I married another woman's husband knowingly - Minister Lindiwe
EZULWINI – Minister of Housing and Urban Development Lindiwe Dlamini has made a startling revelation of how she married another woman’s husband.
The minister said she was well aware that the man she was marrying some years ago belonged to another woman, but continued to marry him anyway.
She eventually divorced him in 2001 before marrying Colonel Sisusa Dla-mini during a glittering ceremony held at Jesus Calls Worship Centre in Matsapha.
The minister was making her remarks during a breakfast meeting for business people hosted jointly by Nedbank Swaziland and the Regional Excellence and Development Initiative (REDI), the host of the annual Business Woman of the Year Awards.
The event was for career advancement and life changing experiences. Dlamini said then, she was comfortable with the fact that she had taken someone else’s husband. "It took me five years to actually walk away. I was quite comfortable with the marriage, having married a wealthy man who was loving as well," she said.
The minister revealed that her former husband paid 27 cattle as dowry because ‘I was beautiful’. She bore two children from her former marriage. She explained that she knew the man she married was not hers and had to let him go, adding that it was not easy doing so.
"I had two children who called him daddy, but his (other) family was falling apart. His wife was looking out there and hoping her husband would come back, but never did," she said.
The minister said she was not afraid to tell anyone about this, especially if it would make a difference to someone.
She noted that at first, making such a mistake appeared right in her eyes, adding that when she eventually walked out of the marriage, she was shattered. "I didn’t know who I was. I was married to a rich man so I regarded myself as the rich man’s wife, but where was Lindiwe? When I had my encounter with the Lord, I had to look for Lindiwe," she said.
She reiterated that she walked out of a 12 year marriage with two children. "I told him (former husband) that I’m at crossroads and needed to either follow you or God. I realised that he had not encountered Christ yet there will come a time when I will have to account for this life. His family fell apart and his children took each other to court because I had taken him. You must look for what is yours. I know its strange coming from me," she added.
In 2001, Dlamini said she went through a divorce with someone that she loved who had not offended her, but had to do it because she had encountered Christ.
"I walked this journey. I know how it feels like to be lonely, how you want to do something so well, but with no one to celebrate it with. At times, you just miss hearing a male voice. I know the pain of divorce, it’s like death because something dies in you. I recall when I went to church and they had to introduce me and didn’t know what to say, they called me Daniel’s mother," Dlamini said.
The minister did not give much information about his former husband.
...Knowing Christ helped me
EZULWINI – Having accepted Jesus Christ as her saviour is what Minister Lindiwe Dlamini says helped her in life.
Speaking to businesspeople, mainly women, during a breakfast meeting hosted by the Regional Excellence and Development Initiative (REDI) yesterday, Dlamini said she wanted to tell her life story of divorce after marrying another woman’s husband because she wanted to help others.
"I took someone else’s husband and made him my own, but then I came to know Christ and realised that what I had was not mine. I struggled to give it back. As women, we want to destroy and pull each other down. It starts with loving yourself and then thinking of another sister. Some children are in prison or out there in streets because someone took their father away," she said.
She urged women present during the event to make quality decisions. The minister said she walked out of that marriage because she had encountered Christ.
"I just want to pull someone out of the valley. There are widows and it’s not a good thing, some of you have been rejected inside your own houses, some of you have been pulled down, but you need to pick yourself up. Success comes at a price and none of our lives are balanced," she added.
‘... people had expected me to marry bishop, businessman’
EZULWINI – Lindiwe Dlamini, Minister of Housing and Urban Development says people had expected her to marry a bishop or a businessman.Soon after telling the audience about her divorce in 2001 when she had married another woman’s husband, the minister said she later found her own man.
"I then married again and found my own (man). Sometimes when we go through certain things, our values are messed up. You think you are important because of money, but deep inside there is a girl crying to be loved.
You will want someone who will meet your needs. When I got married, some people were expecting me to marry a bishop, but I was already a pastor. Some were expecting a businessman, but I was already in business," she said, much to the applause of the audience.
The minister said all she needed was love and she found it.
She is now married to Colonel Sisusa Dlamini. "Sometimes it does not come in familiar packages, but when you find it, you will know this is it. You cannot go far without Christ. Some people carry tablets just to remain sane," she said.
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A low-fi sci-fi (sorta) rom-com audio drama.
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Many of us have realized that with the new millennium, relationships like many other things have evolved to becoming more unconventional or modern. Just because you are married to someone and are connected with him or her spiritually, emotionally and physically does not necessarily mean that you could tolerate living with your spouse. In addition, just because you are in love with someone does not mean that is the person you should marry.
Now, I am not anti love or marriage for that matter, but I do believe that as our society evolves, so must our perception of relationships. And it seems as though society feels the same. According to a report released by the U.S. Census Bureau in October 2006 legally married heterosexual monogamous marriages are no longer the majority in American households, on the other hand various forms of marriage – like couples have continued to flourish. With younger people choosing not to marry and the divorce rates climbing, it is time that society began entertaining the idea of unconventional relationships.
Yadhira Ramirez newlywed, and mother of four has no desire to live with her military wife Debbie Ramirez. Yadhira proposed to her now wife when she came home to visit her in Tampa, Florida for her military holiday leave on January 3, 2016, which was their one-year anniversary.
“ I choose not to be in an in town relationship because that way I don’t have the responsibilities of a day to day relationship, but I still have the love, the connection, the butterflies, the intimate time together when we have it. I have a friendship with someone that I can relate to, and that I am completely comfortable with that I do not have to cook for, answer to, run things by or pick up after. Its actually pretty amazing.” – Yadhira Ramirez
So, what exactly defines a “ traditional” marriage? Is it solely between man and women, or is it that along with cohabitating with one another. Generally when the word marriage is used, people envision a man and a women, joined together in a religious matrimony, who are living together monogamously in one household and raising children together. Traditional situations can definitely work for some but also is not for everybody. Currently since we are exposed to so much, we get bored easier and need something to keep the fire burning to keep relationships well rounded. For that reason, a more modern or non-traditional relationship may be the key to long-term relationship success. This may include being married but living separately, having an open marriage, living together only part of the year, having a common law marriage, or any other situation that works best for that particular couples situation.


November 4, 2009
Some days feel longer than others. Yesterday felt like a weight that crushed all my feelings out. I used the f* word a lot. I expressed my most selfish, unenlightened feelings. I tried to reach for the most gallant in me and couldn’t reconcile it with the aching wound.
Things I want: a time machine; fewer emotional conversations; a faster process
Things I don’t want to want that I want: to be okay with her hurting or feel bad too
Things I need: to feel safe with you; to re-center; to celebrate all that we are
Things I feel: afraid; angry; sad; hopefully; safe; caring; tired
Things I remember: that you love me; that I love you; that in the end this is just a moment, among the others.
October 23, 2009
So even though I said in my blog title these confessions are from a “poly” woman, I mostly use that as a shorthand for convenience. I don’t really identity as polyamorous. It’s not “who I am”. It’s “what I want”, in terms of my relationship style, which means I am “in an open relationship”.
People who identify as “monogamous” have a strong attachment to the importance of sex and romance being an exclusive act. People who identify as “polyamorous” have a strong attachment to the importance of sex and romance being shared in appropriate times and ways, as defined by the people involved in the experience. However, I think someone can identify as monogamous and still be in an open relationship.
In a monogamous relationship, the evidence of your commitment is often encapsulated in what you don’t do — have sex or romantic connections outside your couple. Most couples have a variety of ways they show their love and commitment, but when someone breaks this larger agreement, it sends them spinning. There are people who identify as polyamorous who have this “monogamy” mindset — these couples behave like monogamous couples with hall passes for sex. They structure complex agreements to handle the intricacies of this behavior, but in the end, the way in which you behave with other people is a huge part of the evidence of your commitment.
For me, an open relationship is about having the freedom to fully pursue your personal growth with a lifelong partner to support, encourage, comfort, share, and delight with you. It can include the expression of romantic and physical connection with other people, but the larger purpose is to create an environment of opportunity. So someone can have a sexually monogamous desire and practice while still engaging a relationship structure that creates opportunities for independent growth and expression.
In this type of relationship the importance and specialness of the commitment rests less in behaviors with other people and primarily in behaviors towards the other partner. Because my partner and I are in an open relationship that includes sex and romance with other people, we have some structures around that. Less specific rules about external activities and more rules that indicate respect for our relationship. And ultimately they are rules that easily apply to how we handle money, free time, employment, parenting, etc ..
1. No surprises (we should be connecting both regularly and openly enough that anything about to happen should have been well telegraphed)
2. No decisions in the moment (they can make it harder to remember anything beyond what you want right now)
3. Don’t make decisions for your partner (if they say they want something a certain way, believe them. and don’t engage in behavior that can affect them without their consent and knowledge)
4. Be sure you are meeting the needs of your family and your ongoing commitments first, before you start making new commitments
5. Manage risk responsibly and with awareness of your partner and how it will affect them.
October 21, 2009
I don’t wear my heart on my sleeve. Right now my guts are out there though. An acquaintance of mine has an open wound in his side — very thin flesh covers and protects his most vulnerable internal organs. He wears layers of protection and walks with awareness that any random, accidental movement could bring him down and possibly end his life. I guess emotional damage isn’t nearly as dramatic. My life isn’t going to end because I am really, really sad about some things. I do feel like I have this layer of cellophane between me and everything else. It’s part roller coaster, part marathon. These ups and down happen and I want to just curl into a ball. And I have a life that requires I pace myself and I keep on going. Which is most likely a good thing– I think being able to indulge ourselves in our bouts of self-pity is rarely a good thing.
What your risk reveals what you value.
You spent me without counting the cost.
I want things, too. I just keep choosing to be here and now.
I worry that you are so used to being the star and the focus that you think you somehow are entitled. That I don’t have a choice. That you can treat me with disregard and say it’s the nature of our relationship. We are in an open relationship, which means we get the freedom to explore opportunities and delights. It doesn’t mean you get the freedom to ignore me or devalue who I am to you when it’s convenient.


