Based on the context and the answer, generate a question. 

Context: Okay it is now 12 days until the girls party and I have NOTHING to wear . I have been so worried about their outfits and baptism dresses . I have n't even had a chance to even try them on them .

Answer:

They have been so busy taking care of others they have forgotten to care for themselves



Why has the speaker neglected to find themselves an outfit for the party ?