. I used to dream about you getting hit by a cab. Then we had our little adventure up in Alaska and things started to changed. Things changed when we kissed. And when you told me about your tattoo. Even when you checked me out when we were naked. But I didn’t realize any of this, until I was standing alone… in a barn… wifeless. Now, you could imagine my disappointment when it suddenly dawned on me that the woman I love is about to be kicked out of the country. So Margaret, marry me, because I’d like to date you."
im actually really afraid that no one will fall in love with me
❝I’ve had every part of my life dissected — my choices, my actions, my words, my body, my style, my music. When you live your life under that kind of scrutiny, you can either let it break you, or you can get really good at dodging punches. And when one lands, you know how to deal with it. And I guess the way that I deal with it is to shake it off.❞
Dylan O’Brien during The Maze Runner UK Press Tour
i love poetry, teal blue, lana del rey and you


This is where I share my love of needlework, sewing, and all things books.
Hello Debbie,I hope you had a nice Valentine's Day ... and have a greatvdaybtoday!Love, Carolien
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In my headcanon they did.
So tell mom over there, won't you..
to not worry about me!
So Tell Mom Over There, Won't You... To Not Worry About Me!!!Got It.. I'll Tell Her Everything...
'I like you… a lot.'
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About Connect Psychology
Psychological Therapy in Sydney
Connect Psychology Practice prioritises the establishment of a safe relationship between you and your psychologist. We value kindness, compassion, holistic and integrated support - working from the question of 'what happened to you?' as opposed to 'what is wrong with you?'
“Connection is the energy that exists between people when they feel seen, heard, and valued; when they can give and receive without judgment; and when they derive sustenance and strength from the relationship.”
Dr. Brene Brown
Connect is all-encompassing: encouraging healthy relationships between you and chosen others; a synergy between body and mind; and an opportunity to (re)script your own narrative.
Therapy is personalised to the individual, but can include approaches such as:
Eye Movement Desensitisation and Reprocessing Therapy (EMDR).
Acceptance and commitment Therapy (ACT)
Cognitive Behaviour Therapy (CBT)
Narrative therapy and Narrative Exposure therapy (NET)
Combining the wisdom of your body's existing knowledge - with modern psychological expertise creates - an innovative approach to mental wellbeing that is Connect Psychology in practice.


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Seventeen-year-old Naseema (Samina Awan) is a young Muslim woman keen to make something of her life. Taking a job in a local decorating shop, she is attracted to Adam (Tom Hudson), whose blinkered racism is encouraged by his family and friends. Naseema’s older brother Yousef (Wasim Zakir) is sick of putting up with bigots in the town, confronting the violence he is met with, and is insistent that his sister conform to his idea of what a good Muslim girl should be. But his attitude toward race, religion and women is revealed as questionable when he embarks on a relationship with the feisty Michelle (Nichola Burley).
The debut feature from director Dominic Savage, Love + Hate is a passionate and provocative love story that makes pertinent points about race relations in 21st century Britain.


This ministry arm of DGGC focusses on building and strengthening practical and exiting marriages in the church that will proclaim and reflect the gospel to the society and become a model for the entire society. We believed that a great and exiting marriage is possible and that is the kind of marriage that Jesus instituted between a man and the woman and the church and Christ. Children raised in this kind of marriage will impact positively in the society and bring glory to the name of the Lord. A united, loved and peaceful family built on this premise will build a stronger and united church, community and the world in general.
DGGC Marriage and Counselling Ministry is headed by a Director. The effective counselling programmes cover the following areas;
- Pre-Marital Counselling: Major focus here is targeted at couples intending to get married to help them ensure a marriage that last and thrives for a lifetime.
- Marital Counselling: The focus here are married couples to enrich marriages and further strengthen the pre-marital counselling now that they are married and are possibly facing the challenges of staying together.
- Single Parents/Widows/widowers: single parenthood resulting from demised of a partner or separation of partners often results in leaving a single parent to be spiritually hungry because of both emotional, physical and financial pressure they faced. This counselling ministered scriptural solution to such needs. This include among others welcoming Single- Parents families into all aspect of the church life.If you are in need of marriage counselling, please complete the form brelow to contact our counsellors who are always on standy to rescue failing marriages.
