For me, this past Mother’s Day was spent in Wisconsin Dells at the Kalahari Resort. We were there celebrating the twins’ birthday and, of course, Mother’s Day.
Yet a couple of times throughout the day, but more so at night before falling asleep and being alone with my thoughts, I sort caught myself having a conversation with my own mother. Well, maybe not a conversation but more of a long winded, one-way, dialog between myself and a woman I never knew.
You see, my mother died when I was two years old and the only memories I have of her are ones created in my own mind. Oh sure, I’ve seen pictures and heard stories from those who knew my mother well, but it’s not the same. Hearing that “your mother loved you very much” is not the same as hearing “I love you very much.”
So there I was talking to her and explaining my life in general; essentially looking for approval I guess. I told her of the Twins’ exploits; of their likes and dislikes. I asked if she’d be proud of me and if she approved of the choices I’ve made. I thanked her for, well, everything even though she wasn’t able to be around for much of anything.
“What do you think of my wife?”, I asked. “Do you think you two would’ve gotten a long?”
“Obviously, my life can be pretty chaotic but aren’t the twins just awesome? I know you would’ve loved them and they would’ve loved you. Though it saddens me that you never got to meet them. Although in reality, it saddens me even more that I never really got to meet you.”
“I cried over you once and I’ll never forget it. ‘Your mom…’ jokes were pretty big at the time and a friend of a friend was constantly saying to me ‘Your mom (this)…’ and ‘Your mom (that)…’. It didn’t bother me at the time, but that night it really hit me and I cried. I think it was the first time I truly missed you and have been doing so ever since.”
“Did you know I went to college? Graduated with honors? Have a Master of Arts degree? I didn’t have any sort graduation parties to speak of, I sometime imagine that I did and you were there.”
“Sometimes I don’t know what’s worse, mom: if I had known you and then lost you or simply not ever have known you at all.”
The ramblings go on, but the theme is the same. When I think about and talk to my mom, the focus always seems to be You missed so much of my life. Here’s what I’ve done. What do you think?.
None of us truly know what waits for us on the other side. We think we know and we imagine what it might be like. We take it upon faith it’ll be eternal and everlasting with a joyous reunion with family members who have gone before us.
Me? I don’t know what to expect, but if there is an afterlife and my mom’s waiting for me, she better pull up a chair because she and I have a lot of catching up to do – and I’ve already got a pretty good head start on what I want to say.


In honor of Valentine's Day, here are a few things I'm loving today.
Goldilocks sock yarn from Yarn Love
Our Valentine-inspired display in the front entrance of the shop
These little goobers who spent a morning making Valentines for their friends
Something we are dyeing up in our Poste Yarn studio- details soon!
Happy Valentine's Day to you and yours!


[S5E18] Oh, What Hard Luck Stories They All Han... |BEST|
At Spencer's barn, the girls are taking a shower and trying to get a plan together for what to do about Archer Dunhill and the fact they just murdered him. Spencer and Hanna were talking when Caleb arrives and tries to open the door, but Spencer has it latched so he can't open the door all the way. He calls out for Spencer and states that he knows she's in there, and that if he has to break open a window just to make sure she's okay he will. She tells him not to, and tries to get him to leave but he doesn't want to. He thinks that the reason she won't let him in is because of what happened with Hanna, and tries to apologize by saying that what happened with Hanna was like a wound he had tried so hard to close. Spencer begs him to leave and to stop, but he continues on saying that the wound reopened and everything was confusing - but that's all that it was, a moment of confusion. Hanna listens from the other room whilst crying, but staying quiet as she didn't want Caleb to know she was there. Spencer tries again to get him to leave, and brings up an old memory about them in DC, and Spencer looks over at Hanna who is standing against a wall crying silently and listening to Caleb speak. He mentions that all he could think about was wanting to kiss Spencer, something that makes Hanna break down and cry silently as she listens. After Caleb leaves, both Spencer and Hanna wipe their tears and continue with their day.
[S5E18] Oh, What Hard Luck Stories They All Han...
Later, Hanna asks if Spencer if she had any luck at the rangers station, and Spencer asks if they can please not talk about Caleb. Hanna states that she doesn't want to be the one who messed their relationship up for either of them, and asks what she can do to fix things. Spencer tells her to figure out why she's wearing on guys ring when she may have feelings for another, before leaving. 041b061a72


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This festival celebrates the love and unique bond between brother and sister. Along with the traditional tying of the rakhi and prayers, gifts are often given to show care and appreciation. A Bela and Co gift card is the ultimate gift of choice for any festivities, so go ahead and make her day!
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A warm, incisive new novel about the enduring bonds of marriage and friendship from the author of the instant New York Times bestseller The Nest.
Advance praise for Good Company:
Cynthia D’Aprix Sweeney plumbs the depths of marriage, motherhood, and friendship with warmth and wit. I devoured it in one gulp! Treat yourself to some Good Company.”
Maria Semple, Author of Where’d You Go, Bernadette
Cynthia D’Aprix Sweeney’s rich love story about friends who become family is generous and heartbreaking and true. I loved The Nest and I love Good Company even more.”
Jade Chang, Author of The Wangs vs. the World
"What happens when one accidental discovery changes everything you believe about yourself and the people you love? Cynthia Sweeney's unforgettable characters are so real, so human, and such good company (pun intended) as they struggle with profound questions about the lines between loyalty and secrecy, self-interest and self-preservation—and in doing so, ask us to do the same. GOOD COMPANY is a beautifully nuanced meditation on marriage and friendship—their messiness and limitations, but also their boundless capacity for reinvention.”
Lori Gottlieb, Author of Maybe You Should Talk to Someone


Third Sunday of Easter - Rev. Russell Johnson
When he was at table with them, he took the bread and blessed and broke it and gave it to them. And their eyes were opened, and they recognized him. And he vanished from their sight. They said to each other, "Did not our hearts burn within us while he talked to us on the road, while he opened to us the scriptures?"


So today I told Zoe that I like r.Nexttomytutor , and she said she kinda already knew. I don’t know why I like him. but I always look at him, but what’s weird is that I always see him looking back at me too. I wonder what goes around in his mind.. but still june likes him too.. and I cant tell her tht I like him. it wud break her heart.. :L gosh.. this s hard
Found out that my friend Jimmy likes Sala, and she likes him too. but too bad they cant be together co she’s too young , I mean he’s yr 11 ad she’s yr 8. and people would judge, I mean I wont, coz they’re my frends and they’re cute :) but others… they would .
Omg, yesterday, I saw him! I didnt know that his tutor was right next to miiine!!!! XD hahaaha, and we had eye contact for like a long timeee ! and yes i have a crush on him.. but my best friend like LOVES him, i cant like him, but i cant stop myself hahaha,. and sometimes we come to school at the same time and i don’t know that he’s actually right behind me XD or he’s next to mee !! hhaha, but its just a crush. and he wouldnt like me haha, i’m a NERD ! -.- haha, and yea, i still have feelings for uknwwho, the one who broke my heart. but i’m getting over him . little by little, but then when i think of the old times, i go back to square one. ugghh, so hard to get over someone you loved so much. but anyway, i’ll probably stick with the mr. next to my tutor haha ;) <3


i hope i frustrate you and you think about me a lot
- Intimacy. Hold my waist. Stroke my neck. Kiss my forehead. Hold my hand.
- Maturity. Patience is amazing. A prize will come to you when the time is right. Its called falling in love. Waiting is hard. But worth it.
- Honesty. I don’t care what you’ve done. I care about what you will do in the future. Be honest with me, I’ll be honest with you.
- Care. Because not many people give a crap about anything anymore.
So all you men don't forget how to treat your lady
In the past, we have discussedÂ 10 Ways A Good Woman Will Make You A Better Man, but what I think often goes overlooked is that a woman like this won’t just be with any schmuck. If you want a woman …


LOS ANGELES -- The Dodgers closed out their series against the Braves on Monday night, thanks in large part to six stellar innings from Clayton Kershaw on three days rest. In the clubhouse after the win, Kershaw shared an embrace with Sandy Koufax amid champagne and beer flying around them.
Here is video, per the Dodgers:
Kershaw shared his thoughts on the meeting of the two greatest pitchers in Dodgers franchise history.
"He's just happy for us. Sandy is such a great guy. I think he genuinely cares about not only this team but kind of our well being," Kershaw said. "He cares about us. That's awesome.
"I have a great relationship with him. I have a ton of respect for him. To get a hug and get a good job from a guy like that, from a guy that's been there, from a guy that's done this before and was the best at it for a long time is pretty special."
That wasn't the only special moment Kershaw had after the game, as he was also able to celebrate with his wife Ellen.


