**Apache Airflow version**:

2.0.1

**What happened**:

When clearing task across dags using `ExternalTaskMarker` the dag state of the external `DagRun` is not set to active. So cleared tasks in the external dag will not automatically start if the `DagRun` is a Failed or Succeeded state.

**What you expected to happen**:

The external `DagRun` run should also be set to Running state.

**How to reproduce it**:

Clear tasks in an external dag using an ExternalTaskMarker.


**Anything else we need to know**:

Looking at the code is has:

https://github.com/apache/airflow/blob/b23fc137812f5eabf7834e07e032915e2a504c17/airflow/models/dag.py#L1323-L1335

It seems like it intentionally calls the dag member method `set_dag_run_state` instead of letting the helper function `clear_task_insntances` set the `DagRun` state. But the member method will only change the state of `DagRun`s of dag where the original task is, while I believe `clear_task_instances` would correctly change the state of all involved `DagRun`s.

airflow/models/dag.py
render_template_as_native_obj: bool = False,
        tags: Optional[List[str]] = None,
    ):
        from airflow.utils.task_group import TaskGroup
        self.user_defined_macros = user_defined_macros
        self.user_defined_filters = user_defined_filters
        self.default_args = copy.deepcopy(default_args or {})
        self.params = params or {}
        
        if 'params' in self.default_args:
            self.params.update(self.default_args['params'])
            del self.default_args['params']
        validate_key(dag_id)
        self._dag_id = dag_id
        self._full_filepath = full_filepath if full_filepath else ''
        self._concurrency = concurrency
        self._pickle_id: Optional[int] = None
        self._description = description
        
        back = sys._getframe().f_back
        self.fileloc = back.f_code.co_filename if back else ""
        self.task_dict: Dict[str, BaseOperator] = {}
        
        if start_date and start_date.tzinfo:
            self.timezone = start_date.tzinfo
        elif 'start_date' in self.default_args and self.default_args['start_date']:
            if isinstance(self.default_args['start_date'], str):
                self.default_args['start_date'] = timezone.parse(self.default_args['start_date'])
            self.timezone = self.default_args['start_date'].tzinfo
        if not hasattr(self, 'timezone') or not self.timezone: