Based on the context and the answer, generate a question. 

Context: I posted a full reviewe of Beating Cheating at TheSignsOfCheating.com , but I wanted to give a brief summary here . When I went through the problems with my husband and his rampant infidelity , I suspected something was wrong for a long time . The hushed wispers , the lack of attentiveness followed by an overabundance of feigned attentiveness and gifts , yadda yadda .

Answer:

I received a lack of attention but received gifts for guilt .



What happened during the long span when the wife did n't want to accept what she knew ?