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Here's our general guide for wedding ceremonies. The sequence of events and ceremony timeline are listed below along with our typical script.
Your wedding ceremony should also be an expression of worship, reflecting joy, celebration, community, respect, dignity and love. The Bible gives no specific pattern or order of service to define exactly what should be included, so there is room for your creativity. A primary goal should be to give each guest a clear impression that you, as a couple, have made a solemn, eternal covenant with each other before God. Your wedding ceremony should be a testimony of your lives before God, demonstrating your Christian witness.
Typical Ceremony Timeline and Sequence of Events
- Seating of Guest
- Seating of Honored Guest (Grandparents and Parents)
- Bridal Processional (Bridesmaids, Groomsman, Ring Bearer, Flower Girl)
- Wedding March (Bride and Her Father Enter)
- The Call to Worship (Ministers' Welcoming of the Guest)
- The Opening Prayer
- Congregation is Seated
- Giving Away the Bride
- The Charge to the Bride and Groom
- The Pledge (The I Do's)
- Exchanging Wedding Vows
- Exchanging of the Rings
- Sand Ceremony - optional
- The Pronouncement
- The Kiss
- The Closing Prayer
- Presentation of the Couple
You may write your own personal wedding vows if you'd like. Couples also on occasion ask for specific scripture readings or poems to be read. These certainly can be accommodated, provided the material is appropriate and has been reviewed by us prior to the ceremony.
Here's our Preferred Script
Call to Worship
Dear friends and family, with great affection for David and Kim we have gathered here to witness and bless their union in marriage. To this sacred moment they bring the fullness of their hearts as a treasure and a gift from God to share with one another. They bring the dreams which bind them together in an eternal commitment. They bring their gifts and talents, their unique personalities and spirits, which God will unite together into one being as they build their life together. We rejoice with them in thankfulness to the Lord for creating this union of hearts, built on friendship, respect and love.
Our Father, love has been Your richest and greatest gift to the world. Love between a man and woman which matures into marriage is one of Your most beautiful types of love. Today we celebrate that love. May your blessing be on this wedding service, Father, I pray you’d protect guide and bless David and Kim in their marriage. Surround them, and us, with Your love now and always. Amen.
Giving Away the Bride
Blessed is the couple which comes to the marriage altar with the approval and blessings of their families and friends. Who has the honor of presenting this woman to be married to this man? “Her mother and I do”
Let me charge both of you to remember that your future happiness is to be found in mutual consideration, patience, kindness and affection. David it is your duty to love Kim as yourself, to provide tender leadership and protect her from danger. Kim it is your duty to treat David with respect, to support him and create a healthy and happy home. It is the duty of both of you to find the greatest joy in the company of the other and to remember that both in interest and affection, your are to become one and undivided.
David and Kim, you have made a very serious and important decision in choosing to marry each other today. As I said, You are entering into a sacred covenant as life partners in God. The quality of your marriage will reflect what you put into nurturing this relationship. You have the opportunity to go forward from this day to create a faithful, kind, and tender relationship. We bless you this day. It is up to you to keep the blessings flowing each and every day of your lives together, and we wish for you the wisdom and compassion, to create a peaceful sanctuary in which you can both grow in love.
David, do you understand and accept this responsibility, and do you promise to do your very best each day to create a loving, healthy, and happy marriage? David: Yes, I do.
Kim, do you understand and accept this responsibility, and do you promise to do your very best each day to create a loving, healthy, and happy marriage? Kim: Yes, I do.
I, David, take you Kim, to be my wife, my partner in life, and one true love. I will cherish our union, I will trust you and respect you, Laugh with you and cry with you, love you faithfully, through good times and bad, through sickness and health, I give you my hand, my heart and my love, and I pledge to you my faithfulness, from this day forward, for as long as we both shall live.
I, Kim, take you David, to be my husband, my partner in life, and one true love. I will cherish our union, I will trust you and respect you, Laugh with you and cry with you, love you faithfully, through good times and bad, through sickness and health, I give you my hand, my heart and my love, and I pledge to you my faithfulness, from this day forward, for as long as we both shall live.
Exchanging of the Rings
May I have the rings? Let us pray. Bless, O Lord, the giving and receiving of these rings. May David and Kim abide in Thy peace and grow in their knowledge of Your presence through their loving union. May the seamless circle of these rings become the symbol of their endless love and serve to remind them of the holy covenant they have entered into today to be faithful, loving and kind to each other. Dear God, may they live in Your grace and be forever true to this union. Amen.
David, repeat after me. I give you this ring as a symbol of our vows, and with all that I am, and all that I have, I honor you. With this ring, I thee wed.
Kim, repeat after me. I give you this ring as a symbol of our vows, and with all that I am, and all that I have, I honor you. With this ring, I thee wed.
For as much as David and Kim have consented together in holy matrimony, and have witnessed the same before God and these witnesses, and have pledged their faithfulness each to the other, and have pledged the same by the giving and receiving each of a ring, by the authority vested in me as a minister of the gospel, and according to the laws of the State of Florida, what God has joined together today, let no man put asunder.
David, you may now kiss your bride.
Join with me as we ask God’s blessing on this new couple. Eternal father, redeemer, we now turn to You, and as the first act of this couple in their newly formed union, we ask You to protect their home. May they always turn to You for guidance, for strength, for provision and direction. May they glorify You in the choices they make and in all that they do. Use them to draw others to Yourself, and let them stand as a testimony to the world of Your faithfulness. We ask this in the name of our Lord, Jesus Christ, Amen.
Presentation of the Couple
It is now my privilege to introduce to you for the first time, Mr. and Mrs. David Jones.


Okay. I understand this is a creative writing exercise, but just for a moment let’s pretend you have an actual problem.
First of all you don’t want to meet men who like red-heads, okay. So why do you post it on line and then get pissed when men react to it? You could use a b&w shot on Tinder? (I don’t know how that works.)
Secondly, you go to a museum show about red-heads and it makes you unhappy?
You have issues with your identity. Fine, may of us do. But those issues are not the fault of the men who want to date you, paint you, or whatever.
Are there men with ‘fetishes’? Certainly, but they are easily weeded out. My wife is Asian. But she is the only Asian I ever dated. I don’t have six previous Asian girlfriends. If you meet a guy, ask him if his last six girlfriends had red hair. It’s easy.
Do you not see your problem? You pre-reject men who might like you, and then are pissed when no one asks you out.
You are the one who is being incredibly superficial here. Leave us men out of it.


From The Heart To The Mind is not about me or about you. It’s about those small simple things that our heart wants our mind to understand. It’s about those complex logics which our heart fails to understand but they exist. It’s about establishing relationship, relationship between our heart and our mind.
Hi everyone, I’m a crazy stupid girl who believes that it is possible to follow your heart and brain both at the same time. It’s possible to do logical things emotionally and follow your heart sensibly.
Follow me on my journey to make my mind become friends with my heart and work in harmony.❤
PS.- I’m not good at commenting..🙈🙈 So try to understand the feelings behind my words.. (Bhavnao ko samjhe shabdo mat jaeye..😝)


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Damaging relationships can be hard to spot because they’re not usually 100% toxic. Like a bad meal that’s mostly burned but has two or three okay bites, a relationship that is overall harmful to you or detracts from your health and wellbeing may nonetheless have a few redeeming qualities or bright moments, which can be confusing and misleading. We may want to believe that those not-awful moments are the “real” relationship or what it “could be” if we just try hard enough, stay long enough, or figure out the other person.
Pop Culture Says
Pop culture tells us that relationships are hard work and that we need to be willing to put in the time, effort, and some heartache. We are encouraged to take ownership of our individual roles in conflict and difficulties in relational interactions. We are also taught that it’s important to compromise and be compassionate about others’ shortfalls and to give each the people in our lives opportunities to grow and be better.
Additionally, many of us feel that we must somehow be “in the right” or be able to completely justify ending a relationship to the other person. We feel pressured to “prove” the wrongness of the relationship to the other person before we feel exiting is warranted. Many of us are deeply fearful of being accused by others (and/or by ourselves) that we didn’t work hard enough, didn’t “care enough to try,” gave up, or that our desire to move on is somehow evidence that we “never cared at all.”
If you are in any kind of relationship where any of the above accusations sound familiar, you are in a damaging relationship.
All Kinds of Circumstances
Damaging relationships happen under all kinds of circumstances. Acknowledging that you’re in a damaging relationship doesn’t have anything to do with ascribing fault. It doesn’t mean that you are accusing the other person of anything. It simply means that you are in a relationship that has negative outcomes and/or consequences for your wellbeing. The degree to which the other person knowingly contributes to those consequences is variable, but their ownership or contribution is irrelevant. What matters is how the relationship impacts you.
Substance use is often a part of damaging relationships. The more overt examples include relationships in which substances lead to harmful behaviors towards one another and/or towards oneself and negative consequences.
Substances can also play a more subtle role in damaging relationships. Using substances (together or individually) can be a way the individuals avoid conflict, problems, or pain. It can be a way of glossing over incompatibilities that are not anyone’s fault, but nonetheless significant. It can be a way of forestalling the inevitable end of a relationship that isn’t working.
When evaluating if your relationship is damaging, try and focus on outcomes without getting hung up on fault, because fault is always a matter of perspective and will keep you stuck in circular, highly subjective justifications (yours and the other person’s). Some questions to ask yourself are:
Is this relationship contributing to or detracting from my sense of wellbeing, calm, and fulfillment? Is this relationship a way for me to escape/avoid other things in my life that I don’t want to deal with? If we were sober together 100% of the time, would this relationship still be attractive to me?
Remember, you do not have to prove anything in order to end a relationship. It’s your responsibility to accept that the other person may not agree with your assessment that the relationship is unhealthy for you, and that’s okay. They are entitled to have their opinion; you are not obligated to have the same view.


