**Apache Airflow version**:

2.0.1

**What happened**:

When clearing task across dags using `ExternalTaskMarker` the dag state of the external `DagRun` is not set to active. So cleared tasks in the external dag will not automatically start if the `DagRun` is a Failed or Succeeded state.

**What you expected to happen**:

The external `DagRun` run should also be set to Running state.

**How to reproduce it**:

Clear tasks in an external dag using an ExternalTaskMarker.


**Anything else we need to know**:

Looking at the code is has:

https://github.com/apache/airflow/blob/b23fc137812f5eabf7834e07e032915e2a504c17/airflow/models/dag.py#L1323-L1335

It seems like it intentionally calls the dag member method `set_dag_run_state` instead of letting the helper function `clear_task_insntances` set the `DagRun` state. But the member method will only change the state of `DagRun`s of dag where the original task is, while I believe `clear_task_instances` would correctly change the state of all involved `DagRun`s.

airflow/models/dag.py
self,
        dag_id: str,
        description: Optional[str] = None,
        schedule_interval: Optional[ScheduleInterval] = timedelta(days=1),
        start_date: Optional[datetime] = None,
        end_date: Optional[datetime] = None,
        full_filepath: Optional[str] = None,
        template_searchpath: Optional[Union[str, Iterable[str]]] = None,
        template_undefined: Type[jinja2.StrictUndefined] = jinja2.StrictUndefined,
        user_defined_macros: Optional[Dict] = None,
        user_defined_filters: Optional[Dict] = None,
        default_args: Optional[Dict] = None,
        concurrency: int = conf.getint('core', 'dag_concurrency'),
        max_active_runs: int = conf.getint('core', 'max_active_runs_per_dag'),
        dagrun_timeout: Optional[timedelta] = None,
        sla_miss_callback: Optional[Callable] = None,
        default_view: str = conf.get('webserver', 'dag_default_view').lower(),
        orientation: str = conf.get('webserver', 'dag_orientation'),
        catchup: bool = conf.getboolean('scheduler', 'catchup_by_default'),
        on_success_callback: Optional[DagStateChangeCallback] = None,
        on_failure_callback: Optional[DagStateChangeCallback] = None,
        doc_md: Optional[str] = None,
        params: Optional[Dict] = None,
        access_control: Optional[Dict] = None,
        is_paused_upon_creation: Optional[bool] = None,
        jinja_environment_kwargs: Optional[Dict] = None,