Based on the context and the answer, generate a question. 

Context: I was greeted this morning with a ' dear john ' letter . Apparently what i do for a living is not acceptable . I was really into this guy , he treated me like a queen and was so nice , finally a good man . Then a friend of his died and now he is thinking differently about everything , which I can understand .

Answer:

He thinks he deserves someone better with a more upstanding job .



What is he thinking about differently since his friend died ?