When should I do it with a new love?
In a recent discussion with my friends on the topic, all of them except me waited at least a week before sex. Ive always had sex on the first night with a man if I like him. Now I feel a bit cheap for doing this. Tola, by e-mail. READ ALSO:Sex not sinful but holy  Angel Chrstopher  Dear Tola,  Sex with someone on a first date can be risky and exciting, but it is more likely to be unprotected so you could put yourself at risk of a sexually transmitted disease or even pregnancy. Researchers say it is better to wait as women can use this courtship time to check out whether theyve found a good man to sleep with, or a one-night disappointment. Id encourage you to make your lovers work a little harder before pay day!