China’s Xi holds all-male meeting with US business leaders
Several U.S. business leaders met with Chinese President Xi Jinping on Wednesday, when he made his case calling for closer ties between the two largest economies in the world.
The all-male meeting was held in Beijing and came as the U.S. and China have had a steady improvement in relations in the past several years. Xi expressed that the relationship is mutually beneficial, despite U.S. pushback on the influence of the Chinese Communist Party, The Associated Press reported.
Blackstone founder Stephen Schwarzman, Qualcomm President and CEO Cristiano Amon, Bloomberg Chair Mark Carney and FedEx President Rajesh Subramaniam were among the attendees, according to local media.
China’s economy has struggled to rebound after the COVID-19 pandemic, but Xi said the country is again contributing to global economic growth, according to the AP.
“Sino-U.S. relations are one of the most important bilateral relations in the world. Whether China and the United States cooperate or confront each other has a bearing on the well-being of the two peoples and the future and destiny of mankind,” Xi said, per the AP, citing China’s official Xinhua News Agency.
The meeting follows a sit-down between Xi and President Biden last November in San Francisco and shows signs of the improved relations. Other members of the Biden administration have traveled or will soon visit China to host meetings with top leaders.
The AP noted that trade and tariffs between the two countries have drawn attention in the run-up to the U.S. presidential election in November, where Biden will likely face a rematch against former President Trump, who has spoke highly of Xi and other authoritarian leaders.
“The respective successes of China and the United States create opportunities for each other,” Xi said, according to Xinhua. “As long as both sides regard the other as partners, respect each other, peacefully coexist and join together for win-win results, China-U.S. relations will improve.”


“Love seems the swiftest but it is the slowest of all growths. No man or women really knows what perfect love is until they have been married a quarter of a century.” – Mark Twain
I wish I could say that I was the suave, romantic, Romeo type of guy – that love was easy and unfolded like a tender romantic comedy. (Oh Hitch, you’re so full of righteousness.) But I can’t, because frankly, love is god damn hard. If you’re anything like me you’ve had your share of difficult relationships. Growing intimately together with another person isn’t always easy. You won’t always see eye to eye with your partner, and there will be moments when you get so caught up in emotions you can’t even fathom why you’re together. For me personally, (if you haven’t felt the cynical vibe of the post yet) I’m currently going through a difficult time in my current relationship. I don’t know where this relationship will be in the future, but I do know that if I want it to work there are certain things that have to happen. So, in perfect Shake off the Grind fashion, I have to decide to get better instead of bitter. I have to really evaluate my situation and decide what I want to create. So I put together some tips – some no-nosense tips to help those of you who want more from your current relationship and are ready to make a positive shift.
1. When you’re together, be together
It’s so easy to get distracted by life’s demands, and this is something that can really take a toll on relationships. Quality time is very important to most people. I know it is one of my main love languages. But quality time is much more than just being in the same room together. Quality time involves deeply connecting, having fun, and engaging emotionally with each other. Let go of all the to-do’s and other things you have on your mind for just a few minutes, and dedicate yourself fully to the person in front of you. When you’re with someone you love give them your full attention and be present.
2. If you mess up, clean up
“Love is an act of endless forgiveness, a tender look which becomes a habit.” – Peter Ustinov
No relationship is without its disagreements and squabbles. That’s why there are a few “magic words” that will help make any argument better. Ready? … “I’m sorry, will you forgive me?” When things don’t go well be willing to say you’re sorry. Talk things out and recognize that your relationships can grow stronger through conflict. It takes a big person to apologize, but if you don’t clean up the messes as they appear they will get dirtier and dirtier.
3. Encourage each other to be better
There is nothing more important than an encouraging and uplifting partner. There is already so much negativity in the world. Don’t be the “Debbie Downer” who always has a negative comment to add the conversation. Instead, be an encouraging presence. Focus on your partner’s strengths and help them when they are struggling. Encourage them to be the best person they can be.
“When you love someone, all your saved-up wishes start coming out.” – Elizabeth Bowen
4. Grow together and live it up
One of my biggest fears is to end up in a relationship where the passion has died and there’s nothing left but a hollow shell of a man. Sorry for the gloom, but it’s all too easy to get stuck in a rut. Relationships can stop growing if we’re not careful. Don’t let life get dull. Do something exciting and fun. Go on a vacation, shake things up, find what makes each other happy and do it! Mentally go back in time for a moment when your relationship was flourishing. How can you bring back this spark?
5. Have some respect and show some love
We all want to be respected, particularly men. We also want to feel loved, particularly women. According to Emerson Eggerichs, best-selling author of Love and Respect, “Women need love. Men need respect. It’s as simple and as complicated as that.” It’s complicated because these two pillars of a healthy relationship are not mutually exclusive. These are both necessary to facilitate the other. When a man feels respected he will show greater love, and when a women feels loved she will show more respect. The catch? Who is willing to take the first step in this dance? Respect each other in public. Show your affection whenever you can. Simply put, have some respect and show some love!
6. Learn to really listen
“Being in therapy is great. I spend an hour just talking about myself. It’s kinda like being the guy on a date.” – Caroline Rhea, comedian
Wouldn’t it be nice if we were required to take a class in communication as children? We could learn how to listen effectively, be empathetic, and show understanding to others. But, that many things not taught in public education, we miss the big lesson on this hidden art. (We are actually taught to talk, not listen! Speech class anyone?) So, many people fail miserably at listening. Even as a therapist and coach I can struggle to be an empathetic listener to those I truly care about. Take it from me, if you don’t learn to really listen, your relationship with suffer the consequences. Here is an article with 10 steps to effective listening to start learning.
7. Take responsibility for your own baggage
Here is how a relationship works. (Well actually, how it ends up not working) Two people come together, both with a distinct past, and both with personal emotional wounds from past hurts and trauma. They become a couple and bring their past baggage into the current relationship. So now, instead of only carrying your personal load, your shouldering the baggage of your partner. Be aware of this, and make it a point to take responsibility for the junk that belongs to you! Don’t displace your past problems on your current partner. P.S. – If this is something you are really struggling with, I would suggest seeking professional help.
“We waste time looking for the perfect lover, instead of creating the perfect love.” – Tom Robbins
8. Think before your speak
Have you ever said something you regretted later? Stupid question right? Even the best of us can lose our temper at times and start throwing verbal daggers. If there is one thing that can save a relationship, (besides tip number 2, which I would recommend if tip 8 is still a work in progress) it’s to bite your tongue and hold back from the insults and blaming. Think before you speak, and more importantly before you act too!
9. Compliment more and criticize less
For a fulfilling and happy relationship forcus on your partner’s positive qualities. We all have some quirks and annoying habits, but research reveals that happy couples have 5 positive interactions to every negative one. That’s right, a 5:1 ratio! A relationship is like a bank account. You can make a deposit or a withdrawal. Deposits come from positive words and deeds, and withdrawals come when we’re not so positive. Make sure to fill up the emotional bank account of your partner. Put in deposits with compliments, kind acts, and general love and respect.
10. Do something special
If there is anything I have learned about relationships it’s that making an effort to do something special goes a long way. Since Valentine’s Day is approaching it might be the perfect time for the men and women out there to consider how you can up the ante in the effort category. Knock it out of the park this year! Get creative, and do a little research on different ideas. Do something more special than you ever have before! Well there you have it. Ten tips for a happier relationship. No matter your relationship status, remember to get better instead of bitter. (It’s hard I know, but it’s the best option.) If your relationship is suffering, step it up and be the bigger person. Make things better! If you’re single or feeling broken hearted, it’s time to dust yourself off and get out there. Have a great week and Valentine’s Day! Much love to all of you!
“Love is like a friendship caught on fire. In the beginning a flame, very pretty, often hot and fierce, but still only light and flickering. As love grows older, our hearts mature and our love becomes as coals, deep burning and unquenchable.” – Bruce Lee


A transparent and trusting relationship between TKC and its shareholders is invaluable, and one of the ways we achieve this is through our continued community outreach efforts. These efforts include traveling to communities in the TKC region in order to share updated and relevant information about the corporation. Every year, our staff makes it a priority to travel to at least three TKC villages to connect with residents and listen to their comments and concerns. TKC board members also select meeting locations and dates, based on need and topics. Visiting TKC staff will often participate in community events and meet with Tradition Councils to discuss important issues.