I just spoke with a very dear friend from High School who recently lost her husband in a tragic car accident. My heart goes out to her in so many ways. I know we aren't to know why things happen when they do sometimes, but I do know this...in talking with her, it reminds me to "Cherish Today" what I may not have tomorrow. I want to hug my kids, call my mom, do something nice for a stranger and tell my husband I love him. I know that each day is a gift, but there are many days I don't think about that. What do we take from tragic things that happen around us...learn from them and grow. Grow closer to God, to our family and to our friends. For I know that if my dear friend Ginny had one more day with her husband, there would be so much she would want to say to him. Friends, live each day as if it were your last.
Have a Wonderful Blessed Day!!


She wanted a shoulder to cry on, she was hurting and you didn’t jump at it, you got mad at her. She wanted you to prove to her that it was real love and since you didn’t she knew it wasn’t.
Her heart probably broke and you didn’t see, so she left. She left and you were her lesson.. and now it’s too late and it’s eating you up in every way cause you honestly just want comfort. and sorry, you won’t get it from her.Too late (via hoyitspaolo)


I bumped into an old love yesterday. Extremely random.
We didn’t end on bad terms, we just grew apart.
We weren’t even intimate, we were way too young at the time
We walked passed each other and I knew that face looked familiar,
by the time I turned around he was already walking back towards me, laughing with his arms wide open.
He’s changed soooooo much. I was blown away. I’m so proud of him. Even the way he stands is different.
He’s a man now. He couldn’t get over how much I changed either..
He said something that stuck with me,
during that time, we didn’t realise how much our connection would impact our lives.
He told me that I inspired him and he reminded me of a few conversations we used to have and
how our dreams was so big at that time .
He used to have the craziest ideas, he inspired me to always think outside of the box and to not
fear my truth or ideas. He gave me confidence .
It’s crazy and It had me thinking, how much our thoughts collapsed together, so what was uniquely mine?? and which ones originally is stemmed from past encounters??
I’m not allowing him to slip through my fingers,
he’s a great person.
Definitely gonna keep in touch.
I love shit like that.


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Firstly, we apologize for how late this thank you is. Please forgive us.
We wanted to thank you, SO MUCH for everything you did at our wedding. It would not have been the same without you. We have received tones of compliments about our wedding and how laid back and fun it was, and you had a lot to do with that!
So from the bottom of our hearts, thank you, for making the best day of our lives even better!


We hear on a regular basis how important it is to help keep the romance alive in the relationship, and that is not bad suggestions. There are several romantic things you can do for your sweetheart, but to get just the right points for him all you need to do can be think about what he wants, and doesn’t including.
Guys aren’t often as easy to please as the sexy lingerie store ads could have you believe. Sure, many guys would love you to seduce him putting on some attractive lingerie, but it doesn’t mean that this is the only thing which will make him feel just like he’s special to you. In the end, that’s what he would like... to become your hero and feel just like he is your superman. There are many things you can do that will create him feel like a king whether it’s his birthday or simply for your heck from it.
Here are ideas you might consider. Find one Just, or even more, that you imagine your boyfriend will really enjoy:
1. Prepare his preferred meal. Create a romantic candlelight dinner. Women Who Date Men That Are Not As Successful could have soft music enjoying in the backdrop and both of you can get dressed up.
3. Take him on the picnic or stargazing. This can be a great way for both of you to spend some quality time together without a lot of noise and interruptions.
4. Take him to some vineyard to get a wine tasting event if he really likes trying and learning even more about wine.
5. Mature Women Dating - Hey Take The Leap for his preferred teams next house game, for you both. Nothing states “I really like you” like performing something that the other person really enjoys particularly if it’s not really something you’re into.
6. Spritz a small amount of your perfume, the main one he absolutely likes, on his t shirt. Not too much though, you don’t want his buddies to tease him about wearing perfume, just a little little bit so he can possess the scent of you the whole day.
7. Ensure that you always give him a warm kiss whenever the two of you are going in different instructions. That’s another way he’ll be thinking of you all day long.
8. Spend some time enjoying video gaming with him. This is a great way of letting him understand that he’s vital that you you and so is his happiness, that you want to be a correct part of the issues he loves to perform.
9. Put a love be aware in his backpack or briefcase so he is able to become amazed because of it throughout the day. Tell 8 Dating STRATEGIES FOR Black Women ‘ll be thinking about him which you can’t wait until he gets home to you.
10. Send him some flowers at work. Sure, he could be considered a little humiliated but he’ll be more flattered than uncomfortable and this is a great way of informing everyone in his workplace that you like him and you are considering him, and which will make him feel just like a million dollars.
Use these suggestions to get started, but you know the man you’re dating and you know what he likes. If you really want to know what romantic things you can do for your partner just figure out the things that he really enjoys and go following that.


How to have a Strong Marriage?
Below, are some of the habits need to be adopted by the every successful couples which are significant gestures they can incorporate in their daily lives.
Love, kindness, gift and trust: For any successful relationship there must true love among the spouse, commitment for each other and trustworthiness between them.
Women should be greeting spouse daily in the morning: The wife must make the regularly greeting and taking care of their spouse, children and all his belongings either he is around or otherwise.
Touching spouse during meal time: Usually men need to be touching some part of their body by their spouse while they are eating dinner together, make it a point to touch your partner. You might touch their hand or arm, or your legs might touch.
Spouse should Complement the efforts of each at the end of every blessing day: Try in as much as possible to complement your many marriages, Bush said, suffer from chronic under-appreciation.
Feel each other’s breath: The spouses should keep on putting their hands on each other’s chest or stomach and sense theirs partner’s breathing together at least for one minute. Some partners also observation into each other’s eyes for some times.
Caring, listening and response to her complaint: Taking your spouse to restaurant, shopping and tour frequently and stay away from any office work and give all your concentration.
Send a suitable text massages: Both of them should keep on sending a suitable text messages especially when a husband away from the home he will be very happier to have this kind of gesture and sign of caring from his wife because this will alert him that, his wife is always thinking of him.


What I really like about this article is that it cites real-life examples of people who are no different to many of us – to varying degrees. But no matter how far along the scale we are, everyone can relate to aspects of our relationship with our ‘stuff’.
Reading Emily’s blog is more like the recounting of the very real feelings that come with the process of becoming more organised, and certainly doesn’t feel like the usual ’12 tips to…’ style. If you are interested in an enjoyable, insightful and informative read, visit her blog .
I enjoyed meeting with her and certainly enjoyed reading her blog. Thanks Emily!


Dancing instills the discipline of always yearning to work thing out while on the dance floor. One could choose to reveal private information to the partner while on the floor. The dance floor is magical in that it allows one to be free and comfortable.Also, when a couple wants to say something they previously found hard to talk about, a dance floor would be a perfect place to spill the beans. A good example is when one got a job transfer to a different city
Couple dance lessons can improve the understanding of the couples traits. Once the couple steps into the floor, their esteem levels are boosted in a nice manner. The process of dancing is rapid and allows the partners to link together in a moment. They find the freedom to critique each others traits. In that short time, they can both identify their strengths and weaknesses.
Dancing for couples makes them to get physical together. Through dancing, one can burn a lot of calories in a lesson. The benefits of the dancing exercise appeals to both partners. It is like a fun exercise that strengthens the bond of both couples. When both of the partners get fit after going for several dancing lessons, it becomes difficult to even have issues dealing with small kind of problems.
The choices of a couple livelihoods widens nice they involve themselves with couple dance lessons. There will be no barrier to having fun and going out. Besides shopping, diners and partying, this kind of couple is able to engage in dancing. They also create moments away from their kids, pressures of life and enjoy time together.
Couple dance lessons can improve the care and love the couple has for each other. By involving themselves with the lessons, they both acquire the dancing skills together. In the process, they get more connected to each other. This is usually appropriate for novices who will go through the journey. Once they are equipped, they will have a thing in common that they will share.
Couples who engage in dancing enhance their marriage lives in a beautiful way. In a way, dancing improves the confidence level of someone and a couple with a good confidence makes a good marriage. It also brews up inner beauty which is essential for a couple. This kind of lives can manifest itself in other sectors of marriage.
In conclusion, couples should consider taking couple lessons to improve and maintain their relationship. It is a good technique that promotes good communication, both verbal and non verbal. The quietness of dancing itself is very meaningful and could enhance any marriage. By doing so, the couple learns to always listen to their partner.


