Why cant I stop cheating on my caring husband?
Fiona Caine advises a woman who can't stop having affairs. Picture: Alamy/PA  Question: Although I am happily married with two children and a caring husband, I seem to have a need for extra-marital affairs (I had my first on my honeymoon! )I know my behaviour is shocking but I dont seem able to feel guilty. I even had a fling during lockdown. My husband did find out about one relationship but he forgave me. I would like to change my behaviour and be more loyal, because my husband really is a lovely man, but I dont know how to start. My behaviour is like an addiction. Answer: Please contact Relate (relate.org.uk) and get counselling help as soon as you can. You are also running a huge health risk to your husband as well as yourself. The Association for the Treatment of Sexual Addiction and Compulsivity (atsac.org.uk) might be an alternative route for you to follow. Please seek professional help. I FEEL LIKE I AM STUCK IN A RUT  Sign up to our daily newsletter The i newsletter cut through the noise Sign up Thanks for signing up! Sorry, there seem to be some issues. Please try again later. Submitting... I feel like Im such a failure and Im so depressed with myself that I cant see me ever amounting to anything. My boss offered me a fantastic promotion a couple of weeks ago, but in the end, I just turned it down  dont ask me why, I just dont know, but it all seemed too much.On top of that, Im in a relationship with someone that Ive long since fallen out of love with.I cant seem to summon up the energy to break up.