If you are in need of marriage counselling, please complete the form below to contact our marriage counselling team, who are always on standy to rescue marriages in difficulty.
Contact Us With Your Marriage Counselling Needs.


17 different women, 36 crazy children, 0 babies in utero
Adventures, Advice and Questions from a group of Mormon women who met in Queens, NY and have now scattered all over the place.
Thursday, July 17, 2008
From the Tales Inbox: Being the Second Wife
I got married 3 weeks ago. My husband and I were not sealed in the temple, but we are planning on it in a year. My husband was divorced from his first wife but they did not get a temple divorce. I knew this going into the marriage and I told him I was fine with it. Truth is, I really thought I was. But, now that we are married, I am struggling with the fact that he is still married to his first wife. How would you feel? What should I do? Or say?


I did a men's retreat last weekend at Kenai Lake talking about "Intimate Male Relationships" and later that week was able to go back to spend the night with my two youngest boys at the cabin where we did the retreat.
Carving walking sticks. Skipping rocks. Talking about what it means to be a man. Having tender conversations about how their bodies are changing, marriage, adoption, sex, life, manhood, their stories, God's love for them, my love for them, why their legs burn when hiking a steep incline and how that makes their muscles grow. (I'm talking about the time with my boys -- not the men's retreat!).
Laying there on a big bed in the cabin with one boy on each side of me, heads nestled under each arm, each trying to get as close to me as they could . . . I had to walk into my own sadness and loneliness as I observed them drinking so deeply from an emotional, spiritual, and physical closeness with me I never experienced with my own absent dad. It was rich and wonderful. Sad and lonely. Glad.
We hiked . . .
We talked about what it means to persevere as a man when you want to quit . . .
We rested . . .
We explored . . .
We ate the food of being together . . .
And we celebrated!


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This is Us
It all began in Upstate New York, 2004…
Boy meets girl. Girl thinks boy is annoying. Boy steals girls phone number and begs her to go out on one date with him. Girl eventually caves and agrees to the date.
Fast forward one year later. Boy gets a job in Minnesota and asks the girl to move with him. Girl agrees and so their adventure begins.
Fast forward seven years. Boy and girl are married with a little girl and new baby boy. Life is not what they expected. With all of the love that comes with being new parents and husband and wife, also comes all of the stress and frustration.
Another nine years ahead. In a very unexpected turn of events the boy finds himself without a job for the first time in his life. In an effort to preserve sanity and creativity, the boy and girl decide to develop their very own podcast.
It Goes Both Ways is born!
This podcast is a way to share our marriage misadventures, parenting hits and misses and every other humiliating and sarcastic story along the way.
Steve and Kristy…Kristy and Steve


Dear Kelli, Charles, Owen, & Eloise,
Thank you for the charming visit.
We loved sharing our lives with you. And we loved receiving tangible bites of yours, courtesy of Charles's homemade bread (which we are still savoring).
We loved seeing our hand-me-downs on clever, new people.
And we loved sharing this last weekend with you. Thank you for visiting.
Aimee, Joel, Adelaide & Henry.


F.U.E.L. - Faith Unleased in Every day Life (Grades 6-12)
We want to help youth develop a relationship with God and grow healthy, positive relationships with each other. We also want to teach them how to help out in our community and serve in the church as a part of the body of Christ.
MEETING TIME: Both middle school and high school meet on Wednesday night.
- Grades 6-8 meets from 6:00 till 7:30
- Grades 9-12 meets from 7:00 till 8:30
In Novermber, our students went on a weekend retreat to Trout Lake Camp in Minnesota. The students had a great time building relationships, playing camp games, and growing closer to Jesus. Here are a few pictures highlighting out trip.


On Sunday between Sunday school and church three of my new friends drew pictures with me in my sketchbook. Thank you Kathleen, Evie, and Blake! I had fun with you.
When I was little, my great-aunt Lucille gave me the gift of her time. She spent moments with me that made me feel special. I think of her now when I get to interact with children. Hopefully passing it on.


Yesterday was celebrated by people the world over as a special day to honor specific loved ones.
Do we walk in love with the specific loved ones everyday? Do we kiss that person and curse that person with the same mouth? Let's strive for consistency in our love walk. "Father we pray to walk in love all day, every day even when we don't feel particularly loving. It should not be that we put on love and take it off like a piece of clothing. Teach us to love with Your kind of love. In Jesus' name, Amen!!"


National Domestic Violence Fatality Review Initiative Webinar Series
Domestic Violence Fatality Review: State of the Art
Dr. Neil Websdale explores the historical origins of domestic violence fatality review, the philosophies that informed its development, the geographical spread of teams, team membership and the involvement of community members and those close to victims and perpetrators, the practicalities of reviewing cases, the outcomes of review work including report writing, and the relationship between our interventions into cases of intimate partner violence and declining rates of intimate partner homicide.
Register at: http://bit.ly/NDVFRI_webinarpart1
The Role of Collateral Interviews in Conducting Fatality Reviews
Dr. Kathleen Ferraro explores the benefits and practicalities of conducting collateral interviews to expand our understanding of the lives of victims and perpetrators in fatality reviews. She discusses interviewing family members of decedents and perpetrators, male and female perpetrators of intimate partner homicide, survivors in cases of near-death, and others such as neighbors, friends, and co-workers. Her analysis includes the possible role of trauma in the interviewing process and ways in which interview data contribute to the overall process of domestic violence fatality review.
Register at: http://bit.ly/NDVFRI_webinarpart2
Intimate Partner Violence-Related Public (Non-Felony) Mass and Spree Killings
Dr. Websdale will define mass and spree killing and explain the differences between familicidal, felonious, and non-felony related forms of these offenses. The Webinar will concentrate on “public” mass and spree killings. Dr. Websdale focuses on two types of cases: 1) Those in which the complex dynamics of intimate partner violence appear to be a significant trigger or precipitant of killings. These cases involve offenders killing or attempting to kill former or current spouses/partners and/or those such as family law attorneys, allied professionals, and/or friends who may have supported the spouse or partner; and, 2) Those public mass killings, usually shootings, where intimate partner violence forms but one aspect of the case but may nevertheless be helpful in developing an understanding of the killings. Dr. Websdale will use case studies, illustrations, and excerpts to flesh out themes across case types, examining, for example, the gendering of these offenses, the signaling of offenses, histories of intimate terrorism, planning and preparation, the possible role of mental illness, the social isolation of offenders, fascination and proficiency with weaponry, threatening changes in the life circumstances of offenders, and the role of suicidal feelings, depression, rage, extreme hatred, and vengefulness.
Register at: http://bit.ly/NDVFRI_webinarpart3


In the world of marriage, love and commitment are the pillars that hold a relationship together. However, when it comes to handling money matters, even the strongest unions can be tested. Financial stress is a common cause of tension and conflict between partners, and navigating these issues can challenge the most loving of couples. But fear not, as there are ways to handle these stormy waters with grace and overcome the turbulence that money can bring into a relationship.
In this article, we will explore practical tips and strategies for managing marriage and money issues with sensitivity. From effective communication techniques to creating a solid financial plan, we will provide valuable insights to empower couples to weather the storm with ease. We will also delve into the emotional aspects of money and how it can influence our relationships, sharing techniques to foster understanding and collaboration. So if you’re ready to navigate the complexities of marriage and money, join us on this journey towards financial harmony.
The importance of communication in marriage
Communication is the cornerstone of any successful marriage, and when it comes to money matters, it becomes even more crucial. Open and honest communication about finances can help build trust and understanding between partners. It is essential to discuss financial goals, values, and expectations early on in the relationship to avoid conflicts down the line.
One effective communication technique is to schedule regular money talks. Set aside specific times to discuss your financial situation, budget, and any concerns or goals you may have. During these conversations, it’s important to actively listen to your partner without judgment and express your thoughts and feelings in a calm and respectful manner. Remember, the goal is to work together as a team and find common ground.
Another vital aspect of communication is being transparent about your individual spending habits and financial histories. Sharing this information can help both partners understand each other’s financial strengths and weaknesses and make informed decisions as a couple. It’s also crucial to keep the lines of communication open during difficult times. If financial stress is causing tension, don’t be afraid to seek support and guidance from each other or from a professional financial advisor or counselor.
Common money issues in marriage
Money issues in marriage can manifest in various ways and can be a source of significant stress. Some common money issues include disagreements over spending habits, different financial priorities, debt, and unequal contributions to household expenses. Understanding these common challenges can help couples address and resolve them more effectively.
One common source of conflict in marriage is differing spending habits. It’s not uncommon for partners to have different approaches when it comes to money, such as being a spender or a saver. These differences can lead to tension and arguments if not addressed and managed properly. Couples can overcome this by finding a middle ground and establishing a budget that accommodates both partners’ needs and desires.
Another issue that often arises is having different financial priorities. One partner may prioritize saving for the future, while the other may prioritize enjoying the present. Finding a balance between these priorities is crucial for financial harmony. Keep in mind that both priorities are critical for a healthy and thriving life together. The trick is finding the way to balance the needs and wants that you have today with the needs and the wants that you will have in the future. To do this, it is important to have open discussions about short-term and long-term goals and work together to create a financial plan that aligns with both partners’ aspirations.
Debt can also be a significant source of stress in a marriage. Whether it’s student loans, credit card debt, or mortgages, the burden of debt can strain a relationship. It’s essential to address and manage debt together as a couple, creating a plan to pay it off and prevent it from becoming a recurring issue. This may involve making sacrifices and adjusting spending habits, but the long-term financial freedom and peace of mind are worth it.
Lastly, unequal contributions to household expenses can create resentment and strain a marriage. It’s vital to establish a fair and equitable system for managing expenses, taking into account each partner’s income and financial responsibilities. This may involve dividing expenses proportionally or finding alternative arrangements that work for both partners. The key is to have open and honest conversations about financial contributions to avoid feelings of unfairness.
Understanding each other’s financial values and goals
To effectively manage marriage and money issues, it’s crucial to understand each other’s financial values and goals. Money can hold different meanings for different individuals, and these underlying beliefs can influence how we handle finances in a relationship. Taking the time to understand and respect each other’s financial values is essential for fostering a healthy financial partnership.
One way to gain insight into your partner’s financial values is by discussing your upbringing and experiences with money. Our childhood experiences often shape our attitudes towards finances, and understanding these influences can help us better understand our partner’s perspective. Share stories about your family’s financial habits, successes, and struggles to gain a deeper understanding of each other.
It’s also important to discuss your individual financial goals and aspirations. What are your dreams for the future? Do you want to own a home, travel, or retire early? Sharing these goals can help align your financial plans and make joint decisions that support both partners’ aspirations. This process may require compromise and negotiation, but it lays the foundation for a shared vision of the future.
In addition to understanding each other’s financial values and goals, it’s crucial to establish a sense of financial autonomy and independence within the partnership. While joint financial planning is essential, it’s also important for each partner to have some personal financial freedom. This can help maintain a sense of individuality and prevent feelings of control or dependency. Finding the right balance between joint and individual finances is key to a harmonious financial partnership.
Creating a joint budget and financial plan
Creating a joint budget and financial plan is a fundamental step towards managing marriage and money issues. A budget serves as a roadmap for your financial journey, helping you track your income, expenses, and savings. It provides clarity and structure, allowing you to make informed decisions about your finances as a couple.
Start by gathering all relevant financial information, including income, expenses, debts, and savings. This will give you a comprehensive overview of your financial situation as a couple. Next, identify your shared financial goals and prioritize them based on importance and feasibility. These goals may include saving for a down payment on a house, paying off debt, or building an emergency fund.
Once you have a clear understanding of your financial situation and goals, you can allocate your income accordingly. Determine how much money needs to be set aside for necessary expenses, such as housing, utilities, and groceries. Then, allocate funds towards your financial goals, such as saving for retirement or a vacation. Finally, set aside a portion of your income for discretionary spending, allowing each partner to have some financial freedom.
