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A recent survey conducted by the University of Chicago, Gestalt Research, and Harvard University shows relationships that get begin online are healthier than those in real life, and they are becoming increasingly popular.
The survey was sponsored by online dating service eHarmony and included data from 19,131 individuals who had married between 2005 and 2012. Approximately one-third of these participants had began their relationship on the Internet. According to the survey, 45% of these digital relationships started on online dating sites; 20% from social networks (Facebook, Twitter); 10% from chatrooms; and less than 7% from email and instant messaging.
Strangely, the real world only accounted for 30% of relationships, 20% of which were initiated in the workplace. The other 10% of participants first began their relationships at school, which is a surprisingly low statistic since 36% of 18–24-year olds are in college (US Census Bureau data) and 43% of offline participants went to college.
Online dating is not only becoming more popular among this increasingly-digital generation, it has also proven to be more reliable, according to the survey. 5.96% of the participants who met their spouse online reported that their marriages ended in separation or divorce, versus 7.67% for those who met in real life.
There is an advantage to meeting someone online and then being able to simply tell them you’re not interested with a few keystrokes. Then again, is that human interaction or just your unwillingness to be vulnerable? After all, people need people, whether they’ll admit it or not.
It’s easy to get trapped in digital communication. Instead of using it to maintain contact with people when they’re busy, you can make it an excuse to not see them in person. I’ve even found myself favoring text messaging over calling people, just because it takes less time. But how is that showing that I am devoted to being their friend? It’s just lazy. I wrote a lengthy piece about how communication has been fractured. It addresses the above concerns and more, but this new survey brings processed data into the picture.
The greatest advantage of meeting a person online is that you know everything about them by slyly perusing their profile. There’s nothing to lose — that’s the greatest threat. Maybe I’m a hopeless romantic, but isn’t it more fun to have an adventure? When you actually do things with the person and get to know them, you may find yourself hating ever single moment, but at least that can be turned into a hilarious story for your kids.
“You’re finding someone who is 90% compatible for you before you meet them,” reflected local photographer and dumpster diver (not really) Cody Tuttle. “It’s like you’re putting out your resumé and looking for suitable matches. I think it can be dangerous, but there are agencies who can do something good with it. There’s always a way to work any system, and if you’re a professional at online dating, you’re a creep. But, you know, there’s a certain realness to real life meetings — you can have a connection to a person not just through their words.”
Risking something is vital to relationships, because you can’t learn without stumbling. There doesn’t seem to be as much emotional investment in beginning a relationship online since it’s much easier to abandon it anytime. It’s the same principal as the one-night stand. Not every person wants to jump from one bed to another — some care about having a partner who loves them.
So when it comes to finding a spouse online, how rational is it? That depends on your age. The survey shows that 30–50-year olds with a solid fiscal standing — 40% had an income of over $100,000 per year — are more successful than, say, a recent college graduate with student loans to pay off. Also, Hispanics and males are more successful in their romantic pursuits, according to the participants. That’s only rational, because we know men.
On the topic of online dating, June Laker Paden Rosnau simply said, “Don’t do it.” He elaborated: “I don’t want to be mean, but why can’t you just suck it up and go to a bar to meet someone? You’re desperate if you need to go online. It could be really good if you met the person online and got to know them a little bit, and then after that no more talking online — just in person. A lot of people feel safer being behind a computer.”
It’s definitely easier to get to know someone online, but it’s not exactly exercise for the heart. Then again, where else will you meet that companion of your dreams? You could sort through your friends’ Facebook contacts, or you could risk your pride at the local coffee shop when someone cute sits down a few tables away. The latter sounds like a better story, and isn’t that what love should be? I mean, who wants to tell people, “Uh, yeah, we met online and after a few weeks we got dinner together. After that we dated for a year and got married.” Boring.


Cute kitten time! We have kittens right now. And they bring so much love and fun (and poo) into our home. We all LOVE them no matter what they do.
It occurred to me this week that they are a wonderful example to us of ‘Level 3’ love.
…Let me explain:
In Human Needs Psychology 3 Levels of a relationship are specified:
Level 1 is where people in a relationship are focusing on what they need, and putting that first.
Level 2 is about an exchange. You believe it is fair that if you are fulfilling your partners needs, then yours should be fulfilled in return.
Level 3 is unconditional love – where you totally just know your partners needs are your needs. Not because it makes you a good person, not because they’ll love you in return – but because fulfilling your partners needs totally brightens every cell in your body. You just LOVE making them feel good – it makes you feel wonderful.
Level 3 comes with CONFIDENCE. Confidence in yourself, confidence that you are able to largely fulfil your own needs. Confidence in who you are. Confidence to love whole-heartedly.
I have never met a couple who stay at level 3 every minute of every day! But being aware of what level you are at is useful. Often couples mostly operate in Level 2, and dip into level 1. Understanding and then rising up and touching Level 3 – unconditional love – playing there regularly – it brings trust, commitment, love, intimacy, passion – and sustains a relationship like nothing else does.
Our cats miaow loudly and whinge, they scratch us – we love them. No matter what. Because to make them purr, cooch up with us and see them happy, it makes our hearts fill up with joy. And that’s what Level 3 is. I’m not saying I love my husband like I do a cat – obviously! But when we manage to reach and play in level 3 that’s the best times we have. THE BEST by far times. And in 21 years we definitely experienced all 3 levels!
If you’d like to have a conversation about how you might access Level 3 in your relationships more often (and it doesn’t need to only be in romantic relationships of course), then DM me or drop me an email. I always open a couple of free sessions every week. So you can get a flavour of what you can achieve embarking on a coaching process.
And I promise I won’t make you cuddle any cats!


Evi thank you for the knowledge you shared with us. It is so nice to meet people like you through the journey of yoga. You were a revelation to me for your sincerity and your warm character. Continue to believe in the power that yoga has to heal.
With much love and appreciation.


Sometimes the sweetest gifts are the ones that you make yourself! Even though I am not one to turn down jewelry or designer handbags, this gift that I got will make me smile everytime I look at it. Check out the cute pic my boyfriend did of me dancing the hula (one of my other hobbies). I can't wait to print it out and frame it!
Happy Valentine's Day! It's not too late to do something thoughtful for the one you love... slip them a note, a heart shaped candy or a cookie in their bag just to let them know you care. A quick gesture that will make their day.


