He sends me an email saying " Babe xx " then talks to me in this cold , remote and uneven manner which unsettles me . He said he was scared I would strike out at him which is bizarre as I have never threatened or touched him before , just myself . I feel so upset . I have no one to really turn to .
According to the above context, answer the following question.
Why is the narrator unnerved by the emails they get ?


There is a dissonance .