Conflict is defined as a situation where your concerns or desires differ from another person’s.
People tend to have a preferred conflict resolution style, but may use different methods in different conflict situation. Therefore, it is important that you realize the styles you use in resolving various conflicts you face.
Here are the common 5 styles people use in resolving conflicts.
- Avoiding Style
In this style, you are unassertive and your approach is uncooperative. You probably feel neither your personal goals nor the relationship with the other person is important.
You probably adopt this avoiding style when there is no urgency to resolve the situation.
Results: No win No win
- Accommodating Style
In this style, you are cooperative yet your approach is unassertive. You probably give in to maintain the relationship with the other person, but your personal goals are sacrificed.
You probably adopt this style because you want to preserve harmony and avoid disruption.
Results: Small win Small win
- Compromising Style
This is a cooperative approach. In this style, you value your personal goals and your relationships with the other party. Here you are willing to give and try to get concessions from the other party.
You probably use this style when you and the other person have equal power and you want to achieve temporary settlement for complex issues.
Results: Medium win Medium win
- Competing Style
This is an uncooperative approach. In this style, you seek to achieve your personal goals at the expense of the relationship with the other person.
You probably use this style because a quick and decisive action is vital, or when you feel you must get what you want.
Results: Win Lose
- Collaborating Style
This is an assertive and cooperative approach. Here you and your counterpart both try to resolve the conflict by open and direct communication.
In this style, you and your counterpart want to achieve a win-win outcome and desire to maintain good relationships with each other.
Results: Win Win
So, are you an avoider, accommodator, compromiser, competitor or collaborator?
It is important that you understand these 5 styles. By knowing the consequences of each style, you will be able to apply these strategies in different conflict situations to achieve the results you want.
16 April 2017


every show on nickelodeon has made some boob jokes and no one has noticed until now
I hate how negative I am towards the idea of love and marriage anymore. To think 6 months ago I was leaving for basic and planning my wedding. Funny how things change.
I just want someone to show me how to love again.


|How To Tell Your Girlfriend That You Hate Her|
It's hard to tell a girl who likes you that you actually don't like her in return, but follow the steps below, and you'll do fine.
- Approach the girl in a place that is not busy or crowded. To avoid a scene: school, movie theaters, and parties are definitely not appropriate. It's better to go up to this girl while in a more private location.
- Think about what you don't like about her. Does she take advantage of friends? Is she too loud? Is she a gossiper?
- Take a deep breath, and explain the situation. For example, if she takes advantage of friends, you could say: "I really didn't like the way you treated [Friend A], [Friend B], and me. You said you were friends with us and then acted really mean." Be kind, but firm. Try to be as specific as you can when identifying the problem.
- Give her some time to respond to that. She might deny acting in that way, or perhaps apologize.
- Consider her thoughts carefully, and listen to what she's saying. Maybe if her response is genuine, you can actually be friends.
- Think of the event that caused you to dislike her, and if you realize that it's happening over and over again, and you've approached her multiple times, then continue to the next step.
- When she is finished speaking, explain that this has happened too many times. Then kindly say, "I'm not sure this friendship can continue."
- Act according to the facts for the rest of the conversation. Your talk could lead to forgiveness or even becoming friends again. Or it could lead to a friendship ending, as you were intending to happen.
- Be kind, whatever happens, the whole way through.
- Make eye contact while speaking with the girl. Don't let her look at the ground or ignore you.
- Avoid letting the girl change the subject. If you see the topic averting from the problem, bring it up again.
- Smile or look serious according to the issues and the situation. If this girl has been spreading very hurtful, vicious rumors about you then you may not want to smile. But if she's just been following you around all the time and telling you that you're clothing taste isn't that nice, then you could go right ahead!
- Never come straight out telling a girl, "I don't like you!" This will result in more hurt feelings than a deliberate approach.
- Thinking a girl's hair is ugly, does not mean, "I don't like her." Make sure you have a good reason for not liking this girl, and ending your friendship with her. Other examples of bad reasons are:
- You don't think she's popular.
- You think her other friends are geeky.
- You feel that her laugh is annoying.


Feeling a bit blue on Valentine’s Day? Maybe these facts will cheer you up, says Eva Ritvo, MD. Over 53% of women in the US are single and almost 47% of men…and the numbers have been on the rise and have been for decades. More and more people are finding themselves being single due to continually declining rates of marriages, persistent high rates of divorce, and living longer.
So if you find yourself without a romantic partner on Valentine’s Day, don’t despair. Single people are more inclined to spend time with friends and volunteering with their community so can tap into a broader social network and celebrate love in a broader sense. Changing society structure requires changing the way we celebrate many holidays, so start with Valentine’s Day and find a way to make it work for you. Many are renaming the holiday Galentine’s Day or Palentine’s Day. Others are choosing to enjoy their parents, children or extended family. If you have been volunteering, see if they need an extra pair of hands for the holiday.
For those of you in a relationship, Valentine’s Day is an important holiday to step back and acknowledge your romantic partner. We are living in a time of so many distractions and we are inundated with negative news. If you are fortunate enough to be in a relationship, spend some time each day appreciating it and especially on Valentine’s Day. What is it that you love about your spouse or significant other? What makes them unique and special? Try to honor their unique qualities.
Think about spending quality time together for the holiday…and as often as possible. Make sure you connect physically and with kind words.
Surprise makes everything feel more special. When choosing a card or a gift, think about what would mean something personal to your partner. Demonstrating creativity in your choice for Valentine’s Day shows that you really care!
Most importantly…Bekindr to those you love and others around you. Give your loved ones the lasting gift of a book. Bekindr: The Transformative Power of Kindness is the gift that keeps giving.


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Today, when Caius was half-blur finishing his milk and accidentally drop his glass bottle and broke it. My first reaction is "clean it up THOROUGHLY, watch out every inch of the floor, and make sure there is no more pieces of broken glass on the floor", because I don't want him to get hurt.
During the cleaning, I have a revelation, and yes, I said "A REVELATION"!
I "realize" that the love of a father is not by conditions,it is all natural, I love Caius, I never think of what he would do to repay the love I have for him, and it is obviously not because of what he do or he don't do that makes me love him. It is just purely love just because he is my son. Then come to my mind that the opposite role, the son, do not have that "love" from the beginning. It is always conditional, it is always depending on WHAT OR HOW MUCH the father DO that deserve the son's love.
We measure how much we are loved then we love. The adopted children always love the foster parents more than their physical parents because what the foster parents did/do for them.
So now I understand the verse 1 John 4:19, " We love because He first loved us". Without the initiative of the love of Father, we as son, would not love the Father.
When I see things given to me from my father, I love Him, I appreciate, but when things are not on my expectation, I doubt and I don't love him. It become sometime I love, sometime I don't, just depending on what He do and give. How shallow and realistic am I!
I am still learning to love without conditions, that means "love the Father even things are not falling on my way".


While my husband was rigging a rockin’ pulley system in our garage to store things up high, Big Sis got really excited about climbing up the ladder. Jason said YES and taught her to safely climb up and down the ladder. Then he climbed up with her and she “helped” him work. She was so excited and she made it clear to us that she felt like a big girl and felt special to be able to help her daddy. She was very cautious and liked to show us how safe she could be. Love that kid!