Bride and groom during the confetti throwing.
Bride and groom take a walk at the venue.
Flower girls giggle at the first kiss.
Bride and groom share a happy moment.
A beautiful pink bridal bouquet.
Artistic shot of the orange and pink wedding cake.
Groom and groomsman help each other get ready.
The romantic first dance.
Portrait taken during the bridal preparation.
an intimate moment of hand holding.
Groom heads to the ceremony.
Joyful moment at the reception.
A happy bride outside St Pancreas station.
Beautiful pink and white flowers.
Guest catches the bouquet
A moment during the ceremony with a cute kid.
Dancing at the reception party.
Laughter during the speeches.
Big laughs at the reception.
Cute girl reads fairy book with the wedding dress in the background.
Funny groomsman photo
Bride and groom make a toast.
Dancing shot with lots of movement.
Detail of the grooms ring at colourful wedding.
Bride and groom red cake topper.
Gorgeous floral wedding cake in black and white.
Mother of the bride laughs during the speeches.
Bride getting out of the wedding car.
Bride and groom during the speeches.
Bride smiles at the groom at the ceremony.
Cute little girl during the portrait session.
Flower girl has her hair curled while pulling faces.
newlyweds looking at each other.
Bride smiles as she touches grooms face.
Groomsman looks on at the speeches.
Mother of the bride smiling at the speeches.
Light painting in berkshire.
Purple floral details on the wedding cake.
Martin fry enjoys the wedding reception.
Martin Fry laughing at the wedding reception.
Pageboy laughing hysterically with car.
Beautiful bride during bridal prep.
The ceremony location, on arrival.
Reflective image of the bridal preparation.
Details of the veil with drop diamond.
Flower girl holds the brides hairpiece.
Colourful pink, red and yellow flowers.
Girl has fun flying at cocktail hour.
Bride laughs with grandma in her garden.
Bride hugs her grandmother.
Ladies smiling at Le Meridien
Reflective ring shot.
Pretty daisies in the garden.
Grandmother dances at the reception.
Creative shot of the wedding venue.
The bridesmaid ties the wedding dress.
Laughter just before the ceremony.
Guests greet each other with big hugs.
Laughter at the wedding reception.
Best man makes his speech.
Best man joking during his speech.
Bride and groom holding hands during the ceremony.
Details of the make up.
Flower girls have their photos taken.
Pretty mason jars at the wedding reception.
Pretty details of the wedding venue.
Bride smiles at groom during the speech.
Guest gestures during the speeches.
Father of the bride chokes up at the ceremony.
Make up artists palate.
Groom looks at bride during the ceremony.
Beautiful wedding cake.
Wedding cake floral details.
Reflective ring details.
The bride fusses over her baby.
Bride and groom portraits outside.
Bridesmaid breaks it down on the dance floor.
Everyone "cheers" during the speech.
The mother of the bride during the tea ceremony.
Bride doing her make up in the mirror.
Groom arrives at his ceremony with the family.
Bride and groom complete a wedding quiz.
Little girl with chocolate all over her face.
Wedding dress hangs in the hallway.
Little boy playing at the wedding.
Details of Halifax Hall.
The bride with her head on the grooms shoulder during the first dance.
Reactions to the speeches.
Tossing the bouquet
The bride in the aisle.
Putting the ring on a beautifully decorated finger.
Bride enjoys the speeches.


If you answered yes to the questions above, you are not alone. Today, more than 40 percent of all Americans between the ages of eighteen and forty are children of divorce, and fear of commitment is a noted long-term consequence of growing up in a divorced household.
Hollywood's hype about nasty divorces may have you thinking about your own parents' divorce and the long-term consequences. But having divorced parents does not mean that you are doomed to be unlucky in love. Yes, many experts cite reports of how adults with divorced parents fear commitment and therefore face a gloomy romantic future. No, these predictions are not necessarily accurate.
Many adults with divorced parents build happy, healthy marriages. But this inspirational phenomenon has largely been overlooked by therapists and the media. Many adults with divorced parents struggle with dating and commitment, overcome their struggles, and go on to build happy and rewarding partnerships. In this article, I briefly outline five critical steps to achieving a happy relationship.
If your parents divorced when you were growing up and you want to avoid repeating their mistakes, explore the following steps and apply them to improve your current relationship or develop a new one that is healthy and lasting.
Hopefully today's blog can help you take steps to overcome your fear of commitment and help you avoid repeating your parents' mistakes. If you like what you read, check out my book on this topic, Overcoming Your Parents' Divorce.
Step One - Re-Write Your Story:
This first step involves a two-part process of recounting and exploring the narrative of your family history in order to understand your past from an adult perspective. If you have vivid memories about your past, you may think you un
derstand all there is to know about your parents, your grandparents and their relationships. But memories of the past may be colored by a child's perspective.
Take the time to talk with your parents and grandparents and you may be surprised by what you learn. Gathering this family history provides an important foundation for your efforts to forge healthy relationships. The more you know about your parents and your grandparents, the more likely you are to successfully break dysfunctional family patterns and grow from your parents' mistakes.
- Ask each parent to share their version of how they met and what initially appealed to them about the relationship. Learn more about your parents' early courtship and have a direct discussion about what the marriage was like and why they divorced. Next, learn more about your grandparents and their relationships by asking similar questions.
- If your grandparents are still living, talk to them. If they are not, ask your parents to tell you more about their marriage and their lives. Information about your grandparents can help you better understand your parents and their adult choices. For example, if your grandparents were unhappily married, learning more about their relationship may reveal how your parent didn't get much of a chance to understand what a healthy relationship would look like. Maybe this information could shed light on your parents' divorce.
Keep in mind that you are the best judge of whether your parents and grandparents can handle a direct and honest conversation about the past. If they can, go for it! If not, consider talking with a relative or a trusted family friend.
Step Two – Face the Mirror:
The second step requires frank, honest reflection about how your parents' divorce affected you as a child and how it continues to affect you as an adult. This step may seem straightforward; many adults with divorced parents can describe, in detail, how their parents' divorce rocked their emotional world. However, in order to understand how your parents' divorce can actually help you have a happy relationship, it is not enough to intellectually acknowledge how your current struggles are related to your past. Instead, you must take full ownership of the extent to which your family history leads to specific behavior and patterns that do not work for you in your adult life.
For example, one of my psychotherapy clients -- I'll call her Martha -- whose father left her mother and started a family with another woman. Martha's parents never officially divorced and her mother continued to view her father as the main man in her life. By facing the mirror, Martha made the difficult realization that she completely bought into her mother's mantra that "a bad relationship is better than no relationship." Like her mother, she lacked self-esteem and remained in relationships with men who were openly unfaithful.
Facing and taking full ownership of this dysfunctional pattern became an important step in Martha's process of beginning to change her patterns and choose healthy relationships.
Step Three – Confront Your Commitment Phobia:
In order to have a healthy relationship, you must identify the specific ways in which you avoid commitment. Many adults with divorced parents struggle with commitment; however, fear of commitment is often more complicated than a conscious reluctance to take a healthy relationship to the next level.
Many times, it involves a pattern of choosing flawed relationships and trying, at times desperately, to save them. People who follow this pattern may tell you that they embrace rather than fear commitment, as they try so hard to make their relationships work. But trying to save a relationship with an unsuitable partner is not a form of embracing commitment; it is a pattern of avoiding intimacy. Think long and hard about your dating history:
- Do you choose suitable partners or unsuitable partners?
- When you choose suitable partners, are you nice to them?
- Or are you only nice to the unsuitable ones?
Honest reflection about your underlying commitment phobia is a necessary step in the process of overcoming your parents' divorce.
Step Four – Calculate Your Dividend:
This step infuses the task of learning how your parents' divorce can help you achieve a healthy relationship with optimism and energy. Take stock of any potential good that has occurred as a result of your parents' divorce. Take an inventory of any good relationships that are in your life as a result of your parents' breakup. While you're at it, take stock of any bad or mediocre relationships to see if you have learned anything of value from them. For example:
- How have you grown and what have you learned from your father's girlfriend?
- What have you gained from becoming a step-sibling?
Once you have taken stock of relationships that may have a dividend, conclude this step by considering the ways in which your commitment phobia identified in step three may be a dividend in disguise. Ask yourself:
- How has it been adaptive or protective to delay commitment?
- How has it worked for you to remain single?
- What have you learned from your relationships thus far?
- Are you more emotionally mature than your parents were when they married?
By understanding that even something as traumatic as divorce can carry a dividend, you position yourself to use a positive lens moving forward.
Step Five – Forge Healthy Relationships:
Once you have completed steps one through four, you are ready to practice doing things differently with respect to dating. I use the term "practice" intentionally; approach step five as if you are training yourself in a new skill. If dating unsuitable partners is what you have done thus far, then this negative pattern is what will feel most comfortable. If being unavailable to your partners is what you are used to, you can expect the urge to continue to do so. We are all most comfortable with patterns that feel most familiar. As you learn to stop engaging in dysfunctional relationships and start forging healthy partnerships, you are likely to experience a good deal of anxiety and feel various forms of discomfort.
One way to deal with your discomfort is to approach dating as a laboratory in which you will practice and experiment with change. Remember when you first learned to drive a car? In the beginning, there was so much to think about – stepping on the gas pedal, hitting the brake, remembering to use your turn signals, putting the car in drive when your wish to go forward and reverse to go backward.
Driving took a great deal of conscious effort. Over time, however, you learn to think about and employ all of these necessary skills without having to put as much conscious effort into the process. Forging healthy relationships takes practice and hard work. As you practice doing so, you will need to coach yourself to be open to different kinds of people. Coach yourself to go slow when getting to know potential partners.
As I say to my clients, "shop the relationship supermarket!" This concept was introduced to me years ago when I was explaining the importance of step five to a psychotherapy client whom I'll call Mary. Mary was a self-described "serial monogamist" who had been in one long-term relationship after another and had never, ever been single. I encouraged Mary to give herself a chance to date and experience different kinds of people, rather than jumping into a new relationship as soon as her old relationship ended.
I explained the value of getting to know different types of people and determining what qualities are genuinely most important, and what qualities you might be willing to compromise on if enough other positive qualities are present. As I presented my "forge healthy relationships through dating" talk, Mary interrupted me with a laugh and a smile and replied: "Oh, Elisabeth, you make it all sound like there's one big relationship supermarket and everyone's walking around squeezing each other the way they would squeeze fruits and vegetables!"
While I would not recommend going around squeezing people as if they are fruits and vegetables, Mary was onto something. My experience working with many clients over the last fifteen years confirms that you will have more success with dating if you approach it similarly to the way you would approach a trip to the supermarket.
You will have more relationship success if you do not approach dating as an all-or-nothing experience in which another person's opinion, acceptance or rejection is excessively important and relevant to your self-worth. You will have more success with dating if you shop in the fruits and vegetables sections and stay out of the candy aisle. Be an informed, empowered shopper. Concentrate on your own preferences and avoid over-emphasizing the approval of others. Focus on what you like, what you don't like and what the healthiest choices are on the market.
Mary is just one of many adults with divorced parents who learned to shop the relationship supermarket, overcame the impact of her parents' divorce, and eventually built a happy and lasting relationship. Of course, it is never easy to overcome a life event as altering and encompassing as your parents' break-up, but with hard work and honest reflection, you can do it!


