Based on the context and the answer, generate a question. 

Context: Mostly cousins , and my cousins kids . It was great to see them all and to visit the state where my dad grew up . I have n't been there for 14 years and it did n't seem that long ago , until I say it was 14 years , then it has been a long time .

Answer:

The state is too far to go to often



What may be the reason they have not been there in 14 years