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Keynotes #10: Partnering Against The Problem
“Keynotes” are my brief comments about life and recovery and are intended to provide insight, inspiration, wisdom or humor to your day.
I had the opportunity to hear these simple yet profound words spoken by a wife who wanted to use her energy in her marriage effectively. She recognized that pushing, pulling, controlling or manipulating her husband into action to address their mutual problems wasn’t the solution.
Her solution, which I think will move her closer to the goals she’ll discuss with her husband was to partner with him against the real problems in their lives (which wasn’t each other). She came to this empowering conclusion when she recognized that her husband took a risk and vulnerably invited her to brainstorm with him and solve a recent problem he had. I think the two of them will cover a lot of terrain toward solving their problems with this enlightened, powerful and hopeful template they created for themselves.
TeleHealth/Video counseling sessions are available for those who prefer to meet online – Dr. McGill


Our values are the basis of everything we do. It matters to us that the following values are built into the very structure of our company:
Respect is a high priority at Faxions. We do not just respect each other, but show respect in all our relationships with customers as well.
We focus on the customer. Faxions wishes to build up a sustainable relationship of trust with its customers, by listening, offering consistent, high-quality service and exceeding our customers’ expectations.
Each of us takes responsibility for their job in an efficient and effective way. We also try to assume our social, economic and ecological responsibilities.
Passion and drive are expressed in the pleasure we take in everything we do.
Giving all we have got every day and experiencing the enthusiasm to grow and improve constantly are the forces that drive us.
It is very important to us to stay true to ourselves, our roots and our culture. But authenticity also means being reliable and honest in everything we do.
Consideration for each other and our customers! We want to go further than a mere business relationship. We are invested in the emotion present in each of us and in every human relationship. In this way we try to earn your trust.


Everyone has been involved in a break-up. Maybe it wasn’t even yours – you may have been pulled into the drama of the demise of a family member or friend’s relationship – but everyone can put themselves in the shoes of someone whose relationship is ending. Chances are you even know people whose break-ups you have admired – they seem to maintain their cool, keep things together, and can even be friendly when they are in the same space. You almost certainly know people who have done the opposite and had more of a scorched earth policy at the end of a relationship – taking down everyone in their path.
What makes for a “successful” break-up? Here are five things to keep in mind:
- Think about your kids – and then think about them again. If you have children, you need to consider how the break-up is going to affect them. It is important to keep in mind that they have their own relationship with your partner (even if that person is not their parent) and that needs to be honored. It is also critical to keep in mind that kids are not messengers – no matter how old they are – and it is inappropriate to ask them to convey messages for you or act as go-betweens.
- Think about yourself. Self-care is critical when a relationship is ending. You need to think about what you need to meet your own emotional needs and what is healthy for you. Maybe you need some space or some boundaries. Maybe you need a neutral party – such as a religious leader, mediator, counselor, etc. – to help. Do you need legal help to handle matters?
- Think about your (former) partner. People often get stuck in a negative place about their soon-to-be former partner and they forget about all of the good things and positive traits. As I often remind clients (and friends), you liked (and hopefully loved) someone enough to get involved with them in the first place, so try to keep that in mind when you are dissolving your relationship.
- Think about your assets and liabilities. If you have been married or in a long-term relationship, chances are you have comingled some (or all) of your assets and debts. What kind of division do you want? What kind do you need to meet your financial needs? What does your former partner need? Is there enough to go around?
- Think about your future. It might feel like the break-up is the be-all and end-all of your universe and, for a short time, it might be. However, it won’t be forever. Where do you see yourself when the break-up is resolved? How do you see your relationship with your former partner? What do you want that to look like?
The chances of each person in a relationship that is ending coming out with everything they want is not very high. However, it is possible for each person to emerge from the relationship in relatively good status – financially, psychologically, as parents, etc. – so that they can move on.


My last two heartfelt letters have been awkward for our relationship.
But they had to be written.
I told you that customers don’t need brands, since we get products and services directly from each other using the sharing startups. In my first letter, I wrote about how I wanted to have an open relationship. Then, in my second letter, I confided in you what it felt like to have my own relationship disrupted. The good news is that I see a solution for us to finally be together. The only way is for us each to “give a bit” to grow into something bigger.
It may be difficult for us both to adjust, but we’ll end up in a better place.
Even though some customers don’t want to own your products, you can still give us access to them. Even though we customers will want to share your used products with each other directly (and not have to buy from you again), we see a place for you to be involved. Even though we want to build our own products, we see that you can help provide us with a way to do it.
I still need you, but you’ll have to meet me half way.
It will require you to give something to the relationship to get more in return. The only way for us to maintain our relationship is for both of us to give a bit to grow something together. We can have a fresh new relationship and be part of a collaborative economy together. It all starts in a few days.
In my next letter to you, I’ll show you how we can be together in the Collaborative Economy.
Our new relationship awaits. I’ll write to you in a few days.


Whether you are looking for love, are already deeply in love, healing from love gone wrong or wanting to reconcile with a lost love, crystals can support you throughout your journey. You can experiment with these crystals by meditating with them, sleeping with them nearby, carrying them with you throughout the day or by charging your water with non-toxic crystals.
Citrine is a water safe crystal, excellent for charging your water. Citrine is particularly supportive during the tumultuous ups and downs of Twin Flame and karmic connections. Known as the Stone of Manifestation, citrine boosts motivation, individuality, courage, and personal power to help keep relationships moving forward. This crystal can empower you, your partner, friend or even family member to break toxic cycles and ease feelings of sadness. Find a piece of sunshine yellow Citrine to boost optimism and help end self-sabotaging behaviors, in you or the person you love. The Stone of Opportunity and Manifestation will help improve all manner relationships, whether you are trying to rebuild a relationship or build on the positive emotions already present. Romantically, citrine is also a powerful stone in attracting new love.
Rose Quartz is another water safe crystal, perfect for crystal elixirs or water bottles. This rosy stone helps foster forgiveness for yourself and those you love. The most well-known stone of love rose quartz fills your heart with love and empathy for others as well as self-love and self-worth. It is a soothing stone, known to help ease anxiety, conflict, and heartache in all manner of relationships. Rose quartz will bolster the love you already share, help you let go and heal from the love you have lost, and open your heart to new love.
Amazonite is not water safe but is a soothing stone to hold in your hand while meditating, carry with you throughout the day or place under your pillow as you sleep. Amazonite comes in a variety of tones, the best colors for matters of the heart are from green to bluish aqua-green. This comforting stone helps foster feelings of forgiveness and dispel resentment. Resonating in the heart chakra, amazonite emits compassionate, understanding, and loving energies. This stone also resonates with the throat chakra, fostering honest, authentic communication. As such, amazonite helps strengthen all manner of relationship, heal heartache, and attract new romantic love.


