**Build scan:**
https://gradle-enterprise.elastic.co/s/yzrzw2vag7jle/tests/:server:test/org.elasticsearch.transport.RemoteClusterConnectionTests/testCloseWhileConcurrentlyConnecting
**Reproduction line:**
```
./gradlew ':server:test' --tests "org.elasticsearch.transport.RemoteClusterConnectionTests.testCloseWhileConcurrentlyConnecting" -Dtests.seed=13D79BCF49C83104 -Dbuild.snapshot=false -Dtests.jvm.argline="-Dbuild.snapshot=false" -Dtests.locale=it-IT -Dtests.timezone=Canada/Yukon -Druntime.java=21
```

**Applicable branches:**
main

**Reproduces locally?:**
No

**Failure history:**
https://gradle-enterprise.elastic.co/scans/tests?tests.container=org.elasticsearch.transport.RemoteClusterConnectionTests&tests.test=testCloseWhileConcurrentlyConnecting


**Failure excerpt:**
```
java.lang.AssertionError: 
Expected: an empty collection
     but: <[An exception was thrown by org.elasticsearch.transport.netty4.Netty4TcpChannel$$Lambda/0x00007ff3289d4e20.operationComplete(), An exception was thrown by org.elasticsearch.transport.netty4.Netty4TcpChannel$$Lambda/0x00007ff3289d4e20.operationComplete(), An exception was thrown by org.elasticsearch.transport.netty4.Netty4TcpChannel$$Lambda/0x00007ff3289d4e20.operationComplete()]>

  at __randomizedtesting.SeedInfo.seed([13D79BCF49C83104:1597C75A5AD441A2]:0)
  at org.hamcrest.MatcherAssert.assertThat(MatcherAssert.java:18)
  at org.junit.Assert.assertThat(Assert.java:956)
  at org.junit.Assert.assertThat(Assert.java:923)
  at org.elasticsearch.test.ESTestCase.checkStaticState(ESTestCase.java:721)
  at org.elasticsearch.test.ESTestCase.after(ESTestCase.java:512)
  at jdk.internal.reflect.DirectMethodHandleAccessor.invoke(DirectMethodHandleAccessor.java:103)
  at java.lang.reflect.Method.invoke(Method.java:580)
  at com.carrotsearch.randomizedtesting.RandomizedRunner.invoke(RandomizedRunner.java:1758)
  at com.carrotsearch.randomizedtesting.RandomizedRunner$10.evaluate(RandomizedRunner.java:1004)
  at com.carrotsearch.randomizedtesting.rules.StatementAdapter.evaluate(StatementAdapter.java:36)
  at org.apache.lucene.tests.util.TestRuleSetupTeardownChained$1.evaluate(TestRuleSetupTeardownChained.java:48)
  at org.apache.lucene.tests.util.AbstractBeforeAfterRule$1.evaluate(AbstractBeforeAfterRule.java:43)
  at org.apache.lucene.tests.util.TestRuleThreadAndTestName$1.evaluate(TestRuleThreadAndTestName.java:45)
  at org.apache.lucene.tests.util.TestRuleIgnoreAfterMaxFailures$1.evaluate(TestRuleIgnoreAfterMaxFailures.java:60)
  at org.apache.lucene.tests.util.TestRuleMarkFailure$1.evaluate(TestRuleMarkFailure.java:44)
  at com.carrotsearch.randomizedtesting.rules.StatementAdapter.evaluate(StatementAdapter.java:36)
  at com.carrotsearch.randomizedtesting.ThreadLeakControl$StatementRunner.run(ThreadLeakControl.java:390)
  at com.carrotsearch.randomizedtesting.ThreadLeakControl.forkTimeoutingTask(ThreadLeakControl.java:843)
  at com.carrotsearch.randomizedtesting.ThreadLeakControl$3.evaluate(ThreadLeakControl.java:490)
  at com.carrotsearch.randomizedtesting.RandomizedRunner.runSingleTest(RandomizedRunner.java:955)
  at com.carrotsearch.randomizedtesting.RandomizedRunner$5.evaluate(RandomizedRunner.java:840)
  at com.carrotsearch.randomizedtesting.RandomizedRunner$6.evaluate(RandomizedRunner.java:891)
  at com.carrotsearch.randomizedtesting.RandomizedRunner$7.evaluate(RandomizedRunner.java:902)
  at org.apache.lucene.tests.util.AbstractBeforeAfterRule$1.evaluate(AbstractBeforeAfterRule.java:43)
  at com.carrotsearch.randomizedtesting.rules.StatementAdapter.evaluate(StatementAdapter.java:36)
  at org.apache.lucene.tests.util.TestRuleStoreClassName$1.evaluate(TestRuleStoreClassName.java:38)
  at com.carrotsearch.randomizedtesting.rules.NoShadowingOrOverridesOnMethodsRule$1.evaluate(NoShadowingOrOverridesOnMethodsRule.java:40)
  at com.carrotsearch.randomizedtesting.rules.NoShadowingOrOverridesOnMethodsRule$1.evaluate(NoShadowingOrOverridesOnMethodsRule.java:40)
  at com.carrotsearch.randomizedtesting.rules.StatementAdapter.evaluate(StatementAdapter.java:36)
  at com.carrotsearch.randomizedtesting.rules.StatementAdapter.evaluate(StatementAdapter.java:36)
  at org.apache.lucene.tests.util.TestRuleAssertionsRequired$1.evaluate(TestRuleAssertionsRequired.java:53)
  at org.apache.lucene.tests.util.AbstractBeforeAfterRule$1.evaluate(AbstractBeforeAfterRule.java:43)
  at org.apache.lucene.tests.util.TestRuleMarkFailure$1.evaluate(TestRuleMarkFailure.java:44)
  at org.apache.lucene.tests.util.TestRuleIgnoreAfterMaxFailures$1.evaluate(TestRuleIgnoreAfterMaxFailures.java:60)
  at org.apache.lucene.tests.util.TestRuleIgnoreTestSuites$1.evaluate(TestRuleIgnoreTestSuites.java:47)
  at com.carrotsearch.randomizedtesting.rules.StatementAdapter.evaluate(StatementAdapter.java:36)
  at com.carrotsearch.randomizedtesting.ThreadLeakControl$StatementRunner.run(ThreadLeakControl.java:390)
  at com.carrotsearch.randomizedtesting.ThreadLeakControl.lambda$forkTimeoutingTask$0(ThreadLeakControl.java:850)
  at java.lang.Thread.run(Thread.java:1583)

```
server/src/main/java/org/elasticsearch/transport/TransportService.java
"Received response for a request that has timed out, sent [{}/{}ms] ago, timed out [{}/{}ms] ago, "
                    + "action [{}], node [{}], id [{}]",
                TimeValue.timeValueMillis(sentMs),
                sentMs,
                TimeValue.timeValueMillis(timedOutMs),
                timedOutMs,
                timeoutInfoHolder.action(),
                timeoutInfoHolder.node(),
                requestId
            );
            action = timeoutInfoHolder.action();
            sourceNode = timeoutInfoHolder.node();
        } else {
            logger.warn("Transport response handler not found of id [{}]", requestId);
            action = null;
            sourceNode = null;
        }
        
        if (tracerLog.isTraceEnabled() == false) {
            return;
        }
        if (action == null) {
            assert sourceNode == null;
            tracerLog.trace("[{}] received response but can't resolve it to a request", requestId);
        } else if (shouldTraceAction(action)) {
            tracerLog.trace("[{}][{}] received response from [{}]", requestId, action, sourceNode);
        }
    }
    @Override
    public void onConnectionClosed(Transport.Connection connection) {