Based on the context and the answer, generate a question. 

Context: Even though I was a complete idiot , I should have known that she would react in a very mature manner . We raised her to be mature and handle bad situations with grace . My mom always says not to let it live in your head .

Answer:

She is implying that you should n't hold on to situations and allow yourself to be upset over them



What does the speaker 's mother mean when she says not to let it live in your head ?