**Apache Airflow version**:

2.0.1

**What happened**:

When clearing task across dags using `ExternalTaskMarker` the dag state of the external `DagRun` is not set to active. So cleared tasks in the external dag will not automatically start if the `DagRun` is a Failed or Succeeded state.

**What you expected to happen**:

The external `DagRun` run should also be set to Running state.

**How to reproduce it**:

Clear tasks in an external dag using an ExternalTaskMarker.


**Anything else we need to know**:

Looking at the code is has:

https://github.com/apache/airflow/blob/b23fc137812f5eabf7834e07e032915e2a504c17/airflow/models/dag.py#L1323-L1335

It seems like it intentionally calls the dag member method `set_dag_run_state` instead of letting the helper function `clear_task_insntances` set the `DagRun` state. But the member method will only change the state of `DagRun`s of dag where the original task is, while I believe `clear_task_instances` would correctly change the state of all involved `DagRun`s.

airflow/models/dag.py
self.timezone = settings.TIMEZONE
        
        if 'end_date' in self.default_args and self.default_args['end_date']:
            if isinstance(self.default_args['end_date'], str):
                self.default_args['end_date'] = timezone.parse(
                    self.default_args['end_date'], timezone=self.timezone
                )
        self.start_date = timezone.convert_to_utc(start_date)
        self.end_date = timezone.convert_to_utc(end_date)
        
        if 'start_date' in self.default_args:
            self.default_args['start_date'] = timezone.convert_to_utc(self.default_args['start_date'])
        if 'end_date' in self.default_args:
            self.default_args['end_date'] = timezone.convert_to_utc(self.default_args['end_date'])
        self.schedule_interval = schedule_interval
        if isinstance(template_searchpath, str):
            template_searchpath = [template_searchpath]
        self.template_searchpath = template_searchpath
        self.template_undefined = template_undefined
        self.parent_dag: Optional[DAG] = None  
        self.last_loaded = timezone.utcnow()
        self.safe_dag_id = dag_id.replace('.', '__dot__')
        self.max_active_runs = max_active_runs
        self.dagrun_timeout = dagrun_timeout
        self.sla_miss_callback = sla_miss_callback
        if default_view in DEFAULT_VIEW_PRESETS:
            self._default_view: str = default_view
        else:
            raise AirflowException(
                f'Invalid values of dag.default_view: only support '