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How to Choose a Business Partner? Starting your own business can be one of the most rewarding and exciting times in your life, but it can also be extremely lonely if you’re doing it on your own. It’s important to know how to choose a business partner well and make sure you have the right person to share your vision with and help you realize it as you build your company.
Here are ten essential tips on how to choose a business partner wisely, ensuring that you create the best team possible and give yourself the best chance of success in business!
How to Choose a Business Partner: 10 Essential Tips
1) Budgetary & time considerations
There are a few key considerations to keep in mind when choosing a business partner. Firstly, you’ll want to make sure that your partner is committed and has the time to dedicate to the business. Secondly, you’ll need to ensure that your partner is financially stable and can contribute to the business financially.
Finally, you’ll want to make sure that you have compatible goals and values. By keeping these things in mind, you can be sure to choose a business partner that is right for you and your business.
- Determine what you’re looking for from a partner.
- Determine how much time you will have to commit.
- Figure out if this person’s personality is compatible with yours.
- Consider whether or not they will be able to contribute financially.
- Evaluate whether or not they share your life goal/values.
- Make sure they have a great work ethic.
- Make sure they are mature.
- Create a list of questions.
- Ask yourself how well you know them.
- Discuss future plans
2) Personality conflicts
One of the most important aspects of choosing a business partner is making sure that you mesh well personality-wise. After all, you’ll be spending a lot of time together and you need to be able to communicate and work together effectively.
Here are a few tips for finding a compatible partner:
- Spend some time alone with each other – preferably away from the office. You want to see how each other works without distraction. If you enjoy each other’s company then there’s a good chance your partnership will succeed. If not, it might be worth looking elsewhere.
- Sit down and have an honest conversation about what you’re both expecting from this partnership – in terms of roles, responsibilities, and workloads. It’s critical to make sure that you know how things are going to work before you start.
- Talk about how your finances will be handled – who will get paid what? How often? Who takes care of invoicing and tracking expenses?
- Make sure to discuss expectations when it comes to long hours. Will one person take on more responsibility for working late or weekends? What if one person has kids or elder parents who require their attention at night or on weekends?
- Discuss how decisions will be made during your partnership – who has final say? Is it okay if decisions can’t always be made unanimously?
- What happens if one person wants out of the relationship after six months but the other person wants to continue on indefinitely.
3) The right motives
Before you choose a business partner, it’s important to be clear about your motives. Are you looking for someone to share the workload? Someone with complementary skills? Or are you simply looking for an investor?
Once you know what you’re looking for, you can start to narrow down your options. There are three types of partners to consider: equity partners, general partners and silent partners. An equity partner is usually the one who contributes capital to the company and takes ownership in return.
A general partner often contributes more than just money and is given more control over decision-making than a silent partner (who doesn’t have any stake in the company).
4) Personality differences
Personality differences can make or break a partnership, so it’s important to choose wisely. For example, one partner may be detail-oriented and the other more creative. One person may be good at networking while the other has excellent sales skills.
Neither of these traits are better than the other; they’re just different and must be put together in order for them to work as a team. When you’re assessing your personality strengths, ask yourself these questions:
- What is my greatest strength?
- What is my greatest weakness?
- What is my idea of a perfect day?
Is this compatible with what I think my partner would like? If not, is there another type of business that would suit our needs better? Next, consider how well we communicate. If we can’t seem to get on the same page when communicating (i.e., one prefers email while the other likes speaking on the phone), then this might not be a great match. How often do we argue about important issues? Do we have time for each other outside of business? These are all important things to consider before diving into any type of partnership agreement.
5) Attitude towards risk taking
One of the most important things to consider when choosing a business partner is their attitude towards risk taking. If you’re the type of person who likes to take risks, you’ll want a partner who is comfortable with that.
On the other hand, if you’re more conservative, you’ll want someone who is willing to take on more risk. You may also want to find out how much capital your potential partner can contribute and how long they are likely to stay in the business.
6) Mission alignment
- Make sure you and your potential partner are on the same page when it comes to your business’ mission. You should both be passionate about the same goals and willing to put in the work to make them happen.
- Have a candid conversation about your strengths and weaknesses. It’s important that you complement each other and fill in any gaps in skills or knowledge.
- Discuss how you’ll make decisions together. It’s important to have a system in place for handling disagreements so that they don’t derail the business.
- Talk about what happens if one of you wants out. It’s important to have an exit plan so that there’s no hard feelings if things don’t work out.
- Agree on a timeline for review.
When you’re choosing a business partner, it’s essential to find someone you can trust. Here are some tips to help you choose someone who is trustworthy:
- Look for someone with integrity. This person should be honest and have strong moral principles. They should also be consistent in their actions and words.
- Find someone who is reliable. This person will keep their promises and follow through on their commitments. They will also be there when you need them and won’t let you down.
- Choose someone who is hardworking. Your business partner should be willing to put in the time and effort required to make your business successful. They should also be flexible and adaptable, able to change course when necessary.
- Select a partner who is intelligent.
8) Personal relationships
Personal relationships are the foundation of any good business partnership. After all, you’ll be spending a lot of time together. How do you choose someone with whom you want to spend 40 hours per week? Pick someone who is as committed as you are.
If they’re not dedicated and determined, they won’t help your company grow. What’s more, they might not work well with others if there’s a problem in the office. A person has to be willing to stick it out when things get tough.
9) Work styles and patterns of communication between co-founders.
One of the most important aspects of choosing a business partner is compatibility. You and your partner need to have compatible work styles and communication patterns.
If you’re always at the office late into the night, but your partner likes to leave early to spend time with their family, that’s going to be a problem. It’s important to find someone who shares your values and who you can communicate openly and honestly with.
10) Financial contributions
One of the first things you’ll want to consider when choosing a business partner is their financial contributions. How much money are they willing to invest in the business? Do they have any connections that could help get the business off the ground?
Are they able to work on the business full-time or will they need to contribute part-time? What percentage of ownership does your potential partner offer? Will there be an equal partnership, where both partners share profits and decision making equally, or does one person hold more control over the direction of the company?
What if your proposed business idea has multiple co-founders who will each contribute different skills and resources? How do you make sure everyone’s needs are met so everyone feels valued and appreciated?
Conclusion: How to Choose a Business Partner
Now that you know how to choose a business partner, it’s time to get started! The most important thing is to find someone who shares your vision and who you can trust. With these ten tips in mind, you’ll be well on your way to finding the perfect partner for your new business venture.


크리스토프 라이너 (Christoph Rainer)
UNTITLED BRAZIL PROJECT (2012)
REQUIEM FOR A ROBOT (2013)
PITTER PATTER GOES MY HEART (2015)
The hopelessly romantic Lisa takes desperate measures to win her former lover back. But the fact that he already has a new girl at his side and that Lisa needs to bring her alcoholic father to an anti-varicose-campaign photo shooting without letting him know, is not particularly helping.
The tragedy takes its course.


More thinking about Xcom2002. It's the online/real-life dichotomy; do you know someone if you've read their blog? Or do you know them if you've sat in a pub and had a drink with them?
Sunday I met lots of people who had been formerly collections of prose till I pressed the flesh, so to speak. Like, I've never met Ben Hammersley before in my life, but I've seen his wedding photos, know that Anna wore wonderful snakeskin boots and that they got the cake from Patisserie Valerie. Does that mean we're more intimate? Or more prepared to share information? Or more interested in the minutiae of other people's lives? Do you have to meet someone to know them? What if you only know the "them" that they show to the "you" that "they" see?


Dating Young Seems Fun, but…
Many Native Americans have had experience with or are currently in, unhealthy relationships. I think this happens because most Natives haven’t seen what a good relationship looks like. As Native youth grow up, they often don’t see good role models of healthy relationships from their family members. We’ve also started dating young, and I think that since we’re young and haven’t been shown what a relationship is supposed to be like, we have unhealthy ones ourselves.
Adolescents should avoid dating relationships. You should not only look at the nice things that could possibly come out of the relationship but also the bad. Unhealthy relationships can cause negative emotional and physical consequences.
Dating isn’t all about Roses and Kisses
When you get into a relationship, you’re probably thinking about the nice things that can come of it, not the bad things that could possibly happen. Before getting into or even considering a dating relationship, you should evaluate both the good and bad things that could happen. I know this may seem boring, or even pointless, because your young minds just don’t want to be lonely. But this will allow you to see the cost of the relationship—both positive and negative.
According to Anita Ojeda, you should weigh the positive and the negative consequences. When you do this, if there are more negatives than positives, then you know the relationship wouldn’t be a good idea. Therefore, make a chart or something that separates the good and bad before starting the relationship.
Dating can Depress You
When you start a relationship you’re all lovey-dovey and happy; you can’t imagine the relationship not working out. Because Natives aren’t exposed to what a good relationship should look like from childhood, we don’t know what to expect. We may come from an abusive family or background and might start acting out like that in a relationship. Since Natives basically grew up around lying and stealing or cheating you might act out like that in a relationship. According to domesticshelters.org, the National Institute of Justice did a study showing 84 percent of Native American women have faced violence in their lives and half of that is caused by an intimate partner. Alcholol-related abuse is not only found within the Native American culture, it’s a universal concept.
Men suffer from domestic abuse, too—not just women. I have adolescent family members who have gotten depressed from being in a relationship. I myself have been let down from an unhealthy relationship and have gone through depression. This type of emotional negativity shouldn’t be coming from a relationship at a young age. Adolescents can get emotional consequences like these from dating while young.
Things You Think Will Never Happen to You
In addition to the emotional consequences, there are other negative consequences. When you date, you might get distracted. You may not focus in school completely because you spend all your time thinking about something relating to your relationship or the other person. It can cause you to fall behind in school work from lack of concentration.
When you date, your teenage hormones can take over sometimes, and you and your partner can get sexual. It can start with kissing and lead to something else. According to advocatesforyouth.org, 31 babies are born to every 1,000 Natives between the ages 15-19. I know at least seven people who got pregnant before finishing high school.It's hard to take care of a baby while trying to finish school. #dating Click To Tweet
It’s hard to take care of a baby while trying to finish school. It can lead to dropping out and not graduating. That is another negative consequence to dating as an adolescent. Having a boyfriend or girlfriend at a young age can lead to negative consequences.
Just Say, “No!”
You shouldn’t date at a young age. I know you probably feel like you have to, because it might seem fun. Maybe a relative had a relationship at a young age and so you think nothing bad will happen to you. But these reasons should help you stop and think. Especially if you don’t have anyone warning you about the dangers of relationships at a young age.
Before you get into a relationship, you should list the good and bad things that could come with it. Being in a relationship will cause emotional consequences. Not every relationship brings abuse or causes depression, but it will affect your emotions. You also want to look out for the negative consequences of relationships such as distractions and pregnancy.
Also, since both teenagers are still basically children and aren’t on their own then you’re not mature enough to be caring about someone else’s needs when you have your own. Just worry about yourself for now and avoid dating at a young age.


