At Jurand Abogados you will find a great team of professionals and divorce lawyers.
We have extensive experience in satisfactorily solving all types of cases related to family law, and especially with separations and divorces.
How can we help?
Our divorce lawyers will always look out for the particular interests of each client, trying to promote conciliatory formulas as the first means of resolution. Since in this way we shorten the duration of divorces and the waiting time in general in any type of procedure.
In the event that the dialogue is not enough, our divorce lawyers focus on defending the client before the Courts, with great professionalism and rigor.
Among other things, our divorce lawyers offer you the following services:
- Resolution of contentious divorces. li >
- Express divorces.
- Preparation of regulatory agreement.
- Adoptions and foster care.
- Domestic couples.
- Guardianship and custody, Patria Potestad.
- Alimony and compensatory pension.
- Modifications of the sentencing measures.
- Inheritances and Legitimate.
- Use of common housing.
- Acknowledgment of Affiliation.
Types of divorces that exist
We can distinguish between three types of divorces:
Divorce by mutual agreement
In a divorce by mutual agreement the spouses and the lawyer of both make a mutual agreement Agreement by which the former spouses will be governed from that moment on. To opt for this type of divorce cheaper and faster, three months must have passed since the marriage.
Contentious divorce is usually a longer and expensive process , since each member of the marriage tries to fight for their own interests without the consent of the other party , with the representation of a lawyer by each party.
In addition, it is elaborated A lawsuit for divorce.
When the oral trial is over, the judge issues a decree of divorce.
Very similar to an uncontested divorce. Dissolution of the marriage is carried out quickly and easily. The spouses only need to agree on the decision to end their marriage.
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Documentation needed in a divorce
The necessary documentation will be different in an uncontested divorce and a contentious divorce. In any case, our team of divorce and separation lawyers are in charge of compiling it, or advising you on how to do it.
For contentious divorces:
- Marriage certificate. li>
- Birth certificate of the children, if any.
- The last registration certificate.
- The signed divorce agreement.
- If there is The deeds of marriage agreements must be submitted.
- The income statement pertaining to the last two years.
- The receipts of the different expenses of the children and the receipts of the consumption of the house
Necessary documentation in divorces by mutual agreement:
- Marriage certificate. li >
- Minors’ birth certificate.
- Last registration certificate.
- Regulatory divorce agreement signed.
- Deeds of marriage agreements. li>
How much are the fees of a divorce attorney?
The fees may vary considerably if you opt for a divorce by mutual agreement or a contentious one. Since in divorces by mutual agreement, the price of the expert divorce lawyer can be shared between the couple.
Contact us without obligation to inform you about the fees of our Granada divorce lawyers.
Differences between separations and divorces
The marriage is only dissolved by divorce or marriage annulment. That is why we speak of separation when the spouses are still married but their cohabitation or relationship ceases. While in divorce the marriage relationship is completely broken, being able to remarry if they wish.
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Tonto Dikeh has taken to OG to throw her ex, one Mico a happy birthday, saying he is the best ex, any girl can ask for. Wishing him all the best, the actress and mom of one wrote;
”HAPPY BELATED BIRTHDAY TO THE BEST EX ANY GIRL CAN HAVE.
Love you then love you even more now!!
My Craze i wish you all that you wish your self and Gods love..
God bless you for us Short man.. Lots of love and kisses Mico”


Just How Long Have We Been Dating?
This might be question that many people think of and is sold with various answers. You can easily take into account the time you have been in a relationship and measure progress made. Enough time aspect in a relationship matters because of understanding way taken because of the union. There’s absolutely no true point of engaging in a relationship that doesn’t cause somewhere better. (mais…)


By no means would I call myself the online dating queen. But I wouldn’t be opposed if someone started calling me that. Just saying.
Over the past few months, I’ve tested out about five dating apps. (Three of which I quickly deleted because they sucked.) The only ones I’ve gotten dates from are Tinder and Bumble. I haven’t gotten any new dates from Tinder recently, but I have gotten one from Bumble since my last post about it.
Although I’ve only gone out with three guys from dating apps, I’ve talked to more than that. And one of my biggest worries when starting a conversation was thinking of a first date idea. Heck, coming up with a first date idea for a guy you already know is hard enough. Now I have to do it for a guy I’ve never even meet in real life?
So today I’m supplying you with ten date ideas to save you from wasting all your brain power on thinking of what to do and can instead be used to figure out what you’re going to wear. Because we all know that’s a whole problem of its own.


Already the female struggle to express your own wants rather than simply being polite? At 18 months, really? It appears that we may have over-trained the politeness. When Em starts to kind of whine for something, we say, "Use your words!" She immediately smiles sweetly and both says and signs please. Her pronunciation sounds mostly like "beese." We say please what? What do you want? And she goes through the same angelic smile and double please. And this goes on for a while. I know, some of you are thinking, "Did it ever cross your mind that she might actually want BEES?" Well, yes, but she can't have 'em anyway, so if that's what she's saying, it's easier to just misunderstand.
She also goes ahead and says "tenkyoo" when she reaches for something that she hopes you'll give her. Very optimistic.


im not sure why tonight feels especially sorrow and sad.
how I wish I could share this feeling with someone. for the fact I don’t trust anyone and it’s really hard to gain a trust from someone.
I have to say I do miss her. shes has really made a big impacted in my life. she turned me into a demon once I found she had done smth wrong against me.
the fact she hide the truth from me and caused me to lost the basic trust I have for her. I can’t find the reason how should I forgive her. even I do forgive, I can’t forget such thing have happened before. ezann called me a mcp/msp. and she said obviously I am. that affected me quite a lot.
nevertheless, looking the past photos we took together. I realised shes a pretty lady. indeed I have fallen deep for her. i feel really sorry towards myself. I realised compared to v and r, I am crazily in love with r. shes a addictive lover 🙂
im not sure why I told her that I gave half the effort to love her. but actually I given my everything to her. my time my effort my love. man. im getting emotional here.
seeing the Taiwan photo stored in my phone was like sugar rush. all those love I used to have for her. all those dinner we went together. little excursion that we enjoyed. sigh. indeed. she really do love me and gave me more that her relationship. but I didnt appreciate it or see this till I broke up with her and review r and I photo one by one.
failure in twice relationship made me feel a little lost of faith in love. first one was v, because she left Canada our relationship got bland and slowly we drifted apart.
next was r, I ddidnt dare to show the world I have her as girlfriend. and im scared of this and that. but deep inside I have love her like madly.
im not sure how am I gonna love the next one. im not sure how am I gonna behave towards her. what kind of her im looking for her. is It what will come it will come.
and of course I always forget the other side of my coin. what have to go it must go.
I really wish both of them will be well and strong ; (


The other Sunday I met with Jhenifer and David in their Kits home with their lovely 8 month old, Linna. The moment I met her, she was all smiles and it truly warmed my heart ~ she was such a sweetheart and rocked it out for a whole two hours (with a snack break in between). Needless to say, I was very impressed with her good-natured demeanor and ability to entertain my camera ~ a true natural.
Jhenifer and David were equally lovely and very warm and welcoming of me into their home. It’s always such a pleasure to watch parents interact with their kids, especially when the goofiness starts coming out. And when the kids laugh, well, it makes us get even sillier. The things we do for our kids.
Thank you to Jhenifer and David for having me in your home and to Linna for all the smiles.


Tips to infuse more meaningful love into daily caregiving
The classic saying “Love heals all” may seem like a romantic notion, but there is scientific evidence that giving and experiencing love is vital to a healthy body, soul and mind. Love not only decreases anxiety, depression and stress, but also has been shown to reduce inflammation. With February being the time to celebrate both Valentine’s Day and Heart Month, there’s no better time of year to think about how to bring more love into the lives of people we know who are elderly or ailing.
According to Gary Chapman’s popular book, The Five Love Languages, we can express love through time, affirmation, gifts, acts of service and physical touch. Here are several ideas for integrating these expressions into a caregiving routine:
Create meaningful interactions
Spending time actively listening to a loved one’s life story or words of wisdom makes them feel relevant. The process is likely to be mutually beneficial, as most elderly people have valuable experiences and knowledge to share.
Likewise, listening to a loved one’s needs and concerns and then responding with valuable solutions is a welcome relief to someone who feels incapable of affecting change in their life without assistance from others. For example, if an elderly person feels lonely and lacks personal interaction on a daily basis, consider taking the time to teach them how to use Facebook or Skype so they can connect and interact with distant family, grandkids and old friends.
The gift of spontaneity can add some excitement to an elderly or ailing person’s daily routine. It doesn’t need to be dramatic, but could be as simple as bringing over some beautiful flowers and arranging them in vases around the house, or placing a new family photo under a loved one’s pillow. Sometimes even a drive in the car, a heartfelt note, a fun card game or a special dinner guest can turn a monotonous day into something happy and memorable. A cooked meal, a batch of cookies or a little help around the house also goes a long way to show you care.
Connect with physical touch
Warm hugs or handholding while catching up on the day may seem so simple, but can mean so much to someone who rarely leaves home or lacks friends. Consider bringing a family pet or your child with you, since they often and freely shower people with unconditional warmth and affection.
Promote self esteem
Love those you care for unconditionally by complimenting their strengths and overlooking their weaknesses. Show loved ones that they matter by helping them find purpose in life in subtle and significant ways. For example, regularly ask them for advice or assistance with simple tasks such as creating a memory book, knitting a blanket for a friend’s new baby, researching a family tree or keeping you company while you cook a complicated meal.
If you take the time to uncover their passions, you may be able to find meaningful ways to connect them to others who have similar interests through clubs, volunteerism, social groups or spiritual outlets.
Small acts of love and kindness can go a long way in enhancing the quality of life for the elderly and ailing. There’s no better way to celebrate Valentine’s Day and Heart Month than finding year-long ways for bringing love to those who need it most.
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My Ex Leaves When He Sees Me
12k Likes, 319 Comments - meriam Kaxuxwena (@meriam_kaxuxwena) on Instagram: “Praying that My Ex won’t see this pic coz if he does he will text me all day lol #Model…”. It just hurts so bad because he seems so happy with her now. He actually drove all the way here on Friday and showed up at my house. If he can’t learn to show love to you as a friend then he will never do it as your “man”. Here are some main reasons your Ex is still trying to hurt you: 1) Your Ex still has emotions for you: While this is not always the case still it can be the reason behind the desire to hurt you. If you've found yourself wondering, "Why won't he let me go if he doesn't want me?", here are 6 things you need to know about removing yourself from this type of relationship. Ex-Wife: Donald Trump Made Me Feel ‘Violated’ During Sex. You never wanted to show your back on me, I would never repent of loving you my love. Why does my ex-GF still maintain contact with me? She dumped me 6 months ago today and she contacted me, and previous to this it has been every week or two (at the very longest interval, at some points it was every day or two)? Thanks. Boyfriend lies to me about contact with his ex; Boyfriend lies to me about contact with his ex. Does My Ex Still Love Me Quiz This quiz can help you figure out if your past love still longs to be with you. Do your best to fight for your love. That tells you he is looking for you to forgive him and accept him back in your life. She is trying to get my family and me into trouble by accusing us of following her and peeping into her house. He says he loves me and he wants to work on himself to be a better person/get out of a dark place. Your friends, a sibling, your parents or a therapist can all provide the help that you need when you go through a bad break up. My EX husband says that he is no longer a "father" and refuses to comply. 10 Things a Girl Does When She is Into You she comes into my room to see me hugs me when she is leaving to go home. She is trying to get my family and me into trouble by accusing us of following her and peeping into her house. 5 years before he dumped me unceremoniously and out of the blue a few weeks ago (we're both 25 and have both been in serious relationships prior to this one). By changing your whole post-breakup mindset, you can also change the way your ex girlfriend currently sees you. so she called me one day and told me that she love me ,miss me and want to see me soon but Suddenly she called me a day after and she said that she want to take. Mack is the best service to use, if you have relationship issues contact dr_mack,, he is the greatest love spell caster, search on him on net he is a great love spell caster. I want to believe him, and in the short time since I've started sleeping in a separate room and we've been going through the more practical steps of. My own dad was not involved in most of my life — and that devastated me in ways I don't yet fully understand, but I have harbored a lot of anger about it. One of the signs your ex wants you back is a change in behavior. Some attitude changes may be immediate, while others take a bit longer to take place. Since the break up Guy A and I have managed to hang out a few times. Due to this, I travel a lot but most of my travels don’t take me away for more than three days. If I leave to go anywhere alone, he texts me nonstop if I’m not back by the time he designates as appropriate for that particular errand and when I return I’m inundated with slurs about my character and fidelity. 4 Reasons He Will Never Leave His Wife for You. He didn’t love me enough I had been with my boyfriend for 2. unlike him my other ex treated me with no respect I never had any doubt in my mind he didn't love me I. He only she you when he is upset with her, or when he want to sleep in a new bed. This made me want to hear from him even more. How to Make Him Miss You. I mean when we just started dating i wanted to break up with him for so many times because he was just a rebound but when i started to trust him and gave my heart he started to threaten me with breakup in every fight we had. If he continues talking with an ex, that's the first sign that he's either not over a prior girlfriend or he's just not that in to you. He breaks my stuff, steals and has people come and go at all hours. I saw him at a club and he turned the other way. So, to answer your question. unlike him my other ex treated me with no respect I never had any doubt in my mind he didn't love me I. She seldom paid for utilities and purchased. He may be afraid to. And believe it or not, this was actually happening to my ex too a while back. Some of our ex-boyfriends leave us with a hole in our hearts while others just leave us better that we were together. Got married in June. If a guy does that after you've broken up, that's another sign that he wants you back. Worse, he may be hoping to have some make-up sex and nothing more. I cannot answer why your ex ran away when he saw you…but I can tell you how some of my clients who did exactly that explained their behavior to me: * I didn't expect to see her. " What do you do? Here is my personal story of how I was able to get permission to travel and then to live abroad with my kids despite my ex-husband (the father of my two sons) FIGHTING ME TOOTH AND NAIL. Take care of your body. He buys her gifts and takes her on trips and even though she is the opposite of everythig he told me he wanted in a woman hes all of a sudden a new man and totally committed. I could see the helplessness in your eyes; your eyes could say what you wanted to say. He moved out a month ago when I was away for a few days, I came back and he had emptied my apartment of his things. The Double Agent Ex: This is a partner's ex who is friendly to your face, but who is only seeking information to wreak havoc behind your back. I and my boyfriend used to love each other years back when he has nothing,but now he's got a job he doesn't call,text,chat,he dosent even have time to see me,even when he comes visiting,he doesn't stay like before,he has really changed towards me,and when I ask if he still loves me,he says yes but he needs his jib now and I have to give. Will My Husband Come Back To Me After His Mid Life Crisis Is Over? By: Leslie Cane: I hear from a lot of wives who are living in uncertainty because of their husband’s midlife crisis. Read the first one if he's just left, or maybe he's left and come back a time or two. Of course he was “nice” at the time and I really thought he was trying his best to be a better father. i don't ever have dreams,but this dream was weird. He was ill both physically and mentally before he passed, but no care facility would take him nor caregivers work with him because he had physically abused so many people. My lover left me after 4 years of relationship and my life fell apart but when i came across dr_mack he restored my relationship and my lover came back, Dr…. 5 Tips for Co-Parenting When You Can't Stand Your Ex Try to see your ex through your children's eyes, a view that is most likely idealized and positive. Replied by spicegirl on topic How did he act when you kicked him out???? After I kicked my husband out, he went to his sisters house and he sat up with her all night boo hooing. Hope everything works out for the best. In this article, I go over several signs that may indicate your ex wants to get back together with you. I didn't want him to fight my ex so I begged him day and night not to do anything to him. It could mean many things but I have counseled many and it usually means that they want to avoid bumping into you and any awkward stop-and-chat that might ensue as a result. Here are some main reasons your Ex is still trying to hurt you: 1) Your Ex still has emotions for you: While this is not always the case still it can be the reason behind the desire to hurt you. They are incapable of feeling remorse or guilt. Does My Ex Still Love Me Quiz This quiz can help you figure out if your past love still longs to be with you. My heart breaks almost everyday,and i cry everyday. so she called me one day and told me that she love me ,miss me and want to see me soon but Suddenly she called me a day after and she said that she want to take. I pay child support and am now homeless because of it. This leaves me no time to see them. Related Questions: What do I do if my ex keeps contacting me? How to get over someone you have to see everyday? My long-term boyfriend told me that my mental health has affected him and he just wants to be friends as though nothing more ever happened. The driver smiles at me like everything is going to be okay. Find and save ideas about Ex boyfriend quotes on Pinterest. He texted me the complete lyrics to the song. We don't live toghther or anything like that, i can see him whenever i like though, he is the type of guy that would drop everything if i was in need of him, i just feel empty when he is gone. My ex still hates me after 3 years and now that he has a new, good life with a new person. He slowly put his fingers inside my underwear again and rubbed it hard. If the two of you agreed to stay friends, that doesn't mean that he wants late night crying calls from you. I have a 3 year old and 18 month old. Maybe your ex boyfriend was kind of egoistic and rude sort of guy before the breakup, but after the breakup he’s a changed guy and you can sense that in his behavior. It could also mean he is attracted to you-and that's it. Obviously I'm devastated because he told me that he wasn't seeing anyone and didn't intend to see anyone else for some time. They leave us feeling sad, hopeless, and frustrated about the time we have wasted. Months had passed when things started to change. So here is my stab at Part Two of What To Do When Your Husband Leaves You. And he walks in, it all makes sense Suddenly you're climbing over next to me, next to me I ain't no fool, you rascal you You don't want me, you just want your ex to see, ex to see Woahh woahhh woahh ohhh So that's why when I pick you up You always want me to drive your car So I can leave mine at your house And he can wonder where you are. We met on the New York City subway, and after a whirlwind