Facebook Is Launching a Dating Service Within the Facebook App
Facebook is about to launch new feature that would be matching singles together.Facebook CEO mark zukerberg said on Tuesday we had wanted to make Facebook a place of relaxation, matching singles together and making life easier.mark went ahead and said over 300milion users list themselves as single on Facebook, Facebook has considered to make room for dating and matching singles together.
Facebook CEO mark zukerbetg told Facebook developers the features they ought to add on Facebook. They will make the dating service more privatization in such a way user privacy won't be revealed.Facebook is currrctly going under sanction for privacy violation.
Relationship status had been live on Facebook from the first date.Facebook is looking forward maintaining their pace of leading internet social network.adding dating service would make people spend more time on Facebook and could take Facebook to next next.
The owner of world leading dating app tinder and analyst spoke to Facebook about matching app that looks similar on what they are about to bring in.
Facebook told media the time spent on Facebook has fallen 60million hours back compared to other years after the update and change of policy.
Facebook is looking forward matching people based on their preference like other dating sites and user profile will play major role.the Facebook dating service is designed in such away user is allowed to send message to other singles.
The optional feature will be for finding long-term relationships, "not just hook-ups," Zuckerberg said. It will be launched soon, he added, without giving a specific date.
Facebook Chief Product Officer Chris Cox spoke to the media, he said, Facebook will reveal more by next month.Chris cox emphasised more on Facebook dating service, he said he had been thinking about Facebook dating service since he joined Facebook.
Cox said many couples have met on Facebook and found their partner through Facebook.cox said Facebook dating will match people,matched couples would start commenting and chatting with each other.
He talked about Facebook privacy , he said they can't guarantee 100% user privacy protection, user dating profile will not show on news feed.
However, "I'm sure it will make good use of the data Facebook has been able to collect about its users," she added.


How to win your girlfriend back? In this article, you will find out 6 super tricks of how to win your girlfriend back and control your new relationship using reverse psychology.
Why would you give up your lady without a fight? I don’t think so.
You may try using reverse psychology to win your ex-affections girlfriend’s back
As the name implies, reverse psychology is a technique in which you say or do the opposite of what you truly believe or mean in order to persuade your girlfriend into doing what you want her to do–while simultaneously allowing her to believe that she is doing something she wants, rather than what you want her to do.
Reverse psychology is a tough technique of psychological manipulation to master.
Reverse psychology has the potential to bring your ex-girlfriend back into your life if done correctly.
1. How to win your girlfriend back and your relationship by agreeing with her
The moment your girlfriend confides in you that she has been thinking that you two should take some time apart, to get away from one other, is this moment.
You may claim that you were “… merely thinking the same thing” no matter how much it bothers you. Declare that you need space and that it may be preferable for you and your partner to split. She will feel as though she has lost something if you agree with her in this manner.
Due to the fact that you’re simply nodding and smiling and agreeing with her, she loses all of her power in this circumstance.
2. How to win your her back by being difficult to get
Another kind of reverse psychology is the practice of being difficult to obtain.
Make yourself inaccessible.
Act as if you don’t care — as if you aren’t interested in her company. When it comes to romantic relationships, pretending not to care is arguably the most typical kind of reverse psychology.
People will constantly want what they are unable to have. If she starts to believe that she wouldn’t be able to have you even if she really wanted you, she may become even more enamored with you.
3. How to win her back by compelling her to defend you
You may enlist the help of someone you trust and who knows her well enough to spread negative and incorrect information about you, causing her to feel forced to protect you.
It’s possible that she’ll think to herself, “You know, he wasn’t that bad.”
It’ll start her thinking about the positive aspects of your argument.
4. How to win your relationship back by refusing to make a commitment
If she has shown evidence of being commitment-phobic, the reverse psychology strategy would be to avoid ever bringing up the subject of commitment in front of her again.
Bringing up the subject of commitment will just frighten her away. If you’re talking about moving in together, your future, getting married, and having children, you’re going too quickly for her.
She needs time to adjust.
If you were the one who frightened her away in the first place, you’ll want to be certain that you don’t do it again. Allow her to believe that you are traveling at the same rate as she is.
With time, and as she gets to know you more, you may delegate the responsibility of thinking about and discussing commitment to her.
5. How to win your love back by falling in love with her new boyfriend
If she has a new boyfriend, reverse psychology would dictate that you say complimentary things about her new partner to win her over.
You must persuade her that you are glad for her, no matter how much you are suffering on the inside. This will give the impression that you are a stronger person–and you may even be stronger than you actually are.
Your intention is to give her the impression that you only want what is best for her–which, if you’re in love with her, you certainly do.
6. How to win your girlfriend back and your relationship by being unavailable
If she needs your assistance for anything, make yourself unavailable the first time. For example, if she calls you because she wants you to return something she has borrowed from you, don’t answer the phone immediately away.
In fact, keep yourself occupied. Find something else to accomplish that is more essential than thinking about her. a little something for yourself
This will have the effect of making you seem more appealing to her since she will be able to view you as a full person without her presence.
You want to identify yourself as whole in the absence of her, in order for her to recognize the true you.
If you have to, look for someone to emulate. Make an effort to become more like that person. He doesn’t have to be a genuine, live man in order to be effective.
He might be a fictitious figure from a book, movie, or television show–someone you like and admire even more, and who always manages to win over the ladies.
Despite the fact that you want to seem to be “unavailable,” you don’t want to move on to someone else at this point if you’re still interested in getting back together with her.
Moving on to another woman will just make things more difficult and may lead you to harm your new girlfriend when you get your old one back. No rationale exists for being dishonest or using other women in order to win back the girl you previously had. That would be horrible.


Make sure you share similar values
One of the most important aspects of a good business partnership is shared short-term and long-term values. This doesn’t mean you have to agree on everything but too many disagreements can hurt the business over the long term.
In many ways, a business partnership is similar to a marriage. You need to have shared values and commit to communicating with one another through all of the ups and downs of running your business.


Effect of Divorce on a Will
The general rule is that a testator’s divorce revokes a disposition to his or her former spouse (as well as an appointment of the former spouse, as executor, trustee, advisory trustee or guardian). However, s 15(3), Succession Act enables the testator to express a contrary intention in the will. Although rarely appropriate or desired, this prospect will occasionally require discussion. Similarly, s 15A of the Act enables a registered partner to express a contrary intention to avoid revocation of gifts to, and appointments of, a former registered partner made by a will, on the termination of the registered relationship.


I don’t know why some people think its cool to sweet talk someone. Make you think that you guys have a 100% shot of being together. Then out of nowhere they stop talking to you, like if you guys never even knew each other…. well yeah that happens to me a lot.
Its been a good day. Ive realized how much I actually need and love my mom. Being three days without her was painful. The house felt empty without her. Now anything she says to me I won’t take it as a trivial thing.


I ♥ Eggnog
hm i am not really looking foward to thanksgiving, I kind of stopped looking foward to holidays way back when my parents got divorced. But this one is going to be very interesting because my dad is coming down to have thanksgiving with My sister and her husband, my brother, my mom, and me. BUT he is bringing with him my grandma my moms ex mother in law and my aunt and her husband and my cousins........o dear lord this is going to be interesting.
"the number 3 should always be followed by the number 14"
best comment ever


In the middle of a hectic and busy working schedule, sometimes it becomes impossible for parents to spend quality time with their children. And a lot of parents are dealing with the problem of time management between work and children. It is becoming a challenging and stressful situation for majority parents on how to cope with this problem.
Are you also troubled with the same problem? No worries. Here, we are providing you some ideas to spend quality time with your children after a long day’s work. These methods will surely provide you with some peace of mind and you’ll be able to relax with children.
- Give them a tight hug
Just after arriving, give a tight hug to your kids. It will make them realize just how much you love them and will build a strong relationship. Hug and kiss your kids as much as you can. Apart from kissing and hugging, don’t leave a chance to say “I LOVE YOU”. When you say these three words to your kids, they will also reply to you with same message. And this will bring them closer to you. Also, brings a positive outlook in your kids and teach them how to deal with other people.
- Don’t bring your work at home
Avoid bringing your office work with you at home as much as you can. Instead of bringing it with you, give that precious time to your kids. Draw your attention towards them and ask them how their day was. Talk about their day at school. It will show your kids that you really love them and care about them.
- Help them in their Homework
Sit with your kids and ask them about their homework. Don’t do their homework. Let them do their homework by on their own. You can help them in sorting their problems out. Appreciate them for hard work. It is a great way to motivate them.
- Teach them different Activities
If you bring any new technology gadget or game for them, teach them how to play it. Learn how they feel when you bring something for them. Introducing them with new gadgets will surely increase their knowledge and build confidence in them.
- Teach them a Prayer before sleeping
Children love to learn new things. Teach your children some prayers before going to sleep at night. Through this, you can teach them how to connect with God and how to practice gratitude. This method will instill moral and religious values in them. After all these activities, wish them a good night sleep!
There are many more ideas to spend quality time with kids. This was just a few of them. For more information, visit our website www.kidzartistry.com now!


