Based on the context and the answer, generate a question. 

Context: Mom and Bob are helping me pay the bills that that money was slated for , but still ... After work Sunday , I was such a wreck that I went over to John 's to hide from the world . I needed to go someplace where people were n't telling me how to fix it , were n't asking for a post - mortem , were n't forcing me to deal with it any more at that point in time . He said the only thing he might force me to do is eat .

Answer:

They have already done their due diligence and find that the best thing they could do is focus on something else



What has lead the speaker to become fed up with people telling them how to fix the problem they have ?