**Apache Airflow version**:

2.0.1

**What happened**:

When clearing task across dags using `ExternalTaskMarker` the dag state of the external `DagRun` is not set to active. So cleared tasks in the external dag will not automatically start if the `DagRun` is a Failed or Succeeded state.

**What you expected to happen**:

The external `DagRun` run should also be set to Running state.

**How to reproduce it**:

Clear tasks in an external dag using an ExternalTaskMarker.


**Anything else we need to know**:

Looking at the code is has:

https://github.com/apache/airflow/blob/b23fc137812f5eabf7834e07e032915e2a504c17/airflow/models/dag.py#L1323-L1335

It seems like it intentionally calls the dag member method `set_dag_run_state` instead of letting the helper function `clear_task_insntances` set the `DagRun` state. But the member method will only change the state of `DagRun`s of dag where the original task is, while I believe `clear_task_instances` would correctly change the state of all involved `DagRun`s.

airflow/models/dag.py
"""This method is deprecated in favor of partial_subset"""
        warnings.warn(
            "This method is deprecated and will be removed in a future version. Please use partial_subset",
            DeprecationWarning,
            stacklevel=2,
        )
        return self.partial_subset(*args, **kwargs)
    def partial_subset(
        self,
        task_ids_or_regex: Union[str, RePatternType, Iterable[str]],
        include_downstream=False,
        include_upstream=True,
        include_direct_upstream=False,
    ):
        """
        Returns a subset of the current dag as a deep copy of the current dag
        based on a regex that should match one or many tasks, and includes
        upstream and downstream neighbours based on the flag passed.
        :param task_ids_or_regex: Either a list of task_ids, or a regex to