### CI Link

https://gradle-enterprise.elastic.co/s/b57j3vuz7qk2q/tests/:server:test/org.elasticsearch.index.query.SpanNotQueryBuilderTests/testMaxNestedDepth

### Repro line

`gradlew ':server:test' --tests "org.elasticsearch.index.query.SpanNotQueryBuilderTests.testMaxNestedDepth" -Dtests.seed=FCAC1620A8E66666 -Dtests.locale=hu -Dtests.timezone=Etc/GMT+11 -Druntime.java=19`

### Does it reproduce?

Yes

### Applicable branches

main

### Failure history

https://gradle-enterprise.elastic.co/scans/tests?search.timeZoneId=Europe/Berlin&tests.container=org.elasticsearch.index.query.SpanNotQueryBuilderTests&tests.test=testMaxNestedDepth#

### Failure excerpt

```
java.lang.OutOfMemoryError: Java heap space	
	at __randomizedtesting.SeedInfo.seed([FCAC1620A8E66666:445BD40EBC1BAFC9]:0)	
		•••
	at org.elasticsearch.index.query.SpanNotQueryBuilder.doXContent(SpanNotQueryBuilder.java:145)	
	at org.elasticsearch.index.query.AbstractQueryBuilder.toXContent(AbstractQueryBuilder.java:80)	
	at org.elasticsearch.index.query.SpanNotQueryBuilder.doXContent(SpanNotQueryBuilder.java:148)	
	at org.elasticsearch.index.query.AbstractQueryBuilder.toXContent(AbstractQueryBuilder.java:80)	
	at org.elasticsearch.index.query.SpanNotQueryBuilder.doXContent(SpanNotQueryBuilder.java:148)	
	at org.elasticsearch.index.query.AbstractQueryBuilder.toXContent(AbstractQueryBuilder.java:80)	
	at org.elasticsearch.index.query.SpanNotQueryBuilder.doXContent(SpanNotQueryBuilder.java:146)	
	at org.elasticsearch.index.query.AbstractQueryBuilder.toXContent(AbstractQueryBuilder.java:80)	
	at org.elasticsearch.index.query.SpanNotQueryBuilder.doXContent(SpanNotQueryBuilder.java:146)	
	at org.elasticsearch.index.query.AbstractQueryBuilder.toXContent(AbstractQueryBuilder.java:80)	
	at org.elasticsearch.index.query.SpanNotQueryBuilder.doXContent(SpanNotQueryBuilder.java:146)	
	at org.elasticsearch.index.query.AbstractQueryBuilder.toXContent(AbstractQueryBuilder.java:80)	
	at org.elasticsearch.index.query.SpanNotQueryBuilder.doXContent(SpanNotQueryBuilder.java:146)	
	at org.elasticsearch.index.query.AbstractQueryBuilder.toXContent(AbstractQueryBuilder.java:80)	
	at org.elasticsearch.index.query.SpanNotQueryBuilder.doXContent(SpanNotQueryBuilder.java:148)	
	at org.elasticsearch.index.query.AbstractQueryBuilder.toXContent(AbstractQueryBuilder.java:80)	
	at org.elasticsearch.index.query.SpanNotQueryBuilder.doXContent(SpanNotQueryBuilder.java:146)	
	at org.elasticsearch.index.query.AbstractQueryBuilder.toXContent(AbstractQueryBuilder.java:80)	
	at org.elasticsearch.index.query.SpanNotQueryBuilder.doXContent(SpanNotQueryBuilder.java:146)	
	at org.elasticsearch.index.query.AbstractQueryBuilder.toXContent(AbstractQueryBuilder.java:80)	
	at org.elasticsearch.index.query.SpanNotQueryBuilder.doXContent(SpanNotQueryBuilder.java:146)	
	at org.elasticsearch.index.query.AbstractQueryBuilder.toXContent(AbstractQueryBuilder.java:80)	
	at org.elasticsearch.index.query.SpanNotQueryBuilder.doXContent(SpanNotQueryBuilder.java:148)	
	at org.elasticsearch.index.query.AbstractQueryBuilder.toXContent(AbstractQueryBuilder.java:80)	
	at org.elasticsearch.index.query.SpanNotQueryBuilder.doXContent(SpanNotQueryBuilder.java:148)
```
server/src/main/java/org/elasticsearch/index/query/AbstractQueryBuilder.java
if (categoryClass.equals(QueryBuilder.class)) {
                    nestedDepth++;
                    if (nestedDepth > maxNestedDepth) {
                        throw new IllegalArgumentException(
                            "The nested depth of the query exceeds the maximum nested depth for queries set in ["
                                + INDICES_MAX_NESTED_DEPTH_SETTING.getKey()
                                + "]"
                        );
                    }
                }
                T namedObject = getXContentRegistry().parseNamedObject(categoryClass, name, this, context);
                if (categoryClass.equals(QueryBuilder.class)) {
                    nestedDepth--;
                }
                return namedObject;
            }
        };
        return parseInnerQueryBuilder(parserWrapper);
    }
    /**
     * Parses an inner query. To be called by query implementations that support inner queries.
     */
    protected static QueryBuilder parseInnerQueryBuilder(XContentParser parser) throws IOException {
        if (parser.currentToken() != XContentParser.Token.START_OBJECT) {
            if (parser.nextToken() != XContentParser.Token.START_OBJECT) {
                throw new ParsingException(parser.getTokenLocation(), "[_na] query malformed, must start with start_object");
            }
        }
        if (parser.nextToken() == XContentParser.Token.END_OBJECT) {