Greet one another with a holy kiss. The churches of Christ greet you. Romans 16:16
For the sake of simplification the articles on the basics of things related to marriage are now separated from the rest of the articles. This page will include some definitions.
A reminder that we do not have a double minded God who changes morality from one day to the next or between one covenant and the next. Doing so would be a violation of the nature of God. The new and old testaments both teach the same "rules" concerning marriage, divorce, adultery and remarriage. In the Greek and Hebrew they remain the same and agree. The English translations do not show this unity.
These definitions will be worked on as time permits.
Marriage - In scripture this is the act of a man leaving his father and mother and taking unto himself a woman. The two become one flesh when a child is begotten. One person who emailed suggested that the act of intercourse makes the two into one flesh without a child. That may very well be the case. (Many think a man becomes one flesh with a woman through a marriage ceremony. This violates scriptural definition.) In scripture there is no ceremony. Final consummation of the contract was performed through intercourse. Marrriage is only allowed to fellow believers and should be of one's own general kin.
Marriage Contract - A contract made at the time of marriage. The ten commandments made up such a contract between God and Israel. The contract also included laws for the wife to obey. Generally though the scripture does not speak of a written contract for marriage.
Divorce - A breaking of the marriage contract. Two acts are required to accomplish divorce. A writing declaring the marriage ended must be given to the woman and she must be sent away. Children went with the woman. God did this with the house of Israel writing her a bill of divorcement and sending her into the Assyrian captivity. Jeremiah 3:8. The promise of a remarriage to the house of Israel was permitted only after God's death on the cross and resurrection in the form of Messiah. Deuteronomy 24 specifies an uncleanness required in order to divorce with out adultery occurring. This uncleanness in the Hebrew is the wife removing herself from her husbands coverature. She has no respect for him.
Adultery - Marital adulteration is a mixing of seed. The base scriptural definition requires only that a married woman mix her husband's seed with that of another man through intercourse. Scripture calls this confusion. The act of mixing breaks the marriage covenant and thus the marriage. The marital status of the man is not an issue. A single or married man who has intercourse with a married woman, not his wife, is guilty of adultery. A single or married man who has intercourse with a single woman is guilty of fornication, not adultery. When Israel went after other gods, sometimes visiting both temples in the same day, God considered this adultery and idolatry.
Remarriage after divorce or death of the husband is permitted. The only limitations in scripture are the same as for a first marriage.
Remarriage to a previous husband is permitted only if the woman has not married another man. The marital status and history of the man are not an issue. The scripture refers to the woman as being a polluted land for the previous husband once she has married another man. With the death of Christ and his resurrection there was a release from the law of marriage, Romans 7:1-4. Christ now remarries any Israelite as they become an immersed believer. They become a bride in waiting, waiting for the return of the bridegroom. One can not remarry someone who was not previously in that marriage covenant.
Romans 1:26-27 is a prohibition against anal intercourse between a man and a woman and also a man and a man. This act is unhealthy and can cause one to have a shortened lifespan.
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EPISODE 62 • August 20 2020 • 43:00 mins
Electric Fairy will be joining the Boxx tonight to discuss non hierarchical poly amory. Non hierarchical poly amory is the practice of seeing multiple partners without any one partner holding more value than another. She’ll discuss ways to communicate both as the person practicing and as potential partners and the pros and cons to choosing this dating lifestyle.
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New research identifies distinct patterns of masturbation satisfaction in women and men
New research provides insight into how the frequency of women’s and men’s masturbation is related to their sexual satisfaction. The findings, published in the Sexual Behavior Archivesindicate that masturbation often serves a additoinal function for women but plays a compensatory role among men.
“One of the reasons I got so interested in the subject of masturbation is its enormous potential and its many benefits,” said study author Nantje Fischer, a postdoctoral researcher at the University of Oslo. “Masturbation is perhaps one of the simplest sexual activities.”
“You can go it alone. This means you don’t have to find a sex partner or negotiate your likes and dislikes. As such, it’s a free and effortless way to manage your sexual desires. Another huge benefit of masturbation is that it is a safe sexual alternative without any risk of getting a sexually transmitted infection or unwanted pregnancy.
“Of all sexual behaviors, masturbation seems most often motivated by pleasure, or at least the release of tension,” Fischer told PsyPost. “Masturbation is important for sexual development in that it provides the opportunity to learn more about one’s own body and sexual response, which in turn helps to negotiate a more rewarding sexual experience with partners. “
“Masturbation can be a way to satisfy sexual needs later in life when people are widowed and may have difficulty finding a new sexual partner or if your partner has become ill. Due to its many benefits, it has been argued that promoting masturbation is a way to promote sexual health.
For their study, the researchers interviewed a sample of 4,160 Norwegians between the ages of 18 and 89. They found that 66% of women and 84% of men said they had masturbated in the past month. Most women said they masturbated two or three times a month. Most men, on the other hand, said they masturbated two or three times a week. “It’s very common to indulge in sexual self-pleasure,” Fischer noted.
The researchers conducted a cluster analysis to identify subgroups of individuals. The largest cluster, comprising 33.1% of the sample, was characterized by both high masturbation frequency and high sexual satisfaction. The second largest group, comprising 31.5% of the sample, was characterized by down masturbation frequency but high sexual satisfaction.
The third cluster, comprising 18.7% of the sample, was characterized by high masturbation frequency but down sexual satisfaction. The smallest cluster, comprising 16.7% of the sample, was characterized by both down masturbation frequency and down sexual satisfaction.
Women and men with frequent pornography use were more likely to belong to the group characterized by high masturbation frequency and high sexual satisfaction. Women with greater sexual variety and higher intercourse frequency were also more likely to report high masturbation frequency and high sexual satisfaction.
The “findings support a complementary model for women, as it implies that frequent solo sex improves partnered sex and is more prevalent among adults with a sexualized personality model,” the researchers said.
However, among men in both high masturbation groups, frequent pornography use was associated with sexual dissatisfaction. Among men with high sexual satisfaction, those who reported having more frequent partnered sex were less likely to belong to the group characterized by high masturbation.
“This finding supports a compensatory pattern in men, as it suggests that masturbation is considered unnecessary if one is having highly satisfying and frequent sex with a partner,” the researchers explained.
Not surprisingly, the researchers also found that sexual distress, negative body image, and negative genital self-image were strongly linked to sexual dissatisfaction. Interestingly, however, the relationship between negative genital self-image and sexual dissatisfaction was observed only among male participants.
“The fact that men’s genitalia play a significant role in defining masculinity in terms of appearance (eg, penis size) and performance (eg, erection) could explain the influences of sex. men’s genital self-image on their sexual satisfaction,” the researchers said.
“Despite all of the benefits, solo sex has been largely overlooked as a relevant sexual behavior, and we still know surprisingly little about how solo sex is associated with sexual satisfaction, well-being, and happiness. pain relief,” Fischer said.
The study, “A Seemingly Paradoxical Relationship Between Masturbation Frequency and Sexual Satisfaction,” was authored by Nantje Fischer and Bente Træen.


Proud of you, Gabe.
Seriously, that was kinda immature and mean of Cassidy. I get she might be upset about whatever happened between her and Cole…but that’s a kinda bitchy response. Especially on such a public site like Twitter.
Wow…. Just wow….. But props to Gabe for being an amazing friend!
Shaking my damn head 😒


Having natural and non-awkward conversations is a valuable skill in social interactions. By incorporating these 10 effective tips, you can enhance your communication abilities and leave a positive impression on others.
Master the art of natural and non-awkward conversations with these 10 tips.
- Assess the relationship and boundaries:
Before speaking, be mindful of the dynamics between you and the other person. This helps you avoid crossing any lines and ensures your conversation stays appropriate.
- Empathize with grievances:
When someone shares their concerns, resist the urge to overanalyze. Instead, offer empathy and validation, acknowledging their emotions and providing support.
- Engage without self-absorption:
When discussing your areas of expertise, strike a balance between sharing your knowledge and showing interest in the other person's perspective. Pay attention to their engagement levels and keep the conversation mutually enjoyable.
- Specific compliments make an impact:
When giving compliments, go beyond generic praise. Be specific and highlight particular aspects that genuinely impress you. This shows sincerity and leaves a lasting impression.
- Master the art of active listening:
Listening attentively and demonstrating understanding are key to natural conversations. Even if you're not a natural chatter, being an empathetic listener creates a positive impression and fosters meaningful connections.
- End conversations thoughtfully:
When it's time to wrap up a conversation but the other person seems reluctant, employ a considerate approach. Show understanding for their time constraints or commitments, ensuring a smooth conclusion.
- Respect others' passions:
When someone shares their interests and passions, avoid dismissive or mocking comments, even if the subject doesn't personally intrigue you. Instead, encourage their enthusiasm and learn from their expertise.
- Encourage self-expression:
To foster engaging conversations, prompt others to discuss topics they're knowledgeable about and passionate about. This empowers them to share their insights and encourages a vibrant exchange of ideas.
- Keep objectives in mind:
Communication serves a purpose beyond personal venting. Clarify your objectives and goals for each conversation, ensuring that your interactions contribute to meaningful outcomes.
- Harness the power of humor:
Humor can alleviate awkwardness and create a comfortable atmosphere. Injecting well-timed and appropriate humor into conversations helps build rapport and makes interactions more enjoyable for all parties involved.
By implementing these 10 tips, you can navigate conversations with ease, building connections, and leaving a positive impression on those you interact with. Practice these skills, and watch your conversational abilities flourish.


