(Ya gotta have a song when you’re with somebody.)
I think I finally understand the difference between being in a romantic relationship, and being in a marriage. It took me a while and I had to bomb at marriage once first, but now I get it. It’s easy to say the difference is commitment, but that’s not true, at least not in any society where divorce is a thing (and since for me it’s pretty hard to talk about marriage without talking about divorce, more on that later). The difference lies in what you share with each other. When you’re in a romantic relationship, you agree to share love. When you’re in a marriage, you agree to share life. Love is a component of life; it’s the best component of life, it’s the one that’s most fun. Who wouldn’t want to share that? But life also has a lot of… other stuff in it. When two people get married, they trust that it’s worth it to share the other stuff too. That somehow, through the weird magical alchemical process we call “understanding”, the lightening of their own personal burden will be greater in magnitude than the weight of the other person’s burden that they will take on. Sometimes by full orders of magnitude. It takes a lot of trust, and sometimes that trust is misplaced. When Joel and I chose one year ago to trust each other and our own sense of what we needed from life, we made the right choice.
- Here are three things I have learned in the past year about how to make marriage work:
- Be willing to go to bed angry. This has been a hard lesson for me to learn. In fact there have been times not so long ago in which I have been tempted to forget it. It flies in the face of conventional wisdom and the personal experience I gained through more than a decade of romantic relationships. But it’s true, and it comes down to that fundamental difference between a romantic relationship and a marriage. Anger is an emotion, and so is love. When that’s the primary axis a connection is based on, it makes sense that if that connection is something you want to maintain, you have to tend to problems on that axis right away. If two people are in a romantic relationship and they go to bed angry, that could be an emergency for the relationship. But marriage isn’t operating solely on the love axis. Marriage has other components, other… dimensions, if you will. And sometimes to make a marriage work you have to take a step back and evaluate what’s going on in other parts of the grid. Anger isn’t always conveniently timed. I might get angry with Joel at 9:58 on a night when Joel has to be going to bed at 10:00 to get up on time for work. “Sleep” is part of the “bodily maintenance” part of life’s grid, and “work” is part of the “economic maintenance” part. If I let my desire to manage my emotions take precedent consistently over everything else, the day is going to come when Joel will lose his job because he has overslept and been late for work too many times because he was up at 2 in the morning soothing my anger when he needed to get sleep. And if Joel loses his job, I’m going to end up experiencing a lot more negative emotions than I would have if I’d just managed my anger on my own and let him get his shuteye – especially when you consider the fact that I’m perfectly capable of writing down what made me angry so that it can be revisited in conversation later, like when we see each other after that work shift is complete. So be willing to go to bed angry – be able to prioritize, and re-prioritize, different areas of life’s grid. Emotions don’t always come first in life.
- Play to each other’s strengths. When I want to spend money on something besides groceries or bills, I almost always run it past Joel first. When Joel needed to apply for a waiver regarding past overpayment of Supplemental Security Income, I filled out the form. This sort of thing doesn’t happen because I need Joel’s permission to make purchases, or because Joel’s time is more valuable than mine; it happens because we both know that our budget is tight and Joel is better at keeping budget in mind and not buying on impulse, whereas I have more patience for bureaucracy and a better gift for using the magic words to get past red tape (I worked in state bureaucracy for two years and was raised by lawyers, it comes with the territory). When two people get married, they become team players in the game of life, pitted against the same social forces they have known and hated for decades. The objective is not to get into the hall of fame, although the hall of fame exists, is definitely a thing, and is a possibility down the line. The objective is to win the game. So you put the player who’s good at offense in an offense position, the player who’s good at defense in a defense position, and when you have downtime you strategize for the next round and if there’s enough time and you’re not too exhausted, you train each other to buff your stats and shore up your weaknesses.
- Have the same (or at least similar) value system. Recently I was musing about the fact that Joel and I are such different people and yet we love each other so deeply. I asked Joel what his three most deeply-held values were. “Integrity, devotion, and determination,” he replied. This enchanted me, because I had already decided that mine were integrity, responsibility, and determination – and in my opinion, the difference between devotion and responsibility is chiefly one of motivation. Behaviorally they look pretty much the same, it’s just that devotion is motivated by love whereas responsibility is motivated by Doing What’s Right. And if love is what’s right to do, that means they amount to the same thing. So despite some significant differences in style – how we like to spend our time, what we appreciate aesthetically, who we choose to be friends with – and in life philosophy – Joel is an existentialist, and I’m an atheist whose spirituality is strongly influenced by Buddhism – Joel and I have always been able to respect each other ethically and morally, and that’s the foundation our relationship was built on before we decided to share life.
- Two can play the learning game. This morning as I drove Joel to work, I asked him to tell me three things he learned about marriage in the past year. This is what he had to say:
- “Arguing is a thing.” This was no surprise to me, given that this is my second marriage, but Joel was caught a bit unawares by the degree to which our marriage has involved the explicit negotiation of boundaries, sometimes heatedly. His parents did not argue much in front of him while he was growing up. This might be due to the possibility that they had already been married for several years when Joel was born, so they had already worked through the kinks; or it might be due to the possibility that they never really needed or wanted to do so the way Joel and I do, because they’re different people; or it might be due to the possibility that (like my parents) they opted to do their arguing while Joel was not around, and to instead present a ‘unified front’. Or some combination of more than one of these possibilities. Whatever the reason, Joel is not used to arguing being present in the home the way it’s present in ours. But he’s doing better these days at not withdrawing, at facing the negotiation, than he was doing when we started. And we both have confidence that when the argument is over, we will hold each other and our love will be unchanged.
- “…changing a hawk to a little white dove…” When Joel said this, I knew he was quoting a favorite pop ballad of ours, “The Power of Love” by Huey Lewis & the News. “You didn’t know about that before we got married?” I asked Joel, a smile on my face. His tone was serious when he replied, “It’s one thing to know it, another to experience it.” Sometimes I forget that Joel and I have very different relationship histories. Since our values are so similar and we understand each other so well, the details of our backstories don’t seem to matter as much as they once did, but when Joel said this quote, I remembered the difference in our experience levels. Joel is a late bloomer. Before we met and began dating, he had only had one romantic relationship, and that relationship lacked intimacy in many ways because his ex-girlfriend wanted to keep distance between the two of them. Despite this difference in desire for intimacy, Joel had maintained that relationship for two years. By contrast, I had been in several relationships that had involved a high degree of intimacy, but in all but one case those relationships had lasted for a year or shorter. That one case had been the relationship that ended in divorce, and that had lasted for three years. I guess you could say that when we were first getting to know each other, I was better at getting a ball rolling, but Joel was better at keeping the momentum going. As our marriage matures, I look forward to learning from Joel’s example on how to follow through on our shared value of responsibility/devotion.
- “One relationship can be enough.” In the early stages of our relationship, Joel and I discussed more than once the possibility of having an open relationship. It was something that I had done for awhile in my college years and that Joel had thought would be a good path for him to take. Since I was the one who had reservations about it for both emotional and practical reasons (I have learned the hard way that while love may be infinite, time is not), I wrote up a document that we referred to as “the contract”, which spelled out exactly what security I needed in place to allow Joel the freedom to explore other relationships. But Joel never put that contract to the test. At first, he made the decision to be with me exclusively because he was worried about hurting me (though the lengths I was willing to go to in order to ensure he had a freedom I did not plan to exercise myself impressed him), and now, he has come to the conclusion that he doesn’t need anything more. The last time we talked about it at length, he explained that his conclusion that he needed more than one relationship was probably based on having such little experience with intimacy. Now that he knows from experience what one relationship is capable of providing, he feels sated.
Speaking of contracts. In addition to the sharing of life and playing on the same team, marriage is also a contract. If you prefer terminology that is sacred rather than secular, call it a covenant; I prefer to talk about it as a contract, because as an institution, it has always been a legal one first and a religious one second (we’re talking ancient Egypt here, people). The vows you take on your wedding day are the terms of the contract. When Alan and I got married, we wrote our own vows, we wrote different vows, and we didn’t talk about the vows we were writing before we were saying them at the ceremony. The combination of these three things was a big mistake (not any one of them alone would be sufficient, but all three together… when their powers combine…). Big mistake, a very telling mistake, and I think this mistake sums up neatly why we ended up divorcing. For my vows, I wrote something that was a paragraph long, explaining in detail how I was going to treat Alan. His vows were about two lines worth of improv, more than half of which consisted of him explaining that he was improvising, but the final few words talked about how he would be willing to fall apart to preserve me. I separated from Alan a little more than a year later when he did something that crossed a line in my mind. We tried marital counseling after the separation, and it came out in our counseling session that he had justified doing it by telling himself that I had done something that had crossed a line in his mind.
Who really broke the contract?
Without getting too much into gory details, the problem lay in the fact that what Alan had done violated the terms I had set up in my vows for myself – I would never have done it to him – and what I had done violated the terms he had set up in his vows for himself – he would never have done it to me – but we had never established what we expected from each other. We were on wildly different pages about what was acceptable behavior in a marriage, and both of us assumed that we were on the same page because we hadn’t taken the time to question our own contexts and assumptions about what was normal and OK. We argued… a lot… of course, but our arguments were not like the arguments I have now with Joel, where really all we’re doing is negotiating boundaries. Alan and I were never on the same team. I know why I chose to marry him – I met Alan while I was in the process of healing after being touched by a personal tragedy and I thought of myself as tainted goods, so I assumed I should be grateful that anyone would want to be with me and I took the first thing I was offered. I asked him to marry me after we’d been dating for 4 months and after a year of engagement, I knew the relationship was very flawed, but I didn’t want to back out on my promise – once we became engaged, in my mind we were married already. To this day, I’m not sure why Alan married me. He had been married once before, and I wonder if perhaps he missed the state of being married the same way I did during the years between our divorce and when Joel and I married last September. There is a feeling of confidence that comes with marriage. I’ve described it before as “feeling like, no matter what happens, someone’s got your back.” Theoretically one could get that feeling from one’s parents, but it’s different because (in this culture at least) marriage is a chosen bond. Your parents may have your back only because the cultural imperative to support one’s child is strong (and appears especially strong between Baby Boomers and Generation Y). Your spouse has your back because they think it’s worth protecting.
Joel and I have many private jokes. One of them is that he’s a spider (creepy and misunderstood) and that I’m a bee (way too serious and working all the time). I guess if we ever get around to having a child, that child is going to end up looking something like this:
We still don’t know if that day is ever going to come. We want to be able to economically support our child without turning to TANF, and right now that would not be possible. But if we ever manage to make it happen… look out, world! Ain’t nothin’ our spiderbee can’t do!