Remember, a budget is a flexible tool that can be adjusted as your circumstances change. Regularly review and reassess your budget to ensure it aligns with your evolving financial goals and priorities. Make adjustments as necessary and involve both partners in the decision-making process. This collaborative approach can strengthen your financial partnership and foster a sense of shared responsibility.
Dealing with financial disagreements
Even with the best intentions and a solid financial plan, disagreements about money can still arise in a marriage. When faced with a financial disagreement, it’s important to approach the situation with empathy, respect, and a willingness to find a compromise. Here are some strategies for resolving financial conflicts in a constructive manner.
First, take the time to listen to each other’s perspectives without interrupting or becoming defensive. Try to understand the underlying concerns and emotions driving the disagreement. Often, it’s not just about the money but about deeper fears and values. By acknowledging and validating each other’s feelings, you can create a safe space for open and honest communication.
Next, aim for a win-win solution by brainstorming together and exploring alternative options. Look for creative ways to meet both partners’ needs and desires. This may involve finding a middle ground, making trade-offs, or seeking external advice from a financial planner or counselor. Remember, the goal is not to “win” the argument but to find a solution that benefits both partners and strengthens the marriage.
If you find yourselves unable to resolve the conflict on your own, don’t hesitate to seek professional help. A financial advisor or marriage counselor can provide guidance and support, helping you navigate the complexities of marriage and money. They can offer unbiased advice and strategies tailored to your specific situation, helping you find common ground and build a stronger financial partnership.
Seeking professional help and counseling
Sometimes, the challenges of managing marriage and money issues can become overwhelming, and seeking professional help is necessary. Engaging the services of a financial advisor or marriage counselor can provide valuable guidance and support during difficult times.
A financial advisor can help you create a comprehensive financial plan, navigate complex financial situations, and identify strategies to achieve your financial goals. They can provide objective advice and help you make informed decisions about investments, retirement planning, and debt management. A financial advisor can also help you and your partner develop healthy financial habits and improve your overall financial well-being.
Marriage counseling, on the other hand, focuses on improving communication, resolving conflicts, and strengthening the emotional bond between partners. A trained therapist can help you and your partner explore the underlying issues contributing to financial stress and provide tools and techniques to improve your relationship. They can help you develop effective communication skills, manage conflicts, and rebuild trust in the context of your financial challenges.
Remember, seeking professional help is not a sign of weakness but a proactive step towards building a healthier and happier marriage. It demonstrates your commitment to addressing the root causes of your financial struggles and finding long-term solutions. By investing in professional support, you can gain the knowledge and skills needed to navigate the complexities of marriage and money with grace and resilience.
Strategies for managing financial stress in marriage
Financial stress is an inevitable part of life, but it doesn’t have to consume your marriage. By implementing strategies to manage financial stress, you can minimize its impact on your relationship and maintain a sense of harmony. Here are some strategies to help you navigate the storm with grace.
First, practice self-care and prioritize your well-being. Financial stress can take a toll on your mental and emotional health, so it’s important to take time for yourself and engage in activities that bring you joy and relaxation. This can include exercise, meditation, spending time with loved ones, or pursuing hobbies. By taking care of yourself, you’ll be better equipped to handle the challenges that come your way.
Next, focus on gratitude and appreciation. Shift your mindset from scarcity to abundance by acknowledging the positives in your life. Express gratitude for the things you have, both material and non-material. This can help cultivate a sense of contentment and reduce the desire for material possessions that may contribute to financial stress.
Another strategy is to practice effective stress management techniques. Find healthy outlets for stress, such as exercise, journaling, or talking to a trusted friend or family member. Practice deep breathing exercises or meditation to help calm your mind during moments of anxiety or tension. By managing stress effectively, you’ll be able to approach financial challenges with a clear and focused mindset.
Additionally, seek support from your social network. Reach out to friends, family, or support groups who can provide emotional support and guidance during difficult times. Sharing your experiences and hearing others’ perspectives can offer a fresh outlook and provide reassurance that you’re not alone in your struggles. Remember, a problem shared is a problem halved.