MAYBE I DO (2023)
A young couple at a crossroads in their relationship decide to invite their parents to finally meet... but it turns out the parents know each other already....
Adding to the list of raunchy senior comedies, Maybe I Do brings four powerhouse performers together for a safe, overly sentimental romantic comedy. Adapted from director Michael Jacob’s own stage play, Maybe I Do follows a young couple, Michelle (Emma Roberts) and Allen (Luke Bracey), coming to a crossroads in their relationship after a mishap with the flower-throw at a wedding forces them to confront what they really want from each other; as Michelle longs for marriage, while Allen is happy as things are…
Scenes of the pair’s bickering are intercut with two other couples at their own relationship turning points: firstly, there’s feisty Monica (Susan Sarandon) and reserved Howard (Richard Gere) in bed, with her wanting something more sexual than he’s able to give. It’s a refreshing gender role reversal with the woman yearning for something more sexual, while the quieter man being more comfortable with small talk and reading his newspaper. Secondly, there’s Sam (William H. Macy) trying to impress a nervous Grace (Diane Keaton), who don’t seem to know what they want from their evening after booking into a hotel room like nervous teens.
Back to Michelle and Allen, who are by far the most dislikable characters of the movie, as they turn to their respective parents to resolve their issues. Michelle goes home to the aforementioned Grace and Howard; while Allen returns home to feisty Monica and Sam. And suddenly we’re aware the last two couples are swapping spouses.
This romantic comedy reunites Richard Gere and Diane Keaton, who last shared the screen in the crime drama Looking for Mr Goodbar (1977), as well as Emma Roberts and Luke Bracey from Netflix’s Holidate (2020). The latter have significantly less chemistry than the former, as the relationship between Roberts and Bracey’s characters seems entirely healthy without a wedding to seal things. There isn’t enough argument for audiences to care about why marriage is so important to Michelle.
Roberts and Bracey are fortunately sidelined, with their story circling the same point for the duration. It’s clear Maybe I Do offers more of a chance for its paternal co-stars to have fun with their natural chemistry on-screen. Having the two sets of parents, who’ve obviously never met in this context, finally come together to battle out the notion of their children’s future together makes for a fun if unrealistic setup.
Maybe I Do brings nothing new to the rom-com, but it uses its talented cast well. Macy’s Sam brings a slice of his role as Frank Gallagher in TV’s Shameless, pulling off a mix of downtrodden and sarcasm as Sam seeks solitude from his boisterous and argumentative wife Monica. Keaton’s Grace is always anxious around Macy but endlessly optimistic with her husband Howard, with Keaton toning down her natural zaniness to allow Macy to take centre stage with his sardonic quips.
Gere embraces the roguish Howard, who’s looking for excitement outside his marriage but gets a little more than he bargained for with Sarandon’s scenery-chewing Monica. The more we see the four parental units interact, the more the opening scenes make sense, so meeting the couples in this mismatched order turns out to be a very smart move.
Maybe I Do is a movie of moments, addressing big topics with an ease that evokes a few classic Nora Ephron screenplays. In between the bickering parents and bitter kids, the movie addresses the commodity of time as people get older and how things change in importance as we age. The film isn’t without its sentimental notions of love, however. It skims the surface of a range of marital quandaries but never delves deep enough to make an impact. Its underpinning messages are smothered beneath too many layers of fluff in that regard.
Thankfully, with two Academy Award-winners in Keaton (Annie Hall) and Sarandon (Dead Man Walking), combined with Oscar-nommed Macy (Fargo) on fine form, and Richard Gere still exuding the suave charm he did in his 1980s heyday, Maybe I Do is worth watching for their performances alone.
USA | 2022 | 95 MINUTES | 2.00:1 | COLOUR | ENGLISH
writer & director: Michael Jacobs.
starring: Diane Keaton, Richard Gere, Susan Sarandon, Emma Roberts, Luke Bracey & William H. Macy.


what if all the scenerios we make up in our head are actually real events happening in an alternative universe and we’re actually connecting with our alternate self’s mind
Whoever it is you fall in love with for the first time, not just love but be in love with, is the one who will always make you angry, the one you can’t be logical about.
— Jeanette Winterson, The Passion (via perfect)
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following someone for months and liking their posts to get them to notice you and then they finally follow you


Can two broken men find love in the chill of Winter?
Leo is having a bad day. Finding his boyfriend in bed with another man was one thing, being the subject of office gossip another, but falling on his ass in the snow in front of a gorgeous man was the final straw.
Jack has existed in a solitary life of ice and bitterness after betrayal. He swore no one would ever break his heart again, gave up on love, and became something else; Jack Frost.
As Jack and Leo get closer, Jack is left torn and confused. Jack yearns for anything that reminds him of his humanity, but the truth is, he feels nothing, not warmth, not love, and he knows he might never be able to love Leo the way he deserves to be loved.
When the line between fairy tales and magic, and the real world become blurred, can love conquer everything?
Also available in paperback.


“Consider not judging your emotions as positive or negative. Consider them as neutral. and delight in the opportunity for them to be lived inside of. Only then will emotions know that they are safe to come, flow, and eventually transform.”
— “all emotions are valid and worthy. be gentle with them. they need your support.” by india ame’ye (via eatmangoesnekkid)
"I am tired of the cult of youth. The cultural rejection of old age, the stigmatization of wrinkles, grey hair, of bodies furrowed by the years. I am fascinated by Diana Vreeland, Georgia O’Keeffe and Louise Bourgeois, women who have let time embrace them without ever cheating. Society today condems this, me, I celebrate it. For this session of fine jewellery, I imagined a man and a woman who had been together for a long time, faithful to each other and always incandescent with desire."


Based largely on recently published Soviet documents and German archival sources, The Lure of Neptune illumines the collaborative yet competitive relationship that existed shared by the German and Russian navies between the First and Second WorldMoreBased largely on recently published Soviet documents and German archival sources, The Lure of Neptune illumines the collaborative yet competitive relationship that existed shared by the German and Russian navies between the First and Second World Wars.
Tobias Philbin charts the uneven evolution of the symbiosis that developed as both Stallin and Hitler sought to build fleets that exceeded their grasps. Philbin contends that the course of Russo-German naval relations offers bot a window into the inter-war political climate of the two nations as well as a case study of how a hostile geopolitical environment can unite powers that embrace mutually hostile doctrines.Philbin reveals the lessons both Germany and Russia learned from the First World War, the ways in which the war affected their respective pursuit of naval supremacy, and the influence their policies had on one another.
Of particular interest, he exposes Stalins ambitions for naval superiority, his willingness to exchange long-term security for short-term advances, and his opinion of Hitlers policies.Analyzing Russo-German naval relations in detail, Philbin scrutinizes Russias exchange of oil and raw materials for German naval technology, Germanys establishment of Basis Nord on the Russian coast, Russo-German cooperation in merchant raider exploits, and the day-to-day interactions of Russian and German naval leaders.
Philbins findings underscore the synergy between German and Soviet naval policy during the 1920s and 1930s, the relatively intimate relationship pursued by the countries following the Hitler/Stalin Pact, and the irreconcilable national objectives that ultimately thwarted their collaborative navalefforts.


Issues | Mad At Myself
"i’ve got your melody in my head, feels like i’m singing it wrong. then again, there’s nothing worse than being addicted to a bad song."
Calvin & Hobbes: The Live-action Movie.
Just another kitten!
Having a pet is so weird. Like neither of you speak each other’s language and yet you form some strong bond by rubbing against each other and sleeping together and you might accidentally kick them in the face or step on their tail once in a while but at the end of the day you two are best buddies from entirely different species.