Do This before You Give Up On Your Bond It is ironic that after living together for some time, lovers find that those feelings to be in love have pretty much disappeared. After all, the two of you be aware of each other so well it must be easy to keep things hot and spicy.
Think back to the things you did for your partner then. Did you leave appreciate notes where they would find them during their day? Did most people run a bubble shower or make sure dinner is ready when they got home? Why are you neglecting this now? By failing to point out love to your significant other that you are failing to challenge them to show you the same type of attention.
This in essence means you invest in your bond and the return is a ongoing bond of true happiness. So why do so many people fail to do the work? Usually it is because men and women want to be understood but do not want to understand most of the partner. Are you feeling bad yet? Not to worry, it's common for those in love to be selfish at times sign in forums overcome it.
This is true of many people such as in East Indian dating The sad facts are that too many men and women fail to realize that just because the pleasure seems to be gone, the relationship 's still worth having. You just want to do some work to revive that passion. Yes, you need to do "work". We hate to acknowledge that being in love takes effort. Yet it happens to be true. Perhaps it is the way you perceive the work that goes into staying in love that is the problem. The work in a take pleasure in relationship is actually awesome.
Now, take into consideration those couples you see at TV or read about who've been together for 50 additionally years. They are charming for their devotion to each other. Devotion may be the key word. Are you devoted to the significant other? Do you regularly consider what special thing on the subject of them attracted you from the outset?
At this point you may be thinking "Wait a minute, I love my spouse, I just want the appreciation back". Chances are, so undertake they. You can fix this and here's how. Habits of Couples in Love Respect. Couples in love show respect for each additional. They say positive things about their partner to some and to their partners themselves. Communication. They tell 1 what they love regarding them. They also refrain from working with words as weapons. Disagreement. Couples in love DO disagree, they just remember that your goal is to resolve problems, not slice their partner to pieces. "Us" time period.
When a man or woman knows their partner is having a rough day, they maintain their own complaints to themselves and wait for a better, calmer time to discuss it. If you're sure you really do appreciate your partner but just miss the romance that you had when you first started dating then do something about it. Start being someone you were then and see what goes on.
Making regular time to use together a priority is essential on the in love couple. It is typically something a simple as a shared cup of tea and also something more like a shared hobby or some type of trip sport. Zip the top. Couples in love know already what drives their sweetheart crazy so they don't proceed there.
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Every relationship goes through stages. Where and how each stage develops is ultimately up to each person. While we always hope for the best, we often can’t avoid the inevitable.
- The chase
It is how we think about relationship. It wasn’t bad, it wasn’t great.
Josh and Marissa are at a crossroads and their future is uncertain. Josh guides us through each stage of the relationship as it formed and as he predicts it will end up as.
When Five Fell
Can the things we love, love us back just the same? Five household objects express their feelings toward their owner when she begins to neglect them for someone else:
“When Five Fell” is a new take on the ideal boy-meets-girl love story. Although the short is told from a unique and unconventional perspective, the emotions described should be familiar to anyone that’s fallen in or out of a relationship.
A simple question, “How many have you loved?” Is your answer, one and only? Or is it several, all of whom have shaped your life?


Aren't friends life savers? I met with one of my dearest this morning for "coffee" (actually we both opted for a refreshing Diet Coke) and we compared notes on our summers. Mine's felt random and discombobulated so far and I'm feeling some strange things lately: attention-deficit, disorganized, forgetful, generally unenthusiastic, and always tripping through my days only to discover each evening that I haven't accomplished much of the stuff I'd hoped I would. Imagine my surprise to find that she's feeling the same things! We compared notes, blamed hormones, and both felt better when we left (there's nothing as satisfying as knowing your not alone).
After we parted my day returned to my new normal – disorganized (a quick errand turned into a fiasco), I forgot to get some key items at the grocery store, my brain feels fuzzy, and now it's after 5 p.m. and I have barely a thing to show for my day. But now I can just think of my girlfriend across town and know that she's probably having that kind of day too and I feel a little better, or at least I smile with one side of my mouth. And hopefully, if things aren't going so great at her house either, she'll find a little solace in thinking of me.