Do you know what magnetic messaging is? Do you want to learn how it works? Well, keep reading this article to find out more. When you meet this attractive girl, and you get her number, you have just made the first step toward winning her heart. If you wish to get to know her, aiming to get her out on a date or get to 2nd base, the first texts to her will determine where she places you regarding possibilities. So, be sure to learn the magnetic messaging secret and get to know her nicely and smoothly. How do this magnetic messaging works?
The First Text
This first text is the one that sets the standard for you. It will determine whether you are worth her time or a waste of time. So what are you going to text? “Hey, how are you” sounds like a good place to start, right? It is a blunt text with no juice. If she liked you and noticed you as much as you did her she will obviously reply. But what you want to do is not just start every other conversation. You want to text her and build a relationship. You want to make her think of you and want to talk to you real bad. So start smart, yet simple, making her want to read more of your texts.
A good place to start is your point of contact. Like if you met at a party, you could start with a subtle flirt complimenting her dress or dancing. “That dress cradled your curves and gave you such a dreamy appeal on the dance floor… I’m afraid I may have thought naughty things. I really couldn’t stop thinking of you since then.” It is a layered text with flattery, compliments, and a little sensuality. It lets the girl decide which way to take the conversation. One thing’s for sure though, she will reply to that text, and you will have gotten her wanting more of your words.
Going On With the Conversation
Now you need to know something about the text as you learn how to text a girl. It’s an investment you are making to begin this relationship. However cheap of a way it is to communicate, you should never make it cheap. Take your time to write the text so that she sees you took the time. It is the beginning of treating her good. Lavish her with compliments and make her feel like a queen. She will look at you as her lifter upper, and there’s nothing so precious than someone who makes you feel good. Treat her so good on the text that when her phone beeps a text in, her heart skips a beat out.
Being Wise in Your Texts
You need to remember something important. As you are texting this girl that has your attention, she is probably doing something else. You need to know her well enough to know what time is best to text her. It is a benefit to you as it helps you not feel neglected when you don’t get a reply. By knowing her routine, you also get to know when she is available to chat. Then you might start with something cocky like “I saw you staring at me waiting for me to say something… so hello.” It gets her to know you are thinking of her. This few tips are golden rules on how to start texting a girl.


In the journey of marriage, it’s easy to get caught up in the day-to-day responsibilities and challenges that come with building a life together. However, amidst the hustle and bustle of daily life, it’s crucial to take a step back and reflect on the bigger picture – the relationship vision. According to a study published in the Journal of Family Psychology, couples who reported having a shared relationship vision experienced higher levels of marital satisfaction and commitment.
In this blog, we’ll explore why having a relationship vision is essential in a marital relationship.
- Shared Goals and Values: The study also found that couples who articulated shared goals and values were more likely to navigate challenges effectively and experience greater marital harmony. By discussing and aligning on what they envision for their relationship, couples can create a strong foundation based on mutual understanding and agreement.
- Enhanced Communication: Establishing a relationship vision encourages open and honest communication between partners. According to research from the Gottman Institute, couples who communicate effectively are better able to resolve conflicts and maintain emotional connection. This shared vision creates a safe space for couples to express their desires, concerns, and expectations for the relationship.
- Unity and Partnership: A relationship vision promotes a sense of unity and partnership within the marriage. According to a survey by the National Marriage Project, couples who reported feeling like a team and working towards common goals were more likely to experience marital satisfaction and longevity. This shared sense of purpose strengthens the marital bond and reinforces the idea that they are in it together, through thick and thin.
- Motivation and Commitment: Having a clear relationship vision motivates couples to invest time, effort, and resources into their marriage. According to a longitudinal study published in the Journal of Personality and Social Psychology, couples who reported a strong sense of purpose in their relationship were more likely to maintain commitment and satisfaction over time.
- Adaptability and Growth: A relationship vision encourages couples to adapt and grow together over time. As life circumstances change and evolve, couples can revisit their vision, reassess their priorities, and make adjustments as needed. This flexibility ensures that the relationship remains relevant and meaningful, even as external factors shift.
- Long-lasting Fulfillment: Ultimately, a relationship vision contributes to long-lasting fulfillment and satisfaction in the marriage. By actively working towards their shared goals and values, couples create a sense of fulfillment and purpose in their relationship. This deep sense of satisfaction forms the bedrock of a strong, resilient, and fulfilling marriage.
In conclusion, a relationship vision is essential in a marital relationship as it provides clarity, direction, and purpose to the partnership. By articulating shared goals and values, enhancing communication, fostering unity and partnership, motivating commitment, promoting adaptability and growth, and cultivating long-lasting fulfillment, couples can build a strong and meaningful bond that stands the test of time. So, take the time to craft your relationship vision together with your partner and watch as it transforms your marriage into a journey of love, growth, and fulfillment.
Prepared by Yong Song Sheng, Corporate Mental Health Trainer


The key to any successful relationship is communication. That sounds like cliche dating advice, but it actually applies to the relationships throughout your life. Every relationship — from business to personal, to creative — starts with communication. Being transparent, honest, and direct with others builds trust and allows you to work together more effectively. If you’re forging a new, collaborative relationship, you should focus on your ability to communicate with one another first. Without effective communication skills, the rest of the relationship will fall apart.
Be Considerate of How You Communicate with Each Other
Different people communicate differently; it’s a product of each person’s upbringing. You may be a visual communicator. You may like to thoroughly explain something before starting on it, and you may expect to receive the same sort of explanation from the other person. How you communicate will affect how you collaborate. If you’re able to let your partner know how you communicate, they’ll better understand you, and they’ll know when to ask questions. If you fail to understand why your partner communicates the way they do, you may become frustrated or confused.
Choose a Space that Fuels Your Collaboration
Based on the nature of your collaborative relationship with another person, you may choose a variety of different work spaces. If the two of you are working on a project remotely, you may work independently and communicate by email. If you’re working together in the same room, you’ll want to choose a room that fuels your collaboration. An open, well-lit space encourages communication and openness. You may be surprised by how your work space affects your willingness and ability to communicate.
Dunn Brothers Coffee in Coralville Is Your Collaboration Station
We’re a team of collaborators, all fueled by our passion for coffee. We understand the value of strong communication between team members, and we’ve built a space that reflects that core value. Natural light, community seating, and an open floor plan are all assets for your collaboration. To learn about our menu of food selections and coffee roasts, contact Dunn Brothers Coffee in Coralville, IA at 319-665-2020.