You can be in a relationship for two years and feel nothing; you can be in a relationship for 2 months and feel everything. Time is not a measure of quality; of infatuation, or of love.
What my relationships have taught me. (via bailar-en-la-oscuridad)
The Buddhists say if you meet somebody and your heart pounds, your hands shake, your knees go weak, that’s not the one. When you meet your ‘soul mate’ you’ll feel calm. No anxiety, no agitation


Adultery | Facts, Myths And Reasons
Adultery causes pain, suffering, and crisis with both partners and destroys mutual trust, but if true love is somehow preserved, then the marital community can still be saved, provided that there is mutual understanding and truly wish for that, and that’s the reason why adultery cannot be seen as revenge.
Doubts and jealousy often bring exactly what they are afraid of -Thomas Jefferson
According to Wikipedia, “adultery is marital infidelity, that is, a form of extramarital sex that is a violation of a spouse’s obligations and is committed by one of the partners.”
This form of partner betrayal exists since marriage existed, with the adulterate being a husband, a woman, or both, and it happens accidentally or planned with one or more persons.
The consequences are usually divorce and family breakup or forgiveness and preservation of the marital community. It is known in all periods throughout history, and today we find it in all cultures around the world.
Adultery was always viewed as a negative phenomenon and condemned as an immoral act. The man’s adulterer would almost always be seen “through his fingers”, while the adulterous women were subjected to severe humiliation and severe condemnation, even punishment, and death.
Even today, in the 21st century, women who embark on a love adventure and extramarital sex are much more morally condemned than their husbands, and in countries where adultery is punishable, they are always more severely sanctioned. They can even get the death penalty, which is, for example, the case in some Muslim countries.
Who Cheats More Often? Man vs Woman
It is commonly said that men cheat more often than women, but also that women hide it more skillfully. Recent scientific research shows that 57 percent of husbands and 54 percent of women confessed committing Adultery in their marriage.
It is also important that 53 percent of all divorces were caused by adultery.
Because of unsatisfactory sex in their marriage, 20 percent of women decided to have an affair outside marriage, with 44 percent being attracted by an irresistible person.
When it comes to husbands, 35 percent wanted to spice up their love life, while 32 percent of women wanted to feel attractive and desirable.
48% of men decided to commit adultery because they wanted more frequent sex, while 47% of a woman wanted to experience different sex experience.
But I think that this is just an excuse because they could have had this experience in marriage since as many as 56 percents of male adulterers and 34 percent of female adulterers said they had a happy or very happy marriage.
How Cheating Happens
The roots of bitterness, often hidden, greatly determine how we receive and respond to the current stimuli to our consciousness. Since these roots are often invisible, they have more power to throw us out of our comfort zone when we are under pressure.
Communication Problem In Mariage
For example, the most common cause of failure in one marriage is the incompetence of one or both spouses to have a mutual conversation and understanding. This leads to loneliness and vulnerability.
Every person in such circumstances emotionally dies from within, whether she is aware of it or not. Sooner or later, someone will appear who can break through these barriers and communicate honestly with you.
He or she finds it strange because they expected warning signals or feelings of guilt. A man may be completely unaware of the fact that his conscience does not send him any signals because his spirit can be completely dead at that point.
Because of her/his emotional resurgence, she/he feels so well that she/he can not believe that a new relationship would be wrong or sinful. If he proceeds further and commits adultery, perhaps the mind will be poorly reminded of God’s laws, but his heart sings. He/she thinks love is happening. Now he/she is completely confused.
Can God’s laws be blamed? Are they just the fruit of human imagination? Certainly, I would not feel so alive if it was a sin.
The root of the problem
If we ignore the strong instant loneliness or how confusing the apparent happiness is in a sinful relationship, and the lack of guilt, in the background everything lies in resentment because of a bad relationship with one of the parents or some other bitter root. This root is the real cause, and it is driven by the current problems.
Adultery can happen in a lot of ways – with a secretary, fellow worker, friends wife or husband, someone advising you, a neighbor…
Some people go out only to find someone to commit adultery. Such people should seek professional help. Most often, “good” people are blinded by some hidden need or partly disturbed marital relationship, until they are close to being with a “right-wrong” person.
That’s why we need the help of a professional that will reveal to us what triggers adultery and with our work on the reasons, and not just the consequences.
Reasons For Infidelity
According to psychological research, women cheat when they are not emotionally fulfilled, while men engage in adultery when they are dissatisfied with physical contact in the relationship.
Namely, analyses have shown that women often decide to commit Adultery when they need comfort or feel alone, and their partner does not endeavor to provide emotional and psychological support.
Men are, however, much simpler. If they do not have regular sex or marriage relationships, men seek sex in someone else’s bed. Also, men often admit that they cheated because another woman was very attractive to them.
The results show that women are more inclined to fall in love with a partner cheating than men. On the other hand, men see adultery as a ‘temporary solution’.
A new study has shown that Adultery can be – hereditary. So whether the partner will be unfaithful (also applies to women and men) depends largely on whether his parents committed adultery. The study showed that if the parent was unfaithful, it was twice as likely that the child would commit adultery than in the case of children whose parents were faithful.
“We have discovered a strong connection between parental disorder and adultery among our respondents. Therefore, the parents’ love affairs are associated with the greater likelihood that their child will probably commit Adultery in his/her marriage. This information does not necessarily mean that a partner will deceive you.“
Check other posts from my blog:
7 Adultery facts
- It’s extremely rare that an affair can grow into a relationship. People often cheat because they are unhappy about where they are and that other person gives them what they need. But what happens among adulterers is most often only passion and fantasy that completely disappears after some time.
- Someone will always be hurt. Even if you manage to hide what you have done outside your marriage, there will be one person that will the pain of Adultery. And that person is you. Because that secret will burn from inside your body, and you’ll never have a chance to be happy as you were before you committed Adultery.
- Adultery is not only sexual. Connections often break apart for much deeper reasons than physical infidelity. Sex is one thing, but emotions are something completely different, and the affections that involve them are much worse than those that are purely physical.
- It’s hard to set boundaries. Many people think that they can deal with the fact that they are attracted to someone else and that they will easily resist the physical attraction. But then, over time, this border is crossed, and once cheating has occurred, it is difficult to stop.
- Lust for Adultery is a warning. If you are thinking of cheating your partner, then that’s a sign that something in your relationship is not working.
- Women do not cheat for the same reasons as men do. Women who cheat, usually do that in the hope that another man will fill in the emotional void they feel, but that usually does not happen. If you do not feel fulfilled and happy, work on yourself and fulfill your own needs, because no man will satisfy you if you are dissatisfied with yourself.
- Adulterers are not bad people. Adultery can happen to anyone, and this is not a sign that someone is a bad person. There is more to say about the moment of weakness and bad decision, for which the majority of people, in the end, are sorry, and only those who do not feel guilty after committing an affair are bad.
4 Adultery Myths
It happens for a better sex experience
This myth – it’s easiest to crash. It is a popular belief that the new sexual partner is the best aphrodisiac and cure for monotony in bed. It’s not like that! Exactly the opposite – with a new lover the inception of sex will be worse than having sex with a permanent partner!
Think for a moment: when was your sex better – the first time you went to bed with someone (and when both of you just learned what the other side best suited), or now, when you know each other “in the soul”? I think I can guess the most common answer!
Infidelity can help me
Your marriage got into a crisis. It’s boring to you, it kills your routine … Why not start with an adventure after which you will be happy and will be looking forward to returning to your marriage nest ?! Then everything will be better, you will be able to tolerate your boring partner and his tedious habits easier!
Perhaps, in theory, this sounds quite right. Maybe there is some “twisted logic”! Maybe somebody really does this! Everything is possible, but …
But, from rich practice, and from plenty of other people’s experiences – we assure you that these tips do not have much to do with common sense!
Yes, it is true that there is a possibility that adultery will really change your behavior – briefly. On the wings of your new adventure, and perhaps because of your guilty conscience feeling, you will be better with your partner for some time. You will react less deeply to things that have been annoying you before, but …
But things, however, are not so simple.
Adultery doesn’t need to have consequences
An ideal scenario that adulterers imagine (and who, in general, imagines a different scenario, but only the ideal comes to mind!). Means quickly getting to know some special, interesting, different – then simple and quick going to bed, and don’t worry, sex will be simply divine.
Unfortunately, this simply does not work in such a way.
What I do is my business
What I do with my body, it’s just my thing – the claim we hear very often. Of course, we all have the right to make our decisions and do almost anything we want.
An affair is not just an act of emotional or physical betrayal of your partner. It’s a complete betrayal! It is a knife in the back of your partner and its everybody’s business.
But even the partner is not the one who suffers the heaviest consequences. In all, the worst are those who are the weakest – children!
Surviving someone’s infidelity is hard, especially if your marriage has broken apart after that. Many accuse themselves, they think about what they could do differently, but also hate the person they use to trust with their life.
To help you survive Adultery, read these tips:
- Stop accusing yourself. No, it’s not your fault that your partner has cheated on you. If he continues to have a relationship with the person he deceived you, then the guilt is even greater on him/her. But, you realize that you are not guilty because there was not a good reason to be cheated.
- Accept that your marriage is over. Once you have decided to end the marriage due to the Adultery, accept it. Start a marriage separation process, move and hire a lawyer.
- Stop wasting energy on hating the person that has cheated on you. Unnecessarily wasting of energy and nerves in comparing yourself is not worthwhile, and for that reason, you will certainly not feel better.
- Do not let them get you to forgive. In order to continue, forgiveness is the next step. Take your time. Maybe it will take years to forgive him/her and start talking again, and maybe you will do it after a month. But be sure to consider forgiveness. Do not be misled. Forgiveness just means that your ex-girlfriend can no longer hurt you because you do not care.
- Don’t tell your children. As much as they are hurt, do not tell your children about Mom or Dads new friend. They don’t need your problems and its not their fault.
- Do not isolate yourself. Do not go through adultery alone. If it’s hard for you, look for a psychologist, or seek for a friend that is a good listener.
- Find yourself again. When you start to feel bad and miserable, remember that you were a great person, and you are still such. Get started with some sport, find a hobby, engage in your community…
- Do not let your ex steal your joy. You know how it is said, “The best revenge is a success” and that’s the truth. People who cheat want to show you how beautiful life they now have. But in fact, they just ask for a justification for their actions. Ignore them! Be your own and do not let them affect your life.
Bellow, I will post my favorite book from Amazon on this subject.
Read some of the reviews:
Linda J. Macdonald:
Esther Perel is an outstanding therapist and author. One of the most well-written self-helps books I’ve ever read. Her ideas resonated with me most of the book, until it took a turn for the worst, seeming to accept our culture’s new attitudes about “consent” to make the Poly-Amory movement OK. Just because someone agrees to participate (often with a lot of arm-twisting or one person just trying to please a potentially straying partner) doesn’t make it “right” or healthy. There has been a lot of research about the need for a healthy, trusting attachment throughout the lifespan, and that includes as adults.
I started following Esther Perel’s work years ago when she did a riveting TEDtalk about infidelity & she authored a fascinating book called MATING IN CAPTIVITY. Both captivated me –not just because it’s a titillating topic or because we were finally getting access to the underbelly of relationships that nobody openly discusses– but because her work is full of human truths. About desire, love, the often inconvenient construct of marriage, egos, the secret longings people hide. Loneliness. Communication and the lack there of. Connection. Sexual alchemy. Marriage with and without kids. Trauma. Responsibility.
We’ve all been touched by infidelity. Perhaps it was a father or mother that had an affair. Maybe it was close friends. Maybe it was you or your spouse. And no matter where you are in the spectrum there is hurt and a desire to understand what happened.
Esther Perell has been studying the psychology of affairs and relationships for quite some time. In this book, she shatters a lot of myths about the reasons behind affairs, love and the whys of it all.


How to Have a Happy Marriage?
I will be 100% Responsible for my Marriage
Couples cannot resolve their marital problems by merely reasoning. Understanding is more important. Reasoning without understanding only creates more problems. Some key principles for a happy marriage:
Principle 1 : I am the Cause of the Problems in Our Marriage
To have a happy marriage we must be prepared to be 100% responsible: admit that I am the cause of the problems. I’m not saying that the problems are due to my faults but I choose to admit that I caused them. I can take responsibility for my spouse’s response because I am part of the interaction.
No matter how tough we appear our inner self is like a baby that needs tender loving care. One way to appease your spouse is to show understanding. She is likely to calm down when you express what is in her heart.
Principle 2 : What is Important is not My Motive but my Feelings
Most wives speak from emotions and husbands from their rational faculty. Emotions often overwhelm rationality and affect thinking. It’s important to deal first with emotions. Listen actively when emotions are described. This is not a time to quibble.
Principle 3 : Is it a Major or Minor Issue?
The wife is upset as the husband has bought the wrong shampoo. This is apparently a minor issue. However, the principle of “100% responsible” means that it’s major if it matters so much to the spouse. The husband will go and get the right shampoo. Applying the principle means that I’ll do it because you matter to me.
Principle 4 : I Make My Decisions Willingly
Whatever is done in a marital relationship is done willingly. If it’s not, we are leaving room for complaints. The principle in doing it willingly is that in making the choice I regain my sovereignty.
Principle 5 : I Speak Up for My Need
We often wish that our spouse can guess our needs but she’s no god. Although you may not get what you want even if you speak up, it is self-accountability to meet your basic need. You may be feeling lonely and you tell your wife, “I need someone to talk to. Will you be my listener?” If you do not express this need you may blame your spouse for not meeting it.
Clear Boundaries Marked to Preserve the Spousal Relationship
Two boundaries need to be clearly marked in any marriage: 1) friends of the opposite sex and 2) parents.
Mutual trust and accountability are required to preserve a marriage. Accountability implies discipline and vigilance, otherwise we’ll be lax and there is no restraint.
Our spouse is the most important person in our life. If she feels uncomfortable about my relationship with members of the opposite sex, then I will draw the line and not have individual outings with them. Clear boundaries are also needed with our parents. God says the two shall be one and spousal relationships take priority. If spouses are loving, and the wife loves her mother-in-law, there will not be any tug-of-war in the relationship.