When Aries and Gemini get together, sparks fly and passions ignite. With intense physical compatibility to build on, this pair has potential for long-term bliss if the Aries woman keeps her jealous nature in check. Because passions and emotions run high with this pair, there is generally no middle ground. The relationship either blissfully endures or comes to a disastrous end.
Aries and Cancer tend to bring out the best qualities in one another, making this an excellent love match. Cancer is frugal by nature while the Aries woman loves to spend, which means money issues are often the largest hurdle for this couple. Aries and a Leo man complement each other well, forming an intense emotional bond and enjoying a fulfilling sexual relationship.
For this partnership to work, both parties must occasionally put aside their egos and competitive drive. Aries must be willing to let Leo take the reins once in a while.
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Despite physical compatibility, Aries and the Virgo man have contrasting personalities that lead to disagreements. Virgo is a planner and a perfectionist, while the Aries woman prefers to go with the flow, caring little about tidiness or organization.
On the other hand, opposing personalities keep the passion alive for this duo. This match can work, but both parties must be willing to work through disagreements. An Aries woman often falls easily for the charming Libra man , but long-term bliss takes some work for this couple. Aries and the Scorpio man make an emotionally and physically fulfilling match.
If both parties move past their jealous natures, this relationship can be very satisfying emotionally, physically and intellectually. Aries and the Sagittarius man enjoy a magnetic attraction and have much in common in regards to communication and personality style. However, Sagittarius is often unable to show the tenderness that the Aries woman secretly desires. This leaves her feeling neglected and igniting her jealous nature. Their diifferences create mystery and excitement for this pair, but the Aries woman is typically the one to initiate sex with the uptight Capricorn man.
This relationship can persevere but there are many emotional ups and downs along the way.
A psychic can help the Aries woman determine whether her Capricorn is worth all the drama. Aries and the Aquarius man have much in common, including a predictable nature and childlike optimism. If the Aries woman is willing to loosen her grip on the reigns, this relationship has great potential. In many ways, a Pisces man is the perfect match for the Aries woman.
Pisces is strong enough to gain respect from Aries, but tender enough to meet her emotional needs. Physically, this pair has amazing chemistry and they are both looking for the same experience in the bedroom. Finding love is difficult for the independent, yet emotionally vulnerable Aries woman, but consulting a psychic provides invaluable advice.
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But it easily becomes nasty, and one of you is likely to get hurt. You either respect one another immensely or detest one another — rarely anything in between. Compatibility Rating: See color codes below. TAURUS prefers to fully digest the whole idea and responds to situations with a more practical and cautious attitude.
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You have very different rhythms. You both enjoy and need to be active and on the go, and are more interested in the present than in the past.
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- TAURUS (April 20 - May 20);
Once something has outlived its usefulness, you are both ready to part with it and you go on to something new. You both have a low tolerance for boredom! You also share a weakness in common: the inability to stick with things projects and relationships when they become dull or problematic. Neither of you wants a very clingy, dependent type of partner, and with one another you have a certain amount of independence that you both enjoy. ARIES becomes abrupt, impatient, and tactless at such times. ARIES often feels smothered by demands of family and even friends. ARIES, however, often acts in a manner that is socially inappropriate while LEO is more aware of appearances and is more concerned with the response of others.
You are both immensely proud and neither of you wants to take the back seat in this relationship. There is a great deal of harmony between you, but being two spirited and somewhat volatile people, when you clash your fights are likely to be dramatic and boisterous.
Aries Love Matches: Are You Compatible?
Some very basic differences in your makeup can make you uncomfortable with each other at times: ARIES tends to throw caution to the wind, while VIRGO worries a great deal if all details are not taken care of first. Both of you need to make a lot of adjustments in order to accommodate the differences between you.
However, you can certainly learn from each other, and the differences in your personalities can be very attractive to you both. A basic difference in your personalities is that LIBRA likes to look at both sides of an issue and consider any situation from every angle. LIBRA likes to discuss ideas with others, get their opinion, and sometimes has difficulty coming to a definitive decision. In order for your relationship to work, you will have to reconcile this basic difference in your personalities.
Obviously, you will need to have greater appreciation and respect for each other than this! You are both willful and passionate people, with a strong desire to live intensely and directly, and you love this about each other. There is a lot of fire in your relationship and you are likely to fight ferociously sometimes. Enthusiasm, a sense of adventure, and high spirited play infuse your relationship.
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Also, you both need personal freedom and space, and even if you spend all of your time together, you are unlikely to feel smothered in this relationship. A happy twosome! ARIES feels very constrained and inhibited by social norms, schedules and employers, while CAPRICORN works well where there is a clear hierarchy and social order, such as in a large business, college curriculum, or military pecking order. Both of you are independent, active individuals who appreciate progressive, dynamic approaches to any situation or problem, and your relationship has a lively, spirited quality.
You both can be iconoclasts as well, taking pride in your freedom from many traditional values and beliefs.


And he thinks you guys should cool things down just for a couple of weeks, because he can't afford to treat you right, but he's going to his friend's bachelor party in Vegas. I know, Vegas, right? And like you know you should dump him, but you don't? And like the NBA is right there, and it would totally be a better boyfriend, but it's just not the same.
...No, trust me, if you actually watched basketball you would love it. No, I'm totally serious! Shut up. And whatever, it wouldn't be as annoying as the NHL, who has a lockout like every two minutes.
So, like, these CBA talks keep happening, and nothing is getting done. Because they only talk for like five minutes at a time, probably. It's like when you call your boyfriend and he doesn't pick up, so you text him to ask what time we're leaving for Tim's party tonight, and what does he want from the SAQ. And then it takes him fifteen minutes to answer and all he writes back is "k." ...I know! It really is! I mean, seriously, "k"? That's it? I know!
So like eventually you get fed up. I mean, I'm done putting up with him. I'm better than this. Like, I deserve to have a guy or a sport treat me like I'm Kate Hudson in some shitty movie that has like a hundred stupid love stories in it. ...Oh my God, really? It was good? When did you go see it? ...I know, but then I hated it because Bradley Cooper was such a jerk in it, remember?
Right. Hockey. Yeah, so now apparently talks are actually picking up, which is like when you're thinking about giving up on this useless boyfriend and then he realizes he still wants you around to buy him stuff, so he's all like "Baby, how come you didn't call me today? You know you're my world" and you're like, okay whatever, buddy... But then you think that maybe you should take him back, like, I don't know anymore...


ANGELINA JOLIE HAS FILED FOR DIVORCE FROM BRAD PITT
Tuesday, September 20, 2016 10:07AM
LOS ANGELES — Brangelina is no more. Angelina Jolie has filed for divorce from Brad Pitt, bringing an end to one of the world’s most star-studded, tabloid headline-generating romances.
Jolie Pitt cited “irreconcilable difference” in divorce papers filed Monday in Los Angeles. She is seeking physical custody of their six children, with visitation rights for Pitt. Hmm That means yes Angelina Jolie has filed for divorce from Brad Pitt.
An attorney for Jolie Pitt, Robert Offer, said Tuesday that Jolie Pitt’s decision to divorce was made “for the health of the family.” The filing dated the couple’s separation as last Thursday.
Though together for 12 years, Pitt and Jolie Pitt only wed in August 2014. They married privately in the French hamlet of Correns in Provence with their children serving as ring bearers and throwing flower petals. They announced the ceremony days later.
Their children are: 15-year-old Maddox, 12-year-old Pax, 11-year-old Zahara, 10-year-old Shiloh, and 8-year-old twins Knox and Vivienne.
This is the second marriage for Pitt, who previously wed Jennifer Aniston. It’s the third for Jolie Pitt, who was previously married to Billy Bob Thornton and Jonny Lee Miller.
Their initial romance sparked a tabloid avalanche unlikely any in recent memory. Pitt and Jolie became close while filming 2005’s “Mr. and Mrs. Smith,” prompting widespread speculation – consistently denied by couple – that Jolie prompted Pitt’s divorce from Aniston. Pitt and Aniston announced their separation in January 2005.
In a 2014 interview with The Associated Press, Jolie Pitt said playing a couple with marital problems was cathartic.
“It almost makes you get past those issues because you can laugh at them,” Jolie Pitt said. “You do a film about bad marriage and you witness that behavior. You study it, you let it out, you attack each other and then you just want to hold each other and make sure you never behave that way.”


