**Apache Airflow version**:

2.0.1

**What happened**:

When clearing task across dags using `ExternalTaskMarker` the dag state of the external `DagRun` is not set to active. So cleared tasks in the external dag will not automatically start if the `DagRun` is a Failed or Succeeded state.

**What you expected to happen**:

The external `DagRun` run should also be set to Running state.

**How to reproduce it**:

Clear tasks in an external dag using an ExternalTaskMarker.


**Anything else we need to know**:

Looking at the code is has:

https://github.com/apache/airflow/blob/b23fc137812f5eabf7834e07e032915e2a504c17/airflow/models/dag.py#L1323-L1335

It seems like it intentionally calls the dag member method `set_dag_run_state` instead of letting the helper function `clear_task_insntances` set the `DagRun` state. But the member method will only change the state of `DagRun`s of dag where the original task is, while I believe `clear_task_instances` would correctly change the state of all involved `DagRun`s.

airflow/models/dag.py
return list(self.task_dict.values())
    @tasks.setter
    def tasks(self, val):
        raise AttributeError('DAG.tasks can not be modified. Use dag.add_task() instead.')
    @property
    def task_ids(self) -> List[str]:
        return list(self.task_dict.keys())
    @property
    def task_group(self) -> "TaskGroup":
        return self._task_group
    @property
    def filepath(self) -> str:
        """File location of where the dag object is instantiated"""
        fn = self.full_filepath.replace(settings.DAGS_FOLDER + '/', '')
        fn = fn.replace(os.path.dirname(__file__) + '/', '')
        return fn
    @property
    def folder(self) -> str:
        """Folder location of where the DAG object is instantiated."""
        return os.path.dirname(self.full_filepath)
    @property
    def owner(self) -> str:
        """
        Return list of all owners found in DAG tasks.
        :return: Comma separated list of owners in DAG tasks
        :rtype: str
        """
        return ", ".join({t.owner for t in self.tasks})
    @property
    def allow_future_exec_dates(self) -> bool: