Recently on The Narcissist: A User’s Guide Facebook page, a questioner asked: “Why can I not just let go of it and him?” She knew this toxic relationship was harmful, yet she felt powerless against falling back into the same old patterns with the narcissist in her life. She went on to share that even though the narcissist himself had become involved with another person, she still couldn’t let go.
This is a common situation. We are involved in a toxic relationship with someone who uses us for narcissistic supply. We know that we should discontinue the relationship, yet we feel drawn back to the narcissist time and time again.
There are two basic reasons we can’t let go of a narcissist:
1. We’re getting more out of having the toxic relationship than we think we would get out of not having it. If the toxic person is powerful or wealthy, for example, we may get some sort of positive impact on our own self-esteem by remaining in their circle. If this person drops us an emotional crumb every once in a while, we may consider this gesture is much more meaningful in our life than other influences. Its effect is magnified. This is co-dependency. We are being used as a source of narcissistic supply, yet we use the narcissist for emotional validation, too. We are each using the relationship for an emotional boost.
2. We believe that having a toxic relationship with the narcissist is the best we can do, for whatever reason. Even if we know in our head this is not the case, we overrule the logical thought with our emotion. This keeps us stuck in the toxic relationship. Letting go of the narcissist will lead to seeking happiness on our own (which in turn will open us up to healthier relationships with others). But we are fearful of this and cannot take action because of Number 1 above.
It is helpful to understand the “why” that we stay in a toxic relationship, but at some point, we must stop focusing on the why of what we’re doing and move forward. Accept the situation as it is, not what it has been in the past, nor what you wish it could or should be. Also, be aware that until we do this, we are signaling to a narcissist that we are available as narcissistic supply.
A positive step can be as simple as saying to yourself, “This relationship is bad for me, and I cannot continue to have this person in my life.” “The past is the past, and I am choosing to move forward.” “I will not allow myself to be used as this person’s source of narcissistic supply.” Messages such as these can build you up and keep you focused.
Consider this: It’s possible that someone who has so little regard for us now won’t miss us very much when we let go of them. There is a distinct possibility that a toxic person will rather easily move on from us, particularly if they have replaced their source of narcissistic supply. This may make it easier to say goodbye. It is a very hard thing to come to reality with these relationships, but you can break the pattern.


I Love Lucy **ADOPTED**
I’m Lucy, and I have to tell you that there really and truly are good people in the world! I’m 13 years young, and my family split up recently. It was a really hard transition for everyone, and I wasn’t quite getting the attention a cute Westie girl needs. My family did their best but eventually decided I would be happier in another home with lots and lots of time devoted to me. Enter… Lone Star Westie Rescue! My awesome Austin, TX foster fam, Pam & Al, took me right into their home! Now enter… Papa Todd and Mama Leslie! Mom and Pop were out of town and hadn’t had a chance to meet me yet, but when LSWR told them about me, they wanted me instantly. Even though I have some health issues, they just knew in their hearts that I was the perfect addition to their family. My awesome Austin family brought me to DFW where I met and fell in love with Papa Todd and Mama Leslie… and, I even have two new Westie sisters, Chloe & Roxy!
I’m happy to say… and they all lived happily ever after!
Hugs & kisses,


Embark on an intimate mountain hike to the highest peaks and deepest valleys of love and close relationships with Lucky Lo's "Peak/Valley."
"Peak/Valley" is an affirming and relatable ode to the ups and downs of long-term relationships, friendships, and family ties. Lucky Lo's warm and distinctive vocals, which move from deep and emotional to bright and clear like the mountains themselves, add rich detail to the song's narrative.
Just like mountain climbers secure each other with carabiners - we too can keep each other safe when we choose to support one another through the treacherous terrain that is life. Swedish artist Lo Ersare grew up in a family where mountain hiking and climbing were a part of everyday life, so the symbolism behind the single is not unfamiliar to the now Copenhagen-based artist.
"When you're climbing, there's always someone on the ground to secure you. That way, you're never alone, and having someone with you is crucial. The same goes for relationships," she emphasises.
"There's this idea that perfect balance is the ultimate goal, but the reality is that life is unpredictable, and we can't always control what happens to us. However, if we can weather the journey together, we can also find happiness together" explains Lo Ersare, who sings:
Look a star not falling far
Gotta go get it for ya
Cause it got dark and you got lost


The year 2020 has brought some unexpected challenges. Even the strongest of us find that the Covid-19 pandemic is taking a toll on our well-being. We’re struggling not only on the individual level but are also experiencing distress in relationships with other people, especially our partners.
Suddenly, being in the presence of each other 24/7 without a minimal amount of any other social interaction stirred a lot of trouble between many couples. They found themselves fighting more than usual, even over the most trivial things. Craving alone time also became an issue, especially for those who live in small spaces.
Furthermore, plenty of people had to postpone their plans like moving, getting engaged, or getting married. The pandemic also became an unfortunate occasion for some to find out that they don’t share the same priorities as their partners.
Here’s more on some of the biggest challenges faced by couples during the pandemic.
The stress and anxiety caused by the uncertainty about where the pandemic is going often lead to increased conflicts between couples, which is understandable given how unpredictable the situation is. It’s crucial to realize that you alone cannot do anything about this situation, so they should focus on what can be changed instead of stressing out over what they can’t control. While we can’t predict or do anything about the future, we can deal with the present to make us feel better and let us enjoy being together more.
There’s also the fact that the divorce rates spiked around the world, and some of the relationship experts warn that the break-up curve, induced by the pandemic, may not have peaked yet. Divorce is not an inevitable fate that will meet every couple that goes together through the pandemic. Still, if it’s something that you’re considering, there are plenty of resources on how the divorce works in practice and what you and your partner should prepare for in case you decide to part ways.
Sadly, not all couples have someone to lean on during tough times, and some people have no one but their partner to keep them going amidst all the chaos around them. But, spending too much time with your loved one comes with its own set of potential difficulties.
Those who struggle with depression or anxiety are especially at risk of breaking down during the pandemic due to the loss of their daily routines and activities that used to bring them joy. In those cases, both partners must understand the situation each other is going through.
The best thing you can do is talk to each other about how you’re feeling and what you need from your relationship. You can also try doing things together, like going for a walk or cooking a nice meal. Finally, don’t forget to give each other some space once in a while so you can recharge your batteries and spend time alone doing things that bring you joy.
Many people are changing after experiencing some of the major life stressors caused by the pandemic. What they value in their relationships has, in many cases, changed too, which makes them question whether they should stay with their partners. One way to strengthen your bond is trying new things together with your significant other or meeting up with old friends again. Find ways to engage with each other so you can reconnect emotionally and maintain an open line of communication.
If none of those suggestions helps you feel closer to each other, it might be time to seek professional help from a relationship counselor. A good therapist can help you identify where some of the issues in your relationship are coming from and develop solutions to deal with them.
During the pandemic, many people experience changes that are hard for their partners to understand or accept. Some might experience weight loss or gain due to underlying illness, while others might have emotional problems caused by anxiety, depression, or lack of social interactions. It can cause severe problems in some relationships, such as unmet expectations.
In such a situation, we must try to understand why we see these changes and help each other through it. For starters, it’s crucial to communicate with your partner. Letting everything stew inside us can strain even the strongest relationship, especially when it comes to our partners. Without letting each other know how they feel, couples cannot connect in the way they used to before the pandemic struck.
The whole world is going through a rough patch right now, and there’s nothing we can do about it. We have to support each other in every way we can and do everything in our power to make sure that we don’t lose sight of what matters the most.
This advice is specifically vital for couples, as many of them have to face new challenges every day. If you are in a relationship, you cannot let distress and problems go unresolved, as they’re likely to get worse as time goes on. Instead, focus on improving your communication and address the most burning issues that you spot. This way, you can strengthen your bond with your partner and enjoy the time you spend together.