The next day Dan returned with flowers and apologies and If you’ve read Angie’s blog from the beginning you’ll know that we eventually got together, we intertwined our souls (!) and I soon moved next door into his house.
Although Dan moved into the street after me he grew up in this town, which is how I came to meet his friend Charlie. I thought that Charlie was a bit of a loner but pleasant enough, so I always made him welcome when he came round to see Dan. Dan used to get annoyed with me because I used to pester him about finding Charlie a nice girl to go out with. Dan told me about Charlie’s wicked ‘childhood sweetheart’ who dumped him and moved away after all the support he’d given her and all this around the time that his mother died. Talk about kicking a man when he’s down.. I could never remember that girl’s name so I called her the ‘Wicked Witch of the West’, even though I knew she’d moved East.


If you are searching for love and your number one in life, and you feel that you can't find him. What do you say about trying the internet? Online dating has become a mainstream activity for people of all ages: even people over 50.Online dating services make it possible to find people you have never met before and probably would never meet without the help of the web.When browsing on sites about online dating, there could be both advantages realized and also a few dangers noticed. Online dating is an essential resource for the shy person who is trying to find a partner for life. While we have all heard a few awful stories, online dating can absolutely be secure and lead you to a marvelous romantic relationship.The single most important item you can do to develop your chances of finding love in online dating is to make sure you include images of yourself. If you put yourself in the other persons situation it is much easier for him or her to know who to contact if there is a picture in the profile. Each time you are placing your ads in one of the dating sites, list out your interest and everything that is important for you. With thousands of hot profiles that populate online dating sites, you might need to know some secrets to getting identified.Writing a proven online dating profile is important it doesn't count what dating website you are a member of. Every time you write your ad you must be as sincere as you can, otherwise I am sure you will not find love. I mean if you are not honest on your profile you can't find the one who fits your profile.If you have met someone on the internet and are now planning to meet in person,keep in mind that your expectations are your biggest wall to get to know him or her. to give your date a real chance. When you are talking only on the phone or via the computer you are thinking about your date and your mind is building up a picture about your date but maybe that is just one of your fantasies so remember the other person deserve a real chance, even if you feel a bit disappointed.


The secret to quality Christian gifts that inspire successful relationships April 22 2014
Quality Christian gifts inspire successful relationships. When it doesn’t always seem possible, how do you provide the quality Christian gifts needed to help your relationship thrive and succeed?
The right kind of quality Christian gifts
Too often today, people think they have to show their love by buying expensive gifts for their significant other. Who among us hasn’t seen that guy or girl frantically running around on Valentine’s Day in search of the “perfect” gift for his or her significant other?
The amount of money you spend has nothing to do with quality Christian gifts – the kind that are designed to bring you closer together, represent your faith and love for one another. So, what is the secret to expressing your love and commitment? Check out these three inspirational items that are virtually free and more meaningful than that gift from Tiffany’s:
- Active Listening - it seems simple enough, right? But do you really listen to what your significant other is saying? Do you verbally recognize the things your significant other is doing? Taking time to actively listen is one of the best quality gifts you can give your partner to let him or her know you empathize with what he or she is going through and that you appreciate that he or she is sharing their thoughts with you.
- Encouraging Words – nothing brings a couple closer than knowing they are each other’s biggest fan. When you sing his or her praises in front of friends and family, you show your partner how much you admire and respect him or her. Pick one quality, accomplishment, or gesture and lift him or her up.
- Let Go – remember that argument you had six months ago where your partner did – insert negative action here…Harboring resentment, turning a cold shoulder and engaging in the “silent treatment” represents a passive-aggressive fight. It is neither productive nor Christ-like and can be quite detrimental to a relationship. Instead, let it go. When you’re tempted to bring up that awful thing your partner did in the past, stop, push through it and let it go. Stay open and stay honest and work through it. Remember, it’s all small stuff.
And, when it seems like you just can’t, remember one of the most often quoted and inspirational verses in the Bible: “Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It does not dishonor others, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres.” (1 Corinthians 13:4-7)
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Jake's birthday was Sunday July 10th and he turned 32! Holy cow we are getting old. At least according to our children we are! So honey here are 32 reasons why I love you! Happy Birthday!
1. You make me laugh(even when I don't want to).
2. After 10 years of marriage you are more good lookin than when we first met.
3. You are a great father!
4. You know what I need and when I need it!
5. You work really hard at your job to provide for your family.
6. You have a strong testimony.
7. You support me in all my decisions(even the not so good ones).
8. You make me feel beautiful.
9. You gave me 3 beautiful boys!
10. You know when my MS is acting up and you pick up my slack.
11. You love your calling(and you do it well).
12. You make time to take me on dates.
13. You give me massages!
14. You watch chick flicks with me.
15. You think I'm so talented(I so have you fooled!).
16. When you come home from work, you ask me what you can do to help me.
17. You think it's cute when I cry(which is A LOT).
18. When we were first engaged and my mom didn't like you so much, you went out of your way to serve her and you won her over!
19. You married me for time and all eternity.
20. You eat ice cream with me(even when I shouldn't have it).
21. You clean and do laundry without being asked.
22. You take all 3 kids and go places with them.
23. You put God and family first in your life.
24. You know when to say "I'm sorry."(I'm still working on that one.)
25. You let me be right(even when I'm wrong).
26. I love the way you laugh.
27. I love the way you do your little scream.
28. You torture our children, because you can.
29. You are a mean parent too!
30. You call me just to say hi and see how my day is going.
31. You don't mind when I go out with my girlfriends.
32. You love me more than I could have ever imagined.
Babe, we've been married for 10 1/2 years and they have been the best and hardest years of my life. I am so glad the Lord gave me you to have for eternity! Here's to the next 10 1/2 years and many more after that! I love you!


