**Apache Airflow version**:

2.0.1

**What happened**:

When clearing task across dags using `ExternalTaskMarker` the dag state of the external `DagRun` is not set to active. So cleared tasks in the external dag will not automatically start if the `DagRun` is a Failed or Succeeded state.

**What you expected to happen**:

The external `DagRun` run should also be set to Running state.

**How to reproduce it**:

Clear tasks in an external dag using an ExternalTaskMarker.


**Anything else we need to know**:

Looking at the code is has:

https://github.com/apache/airflow/blob/b23fc137812f5eabf7834e07e032915e2a504c17/airflow/models/dag.py#L1323-L1335

It seems like it intentionally calls the dag member method `set_dag_run_state` instead of letting the helper function `clear_task_insntances` set the `DagRun` state. But the member method will only change the state of `DagRun`s of dag where the original task is, while I believe `clear_task_instances` would correctly change the state of all involved `DagRun`s.

airflow/models/taskinstance.py
:param mark_success: Whether to mark the task as successful
        :type mark_success: bool
        :param ignore_all_deps: Ignore all ignorable dependencies.
            Overrides the other ignore_* parameters.
        :type ignore_all_deps: bool
        :param ignore_depends_on_past: Ignore depends_on_past parameter of DAGs
            (e.g. for Backfills)
        :type ignore_depends_on_past: bool
        :param ignore_task_deps: Ignore task-specific dependencies such as depends_on_past
            and trigger rule
        :type ignore_task_deps: bool
        :param ignore_ti_state: Ignore the task instance's previous failure/success
        :type ignore_ti_state: bool
        :param local: Whether to run the task locally
        :type local: bool
        :param pickle_id: If the DAG was serialized to the DB, the ID
            associated with the pickled DAG
        :type pickle_id: Optional[int]
        :param file_path: path to the file containing the DAG definition
        :type file_path: Optional[str]
        :param raw: raw mode (needs more details)
        :type raw: Optional[bool]
        :param job_id: job ID (needs more details)
        :type job_id: Optional[int]
        :param pool: the Airflow pool that the task should run in
        :type pool: Optional[str]
        :param cfg_path: the Path to the configuration file
        :type cfg_path: Optional[str]
        :return: shell command that can be used to run the task instance
        :rtype: list[str]