Merry Christmas to all our friends out there. Hope you enjoy the day with your families!
Merry Christmas!!!!!!! Hugs and Kisses.
The day’s about over here, but it was a good one. After akavit with dinner (Norwegians toast everything with akavit), I’m verrrrrrry sleepy!
Merry Christmas Everyone!
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Simple And Effective Ways To Appreciate Your Team
In the book The Five Love Languages, Gary Chapman shares his powerful approach to cultivating deeper relationships by learning how to effectively express love and appreciation. Based on years of research and work as a Marriage & Family therapist, Gary Chapman discovered the five love languages that people use to express and receive love and appreciation. In his book, you can identify your personal love language and learn how to express love and appreciation in a way that is effective and will have an impact to the people in your life.
For one person, their love language could be quality time together while another person might need words of affirmation to feel valued. When we identify this and share our love and appreciation for others in a way that aligns with their love language (i.e. a way that they understand and openly receive), we cultivate a greater connection and our relationships flourish.
“Alright! That’s interesting but how does my love language apply to dentistry and growing my dental practice?”
We thought this blog might get your attention! We’re getting there, we promise, stick with us.
Being seen, valued and appreciated isn’t important in our romantic relationships only but is important in all of our relationships, including those within your practice. Knowing how to effectively appreciate and communicate that appreciation your team can strengthen the culture of your practice, increases productivity, and encourage your team to go above and beyond.
Research shows that happy teams that feel appreciated and valued for their efforts are 12% more productive than those that feel unhappy, undervalued and unrecognized for their efforts.
When your team feels truly valued and appreciated, the entire dynamics of your practice can change. These shifts can create a powerful and positive ripple effect in the patient experience which helps nurture patient retention, increase referrals and build patient rapport.
We’ve got your attention now, right? We thought so!
So, how do you discover the “love language” of your team?
How can you effectively appreciate each team member in a way that leaves them feeling truly valued?
Below are four steps to get you started!
Read the Five Love Languages book by Gary Chapman so that you understand the approach and can begin to apply it in your practice.
Get to know your individual team members…and we mean really get to know them!
Ask them each how they specifically feel valued and appreciated (remember, it should fall under one of the five love languages).
Is it weekly shout outs that celebrate their wins in front of the team?
Is it offering continued education to expand their skill set and confidence?
Is it words of affirmation for a job well at the end of each day?
Get to know your collective team...and we mean really get to know them!
What does the team as a whole need to feel valued and appreciated?
Is it a monthly “Practice Hall of Fame” that celebrates and honors the monthly wins of each team member?
Is it providing the team with a healthy and fun lunch once a week to honor their hard work?
Is it creating a motivating bonus plan that is transparent and attainable?
Take the time to ask your team what feels exciting and motivating to them as a whole. Remember, the happier and more appreciated your team is…everybody wins.
Create a Practice Appreciation Plan for your practice and invite a team member(s) to serve as the co-captains of the Practice Appreciation Plan alongside you. Meet together every month to create and implement your Practice Appreciation Plan for the month ahead so that you and your team create the habit of practicing the art of appreciation consistently. Often times, when months get busy and your practice grows, this can be the first thing to fall off. Don’t let that happen to you and your team. Make these monthly meetings just as significant as any other meetings that you have.
As you practice these steps, you will start to see shifts in the level of positivity and productivity in your practice. Your attention and effort towards making your team feel valued and appreciated will go a long way, trust us.
What ways are you currently practicing appreciation in your practice? We’d love to know.
Head over to our Facebook page and share with us!
And in case we at NextLevel don’t express it enough… we appreciate YOU!!


Does Get a Girlfriend Fast Works?
Meeting a significant other can be a frustrating task when we’re trying to meet the right person. For men who don’t know how to speak to women or ask them out on a date there’s a product video that’s been created to help men learn how to do so and gain the women of their dreams. The great thing about this video is that it breaks down the basics of how to meet a woman – how to speak to her, get to know her and approach her in a way that isn’t very aggressive. For someone who went from not knowing how to speak to women to finding the woman of my dreams, I’d love to share this video because it gave me the confidence to approach someone that I was interested in.
He breaks "How To Get a Girlfriend Fast" down in the following way:
- Do women misconceive your intentions with them?
- Do you give women the wrong impression?
- Are you talking about yourself more than the woman?
- Is she aware that you’re interested in her?
- Do you have good manners around them?
There are so many things to take into consideration while trying to find a significant other and in knowing how to seduce women. What I learned from this video is that being yourself is the most important aspect of meeting the right person. We all tend to think that we should meet some sort of expectation or that we should try to impress someone to find a girlfriend. That is the farthest thing from what, us men, should be doing. This video stresses that the best woman for you is the one that accepts you for you. Who wants to try to impress the other person the whole time in a relationship? Doesn’t that contradict the idea of a relationship? A relationship is two people who like each other for WHO THEY ARE!
How is it that these tips actually help men attract women? It stresses a few concepts that are vital to finding someone that you’re happy with. The one thing that is repeated is that it’s important to be upfront with a woman on what you want with her and how you feel about her. Women can see through a man who only wants one thing by the end of the night. They aren’t going to see you as boyfriend material if you do not treat them like a lady. If you do not speak with a woman first but you already assume that you want to date them, it can be a little misleading.
Women know that a man is only worth dating if he has gotten to know her and likes her for more than what she looks like. Of course we all want somebody that we’re attracted to but If you don’t speak with them first to see if you like their personality then a woman can see that you only like them for one thing. That’s likely to push them away and not have any interest in dating you.
The video points out What Women Like in Men:
Personally, I enjoyed this video because women can be a little bit difficult to understand at times. This video can show you how to get a girlfriend because it helps you to understand what a girl is looking for in a man. A woman wants a man who is going to be upfront with her, honest about what he wants – that is the best way to get a girlfriend fast. A woman wants to be with someone who is going to make her feel special and is going to give her the feeling that she’s the most special person in the room.
Let’s be honest here, a woman will make us feel like a man and a good one if we give her the respect that she deserves. Every woman wants to be respected and if she’s not then she’s not going to want to continue the relationship with us. What type of woman are you looking for and are you searching for them in all of the right places? This video helped me out because It made me realize what type of woman I actually want in my life. It makes you ask the following questions:
I highly recommend that every man purchases "How To Get A Girlfriend Fast" by Carlos Xuma – even if you are already good with women. It points out the most common mistakes that men make when they are trying to find someone that they are compatible with. Going out to a bar and trying to find a woman there is a mistake in itself; the right woman for you will be found elsewhere. The nightlife is not always the best place to find someone unless you get lucky and find someone who isn’t there for all of the wrong reasons.
- Do you and her want the same things in life?
- Does she give you confidence when you speak to her?
- What do you cherish in a woman and does she possess that characteristic?
There’s a great deal of men who are looking for a relationship but don’t want to settle down. They want to have both and that’s definitely not the way that it works. If you’re ready for a relationship then you have to be able to separate yourself from the single life and going out all of the time. You should be able to balance everything out in your work life, with your friends and with your relationship.
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you got a look that makes me think you're cool
But it's just sexual attraction
Not somethin' real so I'd rather keep wackin'
it's gonna hurt me
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This happened to me twice before
It won't happen to me anymore
I've known a lot of girls before
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Maybe you could break my heart next summer
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The main profit to choosing a Ukrainian wife is they have an excellent sense of humor. These types of ladies are very intelligent and educated. They learn from their moms how to make their particular relationships more enjoyable. Ultimately, these types of women experience mastered the ability of finding a man that is specializing in supporting all of them in all aspects of your life. Whether they support your aspirations, helping together with the chores, or doing household responsibilities, they will assist you to achieve the things.
Choosing a Ukrainian wife is a wise decision for many reasons. They have high self-esteem and are good caregivers. These kinds of qualities make them a popular choice with men, and in addition they can make your daily life better. The most crucial thing to remember is that a Ukrainian better half is not going to fall for the same defects as different women do — they are going to end up being as committed to you because their husbands are!
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After a relationship closes, acknowledgment comes straightaway and there are individuals who need to reestablish their demolished relationship after some reflection. Would you like to revamp your wrecked relationship with your ex? Albeit some would concur that it is smarter to leave things as they are and continue on, there are individuals who accept that affection is lovelier the second time around and compromise win an ex isn’t unimaginable. Giving your relationship one more opportunity could likewise save you from “what uncertainties” since you realize you’ve allowed your relationship a fair opportunity and you can find a sense of contentment realizing that you’ve given your very best for rescue a messed up relationship.
In the event that you imagine that your messed up relationship merits another opportunity, the accompanying tips can be extremely useful to reconstruct your wrecked relationship with your ex.
Responsibility. The choice to revamp your wrecked relationship with your ex incorporates your responsibility. Getting back with an ex could be disappointing and awful and to have the option to go on with your objective, you must be resolved to win your ex back. Reestablishing a wrecked relationship needs a ton of work and responsibility. You ought to be ready to accomplish the work and pause. Obligation to get your ex back is not quite the same as following your ex and frantically showing up on your ex’s front entryway and ask your ex to hit you up. Responsibility is the will to remain on the course until you prevail in spite of the difficulties and dissatisfactions.
Cut the correspondence lines for a month. This might sound something contrary to what you need to occur, for example to draw near to your ex once more and win your ex back. To modify your messed up relationship, you both need time to reflect after the separation and you can’t do that assuming you continue to contact your ex. Your ex might feel disturbed assuming that you continue to show before your ex. Give yourself and your ex a break to ponder what occurred and consider your singular ways of behaving that came about to the separation. Cutting the method for correspondence for some time can be exceptionally useful on the off chance that you Visit this site Look at these escorts in Adelaide need a new beginning so be patient and give it some time.
View the relationship according to your ex’s point of view. After a separation there is no utilization in pointing fingers particularly if you have any desire to revamp your relationship with your ex. Here and there we are so consumed with our own sentiments that we neglect to understand that connections are made out of two individuals. It means a lot to get out of yourself to understand the situation completely and view things in your ex’s perspective.
Examine what turned out badly to your relationship. Glance back at your relationship to recognize the pain points. Perhaps your profession is getting a large portion of your time and this turned into an issue in your relationship. Perhaps you find it hard to adapt to your accomplice’s night life or public activity. Review the things that normally created issues in your relationship since, supposing that you need to reconstruct your wrecked relationship with your ex, you really want to pinpoint what turned out badly and see what can be done. Distinguish what you can acknowledge and live with and what you want to think twice about. In remaking a relationship, you want to fix first what turned out badly.
Apologize. Before you could modify your wrecked relationship with your ex, your true conciliatory sentiment may be fundamental in the event that you have harmed your accomplice. It is critical to recognize your deficiencies and truly apologize to your ex. It takes a ton of guts to concede your shortcomings and say sorry or ask pardoning however it shows your earnestness and eagerness to reestablish your wrecked relationship.
Ask proficient assistance. It tends to be difficult to revamp your messed up relationship with your ex assuming the harm is a lot for you to deal with however this doesn’t really intend that there is no expectation by any stretch of the imagination. To modify your relationship, feel free to proficient assistance. A specialist or a relationship guide can be extremely useful for you to figure things out and fix your harmed relationship.


Substance use disorder (SUD) is often called “a family disease”. What this means is that a person misusing substances, despite their intentions, often behaves in ways that adversely affect their friends, family, and other loved ones. It is important for the family members to acknowledge the very real effects someone’s substance misuse has had on their thinking, relations with others, occupation, and family dynamics. It is also important for families, especially children, to have an opportunity to address these negative effects in a healthy supportive environment. This is true even if the person suffering the substance misuse issue is receiving treatment.
The stigma surrounding SUD for both people with SUD and their loved ones can be isolating. Learning about resources to support yourselves and your loved ones with SUD is important to reduce stigma, gain knowledge of SUD, and heal.


How to Get Girls Naked on Omegle?
A lot of people use Omegle to flirt and even for sexual gratification. Sometimes men and women match randomly on Omegle, but they like each other and see no harm in showing each other their bodies. It gives one side sexual satisfaction and confidence in being attractive to other, so it’s a win-win. Here are a few tips to get girls naked on omegle:
1. Don’t be naked in the beginning.
Men and women have different ways of thinking and also, different motives in getting naked on Omegle. Girls want to be liked and to be found attractive, not just body but also their personality. So if you match a girl and the first thing she sees is your naked body; she’ll probably think that you are seeing her as just a body. It’s most likely that she’ll log off from conversation.
Try to wear clean clothes and look attractive instead. Pyjamas and sweatpants are not recommended because they usually give “I’m lazy” message to another side.
Also, facing directly to the camera is nerve-wracking for most girls mostly because it shows that you have some expectations. Instead, try to look somewhere else but don’t face entirely away from camera.
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2. Engage in Conversation
Even though the sexual intent might be there somewhere, most people go on Omegle to spend time with someone interesting. So be that someone. There are a lot of girls from different nations on Omegle so you can learn how to say “hello” in Chinese, Russian, French, etc. because that would be the great ice-breaker for a foreign girl.
Try to engage her in conversation, ask questions but nothing too personal. Keep it light, talk about her childhood, her favorite movies, and books, etc.
Flirting on Omegle is not much different than real life. Be playful; it’s a truth that girls like boys who make them laugh. Try telling her cheesy jokes or tell funny stories. Making impressions of celebrities and asking her to try some might also be a good idea.
Complimenting each other is also significant in flirting. Keep eye contact and tell her what did you like about her through the conversation. They don’t have to be all about her appearance; complimenting her choice in books, movies and music will work too.
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4. Always Smile
Smiling, in general, gives good vibes to the person you are having a conversation with. So try to smile slightly during conversation. Girls usually like to find someone they can laugh together. Laughing together with the jokes you made is always a good sign.
5. Don’t Be Forceful
It’s true that a lot of girls get naked on Omegle, but the girl you matched might not be one of them. Or, she might be one of them but you might not be the person she wants to see her. Consent is the key in all kinds of sexual interaction so if she doesn’t want to get naked or even flirt with you; don’t try to push her.
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Valentine's Day at Outpost Club
You never know where and when you'll meet your best friend, significant other, or your future spouse. Those moments when things just click are hard to come by.Mo matter your situation,, the red-hearted holiday might make even the most confident dater feel insecure. However, starting a simple conversation about the holiday, joking around with like-minded people, or picking a low-key gift for friends and family can take the stress out of the day and turn it into something you enjoy!
Approaching Valentine’s Day tough, because it is as much about your partner’s feelings as it is your own. You may discover you have wildly different ideas about how the day should be spent.
At Outpost Club, we've heard many of these types of stories as members pass through our halls. We've even heard some great stories about falling in love within our community! All our members spend a lot of time in around one another, so sometimes it's just bound to happen. We love when our members engage with one another, because new friends and relationships are always made.
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Meaningful, powerful sex, a lot of the time, is not about the act of sex itself, but rather our ability to establish emotional intimacy, trust and connection with our lover. Ellie shares her profound knowledge on the importance of the heart connection in feminine arousal and how to deepen intimacy with your beloved (you’ll absolutely LOVE the tools she shares in this episode).
Bravery, self love and healing is the theme of this podcast. Maria shares the deeply intimate and very real details of her road to recovery after the resurfacing of the suppressed memories of her sexually abusive childhood. She shares her top tips on self love, and embracing pleasure and sexual intimacy as a survivor of sex abuse.
Courtney Durr shares her amazing journey from leaving her regular PT position to becoming the founder of a self-love bootcamp WorthWild– throwing away the scales and adding self-compassion to a fun and community-focussed workout plan.


Social media can be used in promoting a business, staying connected with all your favorite bands or celebrities, and staying connected with friends from high school. It can be used as your own personal photo album. Teachers use it as a learning tool to engage their students, and it can also be used as a dating tool. One can have the option of meeting someone on Twitter, Facebook, Linkedin, or any other social media site .
Instead of the bouquet of roses and box of chocolates, some people are just as happy with sweet tweets, pokes, and electronic gifts. Psychology junior Daniella Bogorad canceled her dinner reservation for two for an online messaging date with a mystery man who is now her boyfriend. Her reason for turning to social media for her romantic relationships, may be a similar reason people go out to a club after a breakup.
“I had just gotten out of a two year relationship, and I was looking for some fun. I found fun. I found another long-term relationship which I wasn’t expecting and neither was he, but it’s something I wouldn’t change.”
- Daniella Bogorad
Bogorad says the butterflies in her stomach are still there it’s just now they’re from online messages or tweets. She says, the initial mystery is still there when getting to know someone on a social media site, it just comes with less pressure.
“Definitely less pressure because you’re already kind of telling them what you’re about what you want instead of meeting someone at a party and not knowing. When you’re already on the site you know what people want.”
- Daniella Bogorad
Some people see that meeting on a social media site is not normal, but Bogorad is proud to share her social media love story. She found her perfect match whom she can connect with on all levels.
“It’s a story we like to tell, that we’re proud of. It’s different, but we like it we like telling people how we met. He gave me a jewelry box for our 6th month anniversary, and he engraved it with ‘who knew destiny was only one click away,’ and so I thought it was really cute.”
- Daniella Bogorad
Social media can be used as a tool in seeking a potential mate like it has for Bogorad, or it can be used to strengthen a relationship. Mass Comm and Psychology junior, Eric Munoz, uses social media by posting love statuses, flirty tweets, and photos with his girlfriend on Instagram.
“As my relationship stands now it’s hard to see her alot so I like to portray how I feel and how I miss her through Facebook, Twitter, Instagram just any ways I can say hey I’m thinking about her.”
Social media can have such a grip on what we post, tag, follow, and befriend. Munoz doesn’t feel the pressure to update every status, but does it because he likes to share to everyone he is connected with how much his girlfriend means to him.
“I like to tell people what I’m thinking a lot and about 90% of the time I’m thinking about her. It’s all good things so it’s no pressure at all.”
Some people may argue that relationships should be kept separate from social media sites because they’re way too personal. They may also argue that social media causes unnecessary drama within a relationship due to the photos, friends getting too friendly, ex’s befriending, or comments; whatever the issue is. On the other hand, some believe that social media can help a relationship if you go about it in the correct manner. Munoz shares how it can do both, helping and damaging a relationship.
“I wouldn’t say I got around, but I have a lot of female friends. I met her and I kind of changed a lot of things and a lot of my female friends didn’t like that. I’m lucky to be with someone who is very caring, very understanding so she kind of gets it. She does blow her top every once in awhile when a random girl is like ‘Hey, I miss you boo,’ but other than that we’re okay… we’re alright.”
For the people that still think meeting someone on a social media site is strange, and believe that it’s impossible to have a serious relationship with someone just by sending messages… well, Munoz may change your opinion.
“I think it’s great, I think it’s the best way to go. I like the fact that you can jump on, have a conversation with somebody, be yourself without hiding who you are in the pictures or what not, but be yourself openly to somebody and that breaks a social tension. Most people feel rejected if someone is like ‘No, I really don’t want to talk to this person,’ or ‘Hey, how about a drink’ and their like ‘No thank you.’ On social media you just send a comment ‘Hey, great picture. You look great in this,’ and start a conversation and something snowballs from there.”
Andrea Rodriguez, KTSW News.


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Dun mistake me for the flirt girl XD
It is just tat he got into a oral fight wif my gd frens
and haiz, dunno why he SEEMS to hate me.
I rebond hair, he say ugly cos my hairstyle is like my gd frens that he liked.(He confess but got rejected :X)
Foget about him bah


Marriage, an important bond that forms the most basic unit of a society, has long been a research interest to economists. Unlike the romanticized version in arts, economists have quite a ‘cold’ tone in explaining the motivation and behavior of married couples. Existing literature looks at marriage as a ‘deal’ where both parties seek to engage in to maximize their utilities by contributing their available resources (Becker, 1973). This is the process of complementing each other to form a beneficial union. Emotional satisfaction is no doubt a part of the marital benefit a couple seeks to fulfill when entering a marriage. Emotional attachment between partners sure sets a foundation for a lasting co-living experience but it is not the only factor that drives marriage. In ‘A Theory of Marriage’, Becker discussed the economics gains as part of the equation when it comes to marital output. However, there is limitation to his theory as traditionally, men were the breadwinners and women took care of children and house works. While more recent researches aimed to update or complement Becker’s theory on marriage given the structural change in labor market, the classic economics view on marriage remains relevant.
Change in labor market is mainly driven by increase in educated women and technology advancement that liberates women from household duties (Chiappori, 2009). As women are now taking more share in labor market, they have become the second breadwinner in the family. They can be even better off without marriage if her potential mates are proven not worthy of her contribution. Besides, as men also aim to marry higher educated women as much as women do to men (Chiappori, 2009) and both men and women are less likely to marry those who are significantly less educated than them, higher educated women should become more desirable. This is partially supported by data from census surveys which shows most couples have equal education. In couples where there is education disparity, the most common gap is 1 level of education. Ideally, women should have more ‘power’ in selecting partner than before, meaning they should feel less pressure in aiming for equal or higher educated partners given they have improved their stand in society. However, data does not support this. Figure 1 shows the number of couples where women are more educated than men has increased from 14% in 1998 to 21% in 2020, in line with the increase of college educated women.
Despite the rise, this kind of marriage did not bring higher family income than marriages where men are more educated than women (Figure 2). Couples where men are more educated than women maintain their distance from the others throughout 23 years.
The above argument is based on the assumption that there are enough men for women to choose from. Unfortunately, that is not the case. Generally, there are less men than women and there are more women than men in all education levels. The scarcity of ‘quality’ men impairs women’s freedom to choose her compatible partner. This no doubt decreases the economic gains compared to the scenario where that same woman married equal or more educated partner. That comparison is a bit unrealistic if the woman is doctorate educated. There is no higher level than doctorate to do a fair comparison. A similar marriage in terms of education combination could do a better job in showing how marrying less educated men associated to the change in economic gains. Ideally, couples with same education combination of both men and women should have similar family income conditional on industry and occupation. However, the arguable presence of gender inequality in salary could play a role in driving down the family income of couples with women being more educated than men. Despite that, it still shows how much less benefit women enjoy from marrying down compared to the old-schooled marrying up.
With that, the two questions that this post aims to answer are set to quantify the impact of men availability to marrying less educated men (‘OLS A’) and how much lower family income of couples where women are more educated than men compared to the other (‘OLS B’).
Main data: Micro data about labor and housing from 1998 to 2020 (ASEC) is the main data used for this project. ASEC included demographics and income information for each person in surveyed households. This gives convenience to gather data about each person’s spouse. ASEC comes with three different record types: household, family and person. These datasets can be linked together using unique ID. The ‘person’ data includes more than 4 million data entries across 23 years. All states and around 300 counties are included in the survey each year. On average, there are more than 181 thousand data entries each year and 20% of this are married women.
Supplement data from census.gov: “Table DP02” — population by selected characteristics (age, race, education) are used to work out the men/women ratio for each county from 2010 to 2019. “Table S2403” — population by industry of 2019 are used to work out the dominant industry for each county. The dominant industry is defined as the industry which holds the largest percentage of population. This data covers 13 main industries in 836 counties. However, on average, only 266 counties in ASEC are included in “Table S2403” which further decreased the sample size for the analysis. Data of 2019 is used for the ten-year period 2010–2019 as the key industry is not easily shift in short time periods.
OLS A: Men availability and education gap in marriage
OLS model was used to measure how men availability is associated to the probability of marrying a lower educated men, with the county’s major industry is set as instrument variable.
OLS B: Family income gap in unequal educated couples
Higher: this binary variable indicates wives with higher educational attainment than their husbands. This variable is constructed by comparing wife’s education and husband’s education. Value of 1 indicates education disparity in favor of wives. Educational attainment in the data is coded as numeric in range from 31 to 46 with each higher level is increment by 1 from previous level. For this analysis, educational attainment is recoded to four big groups: high school (0 to 39), college (40 to 43), master and professional degree (44 and 45), and doctorate (46). As the original census codes are very closed to each other, each increment in school grade is not meaningful in reflecting the distinction between education levels. Regrouping them into broader groups helps discriminating educational attainment and would prevent the model from being too closed to data and hence, the results that it produced would be more representative for the population. These two variables are control variables in OLS B as education levels are correlated with earning.
Age: Wives’ ages. The age range in data is from 0 to 85, with ‘80’ refer to 80–84 years of age and ‘85’ refers to 85+ years of age. This way of grouping is to ensure confidentiality of survey participants and does not impact the regression result as these groups of age are minority in the data.
Major industry: Major industry is the major industries of counties where the sampled couples reside. Each county’s major industry is the industry which has the highest proportion of population in it. Major industry is set as instrument variable in OLS A as it can determine the gender and education of its labor force which subsequently impact the availability in each county. It is very unlikely that Major industry can directly drive women getting married to lower educated men. This makes it a suitable instrument variable for OLS A.
Year: years of the surveys. As the proportion of higher educated women increased over the years, year is added as control variable to separate its correlation with this proportion from the regression result.
Family income: family income for the surveyed year.
Education combo: the set of education of each couple in the survey. With 4 levels of education, which are high school, college, master and doctorate, we have 6 unique sets of education. These are high school and college, high school and master, high school and doctorate, college and master, college and doctorate, master and doctorate.
Industry and Occupation: the industries and occupation of both men & women in the survey. Certain industries and occupations have higher income than the others. Hence, industry and occupation are included as control variables in OLS B to eliminate the correlation between them and family income.
OLS A: impact of availability to probability of higher educated wives
Stage 1 regression: F-statistics of regressing men availability on the instrument variable — major industry of county — is 334 which is much higher than 10. This score met the condition for relevance assumption for instrument variable.
Stage 2 regression: Availability has significant negative impact on the probability of women get married to lower educated men. Specifically, in counties where there are more men available, the chance of women topping their husbands’ education decreases more than 27%. Younger women are more likely to be higher educated than their partners compared to older women. Since the data is time series, this could be interpreted as indication for the upward trend in women get married to less educated men.
OLS B: family income gap in unequal educated couples
The regression result shows a decrease of 6K in family income (equivalent to 6.6% of the average family income of $95K) of couples where men are less educated than women; holding education combo, industry, occupation number of children and year of survey constant.
By breaking down this result by education combo, the pattern in family income difference in unequal educated couples became clearer. In Figure 11 below, the Low-High marriage is the marriage where women are less educated than men and the High-Low marriage refers to couples where women are more educated than men. In terms of family income, the master-doctorate combo is the ideal combination but apparently, is hard to acquire as the market can’t provide abundance of doctorate. This can be shown in the sample size chart where the coverage of this combination is very small. In contrary, the less ideal combos, high school-college and college-master, take the majority of the samples. Hence, even though the difference in family income between marriage types in these two combos are not very large, it is much more pervasive in the samples than other combos.
Aside from this, only when women are doctorate educated, her marriage with less educated men results in higher family income compared to couples with similar education combination but having men being more educated than women. Even though this project does not have the ambition to discuss gender inequality, if we assume that gender pay gap plays a role then it should have pervasive impact across education levels. As matter of fact, women earn less than men even when they have the same education and they also contribute to family income less than men as shown in Figure 12.
Then, a possible explanation for family income difference when doctorate education involved is doctorate educated women contribute more to family income than less educated women do, which is also supported by data as in Figure 13. Doctorate educated women contribute roughly 40% to family income, 4% higher than all other education levels.
The increasing trend of marrying less educated men is clearly observed from ASEC data, together with the increasing education level of women through the passage of time. The proportion of high school educated women has been going down from 50% in 1998 to just above 30% in 2020. In contrary, the proportion of women in other higher education levels has been gradually rising since 1999.
However, this correlation does not necessarily indicate that higher educated women prefer less educated partner nor supported by current literature on marriage theory. Regression results showed the dependence of marrying lower educated partner on the availability. This availability is partially driven by the characteristics of the labor market as certain industries typically attract more or less men. In addition, the knowledge required to work in these industries could also have influence on the degree of the participants.
Despite being on increasing trend, the family income of these marriages is actually 6.6% less than that of other marriages. This is not economically significant, however, it still showed interesting pattern of income discrepancies between men and women.
The above results align with existing literature on marriage market where individuals seek compatible partners to increase their well-being. Education remains important in signaling one’s competence as it is strongly associated with income. Once the market is not in deficit of higher educated men, women are more likely to turn to men who are equal or higher educated. This kind of marriage is likely to bring more economic benefit than marrying less educated men, especially when women still earn less than men on average.
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Chiappori, P.-A., Iyigun, M., & Weiss, Y. (2009). Investment in Schooling and the Marriage Market. The American Economic Review, 99(5), 1689–1713.
Fry, R., & Cohn, D. (2010, January 19). Women, Men and the New Economics of Marriage. Pew Research Center’s Social & Demographic Trends Project. https://www.pewsocialtrends.org/2010/01/19/women-men-and-the-new-economics-of-marriage/
Torr, B. M. (2011). The Changing Relationship between Education and Marriage in the United States, 1940–2000. Journal of Family History, 36(4), 483–503.


