**Apache Airflow version**:
2.1.0

**What happened**:
There are several hooks that still use optional parameters from the classic `Extra` field.  However, when creating the connection the `Extra` field is overwritten with values from the custom fields that are included in the form.  Because the `Extra` field is overwritten, these optional parameters cannot be used by the hook.

For example, in the `AzureDataFactoryHook`, If `resource_group_name` or `factory_name` are not provided when initializing the hook, it defaults to the value specified in the connection extras. Using the Azure Data Factory connection form, here is the initial connection submission:
![image](https://user-images.githubusercontent.com/48934154/127029091-a8b1c979-f238-4bac-9d3a-f94b6cd92a2b.png)

After saving the connection, the `Extra` field is overwritten with the custom fields that use "extras" under the hood:
![image](https://user-images.githubusercontent.com/48934154/127029242-79c990f0-b9cf-43bb-9a6b-28b4e9c6d4e1.png)


**What you expected to happen**:

Wavering slightly but I would have initially expected that the `Extra` field wasn't overwritten but updated with both the custom field "extras" plus the originally configured values in the `Extra` field.  However, a better UX would be that the values used in the `Extra` field should be separate custom fields for these hooks and the `Extra` field is hidden.  Perhaps it's even both?

**How to reproduce it**:
Install either the Microsoft Azure or Snowflake providers, attempt to create a connection for either the Snowflake, Azure Data Factory, Azure Container Volume, or Azure types with the `Extra` field populated prior to saving the form.


**Anything else we need to know**:
Happy to submit PRs to fix this issue. 🚀 


airflow/www/views.py
"""Set task instance state."""
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            session.commit()
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        except Exception:
            flash('Failed to set state', 'error')
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        [
            (permissions.ACTION_CAN_EDIT, permissions.RESOURCE_DAG),
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    def action_set_running(self, tis):
        """Set state to 'running'"""
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    @action('set_failed', "Set state to 'failed'", '', single=False)
    @auth.has_access(
        [
            (permissions.ACTION_CAN_EDIT, permissions.RESOURCE_DAG),
        ]
    )
    def action_set_failed(self, tis):