courtship, I agreed to marry him and leave my job and the city I loved to start a new life with him in a small town in New England. My ex used to tell me, he's so chill Then steal my phone, so I couldn't leave, yeah Act a clown, run his mouth Cussing out, brought me down Thank God, I set me free Cause now you wanna love me, who knows what you'll find It won't be easy, but I'm down for the ride Just remember You're not my ex, mmm I know I can be trouble, Lord knows that is. Related Questions: What do I do if my ex keeps contacting me? How to get over someone you have to see everyday? My long-term boyfriend told me that my mental health has affected him and he just wants to be friends as though nothing more ever happened. The way he speaks to me rips my soul apart. My girlfriend says she wants to leave me for her drug addict ex He looks a mess and has no charm and no prospects in life that I can see. He moved out a month ago when I was away for a few days, I came back and he had emptied my apartment of his things. I know he ALWAYS has my back. Sometimes in relationships, you can become so close that the spark starts to fade. "Everyone he asked to see has visited," his stepfather casually remarked after I paid a. He told me that he saw it only sexually and in general he does not like long-term relationships and. “I Slept With Him, Now He Is Ignoring Me!” “Derek,” and we went out and had a great time. When they see you excel and move on happily that is when the abuse escalates. Nevermind, he broke up with me because he could not see me as much as he wanted to during that time. Be on the lookout! There's no reason you and your ex can't be friendly around each other. The issue of how much the sysadmin can and should do to protect a newly-ex employee’s access depends on the company’s perception of the value of its data. But after a break-up, when communication is muddy and you're trying to figure out what he's thinking from stalking his Facebook pictures and analyzing his tweets, it can be especially tough to figure out what he's trying to say. So, going off with another man is THE ultimate red flag. Is My Ex Thinking About Me? Is My Ex Over Me? Does My Ex Miss Me? Do I still matter to my ex? These questions are just going to stop you from getting back together. I wish them well. This leaves most men confused. A breakup is a tumultuous time for both people involved, where mixed messages can linger past the end of the relationship. My ex-husband and I were separated for a year and a half and God pruned me, taught me, and comforted me in that time. we really love each other. But if he says he's still tight with his ex's parents—despite the fact that he "doesn't talk to my ex at all. It took years to find the power to forgive If you have an older Salon account, please My mother let him rape me -- then stayed married to my dad. When he goes to visit them you say, "I'll see you when you come home. Below are top 12 signs to know when it’s time to move on from a relationship — in particular romantic ones. As many exes as there are, as long as each marriage lasted 10 years. If he really loved you he would not do half the things I just listed. I don't want to get back to him. Keep in mind that you cannot force your ex to have feelings that are no longer there. Of coures he denies it but she told her husband the truth. Anyway we have never had a problem with our sex life or anything like that untill this…. Dear Pastor. Relationship Connection: Just divorced, my ex introduces my kids to new boyfriend to your ex-wife's choices to see if there are any traces of resentment, jealousy, or anger toward your wife. One day, he told me that, he is willing to meet me, but he knows he won't meet my standards and cannot impress me like he wins other women. How to Get Closure When Your Ex Won't Speak to You By Carrie L. Having been in a relationship that led to nowhere, I’ve learned some telling signs on when it’s time to move on. When you say, “My ex is dating someone else, so we are officially over,” you’re sending a negative message. And he was blunt with me: “Jeff, we don’t want to terminate Tom. Now he is commenting on one of my friends Instagram posts and asks her if they can go to the gym together. The ONE Thing That Men Don't Like, But Women Keep Doing Published on You see, he may take Ginger into the bushes to sleep with her, but then he'll get dressed and leave her behind right there. My Dad gave me the clubs to keep, because I took up golfing. When he wants to have sex is only the time he begins talking to me and kissing me on my chick. I finally found a professional who didn't try and get me to leave my ex. About two hours ago all my worries and concerns turned out to be right. Is It Abuse When My Partner Calls Me Names? Dear GoodTherapy. He told me to sell my car so he cauld buy me a new one im carless he has kept me from my family hes gone all the time im starting to drink everyday and ive gained weight hes screwing around and when i. When you are dating someone, his ex has no place in the picture. I just wanted to do the NC to heal and move on. then when we do go for dinner, he will spend the time talking to me about his ex girlfriends, or how his financial advisor is a fun woman to. which at that time he said he was still immature, i. I went to see my ex on a number of occasions, thinking that. I trusted him. This page is going to be formatted in a specific way. On 23rd May 2013 at 10:45 AM Emma said I am currently on day 16 of silent treatment. My ex's hospitalization resurrected the feelings of rejection I'd had after he broke up with me. They leave us feeling sad, hopeless, and frustrated about the time we have wasted. He would not leave me alone and was begging me. A Second Chance With My Ex Girlfriend. Doing so feels a wee bit too destructive to his sense of justification for leaving. My spouse is really strange i know he has adhd out the ass but there’s something very sinister about his antics, my husband abuse looks like something out of a 3rd grade bully, he rough houses and wrestles with me like its all just fun and games, ive play fighted with others but he is the only person who doesn’t stop when asked. a desperate attempt to get her back) and continue avoiding him in the hope that he gives up and leaves her alone. Worse, he may be hoping to have some make-up sex and nothing more. He eats my food and leaves me. He cheated on me. My ex boyfriend, as in a BOY whos a FRIEND is back at my school!My ex boyfriend asked me to the school dance and after saying 'yes' HE WONT LEAVE ME ALONE! Now he wants to go on a first date!. Because she wanted me to grow up thinking that my dad was a great person, she wanted me to grow up thinking that he wanted me and my little sister, but he didn't. That is the simple and complex way to make your ex miss you. I wonder how long a person's hateful energy can last, and get the feeling that his will last forever, and I'm trying to figure out why. Me and my boyfriend just started dating a few months ago. There are multiple possible reasons for your ex texting you after the break up, learn them below. "Kiki, do you love me?" Drake asks his first girlfriend, Keshia Chanté, if she loves him in the first line of his song "In My Feelings," which debuts at No. However, if you recently broke up and are wondering if you can salvage what you had with your ex. “I'm in love with you," he said quietly. He spread a rumor about me to our friends to try and sway their opinion of who I was. ” What do you do? Here is my personal story of how I was able to get permission to travel and then to live abroad with my kids despite my ex-husband (the father of my two sons) FIGHTING ME TOOTH AND NAIL. He told me she has the right to live in my house and bring anyone over that she feels like to visit her and I need to. Many start asking themselves “ Should I call my ex?” Calling your ex can be a good thinking IF you are ready to communicate. Actually he will try to sleep with me and when I don't I know he will get. I trusted him. The OW was the last girlfriend before my ex married me, but she remained a family friend. Jim Carrey's other ex Jenny McCarthy and the autistic 'son' he never sees. Does he see me as relationship material? Or is he just looking to have fun? To navigate these tricky waters of love and lust, I turned to research—and found that science tells us quite a bit about the difference between the two. Why Does He Want A Divorce When He Says He Still Loves Me? Indifference In Your Spouse: What Does It Mean For Your Marriage? How Do You Handle It? Should My Husband Care For Me Emotionally, Even If We Are Separated? Tips For Improving His Emotional Intelligence. He doesn't ever want me to show him what I am actually doing on my phone because then he can't accuse me once he sees I'm really not texting other guys like he says. Read the first one if he's just left, or maybe he's left and come back a time or two. He probably thinks, that you think, he's a stalker. When a guy gets dumped, he will sometimes think, "Okay, if my ex doesn't want to see me any more, maybe, I should just stay away for a while until she changes her mind" or "Hopefully if I give her space, she will eventually realize that I am a good man and she'll come back to me. This might sound weird, but I'm so excited about you. but here is a quick summary. Now she keeps talking to him and wants to go back to. My wish was granted, as he is relocating here permanently next week. May 2, 2011, 6:59:00 AM. He also threatened to shoot my dad. Your boyfriend may also be avoiding to run into his ex because he is afraid to see his ex with another man. He is introverted and not good at expressing his feelings or making plans. Jim Carrey's other ex Jenny McCarthy and the autistic 'son' he never sees. and she still living in my house free, we are in tensions how we say to her please leave my house, becouse childrens live with us since born. My sons will see a side of their father that they don't even know they missed. now at the time of marriage his family has many conditions. So my story is that I was at my office when my Wife wrote me that he wasn’t in love with me and never will be and that he didn’t want to speak or see me again, especially since she was talking to this other guy, When I talked to Dr. My ex' told me so many times how mean and cruel was her mom when he was growing up. him tighter pull away physically or threaten to leave just to see what. If your boyfriend's old girlfriend keeps coming around, you have a right to speak up and, if you can, put a stop to it. If he really loved you he would not do half the things I just listed. Hopefully he was joking, but if he is serious, it might be time to kick him to the curb. My sons will see a side of their father that they don’t even know they missed. I also don't give with the expectation of receiving, but for your granddaughter who lives with you I would be upset. Let your ex see how happy you are without them. He rubbed my back in a tender, loving way, but maybe it was just nostalgic. My ex-husband and I were separated for a year and a half and God pruned me, taught me, and comforted me in that time. a desperate attempt to get her back) and continue avoiding him in the hope that he gives up and leaves her alone. This is why it’s so hard to get rid of a psychopath, long after you leave him. He says she broke in. My husband says he understands why I have to leave, he's very sorry for the way he treated me during our marriage, and that he wants to be different during this process, for our kids' sake. The reason being ‘he didn’t have anytime to see me, as he had no money and would have to work 2 jobs. I am happily married now and it scares me sometimes because one time, he asked me to come with him. when we first started going out, it was like he was supposed to move a month after we started, but he didn't tell me, because he said he thought he could try to make me happy in the times we had together. I couldn't understand why at the time until one of my mean uncles told me that since that wasn't my father I wouldn't be a part of their family. To me, he’s a great guy for someone else. We can help you get them to stay with you or come back. He claims that his ex-girlfriend is one of his best friends. I love my husband so much and I believe he feels the same way or so I thought, I don’t want to lose him so I went looking for help, that’s when I came across nako dako online, he is a spell caster according to what I read about him he can bring ones ex lover back to them so I thought to myself maybe he can help. To me, he's a great guy for someone else. He accepts me for who I am; sees me as a complete picture. Seriously, he avoids me like I'm the plague or the swine flu! I would understand if I was a crazy stalker, who bad mouthed him or created scenes. do i have a right to see the return? If you were not legally married on 12/31/2015 then the tax return for your ex is his alone. help! can my ex read my text messages? my phone is still on the same account as my ex husband's because i have been unable to get a new phone and my own plan yet for financial reasons,. I also don't give with the expectation of receiving, but for your granddaughter who lives with you I would be upset. He told me that he saw it only sexually and in general he does not like long-term relationships and. Want to find out who Keshia Chante (AKA Keke, the ex of Drake’s who he called out in ‘In My Feelings’) is? Here’s everything you need to know about her! 1. In fact, he talks about wanting to see you all the time. I