Details, Fiction and How to Get Your Ex Boyfriend Back
My girlfriend and I broke up. It sucks. If she would just take me back, I’d get back together with her. She also sent this cryptic text about needing Place. What do I do to acquire her back?
We have been broken up and you simply designed a choice for yourself. You’re finding out some respond to to what you would like and even if this new marriage isn’t what’s best or much better than you think that ours can be and all of that, you may perhaps need to have time clear of me to mend and judge that it’s all right to allow me to back into your daily life. If you still loved me and preferred me in your existence you wouldn’t be so baffled.
Hello kevin, presently we break up Nearly a person thirty day period back . Our marriage goes about one particular yr and half and stay with each other. And right after break up immediately she date with new guys.and we nevertheless Make contact with, usually she constantly start to contact me with several of topic that she will cope with by herself. We still meet up with,goes out ,kissing and she or he accompany me and im also do the same factor with her which is often be there for her . She continue to ship me some meals and sometimes she accompany me at Workplace it since prior to this she was my ex staff members. She alter following she bought a different work . Meanwhile she fulfilled that guy at outdoors that's her ex boyfriend Buddy. And she said also she didnt critical along with her relationship just after her new boyfriend bought caught acquiring A different Female Nonetheless they even now carry on their romance . We frequently Get in touch with and following break up also she still wearing all my things which i give her to be a current. But when im inquiring her about our status, she said we are merely friend due to the fact she definitely at ease with me to share and do a great deal of matters with be than her boyfriend.
She claims I could’ve changed her intellect about her rendering it official with her new boyfriend. She says she thinks about me every day and I believe this is just what’s cozy for her now. I’ll need to Dwell With all the simple fact that they're without doubt personal. She will be able to’t wait extensive and which was my major worry. I experience vengeful and many others. so I’ll try to get over All those inner thoughts just before I Make contact with her. I’ll be part of some clubs I’ve been serious about college and check out to make my social standings there. I’ll go on a number of dates and doubtless fuck all around until finally I sense better. It’s questionable what will come about with my ex. I uncovered about her boyfriend as well as their remaining intimate by breaking NC several occasions. She seemed really Not sure of herself and I didn’t know how I ought to deal with that. She’s Actually submissive and baffled plenty of that I'd personally’ve been tempted to alter her brain then attempt to repair what we had going with therapy or a little something. I am able to’t definitely say it might have been the wrong decision but I’ll have an excellent opportunity to truly feel like myself to get a little bit devoid of remaining tied down and with no with the ability to switch back. I sent her a long letter these days. I really just needed to enable her feel like she could learn how to get back on course by getting some examples of how I had been finding out my very own feelings.
So, she might be about to deny your invitation of meeting up, even when she has emotions for you and wants to meet up. She basically desires to take care of her integrity in her possess eyes.
For me who held myself collectively for 2 weeks that was in order to Considerably and boy did I cry as soon as she left the house. Then I built a call. I could not Dwell together with her similar to this. It was pure torture. I imply: ‘no I don’t want a marriage with you any more’ and ‘Indeed, I do want you to remain my roommate’ doesn’t add up now does it? So the next day I confronted her and told her I had been gonna move out. Then she starts to cry and telling me that she doesn’t want me to depart. ‘Exactly what the hell?!’ im considering but will also: ‘Aha, lastly some emotion’. Subsequent day she will come up with explanation why it may not be practical to maneuver out but Which I in all probability will never locate a better put. At exactly the same day I did obtain An additional area within reach and later on told her I will be leaving quickly. Now Make contact with among us is on surface area-stage…mostly being well mannered to one another. Quickly I'm about to go out and there are still a detail or two How to Get Your Ex Boyfriend Back not talked above yet. Also im pondering..what right after I moved out? Will she start off lacking me and try to Speak to me? And if she does how will I reply and how to proceed?
By natural means, she doesn’t want to contemplate herself as a person who betrays the trust from the dude she's viewing.
Asking her spouse about Conference you is a lot more out of respect for him instead of being Buddy zoned, and it’s fully your choice if you want to Allow go or maintain on.
My girlfriend And that i have been in a protracted-length romantic relationship and he or she broke up with me right after relationship for two years mainly because I think she was expanding closer to a different man. We broke up on comparatively superior conditions. The main yr we had been collectively but then she had to move back to her region so we put in the majority of the 2nd 12 months within an LDR. We had an exceptionally close and intimate have a peek at this web-site romantic relationship but I suppose the gap took its toll and she essential the eye of somebody nearby to get there for her Once i couldn’t. I were setting up a way to conclusion the prolonged distance this summer immediately after finishing undergraduate studies but however, she couldn’t hold out that extensive. She explained we would have liked a break in December in advance of confirming the break up in January. I just discovered not too long ago from her that she’s relationship that new person And that i’m gonna be in her spot next week. I requested if she wanted to fulfill up but she explained it wouldn’t be a good idea as a result of new man she’s courting.
So even if you are certain that you will be better than the opposite male, don’t get complacent. You continue to might reduce her for those who don’t Enjoy your cards appropriate.
Ryan, It’s been 3.5 months because my gf broke up with me and I initiated nc a couple of situations, when I caught to it for per month – throughout the 2.5month marker she advised me she experienced started to date anyone new – as it is possible to imagine this crushed me but I wished her luck with it and went back to nc. The breakup came away from remaining area for me, In spite of her protest that there was nobody else concerned I've a sense this person may well are actually hovering while in the background. I think this because she experienced said to me through the breakup that she was indignant with me for many points, and she didn’t want this a person man at operate to flirt with her and for her to Believe for just a next I deserved it – so I do How to Get Your Ex Boyfriend Back think it'd be that dude. That makes me Imagine she Enable him flirt and perhaps things obtained out of hand and inner thoughts developed. But This really is just speculating as I have no tough evidence. It may be that he’s an uncomplicated rebound concentrate on if he was flirting prior to, who understands. I’m perplexed at how she will move on so swiftly being aware of she needed much with us on a pair months just before the break, we had relationship and relocating back in alongside one another on the table and were with each other for 7 yrs.
Drive yourself socially. Visit the bar or club with friends. Go with a day and remember what it’s prefer to enjoyable, pleased and outgoing. Start writing in a journal or participating in an instrument. 3) You could locate that you're improved off heading separate means. Continue on to drive towards your daily life goals and ambitions and know that she might not Get hold of you right after 2 months.
She remains currently being really manipulative and isn't giving adore freely in her interactions with you. The capture is, that when she looks like she will almost certainly drop you once and for all, she puts with a smiley confront, exhibits emotion and gets serious sweet.
Women (and human beings in general) will normally try and demonstrate that they know them selves a lot better than any individual else.


Congratulations on your marriage. Have a wonderful life ! You are two terrific people, Now teamed as man and wife. A team with blessing like yours will have a life you'll cherish, you'll find happiness everywhere, for your love will never perish
TWO LIVES. TWO HEARTS Joined together in frindship united forever in Love..
True Love Stories never have Endings. Success in marriage does not come merely through finding the right mate. but through being the right mate.


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Women’s higher salaries and male stress
Both popular opinion and results of social studies invariably indicate that being in a relationship with a woman who earns more often causes discomfort in her male partner. According to Zbigniew Lew-Starowicz, a sexologist and expert of the “Zarobki bez tabu” (“Earnings without taboos”) campaign: “In therapy, women have no problem revealing who the family’s main earner is. There is a clear difference when it comes to men – they are reluctant to admit that their female partners earn more than them. Gender stereotypes are still going strong. Moreover, men who earn less than their partners feel uncomfortable and are inclined to read too much into the way their significant others treat them”.
An extremely interesting study was conducted by the Polish researcher Joanna Syrda, PhD, an economist working at the University of Bath’s School of Management, between 2001 and 2015, with a sample size of more than 6,000 heterosexual couples in the USA. She analysed the level of stress experienced by men depending on the share of their wives’ income in the overall household budget. It turned out that the relationship between the two is U-shaped: men felt most comfortable when the women’s income accounted for 40% of their joint proceeds – it was when the men’s stress levels were lowest. They rose both when the woman was fully financially dependent on the man and when the man was fully dependent on the woman. In the latter case, stress levels in men reached maximum values – they were also higher than when the man was the family’s only breadwinner.
Another important conclusion from the study was that the relationship between women’s higher income and elevated stress levels in men was not noticeable in couples where the woman has always made more money since the beginning.
The above goes to show that the vast majority of men feel mentally overburdened by being the family’s only breadwinners and that they appreciate the woman’s contribution into the family budget. However, they feel best when that contribution is a bit smaller than their own. Another important conclusion is that it is easier for men to accept their partners’ higher earnings if it has always been that way – it is more difficult to accept the disproportion if the man was the main earner for a while, but then the tables have turned.
How to avoid problems if it is the wife/female partner who earns more?
Whether a woman’s bigger paycheck will lead to conflict largely depends on our standards, values and beliefs, both those we are aware of, and those that we subscribe to without even realizing it. The things we experienced in our own family homes have an important impact on our attitudes, but we do not have to be blindly enslaved to them in all respects. Many of my coachees say that they have put a lot of effort into making their relationships, attitudes to life, work and raising children different from those instilled in them by their parents.
I believe that a key contributor to building meaningful relationships is being able to talk about difficult matters and emotions in an open way, based on trust towards your partner. It is unacceptable to use your financial advantage to humiliate or subjugate your partner – this applies to both men and women. Teasing your partner about their income, especially in company, or ostentatiously emphasizing your higher earnings is especially hurtful and may be even more profoundly distressful for men, undermining their self-esteem.
In a healthy relationship, the partner who earns less should be shown what they are appreciated and admired for and how important their contribution to the family’s wellbeing is. It is worth emphasizing that a person should not be judged through the prism of their earnings. In addition, while talking to your partner, make sure you do not mock other people you know just because they make less money.
The labour market is becoming increasingly more dynamic. As technology develops and social changes take hold, new professions emerge. The level of income in particular industries may change as compared to other jobs. Everyone will change employers several times during their professional career. Many people will entirely change their profession. You need to be flexible and accept the fact that it is next to impossible to anticipate how attractive your salary will remain over the years as compared to the salaries of other people, including your partner.
If you stick to obsolete attitudes and social norms, you will likely experience a lot of stress, also in terms of sharing responsibilities and chores within the household. Openness, co-responsibility and a partnership-based approach is in the best interest of both men and women. It helps to reduce stress and defuse conflicts.
 After: Size does matter. Paycheck size does matter for Polish couples, by: jm.https://www.pulshr.pl/wynagrodzenia/rozmiar-ma-znaczenie-grubosc-portfela-wazna-dla-polskich-par,19082.html
 Joanna Syrda, Spousal Relative Income and Male Psychological Distress, Personality and Social Psychology Bulletin https://doi.org/10.1177/0146167219883611


“Bad first date” stories are very common — but what about stories about first dates that end in a lawsuit?
Brendan Vezmar of Austin, Tx., sued a woman who joined him on a first date to see Guardians of the Galaxy, Vol. 2 because she was texting during the film. The suit sought the cost of the movie ticket … a whopping $17.31.
“It was kind of a first date from hell,” he told the Austin American-Statesman. Only a short while into the film, the date began texting on her phone, which Vezman described as “like one of my biggest pet peeves.”
According to Vezmar, she used her phone at least 10-20 times in 15 minutes to text and check her messages. After he asked her to stop, and she refused, the woman eventually left the theater without Vezmar, leaving him to find a ride for himself.
When Vezmar called the woman and asked her to reimburse him the $17.31 cost of the movie ticket for providing him with such a disappointing first date, she at first refused.
The CEO of the movie theater, Alamo Drafthouse, even offered a gift certificate for the full cost of a ticket to settle the lawsuit.
In the end, the woman decided to reimburse the man for the cost of the movie.
”The date just didn’t work out and I would love to give you your $17.31 if you can just leave me alone,” she told the man.
The man accepted the apology — and the $17.31. But is clogging up the courts with ridiculous suits like these a way to get revenge for a bad first date?


