What will four people say?
Whatever you do, those four people, are going to play big supporting actor role in your life. Mostly, they will win Oscar and you will get nothing  Dear Agony Aunty,  I am an Indian middle-class teen boy with typical Indian middle-class conservative family issues. Forced to study stuff Ive no interest in. My numerous other real passions count for nought in my familys eyes. And yeah, no points for guessing what they want me to do. Engineering. Reinforcing the Tamil Nadu stereotype. All due to fear of what those naalu per (four people) will say. Reminds me of the Rakita lyrics.  Nihilistic Unlucky Miserable Boy  Dear NUMB,  Oho naughty boy. Doesnt matter. I am very broad-minded that way. Many children in my building society are calling me aunty. I give them gentle pat on head and I dont give them any chocolate when my sister comes from America but otherwise why to say anything. Of course all the men in building society, young and old, they are simply not letting me graduate to aunty stage! Jokers only they are, haha. What do you have against engineering I say. You can build bridges and malls and whatnot. It is famous escape route being taken by many young men from Tamil Nadu. Up until IIT, they are wearing veshti and singing Bhaja Govindam, then off they go to Wyoming or Arkansas and the next thing you know Swaminathan has become Sammy and they are saying gimme a break buddy in American twang but still unable to pronounce colloquial. You should have written in detail about what and all are these passions that are counting for nought. (Incidentally, nobody has written letter in correct English to me using words like nought. For one moment I sat there looking at screen and my eyes filled with tears, but never mind, just fleeting feeling.) Whatever you do, those naalu per, four people, are going to play big supporting actor role in your life. Mostly, they will win Oscar and you will get nothing. That is life. If you want to become actor, four people will think otherwise. If you want to eat ice-cream at midnight or drink beer with your pals, those same four people will have an opinion. One day you must ask your parents to arrange meeting between you and four people. Call me also. I have long wanted to make their acquaintance because, believe it or not, those same four people used to haunt my youth as well. My father was under their spell but my mother was made of sterner stuff. So only I managed to defy four people and remain single. Otherwise today I wont be sitting here giving valuable advice to helpless boys like you. Instead I will be making vengaya sambhar and potato podimas for fully able-bodied husband and same four people. Now I make only for myself. However, some passions are not only allowed but encouraged by four people. Notably, chess and mridangam. You can try taking these up. But immediately you have to be so good as to convert these passions into monetary value. Only then passion will get pass marks. Whatever or whoever it is, if Rakita is the way to unnought your noughted passions, go for it. It seems unlikely that engineering can do that for you.  AA  agony.akka@gmail.com