mean when we just started dating i wanted to break up with him for so many times because he was just a rebound but when i started to trust him and gave my heart he started to threaten me with breakup in every fight we had. " The essence of a freezer spell is about time. I could sense that there was something up with him as he started to distance himself and stop communicating with me as much but I didn’t voice my concerns. My ex is a narcissistic ahole to who thinks life revolves around him,For 8 years he put me down controlled me made me feel that I was his possession made me feel that I couldn't do anything unless it involved him,Finally I left with the kids,But now he still uses the kids to control me or still see me,He spreads rumours about me and lies to. If an happens to behave in a very warm and friendly manner after the break up. i told him that my ex lover which i loved with all my heart left me for another all Dr Paloma did was to laugh and said he will be back to me in 3days time i taught he was lying on the 3rd day my. I already see and feel good things in my life. I meant a friend who directed me to Papa online who help people to solve their problem and then i wrote to him and he said i should not worry about anything, that i should give him a day for him to cast a spell for me and after that 2 days my ex called me on my office line and started begging. I mean, he painted my toes, we sat by the fire and watched a movie, and had a drink. Does he regret what he did?" means: "Does my emotionally unavailable, narcissistic , and toxic ex that was consistently unable to respect me and be faithful to me in our relationship, finally see that he was wrong?". He, on the other hand, can't admit that he had an emotional investment in the marriage. I can walk through that house and tell you where every room. When you say, “My ex is dating someone else, so we are officially over,” you’re sending a negative message. I already see the benefits of my healing. Be on guard for this kind of guy. A married man is seeing another woman and will swear up and down that it isn't just about the sex, that they have something deeper than. He moved out a month ago when I was away for a few days, I came back and he had emptied my apartment of his things. When God's Answer Is Not What We Expected. Below are top 12 signs to know when it’s time to move on from a relationship — in particular romantic ones. My ex is, what I think, a real narcissist. court action for removing ex off title deeds 11th Sep 14 at 11:19 AM #1 Hi, if anyone has any knowledge of whats the best way of removing an ex husband off of property deeds as he is not willing to give property over to me. This made me want to hear from him even more. Of course he was not always abusive especially when I didnt question his authority or disagree with his opinions and met his every need and demands so I went alone with it and in these times I started to convince myself it wasnt so bad and not as bad as the other option of me having to leave my home and my life with nowhere else to really go. (So thankful to call him my "ex". He threw away my lotion and was going to re-buy it he knew the name and the brand too. The Haunting question “Will he come back if I leave him alone?” See, you may have already seen many websites which bombard you with some absolute non sense, which are no way practical. He’s in pain, both physically and emotionally, and he needs me. Question Posted by: Hannes | 2016/12/12 M y husband wants to watch me sleep with other men. Note from Alex: This is a guest post from Jamie. 'When my son calls me 'abbu' (dad) my whole world melts in a moment. He may be afraid to. I miss my mom a lot & love her much, but I just wish she would have talked to me about it. There is more or less usually a period of time just after a relationship ends when both partners wish they could turn back the hands of time. When I'm With My Separated Husband, He Tells Me He's Not Feeling It. I tried to stop him but he asked me to stay still, telling me repeatedly that this won’t be painful at all and it will make me extremely happy. Everything I did was a problem, if he had to acknowledge me. So my uncle, who I had not seen in more than 30 years, called me. up with my ex I knew he was not worth it because in our entire relationship he was always took me for granted. I can walk through that house and tell you where every room. Yesterday, she broke up with me with the hope of getting back together before Christmas. But here is the gist of this post: I now regret divorcing my husband. "My ex is jealous so he's in love with me" is another thing that I often hear in one-on-one coaching sessions with my clients. Hello my name is Lauren i'm from USA i want to testify of a great and powerful spell caster my husband left me and the kids for 2 weeks when i called him he didn't pick up when he came back home the 3rd week he told me he wanted a divorce i was so sad i cried all night he left again i was so lonely the next day i was searching for something. An attorney can help you fight this move, or to get a court to impose an alternative that will allow you as much time with your children as possible, but you must be realistic in your expectations. They feed off of our admiration, and baring that, simply our attention, good or bad. A friend once told me his test of whether he's over an ex is whether it would bother him if they were dating someone else. Does My Ex Still Like Me? (middle School) My ex will see me and then look the other way. Then I left her 2 months short of our 10 year wedding anniversary. complex there's this ultrahot chick who leaves her panties in the mutual laundry room almost everytime I'm doing my laundry (like she wants me to take them - which I don't. 14 Signs Your Ex is Over You and Doesn't Want You Back By Joan Cyril Abello One of the hardest things about moving on from a breakup is accepting that the person who used to be the center of your world does not want to be part of your life anymore. Of coures he denies it but she told her husband the truth. -) The "Very Confident stare". You all are fake. Here is my story. He spoke soft spoken words and with bright eyes said that he would see me again. my boyfriend who i have been with for a lil over 3years used to be the same exact way we met when i was 15 and he was 16 (im almost 19 and hes about to be 20) we dont get to see each other often because he lives a few hours away now but when i do see him he gets excited like when we were young teenagers which means hes still attracted to me and. Now, this is a good sign, however, there have been so many men that have told me that they’re going to come to see me and nothing ever happened. Who knows, maybe he just needs to closure, maybe he just needs to see that you are ready to move on. If your Ex hasn't fully recovered then he/she might feel like hurting you (See also Why some people never recover). My ex was not the most faithful of men more than three times playing away to which his last one he packed his bags and left to move on with her about 30 doors away. My ex left me to teach a boy. I do not miss him and am happy to move on, However, the damage I am left with is a struggle. who makes me feel loved and appreciated, and who leaves a note on. When I asked her about it, she told me her intuition had told her to put the people "on ice. Please can you let me know whether I can legally force my husband to sell our property, he has been very difficult and unco-operative. We were no longer together when he died but how come up to this moment he still keeps on visiting me in my dreams. If you are asking, “Will he miss me if I leave him alone?” the answer is that he certainly can’t miss you if you aren’t gone and that if you are gone, human nature says that he will miss you. These selections are arranged in the sequence in which they were presented in the final edition of 1892, with some. I hope this has helped answer your question, “why does my ex stare at me?” And if you secretly want to get your ex back, you don’t have to wait for them to decide. He keeps telling my friend "I'll check and get back to you. One day, he told me that, he is willing to meet me, but he knows he won't meet my standards and cannot impress me like he wins other women. He is not paying enough of the mortgage which it has now gone into arrears. He slandered my name so he could make it seem like I was the problem, and that us ending was my fault. He would not leave me alone and was begging me. It was a few days later that I realized he had moved in with my ex-friend next door that he had been cheating on me with. Sometimes dating someone new and having fun is just what it takes for your ex to realize what he's lost and come back to you. that time never came, although i was completely. If your ex tells you he still loves you but wants to stay friends, it can. If I had done this, things may have turned out a little bit differently for me. One day, he told me that, he is willing to meet me, but he knows he won't meet my standards and cannot impress me like he wins other women. He claims that his ex-girlfriend is one of his best friends. He’s a Changed Guy You Can See in His Behavior. This might sound weird, but I’m so excited about you. Keeping him at arms length leaves a possibility open but also protects me. He says he loves me to bits but is not turned on by me. (He has no income, no clue what he wants to do. " What do you do? Here is my personal story of how I was able to get permission to travel and then to live abroad with my kids despite my ex-husband (the father of my two sons) FIGHTING ME TOOTH AND NAIL. These selections are arranged in the sequence in which they were presented in the final edition of 1892, with some. My ex-bf gave me the long hug, long and lingering. When we first met he use to tell me he hates to see me cry, and now hes the reason for it. Now, I feel afraid, scared. That's how my ex got them when we went to the driving range. Let’s see where we’re at so far. Live the life you've always wanted -- the one you may have put on the back-burner for your ex. Her threats of suicide and ocd issues have kept him going back and the affair continues. He gets my number every time. When he didnt have much time to travel with me before he all of a sudden has time to see her weekly. I’m fairly traditional and feminine (I’m not a tomboy by any means. If you guys have been broken up for a long time (and he's been dating this new person for a long time), it's a pretty strong sign that he's getting over you. I remember when my ex, Kahlo, had broken up with me. Question Posted by: Hannes | 2016/12/12 M y husband wants to watch me sleep with other men. I'll always care about him but I'm over him enough to move on with my life. He could not even have sex with her after this. Conor was a Wall Street trader. He can cheat on her and disrespect her. How to Get Custody Back of Your Kids When One Party Leaves State Without Going to Court By Angie Gambone When parents divorce, the divorce agreement will explain each parent's rights and responsibilities with respect to the children. I'm still not over the way he was when we dated and not sure whether to accept the date or just say no thank you. Trump and I had marital relations in which he behaved very differently toward me than he had during our marriage. Well i broke up with my ex and after a few months she contacted me and wanted us to at least stay in contact and ironically we became real good friends after a few months similar to how it sorta. Though he punishes me by coming close to me only when he wants to have sexual intercourse and after he is done he leaves me till the next time he wants to. I don't want to get back to him. what does it means? my ex girl friend has a child. Just because your husband is a jerk doesn’t mean you aren’t called to respect him. There is more or less usually a period of time just after a relationship ends when both partners wish they could turn back the hands of time. You'll leave him wondering what's more important than him. Learning how to make your ex want you back is not easy, especially if you have seen that he or she has already moved on and they are already dating someone else. Does he regret what he did?" means: "Does my emotionally unavailable, narcissistic , and toxic ex that was consistently unable to respect me and be faithful to me in our relationship, finally see that he was wrong?". They’ll see their father beaming with. my boyfriend who i have been with for a lil over 3years used to be the same exact way we met when i was 15 and he was 16 (im almost 19 and hes about to be 20) we dont get to see each other often because he lives a few hours away now but when i do see him he gets excited like when we were young teenagers which means hes still attracted to me and. It's the weirdest thing ever and makes me feel SO bad. I just do not think that he has the guts to leave her. If he breaks up with a feeling that you love him however are ready to allow him go, it is going to be something that he thinks about as he starts a life without you. do i have a right to see the return? If you were not legally married on 12/31/2015 then the tax return for your ex is his alone. “I'm in love with you," he said quietly. My ex-bf gave me the long hug, long and lingering. My lover left me after 4 years of relationship and my life fell apart but when i came across dr_mack he restored my relationship and my lover came back, Dr…. View Comment. I'll always care about him but I'm over him enough to move on with my life.