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No matter what happens between my Man and I, I will always be his and he will always be mine(: xx I Love You, Thomas(: xx <3
Love Always Prevails.
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Improved Relationships = More Money
As a financial lending institution, you need to be able to balance risk and relationships. Beyond balancing, you need to build stronger relationships between you and your commercial customers. Improving your relationship banking can ultimately increase revenue for your lending institution.
Relationship banking is when financial institutions use their personal knowledge of the borrower over time to overcome roadblocks. This personalized decision-making gives the loan approval process more flexibility.
Reasons to Improve Your Relationship Banking
By taking the time to build relationships with your clients, relationship banking increases revenue for lending institutions. It increases the likelihood that the borrower would return to your institution for future loans. That means there could even be more referral business.
Customers like personalized service (who doesn’t love some individualized catering?). So when you build a personalized relationship with each and every one of your customers, that gives your financial institution an edge over the larger institutions who don’t have the same proximity to the community and have a larger customer base.
And, long-lasting connections with your customers allows you to stand out against competing lenders who are all vying for the same business.
On the other side of lending, your borrower benefits, too. They don’t need as many collateral requirements over time. That personalized service goes a long way in increasing the likelihood of loan approval and the longer your relationship lasts with the client – there’s more understanding of their needs. It’s also important to keep in mind that there would be increased credit availability the longer the relationship endures.
How to Improve Your Customer Relationship
Strengthening your relationship with the client means upping your customer service game! First and fore most, be yourself and be genuine. Your customers will be able to see right through the fake smiles and talk. Follow these steps to start improving your relationship banking:
Get to Know Your Customer’s Needs
Each borrower has different needs. Research your prospective borrower before you meet to get a sense of his or her needs. Start every interaction with your client by asking questions such as, ‘What don’t you like about your business and why do you need something different?’ Make sure to follow up with more specific questions such as, ‘What are you trying to accomplish?’ You want to be able to offer a solution.
In most situations, the lenders do most of the talking. But, if you don’t listen to your client, you may not understand your client’s issue enough to offer a solution.
The financial services association, BAI, recommends to “Listen and solve. That’s how you build ongoing relationships one transaction at a time.”
Be a Consultant
Don’t be a pushy salesman attempting to control the outcome. Simply demonstrate your lending expertise and provide guidance. Or else, your customer is out.
It’s More than Business
This is the most important tip we can offer. Your customer has a personal life – a family, birthday, holidays. Show them that you care by sending him or her a birthday card, thank you cards, and investing time into learning about their children, spouse or background. If your customer feels a personal connection with you, you’ve won their business.


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Are you high or something anon? There’s no way Rachel would do such a thing. Who would she even do that with? Just stop, you’re seriously making no sense at all.
How can I be blind to that? I haven’t even met him yet. You’re not making any sense.
If I don’t see what, anon?
There could be things about him that you might not approve of. You don’t know that. But I do care…she’s my favorite teacher, and all.
Maybe. I guess I’ll have to wait and see when I meet him.
Oh… I see… well I guess it’ll be customary to meet him then.
Yes. He’s basically everything she’s ever wanted in a man. So he already has my approval. Though, I’m not sure why I’m telling you, you probably don’t care.
Thank you. I may just take you up on that offer soon. Depending on if things get better or not..
Anytime, Blaine. My office door is always open and you have this to reach me on if need be.
She said you’re gonna meet him?
Eventually. I mean she is one of my best friends after all. Her and Ms. Lopez.
I know that, it’s just hard. I mean, every kid wants the acceptance and love of their parents, right?
Yes. I understand where you’re coming from, my father and I we never really saw eye to eye. So I mean, if you ever need someone to talk to.
Something like that. I’m happy that she’s happy, too. She’s great.
She is. I’ve seen her with a bunch of losers back in high school and I’m glad she’s finally happy. I can’t wait to meet him.
Yeah. I have a feeling she will.
I feel like the lovebug is going around Lima or something. Or maybe it just seems that way because you and Rach- Ms. Berry are always talking about your significant others.


Finding love is not easy. They say it is better to let love find you than the other way around. Finding the one may take a second or the rest of your lives. For many single men and women, especially during the Valentines season, a day without any special someone is an omen in itself. There are a lot of ways, ideas and tips found on books, horoscopes and movies about searching for your soul mate and the perfect partner that fits the very concept of marriage. Here are a few pointers that can help you throughout the process:
1.Live life as it is. Searching for Prince Charming is not an occupation that will get you paid and will help you with your daily needs. Just take each day lightly and do not put so much effort in rummaging through profiles in online networks and newspapers. Remember: Love will come for you.
2.Never be afraid to meet someone new. If you want to explore possible relationships, do not hide yourself from public. Just welcome possibilities of meeting new people. "Luv" can be discovered from anywhere and not grabbing chances will make waiting longer.
3.It's all about positivity. Any girl who's looking for a boyfriend should have a positive outlook. If you've easily given up on love, it will show through your aura. Just pray and be positive. It will come when you least expect it so do not be too edgy and use the time to make yourself ready for that someone.


The Promise Behind Promise Rings
A guide to Couple Wedding Rings Meaning
Promise rings symbolize love. When worn on any of the fingers, a promise ring represents the couple’s dedication to their relationship. Find out more about the history of promise rings, what they represent and the best way to present one.
This blog will cover:
What is the history behind the promise ring?
What does a promise ring signify?
What’s the difference between a promise ring and an engagement ring?
Which finger do you have with a promise ring?
How do you gift someone a the promise ring?
What are the different styles of promise rings?
A 10K rose gold heart-motif ring is set with diamonds of 0.01 carat (ct) diamond.
What is the history behind the promise Ring?
In the Late Middle Ages (13th-16th centuries), men gave posy rings as tokens of romance to their partners. Posy rings-whose name comes from poesie, French for poetry or poem — were often decorated with romantic quotes like “united hearts, death just parts” or “love overcomes all obstacles.” Choosing an apt message reflected the gifter’s literary giftedness or education.
This posy ring from 1400s is inscribed with “oue tout mon coeur,” French for “with all my heart.” It features an garnet and a sapphire that are placed side-by-side. This makes it a traditional toi et moi (you and me) rings. Courtesy: The Victoria & Albert Museum (London).
A more elaborate form of promise ring–the acrostic ring–became popular in the Georgian (1714-1837) and Victorian (1837-1901) period. The rings were made with gemstones and the initial letter of the gem’s name was used to spell out a secret. As an example, setting lapis, opals, tourmaline, and emeralds on a single ring spells out “love.”
What does a promise ring mean?
In the Middle Ages, as with now, promise rings symbolize love. The significance of a promise engagement ring is unique to each couple. But in general when exchanged or gifted, promise rings signal the commitment of a couple to a special relationship. Promise rings aren’t engagement rings but they can serve as placeholder rings if couples are waiting for marriage or as mementos in the event of a separation due to distance. Promise rings show to others that the relationship is real and not merely a brief passion. They are also beautiful expressions of love for people who love a partner, but are not in the process to marry.
What is the difference between the promise ring and the engagement ring?
A promise ring could point towards the engagement ring, but their meanings are very different. A promise ring is a sign of a commitment to take the relationship seriously. It also represents hope for the relationship’s future growth. Engagement rings are a sign of wedding. Promise rings, on the other hand, do not. Promise rings should also not be confused with purity rings, which are self-purchased or given by parents to their children in order in order to promote abstinence prior the marriage.
Which finger should I wear to make a promise?
Promise rings are easily placed anywhere on the finger. The ring finger, middle finger on the right or left hand and the middle or fourth fingers on the right hand are all popular options. Many wear a promise ring on necklaces. Couples who are married will typically switch their promise ring from their left hand to their right hand after the wedding.
How can you give the promise ring of someone?
In the past men gave promise rings to women. Nowadays, men trade rings with their girlfriends while other couples exchange rings. In a lot of Asian nations, couples purchase promise rings together to place on their finger as a symbol of engagement.
Promise rings are usually presented to celebrate special occasions, like holidays, birthdays, or anniversaries, but they can be presented at any time. It is crucial to discuss with your partner prior to giving a promise ring or the ring may be mistaken for an engagement ring, and the confusion might ruin the special moment.
You must discuss the meaning of the promise ring with your spouse. Promise rings aren’t just a token of love. They carry a distinct significance for every couple. When giving or exchanging promise rings, couples will frequently discuss the significance of their relationship to them at the moment and what the ring will mean for the future.
What are the various styles of promise rings?
It is essential to be simple when it comes to promise rings because most users don’t want be interpreted as engagement rings. But that doesn’t mean they can’t be equally meaningful. Some of the most sought-after designs include rings with heart-shaped patterns and knots of love. Infinity symbols, engravings, and fingerprints, as along with roman numerals for names and dates for anniversary are also very popular. Claddagh rings, fede rings, eternity bands, and plain diamonds are also popular choices. Couples planning to get married can purchase simple promise rings that later serve as wedding rings or as stackable rings for promise rings.
Rings for promise can be constructed out of any metal, and can be adorned with any kind of gemstone. Rose gold is becoming more popular. Yellow and white gold are both classics. Sterling silver is a gorgeous alternative for those on a budget, especially since sterling silver represents truth and the purity. Think about birthstones when picking the right gemstone to give it a bit of extra meaning and color.
The promise ring is not just about love, but it is a symbol of love. They honor a relationship by making it visible and signify a couple’s dreams of the future together. If you’re in search of an unforgettable way to express your love and commitment to each other, think about giving or exchanging promise rings to express how much your partner means to you.
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So I made a new twitter account @cutefloristry, and I posted this image of two guys sharing their love and one giving flowers to another. It’s been getting replies saying ‘yuck’ because of the homophobes. Why can’t people understand that gay people can love each other just as straight people can?
why is it so hard for you all to accept the fact that some people believe marriage should be between a man and a woman?
ur the type of people that need to realise that it is the year 2014 not the year 14 xx