<3 = I’m falling for you.
:) = I wanna cuddle up with you while watching movie.
;) = I like you a lot.
:( = You should talk to me more.
:D = You’re sexy/beautiful.
;O = I want to be best friends.
:P = I want you more than anything.
:K = Kiss me.
:| = You annoy me.
* = We need to make out!
<*3 = I want a relationship with you.
8D = I want to do sexual things with you.
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Am I in a Toxic Relationship?
Am I in a Toxic Relationship?
By Teena M.D. Scott, MFT
Interestingly enough many people equate relationships to being in love or dating someone. While that is a type of a relationship, there are many more. Relationships ensue when a series of events between two people are expected to occur, frequent contact, or one person’s actions are reliant on another person’s actions or inaction. A great example of this is the relationship we have with our trash collector, our trash collector is reliant on us to sort, and bring out the trash from our homes, while we rely on them to empty our cans completely and not leave our cans in the street to be ran over. This is a working relationship. Both our actions are complimentary to each others in order to have an effective productive outcome.
Toxicity occurs most often when the engagements in a relationship with another person causes, anxiety, stress, hurt, demoralization, and or a decreased sense of self worth. So before I get into the highly anticipated discussion of toxic intimate relationships, I want to highlight an example of this in our family systems. The parent-child relationship can be a tricky subject, and while a father and son could also be engaged in a classic toxic relationship most often we see this in the mother and daughter relationship. Some daughters have the privilege of calling their mothers their best friend. Have you ever seen your mother’s text run across your cell phone and suddenly feel butterflies in your stomach and a tense sensation around your heart? That may be the result of being in a relationship with a mother who can be very judgmental, and or uncomplimentary.
After reading this article my goal is for you, the reader, to understand how you are powerful enough to change the way you respond and participate in these toxic relationships.
The first step to managing or healing is to identify that there is a problem in the relationship. If the relationship is abusive and there is an immense level of fear and anxiety, simply ask a lot of questions. Often, when we are able to ask another person a series of questions it raises their awareness that there may be a problem. Yes, I am saying that most often when we are in relationships with people who are toxic, mean, judgmental, condescending, and selfish, — and, no they are not aware of the negative impact that they are having on others. Here are a few techniques to attempt to insert when trying to decrease the amount of negativity in the relationships we care about and cannot easily walk away from.
Try to get on the same page. This is the easiest way is to identify common gripes after asking them several questions without rebuttal. These are additional techniques that will decrease negative communication and hurtful feelings.
Instead of what they are doing wrong comment on the feelings that you observe after a negative experience, and include yourself. It will decrease the person’s need to be defensive. For example, “wow, I notice we both get upset when we feel cut off or interrupted in a conversation.”
Take some self accountability! This may look like, “I can see how it would be irritating for me to come straight home and go to bed every night. I can’t imagine how I would feel if you ignored me, I am sorry. I want to work on that.”
Expecting the storm before the calm. What is this? Well after two people identify that there is a need for change in this relationship, it usually gets worse before things get better. This is normal, change is very difficult for most people in general. Increase the communication and talk about how you experience the change. It is most important to use “I” sentences as it allows the person to hear you opposed to planning their response because they feel the need to defend themselves. In the therapeutic realm we call this a persons homeostasis, a person’s norm whether it be positive or negative. Remember they have been accustomed to communicating and or behaving in this manner all of their lives.
A few things to remember about change:
It is perfectly natural for people to protect their norm. It is human nature to resist change.
The best way to get around this difficult shift is to call the elephant out in the room. “So, it’s probably going to be really difficult for us to change, compromise, and or concede that we have been hurting each other. How would you like to plan ahead to cope with these truths?”
Going to therapy is often the last intervention a person will seek out, before trying any and everything on their own. This may be the strongest intervention available if all else fails. A clinician who understands the generational effects of a person’s ancestors on their communication patterns will allow a person or persons to reach these outcomes:
1. Sometimes understanding this is the best a person has to offer: In most parent/child relationships, this is often the case.
2. It’s okay to leave, it really is: while this may not be the fact in a parent/child relationship, it certainly applies to most intimate, professional, and friendships (I did not expand on how we are often engaged with that male or female friend who ridicules us and undermines our achievements every chance they receive). Look for more on that in the next article following this one.
3. Your loyalty belongs to you: the number one thing that binds us to an unhealthy relationship is an overwhelming sense of obligation and what many humans identify as a strength of both character and integrity, one’s loyalty.
Ask yourself is your loyalty to others causing you to stay in a relationship that prevents you from living your best life? If the answer is yes, it is a toxic relationship.


The state of California has gone to great lengths to prevent any and all acts of domestic violence and abuse. Domestic violence is generally defined as the physical or psychological harm of a current or former spouse, family member, or dating partner. Child abuse and spousal abuse are examples of domestic violence. Domestic violence charges are incredibly serious and a conviction can impact the rest of your life, including your rights to your children and your reputation. Our domestic violence attorney can help ensure that your right and future are being protected. The Law Office of Albert Perez Jr can help ensure that your right and future are being protected.
WHAT IS CONSIDERED DOMESTIC VIOLENCE? The most common forms of domestic violence include slapping, pushing, and hitting. Stalking can also result in domestic violence charges – whether a restraining order had been issued or not. Any act of domestic violence that occurs in violation of a specific order of protection will result in a more severe sentence. Our firm can handle the following kinds of domestic violence cases: Assault Aggravated Assault Child Abuse Elder Abuse Spousal Abuse Stalking Kidnapping Criminal Threats And More The main difference between domestic violence charges and other violent crime charges is the relationship between the victim and the defendant. The victim must be a family member through marriage or blood to the defendant, reside in the same location as the defendant, or have a current or former romantic relationship with the defendant for the charges to be categorized as domestic violence.
WHAT HAPPENS IF I’M CONVICTED? The severity of sentencing is influenced by the extent of the injuries, the involvement of minors, and the history of the offender. A domestic violence conviction in California can result in: Up to four years in a state prison Fines up to $6,000 Ongoing probation State-mandated counseling A domestic violence conviction on your record could impact your entire life. If you and your spouse or significant other share children, a domestic violence conviction can make it so that you will not gain custody or visitation rights. Also, if you are not a legal American citizen, a domestic conviction can result in your removal from this country. Do not hesitate if you have been charged—contact the Law Office of Albert Perez Jr today


4 Ways to Prepare Together
When it comes to a successful postpartum journey, one of the most critical things is strong partner support during breastfeeding. Research has shown that having a supportive partner greatly increases your chance of breastfeeding for six months or more.
Given the importance of partner support when breastfeeding, I have to wonder, “Why isn’t there more information about partner support for breastfeeding parents?” Because educational materials are lacking in that area, I decided to create my own. That’s why I delve deeply into partner support in my breastfeeding courses, Breastfeeding Basics and Feed Your Baby University.
So, how do you know if your relationship with your partner is ready for breastfeeding? Here are four strategies to help you and your partner understand what breastfeeding support looks like.
1.) Learn About Breastfeeding As A Team
We tend to judge our relationships harshly, and anxiety runs high when things are not going well. When it comes to breastfeeding, it’s not your fault if you and your partner don’t know how to help each other at first. Also, it’s worth mentioning that our society forces most of the responsibility on the lactating parent to learn “how to do this”.
I encourage you to push against that expectation and include your partner. Start learning together during pregnancy by taking my Breastfeeding Basics course. It will feel like a natural progression, and your partner will be able to slip into that helper role after the baby is born.
If you don’t prepare yourself and your partner during pregnancy, you will have a long journey of being alone with your baby. Yes, you and your baby are a team, but it’s important to learn with your partner how to be a unit of three. If you don’t proactively prepare for that, your partner could feel left out.
2.) Communicate Partner Expectations Early
While brand new parents often feel like they’re drowning, they don’t know how to ask for help. It’s usually not helpful to ask a new parent, “What do you need?” In fact, most new parents are completely exhausted and have no idea what they need.
That’s why it’s best to talk about partner support before the baby is born. Map out how each other’s roles might change when the baby arrives. Having these discussions when you have a clear head will save a lot of stress in the postpartum period.
Good partners want to know how they fit into the equation. If you are breastfeeding exclusively, partners will probably feel out of the loop if they don’t have any knowledge about babies. This is especially true for new parents who have not had a lot of exposure to breastfeeding throughout their lives. However, even if one or both of you is familiar with breastfeeding, remember that every baby and every breastfeeding journey is different. You, your baby, and your partner are all learning at the same time.
3.) Understand How To Support In Actionable Ways
In addition to communicating about breastfeeding support, you and your partner have to determine actionable tasks that will ease the burden breastfeeding parents often feel. This should include duties around the house that might change after the baby arrives, but also discuss concrete ways your partner can specifically support your breastfeeding journey.
Here are some suggestions for being a supportive partner:
- When your partner sits down to breastfeed, immediately bring a glass of water and ask if they need their phone.
- Burp the baby after a feeding.
- When your new baby cries in the middle of the night, get up and change the baby’s diaper while your partner gets ready to feed.
- If your partner pumps, immediately wash the pump parts!
- If your partner’s been up all night with the baby, wake up early and do all the stuff they’re not going to do: Pack older children’s lunches, get kids ready for school, and start a load of laundry.
- Keep the nursing station stocked with all the preferred supplies.
- Do all the heavy lifting, such as laundry baskets, diaper boxes, and grocery bags.
- Give all the hugs and all the grace in the world to your partner who is learning to become a new parent.
- Take a turn baby-wearing on a walk or when out with friends so they can have a little bit of independence from the baby.
- OH… and tell them they are doing a GREAT job.
4.) Commit to Supporting Each Other Throughout The Entire Breastfeeding Journey
If you follow these recommendations, you will have a better relationship. Knowing what to expect from your partner allows your brain to take a bit of a break. Instead of feeling like, “Everything is my job, and I have to do it with no sleep,” you can let go of some tasks.
When you can put to bed some delegated tasks, the relief you feel will positively chip away at that feeling of overwhelm. In addition, research has shown that the more a partner is involved with the daily caretaking of the baby, the more oxytocin and bonding hormones are released for THEM.
Essentially, the more partners help, the more they want to help. But it also works in reverse — the less they help, the less they want to help. That’s why you have to get that ball rolling in the beginning. It’s not ideal for partners to come in at six months and start helping. Waiting until the baby is mobile and smiling robs them of early bonding opportunities.
Let’s get you all on the same team with a common goal. You will NEVER forget how your partner made you feel during your pregnancy and breastfeeding journey. This time-period is a great opportunity to build a stronger relationship. It really is possible- I promise!
For more information about breastfeeding and the importance of partner support, sign up for my Breastfeeding Basics course! It’s the perfect way for you and your partner to learn together!


