**Apache Airflow version**:

2.0.1

**What happened**:

When clearing task across dags using `ExternalTaskMarker` the dag state of the external `DagRun` is not set to active. So cleared tasks in the external dag will not automatically start if the `DagRun` is a Failed or Succeeded state.

**What you expected to happen**:

The external `DagRun` run should also be set to Running state.

**How to reproduce it**:

Clear tasks in an external dag using an ExternalTaskMarker.


**Anything else we need to know**:

Looking at the code is has:

https://github.com/apache/airflow/blob/b23fc137812f5eabf7834e07e032915e2a504c17/airflow/models/dag.py#L1323-L1335

It seems like it intentionally calls the dag member method `set_dag_run_state` instead of letting the helper function `clear_task_insntances` set the `DagRun` state. But the member method will only change the state of `DagRun`s of dag where the original task is, while I believe `clear_task_instances` would correctly change the state of all involved `DagRun`s.

airflow/models/taskinstance.py
manually). To remove the filter, pass key=None.
        :type key: str
        :param task_ids: Only XComs from tasks with matching ids will be
            pulled. Can pass None to remove the filter.
        :type task_ids: str or iterable of strings (representing task_ids)
        :param dag_id: If provided, only pulls XComs from this DAG.
            If None (default), the DAG of the calling task is used.
        :type dag_id: str
        :param include_prior_dates: If False, only XComs from the current
            execution_date are returned. If True, XComs from previous dates
            are returned as well.
        :type include_prior_dates: bool
        :param session: Sqlalchemy ORM Session
        :type session: Session
        """
        if dag_id is None:
            dag_id = self.dag_id
        query = XCom.get_many(
            execution_date=self.execution_date,
            key=key,
            dag_ids=dag_id,
            task_ids=task_ids,
            include_prior_dates=include_prior_dates,
            session=session,
        )
        
        
        
        if is_container(task_ids):
            vals_kv = {