Mostly cousins , and my cousins kids . It was great to see them all and to visit the state where my dad grew up . I have n't been there for 14 years and it did n't seem that long ago , until I say it was 14 years , then it has been a long time .
According to the above context, answer the following question.
What may be the reason they have not been there in 14 years


The state is too far to go to often