The first time it happened was just a few weeks after he died . I was at the grocery store , alone - another new way of doing things , because usually he and I had done the shopping together . I was at the check - out stand , my cart of groceries unloaded , scanned , and bagged , my checkbook out , pen poised to begin writing .
What is true about me ?
Pick the best answer from the following options:
- I went shopping with him .
 - I pay by credit card .
 - I am not used to doing things without him .
 - None of the above choices .


I am not used to doing things without him .