## Bug description

Creating a selector with an attribute isn't working at all.

`[data-attr="bla"]`

## Expected behavior

It should work

## How to reproduce

1. Create action
2. Add an attribute in the selector
3. 


## Additional context

The reason for this is that we store the attributes as `attr__data-attr` but we do not add `attr__` in the filtering. I am working on a solution.


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posthog/test/test_event_model.py
def test_update_or_delete_action_steps(self):
        user_signed_up = Event.objects.create(event="user signed up", team=self.team)
        user_logged_in = Event.objects.create(event="user logged in", team=self.team)
        user_logged_out = Event.objects.create(event="user logged out", team=self.team)
        action = Action.objects.create(team=self.team, name="combined action")
        step1 = ActionStep.objects.create(action=action, event="user signed up")
        step2 = ActionStep.objects.create(action=action, event="user logged in")
        with self.assertNumQueries(6):
            action.calculate_events()
        self.assertEqual(
            [e for e in action.events.all().order_by("id")], [user_signed_up, user_logged_in],
        )
        
        step2.event = "user logged out"
        step2.save()
        with self.assertNumQueries(6):
            action.calculate_events()
        self.assertEqual(
            [e for e in action.events.all().order_by("id")], [user_signed_up, user_logged_out],
        )
        
        ActionStep.objects.filter(pk=step2.pk).delete()
        action.calculate_events()
        self.assertEqual([e for e in action.events.all().order_by("id")], [user_signed_up])
        ActionStep.objects.all().delete()
        action.calculate_events()
        self.assertEqual([e for e in action.events.all().order_by("id")], [])
    def test_save_with_person_property(self):