**Apache Airflow version**:

2.0.1

**What happened**:

When clearing task across dags using `ExternalTaskMarker` the dag state of the external `DagRun` is not set to active. So cleared tasks in the external dag will not automatically start if the `DagRun` is a Failed or Succeeded state.

**What you expected to happen**:

The external `DagRun` run should also be set to Running state.

**How to reproduce it**:

Clear tasks in an external dag using an ExternalTaskMarker.


**Anything else we need to know**:

Looking at the code is has:

https://github.com/apache/airflow/blob/b23fc137812f5eabf7834e07e032915e2a504c17/airflow/models/dag.py#L1323-L1335

It seems like it intentionally calls the dag member method `set_dag_run_state` instead of letting the helper function `clear_task_insntances` set the `DagRun` state. But the member method will only change the state of `DagRun`s of dag where the original task is, while I believe `clear_task_instances` would correctly change the state of all involved `DagRun`s.

airflow/models/dag.py
concurrently
    :type concurrency: int
    :param max_active_runs: maximum number of active DAG runs, beyond this
        number of DAG runs in a running state, the scheduler won't create
        new active DAG runs
    :type max_active_runs: int
    :param dagrun_timeout: specify how long a DagRun should be up before
        timing out / failing, so that new DagRuns can be created. The timeout
        is only enforced for scheduled DagRuns.
    :type dagrun_timeout: datetime.timedelta
    :param sla_miss_callback: specify a function to call when reporting SLA
        timeouts.
    :type sla_miss_callback: types.FunctionType
    :param default_view: Specify DAG default view (tree, graph, duration,
                                                   gantt, landing_times), default tree
    :type default_view: str
    :param orientation: Specify DAG orientation in graph view (LR, TB, RL, BT), default LR
    :type orientation: str
    :param catchup: Perform scheduler catchup (or only run latest)? Defaults to True
    :type catchup: bool
    :param on_failure_callback: A function to be called when a DagRun of this dag fails.
        A context dictionary is passed as a single parameter to this function.
    :type on_failure_callback: callable
    :param on_success_callback: Much like the ``on_failure_callback`` except
        that it is executed when the dag succeeds.
    :type on_success_callback: callable
    :param access_control: Specify optional DAG-level permissions, e.g.,
        "{'role1': {'can_read'}, 'role2': {'can_read', 'can_edit'}}"
    :type access_control: dict
    :param is_paused_upon_creation: Specifies if the dag is paused when created for the first time.