True love is something many individuals are trying to find. Life could really be lonely at times, and its only normal to want a true partner with whom you can experience the world with. True love is one of the fundamental, inspiring goals of the human condition.
True love means different things for various individuals, but by and large it is the state of being cared for and caring for completely. It is the true happiness and romance that you experience with somebody you truly love. There are many stories about true love. Individuals who are truly in love would do everything for one another supporting one another regardless of what is done or said. It just feels absolutely right to share a powerful relationship with someone you actually love. True lovers live happily ever after.
Most reliable psychics would let you know when its the right time, you and your true love will find each other. So regardless of how much you want and need true love and even though you think you can’t continue living your life without it, if the time is not right then you will not find true love. The fact is, a psychic will tell individuals when it is the right time for them to find true love. Based on your body language, characteristics, emotional disposition as well as spiritual and psychological signs, skilled psychics can read your future. For example, an individual who has a strong core, a centered soul and a good self-understanding is much more likely to find true love. An intuitive will mirror this back to you, because usually centeredness is a subtle state. The surface may feel difficult or choppy, but if your center is strong, a psychic would see it and let you know.
A psychic will know if the time is right for you and she or he will\would recommend some effective ways for you to find true love. There are some activities that you could do and a few places where you could go to discover true love but it would all depend on your psychic state. If you have a lively, fiery state, you may attract love in athletic activities, while if your state is calmer and quieter, joining a book club could be a better approach. Some psychics would even advise you on meditations to do, colors to wear or specific gemstones which can enhance your odds of finding true love.
True love is notoriously unpredictable, and sometimes it seems like it just wants to play games. It could be that a psychic sees your path to true love beginning with a specific suggestion. For instance, if your psychic says to travel, you could meet someone with whom you feel a strong friendship connection while traveling. While spending time being friends with this person and going to a lot of different places, you could come home jovial with the experience but still searching for true love.
The thing about true love is that you have to be in the right place for it. We all have our paths that we take through life, and for others, perhaps the true job of the psychic is to help you find the capital L love that comes from loving yourself and loving the divine forces that permeate the world.


April 10, 2011
Three Commonly Asked Questions About Sponsorships
Q: Can my spouse or common-law partner or brother co-sign the Sponsorship Agreement?
A: Yes, your spouse / common-law partner can co-sign the Sponsorship Agreement and they must fulfill the same requirements as the principal sponsor.No other family member is eligible to co-sign.
Q: What do I do after I am approved as a sponsor?
A: Your file will be forwarded overseas for processing.If they are medically and criminally admissible, and proof of relationship is established they will receive their visas to immigrate to Canada.
Q: What happens if I change my mind after I am approved as a sponsor?
A: If you do not want to sponsor your parents at some point you must write a letter to CPC Mississauga before your parents receive their visas.


You gotta respek Birdman! The hip-hop mogul is dating singer Toni Braxton. The couple were inseparable all weekend, as they attended the 2016 BET Awards together.
According to PEOPLE, they strolled together backstage and even posed for photos together before leaving and holding hands. When asked about the relationship, Birdman said: “We’re just chillin’.” However, a rep for Braxton confirmed the pair are dating.


02 August 2018
Rightly said by Marcus Tullius Cicero, “Friendship improves happiness and abates misery, by the doubling of our joy and the dividing of our grief.” Having someone to enjoy your favorite animated series online or having someone to play with or just having someone to talk to is one of the greatest gifts any human being can receive at any age.
Advantages of Children Having Friends
As parents we can’t force our kids or someone’s kids to be friends with each another. What we can do is explain to them what friendship means, how they can be a good friend, and build a strong friendship.
The three most important ways of creating a strong bond of friendship are
1. Understanding The Definition of Friendship– The most of us neglect the foundation of creating a great friendship. The essence of friendship includes
2. Qualities of a Good Friend– A good friend is someone who will always have your back through thick and thin. They are someone you can trust and who will support you. They will be critical about you but that’s only because they care. Some qualities of a good friend are
3.Do’s and Don’ts in a Friendship– There are a few pointers that can help children in developing a lasting bond. Ask them to follow this:
|Things to Practice||Things Not to Practice|
|Listen to your friends when they talk and respond accordingly.||Don’t put anyone down in front of others or if it’s just the both of you.|
|Congratulate your friend when they do something well.||Bragging about things you have done or got is never a good idea|
|Be honest with your feelings but don’t hurt their feelings||Don’t interrupt while your friend is sharing something interesting like a joke of news.|
|Help and encourage them all the time without keeping score.||Never talk about them behind their backs or about them without their permission.|
|Always return anything you have used or borrowed from them.||Don’t make personal comments about their color, religion, country, or their physical appearance.|
|Be pleasant with each other by saying please and thank you.||Don’t overbear or overpower your presence in their life.|
|Always clear the air if there is a conflict. Don’t have any grudges or anger towards each other.||Don’t fight their battles for them. You can support them but don’t interfere in their personal space unless they ask for help.|
This Friendship day makes it a point to make new friends and cherish the ones you have. You can give them a friendship band as a token of appreciation and affection you have for them for being your friend. They have accepted you for what you are, you should do the same. Before being anyone else friend, be your own.


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The life of Bahar (Deniz Cakir), a married mother of two, changes when her 19-year-old daughter falls in love with the wrong guy. Her daughter Ela's (Ilayda Alishan) first love is not a college student her age, but her father's 35-year-old boss, who is about to marry his ex-girlfriend. Bahar, who's trying to save her daughter from this wrong relationship, can't guess what might happen and tried to celebrate her daughter's 19th birthday party. Bahar and her family's life changes forever on Ela's 19th birthday.


Happy Mother’s Day to your beautiful wife:
CONTINUED: from dad — Scanning journal entries, it’s supposed to happen the other way around:
Dad’s Journal Entry: 17, Nov. 1997 – (Gianni was 6 years-old):
Back to this journal, after months of computer thinking, journal thinking. Maybe closure. Maybe something of love. I’ve spent two months in Rochester — away from Terrylene and Gio. When I returned, walking down the movable hallway… Seeing Gio’s wondrous face… his smile saying, recognizing: “DADDY!” Continued in his expression – is/was ALL that I AM. In a moment — a child sees in me, him… me, my life. my/our time together and God be with me on my own deathbed – that I will part from this wonderful child, who is a man already.


Traveling with your partner is quite a common thing nowadays. Most people have a lot to do and have to go to different places in search of new adventures or better education opportunities. Traveling with your partner is very convenient and easy. You don’t have to spend your whole days together just to fulfill your plans, you can take full advantage of your time with your partner by going on a trip together.
Always Traveling with your partner gives you great experience regardless of bad vacations can really teach you many things, which are useful for you in the near future. Sometimes just the company with you in traveling alone can make a huge difference on your traveling experience. It’s not always obvious that your traveling companion is just your lover, your family member or your co-worker, sometimes your best friend can be your best partner or your family member.
There are also many other advantages of having your partner during your travels. Traveling with your partner can provide you the opportunity to really spend some quality time together. Traveling with your partner could also be a great way to build up your romance and enhance your love for each other. Traveling with your partner could also provide a great way to solve your problems. And as you know there are many problems that couples encounter when they are traveling alone, such as the lack of communication, loneliness and boredom.
But before planning your trip, the first thing you have to do is to think of your destination. Decide whether you want to visit some place far from your home or you want to visit a place close to your home. After deciding about your destination, you will have to consider the schedule of your travel. This means that you have to plan everything about your traveling. After your decision making is done, then you can start planning about your traveling companions.
As I said above, it is a good idea to select someone who will be a good travel companion for you. You will not have a hard time picking someone because there are so many choices. Your partner can accompany you every time you travel so you will be able to build your memories together. There are different types of trips you can do with your partner. One of the most common is a romantic getaway. Going on a cruise ship, visiting different places and enjoying the natural beauty will provide you both with many memorable moments and wonderful memories.
Another good idea of traveling with your partner is to take a trip to different interests parks and beach sites. Going to different interests sites will give you more time to spend together. If you don’t have anyone who is into sports, it will also be perfect if you both don’t have any favorite sports. You can just enjoy each other’s company while enjoying the beauty of different interests sites. If you really want to build your traveling memories, try to go to different places with your partner instead of staying in one place. This will make your trip more unforgettable and you will have a lot more things to talk about with each other.


tags: asia, china, couples photos, lijiang, lijiang old town, photo shoots, romance in china, shu he ancient city, shuhe ancient town, wedding photos
It’s not difficult to understand why Shu He Ancient City and Lijiang Old Town are filled with independent photo studios. The historic centers of this Chinese city are simply beautiful, making them prime choices for wedding photo shoots. Here’s a collection of shots from pretty couples finding love in Lijiang.
(Okay, maybe it’s a little stalkerish.)