Dating. I’m 21 and at this point in my life, my dating record is sad, if not tragic. When I went to college, I was confronted with the world of Tinder, Bumble, Coffee Meets Bagel, but I was not prepared. Online dating has become the preferred method of my generation, with many of my friends meeting their longtime partners on apps. On TV, you see guys going up to girls in bars and introducing themselves. In real life, many people meet on an app, then meet up at a bar. Apps have taken over how we meet people and how we begin our relationships. Online dating is not for everyone, but I don’t think that it’s for me. As I’m in Paris, I decided maybe online dating would help me meet new people. While it was fun at the beginning, after a few rough experiences, I’ve stopped online dating.
Let me provide some context about where it went wrong. In February, I went on a date that I thought went really well. It was a simple first date, nothing too big or important, but thinking that you’re hitting it off is always a good feeling, then ghosting comes into play. Let me quickly define ghosting for all those who don’t know.
Ghosting:”The act of suddenly ceasing all communication with someone the subject is dating, but no longer wishes to date. This is done in hopes that the ghostee will just “get the hint” and leave the subject alone, as opposed to the subject simply telling them he/she is no longer interested.” – Urban Dictionary
Hopefully, reading the definition, you’re rolling your eyes. It’s a very trivial and childish form of ending relationships, yet it has become increasingly popular. With the rise of online dating, people can simply disappear, often leaving the person on the other end of the phone wondering to themselves what they did wrong. It’s is a hurtful tactic of ending a relationship and for someone who doesn’t have the confidence of Beyoncé, it really knocked me down a peg.
While I didn’t spend two weeks mourning the possibility of the relationship by eating my favorite Ben & Jerry’s, I did a lot of soul-searching. I’ve always been a dating skeptic, my friends will all agree that I’m not the most trusting person. I became wary and uneasy about dating other men after being ghosted. A system that was supposed to make dating easier failed me and I lost trust in it. The system failed me. It made me feel like I wasn’t even worthy of a “hey, I don’t like you like that, bye” text. When did this become the norm?
I haven’t been an active participant in the dating pool very long. I didn’t date in high school. Meaning no dates to prom/homecoming/school functions/etc.. I wasn’t the ugly duckling, I was just quiet and stayed to myself. I didn’t have the normal experience, which stunted my ability to date openly when dropped into the pool of college dating. While you may be reading and saying, you’re gorgeous, you don’t need male validation, it never hurts, when in good intentions. Online dating is a sea full of validation, some good and bad. While there are some who have poor intentions, the majority are just looking to meet someone. For sex, for a date, for a one night stand, for a forever relationship.
Do you know how many people think online dating is hard? Just search online dating on Twitter. There’s everything from memes to full-blown articles about how everyone HATES online dating.Don’t get me wrong, apps like Tinder can be great. I know many people who use online dating to great success, but there is a large population with a hatred for the apps. People use Facetune to change how they look or hide their personality to make someone like them. Nothing wrong with being perfect. There is a problem in changing how you look in order to deceive someone to make them like you more. It’s a game of faces and aesthetics, which allows for so many preconceived notions to come into play. Online dating has made it possible to discard someone in 2 seconds and with the swipe of a thumb. While I don’t plan on going into how online dating and race are intertwined, NPR, The Odyssey, and Glamour have all written about this issue. Online dating is a game, but a game of preference.
Everyone says that my generation doesn’t know how to talk to each other. They aren’t wrong. We don’t know how to have conversations and introduce ourselves in person, so we online date to make it easier. Does it help? Sometimes. Does it make people warier of each other and their intentions? For sure. While you also have to prepare for vulgar, sexist messages, online dating removes a lot of the in-person aspect of dating. While this is good at the beginning, you can’t hide behind a computer forever. Personally, I know that I don’t have the confidence to go up to a guy and talk to them, unless I’m really really drunk. Sorry, mom. Luckily, this does not happen very often. I get this advice quite often from friends who tell me to go to a bar and find someone new after getting stood up. Impossible. Not impossible, but improbable. It takes me forever to agree to go out on a date as I hesitate to question if someone likes me for me or for a one-night stand.
Online dating has not helped my confidence and I don’t think it will, which is why I got off of the apps. The hesitation around dating has not diminished and for anyone who feels the same, I think you’ll agree when I say online dating exacerbates these feelings. You have to have a certain level of confidence to use online dating apps. Apps use AI and algorithms to show us who they think we will like. Apps aren’t people, apps aren’t real. We have to get comfortable being uncomfortable, whether that means facing our fears or deleting the apps.
For two and a half months after that one date, I deleted all the apps. No swiping left or right, no editing cute bios, nada. I stopped online dating cold turkey. While I did not go on a single date throughout that period, I got to focus on me. I focused on myself and made sure that I was in the right headspace to date. Earlier this month, I got back on the apps and just ended a something before it started. I did manage to end things without ghosting *cough*. Jokes aside, ghosting is dumb, don’t do it. Subsequently, all online dating apps have been deleted off my phone. Online dating hasn’t come to my dating rescue and I’m doubtful it ever will. Quitting online dating apps has allowed me to figure out what I want out of a relationship. Through this knowledge, I can continue in my non-app related dating life and grow into a better dater, hopefully with more success in the future.


