For xcoms pushed from different tasks, having the same execution_date and in the same Dag, the result of the xcom_pull with key set as None is not deterministic in its order

**Apache Airflow version**: 2.0


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**What happened**:
When tasks in the same dag push Xcoms, the result of the xcom_pull comes in any order. The order is not deterministic.

**What you expected to happen**:

I expected the order to be deterministic.

**How to reproduce it**:

Run the provided example_xcom dag in the repository multiple times


airflow/models/taskinstance.py
unixname = Column(String(1000))
    job_id = Column(Integer)
    pool = Column(String(50), nullable=False)
    pool_slots = Column(Integer, default=1)
    queue = Column(String(256))
    priority_weight = Column(Integer)
    operator = Column(String(1000))
    queued_dttm = Column(UtcDateTime)
    queued_by_job_id = Column(Integer)
    pid = Column(Integer)
    executor_config = Column(PickleType(pickler=dill))
    external_executor_id = Column(String(ID_LEN, **COLLATION_ARGS))
    
    
    __table_args__ = (
        Index('ti_dag_state', dag_id, state),
        Index('ti_dag_date', dag_id, execution_date),
        Index('ti_state', state),
        Index('ti_state_lkp', dag_id, task_id, execution_date, state),
        Index('ti_pool', pool, state, priority_weight),
        Index('ti_job_id', job_id),
    )
    dag_model = relationship(
        "DagModel",
        primaryjoin="TaskInstance.dag_id == DagModel.dag_id",
        foreign_keys=dag_id,
        uselist=False,
        innerjoin=True,
    )
    def __init__(self, task, execution_date: datetime, state: Optional[str] = None):