Lastly, be patient and kind to yourself and your partner. Financial challenges can be frustrating and take time to overcome. Don’t place unrealistic expectations on yourself or your partner. Instead, practice patience, understanding, and compassion. Focus on progress rather than perfection, and celebrate small victories along the way. By cultivating a supportive and nurturing environment, you can weather the storm together and emerge stronger as a couple.
Finding a balance between individual and joint finances
Finding a balance between individual and joint finances is crucial for a healthy financial partnership. While joint financial planning is important, it’s equally important for each partner to maintain some degree of financial autonomy and independence. Here are some strategies for finding the right balance.
First, establish clear boundaries and expectations regarding individual and joint finances. Discuss how much discretionary spending each partner will have and what expenses will be shared. This can help prevent misunderstandings and conflict down the line. Be open to renegotiating these boundaries as your circumstances change or as new financial goals and priorities arise.
Next, consider maintaining separate bank accounts for individual expenses while also having a joint account for shared expenses. This allows each partner to have control over their personal finances while still contributing to joint financial responsibilities. It provides a sense of autonomy and independence while fostering a collaborative approach to managing household finances.
Another strategy is to establish a system for allocating discretionary funds. Each partner can have a designated amount of money that they can spend freely without consulting the other. This allows for personal financial freedom while still maintaining transparency and accountability within the relationship. It’s important to have open and honest communication about these discretionary funds to avoid any misunderstandings or conflicts.
Lastly, regularly review and reassess your financial arrangements to ensure they still align with your evolving needs and goals. As your financial situation changes, you may need to adjust the balance between individual and joint finances. Regularly discuss your financial goals and aspirations as a couple and make decisions together that support both partners’ desires.
Building trust and transparency in financial matters
Trust and transparency are the foundation of a strong financial partnership. Building trust requires open and honest communication, a willingness to be vulnerable, and a commitment to shared financial goals. Here are some strategies to foster trust and transparency in your marriage.
First, be open and honest about your financial history, including any debts or financial mistakes. Sharing this information can help both partners understand each other’s financial situation and make informed decisions together. It also demonstrates a willingness to be vulnerable and builds a sense of trust in the relationship.
Next, establish shared financial goals and work towards them as a team. This can include saving for a down payment on a house, paying off debt, or investing for retirement. By actively working towards shared goals, you demonstrate your commitment to the partnership and build a sense of trust and collaboration.
Another strategy is to maintain transparency in financial matters. Regularly share financial information, such as account balances, expenses, and investments, with each other. This helps both partners stay informed about the overall financial health of the relationship. Additionally, involve each other in financial decision-making processes, ensuring that both partners have a say and feel empowered.
Lastly, celebrate financial successes together. When you achieve a financial milestone or reach a goal, take the time to acknowledge and celebrate it as a couple. This reinforces the idea that you are a team working towards a common vision. It also provides positive reinforcement and motivation to continue building trust and transparency in your financial partnership.
This information is not intended to be a substitute for specific individualized tax or legal advice. Please discuss your specific situation with a qualified tax or legal professional.
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If you have been in love with Kevin Costner since Robin Hood, Dances with Wolves, For Love of the Game, Message in a Bottle, or any other truly romantic movie, you know the man knows about love. He can certainly portray and convey a great sense of romance and women, including myself since my pre-teen years, have looked up to his male persona because of it.
Personally, my favorite is Robin Hood. Maybe this explains my fascination with The Arrow.
Well, Kevin Costner now has an amazing movie out called Black or White, that tells the love story of his granddaughter. The parents have passed on and there is a fight between the grandparents over the mixed-race child. Now, tell me, don’t you just love him more fighting for his grand daughter and finding ways to push past racial boundaries and showing us that love sees no color!
Check out the trailer for the movie here:
I love this graphic they put together sharing their feelings and thoughts on the movie and the faith and love that inspired it.
What do you think?


~NISHAAN & SUREKHA~
That’s one creative wedding cake. Indian Minions 🙂
The wedding ceremony of Surekha Sahadeva to Nishaan Rooplall took place on 14th August 2016 at the Kendra Hall in Durban, South Africa.