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A couple of weeks ago I had a weekend where I felt a bit alone and I told you about it here. And I decided to dig a little further as to why people are feeling lonely and does social media have anything to do with it? In the early days of social media things felt very different. I can still remember how I ‘met’ a new friend on twitter. We were talking in 140 characters with each other but we did feel that connection. Yes, you can feel really connect to other people through social media. You can like or dislike someone digitally as weird as that maybe sounds. That new friend is now a close ‘real life’ friend (it helps that she doesn’t live in another country) and I’ve met countless other people the same way.


Marion, congratulations on you raise!! You must be doing something right. You go, girl. Enjoy the wedding and your vacation. We want to hear all about it when you get back.
Hot weekend again here and in Galveston. And we're in the upper 90's every day this week.
I'll talk at you guys later.


A Guy's View
By Brad J.
November 4, 1999
Hey guys. I got a letter from a reader calling himself Gallo who wants me to give him some dating advice. I figured rather than email my advice on dating just to him, I'd make it into a whole column, because I've gotten a lot of emails from guys out there who have the same or similar questions. Here are the ones I get most often:
Is it wrong to expect the girl to pay sometimes?
Well, that's a tough one. Girls go on and on about how "equal" they want everything to be, but when it comes right down to it, guys, if you don't pay, you don't play. It takes an old-fashioned guy to get into a new-age-girl's hot box. I remember this one girl, Missy, who I used to go out with when I was a freshman. For the first week, we'd always go Dutch to restaurants and movies, because neither one of us had much money. By the end of the week I got really frustrated that the relationship was going nowhere beyond second base. It seemed like no matter what I said or did, she wouldn't let me express my love for her by fucking her brains out. I asked my dad what was up, and he explained to me that even though girls put on a big show about being "equal to men" and stuff like that, they still want their man to open doors for them, tip their hats to them, not swear at them, and pay for their dates. He gave me some money, and so next week I paid for our movies and dinners. She was so impressed that she gave up her pussy to me by Thursday. I broke up with her on Sunday because she got too suffocating.
Is it best to ask a girl out on the phone or in person?
Face it, guys, if you're gonna call up the girl you have a crush on, chances are you aren't gonna say anything, you'll just breath heavy into the phone while jerking off. This isn't safe in the era of Caller ID and *69. Just ask her out in person. Get a nice haircut, put on some clean pants and a shirt that doesn't have an offensive slogan or pizza stains on it, buy some flowers, get her alone, and ask her out using good grammar. It almost never fails. Chicks love flowers and grammar. Try not to fart, either, that bothers girls.
How soon can I expect sex?
There are two kinds of girls: Girls who will give it up on the first date, and girls who won't. If a girl is willing to let you fuck her on your first date, that either means she has no self respect, which is good, or has crabs, which is bad. The trick is to tell the difference. A girl with no self respect has her shoulders slouched forward, looks down all the time, talks about how ugly she thinks she is, and will do anything you tell her. A good test is to tell her to lick your asshole. If she does it, you know you've found a good little personal ho. However, if she's the skanky, dirty kind, she'll dress in really tight clothes, talk about how hot she thinks she is, talk about other cocks she's sucked, and will practically go down on you when you go to pick her up for the evening. It's okay to get blows from these kind, but don't get your dick anywhere near that pussy. It's not safe.
The kind of girls who won't give it up on the first date can also be good once you break them in. It's fun to try a bunch of different methods and see which one hits her in the weak spot. Some girls will let you fuck them just for compliments, other girls want flowers and gifts and poetry you found on the Internet and signed your name to. If absolutely nothing you try seems to work, just get her drunk and you won't believe what a slut she'll become. If even that doesn't work, then it's not worth the effort. She's probably a lesbian in denial. Drop her and move on, and tell all your friends what a slut she is.
What's the best way to break up with a girl?
Don't do it in person. She'll start to cry and try make you feel all guilty. She'll demand to know why or what she did wrong, not realizing that you probably just want to fuck someone else for a change. And sometimes she'll even slap you...as if it's TV and you won't hit back. So just do it in a quick phone call or email. Do it on a weekend so you don't have to see her for a few days while it sinks in. Or have somebody else tell her for you. That's always the easiest.
What do girls like for gifts?
Anything expensive and useless. Just buy some cheap little angel statue from Hallmark or Target, peel an expensive price tag off something else, and then when you're out of the store, put the expensive price tag on the bottom of the statue--that way she'll think you just didn't notice it or forgot to peel it off. Or get a cheap necklace and put in a box from a classy store. You can usually find classy necklace and ring boxes in your mom's jewelry box. Don't get her alcohol; she'll think you want to get her drunk. Don't get her clothes; they won't be the right size. Don't get her pills, she'll ask too many questions and probably won't even take them.
What kind of conversation do girls want to hear over dinner?
Talk about how much you love kittens and rainbows and how you feel like you could never talk about stuff like that with anyone else. Talk about how you're misunderstood by your parents who don't want you to write poetry. Talk about how your dad makes you play sports and you don't really want to. Talk about how if she ever sees you acting macho it's just to fit in with the guys. Talk about a time you cried when you saw something sad or make up something if you have to. Act like you have more emotions than horney. Tell her you're looking for a special girl to share the rest of your life with. Tell her you would like to get to know her before you move the relationship any further. Tell her you think she's skinny. Recite a short poem you memorized from your English book. Think of a popular romantic song and tell her that whenever you hear it, it makes you think of her. Yes, it's gonna make you want to puke, but trust me, after two or three nights of this stuff, you'll be in her pants.
Well, that's A Guy's View for tonight. If you have any other dating tips you'd like me to add to this list, or if you have any other questions or topics you'd like me to write about, send them to me at email@example.com.
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In order to improve workplace relationships, you must start by building awareness and improving communication.
Good communication between individual contributors in the workplace fuels employee satisfaction, productivity and the desire to get things done. Individual contributors want to feel heard, appreciated and valued for their contributions. This winning combination promotes a productive, engaged employee.
Today, businesses large and small have more diverse workforces than ever before. This diversity is not only in cultural backgrounds but also with several generations working together to achieve common goals.
With diversity comes a wide variety of work expectations and communication styles. It all begins with awareness. As individuals become more aware of their communication style and that of others, they are better able to understand one another and communicate more effectively. This builds trust and fosters commitment and accountability to shared results.
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When office communication isn't where it should be, you can see it and hear it.
What You May Observe
People "tuning out" a person when he or she speaks in a meeting
Nonverbal cues such as people rolling their eyes or looking down when someone is talking
Employees are self-focused and avoid contact with each other
Managers and employees don't ask for help
Managers and employees are unwilling to admit mistakes
Obvious personality conflicts and office drama
What You May Hear
"I just don't understand why I can't get along with him/her. S/he takes everything the wrong way."
"Nobody can be themselves when s/he is around."
"Just say yes and agree, and then keep doing what you are doing."
"Why does everyone seem to be avoiding me?"
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Last time, we talked about asking the question, “Are you thinking about hurting or killing yourself?” and I encouraged you to ask boldly and openly. Generally, a direct question pulls for a direct answer.
There are really only three answers to the Question: no, not really, or yes.
If they say ‘no,’ and you are comfortable with their answer, you can move on. A response like, “That’s good to hear. I’m happy to listen when you are ready to talk,” might be helpful.
If they say ‘not really,’ to me that usually sounds like a veiled ‘yes.’ Maybe you don’t have good enough rapport yet to get an honest answer. Maybe they need a little more time or support in order to feel comfortable saying ‘yes.’ Or maybe they are just unsure. Whatever the case, focus on building rapport or making a deeper connection with the person, then try asking the question once again.
If they say ‘yes,’ remain calm and don’t panic. I recommend you continue your conversation and explore their life situation and resources a bit. We’ll talk about what to do next time.