“Love is of all passions the strongest, for it attacks simultaneously the head, the heart and the senses.” ~ Lao Tzu
I have a picture of me around seven years old wearing a Betty Boop long sleeve shirt. That when I found myself in this shop the other day checking out their merchandise after seeing a very colorful top on someone I saw these dresses with the character. After a few minutes of reminiscing I couldn’t resist buying one. It has wording in the front and in the back that speaks to the emotions we can develop for people that go beyond distance.
The lesson this week speaks of love and found the dress to be perfect to convey a message of love.
© The Best Year of Your Life by Debbie Ford
Lesson 48: Lavish Love
The fastest way I know to amplify the amount of love in our hearts is to share that love with someone else. Love is contagious – the more you give, the more you get. And of course, when we lavish love upon others, we also lavish it upon ourselves.
Just imagine how you’d feel if you shared a degree of love with someone in your life that they’ve never felt from you before. What if you did something for them that was unexpected, unimaginable, and completely over the top? What effect do you think this gift would have on you? If you’re thinking it would fill you with love, you’re probably right.
This is the week to lavish love upon people you care about. Notice how much happier you feel when you share your heart with another.
Your Self-Love Assignment
Think of one special person in your life to lavish love upon this week. On a beautiful piece of stationery or in a journal, write a list of the 50 things you love most about this person and present it to him or her as your gift.
You can also go for extra credit by e-mailing a similar list to other people in your life whom you want to acknowledge: your parents, your spouse, your kids, your friends, your boss, or your co-workers. With every person you touch, you become part of a worldwide circle of love that keeps expanding.
If each of us gave this gift to give or ten people this week, think about how much love we’d send into the world!
Self-Love Points Earned
Give yourself 100 points every time you lavish love upon another.
Hair – Tram – A812 Black
Dress – Cae.b. – Miss You Dress Orange
Boots – Schadenfreude – Carnaby Boots White
Looking Through The Window Female Poses – Dyer Maker Animations
Rusted Metal Signs – ::db:: @ Market Place
Mesh Wall Scrolls – RnB


I cannot even begin to describe how important my mother is to me. She has ALWAYS been the one person there for me, no matter what. She is my rock. She is always putting everyone ahead of herself and making sacrafices; giving up her career to be there more for her family. And I can only hope that one day I am as good a mother as she is to me and my sibilings.


Regardless of where you currently live and work as long as you were married in Turkey or at a Turkish Embassy and hold an official Marriage Certificate/Book you have the right to petition the court for a divorce in Turkey.
Grounds for Divorce
Turkish family law originates from within Swiss Family Law. In Turkish Law there are two types of divorce cases: Contested Divorce and Uncontested Divorce. In both cases the ground for divorce needs to be qualified and especially for contested divorce the grounds needs to be proven by the applicant.
Grounds for Contested Divorce Cases:
Either spouse may bring a case to the court in order to end the martial relationship. The case must be brought to the competent court (usually the defendants region where they were last registered).
There are two main type of grounds (General or Specific) for contested divorce cases in Turkish family law.
1) General grounds: High-conflict divorce/ marriage which has irretrievably broken down:
If the disputes between spouses have put them apart and it is not possible for them to continue the marital life together in other word if the marriage has irretrievably broken down, and there is a conflict in between spouses; in this case either spouse can petition to court for divorce. Court specifically looks into the facts, as to whether it is possible for the couple to continue a marital life together and whether the grounds the couple has established their marriage on to is still solid or not.
Specific Grounds for Divorce
2) Specific grounds: These grounds are listed in Turkish Civil code as follows:
a) Adultery: Although with the recent changes in Turkish Criminal Law Adultery is not a criminal act it is still listed as a specific ground for divorce. Physical relationship is deemed as an Adultery and gives the right to the spouse petition the court. If either spouse would be in physical relationship with a third party, during the marital life the other spouse has the right to apply for divorce under Adultery.
b) To make an attempt on other party’s life/bad treatment: This ground on its own is a reason for the divorce, the court would not look in whether the marital life has been damaged as a result of this action or not. If there is a criminal complaint as well Court would look into those facts as well.
c) Committing Crime and having dishonorable life: If spouse’s life becomes intolerable as a result of other spouse’s behavior such as committing a crime or having dishonorable life then suffering spouse has the right to petition the court for divorce under these grounds.
e) Desertion: If one the spouses has left the marital home to avoid his/her responsibilities and would not come back without any rightful reasons and if such desertion lasts more than 6 months suffering spouse has the right to petition the court for divorce under these grounds.
f) Mental illness: In the event of one of the spouses has got mental illness within the marital life and its approved that there is no treatment of such illness and if it is not possible/tolerable for the other spouse to continue the marital life then that spouse has the right to petition the court for divorce under this grounds.


Downtown Toronto Wedding
Rebecca & Gabriel’s Canadian wedding took place in November. Toronto City Hall hosted their ceremony, and they selected Caju Restaurant for a low key and casual reception. Gabriel is from Brazil so the cuisine of the restaurant provided a nod to his family and heritage.
“Gabriel and Rebecca met online, and deleted their dating profiles after their first date,” Rebecca told Gabriel. “We moved in together after a month of dating and knew we were going to get married. We both just knew we had finally met the right one, and something about the way we worked together just made complete sense! Gabriel is from Brazil, living in Canada and Rebecca moved to Toronto to meet people. None of Gabriel’s family was able to come to Canada for our wedding, so they had their small 30 guest reception at an authentic Brazilian Restaurant so we would at least incorporate Brazil through the amazing food.”


I am loving the symmetry of this! Today I have been married for the same number of years that I had been single. I was married at 21 years old and as of 1:30pm today, I have been married to my fabulous, patient, intelligent husband for 21 years.
The fact that the sum is 42 is something I had not even realized would happen when I decided that this blog would be called 42 things. Ah the serendipity of it all.
Now I am the older woman in this marriage. My husband has been married longer than he has not been by two year. Yes, if you do the math he was 19 when we got married.
Now if we have learned anything in this marriage it is to be flexible and open to change…and we have certainly had a lot of change in the last 21 years! I am not going to lie; marriage is hard work, but also offers the best rewards. It takes compromise and sacrifice and some tongue-biting as well, but I am a far better person than I could have ever hoped to be because of my marriage and because of the unconditional love my husband gives me.
Now tonight will be quite the celebration! Well to be honest, tonight is the only night that everyone in our family was available to take advantage of a fabulous gift we were recently given. So instead of a romantic candle-lit dinner in a snooty restaurant sans kids, the entire family is going to Medieval Times in Toronto! Yup, we are going to eat with our hands and watch a jousting match and hang with the kids–kind up sums up the last 21 years, actually.
Happy Anniversary, babe.


Coming Out Story 8
Growing up my family was really gay friendly. I had two gay uncles and everyone was accepting of them. When I was in fifth grade my mom told me that she would love me no matter who I loved. At the time I had no idea what she meant because all I cared about was playing soccer. However, as I got older I started to comprehend what my mother's words really meant. In middle school all my friends talked about boys and tried getting boyfriends, but I wasn't interested. That's when I started to realize that I was different from all my friends. During my first year of high school I realized I was a lesbian and it felt good to know that my mother was there to support me. At the end of my first year of high school I began dating my best friend, but that relationship only lasted three months before my girlfriend started cheating on me with my cousin. I hadn't openly come out to my family yet so I tried to keep the relationship and breakup a secret. One day one of my sisters saw me crying and she asked me what was wrong. I told her everything that had been going on between my cousin, my ex-girlfriend, and me. Instead of addressing the fact that I had dated a girl, my sister was mad about what my cousin had done. My sister told everyone in my family what had happened and everyone was upset about what my cousin had done. No one in my family was upset about the fact that my cousin and I were gay. Today my entire family knows that I am gay and they accept me. It is nice to have such an accepting family and I know that I am very fortunate to have a family that loves me unconditionally. I am grateful that my family has never judged me or made me feel uncomfortable expressing who I am.


I soooo have the coolest sister-in-law on this planet. She has such a sense of humor that she can make me almost pee my pants. Not to say that my brother isn't awesome (with a great sense of humor of his own as you can see in the photo above) but he doesn't send me cool paper like this either. How cool is this paper we are thinking 60's 70's. So want to reprint!!! Love you A!!!! Love you to Bro!!! and of course my sweet niece Josie!!!! Good luck this holiday season. LOL Wish you were here or we were there whichever. Just miss you all a whole bunch!


There are hotter boys then my boyfriend.
But i dont care. I really dont because I love him till death.
I dont need sex, I need love.
Is anybody gonna be a stripper for the Halloween?
Really? Really bitch?
I love how he kisses me.
How he touches me. The love of my life.
Yeah, I swear too much. Because, fuck you, i dont know?


January 2005 News
January 13, 2005 @ 5:30 P.M.
The Boynton Beach and Delray Beach Sister City committees jointly convened at the Delray Beach Golf Course for their first joint meeting. Discussed at the meeting were ideas about their respective sister city relationships with their sister cities in other countries. Namely, Miyatzu, Japan; Moshi, Tanzania; and Qufu, China.
Refreshments and hors'derves were served while discussing possibilities of more integration of the other sister cities within each other.


Thankful: Family | Families
I know this is sappy, but my family is great. They are all wonderful, good people. No, they aren’t perfect, but at their cores, they are good. I know that I am really lucky to have them.
My parents are truly great. I love them deeply. They helped me become the good person that I am. They are kind, loving, affectionate, and honest. They would support me through any endeavor I choose. They just want me to be happy. My sister is just as good. She would help me or any member of our family if they truly needed it. She is a loving mother to her children and I see them becoming just as trusting and loving as the rest of the family.


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On the backside of this web page there is a collection of Links to Articles for advice on dating. Be sensible; if your date is coming round at 8pm and also you end work at 6pm then you definitely'll in all probability need to purchase your ingredients and do your Magic Maid impression the day before. All of this seems like a feminine's information to courting a female, not a brand new lesbian's guide to courting.
According to a survey of EliteSingles members about on-line courting profiles, a shocking 52 % stated they wouldn't even open a profile with no profile picture. Based on Online Courting Journal, 20% of People have gone out on a date with somebody they met on line. Though assembly people at occasions and through friends and family is still the norm, undoubtedly, the largest change in dating is the appearance of on-line relationship websites.
Based on Oyer, there are two main problems with presenting information about yourself on on-line dating zoosk dating app alternative . And remember to really hearken to what your date is telling you about themselves. A foul date helps us to take pleasure in a good one, a superb relationship gets us prepared for a fantastic one, a painful or arduous expertise assessments our composure, flexibility and resilience.
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We wanted the focus to be purely on this young couples enjoyment of being intimate with each other. Martin knows what Silvie likes and her body really responds to his touch. Long moments of kissing and amorous foreplay really makes this scene electrifying, with his hand down her panties using her natural wetness to stimulate her clit, mouth to mouth they breath each other in. When Martin heads between her legs he delights in devouring her heavenly pussy, and he is so good and so enthusiastic eating her that she begins to come, her orgasm is strong and flows through her in waves.
His huge, thick dick is already rock hard and she stretches her warm wet mouth around his girth, fellating him lovingly, worshiping his cock, twitching excitedly at the thought of him inside her. When she moves on top of him, opens her legs and slides herself down on his cock they are finally together in the most intimate and passionate of embraces.
This scene is totally natural and organic, we simply allowed this beautiful couple to enjoy each other so we could capture these real feelings, this scene is not a show for the camera, it's undiluted and lustful, loving and heartfelt. Their bodies remain close, they gaze into each other adoringly and become one in the shared pleasure of physical love.
It was very unexpected and not planned when Martin said he was going to come, Silvie was just on the verge of a climax too when she told him to come inside her. In the most intimate of moments, face to face, they orgasm together and he ejaculates inside her. A wonderful end to a simply fantastic scene.
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My only concern is maintaining friendships, both you and my sister as well as you and me. I don’t see myself in a relationship any time soon so if we can keep this up without messing up those friendships then I’m all for it. I’m just scared cuz that hasn’t ended up that way in the past.
Well all I know is I am not in the market for a relationship anytime soon and I am not ever prepared for a long distance relationship.
I’m fine with either outcome. Do as you please. I certainly don’t wanna blow our cover but I’m not gonna act like I’m uninterested.
Drake feat. Jhene - July
I’m no where close to feeling it and I feel very guilty about it. What if it takes a year before I feel it? What kind of person does it make me if I never do? I refuse to be that person to hurt someone again, but to turn away at this point would be walking away from a possibility that this feeling may or may not occur. I feel bad that I can’t muster the courage to say it back - and mean it… I could tell him I love him, but to me, it is worse to lie than to not say it at all. He says it doesn’t bother him, but is he telling the truth? I know he wouldn’t intentionally lie to me, but he could be potentially lying to himself. I feel like he’s going too fast; his emotions tend to flood in rushes of waves, while mine trickles in like a leaky faucet. So how do I tell him to slow down without hurting his feelings? I have a strong feeling he’ll take it the wrong way if this request is presented to him, so until then, I will remain quiet with fear… but how long can I even do that?
It is currently 4:47AM, my roommate still isnt home because she is studying…and I’m studying for finals…


I Am Just Saying What You All Are Thinking……
Let me paint an all too familiar picture. You have been working all day, only to walk into the kitchen and find a sink full of dishes that you just emptied before you left. Then, you walk into the bedroom to find clothes on the floor that you had cleaned up that morning. Your mind starts flooding with thoughts of an inconsiderate, lazy, ungrateful, selfish and rude spouse.
You start adding to the list of things you are ready to tell your friends at the next lunch gathering at your favorite little sandwich shop. Your mom asks you how things are going at home and boy o’ boy, you start enlightening her about how he/she would be lost if you were not there to clean up their mess and fix their problems.
Have you ever felt like your spouse is not the same person that you married? You didn’t know that you were signing up for what you got? No one ever told you that they do this or constantly say that. I am ashamed to admit that I had these thoughts at times when I first was married (and even for a couple years after that).
It all started when we began living together after we got married. I had this idea that we would share the responsibilities; I would give a little and she would give a little. I began to compare who was doing more and, in my mind, I was the one doing EVERYTHING! (This was not the case but none the less, this is how I felt). I began to keep a record, in my mind, of the things I had done and the things she had not done.
This was my fuel when I needed to let out my anger on her after I came home, and things were not up to MY standards. After years go by, countless times of nagging and several sharp words spoken that caused her emotional scars, our marriage was worse than when it started. It seemed to me that all things I was saying about my wife, to my wife, that I thought other people were thinking but just didn’t want to say, was not doing anything to change her.
Well, news flash, I was the one that needed to change………and quickly! Through several circumstances and people sharing wisdom with me, I began to see that I was the one that really was damaging our marriage. My wife opened up to me and began to slowly share with me, after years of being patient or quiet, how I had damaged her with my words.
I wanted a better marriage and thought I was working towards that by “making my wife better,” and all the while I was tearing her down and destroying our marriage. I saw very quickly the angry and critical person I was and how I was not doing things out of LOVE for my wife, and eventually my children. In the years to come, my two children came along, and I was starting the same bad trends towards them that I had acted out towards my wife.
I thank the Lord that He showed me what kind of husband and father I truly was and the path that I was headed down. Over the past couple of years, I have learned what it truly means to love and to remember the commitment that I made to my wife and the altar over eight years ago.
1 Corinthians 13:4-7 gives us a picture of what love is: “patient, kind, not jealous, not proud, not boastful, not rude, keeps no record of wrongs, is not irritable, does not rejoice about injustice, rejoices when the truth wins out, never gives up, never loses faith, is always hopeful and endures through all circumstances”! I realized as I looked at each of these definitions that most of these I was not following.
The very next chapter (14) in the first verse it states, “make love your highest goal.” My highest goal? I wasn’t even placing love on my to do list. Sure, I thought I was aiming high to love my wife, but my idea of love and what God says love is were not the same thing.
When you start to think of yourself as higher than your spouse or begin to compare, you have missed the mark of marriage. Marriage is that commitment that says I will be with you no matter if it is a good day or a bad day, you’re sick or I’m sick, we’re rich or dirt poor, he/she is faithful or unfaithful.
However, a lot of marriages fail because they look to their spouses to sustain or fulfill them and when that bad day comes, they’re sick, you’re poor and he/she has been unfaithful, they are left empty and dissatisfied with their marriage.
Two perspectives that changed my life and turned my marriage around were:
1) I am guilty of my own faults and weaknesses just as much as my spouse, and Christ still loved me enough to die for my salvation.
2) I should never enter a marriage with the mindset that my spouse will be able to satisfy me in a way that only Christ can.
Do you feel empty a lot? Do you feel like you give and give to your husband/wife and kids without much being given back? There is this often-false idea that I am going to get married so I can rely on this other person to fill this void or need that I have had up until this point, like a need to be loved by another person or a need to feel like an equal (frequently, our feelings can be misleading).
Marriage should be a commitment you make to a person you love and will choose to love despite whether the feelings are there or not. Maybe you have not experienced it yet, or maybe you have, but marriage is filled with ups and downs. If you are serious about the vows that you took at the altar, I want to encourage you to think on these words from Jeremiah 17:9 “The heart (where feelings flow from) is deceitful above all things and beyond cure. Who can understand it?” and Proverbs 4:23 “Guard your heart above all else, for it determines the course of your life.”
I found that one day I would think my wife was the greatest gift I have ever received and the next day I would think “does she even love me?”
I write these things to you with a grieving heart. I have seen too many marriages and families left torn apart because spouses leave when marriage isn’t the fairy tale ending Disney promised. The kids grow up in a single-parent or divided household. The parents incite the children against the other parent with debasing words.
Maybe it starts with a sink full of dishes or clothes on the floor, but then it turns into yelling at your spouse, bad mouthing them to friends and family behind their backs or in front of them, dividing the kids to favor one parent over the other and before you know it, you are separating yourself further and further from your spouse.
If you are thinking right now that you can’t stand your spouse, or your children, and you just need to distance yourself more and more, you could not be further from the truth. You need to chase after the hearts of your spouse and children with the same ferocity that you had hoped your spouse would have for you.
When was the last time that you asked your spouse what they would like to see change in you without ever mentioning what you think they need to change?
When was the last time you got a babysitter and went on a date with your spouse having not mentioned a word about yourself or the kids?
It is NEVER too late to change and seek after your spouse. Even if you are on the verge of, going through or have gone through a divorce. I have seen marriages restored after years of them being divorced. God always created marriage to be for a lifetime! A lot of the western culture has gotten so far away from that and have entered marriage after marriage with selfish and destructive intentions.
My hope and prayer are that you, yes YOU, are reading this with conviction in your heart and are ready to make a heart-change! I say this with having gone through my own valleys of marriage.
What You Can DO:
If you are finding yourself in a marriage that leaves you dissatisfied,
thinking thoughts and/or speaking words of abuse towards your spouse, distancing yourself more and more, then please consider some of these thoughts and applications to your life.
First, start communicating with your spouse in a way that seeks to build them up and evaluate your behavior.
Second, make 1 Corinthians 13:4-7 your highest goal in how to love your spouse.
Third, never, I repeat, never speak in a way to tear down or degrade your spouse either to their face or behind their back. Always seek to build your spouse up, even when you don’t feel love towards them. This is difficult. Apologize when you mess up.
Fourth, pray for your spouse in a way that asks the Lord to work in their lives for their benefit, not yours!
Finally, keep pursuing your spouse even when the feelings are not there because the heart/feelings are deceitful above all things and beyond cure! Pursue your spouse even if it feels like it’s in vain. Even if it feels like they don’t even notice or care. Even if you’re convinced they’ll never come around. PURSUE YOUR SPOUSE.
God bless you! I hope that this was helpful and encouraging. Let’s brainstorm some ways that we can pursue our spouses! Let me know in the comments below!


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They’re not all women, either. I do get the occasional dude who messages me out of frustration with his relationship, and we talk. I have a few basic beliefs about relationships. The first is that the Fairy Tale — that relationship where you’re madly in love and everything seems to fall into place easily and without struggle is very, very rare, at least from a long-term perspective. And when it happens, I think it happens mostly for people over 40. When it happens to the younger group, it’s usually an early phase of a longer relationship. This leads into my second belief about relationships, which is that human beings have uncannily, and unconsciously, designed long-term romantic relationships to bring two people together who drive each other nuts.
I’m really serious about that. Here’s the drill — two people meet, and they fit together perfectly. Connection, bonds, everything each partner has ever been looking for, all there. That’s the glue that locks you into the work that comes later — and also what makes the later work worthwhile. From the realization that you have to quit driving your partner nuts, and also that you have to quit letting your partner drive you nuts, comes growth. This is the ideal, of course. None of this growth can happen if you don’t stay where you are, in the relationship. And then sometimes you grow, and your partner doesn’t, and it’s still intolerable, and so you then decide to go. There are all kinds of permutations, but what I see a lot of is people leaving before the growing happens.
Let me interrupt myself here. I just stopped typing for a moment, and said “Jesus, this is a fool’s errand.” The man across the table from me asked “What is?”
“Writing a post about relationships.” He cackled, sucked in a breath, and nodded. “I’m one of those people who knows a lot about relationships and finds it agonizingly difficult to apply it to myself,” I said.
He nodded again. “Sounds like a lot of therapists I know.”
“I’m sitting across from one of them, aren’t I?” I asked. “Nope,” he said, shaking his head and looking intently back down at the Mahjongg app on the iPad perched on his legs.
“Oh please,” I spat. “Remember the cop who pulled you over for drinking cream soda last month? When he asked you if you’d had anything to drink and you blankly said no, and then he pointed to the bottle he didn’t know was cream soda in disbelief that you would so baldly lie to him?”
“That’s the expression on my face right now.”
The man across the table stops trying to control his expression and he relaxes into a laugh. “Okay, guilty as charged.”
He knows. He knows we drive each other crazy. He knows we work on it harder than most couples and he also knows that even with all that hard work, we still struggle with it constantly. We’re not sure, but sometimes we think we’re more of an extreme case than those other couples who can passably co-exist without constant emotional effort. And he knows, like I do, that we’ve tried to walk away from each other and haven’t yet been successful. And yet there’s a piece of both of us that wishes we could get it done, but a larger piece that resists every time we get too close. He knows we live apart now, and that this has been both bad and good. We know that neither of us is sure where this ends up, neither of us is sure which piece of us will win the struggle. Not to put too fine a point on it, but no one knows the end game of a relationship until one or the other of you is dead.
He knows that we are each very aware of what we trigger in each other, and that we’ve had varying success in learning to deal with it when it happens. We know we still have work to do, progress to make.
But I do know the other night after an author friend posted a poem in which he expressed a love for his wife’s knees, he took my hands and said those were what he loved about me. My hands, he said, are ordinary; they don’t have mile-long fingers like his son’s or an odd shape like his dad’s. But they do extraordinary things, he said as he turned them over and over. They write, they take photographs in the wilderness, they put fabric together for quilts. I was surprised, I said, that we were talking about fingers, because most of our relationship is so cerebral, so emotional, that it’s easy to forget about physicality. But I was glad we were.
I know that almost five years ago, when he was a much more jagged person, full of sharp edges and defended hurts, he showed up in my life on the day my divorce was final, and patiently resisted all my anxiety-ridden attempts to stay uninvolved. So while he breathed the life back into my hurt and traumatized shell, and re-awakened things in me I thought had died, I helped him file down those sharp edges. And later, he made me confront those abandonment fears. He made me learn to face them, dumped them right into my lap, over and over again until I stopped throwing them back at him. To some extent, to love properly, you have to do be willing to do two things: One, handle occasional feelings of inadequacy. Two, be abandoned. These are our twin troubles.
So that’s what we have. All of that in the past, and what is in this very moment. We still cause each other a lot of discomfort; what’s in this very moment is often unease, just as often as there is pleasure or joy. And there are still things I badly, painfully want from him, and I wonder whether I’ll ever get them. (He knows I’m writing this and he knows it’s about us, but he has no inclination to read it, and tells me I can post it anyway. I wish he did want to read it, I wish he would ask about it, be curious about it, but he isn’t, and I suspect that what he badly wants from me is not to make him read it.) I try not to let it reach a fever pitch. Then one of us goes nuts. We try to ride it out. Then he makes me nuts again, or I him. We try to ride it out again. That’s improvement. I used to react. Now I ride out the storm in my head. Or my friends hear about it, usually the ones who have asked me about their relationships and owe me one.
So that’s part of what I know about relationships. I think there are a lot of couples whose relationships can be very satisfactorily tweaked with some new skills for listening, for empathy, for self-awareness. And then there are the harder cases, like us, who require whole-scale remodeling. Or that might be a fantasy; everyone might need remodeling.
But no matter which you are, or where you end up, there’s no downside to the new counter top. Relationships are ultimately about growing yourself.
But please don’t remind me of that tomorrow when I’m riding out another storm.


In retrospect as dramatic and slowly and today moved the talk between DiDi and I is still in my head. I like elaborating on things that seem important to me and anytime that I have even a relatively deep conversation with someone I replay it over and over in my head.
Today we were talking about how you can trust no one, and how were both 5 steps ahead of the game, maturity wise, and how were not stupid. Both of us are alike in the sense that we can see right through fake people and don't take any bullshit. I might act stupid, and I might act like I have no clue, the thing is though I always do know. It got me thinking that there are only a few people that I sincerely trust. That I could tell secretive things to, that I could leave my purse around, that I could even trust to put effort into a friendship. I'm completely content to that. The thing about this is that there are three reasons that I may befriend someone: A) because they have similar interests or beliefs B) because they're attractive (not looks) and nice at the same time with no drama (this is rare) C) because they can have a good time or conversations with me. Generally I try to have all three of these in a friend which makes it difficult to have an obscene amount of friends. DiDi and I are exactly the same in this sense which just makes me love her more.
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A Russian woman will do whatever it takes to keep the family from falling apart. Perhaps nothing signals more to a Russian girl that she is in the presence of a strong, high- status man than when he leads her. They differ from girls from any other country due to the mysterious Russian soul.
If in a Russian family both spouses work, all the costs and the entire family budget are divided equally too, though each of them has also their own money. If you want to find a Russian girlfriend, then keep in mind that they absolutely hate men who can't bear responsibility for their words and deeds, unable to defend their point of view.
So, if you want to find a Russian bride online, use all the power of online dating. Customarily, Russian women put up with this attitude and pride themselves on their hard work and the ability to care for their men and children. Russian girls believe that a man should have his own opinion on some issues and clearly express his position as well.
A Talented Ukrainian Beauty-Nataly Choosing from the available mail order brides involves looking carefully at all of the women who are ready to leave their countries and move to create a new family. Very common at Russian men are dark clothes (mostly, gray and black).
Women always feel cherished when a man they might love makes sacrifices for them, and there is no bigger sacrifice than flying out to her home country to see her. I thought a lot about this in contrast with the way American women think about love. Russian Brides sites, Marriage Top 5 Russian Women Stereotypes agencies and dating sites, join us!.
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If you're addressing a Russian woman you don't know in Russian, there is only one appropriate term for it and it is devushka,â€ which means young woman.â€ And yes, even if the woman in question is in her late fifties, she would still be a devushka.â€ Any other form of address would not just upset her, but could also be seen as an insult.


Life is about having fun and spreading love. So lets capture it!
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Wedding Photography. Emotional & Raw
I love traveling, skateboarding, fresh orange juice, my girlfriend Julia, and watching my plants grow. Also i love telling stories with my camera!
A wedding is very personal , full of emotional and intimate moments. My goal is to take pictures which tell a story about you and your family. Let‘s keep these moments forever.
So it‘s really important for me as a wedding photographer to be not only the guy with the camera but also to accompany your feast as a friend and be a part of it. If you still have questions or requests , feel free to contact me.


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Hi. I am a new user of VUE and am interested in using the search feature to generate filtered views of my maps. However, when I do this, the links between the filtered nodes that remain visible are not shown. Of course, I would like to show these links between nodes that remain displayed after filtering, so that the relationships between them is indicated. Can someone help me figure out how to do this?


When we come together as partners in a sexual relationship, we may first enjoy a ‘honeymoon period’ if we are lucky, but sooner or later conflict, misunderstanding, hurt and disappointment inevitably arise. This is natural and happens even if the relationship is basically good and has real potential.
This is because intimate relationships challenge us in ways that bring up unconscious and disowned parts of ourselves – those sides to us that we find painful and which we may not want to see. Our partner, simply by being their self, often unwittingly does us the service of touching us in these sensitive places, so revealing our vulnerability, or more usually the ways in which we put up barriers to defend ourselves against feeling vulnerable.
When this happens we may feel rejected, abandoned, fearful, intruded upon, or simply hurt and disappointed that we are not treated as we would like to be by the one who is supposed to love us. At this point a loss of trust can take place. In an attempt to protect ourselves against what we perceive as threatening to our sense of feeling safe and secure in ourselves, we may withdraw, block, blame, fight, build up resentment, run into issues of commitment, or repeat a Pushme-Pullyou dynamic. If communication breaks down at this point, unconscious patterns of behaviour develop between us and become entrenched, eventually leading to stuckness, despair, or crisis.
These days it is common for people to give up and move on quite quickly at this stage, usually to repeat the same basic patterns with another partner. Others fall into the old school of defeated resignation, or simply grin and bear it. But rather than perceive the pain and disillusionment as failure, deny it, or see it as a sign that we are incompatible, we can relate to the relationship and all its challenges as an opportunity to learn more about ourselves and the other, and begin to explore new levels of intimacy, both with ourselves and with the other.
If we can begin to be curious about our own fears and vulnerabilities, and without judgement take responsibility for them, and if we are willing to really listen and be open to seeing ourselves and our partner afresh, we can engage in a process of understanding and transformation. In this process the relationship serves as a mirror, urging us to wake up to our vulnerabilities, be compassionate with ourselves, and lower our defenses in order to let the other in. This needs courage, attention and commitment, but it opens a door that leads us to grow in our capacity to love and be loved. It also frees the relationship to fulfill its potential, whether that is towards a deepening commitment or recognizing that it has run its course.
I offer both individual relationship counselling and couples counselling in Norwich. Sessions for couples last an hour and fifteen minutes. If you think couples counselling might be suitable for you and your partner, but you’re not sure, I would be happy to discuss it with you first.


Mackenzie and Linnea met playing ice hockey for a women’s league. Both girls had played throughout high school and college. Their relationship grew being on the same team and the rest is history. The couple love spending time with their families. Linnea is from Minnesota, and many of their summers are spent visiting family there….


We, as social animals need company of one another to share our happiest, grief-stricken, difficulties and easiest moments. Consequently, it leads to party or empathetic moments in return. Whatsoever way we might think to be independent, we’re either directly or indirectly reliant on each other on this planet. Hence to bring a balance in this relation we need to be empathetic, altruistic and compatible.
There are two ways to resist the aforementioned relation – one by denouncing our physical possessions to go on to become a hermit, or by being greedy to have all physical things that come on our way. Nevertheless, these two exceptions would lead to an hostile atmosphere resulting into a chaotic situations. Thus, this type of dependent and jovial atmosphere is the need of the hour ; because, this blooms into a harmony that has more value than silver or gold.
The above friendly relations which include compatibility resulting to a congenial atmosphere could be seen with a small story. They were from different parts of the nation, having a appreciable vulnerability towards potpourri of cultures throughout the length and breadth of the country. Naturally, this portrays their diverse knowledge about different topics while still being down-to-earth. A common thing that bound them together is weekend celebrations and spending time together after the dinner. Nonetheless, their cultures were different; nevertheless they share the common thoughts of being together for their better understanding, non-regionalism, Wildlife Trapping services in Melbourne Florida, and maturity-in-thought.
During the two years of stay, never have they involved themselves in a turmoil situation on petty things, and whatsoever might be the issue. They respected each other when trying to be empathetic, sympathetic and friendly to each other. Obviously, such a behaviour has developed a congenial system among them portraying their compatibility for each other. Additionally, the exciting thing among them that bound them sturdy is their exciting bike trips they’ve had during the two year stay. These excursions have been exciting and have been attracted as successful ones by their peers in their batch.
The point to be emphasized and to be noted here is that despite being different on the basis of caste, creed, sex or region of a nation, we need to be empathetic and sympathetic to each other in order to maintain a congenial relationship. Eventually, this would lead to a compatible dependency which culminates into a healthy and harmonious atmosphere.


Teens + Tweens
From attitudes and defiance to low self esteem and bullying, the feeling that your teenager needs to talk to someone other than you is probably true.
It isn't because you haven't done an amazing job being a parent (I'm sure you have!) or that you've given up on helping them (I doubt it!) but there are so many daily issues that happen in your teen's life that they just don't feel comfortable talking to you about. Many times it boils down to a) they don't know how to communicate their feelings appropriately or b) you're their parent and some topics will always be off limits (No offense).
Yes, I will start off being a stranger that might know more about your teen's feelings than you do but I ask that you trust me with this information. Most, if not all, of my parents feel a sense of relief knowing I am an outlet that their teenager can talk to even if it isn't them. Common issues discussed include self esteem, body image, peer drama, family discord and learning how to effectively cope!


“Something in My Eye” Edition
My spouse and I met 17 years ago next month (whoa!) and we dated long-distance for more than four years before I moved to Canada so we could be together permanently. This 1999 hit by Macy Gray was a favourite of ours during that long-distance time, as it kind of summed up our feelings when each of our visits came to its painful end. “I try to say goodbye and I choke/Try to walk away and I stumble/Though I try to hide it, it’s clear/My world crumbles when you are not near.” Damn you, Macy, making me all verklempt with your incisive lyrics and heartfelt emotion! Damn you to heck!
Macy Gray — “I Try”


The Christian Church is “sheep listening to the voice of their Shepherd.” We listen to Jesus call us to faith, strengthen our faith, direct our faith. We do not listen alone, however. We listen with the others in His flock. We listen to His Word with one another. We have life together.
At St. Peter’s you will discover that we have and build deep relationships with one another. We listen to His voice together, we worship together, we study together, we serve together, we witness to the world around us together. We also find comfort and hope in relationship with each other, for we regularly pray with one another, pray for one another, encourage one another, rejoice together, cry together, mourn together, and hope together. Life in the congregation is life together.


Zoë Buckman and Cleo by Kelly Stuart for The Glow
Mom’s are pretty great. They blow on cuts to take the sting out. Read bed time stories. Cut the crusts off sandwiches. And teach us all what true love looks like. The lovely site, The Glow, captures that special bond between mother and child with breathtaking images and inspiring advice from some very stylish moms.
Ramya Giangola and Chiara by Laura Stuart for The Glow
A collaboration between photographer Kelly Stuart and editor Violet Gaynor, The Glow is both gorgeous and poignant. Along with the show stopping images, each mother shares her experiences, advice, and favorite things that collectively capture what it is to be a mother.
“My most humbling moment as a mother was when I looked at my children and realized I cannot control their destiny. For the first time in five years, I have started to let go and let them each become the person they want to be. Not to say that I don’t influence their lives—believe me, a pair of Crocs will never enter this house!” Christina Hutson
“The most surprising thing about being a mother is what it does to your capacity to feel things. I thought that I was loving with all of my heart before, but now that I have a child I’ve discovered a whole new depth of love (for my baby, my husband, my parents).”
For Mother’s Day, The Glow has collaborated with Coach to present a glimpse of real moms using unconventional Coach baby bags. A truly special gift for mom for sure! You know. If you are still looking for that perfect thing…
We’d like to wish all mothers a wonderful Mother’s Day! And send a very special thank you to our own moms. Ira, Jill, and Sandra. We love you.


Valentine’s Day is fast approaching – the most romantic day on the calendar. Many lovers will shower each other with gifts, hopefuls will choose the day to declare love to an often-unaware conquest and others will agree to tie the knot.
I can’t speak for same-sex relationships nor the gents in a hetero relationship, but I’m going to bare all and make a declaration on behalf of my breed and say this day is one for the ladies!
Valentine’s Day represents a day of hope when there’s someone out there we fantasise will fall madly in love with us.
It is the day of judgement for those fellas who’ve just started dating us. And for those in long-term relationships and happy marriages, it can be the day of reassurance that we still feel loved and adored.
In troubled relationships, it is the day of reckoning.
But for the ladies who have no current love interest, it can be Single Person Awareness Day. (SPAD)
If you’re in the loved-up category, it’s a good idea to be mindful of the feelings of those friends in the SPAD phase. They probably don’t want to hear all about the perfect roses, perfect chocolates and perfect hand-written poems you received from your perfect boyfriend… 27 times.
They’ll get it the first time you say it.
And, I have some tips for the lads, too. If you want a lady to know how you feel about her, take the punt and aim cupid’s arrow in her direction – send her some flowers! The worst that can happen is you’ll be a few bucks out of pocket, and if the same spark isn’t felt by her, at least she’ll always refer to you as “that sweet guy.”
If you’re in a new relationship and wondering if it is too soon to arrange dinner at a local restaurant, I have one point to make. It is NEVER too soon.
Married guys who think it is all commercial BS – get off the platform on this one – steal some flowers out of the nearest garden and present them to her.
Blokes who’ve not been the greatest partner they could have been – shell out a few bucks, get a bouquet and write some nice words in a card. A bit of sly cash and ten minutes worth of effort could reverse a multitude of sins in one hit. Do it.
And even though I think Valentine’s Day is a special day on many a female’s calendar, there’s definitely some guys out there who rate it too.
So girls, if you’re dating a SNAG, married to a romantic or not been the best partner you could have been yourself, shower your honey with love and show them what they mean to you. Happy Valentines Day!
(Hopefully my husband reads this, ps I love red roses).


Today, in 2014, marriages most commonly exist with equal education between partners. For example, a husband and wife who share the same academic accomplishments are the most popular pairs who previously made the decision to proceed with their wedding vows. The next type of couple most frequently found are the ones where the woman is leading in her amount of acquired academic accolades. These facts resulted from research acquired by associate sociology professor, Schwartz from the University of Wisconsin-Madison. In the years between 1950 and 1979, however, there was a social issue in marriages. Women who had more schooling than their male counterparts were most likely to become divorced because of it.
In the past, gender roles were much more prominent. The man was the widely known provider and head of household for his family. This was a role he needed to protect at all costs. Anything or anyone who threatened his position was bound to create tension for the marriage. The wife was not immune from the consequences of this reasoning. A woman who obtained a higher level of education than her man was a strong factor in divorce rates at that time.
As time progressed and the 1990s arrived, gender statistics announced that women now generally have more education than men. As an adjustment to the new dynamics, the spawn of more egalitarian relationships took hold. Even if the future husband has less education that the woman, he enters into his vows with an equal role view of the relationship. Both parties hold equal responsibilities and value in the family structure. This is the key for maintaining present day relationships that may be educationally unbalanced. The egalitarian mindset among spouses reduced the divorce rate in these scenarios.
Relationships today are a sign that gender roles have progressed over the last two decades. More research still needs to take place to determine the factors that triggered this change and what that means for specific familial duties. Optimistically, more marriages will have a chance to remain united longer for experts to study further social implications.
Learn more from the Chicago Tribune’s article here: http://www.chicagotribune.com/lifestyles/ct-educated-wives-balancing-20140728-column.html


Although my clients seek therapy for help with their own, personally unique, concerns and dilemmas, at heart they all desire the same thing -- that our work together will lead to greater enjoyment of the gifts life has to offer. As a Licensed Clinical Psychologist with advanced training in contemporary, psychodynamic psychotherapy and psychoanalysis, I help my clients achieve their goals through personal growth and the enhanced capacity for emotional connectedness to both themselves and the other people in their lives. By discovering the patterns of relating they bring into their relationships and exploring the places in which they feel unhappy, stuck or blocked, real emotional growth takes place.
For over 25 years, I have studied, taught and written about the ways our relatedness with ourselves and others shapes, maintains, and transforms our deepest hopes and fears. My approach reflects my belief that we are inherently relational beings who, from our earliest days, find ourselves searching out and responding to others. For better or worse, our sense of who we are, our ways of being in relationships and our beliefs and expectations about the way relationships work are continually shaped through the kind of relational experiences we have. Our relationships have the power to either modify the ways in which we typically enter new relationships, leading to greater gratification, or to reinforce and, sometimes, strengthen our customary and unsatisfying patterns of relating. I strongly believe people are capable of astonishing personal growth that leads to profound changes in their lives.
Experience and Licenses
My 25 years of experience leads me to believe that no one is fated to remain chained to maladaptive or destructive patterns of dealing with themselves and others. Our time together allows my clients to leave behind old, maladaptive relational patterns and develop more effective ones, opening them to living fuller, happier lives.
Licensed Clinical Psychologist
Psychodynamic psychotherapy for individuals and couples transforms emotional distress into opportunities for emotional growth. Clients develop enhanced skills for communication, decision-making, and interacting with others from a more authentic place. Explore and work through the blocks that inhibit creativity and heightened emotional connections, and develop relational skills for increased satisfaction in all of your relationships.
Licensed Marriage Family Therapist
Couples can develop better communication skills, re-discover the person they fell in love with, work through trauma, grief and loss, increase intimacy and desire.
Licensed Professional Clinical Counselor
Brief, solution-oriented coaching for lifestyle issues. Identify and make the changes you want in your life.
Intensive contemporary psychoanalysis transforms long-established, deeply entrenched emotional patterns, opening doors to new ways of experiencing, and being in, the world.
Collaborative Divorce Facilitator
Diverse skills enable individuals and couples to survive and work through the divorce process.
Located in West Los Angeles, Dr. Nancy Vanderheide serves the greater Los Angeles area including Beverly Hills, West Los Angeles, Santa Monica, West Hollywood, and Culver City. For more information call 310-859-7849 or email Nancy@Nancyvanderheide.com


DIZH’s research cluster aims to promote interdisciplinary, cross-university research on digitalization issues. We want to pool the different skills and capacities of our partner institutions in order to facilitate new perspectives on the digitalization process and enable innovative forms of collaboration.
The research cluster is a DIZH-coordinated network of researchers from partner universities as well as external project partners.
Professors, lecturers and senior researchers can take part in the DIZH research cluster in a variety of ways: by holding a DIZH-funded position, as fellows, as members of the plenary meeting or other advisory bodies, or by acting as an external project partner.
DIZH offers a framework for partner universities to establish bridge professorships. These professorships are interdisciplinary and contribute to connecting the partner universities on an academic level. The professorships are tasked with bringing together relevant activities from DIZH partner universities in a particular field and creating synergies between them.
In addition to bridge professorships, DIZH partner institutions can also create temporary positions for bridge postdocs. These postdoc positions are intended to strengthen collaboration and create synergies between partner universities in particular fields.
The doctoral program promotes and connects junior researchers in the Zurich area who focus on digitalization issues.
CLAIRE: Confederation of Laboratories for Artificial Intelligence Research in Europe, ZHAW
The DIZH invites researchers to exchange information and network with each other. For this reason, we regularly organize events.
The DIZH Exchange enable members of the DIZH partner universities and interested parties to meet regularly, present and discuss research results.
If you are interested in participating, please contact Sabine Dani.