A grand affair that brought together two people and a host of family, friends and well-wishers together to celebrate two people who are very in love.
Their love story, some might say, is something out of a movie. Nishaan and Surekha met each other five years back in East London. What started off as a friendship soon, very quickly blossomed into love and the rest, as they say… is history.
The Picture Story 🙂
Nishaan & Surekha set eyes on each other for the first time on stage. It is here, that he offers his greetings with folded hands. A greeting formally known as Namaste
A smile for the audience as the Master of Ceremonies introduces them as husband and wife.
There definitely has to be fireworks and music after all those rituals. A beautiful moment.
A family photograph complete. That’s just a little under half of Nishaan’s family. Nothing better than a Big Fat Indian Wedding! 🙂
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Sociology Marriage And Family Essay
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The reasons contempt shows up may be because resentment has built up over time, or because there has been a long term break down in communication.
The more positive their perceptions and attitudes were about their marriage and each other, the more stable the marriage. We were in the clear, for now. Here was the unexpected part: The Science of Trust Part I: Early divorce is characterized by the "four horsemen" of bad fighting, whereas later divorce is characterized by lower positive affect in earlier stages of the relationship.
Look, I said it was embarrassing. In an early impact study on the effectiveness of "skills-based relationship education programs designed to help low-income married couples strengthen their relationships and, in turn, to support more stable and more nurturing home environments and more positive outcomes for parents and their children," MDRC reported  "Overall, the program has shown some small positive effects, without clear indications yet no clear negative proof for improving the odds to stay together after 12 months.
Gottman never published a reply to this critique. Heyman, "The hazard of predicting divorce without cross validation"  analyzes 15 divorce prediction models and questions their validity. A central feature of unhappy relationships, notes Gottman, is that couples are stuck in loss-loss loops.
I thought this was why I could never figure out what seemed like second nature to everyone else. For example, the antidote to defensiveness is taking some responsibility for the problem. I looked at some cast iron patio furniture. It was written for students and clinicians and researchers, and I am none of those things.
I … love … bugs. The largest independent evaluation of a marriage education curriculum developed by Gottman, known as "Loving Couples, Loving Children,"  was conducted by Mathematica Policy Research  at nine sites in five states through the federally funded, multi-year Building Strong Families Program study contracted by the U.
Gottman even says that anger is functional in marriage. The multi-year, random assignment study is funded by the U. On the other hand, stable couples handle conflicts in gentle, positive ways, and are supportive of each other.
The antidote to contempt is not a quick fix, but rather creating a culture of appreciation in the relationship. It is five hundred pages of charts and case studies and historical context.
The first time I read the above paragraph, I could feel myself uncoil. The one behavior that happy couples never engage in is contempt. In dialogue there is a lot of positive affect amusement, laughter, affection, empathywhereas in gridlock there is almost no positive affect.
As Gottman explains, conflict is only toxic to a relationship once it becomes gridlocked: When you treat your partner with contempt, it means that you are acting as if your partner is somehow inferior to you.
Couples were asked about their relationship, mutual history, and philosophy towards marriage. When I am in the middle of reading a book that I feel is life-changing, I become completely insufferable in my tunnel vision.
By recognizing both the value and limitations of predictive studies, professionals and the public alike will be served best.
Here is my favourite bombshell from Chapter One: Contempt often comes across in a facial expression there is a distinct dimple created, not a good look.
For example, happy couples do have many more "bids for connection" when together, and much more "turn towards" response, and much, much fewer "turn away" - the most negative reaction. The degree of neutral affect is often overlooked as a predictor of relationship success due to the very fact that the neutral affect is simply neutral.
The therapy aims to increase respect, affection, and closeness, break through and resolve conflict, generate greater understandings, and to keep conflict discussions calm. Relationship According to Dr. Couples dialoguing about a perpetual issue seem to be trying to arrive at a better understanding of the issue, or arrive at some temporary compromise.
