How do I tell my friend that I dont want to be around her anymore?
DEAR DEIDRE: I WANT to dump my friend but dont know how. Were both 18-year-old girls and met two years ago. The more I got to know her, the more I realised she wasnt a nice person. 1 My mum says I should distance myself from her but its hard with social media  Get in touch with Deidre today Every problem gets a personal reply, usually within 24 hours weekdays. Send an email to deardeidre@the-sun.co.uk. You can also send a private message on the DearDeidreOfficial Facebook page. She is selfish, can be bitchy about other girls and says things that hurt my feelings. My mum says I should distance myself from her but its hard with social media. She asks why I havent messaged and I dont know what to say. FEELING ANXIOUS My panic attacks have got so much worse since my miscarriage  DEIDRE SAYS: You dont have to stay friends with someone who makes you uncomfortable simply to avoid upsetting them. If she asks why you arent getting in touch, say you dont feel your friendship is working out but you wish her well. My support pack on Standing Up For Yourself explains how to talk to her without causing offence.