**Apache Airflow version**:

2.0.1

**What happened**:

When clearing task across dags using `ExternalTaskMarker` the dag state of the external `DagRun` is not set to active. So cleared tasks in the external dag will not automatically start if the `DagRun` is a Failed or Succeeded state.

**What you expected to happen**:

The external `DagRun` run should also be set to Running state.

**How to reproduce it**:

Clear tasks in an external dag using an ExternalTaskMarker.


**Anything else we need to know**:

Looking at the code is has:

https://github.com/apache/airflow/blob/b23fc137812f5eabf7834e07e032915e2a504c17/airflow/models/dag.py#L1323-L1335

It seems like it intentionally calls the dag member method `set_dag_run_state` instead of letting the helper function `clear_task_insntances` set the `DagRun` state. But the member method will only change the state of `DagRun`s of dag where the original task is, while I believe `clear_task_instances` would correctly change the state of all involved `DagRun`s.

airflow/models/dag.py
"""
        Triggers the appropriate callback depending on the value of success, namely the
        on_failure_callback or on_success_callback. This method gets the context of a
        single TaskInstance part of this DagRun and passes that to the callable along
        with a 'reason', primarily to differentiate DagRun failures.
        .. note: The logs end up in
            ``$AIRFLOW_HOME/logs/scheduler/latest/PROJECT/DAG_FILE.py.log``
        :param dagrun: DagRun object
        :param success: Flag to specify if failure or success callback should be called
        :param reason: Completion reason
        :param session: Database session
        """
        callback = self.on_success_callback if success else self.on_failure_callback
        if callback:
            self.log.info('Executing dag callback function: %s', callback)
            tis = dagrun.get_task_instances()
            ti = tis[-1]  
            ti.task = self.get_task(ti.task_id)
            context = ti.get_template_context(session=session)
            context.update({'reason': reason})
            try:
                callback(context)
            except Exception:
                self.log.exception("failed to invoke dag state update callback")
                Stats.incr("dag.callback_exceptions")
    def get_active_runs(self):