Men Secretly Look For a Women Who Will do THIS
And it might make you mad if you can’t handle the truth about male psychology
Men and Women are psychologically different.
That’s hardly a surprise to anyone who has ever been in a relationship.
Over the course of my time as a dating coach, I’ve noticed that many women tend to run into the same frustrating sticking point over and over with men.
Things go well in the beginning but then he starts to “pull away”
He seems distracted when he’s with you.
Is he fantasizing about other women?
Did you say or do something to turn him off?
You ask him if everything is okay.
He shrugs and says:
But everything is not fine.
And you know it.
So you press on, determined to “fix” the relationship.
But no matter how hard you try to get him to open up…
It just makes things worse.
Eventually, the relationship fizzles out and dies on the operating table.
So what went wrong?
You didn’t understand the following critical piece of information.
A Man Spends Most of His Life Searching for a Woman Who Will Leave Him Alone
Read that sentence again.
A man spends most of his life searching for a woman who will leave him alone.
Maybe even a little irritating.
When I’d tell female clients this little tidbit of information it would usually result in a reaction that went something like this:
“Are you fucking serious?”
I’m fucking serious.
If you’re starting to feel a quiet rage build deep inside your stomach to the point of reaching through your monitor, grabbing me by the throat, and calling me an asshole…


There are rumors concerning the thirty-year-old Canadian Youtuber AzzyLand that she broke up together with her long-term boyfriend. So, Who’s Azzyland relationship now? Azzy is among the most considered Youtube globally, and she or he has 13 Million subscribers on her YouTube channel. AzzyLand is the identify of her YouTube channel, however her actual identify is Azzy Bajrami. Azzy has hit a unique stage of milestones. She additionally collaborated with DJ Marshmallow. She additionally posted a music video on her official Instagram web page with massive Nem referred to as Cash. Azzy just isn’t solely a YouTuber. She can be a PADI-certified scuba diver. Azzy holds a “Spirit” of wanderlust and desires to have the stamp of each county on her passport. And now, who wouldn’t wish to date a woman like Azzy?
AzzyLand was relationship a fellow youtube named Kwebbelkop. They each make vlogs, gaming, and response movies. They have been good for one another. Mr. and Mrs. Youtuber. Nonetheless, Azzy didn’t land on YouTube straight. She used to journey the world and used to put up photos and tales on Instagram. However then she bought the kick begin of her profession when he turned the co-host of the podcast named “Earlier than They Have been Well-known.” It’s a well-known superstar biography channel. After quitting the podcast, she opened her youtube channel, and now everybody is aware of as Azzyland the YouTuber.
Coming again to Azzy’s love life. She was head over heels in love with Kwebbelkop, and he has appeared in Azzy’s video that she posted on her Youtube channel. Kwebbelkop was in a relationship with another person, however in 2016 he posted a video the place he mentioned he broke up together with her girlfriend. It’s mentioned that Azyy appreciated Kwebbelkop, however her had her foot again as a result of he was already in a relationship with another person.
Azzyland’s 3 years Relationship With KwebbelKop
In 2016 AzyyLand began relationship Kwebbelkop. After Kwebbelkop broke up together with his long-term girlfriend, the 2 YouTubers stepped right into a relationship. Nonetheless, initially, they each have been prepared to maintain it personal, however their fellow YouTuber named John Scarce revealed that Azzy and Kawebbelkop have been relationship one another. And over a 12 months later, Azzy publically accepted their relationship by posting an image together with her boyfriend and wishing her one 12 months anniversary.
The image featured each of them the place Azzy is sitting on Kawebbelkop’s lap together with her arms wrapped round his neck. The was completely lovely, and that was the primary time Azzy accepted their relationship publically. After that, they each have been seen in one another’s Instagram tales, and Azzy even included him in her YouTube vlogs.
Did AzzyLand And Kawebbelkop Broke Up?
AzzyLand and Kawebbelkop met one another at an E! Information celebration and began following one another for the reason that day they met. They each helped one another develop of their careers, and their relationship updates might need helped them achieve various followers and subscribers. Azzy began touring with him, and at occasions, she devoted an entire full vlog to the love of his life.
There have been rumors in 2018 that the couple has cut up as Azzy was making unhappy movies on TikTok. Followers saved asking them about their breakup, so that they each went on the document and informed their followers that they’re nonetheless collectively and glad collectively. On New Yr’s eve, AzzyLand posted a sequence of images from which one image was with Kawebbelkop, the place he was kissing her. So followers have been assured that the couple remains to be collectively.
Earlier than issues go any additional, I wish to deal with the rumors. After 3.5 years of being collectively, Azzy and I lately broke up.
I’ve nothing however love and respect for this stunning, good, and caring lady. Please respect our privateness. Thanks.
— Jordi van den Bussche (@Kwebbelkop) February 29, 2020
However in February 2020, Kawebbelkop tweeted from his official Twitter account that He and Azzyland have damaged up. They each have stepped out of their 3.5 years lengthy relationship.
Who Is AzzyLand Relationship Now?
Azzy’s Ex-Boyfriend added to his assertion that He’s leaving with love and respect for Azzy. He additionally referred to as Azzy good, caring, and loving. The Youtuber requested his followers to respect their privateness. Azzy additionally eliminated the image she posted on her anniversary. However she didn’t take away the image of latest Yr eve the place Kawebbelkop is kissing her. It looks as if the break-up was mutual, and no drama was concerned. As of now, AzzyLand just isn’t relationship anybody. She is perhaps taking a while off for herself to recover from his Ex-boyfriend.
Additionally Learn: Who Is Ricegum Relationship? The Controversial YouTuber’s Private Life


There are many things we might enjoy in life but some of those memories are going to wrap themselves around our heart and stick with us forever. Often, they involve the most precious things we have in life, our children. From the moment we find out that we are expecting, our lives are never the same and we wouldn’t change a thing.
Of course, it isn’t only the babies that have our heart, it is the furry members of our family as well. Our dogs also change our lives and they become such an important part of our family, we could never imagine life without them. Of course, they grow up the same as our children and the combination of the two is often too much love for us to handle.
This video shows something that everyone who has ever had children and a dog already know all too well. The bond between the two of them is just more than most of us can imagine. Often, the child grows up with the dog and the two are an inseparable part of our family. Wherever one of them happens to be, the other isn’t far behind. That is what you will see in this video. The bond between dog and the child in the family comes through so clearly, it will bring a tear to your eye.
Studies have shown that children who grow up with dogs enjoy many benefits. They include forming a love of animals at a young age and even having less of a problem with allergies. Of course, we already knew about the love and once you see this video, it is the love that you will remember.
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In this blog post, we will explore the reasons why girls love wearing hoodies, why guys appreciate seeing their girlfriends wearing their clothes, and the significance behind a guy giving his hoodie to a girl.
Why Do Girls Like Wearing Boyfriends' Clothes?
One of the most common reasons why girls enjoy wearing their boyfriends' clothes, including hoodies, is the comforting feeling it provides. Wearing oversized hoodies allows them to experience a sense of security and coziness. The hoodie acts as a physical reminder of their connection with their partner and helps create a bond even when they are physically apart. Additionally, wearing a boyfriend's hoodie can make a girl feel closer to him, enhancing the feeling of intimacy.
Do Guys Like It When Their Girlfriends Wear Their Clothes?
Absolutely! Many guys find it incredibly endearing and attractive when their girlfriends wear their clothes, especially their hoodies. It symbolizes a sense of ownership and affection. Seeing their significant other wearing their hoodie can make guys feel proud and cherished. It also indicates trust and a level of comfort within the relationship.
What Does It Mean When He Lets You Wear His Hoodie?
When a guy willingly lets his girlfriend wear his hoodie, it signifies a deep level of trust and emotional connection. It demonstrates his willingness to share something personal and intimate with her. By lending her his hoodie, he is offering a physical symbol of his love and protection. It's a gesture that showcases his desire to provide comfort and warmth, both literally and figuratively.
Is It Good if a Girl Takes Your Hoodie?
Yes, it can be seen as a positive sign when a girl takes a guy's hoodie. It implies that she feels comfortable and secure in the relationship. By taking his hoodie, she is expressing her desire to have a piece of him with her, even when they are apart. It can be seen as a cute and playful act of affection that many guys appreciate.
Why Does He Want Me To Wear His Clothes?
When a guy wants his girlfriend to wear his clothes, including his hoodie, it shows his desire for her to be connected to him. By seeing her wear something that belongs to him, he feels a sense of closeness and intimacy. It's also a way for him to showcase her as "his" to the world, a proud declaration of their relationship.
What Does It Mean When a Guy Gives You His Hoodie?
When a guy gives his hoodie to a girl, it holds a significant meaning. It demonstrates his affection, care, and willingness to provide comfort. It shows that he wants her to feel protected and warm, even in his absence. It's a gesture of love that signifies his commitment to her well-being and happiness.
Do Guys Like It When Girls Wear Hoodies?
Yes, many guys find it attractive when girls wear hoodies. Hoodies have a casual and laid-back vibe that can be very appealing. They exude a sense of comfort and relaxation, making girls look effortlessly stylish. Guys appreciate this effortless charm and often find it cute and attractive when girls rock a hoodie.
Why Do Girls Like to Take Guys' Hoodies?
Girls often like to take guys' hoodies because it serves as a physical reminder of their connection. The scent of the guy's cologne or natural fragrance on the hoodie can evoke feelings of closeness and intimacy. Additionally, wearing a guy's hoodie can make a girl feel protected and comforted, like she is enveloped in his presence.
How to Ask Your Boyfriend for a Hoodie?
If you're interested in wearing your boyfriend's hoodie but aren't sure how to ask, here are a few tips. Start by complimenting his style and expressing how much you love his hoodies. Then, playfully mention how it would make you feel closer to him if you could borrow one. Alternatively, surprise him by casually slipping into one of his hoodies and watch his reaction. It's likely he will be thrilled to see you wearing his clothes and will happily lend you a hoodie.
Hoodies have become more than just a clothing item; they hold sentimental value and signify the connection between couples. Girls love wearing their boyfriends' hoodies for the comfort, security, and emotional connection it provides. Guys appreciate seeing their girlfriends wearing their clothes as it symbolizes trust and affection. The act of giving or taking a hoodie holds significance and reinforces the bond between partners. So, embrace the warmth and style of hoodies and enjoy the shared moments they bring in relationships.


Today is Mama and Daddy's 61st anniversary. I know, he's gone, but they are still a couple. Mama had a good day and actually didn't think about it. Lots of family around this weekend to have fun with. 61 years is a very long time. I've been married 30 and although that also sounds like a long time, it feels so short. I guess that's because misery lasts forever! and I'm happy.


We spoke to 23 year old plumber, Curtis, who’s just popped the question to his girlfriend, Alice. We wanted to know a bit more about what prompts people to pop the question. Be warned… he’s pretty loved up! So let’s have a ganders, shall we?
Obviously you’re in love with your fiancé, but what triggered in your mind to make you pop the question?
I guess I just wanted to act on what I feel. I wanted to show my devotion. I wanted to show to her how much she means to me and how serious I was about spending the rest of my life with her. I guess it’s just a serious way to commit yourself self to your other half.
Had you spoke about marriage together before?
Yeah we had spoken about it before. I've told her that I want to be with her forever and wanted to do it officially. I often got her to look in jewellery shops windows at rings and stuff to get ideas as well… couldn’t be getting that wrong could I?
No, do you think she’d say no if you got the wrong ring?
Ha-ha, No! But I didn’t want to waste my money on something I’d just have to exchange!
How did you get together and how long has it been?
We met in weather spoons and there was a definite instant attraction. It was physical and like mental… she was beautiful and really easy to talk to. Then we went out for a bit, had some dates, you know, and it just seemed natural. Like the whole time I found it easy to talk to her and comfortable which is really unlike me. It's been nearly a year and 3 months.
I suppose if that’s unlike you, you must have felt something different? But how did you know it was the right thing to do… pop the question, I mean?
Yeah. I knew it was the right thing to do because I love her. She’s just really cool. I’d would do anything for her and feel pretty strongly about that. We can work any problem out together.
How did you propose?
I planned to ask her when we went on holiday. I just thought it would be nice and romantic but had bought the ring already and just couldn't wait! So I asked her on a Sunday morning, a couple of weeks ago, I told her I loved her and wanted to be with her for the rest of my life… went on one knee and asked her to marry me!
Aha, nice and simple. Were you nervous about asking?
I didn't feel nervous about asking beforehand. But when it came to actually doing it, I was stupidly nervous, not sure why, because I was sure she'd say yes but yeah I was like shaking it was that bad! I guess it was because I was pretty sure she’d say yes… but when you actually go to ask it makes you think there’s two possibilities!
So she said yeah? What was her reaction?
Yeah, her reaction was happy and excited! Can't say to much more because I'll sound like I'm bigging myself up, you'd have to ask her for a more detailed answer!
Oh, you’re going to have to get used to talking for each other now! How long do you think you'll wait to actually get married?
Ha-ha! I don’t know about that. We want to get married next summer.
Can you afford the wedding yet, or is that rude to ask?
We can afford it. So I’ll let it slide. Not sure what else to say about that!
What appeals to you about married life?
Being married appeals to me because I love Alice, I know I want to spend the rest of my life with her and she's the most important thing to me. I know you don't need marriage to do all those things but I want to say those vows to her to dedicate myself to her officially.
What do think makes good marriage material in a guy and a girl?
Dedication, commitment, trust. Believing in each other no matter what. The common line people use in their vows; for better or for worse means a lot to me. You should support each other through thick and thin no matter how shit things get you should be there for each other. Kates already shown me she has all those qualities and I hope I've shown her too. Because of that I know I'm going to be with her for the rest of my life!
How would your stag and hen dos differ?
I don’t know, I think she may go more out there than me. I want a weekend away with the lads doing something fun, like active, outdoorsy stuff. You do those sort as well don’t you? I saw your stag package that’s got quad biking, clay pigeon shooting and paintballing I think? She might want something a bit more out there!
Yeah the Thrills and Spills one! I’m sure we’ll have something up her street too! Check it out. Thanks very much for sharing that with us. All the best for the Wedding!


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How to Talk About Debt Before Saying I DoFeb 13, 2018
You may have found the one and be so in love, but it doesn’t necessarily make talking about money any easier for some people. According to our recent Debt Confessions poll, 36 per cent of Canadians in a relationship rarely or never talk about money. In fact, only 62 per cent of couples had talked about debt before they were married. If you’re planning a wedding, plan to open up the lines of financial communication to avoid frustrations and debt.
Talk about your priorities
The majority of those surveyed in our poll said that they’d like to be able to change one or more of their partner’s habits–like overspending or not using a budget. However, as seen in this other poll, about 30 per cent of couples said they went over budget on their weddings. Before saying “I Do”, you may want to discuss financial goals and priorities with your future spouse in order to avoid any financial surprises or frustrations. Be clear with your partner as to what is most important to the both of you, and discuss and set a budget for your nuptials, and your future lives together.
Expect the unexpected
There are many surprises with wedding planning just like financially setting up your lives and the disappointments or challenges can be frustrating.
Make a commitment to sit down, go over your budget, and adjust your plan regularly to avoid surprises. Discuss with your partner what your goals are and how you plan to accomplish them. For example, if you’re planning a wedding, brainstorm alternatives that will help keep your wedding dream on track but help you avoid debt.
Read about Christine’s experience with wedding planning at The Wallet Diet financial blog. She and her partner kept a detailed budget and this may help you set your own goals as well.
Set the stage for the long term
It’s no secret that wedding planning is a stressful experience, full of jubilations and stress, both on a personal and financial level.
If you and your partner can commit to open financial communication about your goals and plans before the big day, you’ll have set the stage for your financial relationship.
The more you can talk about finances, the more likely you are to avoid debt and financial problems in the future.