Over the years, Hein-Willem Leeraar has supported many people in their search for a friendly termination, compromise and new beginnings. There are all sorts of separations: a separation between a husband and wife, but also a separation between two brothers, for example, or between a father and his son.
If it’s apparent a relationship can no longer hold, it’s essential to terminate it as quickly and well as possible. Because only if a separation has been given full attention, steps towards the future can be made. So, separate sensibly! This is an important moment both in the private as well as the business context.
You have many questions. Both or one of the partners cut the knot. Your ways part. You never had so many questions to ask yourself and your partner. Emotional questions that you more often than not have the answer to. Still, the business aspects can be summarized into one question: how will I take care of business?
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If the pandemic has taught us anything, it’s the value of our relationships and the importance of staying connected even when apart. According to a recent survey, three-quarters of respondents said isolation was difficult, but they were more concerned with their relationships with family, friends, neighbors, and co-workers. They value it (76%). However, two in five women said the pandemic had negatively affected their relationships with family and friends (40%). Another 38% say they feel lonely, and 3 in 10 (30%) often feel left out, depressed or inadequate after using social media. One of the best ways to strengthen relationships is by showing appreciation. Whether you want to show your appreciation to your partner, friends, or family, here are some of the best ways, according to experts:
Ways to Appreciate Others
- Say thank you for appreciate them
Sometimes I forget why my parents taught me to say “thank you” so early. But believe it or not, thank you is a significant word to show someone that you appreciate them, she explains Ana De La Cruz of LMFT. It may sound simple, but relationships can change. Speak well in a sincere tone.
- Pay attention
Listen and pay attention when they talk or share something with you. It verifies. You can also use their shared details to find another opportunity to show your appreciation later. This shows what you’ve heard: Holly Schiff, PsyD, Chartered Clinical Psychologist.
- Listen empathetically
Give them space to vent their emotions when they are having a difficult day. Listening without judging shows your appreciation for who the other person is.
- Write words of gratitude for appreciate them
Writing skills help a lot. A thank you letter can show someone how much you appreciate what they’ve done for you by taking your precious time, says De La Cruz. I always remind couples of the importance of saying, “Thank you for changing the toilet paper.”
- Be Reliable
Be on time, keep your promises and do what you say. Don’t let them feel unappreciated or taken for granted. Show that you value their time and that they want to spend time with you.
- Be accurate
Instead of pointing out and naming behaviors, Hutchison explains, focus on the person’s characteristics. Thank them for being helpful, thoughtful, and sincere.
- actions speak louder than words
De La Cruz has probably heard the adage, “Don’t do it.” Do something nice to show your partner or family that you appreciate them. Bring their favorite coffee. Cook her favorite food. Do the laundry and let them know why you did it. “I am so grateful you cleaned the house yesterday, so I cooked your favorite meal.”
- Brighten up your day with plants and flowers
Show your appreciation with a beautiful arrangement. When they see your gift, they’ll remember your gratitude, Hutchison says.
- Make small sacrifices for appreciate them
This shows that you care so much about the other person that you put their needs and desires above your own. Transport. This indicates not only gratitude but also selflessness and love.
- Try to be available
If your spouse did something nice for you this morning and you want to thank them later, make it available, explains De La Cruz. Please give them your full attention, look them in the eye, smile, and tell them when you see them acting differently. I am thrilled, and I appreciate it.”
Praise them for who they are, their positive traits and qualities, and their successes. You can also notice and appreciate transport.
- Recommend articles they might be interested in
Arlene B. Englander, LCSW, MBA, said, “Send an article on a topic that you think will be informative and useful to someone. Our friends will appreciate our interest, and we will. It’s always nice to know that you want to keep us up to date on what’s happening.
- Be careful
One of the principles of applied behavior analysis is that if you want to reinforce a behavior—that is, if you want that behavior to occur again you need to strengthen or reward that behavior, explains De La Cruz. To do. Showing appreciation for the actions of others makes them more likely to do so again. What step do you want to repeat? “
- Focus on specific behaviors and express appreciation
The key here is to be specific! In everyday life, it is easy to leave a “thank you.” Mollie Eliasof, a psychotherapist, private counselor, and host of the More with Mollie podcast, makes people feel recognized. It explains that you will be able to understand what is helping your life.
- share the fun for appreciate them
Send her humorous comedy skits to anyone who can use a laugh, says the Englishman. Laughter is therapeutic for all of us, and when you find a routine that makes you laugh out loud, sharing that experience with someone is a great gift.
- Smile and maintain eye contact
This works wonders! Elias explains that showing gratitude is easy. It’s easy for those around us to overlook or not notice it. By taking the time to maintain eye contact, you can be together in this moment of gratitude.
- physical contact
Physical touch communicates that you feel accepted and cared for. Physical contact and intimacy promote well-being and well-being and create compassion in interactions. By creating feelings of huffy acceptance, happiness, and understanding, you can show someone that you care. It can be displayed.
- Always take something off the plate
We all have work to do every day; he says Eliasof. A brighter day gives you a little more space to breathe and relax.
- Incorporate small gestures
Small gestures like opening the door, a kiss on the forehead, or a long hug are small ways to make someone feel loved. Hafiz As the old saying goes, actions speak louder than words. Because of this, people sometimes value efforts over gifts and expressions. These small gestures show that you care and care about them.
- Say thank you with personal feedback
It’s good to say thank you to someone or something they’ve done, but clearly explain why something was so important to you or how others have affected you. Providing specific feedback on whether or not you’ve been successful creates a deeper connection. Said this.
- Write down words for appreciate them
Do this where you can see it every day, says Eliason. A text or a quick email may feel like an easy way out, but taking the time to write your gratitude somewhere you can report it goes a long way!
- Create a photo album or memory book
Create something meaningful for them. Highlight the part of your relationship or life you are most proud of. You can hold it forever and rely on it when you need a smile or pick me up.
- Find your partner’s (or friend’s) love language
Her five love languages are quality time, service, physical contact, positive words, and receiving gifts. Knowing the love language of your partner, family, or friends can help you find the best way to express love and appreciation. Love language will not always be the same. If you encounter quality time as your partner’s love language, book a trip that allows you to spend a lot of time together.
- Create cute, funny, and heartfelt videos
A video is a fun way to share appreciation with someone, something that others can forever remember and relate to. Mac Speak from the heart or add some humor to show who that person is. Or let someone know that you appreciate what they have done.
- Show off how helpful you are to others
Nothing beats feeling like an All-Star. Mr. Eliasof, tell others in front of them how much you appreciate their efforts and actions in your life.
- Make a list of your top 10 favorite things about someone
Be specific about what they bring to the world, their unique gift, and why you love them. We all want to be seen, and this token of appreciation will go a long way.
- No need to wait if you can do it now
If you refrain from showing gratitude, the other person will probably feel like you’re not. And by the time they do, they may already have developed resentments that will be difficult to undo later, says Dr. Help. This begins with perception and relaxation. Please note what your partner does daily to take care of you and your family and write it down. James V. Dr. Cordova, professor of psychology at Clark University in Worcester, Massachusetts, said: It may be just for yourself at first, but keeping a gratitude journal at the end of the day is a great habit. And when you get bold, you can share it with your partner.
- If you can meet face to face, do so
She says that this can accentuate your representation of her and increase her emotional significance and range of expression.
- Encourage emotional expression and respond accordingly
To encourage your partner to open up to you emotionally, you need to promote emotional expression and respond with a genuine affirmation of the level of expression your partner is doing. Cordoba. Then ask what you can do to help.
When someone does something good for you, you return the favor by providing them with a helpful or meaningful service, says LCPC licensed psychotherapist The Financial Mindset Fix: A Mental Fitness. Joyce Marter, the author of Program for an Abundant life, explained.
Donate to someone’s favorite charity, says Dr. Natalie Bernstein, psychologist and mental health coach. It’s a great way to positively recognize people you don’t know well without buying something too personal.
- Send an e-card
If you have limited time, e-cards are a great way to say thank you quickly. E-cards have their personality and are often welcomed in busy mailboxes, says Dr. Carla Marie Manley, clinical psychologist, speaker, and author of the forthcoming book Date Smart.
- Give love to social media
Please like, share, or comment on their posts, Marter says. Please nominate and endorse on LinkedIn, Google, etc.
The surprise element is a great way to show appreciation. Whether you’re planning a date night, unexpectedly bringing your favorite meal to the office, or buying a small gift for a loved one, unexpected treats are always a hit.
- Care packages
Dr. Manly says sending care packages is a great way to show appreciation. Even the most straightforward care package says “thank you!” whether the package contains homemade treats or store-bought items.
- Invite them to do meaningful things together
Spend quality time together. Put them first and consider doing something they enjoy and don’t want to do, says Marter. There’s always a reason to throw a party, and an awards party is easy, says Dr. Amber. When his husband worked long hours, we held a surprise party for him. We made signs, cooked his favorite foods, and wrote cards to tell him how much we appreciated his efforts.
- Build a basket of homemade produce
A summer garden produces its bounty, and sharing fruits and vegetables can be a great way to show appreciation. Manly. Handing out baskets or bags filled with homegrown produce is a meaningful and time-honored way to show genuine appreciation to others.
- Leave thank you sticky notes at home, work, or in the car
Simple messages like “thank you,” “thank you,” and “I love you” can lift someone’s spirits and enrich their day, explains Marter.
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Please help me and say “thank you very much.” Virtue Supplements Ph.D. and CEO Jaclyn Bauer said: Helping them choose something from their plate is a great help and a way to let them know how you feel.
- Try to find small, thoughtful gestures that relate to what happened that week
Make it a game. Try to be as creative as possible to pick something out of the conversations and events in your spouse’s or partner’s day or week, says Jason Drake, LCSW-S Chief Clinician, and Katy. Owner of Teen and Family Counseling. for example, Your spouse, partner, or friend may express frustration at not feeling heard or valued at work. During the week, you can follow up with cards and a list of essential things to you in your relationship with them.
According to Mango’s clinic therapist Amber O’Brien, his bosses and managers can praise their employees for their hard work and progress. It makes him feel great and more productive at his job, even with his family and friends.
- Being there emotionally and physically
If you value this person, they were probably there for you somehow, says Dr. Farmer. Reward this behavior and show them how much you appreciate them by being there for them emotionally and physically.