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In Indian (Vedic) astrology, your zodiac sign determines your karmic path and the challenges you will face during your incarnation in this life. Here is a simple break down of how your zodiac sign can reveal your karma based on past life experiences. (Via)
ARIES Your challenge may be to put someone else first for a change as you are a fire sign who is very ambitious. Your challenges often have to do with your reputation. Problems with money can arise because of your impulsiveness. TAURUS You are a stubborn individual and it may be your challenge to admit for once that you are wrong. Loneliness is often a problem for this sign.
GEMINI You tend to escape reality and, as talented as you are, you may be presented with situations in this life that force you to be more grounded. Health problems could present themselves. Love triangles are common and fidelity could be another challenge for you.
CANCER You are very inward looking and shy. Your challenge may be to overcome depression or a “woe is me” attitude. Mental health and relationship problems are common.
LEO You are a very arrogant and ambitious individual and you may be presented with challenges in this life that force you to be a little less selfish and shallow. Financial problems are common with Lion type karma.
VIRGO You are a very controlling individual who finds it difficult to let go. You may be presented with situations in this life that compel you to be less rigid. You may often be dealing with situations where you are not credited for your work or you feel unloved.
LIBRA You are indecisive and you may be forced to make some tough decisions that are out of the ordinary to remedy your karma from other lives. You will learn not to blame others for your problem. The issue is to determine whether you are a martyr or a victim.
SCORPIO You can be obsessive and too concerned with sex. Your challenge may be to rise beyond the compulsive nature of your desires. You may also be tempted to dabble in the occult.
SAGITTARIUS You can be wayward and concerned only about your own agenda. Issues of commitment could be challenging in this life if you are born under this zodiac sign.
CAPRICORN You love money and acquiring possessions. One of your challenges may be realizing that money is not everything in this life. You might also be presented with issues that show you that “everything” does not have to be perfect for you to be loved.
AQUARIUS You love to be free and to while away the hours in your own mind. Unfortunately, this leads to procrastination. You may face challenges that are the consequences of not being mindful or paying attention to what is important in life.
PISCES The Pisces zodiac sign is always looking for the other in their life time. The challenge might be how to learn how to be alone or you might face issues of coherency and addiction.


Cartilage Tissue Engineering Calculator
This study was mainly based on an alginate gel of concentration of 1.2% alginate (Guo et al. 1989). Mehmetoglu measured oxygen diffusivity in alginate gels and found when alginate concentration was from 1-3%, oxygen diffusion coefficient varied between 9.1 and 9.3 mm2/hr and was almost independent of alginate concentration (Mehmetoglu et al. 1996). This value is about 0.84 of that in aqueous solution and was used here. We also assumed that diffusion coefficients of glucose and lactate in alginate gel have the same ratio to those in aqueous solution (diffusion coefficients of oxygen, glucose and lactic acid in water are 10.8, 3.3 and 5.0 mm2/hr) (Haselgrove et al. 1993; Malda et al. 2004a; Selard et al. 2003; Sengers et al. 2005). Thus Dglu=2.8 mm2/hr and Dla=4.2 mm2/hr. In this study, we have also considered the effect of change in diffusivities.
2. Metabolic rates
Data on metabolism kinetics were from our study and followed the Michaelis-Menten kinetics, ie.
where g is the consumption/production rate (nmol/106 cells/hr), Vmax the maximum consumption/production rate (nmol/106 cells/hr), Km the Michaelis-Menten constant, and C the concentration of substrate.
Parameters for lactate production are:
(nmol/million cells/hr); Km(la)=0.198 (mM)
where std means standard culture condition (5.56 mM glucose, 380 mOsm, pH 7.4, 21% Oxygen)
Parameters for glucose consumption are:
(nmol/million cells/hr); Km(glu)= Km(la);
Parameters for oxygen consumption are:
(nmol/million cells/hr); Km(ox)=2.33 (% oxygen).
la, glu and ox stand for lactate, glucose and oxygen respectively.
The following interactions between metabolism rate and extracellular nutrient-metabolite environment exist:
The relationship between lactate production and oxygen tension was not fitted to continuous function; when oxygen tension was above 5%, lactate production rate was treated as constant:
(Cox ³ 5%)
When oxygen tension was below 5%, lactate production rate was assumed to be linear to oxygen tension and thus:
For normal DMEM (Invitrogen 22320-022), the relationship between pH and lactic acid was
The relationship between metabolism and osmolarity was neglected since the effect of osmolarity was found to be insignificant.
It should be emphasized that the inclusion of these inter-dependent relationships introduces non-linearities into the numerical models.


Day 4 of the meditation challenge. “As I love and honor myself my relationships blossom” Today is about discovering a way to honor yourself and show appreciation for yourself. What activities make you feel alive and balanced that you will do for you today? This week? Perhaps you’ll cook one of my low cal lunches, or maybe you’ll show up to that dance class you’ve been wanting to go to. What ever it may be, harvest love and you’ll have an abundance for sharing.
Our willingness to take care of our selves is deeply connected to our ability to receive love from anybody else. Take care of your self. Tend to your mind, Your body and your spirit each day. That is what will put you on the path to true love with the most important person in your life: YOU! Honor yourself and your relationships will blossom beyond your imagination. Every relationship is shaped by the dynamic flow of giving and receiving. We breath in to receive life giving oxygen and as we exhale we nourish the plants and trees with carbon dioxide we share out love creativity and joy and we experience the expansion of those same qualities in our lives. At the deepest level giving and receiving are different aspects of the same flow of energy in the universe. Yet many of us were brought to believe that it is better to give than to receive, that it is important to take care of other peoples needs before our own. If you have taken that belief to heart you may find yourself giving until you are physically exhausted, financially depleted or emotionally drained with little left to give. In reality truly loving relationships depend on the ability to nurture yourself to love yourself and to practice self care, you can only give what you have and your relationship will always mirror how you feel about yourself. Are you treating yourself as the precious lovable soul that you are? Infinitely worthy, infinitely deserving. In the words of the Budahh: You can search the entire universe and not find a single being more worthy of love than you. If you have not been making your own wellbeing and care a priority in you life do not use this realization to criticize or condemn yourself we are always doing the best we can given our current level of awareness as our awareness expands we open to new possibilities and ways of being. Right now at this very moment you have the opportunity to begin giving yourself more love, appreciation and attention. It is never too late. Your true self is pure love and pure spirit.Todays Centering Thought.As I love and honor myself, my relationships blossom.Our Sanskrit mantra:Om Vardhanam NamahI nourish the universe and the universe nourishes me.