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When i hug you, i got "love" in different definition. Love is powerful, love is a spirit, love is a verb, love is where two people stay for each other, love is happiness, and love is you.
I dont know how to explain how big my love is to you. I just knew my heart is so much bigger than my body, because it contains my love to you.
I'm in love with you, Gugah Nugraha Adang. And i always do.


Shes DangerousA beautiful girl, a sight to behold.MySocksRock
An innocent smile, a heart of gold.
So begins the story, each time it is told.
The ending leaving you, bitter and cold.
Your “soulmate” leads you into her bed.
That’s how she traps you, with lovely legs spread.
Desire and lust dominate your head.
Spellbound you agree to whatever is said.
Her manipulations are a mastered art.
As her trusting victim, you play the part.
She promises to love you with all her heart.
And with sick satisfaction she tears you apart.
From this trance you eventually awake.
That’s when you discover, trust is a mistake.
Your wonderful woman was a scheming snake.
Blinding you with her poison and taking all she could take.
You’re left alone, bitten and broke.
All you had, all you believed, all up in smoke.
Secretly wishing, you had never woke.
She made you love her, and her love was a joke.
in my head
curl up in
the beat of
do you even hear yourself?he declares himself a feministhypermagical
"in the purest sense of the word"
and expects every woman to prove that
(to him, specifically)
she is worthy of equal respect


Pillows thrown out, bed sheet on stain,
Wet minds and sweat from his bed,
Sweet caress, moans with her breath,
Raindrops falls while she gives him a head.
Waking up in a wet dream,
Alone in an empty sheet,
Can't sleep again while the night's off,
Needs to wind up from all that shit!
This night she goes wherever she wants
Her rouge covers this fragile weak flower
She wants to be attractive as she can
As she finds a man who will be her lover.
Dance in the crowd with freedom,
Show them what's behind those tears,
Her sparkling eyes attracts his
While she smiles falsely to cover her fears.
He said good words for her to smile
And felt his gentle touch on her skin.
It feels so great but why is she confused?
It's cold outdoors but it's hot within.
He grabbed her hand, walked out the door
Under the pouring rain, he kissed her lips,
She wants to break free, she won't protest
As she clung at his neck, he hugged her hips.
Just right there, hopes no one sees,
Under her soaking clothes is smooth and clean
He found a girl with a broken smile,
Made some love that can't be seen.
At that moment he broke her into two
Planted a seed will soon to be free
He left her alone while crying aches
She thought her love will grow up like a tree.


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the scary thing about dating is that you are either going to marry that person or break up
deep thoughts from an anus
"I’m scared as hell to want you. But here I am, wanting you anyway."
Unknown (via bl-ossomed)
"I should have kissed you longer."
six word story (via alecwiens)


Proposition: Order Relation for Natural Numbers, Revised
Given natural numbers \(x,y\), the relationship between the relations "\( > \)" and "\( \ge \)" as well as the relations "\( < \)" and "\( \le \)" is as follows:
- \(y > x\) is equivalent to \(y \ge x +1\).
- \(y < x\) is equivalent to \(y +1 \le x\).
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I’m known for having a rather freakishly good memory, but there have been several occasions where I’m pretty sure people tried to act like they didn’t remember me. It was very awkward and I didn’t know what to say. Other times I’m positive people don’t remember me because we met very briefly and they would have no reason to remember me.
Years ago I attended the funeral of a woman whose family I had known a pretty long time. Some of their kids were around my age and my sister especially spent quite a bit of time at their house. I went down the line giving each family member my condolences until I reached the son who was about my age. It had been a long time and I had gained a lot of weight, so I thought he might not recognize me. I said, “Hi ____. Sarah (stated my maiden name). I thought you might not recognize me.” He immediately said, “Sorry, I don’t remember you.” I said, “You must remember my sister ____ coming to your house.” “Sorry. Don’t remember.” he said rather disinterestedly.
His wife shot him a glance as if to say, “What the heck is wrong with you? Just thank her for coming and say it’s nice to see her!” I think we’ve all had situations where we might not remember someone, but I think most people would say, “I’m so sorry! I’m having a hard time remembering you.” OK, he must have been distraught about his mother, but still. I would never treat anyone that way. I realize I’m about to have another run in with him, but this time I will avoid him. I think it would be hilarious though if he approached me and suddenly got his memory back. I’ll be tempted to say, “Sorry, I’m drawing a blank. Who are you?”
Maybe he doesn’t like me. Or maybe he thinks I remember things about his youth and doesn’t want me to remember him. Who knows? Maybe he thought I would say in front of his wife, “Remember your Vanilla Ice phase? That was fun.” But I wouldn’t do that. I will remember it in my head and laugh.
Another time I was so surprised to see a man who used to accompany me on the piano 15 years ago, which he did over a period of about two years. He was amazed by my voice. He said, “I know another Sarah who sings well.” I thought he meant someone he knew personally. I asked, “Who?” He said, “Sarah Brightman.” I laughed, “You know someone who sings better than me!”
Unfortunately, our last exchange wasn’t very pleasant because he made the mistake of bagging on his wife to me. I was already aware there were problems, but I didn’t say anything. He had asked me many times if I knew this woman named *Mary who had moved away before I moved into the area. I heard him ask many other people if they knew Mary. “Long dark hair. Very beautiful.” he always said. He later declared she was the most beautiful woman in our ward (congregation). Not his wife? Still, I said nothing except to tell him I didn’t know Mary the last time he asked me either.
Finally one evening when we were rehearsing at the church, he made some comment about his wife not liking his music. (Can’t say I blame her since it was mostly a bunch of flowery runs with no discernible tune). We then had the following conversation.
Me: “Oh, really?”
Him: “My wife doesn’t like a lot of things.”
Me: “Like what?”
Him: “Well, she doesn’t like it when I have female friends.”
Me: “I wouldn’t like that either.”
Him: “Why can’t men and women be friends?!”
Me: “They just can’t! I mean, you can be friendly, but spending time alone together with people you’re not married to is not OK. Like I was told as a teenager, if we weren’t interested in marrying a certain type of person, then we shouldn’t date them. You’re not going to marry someone you never dated and you’re not going to have an affair with someone if you’ve never spent time alone with them.”
Him: “Well I just don’t see why they can’t be friends!”
Me: “It hurts your wife’s feelings and that should be reason enough. And while we’re on the subject, I wasn’t going to say anything, but you have repeatedly asked me and others about this woman named Mary and obviously that is an issue for your wife. You have asked me if I’ve met her multiple times. You have described her as very beautiful. You have never asked me if I’ve met your wife. You have never told me your wife is beautiful.”
Of course, he didn’t share the part where Mary would ask a friend to babysit while she had an appointment when she was really going running with him. And it might have been an innocent activity in her mind, but why lie? Because she knew it looked wrong. And he didn’t mention how he would call Mary using a calling card from the church (thinking no one would notice that). If you’re hiding something from your spouse other than an awesome gift or surprise party, big red flag!
I was 24 at the time and spoke my mind back then I think even more than I do now. I hated to hurt people’s feelings, but I hoped it would somehow help his situation – that he might recognize there was a problem and that everyone knew it. Maybe he and his wife would go to counseling. Maybe he would put more effort into loving her. I told him one final thing, “I don’t think you would like it if your wife were hanging out with a man she described as the most handsome man in the ward.” He said, “I never thought of it that way.”
I was pretty bold with him that night, so when I ran into him last year as he was visiting his daughter and grandchildren at a Halloween activity, I couldn’t believe my eyes. I thought, “Either that is ____ or he looks exactly like him!” I asked a friend about it and she said it was our friend’s dad. Holy cow! I had no idea! His daughter said, “Oh, you should go say hi to him!” I couldn’t just tell her, “Uh, well, your dad won’t want to talk to me because I kind of chewed him out for being enamored with another woman.” I barely knew her at the time and also didn’t know that he was feeling pretty high and mighty at the moment. That’s a whole other story I’m not going to tell, but he didn’t treat her well. It made me laugh later to think that suddenly I was there to remind him that I knew what kind of person he was.
I said, “Hi Brother ____! It’s been a long time, but I’m Sarah ____ and you used to play the piano for me back in ____! It’s been like 15 years!”
Him: “Uhhhhhhhhhh …….”
Me: “Yeah, remember? I used to sing and you would play the piano for me.
Him: “Uhhhhhhhhh ……”
Me: “Remember my friend A? You used to play for her too! She’s so awesome.”
Him: “Oh. Yeah. She sang on my album.”
Me: “That’s right! I remember you were working on an album! Are you still working at USAA?”
Him: “You remember that? No, I haven’t worked there for a long time. I’ve been teaching music.”
Me: “That’s great! I’m so glad you’re helping others develop their talents. It’s so good to see you. I’ll tell A I saw you!”
I know he remembered me. He looked so uncomfortable. I went home and told my friend A, “Guess who I saw tonight! Brother _____!!!!”
A said, “Oh yeah. He hit on me when I sang on his album.”
Yes, he must have been desperate for me to not remember him. Not surprisingly, he was no longer married, but I was kind enough not to ask him, “How’s your wife doing? What’s her name again? Mary?” Now that would just be plain evil. I’m now very good friends with his daughter and she has verified what a philanderer he is. And here I thought he only had eyes for Mary!
The moral of the story: Don’t remember people if they don’t want to be remembered. Or something.
*Mary is Mary’s real name.