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Few issues in family law can create the level of contention that arises when parents battle over child custody. Sadly, this is natural and common as parents love their children, want to raise their children, and carry some degree of animosity toward one another when they separate. When working toward a resolution to a child custody dispute, it is important to know just what a court would consider if the issue was left solely to a judge.
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The public policy of the state is that children are best served when they have a continuing relationship with both of their parents. In fact, it is generally presumed to be in the children’s best interest for both parents to be awarded joint legal and physical custody of the children following divorce.
Unfortunately, sharing joint legal and/or physical custody of their children is not always a workable resolution for parents. As such, family courts in Nevada are tasked with making child custody determinations based on the “best interest” of the child. This is a child-focused concept that gives family courts wide discretion in the type of evidence they may consider and the weight they can give to evidence.
Specifically, the state legislature has identified a non-exhaustive list of factors that a court must consider when reaching a best interest determination. This includes:
(a) ”The wishes of the child if the child is of sufficient age and capacity to form an intelligent preference as to his or her physical custody.”
(b) ”Any nomination of a guardian for the child by a parent.”
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That said, I would be fully aware that Mormonism is going to compel even the best of them to do some truly horrendous stuff at times. If you marry her, you're marrying into a cult, a mild cult as far as cults go, but a cult nonetheless. So I knew what I was getting into when I married him though I secretly hoped he would still convert back. This sub is a great place to do that. Mormons can be pretty crazy without it. Some of my closest family and friends don't truly understand my life as hard as they try. Dating does not necessarily mean an exclusive relationship. Wife finds out, affair continues, but now he is the perfect husband, and she is the perfect wife. Your probably thinking of a sect of the Mormons, I'm sure there is one like that. There will be pressure to go to church, marry in the temple, Yada Yada You will want to make sure you're ready to battle this for years, maybe a lifetime.
But we'd like to have children soon, so I'm looking forward to reading through the archives of your blog to see how you've made it work. Unless you have those same understandings, I'm sad to say the relationship is almost certainly doomed. I ask myself that every day. I am trying to help him stay at the church nth work, I think if I really love him like I always tell him I should let him chose and love him the way he is. All parent-child relationships do. And here's a fabulous musical explanation of how the church came to franchise it's ecclesiastical services and doctrinal instruction in a process known as correlation. Thank you for this site. December 10, at 7: December 10, at December 11, at 6: December 20, at 6: December 10, at 2: December 14, at March 1, at March 8, at 1: March 7, at December 10, at 8: Having dealt with a similar issue all of last week I have a couple things to say.
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Other lazy Mormon girls turn feminist, many thousands of them. I don't want a life of paranoia and loneliness but she is the person I want to be with and I want to ask her the most important question of my life this summer. She is a returned missionary, and won't Marry you if you want to stay atheist. It kills me that we are now diminished to a mere statistic. She got engaged 3 months later. You are expecting him to be like your exes and you want him to be the one to chase you. He's in his second year of residency and we're talking about me leaving everything to get engaged and move up with him. Nothing less will do. Otherwise her family will likely feel incomplete to her.
That's in the footnotes of the polygamy in kirtland and nauvoo essay. I have been dating a neuro surgeon that has his own practice for a few months now. Do you truly believe in temple marriage as a requirement for Celestial attainment. That deal with polygamy explained.


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Book Club Questions by Pam Gray
1. Why do you think Kate's parents have such a closed off relationship with her? How would her life
be different if their relationship had been more open and loving?
2. What role do you think Agnes plays in Ginny's life?
3. Why do you think Arthur was so threatened by Ginny's relationship with Kate?
4. Most 18 year old boys would not form relationships with an elderly neighbor? Why do you think
Jack feels so connected to Ginny?
5. How does Terry's mental illness affect his marriage to Kate?
6. How does Arthur's confession to Kate at Christmas time change their relationship?
7. Alcohol led both Wayne and Terry down a path of self-destruction. Was there anything Kate
could have done to change their path or the way her life was affected by them?
8. What roles to both pets and music play in the book?
9. Ginny and Peter. Kate and Terry. Kate and Jack. How were their relationships similar? How
were their relationships different?
10. The theme of forgiveness runs through the book. Who did Kate have the hardest time