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Being a parent can sometimes be hard work and there are lots of different pressures and strains you might come across within your family as your children and teenagers grow up.
Parents tell us that by understanding more about why their children and teenagers behave in certain ways at different times of their lives really helps improve family relationships, emotional health and wellbeing. Also parents tell us how helpful it is to find out more about how their child or teenager is learning and developing.
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I have been surrounded by insecure love, fake people, situations that have to be forced because there isn’t instantaneous soul connections or the bond of having ridden the waves of ugliness and beauty – the history of years to support the friendship; and, I arrive in a house filled with love for my very being, dogs trampling over each other to lick my hands and babies that fall asleep in my arms during our first meeting. I am surrounded by the reminder that I am okay, that it takes being around people that you love as genuinely as they love you to remember that comfort comes from being in spaces that feel comfortable to you. You will feel love when it is there and it doesn’t matter how much time you spend away from each other because you will always be the same people. They rejoice for me on my journey and open up about the trials and tribulations of their confusing relationships. I hold space for their pain and fear and our hearts grow bigger.


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Prayers for struggling marriages
Holy amazing Father, I pray that you draw anyone in need of this prayer to this page, so you can speak to them.
Father this world is crushing at times. All around me I see married couples struggling. What is so hard about relationships that husbands and wives around the world are crumbling under the weight of this world, the pressures of life, the demands of family and work?
Father I pray your Holy Spirit into anyone in a sinking marriage, anyone contemplating separation, or divorce. I’ve been in that boat before and I know how scary and enticing the idea of divorce is. It seems so easy to give up and start over. It’s far too easy to fall into the enemy’s trap of “The source of your problems is your spouse. Get rid of him/her and you’ll be happy.” I renounce that lie of the enemy from anyone who believes it. I pray that your people realize that the ENEMY is their enemy, that there is a demonic spirit of divorce whose sole purpose is to destroy Godly marriages. I speak the name and blood of Jesus over that spirit, that the spirit of divorce is destroyed and cannot have another marriage for his books.
Lord I pray that your children hear your voice and know that you love them so much, that your love covers all of our sins, and can wash clean the slate of pain, hurt, disrespect, and the feeling of being unloved in their marriages.
My heart breaks for your children who feel like they were lied to and who feel like they are suffocating in a marriage that no longer offers them happiness. God you know I know what it’s like: feeling overwhelmed, feeling more alone than ever, crying alone in bed night after night, pleading with you to change my heart and change my husband’s heart. Abba, father, scoop up your children in your loving arms and heal their broken hearts. Start changing their hearts and their perspective of their spouse so they may love him or her with YOUR love. Let them see their spouse with heavenly eyes, so they will realize that they are married to the right person. Father, if you joined man and woman in your name, then they should not be separated. I bind the enemy against lying to your children that they married the wrong person, that there’s no hope, and that it’s over.
I pray for united and healthy marriages in your name. I pray for couples to recognize that they have a covenant bond, not a contract that can be easily broken. Father, please reveal to them your purposes and your love for marriage. Let them see that marriage can be both fulfilling and satisfying when you are at the center – when you are the cornerstone.
I pray that your children focus their eyes on you, and that they work on being a better spouse, instead of blaming their husband or wife for the unhappiness they feel.
Daddy God, you hate divorce because it hurts your people. I pray in your name that anyone considering divorce binds up those thoughts and places them under the rock which is Jesus.
Heal broken hearts in the name of Jesus. Unify and purify married hearts to one another.
I pray this in your precious name, Amen.
“Therefore what God has joined together, let no man separate.” Mark 10:9
“Make every effort to keep the unity of the Spirit through the bond of peace.” Ephesians 4:3
“And over all these virtues put on love, which binds them all together in perfect unity.” Colossians 3:14