Bored in your relationship
8 Signs you’re bored in your relationship and you should probably get out. When you often, feeling unhappy in a relationship presents itself in a creeping, subtle way, rather than being clear or straightforward.
It’s not fun to realize you’re no longer in the honeymoon stage, but the sooner you accept the reality of the situation, the faster you can work toward a solution, whether that’s talking to your partner, potentially going into therapy, or even getting out of the relationship.
You can’t remember the last time you two did something adventurous together. When was the last time you took a weekend away or tried something new together?
2. jealous of other couple.
When you go out either alone or with friends you see better dating potentials everywhere.
3. Past Memories.
You’re constantly reminiscing on better times or bringing up the past from when you two were first falling in love. Everything from before seems better than it is now and you wish you could get back to that time.
4. Enough of Compromise
You have a gut feeling deep inside this person probably isn’t someone you’ll be with long term or you have a feeling you’re not in the right relationship. If you have to ask yourself if the relationship is right, chances are you already know the answer.
5. Feels better to be single
You miss being single and every your single friends. It always seems like they’re having so much more fun without you.
6. No more bed fantasy
The sex isn’t as great as it used to be. Either you or your partner don’t seem to find any interest in spicing it up at the moment and you’re not sure if you even really care anymore to try and put in more effort.
7. You avoid talking about the future.
Whereas you once loved dreaming with them about the kind of city you might move to together or just talking about trips you’d like to go on in the next few months. you’re not really interested in making those kinds of tentative plans anymore.
You get into arguments for stupid reasons and find yourself becoming annoyed or irritated at minor things they say or do. You think maybe you’re just having a bad week or a bad day but no, pretty much everything about them can be found annoying now.


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love marriage - suicide
arranged love marriage - allowing someone kill you... lol!
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I was going through twitter some minutes ago and I saw a tweet that was retweeted onto my timeline. It was a tweet from a lady who was negatively labelling her ‘ex-boyfriend’. She was talking about him to another man, her ex boy’s friend. So I just went off twitter, opened my WordPress app on my phone to post this.
Why do people speak negatively about their partners when they break up? That shit confuses me a whole lot. I have been in the same boat before, dont get me wrong so I am asking myself the same question. We know we were with this ‘negative’ boy/girl all along so what was keeping us in that relationship, and why didnt we talk negatively about them when we were together but rather wait for a break up before we voice out? This confuses me a whole lot.
And its a whole new level if you tweet about it or ‘diss’ him to his own friend on social media. I really think we should grow up after break ups, let that partner go in peace and hope for the best. Imagine the other person involved is as ‘mad’ as me and decides to ‘punch’ back on social media. Just imagine!!! But I matured anyway, there are somethings that I will never do anymore no matter it’s impact. I see so many things about me on social media but i ignore and I think it is working for me. What I do now is to wish the best for whoever is doing this and move on. I pray you adapt the same lifestyle. I know we can’t totally erase thoughts and the ways of our exes and we would talk about them to our friends and all, that is allowed. You just dont have to bring it to social media. That is what I think.
Wish you all a good weekend!! Going back to bed!


Saturday, September 25, 2010
Letters to Juliet
I just finished watching Letters to Juliet and even though I had a food post planned the romance of the movie diverted my attention to love. Do you ever watch a movie full of romance, love, affection and hope that it almost makes you a little sad? You let a few tears slip as you watch the final kiss of the movie and imagine them living happily ever after, all the while feeling a little wistful for such an experience. The idea of such passion and overwhelming infatuation that the characters in the movie are so moved by one another that they are willing to give up everything just to be together. Does that ever really happen? Oh I'm sure there is the is the occasional truth to some of these stories but in reality our busy, distracted lives don't lend to such dramatic expressions of adoration.
Do men as well as women truly offer each other grand displays of affection anymore? Do we make ourselves vulnerable to each other and really tell how much we are in love and how desperately we need each other? Don't get me wrong, I'm truly happy and content in my marriage (honey, if you are reading this, it's time to send me some flowers at work, LOL) but after watching the movie I found myself craving some romance. Craving the butterflies in my stomach, tingling in my toes and flush of excitement you feel on your first date, first kiss, proposal of marriage and of course, wedding day.
So in attempt to remind myself to step out of my comfort (or maybe lazy) zone, I'm going to add a little romance. They say the French and Italians are experts at love and if the movie is any indication then maybe I'll take a little motivation from them and of course some advice from you...my Blog Friends.
What do you do to keep the romance alive? Or better yet, what would give you that "I've been swept off my feet" feeling?


Melody Bacon, PhD is a psychologist and co-founder of Relationship Visions, Inc. where she specializes in working with couples and individuals who have relationship challenges. She is also the former Department Chair of the Marriage and Family Therapy program for The Chicago School of Professional Psychology where is she now serves as a professor. Melody has created both on-ground and online courses for over 16 years. She is the author of Family Therapy and the Treatment of Substance Use Disorders: The Family Matters Model as well as The Grace-Filled Divorce. She has been featured as an expert in articles on a variety of topics.
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Monday, August 20, 2018
The Sweetest Wedding Speech You May Ever Hear
I could think of no better way to give you a peek at my wedding than to show you the speech from my best friend and maid of honor. Enjoy!
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