### Describe the bug

TL;DR: if you supply custom DNS `lookup` in 1.6+ and it fails with `ENOTFOUND`, `axios` throws `TypeError: address must be a string` instead

I supply custom DNS `lookup` to precisely control the timeout. I am using https://github.com/szmarczak/cacheable-lookup. It works correctly in axios before 1.6 but fails after because of this change:

![image](https://github.com/axios/axios/assets/498673/50a0e6ba-7fe0-4b03-b5c9-6b05d7b4cfa1)

When the callback returns the `err` as the first argument, the other two can be (and are) `undefined`. Axios 1.6+ attempts to resolve `family` and `address` regardless of `err` and trips over `undefined`.

Take a look:

![image](https://github.com/axios/axios/assets/498673/5ee84a2e-361b-4bd0-a589-85d81fe9208e)


### To Reproduce

Perform axios request against a domain that does not exists with a custom `lookup`. DNS `lookup` fails with `ENOTFOUND` but `axios` then fails with `TypeError: address must be a string`

### Code snippet

```js
// simplified test:


import CacheableLookup from 'cacheable-lookup';
import axios from 'axios';

const dns = new CacheableLookup({ resolver: new Resolver({ timeout: 200 }), maxTtl: 60 * 60, lookup: false });
const controller = new AbortController();

await axios.post('https://no-such-domain-987654.com', {}, {
  signal: controller.signal,
  lookup: dns.lookup.bind(dns),
});
```

### Expected behavior

`axios` should fail with the DNS `lookup` error, not the `TypeError`

### Axios Version

1.6+

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test/unit/adapters/http.js
}).catch(function (err) {
        error = err;
        failure = true;
      });
      setTimeout(function () {
        assert.equal(success, false, 'request should not succeed');
        assert.equal(failure, true, 'request should fail');
        assert.equal(error.code, 'ECONNABORTED');
        assert.equal(error.message, 'timeout of 250ms exceeded');
        done();
      }, 300);
    });
  });
  it('should respect the timeoutErrorMessage property', function (done) {
    server = http.createServer(function (req, res) {
      setTimeout(function () {
        res.end();
      }, 1000);
    }).listen(4444, function () {
      var success = false, failure = false;
      var error;
      axios.get('http://localhost:4444/', {
        timeout: 250,
        timeoutErrorMessage: 'oops, timeout',
      }).then(function (res) {
        success = true;
      }).catch(function (err) {
        error = err;
        failure = true;
      });