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Things I Love Thursday: Unexpected Flowers!
My husband doesn’t buy me flowers often… which I actually like. That way when I do get them, they are extra special!
I woke up this morning and found these beauties! Along with a card that made me cry. See, it’s our anniversary and I absolutely love that man of mine.
Four years ago, we got hitched.
Ah look at us. So young, so in love.
Four years later we are a little older, a little bit more tired and we both have shorter hair. But we are still very much in love with each other and our two little munchkins. This is definitely a thing that I love.
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During this week’s class, Daniel talked us through the importance of creating a concept that people actually need, that doesn’t already exist, as well as finding research through existing apps and users.
One of the first things he talked us through is how to conduct a SWOT analysis for our product ideas.
I found that this would be very helpful in terms of choosing a final idea, as I have a list of a few ideas that I’m not sure what to do with, or how strong any of them actually are.
List of initial ideas:
- a touch-based app which allows you and someone else to communicate over long distances using touch alone
- an app for dividing up finances
- an app for reading/learning sign language
I composed a SWOT analysis for each idea:
This really helped me to see each of my ideas from a new perspective, and to see which was most balanced between strengths and weaknesses.
I think the least strongest idea was an app for dividing up finances, as I was able to name two different apps that already exist in that category. I don’t want to create an app that already exists.
In terms of the other two ideas, I think both are as strong as each other. The sign language translation and learning app is a much more helpful app, whereas I feel a more personal connection with the physical touching app, as the pandemic has made it much harder to stay in physical contact with friends and family.
I have decided to choose the app based on physical touch from long-distances. I feel very personally connected to this idea, as long-distance relationships with family and friends has been a big struggle, particularly in the more recent years, and it seems like a really nice concept to me. I think it would be beneficial for a lot of people struggling emotionally during the pandemic.
Between is an app designed for long-distanced couples. It tailors to all their needs, including phone calls, countdowns to their next meet-up, photo galleries and chat rooms. The aim of the app is to be able to store precious memories of the relationship on the couple’s phones, to which they can look back on when they wish to.
Overall, the app seems to be pretty well received. People seem to most like the fact that they can store memories to look back on. It also keeps them up to date with their own relationship, and gives them a timeline of events using pictures. One of the main negatives I saw in the reviews was the uncertainty about the security of the app, and how the app uses your data and information. It uses things such as browsing history, location, contacts, phone activity, without any explanation as to why. This would understandably make a lot of people uneasy.
Nujj is an app that lets you send your partner ‘nudges’ by shaking your phone. You simply shake your phone and your partner’s phone will vibrate. The app is designed as a way of telling the other person that you are thinking of them in that moment, to which they can send a response by nudging back. The app has a variety of other features, too. You can send messages with photos and audios, keep track of dates, set reminders, send your location and create a timeline of events. You can also send your partner reminders or notifications for things for them to do on the app.
I was very surprised to find the abundance of negative reviews for this app, but then I realised they were all relating to the functionality of the app, and how it is doesn’t seem to work very well, but that the overall concept of the app is good. Most reviews agree that it is a good concept or idea, and that it would be beneficial if the app actually functioned as it should.
I also wanted to gather some data and statistics about people living long-distance with their partner or friends, as well as people’s struggle to find emotional connections during the Covid-19 Pandemic.
- 14 million couples define themselves as having a long distance relationship
- 3.75 million married couples are in a long distance relationship
- 32.5 % of all long distance relationships are college relationships
- 75 % of all engaged couples have been (at some point) in a long distance relationship
- 2.9 % of all married couples in the states live in a long distance relationship
- 10 % of all marriages in the states started out as a long distance relationship
- On average, most people in long distance relationships tend to be at least 125 miles away from each other.
- They tend to visit each other less than twice a month and call each other at least once every three days.
- A 2018 survey of long-distance couples found that 27% had never lived near each other. About 50% of couples in the survey had met each other online.
- One-quarter of internet users with recent dating experience (24%) have used the internet or email to maintain a long-distance romantic relationship.
After conducting research from a range of sources, including both around long-distance relationships and the impact of covid-19 onto mental health and emotional health, I have found that I want to combine these two struggles into one helpful app. I want to create a touch-based app that will allow users to feel more connected with each other.


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Jun 24, 2012 · I think you make some valid points about why men go back to their ex-girlfriends. If my boyfriend goes back to his ex, I don’t want him back, I’m almost positive I’d never feel that trust with him again, that’s so important in a relationship.
Getting cheated on isn’t fun. You just want to curl up into a ball and never leave your safe, warm bed ever again. Likewise, getting caught cheating isn’t fun either.
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Apr 03, 2017 · No matter what, surviving infidelity will change you as a person. You will want to take some time to see how you have been affected so that you can emerge strong and healthy. Incredibly, there are people who gain valuable insight from a cheating partner and a broken relationship.
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Oct 23, 2017 · If you are dating someone who has previously cheated on someone, you’ll be able to ask him why, which is a gift from the heavens. He’ll be able to explain that his former relationship was suffocating, incidentally pushing him away. Maybe it was that his former girlfriend was not physical enough for him. Dec 02, 2020 · As you will probably realize, making big decisions like going back to an ex who cheated on you isn’t a choice you should make when you are so emotionally unstable (no offense.) The normal no contact period is supposed to last one month or 30 days. That means you can’t text, email, facebook, google plus or talk to your ex on the phone.
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Feb 14, 2019 · Mind you, those are just the ones who admit to it. There’s also evidence that the better people are at their jobs, the more likely they are to cheat. Many people spend as much time with people from work as they do with their spouses, and when they develop emotional bonds over shared struggles, boundaries can quickly become blurred.
The children will grow up and make their own decisions based on what they see coming from you and your husband. His ex-wife may have control now, but not forever. As they mature, the truth will come out, one way or the other. 8. Comparing ex's. "My wife always compares me to her ex-husband, and I am never the winner.
This can’t happen if you’re constantly bringing up her. As long as your husband is honoring his promise to set clear limits and to keep contact limited to business only, at some point you have to trust that he will do exactly that unless he gives you a reason not to.


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It is with many wonderful memories and much emotion that I am sharing news of my retirement from pediatric practice. I have spent the last thirty-four years learning, caring, sharing, and enjoying my interactions with you, as parents, and your precious children. The trust you placed in me and the responsibility I assumed was not taken lightly.
I am so grateful for the opportunity I had to advise you and watch your children grow, in many cases into happy and healthy young adults. We have persevered through some rough waters and celebrated many achievements. Sharing these moments with you has given me great purpose and fulfillment.
I have looked forward to this time of my life: a time to pursue personal interests and the ability to share more time with my family members. The time is right and I remain your advocate and friend, looking forward to watching from a distance all the good things to come.
I wish you and your children happiness and health in the days ahead!!
Annette N Thomas, MD


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Hey ho. I know I haven’t blogged for a few days tsk tsk! We (as in raw weegie massive) had the gorge Elwin Robinson up in Glasgow last weekend giving a talk and consultations on how to boost your energy. So he kept me busy for a few days – not in that way obviously!
The lovely and gorgeous and I’m secretly in love with her Gail Evans of Awaken to Health organised the event and made sure we had lots of yummy food with the help of equally sexy Cheryl and Pete. I do love Gail. If I wasn’t married and we were both lesbians then I’d probably propose to her this afternoon.« Continue »


It's all about you, every action, every decision, everything you do is all about you. How many selfless things have you done? Yep, I hear the cries of I give to charity, work a job I hate for my kids, I go shopping for an ageing next door neighbour, I stopped the dog marrying the goldfish, blah blah blah.
The Selfish Woman
Sam was in an abusive relationship for years, being mentally and physically abused by her former partner. He would come home drunk and wake her up to make him some food or just to annoy her. He would humiliate her in front of her friends and strangers. Sam put up with this for years because she had children with this man and he was a good father. Sam believed that breaking the family would harm her children so much that she stayed with him. Mentally and physically abused she persisted because of her children. Then it happened he left her. Skip on a few years later the kids are fine even expressed that they are happy mum is out of the relationship. Sam is happy moving on with her life dad and the kids get on great everything is getting better.
So the question was if she had split with her partner and the kids did actually suffer what would have happened? Sam answered I would have been devastated, depressed because I had hurt my children. So she stayed with her partner because she would feel worse if she hurt her children. So you give to charity, make someone smile give someone a hug why because it makes you feel good. So go on be the selfish person you are, go give someone a hug, do something for charity, make someone smile all because you want to indulge in that great feeling that you deserve. Go steal that plesure from helping others. So the real question is what can you do for someone else to make yourself feel great.


Meet Dr. Mayo
Dr. Mayo is an Omaha,NE native. She attended Washington University in St. Louis for her undergraduate degree and is a graduate of Creighton University School of Dentistry.
Dr. Mayo loves building relationships with her patients and staff. She considers dentistry her gift to better serve the community. When not working, she enjoys spending time with her young family exploring Omaha’s family attractions and city parks.
Dr. Mayo comes from a big family and she is passionate about it. She considers her patients to be an extension of her family and looks forward to making you family, as well.