Here we see the handsome Trojan prince Paris who's been forced by Zeus to judge a beauty contest between the three goddesses - Hera, Aphrodite and Athene who've offered him many things, the world and then some.
Young Paris didn't understand one darn thing about life, beauty, love or what his inner values were. And so he made his decision with little thought or no matter how unwise. He chose Aphrodite, the sensual goddess of love. Oh she was a real hotty, and how could he resist? It was a done deal. But this was just the beginning of the troubles that followed his decision.
Honestly, this isn't the card I wanted to see today. But there it is, The Lovers. This card indicates and represents a new love, or being concerned with decisions regarding matters of the heart. It's not something I want to think about so much these days. But I'm finding myself in the position once again. It mostly gives me more grief than anything I think, to entertain the thought of seriously engaging in a romantic long term relationship again, I admit I'm afraid. I don't have the best track record because of my life experiences. It's not that I fault myself necessarily, it's just the circumstances that was my reality.
I met the man I loved 38 years ago, who I lost suddenly and tragically to illness at 27. I find myself comparing other men to him and often my decision to get involved romantically, is to quote George Bush Sr., no, na-ah, nope, not gona happen, not gona do it, wouldn't be prudent.
I had some short term relationships in between my first and second marriage.
The second time around my marriage ended in divorce after marrying an abusive alcoholic man. Fortunately I decided to get out after two years, but psychologically it was hard to separate and it took me about five years to completely, sever ties. It wasn't easy and I couldn't have done it without having a great deal of counseling and help.
Growing up with an alcoholic father, co-dependent and eventually becoming alcoholic myself, all added to my insanity, until I got into recovery 23 years ago.
So this card reminds me to make wise decisions. If I'm having a hard time, in confusion, I seek out the help and counsel of some one I trust and or a power greater than myself to draw strength and discernment from everyday.
If you can't figure out how to have a real relationship with yourself, understanding who you are, loving and accepting the person you are, it's impossible to have a healthy, happy relationship with another person. Your ability to make the right decision is unclear and disabled.
Lots of folks these days choose online dating sites. I have friends that it seems to have worked out for them. Time will tell. I have nothing against this and it doesn't matter how you go about meeting someone. What does matter, is knowing what you don't want, what you do want, and knowing what you need is right and good for you.
It takes time and work to have a discerning ability, which is paramount in our relationships. Shared spiritual values with a companion-ability helps to make you good friends who have real fun together, and you laugh a lot, no matter what you do.
As my wise late mother once said to me. If you are going to have a love affair and you find yourself crying more than laughing it's time to leave.
I can understand how hard it is to make the right choice in regards to relationships. I have been getting to know myself the last twelve years on my own so well. Maybe even better than when I was in a relationship since I was so eager to please. Now I can honestly say I am in a loving, still often challenging relationship with myself.
I think the older we get the harder it is to find someone compatible, because we get so used to our own ways. I know my "no, na-ah, nope, not gona happen, not gona do it,"are only increasing. :)
OH boy do I ever relate to what you are saying Ellen about the relationship with yourself. I think you are right the older we get as women the more the word no increases and we feel quite comfortable with that.
I remember something I think maybe Dr. Phil or maybe John Bradshaw said, don't invest any more into a relationship than what you are willing to risk loosing. I think there is some good wisdom in that statement. I really wish it was different and don't like to say this, but women emotionally are light years ahead, and I wonder when men will ever catch up. Bless their hearts. Of course I'm sure there are many of them that think the same of women but not in an emotional sense, more on the intellectual level. Their egos usually get in the way.
In the mean time we'll give our selves lots of loving affirmations and big hugs! And I'm sending you loving affirmations and big hugs too!<3
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...when faced with difficult questions, people are primed to think about computers and that when people expect to have future access to information, they have lower rates of recall of the information itself and enhanced recall instead for where to access it.Now, there's a study showing that the use of the Pill changes the way women chose their partners:
Women who used OC [oral contraceptives] scored lower on measures of sexual satisfaction and partner attraction, experienced increasing sexual dissatisfaction during the relationship, and were more likely to be the one to initiate an eventual separation if it occurred. However, the same women were more satisfied with their partner’s paternal provision, and thus had longer relationships and were less likely to separate. (h/t NS).
It appears there's a trade-off between attractiveness and paternal reliability. The Pill skews the trade-off toward the reliability.
tags: trade-off, biology, technology, information, detection, mind


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My Dad is retiring today after 33 years of Government service. Its a poignant moment for him and I am sad that I couldn't be with him today. I don't know how he feels about his retirement. I hope that he enjoys this new phase in his life and makes the most of the restful days. I was reminded of my days of living at my parents' home and how he took care of me and my brother when my mom was living in a different city 'cos of her job. He has been a pillar of strength for me all through these years and always has a listening ear when I pick up the phone for a whining session. ;-) Here is a picture of him getting to know Alvin, when Alvin was just a few days old.
I hope that my Dad takes good care of himself, and enjoys this well-deserved retirement. And, I hope to see more of him in the coming days, now that he has more time to visit us. Thank you, Dad for being the person you are. Enjoy your retirement. :-) Here is another snap of Alvin wailing his heart out, in my Dad's arms.
I love you , Dad. I miss you today.


Normal ? Yes.
Good ? No.
My recommendation ? Turn the jealousy on its head and make it something good. Here's how that works.
Think about why you are jealous. It's because you REALLY like your girlfriend, right ? You love her a lot ! You want her to appreciate you and be with you. And you're worried that those other men are a threat to your relationship.
That's the first key right there: The fact that you really love your girlfriend, is a good thing, not a bad thing!
Let's look at the other part. Are they a threat ?
What kind of girlfriend would you rather have ?
Would you prefer a girlfriend who stays with you because she knows no other attractive males at all, and therefore she doesn't have much choice but to stay with you ?
Or would you prefer a girlfriend who knows and laughs with many attractive men, but who, despite knowing all these other men stays with you, because she prefers you, and because she loves you?
What is the best compliment ?
I stay with you because I have no choice, or at least no good alternative.
I do have a choice, and I do have good alternatives. My choice is you.
Think about it a little bit, hell, think about it a LOT.
Can you see the beauty ?


The women associated with Edgar Allan Poe have been far too many – it would be the best lineup yet if there were, at that time, a 19th century version of “The Dating Game”. Fanny, Annie, Sarah Helen, Sarah Elmira, Mary, Marie Louise, Eliza… I really couldn’t care less how they managed to get involved with the great poet, to be honest. I could only point my interest to the woman he actually married – the young and beautiful Virginia Clemm.
Anyone who has read the life (or parts of it) of Edgar Allan Poe KNOWS for sure that Virginia is Poe’s first cousin, and that she was 13 when he, at 26 or 27, married her. By today’s standards, the marriage was a bit odd but for the time, their relationship was not particularly unusual, though she was slightly young (15 years old was a more common marrying age).
These first-hand witnesses all described Virginia as a beautiful, accomplished, charming young woman of great virtue and integrity, who won over everyone in her acquaintance, and who was clearly adored by her husband. If you read all the accounts given by Poe’s acquaintances, particularly the male ones, the impression is given that, if anything, his “child-wife” was considered a damn sight too good for him. Certainly, she gave him the only happy, stable, romantic relationship he ever knew, and was the only one among his real or alleged sweethearts who loved him wholeheartedly and unselfishly.
Several theories about the Poes still circulate: Maria Clemm (the sister of Poe’s father) may have suggested the pairing and hastened the marriage; the couple may not have consummated their marriage; they may have behaved more like brother and sister than husband and wife (Poe nicknamed her “Sissy”). One theatrical version of the Poes suggests that young Virginia had a sexual fetish for horror stories and sought Poe as a husband (making her the aggressor in the relationship). Friends said they didn’t share a bed for at least the first two years of marriage. By all contemporary accounts, Virginia was beautiful and Poe was devoted to her. He once described her as “a wife, whom I loved as no man ever loved before.”
Amidst all these, why has she gotten the worst press of them all?
The fastest reply of any random person hearing the story for the first time would definitely include the words,”but they’re cousins!”, or “…she was 13?!”, and <insert spiteful comment here>.
True, some biographers are hard on the poor girl, but the novelists are even worse. The image of a puerile Virginia vacuously coughing in the background, and further burdening her already bedeviled husband with an unsatisfactory marriage, has been a staple of endless piles of bad fiction.
I refuse to see Virginia that way. This definitely included Poe himself. His August 1835 letter to her and Maria Clemm indisputably proves that Poe desperately loved Virginia and was terrified she might reject him – and unlike the round of engagements-a-go-go he was said to have pursued after her death, he could not have had any ulterior motive in seeking her hand.
The love story of Edgar and Virginia ended rather tragically (she only lived to be 24). Regardless of the malice and scandal these two have caused (then and now), how they saved each other from the demons that surround their lives as cousins and as husband and wife is, in my humble opinion, the most selfless kind of love any human has ever shown.


