That it is ok to assess and meet your own needs . That if you need some unorthodox ways of dealing with things , then no matter what others think , you should allow yourself to perform those behaviours , as long as they do n't harm others . And there is always a way of coping with yourself , in ways appropriate for your particular situation , you just need to find one that works for you .
What may happen if one does n't pursue safe self - care avenues ?
- They may hurt theirself or someone else .
 - They might forget about their needs and go on successfully .
 - They might become more open and loving over time .
 - Others might view them as strong and courageous .


They may hurt theirself or someone else .