Even in both Iraq wars , the country was never consumed by it . We did n't send all of our men to fight and leave our women to build the artillery . No , even during those wars we just went on with our daily lives , worked in our offices , drank our cocktails and watched reality television . But now , here we are , at a crossroads with real prospects , because you see , that reality television did give us something .
According to the above context, answer the following question.
Why is the narrator surprised by the war ?


We are non nonchalant .