Hellooo, I'm Ellie, 18, from devon in england :D Completely and utterly in love with my smelly boyfriend ♥ Jaaaack
replied to your
Tbh, I think some of you should talk to me
DO YOU WANT ME TO BE LONELY JAY?? DO YOU???????
11 months ago
yes i do <3


So, what’s love got to do with it? Lots!
When you think about ‘Love’, several things might come to mind. Falling in love. The feeling of love. Saying or being told, “I love you.” While all that may seem normal, you might find it interesting to know that there are many unique and very specific types of love that all express themselves quite differently. Unfortunately, far too many people will go through life not really knowing much about these different ‘loves’. And, not understanding them, in my opinion, can very well be the very reason why relationships, more often than not, are so incredibly challenging — and even fail.
Not being clear on your emotional expression can be quite detrimental to both you as a human being believing for successful relationships in your life, and also as an actor striving for a successful career!
Think about it, actors communicate words, actions, and emotions. And just as important as knowing the correct emotions to communicate during scene work, if you’re not communicating the correct expression of love, your communications and relationships with your fellow actors can easily be weakened — or even worse, misrepresented.
To help bring a little more clarity to all of this, I’m going to consult with the ancient Greeks who seemed to have had no problem at all defining the multiple kinds of love. Besides, they’re the guys who gave us acting and theatre in the first place!
Below you’ll come to learn precisely what type of ‘loves’ there are, how they’re most commonly expressed and some movies that are closely associated with them. I encourage you to not only read but study the contents of this article. So, the next time you’re in a scene, or in real life, you’ll have a better understanding of which expression of love is more appropriate.
1. Eros: Love of the body
Eros, himself, was the Greek God of love and sexual desire. Eros love is defined as divine beauty or lust and is mainly based on sexual attraction. Eros can be romantic, passionate, and fiery. It’s where the term “erotica” comes from. This love burns extremely hot and burns out extremely fast. (passion, romance, sex)
Think: 9 ½ Weeks
2. Philia: Love of the mind
Philia, also known as brotherly love, as in Philadelphia, the “City of Brotherly Love”, represents strong loyalty and camaraderie between brothers in arms. Also, friends sharing strong emotional bonds with each other. This is the sincerest form of platonic love. Philia can also be associated with the feeling of loving your sibling or best friend. To the Greeks, Philia was more cherished than Eros. (kindred spirit, friendship, mates)
Think: Saving Private Ryan – or just about any good war movie
3. Ludus: Playful love (emotion)
Ludus is the youthful, fun, playful kind of love that’s often accompanied by flirtation, butterflies, and giggling. Young love. Most modern romances start with Ludus, or better known as the “puppy love” stage. Social activities with friends can also be associated with Ludus; cutting up, bantering, laughing, even dancing. (youthful, innocent, fun loving)
Think: Where the Wild Things Are – or the beginning of 500 Days of Summer
4. Pragma: Longstanding love
Pragma is the unconditional love between a married couple or extremely close friendships developed and tested over time. The true commitment that comes from understanding, compromise and tolerance. Pragma only grows over time and requires profound understanding between two people who have been together for many years. (mature, respected, mutually beneficial)
Think: The Notebook (the older couple)
5. Agape: Love of the soul
Agape is the selfless, unconditional kind of love, the love for humanity. It’s the love we find in a healthy, functioning society. To the Greeks, Agape was the highest and most radical form of love. The love you give without expecting anything (including sex) in return. Agape is commonly reflected in all charitable acts. It’s the compassionate love that makes us sympathize with, help, and connect to people we don’t know. Agape is the love of divine truth, that accepts, forgives, and believes the best–with no strings attached! (God, divine, pure)
Think: Pay It Forward
6. Philautia: Love of the self (soul)
Philautia is the empowering kind of love we give ourselves. Self-love in its healthiest form. Philautia is essential for any healthy relationship as we can only love others if we truly love ourselves — and we can only care for others if we truly care for ourselves. The ancient Greeks studied this love very close and actually divided Philautia into two kinds: the one just mentioned and the one that’s purely selfish and seeks pleasure, fame, and wealth often leading to narcissism. It’s a fine line. (self importance, value, esteem)
Think: Any Superhero Film
7. Storge: Love of the child
This is a love of kinship and familiarity, without physical attraction. Storge is associated with the love parents naturally feel for their children and visa versa. It’s based on natural, effortless feelings of affection. Storge is the love that knows forgiveness, acceptance, and sacrifice. It’s the one that makes you feel secure, comfortable, and safe. Childhood friends are a good example. (innocence, family, care)
Think: Super 8
8. Mania: Obsessive Love
This love stems from a person possessing an extremely low self-esteem — and attempting to have another fulfill their emptiness inside. This person wants to love and be loved to find a sense of self-value. Mania is the type of love that can lead a person into madness or obsession. Because of this, they can become overly possessive and jealous lovers, feeling as though they desperately “need” their partners. Codependency is a common outcome of Mania. (overstimulation, fixation, insanity)
Think: Fatal Attraction
Defining ‘love’ can help us discover which kind we need to give more of and which kind we want to receive. In ‘real life’, if we incorporate Eros, Ludus and Pragma into our relationships and Agape, Philia and Storge into our lives, we will reach Philautia which will result in living a happier life. Learning about and understanding these different kinds of love as the ‘Actor’ can inform, clarify, and empower our character development and scene work. Become a better actor by learning how to truly love… correctly!


Factsheets for Teachers of PSHE
The main school subject in which the issue of the family and marriage is raised is Personal, Social and Health Education (PSHE). We supply educational materials, including lesson notes, for teachers of PSHE.
Several factsheets have proved popular, either in hard copy or via our web site. In the calendar year 2008, just over 200,000 copies of the factsheets were downloaded by schools. The pamphlet, Does Marriage Matter?, is also in demand with 2,500 downloads in 2008. It sets out the social science evidence about family, marriage and the consequences of family breakdown.
How Do Fathers Fit In?
There is a tendency today to speak of ‘parents’ or ‘carers’ rather than ‘mothers’ or ‘fathers’. People often say that the most important thing in raising children is to give them lots of love, something that all parents can do, regardless of whether they are a mother or a father.
However, there are also many ways that mothers and fathers can bring unique strengths to their relationships with their children. In real people’s lives, you can see these contributions, and they have been measured by social scientists. Fathers – just like mothers – always matter.Download a PDF of this factsheet
Lesson Notes: How Do Fathers Fit In?
The Facts Behind Cohabitation
Families have changed in the last several decades. Instead of getting married, many people are living together or ‘cohabiting’. Some of these cohabitating couples eventually get married. Many of them break up. Very few stay together as cohabitants for long.Download a PDF of this factsheet
Lesson Plan: The Facts Behind CohabitationDownload a PDF of this factsheet
Does Marriage Matter?
Marriage in Great Britain has changed a great deal over the past two generations, including increased incidence and social acceptance of divorce, cohabitation, premarital sex, and unwed childbearing. This report aims to summarise all sides of the family debate and explores family fragmentation.Download a PDF of this factsheet
Family, Marriage, and Welfare Benefits
Civitas’s latest analysis, resources and reflections on family policy and structural changes in the family can be found here.


Mother’s Day is just around the corner and you probably should’ve already got her something. Still don’t have anything? Don’t worry, we’re here to save your back! Today we bring you a personal selection of Offcycled favorites your mother will never forget. Here are our 5 amazing Mother’s Day gifts that will make your Mom love you (even more).


- And “bitch” is attacking women for their right to call you on it. (via madgay)
i talk a lot of shit for someone who’s scared to make a phone call tbh
before you date a girl with a mental illness, remember: saying, “you’re beautiful” won’t balance the chemicals in her brain.
and don’t fucking say, “i’ll be here for you, no matter what,” if you don’t mean it.
don’t think you’re fixing her by saying, “i love you.” because you’re not
This needs more notes.
before you date anyone


Monday, February 14, 2005
Happy Ballantine's Day
Tell someone you love them, with a card from here
Really. I did.
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