I love dating, and the first dates are always the best! The excitement of not knowing what to expect, the thrill of going somewhere new, the enjoyment of choosing which outfit to wear... There are so many fun things to prepare for on a first date.
Here are a couple of things to definitely do on a first date!
Wear your most favorite outfit. Who knows when you will get to wear it again, so out it on proudly and enjoy being as beautiful as can be! Putting on your best make-up and doing your hair in the cutest way will only help the image! Not only are you dressing up for your date, but you are dressing up for yourself! Dressing sexy and strutting your stuff on a date makes you feel great about yourself, and will allow your self confidence to radiate from you!
Don't be afraid of a little action. Who says you can't kiss on the first date? It is not to seal the deal, if kissing comes up, and you feel ready, go for it! Kissing is simply a part of dating and relationships, so if you really like your date, and he is coming in for the big first kiss, go for it! You might be glad you did!
An important thing to remember is to be yourself.
The date is happening because they think they like you for you, so give them what they want! Don't be afraid to talk a bit about yourself, your past, your likes and dislike, and things like that. This way if the dating progresses, you already have the ground work for great conversation! Try to leave out juicy details of past lovers, and stick to things that your current date will want to hear!
Be interested in your date, but don't fake it of course. If you really don't like the guy you are on will date with, then don't pretend to be interested. Well, you may want to pretend for the duration of the date, just to be nice, but if you don't plan on date number 2, then don't seem too excited about it, or you will just lead the poor guy on! Make sure to tell him that night, or the next day that you are not interested in a second date, or he might wait for you and wonder whats gone wrong. Letting him down earlier rather than later id your best bet.
Have fun on your first date, and don't get to serious too fast. There are many first dates out there to be had, so enjoy dating, and when you do find someone you are comfortable and happy with for a long time to come, you'll know! Good luck!


I had booked a boat tour through the canals of Bangkok so I went to the meeting point at my former hostel that morning. When I arrived there, I was told that it's just me and another girl, who are going on this tour. Fine. I saw her sitting inside and sat down next to her. She seemed so tough and serious.
That day we went on that trip together. It was raining and kind of strange bc it was just the two of us with our guide.
The circumstances were horrible, but we made the best out of it.
She was fun so we decided to have lunch together. Afterwards we strayed through the streets of Bangkok. We shared our stories, got to know each other completely in a couple of hours and both found a little piece of safety and peace in each other. I don't know what it was about that girl but I adored her. I still do. So self confident and insecure, so beautiful but broken, so loud but also calm.
We may not have known each other for a long time, but we talked like old friends.
After I had left Bangkok, she came to visit me in Chiang Mai again.
A few weeks later we did our final trip together. We met in Hanoi, Vietnam, travelled to Cat Ba Island and Ninh Binh together, where I had a few of the best days of my whole trip. Sara is such an inspiring, unique person.
I remember her sitting right in front of me laughing about my pictures on social media. She tells you to shut the fuck up when she wants to be by herself and hell yeah, I appreciate this kind of people. Honest, not easy, but loyal. I got to know a lot of People during my travels but this girl was a masterpiece of personality.
Thank you Sara for the great time we spent together in Asia. I pray to god we meet up again at some point somewhere, somehow. Love you


This is my first time post something personal. This is way too personal. I just want to share my opinion and what's in my mind only. Thanks to Izzra for introduced me to this song while I'm "lost". Truly that, this, open my mind on why things happened for a reason, as I digging down to find the cause and effect of my personal issue.
While I listened to this song, I found the most commemorative comment in Song Meanings about Kanye's Say You Will song. I admit that this is the most depressing song ever by Kanye after Welcome To The Heartbreak from 808's And Heartbreak album. I think the prefect time to listen it while you soaking yourself in the bathtub and thinking why things happened.
I think it's about a still desire of someone but never be able to have them completely the way you want. He wants the girl to say yes, to agree but he also wants her to mean it. But the guy knows that if the girl does say yes, it will only be a false promise. Cause he's been thru that with the girl before. And now he's torn between being with the girl for now and never truly getting what he wants- a life long commitment or say goodbye for good and still miss her and fantasize about her - Kanam, January 18, 2009.


This is a 7-wk inside/out exploration for women into why you create what you create in partnerships, and how to create something better.
I want you to have the best partnership possible for you in this lifetime! And, what I know to be true is that each relationship is a mirror to our deeper self. It is never about the other person, it is always about the “I.” We draw in the perfect partner at the perfect moment to reflect back to us all that we are ready to see, heal and transform… if we say yes to it. When we are brave enough to do the inner work (whether single or partnered up), all our relationships will shift to reflect our brighter, cleaner inner landscape.
Do you find yourself thinking/feeling/saying one of the following:
- I love my partner, but our relationship is so frustrating!
- My partner and I have the same arguments over and over…
- I keep calling in the same kind of unfulfilling relationship.
- Why do I keep attracting unavailable partners?!
- I had no idea how hard marriage would be….
If you said yes to any of these, click here for the full details…


Wednesday, October 8, 2008
22 Years Later
Thanks to the amazing internet, tonight I had dinner with my cousin Brian who I had not been in touch with since 1987! Less than 1 week after we reconnected he had a spontaneous business trip to LA and we got to meet in person! It's nice to have family.


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The BELONGING project is a journey I’m taking with the community of Nevada County. Every week I ask a question on Facebook that explores how we find a sense of belonging. Here is the question I asked most recently.
How do the friendships you had growing up shape your sense of belonging now?
Growing up I felt an incredible pain from feeling like I didn’t belong in my own home while I dreamed of belonging where I wasn’t wanted, with my dad. My dad and I shared the same looks and big personality, I felt comfortable with him because we were alike. As a child my friendships often reflected these same family dynamics, feeling like an outcast in friendships that I perceived I didn’t belong in because I wasn’t enough. Further making me feel incredibly insecure about if I would ever belonging with anyone, anywhere. I think that is why I cried so much on my wedding day, someone wanted me to “belong” with them. To this day I rarely feel like I fit in with most people so I cherish the relationships where I do feel a sense of belonging. After many years of rejection from the art world, I have come to realize that none of it is personal and that I belong to myself first and foremost.
So, how do the friendships you had growing up shape your sense of belonging now?


By: Chamalee KP
Relationships often face challenges. These challenges can bring about feelings of stress and anxiety. In 2015 professional counseling noted that Stress, whether from inside or outside your relationship, is likely to affect the way you think, feel and behave. This invariably impacts on your partner and your relationship.
Are there steps we can take to protect the happiness of our relationship during times of stress?
- Recognize symptoms of stress.
According to John And Grohol (2015) Relationships exposed to high stress for a long amount of time are bound to falter, no matter how well each individual’s relationship skills. During such times, we are more likely to see the relationship as being negative. Therefore without being negative about your relationship try to find what are symptoms that affect your relation to become negative? What kind of stress that you and your partner have?
As an example one or both partners are have Work-related problems, never-ending criticism, Feeling unheard, Disagreements over chores, financial difficulties, drug addicted, family problems, suspiciousness etc.
- Close to your partner.
If you see signs of stress Talk to your partner about what is stressing you out. Don’t be uncertain to ask such things. Ask your partner what’s going on in a kind and concerned way. If you really love him or her they will understand that you are trying to help them to sort things out.
- Listen and acknowledge concerns
If something goes wrong it is easy to put the blame to he/she, rather than making a confrontation we need to acknowledge their concerns with a good heart. We always need someone to listen our concerns when we struggle with a problem. So be a good listener. Tell him/her what you agree with and add your own thoughts to the conversation. So this will help to minimize the stress load and avoid the temptation.
- Be true to you and Take a Time Out.
Both partners can take a break from your partner. It doesn’t have to be a long break. Just take some time to spend with friends or family or any other activity which makes you happy. Talk to them about your problems and see what their suggestions are.
- Don’t make it harder for your self
Both partners can become stress out. This will just make it hard to get trough. When things get puzzling; don’t become stubborn, angry, and teary. This can also lead to a break out. In case we can involve a third party like relationship coach, true friends and family and get the ideas & suggestion. In addition we should be enthusiastic to do whatever it takes to build up those special bonds of love and unity.


Motivate Your Partner to Be More Active!
Another fantastic post on Barb’s blog ‘Healthy Peas, Happy Pod’ on the topic of how to motivate your partner to be more active.
Some suggestions include;
To find out more great ideas on how to encourage your partner to get moving please check out the post here: http://barbara-prudhomme.healthcoach.integrativenutrition.com/blog/2013/06/motivate-your-partner-to-be-more-active
Have a great long weekend and Happy Canada Day!!