Want to take your girlfriendâ€™s breath away but have no idea how to do this? Why not ask her out on a bicycle date? We guarantee, your darling will definitely be amazed!
Thereâ€™s an opinion that a romantic date is the one which takes place in a luxurious cafe, but today, this approach outlived its usefulness. You have more chances to amaze your partner if you plan an unconventional date, but how to do this? We highly encourage you to take your girlfriend out on a bicycle date, but before you do this, you should make sure that she can ride a bicycle. Check the main reasons why you should do this!
- Itâ€™s so romantic!
However, you should plan your date in advance. Firstly, you need to plan the route and decide where you go beforehand. Are there any romantic places in your city? Maybe you want to go to the country? You should always have a route in your mind or in your smartphone!
Simply put, you will spend the whole day outdoors and get to know each other better!
- It is free of charge!
You might know that sometimes, a date costs too much. However, not every student can afford to meet a bill in an expensive restaurant. If you already have a bike or even two, it is not a problem to take your girlfriend out on a bicycle date. Even if you donâ€™t have bicycles, you can rent them. You wonâ€™t pay too much! Besides, you can throw a small party in the countryside. When you date a college girl and want to surprise her, a bicycle date is the best solution!
- There are no rules which you should follow
Just imagine the situation. You decided to go out to see a movie for a date. It means that there is a certain timeline, and you simply canâ€™t go earlier. Sometimes, it happens that thereâ€™s nothing to talk about. You donâ€™t like each other, and you wish to go away, but you canâ€™t do that because you are stuck in a certain timeline.
The situation is absolutely different when you are on a bicycle ride. If you feel like you donâ€™t like each other, you can ride your own way. Thereâ€™s no need to depend on a certain timetable. You are free to do what you want!
- Youâ€™ll get to know each other better
Hackneyed dates arenâ€™t popular anymore! You meet each other, have dinner together, and go away. Simply put, you canâ€™t get to know each other better. When you are on a bicycle ride, the situation is absolutely different. You never know what will happen in an hour or two. You may lose your way, fall down, or even injure yourself! As a result, youâ€™ll see how your partner behaves in this or that situation. Youâ€™ll see whether your girlfriend wants to help you find the solution or she just blows your mind! A bicycle ride is a fair opportunity to check whether you are a good match with your partner.
- Youâ€™ll talk a lot
If it is a problem for you to mix well with people, a bicycle date is a fair opportunity to change the situation for the better and overcome your fear. When you are on a ride, in all likelihood, you will be discussing different topics, landscapes, etc. Sooner or later, you will stop and have a break, grabbing a drink along the way. When you do something together, you will always have what to talk about. Besides, you are building up chemistry by talking to each other! It is so easy to keep the conversation going. Even if it seems like you canâ€™t find common topics, you can always discuss things you see around – a nice landscape, sunny weather, delicious cake, or flavourous coffee!
Well, if you donâ€™t have the slightest idea how to make your girlfriend happy, you should take her out on a bicycle date. Keep in mind that girls like guys who think outside the box! She will bear in mind this day for a long time!


This from a dear family friend living in NW Ohio whose most important and rewarding job was being the mother of five children. Also, she has experienced much through various efforts, including: as a nurse, as a registered social worker, earning a Master’s in Health Education with a focus in Gerontology; and capturing family memories.
My life has been made significant by my Faith, Family and Friends and becomes richer as I strive to have a better relationship with all of them.
Since love is the essential ingredient in those relationships, I would like to share the following thoughts
The Seven (Seas) C’s of Love
To help a relationship flow smoothly I suggest these seven C’s.
- Comedy (Humor)
The above suggestions are all important but I am more and more aware of how important clear communication really is; for instance when giving a compliment, be specific rather than generalize. The same can be said for a constructive remark.
We often forget to treat our loved ones the way we would treat a stranger or a casual friend.
Laughter, Loving and Learning are essential to bringing joy to ourselves and those around us.


Ralph Waldo Emerson was a poet, philosopher and essayist in the 19th century in America. I have never completely agreed with his teachings, yet one of his statements have stuck in my mind ever since I first read it. It says: “Men are respectable only as they respect” . This is not a well-known quote, yet I find it to be one of the most profound quotes I have ever learned.
I have always believed that the most solid cornerstone of any relationship is respect. A relationship built on respect is not easily shaken. I would even go as far as to say that respect is more important in marriage than love. It is true that marriage starts out based on love, but what makes it last, long past the sell by date of the sweaty palms and weak knees, is the respect for one another, built up over a period of time.
In the military, where I work, respect is crucial. One of the very first things that is drummed into new recruits, is to respect their seniors . In fact, they are taught that even if they cannot respect the person in the uniform, they still have to respect the uniform. Unfortunately far too many of the persons in the uniform depends solely on the uniform earning them respect and does nothing to earn it themselves. This is not at all the kind of respect I am referring to. This kind of respect is demanded and invariably, this respect is soon replaced by contempt..
True respect is never demanded, it is always earned. It is also not something that happens in a day or two. It comes with time and it grows stronger with time. It does not mean that the other person must be perfect, it only means that the other person must have certain qualities that you can believe in and trust upon. For the other person to have such qualities, he must firstly have respect for himself.
It is easy to respect someone with self-respect. A person who respects himself will act with integrity. He will not behave in any manner to embarass himself, or discredit himself, or in a manner not true to himself... and and I have found that such persons usually are very modest, no matter their material or social standing.
It is important to know that having respect for a person, does not always mean that you agree with what he says, what he does or even what he thinks. Respect simply means that you accept him as an equal human being with admirable qualities and you treat him as such, even when you differ from him. Let me explain.


Your Wedding Receptions
Wedding Toasts are a very interesting concept. The wedding day is quite likely the most important day in the life of the couple. If there is a formal ceremony, there are several other people involved - parents, bridesmaids, the best man, relatives, and guests. The wedding day is the occasion for them to make a toast to each other. Given below are quotations that you can use in wedding toasts.
Wedding Toast, From the Bride to the Groom or From the Groom to the BrideHere's to the prettiest, here's to the wittiest, Here's to the truest of all who are true, Here's to the neatest one, here's to the sweetest one, Here's to them, all in one - here's to you.
To the Groom
Here's to the groom, a man who keeps his head though he loses his heart.
To the Bridesmaids
A thing of beauty is a joy forever. Here's to these beautiful bridesmaids.
We admire them for their beauty, respect them for their intelligence, adore them for their virtues, and love them because we can't help it.
To the Bride
May she share everything with her husband, including the housework.
Wedding Toast, From the Groom to the Bride
She knows all about me and loves me just the same.
Wedding Toast, From the Parents of the Bride and Groom
It is written: when children find true love, parents find true joy. Here's to your joy and ours, from this day forward.
May the time you have together for the rest of your life, be as passionate as your heart felt the first time you said to each other I love you. May you always yearn for the touch of each other's hand and the look you see when only the both of you know what each other is thinking. Without saying a word. May the two of you live in love for as long as you want, but never want for as long as you live.
To the Gathering
Let us toast the health of the bride; Let us toast the health of the groom, Let us toast the person that tied; Let us toast every guest in the room.
To the Bride and Groom
Look down you gods, and on this couple drop a blessed crown.
Remember that if you ever put your marital problems on the back burner they are sure to boil over.
Happy marriages begin when we marry the one we love, and they blossom when we love the one we married.
My greatest wish for the two of you is that through the years your love for each other will so deepen and grow, that years from now you will look back on this day, your wedding day, as the day you loved each other the least.
It don't matter where you get your appetite, as long as you eat at home!
May the best day of your past be the worst day of your future.
Marriage: A community consisting of a master, a mistress, and two slaves - making in all, two.
May the roof above you never fall in and may you both never fall out.
To the lamp of love - may it burn brightest in the darkest hours and never flicker in the winds of trial.
May 'for better or worse' be far better than worse.
The man or woman you really love will never grow old to you. Through the wrinkles of time, through the bowed frame of years, You will always see the dear face and feel The warm heart union of your eternal love.
May you have many children and may they grow mature in taste and healthy in color and as sought after as the contents of the glass.
A good marriage is when both parties think they got the best end of the deal!
May the time you have together for the rest of your life, be as passionate as your heart felt the first time you said to each other I love you. May you always yearn for the touch of each others hand and the look you see when only the both of you know what each others thinking. Without saying a word. May the two of you live in love for as long as you want, but never want for as long as you live.
If you want to be happily married; And keep love in the loving cup; When ever you're wrong admit it; When ever you're right, shut up
"A successful marriage requires falling in love many times, always with the same person." ~Germaine Greer
Best Wedding Toasts
Wedding toasts hold special significance to the person making the toast
and to the newly-weds. After all, it is the biggest day of their lives.
As the one making the toast, you understand how special the occasion is
and want to make the best wedding toast possible. Listed below, are a
few quotes that could be used for creating the best wedding toasts.
And think not, you can direct the course of love; for love, if it finds you worthy, directs your course. ~ Khalil Gibran
There is nothing more admirable than two people who see eye-to-eye keeping house as man and wife, confounding their enemies, and delighting their friends. ~ Homer, 9th century B.C.
For those passionately in love, the whole world seems to smile. ~ David Myers
When you love someone, all your saved-up wishes start coming out. ~ Elizabeth Bowen
You come to love not by finding the perfect person, but by seeing an imperfect person perfectly. ~ Sam Keen
The most powerful symptom of love is a tenderness which becomes at times almost insupportable. ~ Victor Hugo
Getting married is the boldest and most idealistic thing that most of us will ever do. ~ Maggie Gallagher, The Case for Marriage
The secret to having a good marriage is to understand that marriage must be total, it must be permanent, and it must be equal. ~ Frank Pittman
What else is love but understanding and rejoicing in the fact that another person lives, acts, and experiences otherwise than we do? ~ Friedrich Nietzsche
Additional Wedding Resources
What to look for in a Wedding Photographer
Are you going to serve wine at your Reception? Don't know much about it? Check out our Wine 101 page.
Groom, Groomsman are you thinking of cigars for the reception or bachelor party? Check out our Cigars 101
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For you to be stupid enough to risk a happy relationship makes me so angry I want to cry.
I want happiness with another person. I want to love and be loved so dearly and have it last forever. You have that with someone and yet you have chosen to risk it all, to be selfish enough, to cheat.
Sure, it sucks that you have broken me into a thousand tiny pieces and screwed with my feelings so recklessly. I’m in excruciating amounts of pain. But the most horrible part of all of this, is you have what I want and you’re not even embracing every wonderful moment.
Bad people don’t deserve beautiful things.