In the whirlwind of college life, with lectures, assignments, and endless study sessions, a question often pops up in students’ minds: “Should you date in college?” It’s a dilemma as old as academia, and it’s a topic ripe for exploration, laughter, and romantic insight. While many students hope to find a meaningful relationship during college, this can be challenging. As a result, some choose to wait for different reasons.
There isn’t a clear-cut answer to whether or not you should date in college. There is no one-size-fits-all experience. College is the perfect time to explore, experiment, grow, and figure out who you are. This can happen regardless of whether you’re single, casually dating, or in a serious relationship. If you’re considering a relationship during college, it’s essential to weigh your pros and cons.
Should You Make Room for Love in Your College Journey?
During college, young adults are in a stage of self-discovery. Engaging in a relationship is an effective method of exploring one’s identity and identifying strengths and weaknesses. A compatible partner can assist in personal growth, enhancing emotional intelligence, addressing fears, and working towards future goals.
College is a hub of social activities, and dating can help you expand your social circle and network. Meeting your partner’s friends and acquaintances introduces you to new people and opportunities. These connections can be valuable for future career prospects or personal development. Couples often engage in social events together, enhancing their overall college experience and creating lasting memories.
College students can often feel lonely due to being far away from home. Finding companionship through a relationship is a great way to combat these feelings. College life can be stressful and exhausting, so having someone to rely on throughout college can be beneficial. When searching for a potential partner, finding someone with whom you genuinely enjoy spending quality time is essential. If they bring you happiness and you enjoy being around them, then you have likely found a suitable match.
Finding love and companionship is one of the main reasons people choose to date. Loneliness can be overwhelming for college students, especially when they are far from home. Coping with solitude can be challenging for many young adults, and having a companion can make a significant difference. According to the National Institute of Health, college students with a dating partner are less likely to experience depression and loneliness.
Dating in college also means having a study partner dedicated to academic success. This can positively influence your academic performance and make the semester more enjoyable. Additionally, sharing common interests with your significant other can lead to enjoyable activities such as partying or watching movies. If they are in the same social circle, socializing with your friends and partner can also be a fun way to spend your time in college.
Should Love Take a Backseat in Your College Journey?
Romantic relationships can sometimes come with distractions and drama. College is when you’re trying to build a foundation for your future, and relationship conflicts or breakups can create emotional turmoil. Additionally, misunderstandings, jealousy, or disagreements with a partner can divert your focus from your academic goals. Navigating the complexities of relationships can be emotionally draining and mentally distracting.
Instead of focusing on your academic goals, you may spend too much time searching for the “perfect partner”, or even committing to a relationship. This can be time-consuming and affect your ability to succeed in your chosen field. You’ll need to be there for them, which may mean foregoing other responsibilities like studying or attending classes. If your partner doesn’t share your drive and ambition, you may skip classes or neglect your coursework to spend time with them.
It’s easy to lose sight of your goals. If you’re with someone who doesn’t support your ambitions and values, they’ll distract you from what’s important, and you might find it challenging to stay on track. If you are dating someone who has more free time than you do, you’ll often make excuses to be around them instead of attending classes. No matter how hard you try to stay focused, getting sidetracked when you’re in a relationship is easy.
It’s common for peer influence to impact college students, both positively and negatively. Unfortunately, some students may start skipping classes, using drugs, or hanging out with the wrong crowd because of the negative influence of their peers. This type of relationship can lead to even more destructive behavior and ultimately harm your future. It’s crucial to be aware of signs of negative influence before becoming too involved in a toxic relationship.
College is also a period of self-discovery and personal growth. Being in a committed relationship may limit your ability to independently explore different aspects of college life. You may feel constrained by the expectations and commitments of a relationship, which could prevent you from fully embracing the freedom and opportunities that college offers. It’s essential to balance personal growth and a romantic relationship.
When it comes to dating in college, it’s essential to have a clear idea of what you want and not settle for anything less than you deserve. However, it’s also important to understand that life doesn’t always go as planned. Be prepared to accept whatever comes your way, whether finding your soulmate or stumbling upon a great deal on Cadbury Eggs during an Easter clearance sale. Ultimately, the decision to date should be based on your circumstances and priorities.


|Brayden & Juju|
|Tyce & Juj|
|Ava's got it down|
|Awe...he misses his cousin Juju~big kiss|
I'm so happy my big kids are never too busy or cool to spend time with their little cousins. They love them so much & always make a point to hang out with them and give them special attention.


Had a really good phone talk with Molly. This whole year has been so awful and I crash so frequently, as soon as I think I’m better; so I don’t know if I really am doing better or not…but I think I might be. Some of our topics, not in order:
1)She described her relationship with the 2 partners she’s with now, and I had no idea she wants the things she wants in relationships (actually a lot more traditional than me). I now completely understand how she could say she was in love with me and also not remotely want to be girlfriends with me, ever, and not have even considered it. Wow. I’ve been moping about this for six months! It wasn’t because she doesn’t like me!
2)This should have clicked when she got together with them, but I’m now realizing that the reason she gave for not wanting to play (thinking it would upset me if she had other partners) was…actually true. At the time, she never talked about dating anyone and it felt like she was coming up with random excuses and actually just wasn’t attracted to me anymore (which I tried to accept, but secretly obsessed over, wondering what I did to make her lose interest).
3)One of her partners has C-PTSD and lately Molly has had to learn a lot about it as things got rough. I tried to give advice based on stuff SP and I both deal with, and she seemed to appreciate that (I’ve never been formally diagnosed with any mental illness, and I think his diagnosis is just depression; but we both grew up in abusive families and have a lot of those kinds of traits).
Then Molly started drawing parallels between her partner and me and…it’s a huge relief. Because I’m not diagnosed, even though I do read C-PTSD/BPD/AVPD resources (whatever works), I tend to speak about things rather colloquially–like, I’m spiraling, I’m being crazy right now, or (my personal favorite) I’m getting flushed down the memory toilet. This works okay with friends who are like me, but I don’t think Molly has ever understood how things feel for me, even though I’ve tried to tell her throughout our friendship. Maybe a little in the last year, after we had the relationship talks and things got so bad and we really had to communicate carefully to salvage our friendship; but not before then.
Like, Molly always tries really hard to be polite and respectful, but to a crazy person it ends up sounding cold and making the person feel abandoned/unloved. It’s always been so hard to explain this to her. But I think with her partner, now that Molly’s hearing more technical language and reading books, she actually gets it? And it sounds like they’re having some of the same problems as Molly and me (which is validating).
I just felt touched, and sort of close to her partner, who I don’t even know; because Molly was both saying how things we’d talked about made it easier to navigate this talk with her partner, and because she was bringing me up, telling me she was realizing things about me and our interactions as well. I feel like we’ve both helped the other person’s relationship/friendship with Molly, through our communications with her…it was just nice. I feel like I can talk to Molly about things and she’ll have a basis for understanding them she didn’t have before.
Also, it made me feel less like I’m an incel and Molly’s partner is a chad. She sounds relatable.
4)I talked about my adventures (and anxieties) of the last few weeks, and she was really supportive and gave some advice/experiences. Nothing groundbreaking but helpful.
She told me that even though I’m unusual in literally not being able to kiss people or fake vanilla sex/relationships, she knows lots of people in the community (including herself) who have to do this to be happy, just like I do.
5)Most emotionally for me, I guess, I told her about the relationship anarchy stuff and what I’ve realized about how I want to conduct my friendships. Which with her means, I might ask for things that I used to feel I couldn’t ask for from a friend. Like, time, visits, telling her when my feelings are hurt, etc. She seemed happy! She told me I had always had the right to ask for those things.
I hope it will really be that way. I went to sleep happy, didn’t sleep well and woke up and cried as usual, but it was actually happy crying at the thought that maybe I never lost anything.
This is just a brief (too late) divergence from the real topic of this blog, Monster Mashing. Unfortunately, I got the dgafitude to try and achieve Monster Mashing because being “rejected” by Molly felt so bad…I hope I can still power through now that I feel less rejected.
PS–Molly was describing a specific example she read in the C-PTSD book where a guy spills a glass of water and it leads him down this “emotional flashback” train where he’s like, “I’m so clumsy, I’m going to mess up at work, I’m going to lose my job and partner and become homeless.” I only heard of emotional flashbacks in the last few months, but apparently that is what you call being flushed down the memory toilet, or spiraling.
Basically, the situation with Molly has been like…a cosmic glass of water infinitely spilling on me for 6 months! This person seemed to really want to play with me, and then abruptly stopped wanting that–>this is a punishment for something I did wrong, I asked for too much love and attention, even my own parents didn’t love me so how could I think anyone else would, etc. etc./I have no value to this person who really matters to me, I have nothing to give her if she doesn’t want to play with me, I feel like my strings have been cut and I’m floating in a black hole, etc., etc./Why did she stop wanting me so suddenly and dramatically, it must be because she realized how evil and broken I am, etc.
I was trying to power through. And I would have powered through. But the fact that I understand a little more now, and it doesn’t seem so abrupt, and it doesn’t seem like it was about her not wanting me anymore…it feels like my glass of water has been unspilled, and that’s such a gift, not having to fight through it anymore.
I hope this view of the situation lasts, anyway. I wrote all this down to try to keep it.