Why Men Need Each Other
High quality friendships are difficult for men to find and maintain. New research shows that platonic bonds could help them live healthier, more fulfilling lives.
When Alex Lawrence turned 30, he realized he had plenty of male acquaintances but few deep connections with other men.
“That’s where the trouble is,” Lawrence, now 32, explained. “I wish I had more really close friends.” After making a 2020 resolution to build stronger male friendships, he found himself isolated and indoors for the majority of the year.
The pandemic has made finding and maintaining close friendships difficult for everyone. But unlike women, pre-pandemic data indicates that most adult men have few same-gender close friendships, a problem that social scientists have called “the friendship crisis.” Long term bonds are even harder to come by if you are a straight, cisgender male. But for those breaking the norm, there’s good news.
In a new study, sociologist Dr. Ríos-González and his colleagues found that men who regularly engage in sincere, emotionally open conversations with other men tend to have better physical and mental health. Men in the study reported that their friends encourage them to take better care of their bodies and overall well-being.
To experience health benefits, friends must venture beyond conversations that revolve around topics like sports or politics - what Ríos-González calls “the superficiality of life.” When men speak openly about their relationships, goals, disappointments, and fears, they become invested in each other. “These kinds of relationships can be transformative to men’s health,” Ríos-González said.
Ríos-González’ study is a small one, but his group’s findings are replicated by other researchers. Using a large, global sample, other groups have shown that men with better physical health often report placing high value in their friendships.
These studies adds to a growing field of research on the benefits of close friendships. Several groups of top scientists have stated that the association between positive social relationships and better mental and physical health is causal, not simply correlational.
“Sharing our feelings and being in it together reduces our stress,” said Dr. Izzy Eliaz, a clinical psychologist who assists men with interpersonal difficulties. “There’s a direct physiological response to emotional connection.”
Dr. Max Belkin, a couples and individuals therapist in New York City, believes that traditional manhood plays a role in hindering men’s friendships. “The notions of masculinity that a man receives through all kinds of explicit and implicit messages informs their ability or lack of ability to form close friendships,” he said.
With growing evidence confirming the connection between male gender norms and health risks, the American Psychological Association revamped its practitioner guidelines to position traditional masculinity as a public health crisis. “The crux of working with men is the understanding that masculinity is both associated with a wide range of health concerns and less willingness to seek help for those problems,” the report reads.
Often, traditional masculinity is incompatible with the skills required for forming high quality connections as adults. The rules of masculinity are absorbed in boyhood, when boys learn that the archetypal man is competitive, hyper-independent, and stoic, a recipe that leads many to conceal interest in forming emotional bonds.
Boyhood is also the time when children internalize and begin to model cultural representations of social relationships. Examples of men sharing emotions with other men on screen, or in a book, are few and far between, Lawrence explained. “I’ve seen men as partners in crime, business associates, or buddy cops. I can’t think of any male friendship in the media where they're not on a quest together.”
Virginia resident John Gorra, 61, told me that men are often portrayed as not needing relationships all together.
“When I grew up it was the lone wolf,” he said.“I watched westerns and war movies. Those guys didn’t have friends.” To combat this narrative, Gorra organized a weekly coffee group where men from various faith backgrounds and age groups have a standing hour to discuss their inner worlds. They’ve been meeting regularly now for 16 years.
Matthew Nacier, a 28 year old private equity associate living in Dallas, Texas, told me that he too has resisted the lone-wolf stereotype. Instead, he’s spent his twenties building close same-gender connections where no topics are off limits. “We talk about what’s making us happy or concerned, what we look forward to, and what we dread.”
But Lawrence adds that it’s often difficult to move the conversation beyond small talk about subjects like sports and stocks. The same is true for Dionysius Sabalos, a 93-year-old man living in an assisted living facility in Tucson, Arizona. “You’d think men would speak with one another openly this far into life. It’s just not the case,” he told me over the phone.
Men’s emotional intimacy deficit does not necessarily mean that men spend more time alone. Researchers show that the majority of men’s bonds are activity based, such as a shared sport or hobby. “It’s a secret code to say we want to get together, but we don't want to actually say something affectionate,” said Michael Robinson, 58, a pharmaceutical sales representative.
When I asked these men how they typically spent time with friends, they spoke of doing activities that ranged from golf and tennis, to skateboarding and drinking in bars. Initiating contact outside of exercise or alcohol was often uncomfortable, uncharted terrain.
Men also disclosed that their struggles to find close friends has caused stress in their romantic relationships. The reliance heterosexual men place on women to fulfill their emotional needs, in the absence of close friendships, has been coyly termed “emotional gold digging” by twitter users and sociologists alike.
“It’s too much dependence on one person,” said Dr. Belkin, “I think it creates a lot of problems.” One that often becomes a woman’s responsibility to solve. The good news is men can change how, and with whom, they spend their emotional lives.
Ríos-González said educational initiatives that teach boys and girls how to make, and maintain, emotionally rich friendships should be a priority for educators and researchers. Parents can also address this at home, through dialogue or sharing books that accurately represent the challenges and benefits of cultivating close friendships.
For adult men, Dr. Belkin recommends therapy. A counselor can provide a low-risk environment to practice the skill of tending to an emotional bond with another man.
Informal gatherings can also promote a type of caring community. Asking friends to join a zoom call, with no set activity, or occasionally switching up a regular basketball game for a coffee date, could pay mental and physiological dividends.
Mr. Gorra’s weekly coffee group is set to resume in-person this summer as more members get vaccinated.
I asked him what the group members gain from meeting on a regular basis.
“Who was it who said ‘most men lead quiet lives of desperation?’” he asked. “I think it's the deep desire for a real level of intimacy.”